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Red Pill TheoryTheAureate/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 11:00 PM
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I think this is solid advice. What should I say when she tries to call me and I don’t pick up? It’s a pretty typical thing for her to call me and talk To me and not sure how to address that. Do I just straight up tell her I don’t want to talk to her or what?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:04 PM
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Haha I am ... thanks for remembering me brother!
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:03 PM
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She can't get pregnant (by you) when you leave her. Don't be a bitch.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 11:58 PM
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Don't. Posting it on the timeline would cause drama. Removing the pictures would cause drama. Just remove her from your life as smoothly as possible and move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 01:41 AM
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Just leave it bro. No one cares. Its a part of your life. No need to delete it like a gestappo policeman
/r/askTRP16/04/16 10:34 PM
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Invoice on a regular vehicle (not a luxury brand) is usually no more than three thousand under MSRP, ya fuck. As much as my joke of a title would suggest otherwise, our job is simply to move metal. Not fuck people over. Used car lots are where that happens. Oftentimes, a pre-owned vehicle is marked up at least 100% from what they bought it at to start.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:23 AM
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#Projection Life is sales. You do the same when you tell a new girl about how great you were in high school. Wake up. You need a product and I'm not selling it to you unless you find value in it. My job is to show you the value in my product and show you how to fill out the paper work to get it. If I find a few ways to make my presentation really resonate with you, we're both happy. Go fuck back off to working for someone else with no possibility of determining your own pay.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:19 AM
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Lol ... I've learned that lesson as well. Fortunately, it makes a good polarizer. I find the quality people in this sub, and the rest remove themselves anyways. Thanks a ton brother! The current gameplan is to learn and improve until I'm the best sales consultant at this dealership, move to one with a better pay plan, invest in getting a real estate license, sell houses and create my own businesses with the lessons I've learned from this past year. The only thing in my way is the time it takes t…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:16 AM
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Thanks brother! I appreciate the advice. I get this a lot in my posts. It's just the way my brain works. I like to write complete guides. I am thankful for you taking the time to write some kind words though. So far I've had people commenting because they read sales and got triggered, but never actually read the post.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 12:59 AM
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My boy! ;) .... hey OP, message me and we can Skype if you'd like. I'll share my story and give you the tools I use to navigate the world. It'll be up to you to find out of they work for you though.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 02:20 AM
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I've no clue why you we're downvoted. This is a really interesting history lesson. Thanks for taking the time to write it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:12 PM
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I said, "I have to go finish laundry." Her, "um ok." Me, "take care." This was hilarious. You savage, you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:06 PM
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Hit us hard, brother. I'm excited to have these conversations!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:45 PM
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There’s an old quote that goes, “Blood is thicker than water.” What the hell is water? The real quote is, “The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” The family that you choose throughout your life, not the family you happen to be born into, is the family that will be there for you in your darkest times. The brothers and sisters you pick up along your journey will be held together through a bond of camaraderie stronger than any glue imaginable. How to we find and build the…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:23 PM
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Ok, I overreacted a bit there. I've been raging at, "grunt society" a lot lately and that set me off. All the same, Intellectual jobs create non-intellectual jobs. If robots replace factory workers, we will need repairmen for those robots. Even then, the majority of positions in our service economy need, "grunts" to fill them. Call centers, service repairmen, logistics, etc. If people aren't motivated enough to swim in the shallow end of the pool; let them drown. Their life is on them.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 05:48 PM
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Then study, develop yourself, and quit being a fucking grunt. You underestimate yourself when you consign your life to mediocrity. You can teach yourself anything you want to know by befriending Google. Go to codeacademy and teach yourself programming. Build a wordpress niche website and start selling products. Study copywriting. Once you do this, offer freelancing for the same service to local businesses. We live in a quartary economic world. That's providing services for services. Look up 30da…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:45 PM
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Hey brother, I put together a video and post about this a while ago. I'll put as much of it here as I am able and link to the rest. /////////// I’ve been thinking a lot about the things that I wish I knew in high school lately. I’ve come up with a ton of ideas that I will be sharing with you guys in the coming weeks, but the most prominent thought that came into my head was that of girls and dating. Dating was the biggest deal in my mind during my high school years. Everything revolved around th…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:57 PM
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If one wants much, one must give much. This is my favorite line. Awesome Quote man. The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand really helped unplug me. Howard Roark's self-ownership is something I look up to in all facets of my life.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:40 PM
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All great stuff brother! Let's come up with a plan to gamify, or reward, more frequent journaling. Let's set the metric at journaling for a half hour, four times per week. You can write about whatever pops into your brain. I like writing new ideas and poetry in mine; but you can even journal how you felt at the gym, new realizations that come with meditation, comebacks you wish you thought of sooner, or whatever. What do you think would be a good reward for meeting the metric? ... I'm thinking a…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:29 PM
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From The Last of the Mohicans: "Magua understands that the white man is a dog to his women. When they are tired, he puts down his tomahawk to feed their laziness."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:12 PM
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You clearly took it seriously instead of the sarcastic metaphor it is. He's talking about abundance mentality. See how he wrote: I'm not hers. It's just HER turn. I think it's hilarious. All he's doing is pointing out that when you figure it out, the cheerleader's daughter chases you.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 02:57 PM
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Interest is reciprocal; if you show interest in other persons, they are interested in you. Love this. I always like to say, "If you're interested, you're interesting." and conversely, "If you're bored, you're boring."
