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| 2 | Is it.worth it to bother with a super flirtatious girl?First off I'd figure out whether she does have a boyfriend or not. If she does, I wouldn't make another move. On the other hand if she doesn't.. then ;) | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 12:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "Really what is with your date?"No offence, but instead of standing up for yourself in this situation, I would've just put in a few dollars and not embarrass myself. The band doesn't know how much money you spent or how much you've got; they're just looking to get a few extra bucks for maybe something to eat, improve their equipment etc. Maybe the man took it a little too far, but you still shouldn't have stood your ground even if you were right because it made you look like an idiot. It's one of those things where it's in the… | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Bagging a "10"It isn't easy that's for sure. It just comes with practice. Trial and error. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Bagging a "10"I've actually been in that situation before. You get a massive self confidence boost and think you're king for getting with the hottest friend (because you might've had to be-friend other people in the group etc just to do so). Although, if it fails or ends, you/your mate can't get with any of their friends. That's why you hope that being friends with them will lead on to hotter friends outside of their normal group. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it good to talk about getting other girls with a girl you're trying to game?"Is it good to look at other girls when you're with a girl you're trying to game?" | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Virginity. Yea or nay before you start getting game on?Your virginity shouldn't be a burden; it should be lost when you feel the most comfortable. With me, I lost it to someone who I was dating at the time, and we both liked each other very much. It ended up being (and feeling) really good for both of us, and I gained experience through her. I have thought the same as you before. My mate reassured me that it will happen when it happens and you'll know when. It was really good advice that I took up, and I'm pleased that I did. That is my opinion thou… | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 01:44 PM |
| 1 | I spoke with a girl on a bus.I second this. You're an amazing writer. | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 11:43 AM |
| 21 | Bagging a "10"Now, I'm a 6.5 on a good day She's a 10. If your personality hasn't worked this far and it seems like it isn't working, then yeah, she probably likes you in any other way except physical (which is why you're being friendzoned). If continuing to ignore her doesn't get you anywhere, you have to be direct. If that doesn't work, then you have to move on. She's probably told her group something along the lines of: "He's cute, but I wouldn't do anything with him. He's just a nice guy to talk to." The … | /r/seduction | 23/10/11 11:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 1 - Monday - Closed the (literally) ONLY girl in bar w/ extract from parents + 2 random blokes1) Yeah you pretty much had to introduce yourself to the guys first to get accepted. If you just talk straight up to the girl they're just going to think that's what you're interested in (which is what you are, but you don't want them to know you just want to bang her) and won't really let you near her. 2) You showed that you didn't give a fuck so the "alpha" male realized that no matter what he was going to do, you were there to stay, so he accepted you. Then from there it was easy pickings. Yo… | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 12:21 AM |
| 2 | It Never Ceases To Amaze Me How Much Backing Off Gets Them To ChaseIf it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, just move the fuck on because she's wasting your time. If she's used to chasing and wants validation and doesn't get it, she'll try and get you to do it. When you don't, she'll get angry and if she still doesn't get her way, she's going to either not bother anymore or if she is really fed up with the games, she'll give in and go for you. Otherwise I would just go for someone else because she'll lose interest and so will you. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 11:09 PM |
| 3 | It Never Ceases To Amaze Me How Much Backing Off Gets Them To ChaseShe loves getting teased. It gets her excited. Having a cocky, backing off attitude can literally have her almost begging for you. Just don't do it too much or she'll lose interest. Get her into the right mind set. If you kiss her, stop halfway, and when she tries to kiss you, pull back. Do this a few times and she'll basically be grabbing your head just to push you closer to her. And finally, when you do get her closer, dirty talk with her, continuing to tease her. An example would be when you'… | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed a girl from work - no real physical kino built but looking to act on a Day 2How did you mess up with the texting? | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 10:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 1 - Monday - Closed the (literally) ONLY girl in bar w/ extract from parents + 2 random blokesYou had obstacles and still went through and succeeded. Congratulations, bro :) The start of the night must've been horrendous and seemed like it was going no-where. Luckily you managed to make it into a situation, got into the group, got accepted, and basically forced her to take out her phone etc and get her extremely interested in you. Then you left on a note that basically had her begging for more. Perfect. The don't give a fuck attitude is probably the best attitude you can have. If it does… | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 01:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #closed a girl from work - no real physical kino built but looking to act on a Day 2Obviously you didn't do too bad if she didn't hesitate to give you her number. That's a huge sign that she's interested, even without you doing kino and not having the best of conversations. What happened though doesn't sound un-reasonable. Like you said, you had only met, so the conversation will stop every now and then which is fine. You were also trying to find a piece of clothing, so you didn't really have that much of a chance to do some kino with her. Just remember if you were to ask her o… | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 01:32 PM |
