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| 31 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better now | Rant | TheAwkwardPigeon | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 04:43 PM |
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| 2 | At a significant lossMaybe I’m misreading this, she physically cheats on you, but gets upset that you watch porn? That’s very controlling and abusive behavior. Not to mention “pot calling the kettle black” and that whole thing. Your first step here is to get a lawyer. Get documentation about your anger counseling so that if, and when, it does come up in court your lawyer can show that you have always taken steps to be a better father. She went from zero to sixty with you “looking at a few images” after she’s had no … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Still SufferingThe whole “get out of marriage free” thing is bothering me, my guy, it’s okay to grieve the loss; but in no situation would you want someone legally forced to stay with you. You should want to be married to someone who wants to be with you and brings out the best in you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Wife wants 4K a month. Half 401k and pension. I make 200k how fucked am I?Man I’m so sorry… she sounds a lot like my ex. Actually your story in general is a lot like mine. My little girl is also 2.5 and I was married 9 years. Look on the bright side, alimony can only be paid for half the marriage if under 10 years in California. So be grateful you didn’t stay married to this monster for another year. Also I’m also in the Bay Area. DM me if you need to vent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/26 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Dating AgainI had two sexual experiences after my divorce that taught me a lot. The first was a very strange encounter with a 35 yr old virgin. When think back, I really wasn’t attracted to her, just the whole idea of it intrigued me. She had never even been to second base before me. I stayed with her 2.5 months. We rounded all the bases but never hit that home run if you know what I mean. It taught me a lot about just enjoying myself (I don’t mean this sexually…) shortly after her I met a woman who was in … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowOooh I really like this saying, thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowIt’s not my property, I have no legal link to it. I have no lease agreement nor ownership of it, it’s my ex in-laws property, their home is on the property also. I cannot move back in, it would be breaking and entering at this point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowI moved out due to necessity, our marital home was an ADU built on her parents property. So there was nowhere for me to stay. Are you suggesting that I have not admitted fault in any of this? I contributed to the issues in the marriage too, I would never deny that. What is your point here exactly? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowand thats really her problem, one of the main reasons she cant find steady employment is that she never thinks she is at fault for anything. If I fuck up at work the very first thing I do is go to my boss and say "i fucked up, im gonna fix it" when she fucks up in her job she blames everyone else except her. Even outside of the workplace she has lost countless friends and pissed off every member of her family. She will never admit that she did something wrong, ever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowI mean, I want to be able to see photos of my daughter when Im not around her. She's the most important thing in my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowYeah, a lot of my friends have suggested the same and I do my best avoid her social media and otherwise. Im cautious to completely block her, for the sake of my daughter. But yeah, I see what you're saying. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowGood advice, I try to do that, its just hard when you dedicated half your life to someone else... | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:17 PM |
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