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:25 PM
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Listen dude, don't dread. You don't need to pick it up a notch. You've already proven that you xan easily get extra-relationship sex easily. You've dreaded her to level 10. ... what she needs is comfort. You actually need to beta it up just a little bit. You've done your push, its time to pull her back in.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:52 AM
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Wonderful post Archwinger! You've just explained the concept I tried to cover in my last post, but far greater than I currently can. Thanks for your time and wisdom, man!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:42 AM
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I like your thoughts redpillcynic. I would say I tend to agree as well. I only surround myself with people who are living on purpose. I talk a lot about my concept of a tribe. It's my dream to have a tribe of the family I choose, the people I encounter in life whom I appreciate and respect. I want nothing more than to continue building myself and to build them up with me. To be a tribe chief taking care of my own. I still have hope for the young guys in highschool, and younger. I used to be the …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:30 PM
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Let em. I publish these under my own name on my website. I own myself. The worst they can do to me is send me a bunch of calls I won't answer anyways. I own my business and my reputation. I value you guys, who are actually living on purpose, more than the victimist losers vying for the government's attention.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:25 PM
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Thanks so much Parodibag! This was motivating. I'm glad you took a lot from it! I'd love it if you'd go back and check some of my older posts. I write these articles/blogs/thoughtbabies every monday. If you ever want to have a skype chat to talk about the world, feel free to add me. Brandon.Fisher_AMMROP
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 03:20 AM
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Man, how cool is that. You literally cured me of a long, mind induced depression by simply writing down a quick comment on some random internet forum a year ago. The world is an epic place. Thanks for sharing your thoughts brother!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:37 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to write this out and teach me about real philosophy Metalggeddon, I appreciate your wisdom. After having read the many comments, I understand now that my idea for the Survival of the Ableist is a descriptivistic thought, and not a real toolbox. I think my main point wasn't clearly articulated though. I was trying to convey that within Survival of the Ableist is all morality or immorality, and that my baseline of operation is founded in the conscience. I cannot murder …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 07:25 PM
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This is exactly the point. Survival of the ableist is the ultimate pragmatic morality. It assumes personal agency. Do whatever you want as long as you can either handle or get away with the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 01:26 AM
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Hey, thanks so much for vetting my ideas! This is definitely still an evolving path I'm walking along. I will absolitely check it out!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 12:32 AM
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A good way to twist this too is to ask how they spell their name, and when they spell it for you say, "Oh, no. I meant your last name."
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:44 AM
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Hey man, I like your observations! One thing I would recommend, however, is to throw in a few shit tests and general teasing as well. The way I shit test women is I'll ask them what they think about something. When they go on to say its either the greatest thing since sliced bread, or the worst thing since Hitler; I'll simply disagree by saying that I think the opposite. If you're doing the conversation right, they'll scurry to supplicate to you, firmly establishing themselves in your frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:56 AM
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Wow, thanks for your work cucumber .. I really appreciate it. I'll be checking this out.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:20 PM
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You don't get it man. When you're the one steering the conversation with your questions, you ARE the frame. These people spends minutes or even hours of their time qualifying themselves to you. Investing so much time answering questions does the same thing as the Benjamin Franklin effect and the sunk cost fallacy. You invest time trying to convince this person that you're worthy of their time and so they must be pretty great, right?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:50 PM
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Thanks so much MattyAnon! I agree completely with everything you've written. After thinking about it, I wrote this post as a more general social skill post than specifically oriented towards women. To everyone who is reading, your interactions with women you're interested in will take a more active role.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:44 PM
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Thank you David_kimba! These comments mean a ton. A great mentor of mine once told me, "Gratitude has the seemingly magical ability to turn the seemingly ordinary into the sublime."