| -2 | constant logistics problem: i have no carIf your friend has a car and you're really desperate to bang her, you could always have your friend park like ten minutes away in a place that isn't isn't going to have people walking through the street at the early hours in the morning, and do it there. It may seem weird, but if you're not going or expect your mate to drive you home (or you don't have a designated driver), don't have a taxi or it'll take too long to walk home or you can't go to hers, you might be stuck doing that. If you really… | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 01:08 PM |
| 0 | The Well-Meaning Friend's ShittestEvery single bff says or at least thinks that. How would you feel if one of your friends got fucked over really badly? You'd also want to hunt them down, castrate them etc. Maybe not to that extent, but you get me. My advice is to ignore it. Tell them that "you promise you won't do this" or whatever, just to let them know you're not someone that's just on the rebound or have a one night stand. No matter what though, they're still going to judge you. They can trust you, become good friends with y… | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Field testing a line, would like some helpYou said the second they're done smoking, they leave right? That means it only depends on how much the person wants a smoke. If they thought you were cocky, liked it and wanted more, they would stay (so it could work). I guess that could lead on though. If they're having a smoke with you, you could get into a conversation and try to impress her before she's done. If it works, you're going to get some more action. But to be honest, this seems more like a "you'll get a little bit of flirting, but … | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 12:59 PM |
| 25 | This was just posted on a girl's tumblr. Sedditors take note.Obviously that guy hasn't been on /r/seduction before. | /r/seduction | 19/10/11 12:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR]*Dimples* # + K Close [X-post from Sedditelite]Excellent wing man. Loving the dancing thing he brought up. It was also very respectable for you to follow the bro code "bros before hoes" and not get with her as well. Unfortunately she wasn't interested in your mate. Otherwise you both would've taken the ladies back to the apartment and the story would've got a whole lot more interesting ;) | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 01:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First time getting a number from a girl outside of a party-like environment. Then more...Congratulations bro! You're on the right track :). Just make sure from now on, you try and get with one of the two ladies that gave you their number. The HB 8.5 may be tempting, but IMO, I would go for the 8.0 first because it seemed like you two really had a connection going, and now you have an inside joke about "sexy dimples" and "pathological liar" (She even put the number in herself! That's a massive sign). From this, you can tell she obviously wants something, and as Quwell said, she's mos… | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Two questions...When it comes to socializing with others, I just try and be as confident as possible. It really sets the mood and conversations just naturally occur and I even crack a few jokes to break the tension. They could be about me, I honestly don't care. As long as it seems like we're both having a good time, I'll continue with what I'm doing and progress in the conversation. Every time I meet someone, I check out their body language and respond appropriately. If they're looking around not knowing where… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Help me improve my game! Point out my flaws, BE BRUTAL1) It doesn't really matter when you text them (they know you had been thinking of them which should be a plus), as long as you don't continuously keep sending messages when they haven't replied for a while. They could be busy, so calm down, and they should send you a message later. I've been prone to forget that someone has texted me and I remember later on and apologize. You should naturally be opening up over time. This doesn't have to be a long time per-say, (it depends on the person) but wh… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in the office, that I don't know too wellTry and pass by her desk naturally, and say hello. Bring up a conversation about what happened the other day, thanking her, and moving onto small talk about what you did before in relation to jokes and such. Don't be too forceful, just eventually try and get to know her better, while still giving her eye contact, looks and smiles from your desk like you normally did before without creeping her out. If all goes well and you befriend her, ask her out somewhere she's wanted to go in town or if she'… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Where to now?Well obviously you have to meet up to give back the ipod. The best place to do this is going to be yours because she was there the other night. Unless she was that off her face or her friends took her to the place, she should know how to get there (plus you could always give her directions). The most important thing here is just mentioning to pick up the ipod and for you to give it back to her when she's available. If you try and ask her out over text it'll be extremely awkward if she declines a… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 02:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Casual, low pressure coffee date. A lesson in escalation.What you did was pretty much spot on. I mean, as long as you said goodbye in a way that didn't seem like you were rushed, or wanted to "escape" the conversation, then it'll be a major plus toward her liking you. Why? Because even though she wanted you to stay, it shows that she's going to be thinking about you and wanting to finish up the conversation that you started when you see her next. Also, that perpendicular idea is yeah, extremely important. Because otherwise it'll just be awkward becaus… | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Small FR. Think of this as reinforcement that confidence can go a long way.You've got some balls, dude. That "Do you have a pen?" idea is pretty impressive. Keep us updated :) | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 01:11 PM |
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