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:54 PM
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Thanks so much Betterthanuatlife! It means a lot.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:52 PM
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Hey, no problem man. I hadn't seen that. On the other hand, the placebo effect still works on me and helps me feel good so I'll keep doing it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:51 PM
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This is a massive point that I'm lacking in my own life. Thanks for bringing it up! I've pretty much cauterized my ability to share myself with people due to an insistent need to become self reliant. Do you, by chance, happen to have a link or search term for that article? I'd like to work on this on myself.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:49 PM
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I like your thoughts. It seems to me as if this is simply a difference in style. I was raised by police officers, and now I'm a young entrepreneur, and so shaking hands is just a natural part of what I do. It seems to me that if you have a strong frame (A.K.A. you're comfortable with who you are/ own yourself - just came up with this definition. Had to write it down) people submit to the way you do things. I don't really intentionally dominate other people this way, but in this example, I value …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:05 AM
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Here's a post I made a few weeks ago entitled, "How to Build Meaningful Friendships". It's all of my thoughts about your exact question. http://www.logiccentralonline.com/blog/how-to-build-meaningful-friendships/
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:01 AM
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That's wonderful to hear! I'm proud of you JohnnyGameGuy. Keep on keeping on man
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:47 AM
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You are most welcome Krieggz, thanks for the feedback! You're guys' comments keep me motivated with this. I would love it if you would share this with your younger friends. I try to make my videos and write-ups regular world friendly. My goal is to help save some misery for younger, omega me.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 02:10 AM
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I was absolutely that kid in high school. I still remember how incredible it was that Matt Lastname invited me to be floseidon the following year at my Latin convention. A point I would like to build on is about how you mentioned being cool to people with no immediate use to you. I would advocate a smile and basic professionalism to everyone you meet, even if you grow to despise them. I was just having a conversation with an older gentleman earlier today about how the, "PC Police" as he put it, …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 01:32 AM
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Thanks so much bartmanfadi! Another simple body language tip I've learned is to widen your eyes when you're listening to somebody. It shows more interest in what they're saying. Next week's video is about how to remember names. I've found that simply remembering someone's name makes them glow. If you can remember, say, an omega's name in a group activity; you've made a loyal acquaintance for life. Noticing somebody who's invisible, and then remembering them is unheard of in their lives. One othe…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 01:12 AM
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I love this. Here are some thought's I had had written down before. How to be exciting? Be doing things. You should be in as many extracurricular activities and clubs as you can possibly shove down your throat. Be sure to try to balance yourself out however. A sport is a must, it develops your body so that you can attract these hot girls, and it develops your work ethic and stoicism so that you can learn to value yourself. After you lock down a sport you enjoy, choose a couple humanities based c…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:46 PM
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Spot on Batou I don't think that I can in good conscience recommend marriage for anyone. Even if their LTR meets these requirements, but of all of the successful marriages I've seen, they've been high school sweethearts. I'm hoping to give these boys a chance at a life many of us will never have. On the same note, someone has to have our children (If you want them, I know I do), and that someone had best be as close to a unicorn as you can find.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 01:21 AM
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I really enjoy the bioenergetic warm-up from Elliott Hulse. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zD-3j2g9w9U The entire point is that after a while, we begin to get locked up in our heads. We, "think too much"; and when we do, our thoughts begin to turn dark. In order to combat those negative thoughts, we need to ground ourselves. Pull our center back into our body; into the moment, you could say. You can customize these exercises however you'd like, sometimes I do this, and sometimes I simply do yog…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:46 PM
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Haha these are all extreme examples, but I get your point. The thing is, however, that you will find there really isn't all that much the Human body cannot do. Have you ever gone through the phase in which you don't care about living or dying, and so you actively search for things that may kill you? You can lay down a motorcycle at 80mph and come out of it with scratches. We are an extremely resilient animal. Especially when the survival instinct turns on and time begins to slow. Most people liv…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:48 PM
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This was incredible. Thorough, actionable advice galore. Thank you for writing it down and absolutely please do expand on your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:51 PM
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I may be rocking a bit of a Philly accent. I'm from Pittsburgh originally. Thanks!
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:55 PM
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Thanks for the mention man! ... I've been working my way towards creating a Modern Man's Rite of Passage meetup here in the Colorado Springs area, but I could definitely do mentoring sessions for any who need it as well. I've a busy schedule, but I'm looking to help.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:55 AM
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Most hot girls in high school today see at least 10 dicks before graduation.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:19 PM
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This is incredible, Kolbath. Thank you so very much for sharing! comfort was a state of mind, not a condition of reality This sentence, I know, will change my life. Your third rule is not one I've ever heard of, and I love it. You deserve the spotlight and the admiration of others. You damn well deserve it because you have worked for it. You put my thought into words I won't be able to come up with for quite a while yet. I'm just rambling on at this point, but I sincerely appreciate this. This i…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 11:27 PM
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Hahaha, I was in a library study room and the eraser was what was there.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 11:12 PM
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Epic! Thanks man. I like to read poems that way. Makes a whole new story.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 04:10 AM
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Kolbath, You're the best. You're support is an amazing boost. Thanks so much!
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 01:10 AM
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Lesson #1: Use something you notice about the girl to break the ice and ask a question. Lesson #2: You don't need her. "You can help me with mine" sounds a lot less powerful than "I can practice my Japanese with you." We haven't spoken any Japanese at all. Lesson #3: Demonstrate higher value in a subtle way. Other women can be great wingmen too. Not all interactions have to be sexual, my friend smiling because she was surprised to see me was great. Lesson #5: Give an option if you want them to d…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:24 PM
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Dude, she was from Japan, and she's 19. She absolutely was a virgin. Aside from that, who gives a damn? Schrodingersdawg wrote an excellent report with great examples and lessons. Knock off the attitude and learn something new. At the very least, appreciate this fellow man's time and effort by keeping your negative mouth shut. Contribute something that's actually valuable, like how he could do it better next time, or STFU.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:18 PM
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What a wonderful concept. A RedPill fraternity would build kings. This makes me want to uproot my life to DC. Be well brothers. This is world-changing.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:31 PM
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Thanks for your time and your wisdom Archwinger. I had just written up a post about why nice guys always lose, but I wish I had had the insight you wrote about in your introduction before I made it. What an eloquent way to describe nice guy-ness.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:30 PM
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Not only that, but a pack of tight bros will always get more hoes. A group of friends having fun together is an attractive sight.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:07 PM
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Thanks so much! Getting better every time.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:07 PM
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I'm so glad to hear it man! Keep me updated in how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:17 AM
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Yeah, I understand now. This is a video focused to help high school students realize they aren't as evil as society says they are. I keep it lighter for them, but I'll be back to good ol' hardcore improve yourself advice on Monday.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:20 PM
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Ok, I understand. I didn't intend for it to come off this way. I'll be back to giving actual advice in my videos on Monday. This was an out of the blue idea I had had this morning. I also try to keep it a bit less locker room-y because it's focused toward high school students.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:19 PM
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I understand what you're saying. It's not really focused for TheRedPill. It's meant to be a resource for you guys to share with your nephews and high school aged mentees to help them decide to be better instead of angry. I shared it here because I know you guys have gone through this experience all the same, and that you would be the ones already helping these young guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 08:07 PM
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You just come off as angry anyways. Not funny.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 12:08 PM
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Haha that was awesome. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:10 AM
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Jusy take a moment to think about it while you read. Taking the title into consideration, if you apply each example to the life of a supermodel, the entire thing is about supermodels. Not everyone in life is going to hold your hand. Sometimes you need to apply your noodle and connect knowledge on your own.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 08:31 PM
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Check out the link he posted in reply to styth. He has them there.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 08:21 PM
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I haven't seen that. I'll definitely bs taking notes.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 02:23 PM
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Thank you benczi. I'll try taking it out next time and we'll see how it sounds.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:26 AM
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Oh I understand. I had posted that one to the teenagers subreddit, thinking they would appreciate it. Turns out reddit is not the most appreciative of the concept of living on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:01 AM
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So I've besn really thinking about that. I have a big underbite and a tight jaw because of it. I was thinking its the tightness. I've sort of trained myself not to move it much.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:46 AM
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No, just didn't get a ton of engagement. The biggest problem was that I took too long to get to the meat of the content. People dropped off.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:45 AM
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I've noticed the same thing with myself. The bad thing is I'm a native speaker. It's just my Western Pennsylvania accent coming out. Thanks again for the tips! I can't wait to see progress. The cool thing is that I'll be able to go back through these videos and visibly watch it happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:00 PM
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This is a wonderful reminder. Thank you. The point of these videos, and soon to be podcast, is to translate all of these topics into normal speech in order to share it with high school aged guys. The two videos I got out of your comment will be, "No More Mr. Nice Guy - Why Nice Guys Always Lose", and "Be SELFISH - You can't give until you have" - or some variation of those. Once again, thanks. I'm excited to outline these.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:58 PM
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Thanks so much! I've been researching vocal techniques for a while. Still working on it. Ill be checking it out as soon as I get home.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 09:22 PM
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That's a cool idea. I like it. It'll definitely be incorporated into my list of quotes.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 07:18 PM
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I love it man. I always say that camaraderie is forged through shared experience. All of my greatest friendships have been created by actually DOING things. What a wonderful video idea - How to make true friends. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 06:02 PM
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Wow Kolbath, Thanks so much, I really appreciate it! I focused on my authoritative tone and conciseness in this one. Still practicing, but I'm improving for sure. This one was about why, "just be yourself" is total crap advice, and some tips on how you can present your best self to the world.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:31 PM
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Thanks so much man! I've heard that elsewhere, and I will definitely be focusing on it for the next video.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:53 AM
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Thanks so much Trpidation! That means a lot.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:31 AM
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Thanks Kolbath! There's a lot more to come.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:30 AM
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Look up Plutchik's wheel. He conducted quite a bit of research on emotions and how they relate to eachother.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 03:52 AM
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Rocking that Plutchik's wheel with the love quote. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 03:50 AM
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If you really think you're so much better show them why or how. Otherwise you're just as much of a bitch, possibly more The difference between your worthless opinion and valuable advice is its actionability. If you provide a solution to the problem instead of simply stating that there is a problem, you will put yourself ahead of 90% of the human population. Stop worrying about what's wrong and start worrying about how to negate/fix/improve it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:36 PM
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All the same though, he is commenting about not giving a fuck about being doxxed; while giving a fuck. "Would", in that case, is wishy washy chest beating.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:05 PM
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That's understandable. I had forgotten to think of the political ramifications of thinking a certain way. What an insane world we live in. One in which people would think differently of you for simply having a different inner monologue than them. It always frustrates me that objectively great people are shunned for thinking differently than the scum around them.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 03:02 PM
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"Would" Why haven't you? Own yourself man.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:32 PM
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That right there; actionable advice. That's what makes a thought valuable.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:39 AM
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You make yourself vulnerable through a lack of self-ownership; not through opening up to people. Look at the SJW attacks on Mike Cernovich lately. Gawker called on him to apologize for his, "mean tweets", but instead of backing down, he owned it. Through owning himself, he became invincible. It's like when somebody shit tests you, asking if you, "really like/do x thing". You own it and it's no big deal. (ex.) "Yeah I listen to Taylor Swift, what of it?" Now, becoming dependent upon someone other…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:34 PM
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I don't think you read my whole comment. We said the same exact thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:37 PM
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I understand what you're saying, and I now realise that being worried about the sub being banned is wrong and tthat it's that big a deal; but he had commented that men and women are not equal period, and even bolded the, "period". That's saying that there is no way at all ever that women are equal to or better than men at anything. I agree with that sentiment with most mindless men, but I also think that it extends to most mindless people in general. To say that women and men are unequal period …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:09 PM
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You're not violating a rule at all. I usually put links to my writing in my posts too. Next time, maybe copy as much of the actual text as possible, and then throw a link at the end for those that want more.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 12:59 AM
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Wow Sergio, This is incredible. Thank you so much. Seriously, I cannot express how helpful this is. Honestly, we've been doing the marketing because that's what we thought we have to do. I try to keep it short, sweet, and after my actual content because I truly hate the slimy feel marketing gives me. Chris and I both are doing this because we want to help people who have been in the same situations as us, and also because writing these thoughts down helps us figure it out ourselves. If you would…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:25 AM
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It seems to me that realistically willing what is necessary requires making it fun. Otherwise life becomes such a bleak existence of self-punishment that life becomes pointless anyways. You mention that life is a challenge, but it seems to me that Stoicism's entire point is that you're able to reframe your life into something you enjoy for yourself. Another great quote of Seneca's is “Hang on to your youthful enthusiasms -- you’ll be able to use them better when you’re older.” So many people see…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 12:39 PM
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To this I would say that it seems best to just go through with a prostitute or one of those easy girls that are throwing themselves at you. You won't know unless you just take the leap. Otherwise this question will plague you for your existence. I think it may just be best to go for it and find out for certain that it's no big deal. Get rid of that uncertainty.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 04:00 PM
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Just thinking about that first half These very same people hate feminism and dislike women for their inability to think rationally, yet they appear to be doing the very same thing. It seems to me that TRP has this man vs. woman complex, in which everything must be defined in stark contrast to each other. What I've learned in life, however, is that it's more of a scale. Some people are more masculine, and others, more feminine. I think that we need to realise that these aren't male or female trai…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:06 PM
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Exactly this. That's basically the biggest lesson of Stoicism. Choose the way that you want to think about life. Choose not to worry about anything that you cannot affect and choose not to worry about things that would hamper your postive state of mind.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:00 PM
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Wow Sergio, thank you so much man! That really means a lot.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 12:57 PM
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Oh yeah, me too! That's where the second tip about finding something that you enjoy about the thing you're avoiding comes in. If you enjoy that thing, there won't be any avoiding it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 12:50 PM
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You sound like a pretty awesome girlfriend. Just keep on keeping on. I'm cheering you both on! .... Forreal though, the break is great because it gives you the opportunity for honeymoon phase part two. It gives you a break from your normal milieu and comfortability, and gives you the perfect chance to reinvigorate your passionate side. Work on yourselves now. A few weeks before you meet up, begin to ramp up the sexual tension. Then when you finally meet up again, enjoy the effort you've put into…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 02:57 PM
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So, I've been rocking a ldr for a few months now. I've found it to be a lot like going into 'monk mode', but still having that person there for support at the end of the day. Use it as a time for both of you to build yourselves, and each other up.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 11:34 AM
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The postures of the women posting the mombod pictures would suggest that they don't actually feel beautiful. The amount that people try to convince themselves that reality isn't real blows my mind.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:42 PM
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This is great man! Thanks for taking the time to put it together!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 01:53 PM
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I do like that, but I like the zen wumbo jumbo as well myself. To each their own. You could argue the same for Joe Rogan.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 11:35 PM
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I have been told about this; my mentor calls it "The Great Pairing" when everybody gets out of school and hitches up promptly forgetting friends and family in the process. I'm torn now between continuing this course until then due to the opportunities it provides me, and adjusting now so that I am better prepared for later.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:40 PM
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Awesome! Thanks for sharing man! It's coincidentally down for maintenance right now, but I'm excited to check it out!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:20 PM
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I understand and agree completely. I think the purpose of the depression meds is to bring clinically depressed people to the point at which the things in this article will work, but I think it also takes active effort to truly bring yourself out of it. At the end though, these are derived of just self analysation, and so it won't apply to everyone. As to "the getting over it" .. I see what you're saying, but how can we help otherwise? It's callous to say choose to not be sad anymore, but I kind …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:55 PM
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Thanks man! I 1000% agree. ... I have found purpose to be most easily found when you have a path planned beyond the next step. When you know where you're going, everything becomes easier. I wrote more about it here: http://www.logiccentralonline.com/blog/finding-purpose-when-there-is-none/ I'd love your thoughts if you have the time to check it out!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:23 PM
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I can empathize with where you're coming from, but the point of the post is that you're putting yourself in a 50+ yr old man's shoes, who doesn't have kids. What do you do then? Where's your purpose? I would advocate that it is in BEING the change you want to see in the world. People talk all the time about things they want to see changed. This entire sub is in reaction to wanting society changed to something that makes sense. My academy would be a part of what helps that happen. Yeah, you can h…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:02 PM
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I like it! I'll definitely pull next weeks quote from the sidebar. I appreciate you challenging me to do the FR too. Thanks for making this a bigger part of my growth. Totally hadn't thought of that. It makes it easy for me to focus on one concept per week too.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:58 PM
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Sure is! He has a fantastic blog too at www.danger&play.com
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:56 PM
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Mike Cernovich, from Danger & Play is an immensely wise man. His podcast always has gold nuggets of applicable information. Here's a link: https://soundcloud.com/dangerandplay
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:36 PM
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Many of the guys here are already in that living dead state, desperately trying to claw themselves out of it though. Hence, "buy hookers."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:29 PM
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Another thought I just had about the male wall after reading through some of the comments is that a man hits his wall when he thinks he has done enough, no matter his age. Socrates famously said that the one thing he did know was that he knew nothing. Any person that settles down and says that they know enough dies at that very moment. From then on, they are the true walking dead. You can visibly see the spark of life leave their eyes. These are the men who, at 40 are in the same small town they…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:28 PM
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Always, and thank you! A favorite quote of mine is, "Focus your life not on waiting to have fun, but making it all fun; everything else will follow suit."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:22 PM
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Yeah, so so many people read my things, and have nothing at all to say. I really appreciate your thoughts. They help me adjust and grow.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:20 PM
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And I thank you for them! That's the cool thing about living. We're able to have these different ways of doing the same thing, each as valid as the other, and that's A ok.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:19 PM
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I like it man! So, "Realise you are valuable. .... You have a myriad of tools you've picked up along your path, and you know how to use them." ... I can't change it now; it's up. But I'll keep it in mind for next time. Thanks for your help man! You're one of the few so far to give me constructive criticism.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:15 PM
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Thanks so much man! I'm starting it out with a podcast that I'm producing right now. It's scheduled to be released about a month from now after I build up a backlog of episodes. It will be called 'The Seeking Sanity Podcast' ... I basically want to talk to you guys about what it is to be a man, and how to do it. If you want to sit down and have a conversation with me, I'd love to have you on! PM me and I'll send you the link you our scheduler
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:57 PM
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The curse of overwhelming optimism. I understand, and I apologize for forgetting those who have been dealt a genetic short stick :/ ... Do you think that I should have written, "you are capable of a healthy body"? ... even then, I am letting out those who truly aren't, but at the same time my goal is to inspire action in my readers. I don't want to have any sort of negativity, and this still applies to a majority of people.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:54 PM
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My first thought is that of the Hero's path. In every heroic tale that doesn't end up in a gruesome death, the hero sort of "retires" to a mentor position in which he raises up the next hero. That is what my end goal is. It is a dream of mine to start an academy for young men that teaches the reality of life, and how to succeed in it. It will teach all of the regular academic skills, but will also provide martial arts training, rhetorical opportunities, philosophy, and arts training. I want to m…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:49 PM
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Another thought, you brought up HARD truths. I honestly think that the world isn't as hard to live in as we make it up to be here. Seriously, it's a matter of mindset. The truth is that if you don't stand in your own damn way, you will be great. Most often, you are your biggest obstacle.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:44 PM
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I realise I had said that I wrote this with a RP light. I suppose I was a bit wrong there. On second thought, I write RP ideas in a way that everyone can take. I'm not really one for locker room talk. I still stand for that being absolutely true if you've the mindset to be here reading though.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:42 PM
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I am definitely picking up what you're saying. The people that I wrote this in mind for, are the average everyday sheeple that need a little feel-good pickmeup for the week. This is a sample testing for if you guys would like me to write an RP focused WOTW as well. Honestly though, if you are an RP man, this isn't bullshit at all. If you have the mindfulness to take ownership of your life; your successes and failures; then this is 100% true. You fail, you learn, you adapt, and you succeed.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:40 PM
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I love that you mentioned that they're "nice" people. I am reminded of the reason "nice" guys always finish last. I define 'nice' as the kind things people do when they expect something in return. 'Nice' people will help you move, but expect you to help them. 'Nice' guys will take a girl out to dinner expecting her to like him for it. It's MALARKEY! "Kind" people are the people that will find success in life. 'Kind' people do what they do, simply because they have a good heart and enjoy helping …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:36 PM
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I am glad that my thoughts can help bud. It always feels bad to have to hurt people's feelings, but it's not necessary either. Just decide to interact with these people less. Keep them in your life, they're a part of it; but only choose to be around them in situations in which they have no ability to be a drain on you, or choose to communicate with them less. Basically, do the good ol' fadeout. It doesn't have to be so drastic as, "I don't want you in my life anymore." Just get "busy" with other…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:30 PM
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I understand where you're coming from. I had used the 1% as an undeniable example of successful people; and to point out that successful people are successful because of what they do, and the mindsets they've learned, not because of who they are. Yes, many of the 1% inherited their wealth like the old aristocracy of the middle ages, but they won't keep it without training their progeny with these ideas. Success, like Aristotle's excellence, is a habit, a way of being. NOT an ephemeral state that…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:27 PM
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This is something that I relate immensely too, and not in the greatest way. My approach to life is definitely the opposite of what Seneca says, and I understand that I should begin to revise that. I approach almost all of my new relationships with people as friendship. Everyone starts out on a good, respectful standing with me, and their actions can really only drag themselves down. I suppose my definition of best-friendship is most everyone else's definition of normal-friendship. What do you th…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:24 PM
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Exactly this. Always ask yourself, "Is my life better for having this person a part of it?" If it isn't, don't keep them. Why invite somebody to be around you if they only make your life harder? Thanks for bringing up that you should be living up to the friendship too. That's the part that these other parasites forget. Friendship is a two-way street.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:19 PM
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Rock on man! Thanks for taking the time to read my ideas, it's my pleasure to be able to help.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:17 PM
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I was thinking about that when I wrote this paper. I'm going to write up a "how to make friends paper next. I'll discuss the mindset, verbal communication and nonverbal communication needed to do so . I'll PM you my notes as soon as I'm done and we can discuss then I'd you'd like. Edit: Changed more to notes
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 10:37 AM
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Dude, this isn't all that great. Our entire economy is based off of growth. There's a reason that the slowest recovery for any recession in history has slowed down even more. We need to be constantly growing in order to maintain.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 02:45 AM
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Ah, I understand what you guys are saying. I guess I was wrong. I've been really thinking about it. Both make logical sense to me. I'm not sure if there is a way to tie them together though.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:10 AM
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Oh thanks man! Its fixed now.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:48 PM
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Yeah, I was just talking to my mentor about this. He had said that after spending a lot of time in Japan, that nodding down means a sort of professionalism to him; and up is like, "were cool." I had pointed out though, that he still nods up most of the time, and that two people nodding up simply denotes that you consider each other peers. Which is A Ok.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:28 PM
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Wow, thanks man! That's how I like to do. I'm putting together a lot more content right now. Look out for me!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:16 PM
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Check out /r/redpillwomen ... reverse engineering their posts helps you get a better feel for what a girl that wants a relationship is looking for. The guys here have pretty much given up.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:14 PM
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Awesome! I'm glad it helps!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:49 PM
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Spot on, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:07 PM
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I absolutely understand what you're saying. It's something a mentor of mine had explained to me, that I couldn't convey in the same manner. What I was trying to describe is the IDGAF, outcome independent attitude we talk about here.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:28 PM
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Dude, the whole point is that many people don't know how to pay attention to their bodies. I am glad that you do, but this is designed to help those that don't.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:06 PM
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I would really love it if you would share some more of what you know about verbal judo. This is probably my weakest area. I get flustered pretty quickly in an argument.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:40 PM
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Yeah totally. I just wanted to get the idea across.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:08 PM
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Hahah, thank you! I appreciate it. Lately the thought of just adopting has totally been on my mind. I have been surrounded by horrible examples of relationships my entire life, and the guys here don't exactly propagate their existence either. I've been searching so hard for a way to figure out how not to fuck up my life by inviting a woman into it. I suppose I shouldn't even be worrying about this right now. I have so much time to plan for it. I worry a lot about missing my opportunity to find t…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 07:11 PM
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You have so perfectly summed up what I was trying to express. Thank you. And thank you for letting me know I'm not insane. I love this group because it has taught me what it is to be a man. As you said, I don't give a fuck if they can't comprehend all the effort I put into myself. I do that for me. But what I want is someone that can appreciate the results. I've tried very hard to simply kill off the need to care for people, but I found that I can't even get it up then. The girls just don't do i…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:59 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to find that, and I understand the fundamental idea of AF/BB. However, is there any way to be both AF and BB? How have you managed to work your marriage out? I remember reading one of your posts once that said you lean for an 80/20 rule with 80 Alpha and 20 Beta. Is that the best we can do in today's world?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:46 PM
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Hahaha, I understand. And so the only question remaining in my TRP journey becomes; how do you deal with your biologically programmed provider instincts? I have a deep need to care for someone. Not necessarily all of the time, and not even necessarily a woman. But all of the same, I greatly enjoy helping people to make themselves better. Have you just picked up a few mentees then?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:36 PM
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Ah, thank you. So it goes more along with suspending belief then, or as Baldassare Castiglione would say, Sprezzatura. The women want the man that is both, but they don't want to know how much work he puts into maintaining it. Spending hours and hours examining my thoughts for self knowledge to make myself a better, more empathetic leader; and learning ballroom dancing and jiu jitsu to develop a deeper sense of confidence mean nothing because the woman does not understand the value of effort put…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:33 PM
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And so what happens when you are both? It seems that nobody wants to be an all around great man. A great man has both. He leads his people and his woman, and he makes sure they're taken care of.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:23 PM
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Rollo, You often mention the ideal man that is both alpha and beta, but you've said that today's women do not want this self-actualised man. At least, not both at the same time. It seems, to me, that women have this biological attraction dissonance in which they view the beta as the sort of father figure that only provides to them. I have no quarrel there, but I suppose the only part of me left that weeps for the world is that as a man, I have these deeply ingrained provider instincts. I work ha…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:54 PM
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Continuing off of what you said about letting her hamster run; I have found it best to let her hamster run as much as possible. It stems of of one of the 48 Laws in which Robert Greene tells us to allow people to fill the gaps in. Any chance you find, say less and let her assume more. It keeps an air of mystery about you. I've found a great way to do this, especially when dirty talking, is to talk about how they will feel after you do something. Don't tell people directly what you will do, but g…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:43 PM
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One of my favorite tests is ask her something like, "Hey, what do you think about X? Do you like it?" and then when she tells you about how cool it is; say, "Really? I think it's shit actually." and then let her stumble to qualify to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:54 PM
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Thanks /u/Six_Demon_Bag! ... As he said, right about the beginning. It's the first conversation.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:43 PM
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Ah, that's alright though. To each their own. I use my social media as a sort of PR branding for myself. I choose to brand myself entirely professionally and with a tone of leadership in stead of angry bitterness. Its a public world my friend. I think that its best to only act in a manner with which you're comfortable sharing with the entirety of everyone.
/r/MGTOW15/04/15 06:33 PM
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This is really cool. I like the idea. I've basically made all of my social media accounts my running résumés. In today's world, the major benefit a man receives from social media is building his brand. You have the capability to shape exactly how you want people to see you, and so take advantage of it. Everything I post goes through a process of determining whether or not that's how I would want a stranger viewing my profile to think of me. (I.E. no swearing or vulgar posts, no gossiping, no "I'…
/r/MGTOW13/04/15 11:10 PM
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You're hilarious. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:36 PM
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