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| 7 | Still living with ex - she asked to go out next week with someone on a date. i'm spiralingFind a cheap place fast. Need to watch out for bs domestic violence coming your way. Get out now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 03:20 AM |
| 7 | Can my wife first leave me and then have me pay her child support for 18 years?Seconding that you must file first in California it will force her back with your child. I'm a year in on mine. Don't live together and if she's picking fights you can always walk away before she gets the cops involved. Walk away from crazy. Don't pick up charges. Ladies by crazy with baby hormones and postpartum. Get your kid and never stop fighting for your rights. The hands of justice are slow and not blind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Hidden camerasSo if she starts a fight and tries to hook you it is better to walk away and circle back later. Don't let her get the cops involved. All bad for you and if any kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/26 10:26 PM |
| -9 | How do you attract healed women?I'd say you need to date young/low number girl because a high number girl will always compare you to the best she's ever had. If that isn't you then you're screwed | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 04:06 PM |
| 3 | How long did it take to stop thinking about/missing your ExSorry man but you need to move on and go find some strange. Get a hobby. Work on being the best man you can be. Mine is dragging feet and still living under the same 1100sq ft apartment rent free for the last 7 months...this shit sucks | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 03:32 AM |
| 6 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsMy friends ex wife posted him to all the groups and a creepy forum too. She was trying to wreck his dating life. What he learned is who the eff cares. You don't want yo be dating a girl who is all over these groups anyways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Need help formulating a responseUse the whatever person imogy. I found this wes helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?I'm 5 months in.... she just announced she's not moving until our divorce is finalized...I'm going to go bankrupt and probably loose the house at this rate. She hasn't spent a dime on our 2 kids or expenses since January. I don't know what to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 8 | Early 30s is marriage worth it?Her marriage kid goal will never change. It will be an expensive heart break down the road. If she wants kids and you don't set her free and be happy for her. Sounds like you have attachment issues. You're a man you are acting like she brings you some kind of love....find it in yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Buying groceries for my kids till divorceThat's what happened to my friends sister...now the kids don't even want to see their dad because of the lying and manipulation...but it takes time so be true to yourself and what a strong leader would do. (reverse rolls but it happens) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/25 12:41 AM |
| 2 | When You Love Your Child Deeply but Know Divorce Is the Healthier PathI'm in the same spot although a longer relationship and 2 kids. All you can do is get him 50% of the time and instill your fatherly way. When he's older he'll be able to choose the parent who gives him what he needs. My friends sisters kids don't even go see their father right now because of the manipulation and lying so always be true to you and your son and he'll be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/25 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Finally……….and it’s bittersweetCongrats! I am hoping for the best I can hope for too. We're still living together and it is so lame...I dream of the day where you are. In-terms of dealing with your anger I found a men's team through Mentor Discover Inspire and it does a lot of good to have men supporting you through this. You'll need to deal with this because if not dealt with these emotions can bubble up at very unwanted times. Part of being a masculine man is dealing with this stuff at appropriate times. (Basically not arou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 2 | I walked away todayDepends on the state. CA is zero contact and gone for 6+ months | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/25 12:45 AM |
| 9 | Question for divorced men who don’t want a relationship and visit prostitutes.You're always paying for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Curious question for men who are divorced and aren’t interested in a relationship how do you handle your sexual urges without a partner?I was going to say this. There is no free p. It always costs something | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/25 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Want to divorce, no infidelity involved…I'm going through a divorce and have joined a men's team. My team circles up once a week and it is collective knowledge of the men to support each other to become the best version of themselves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Want to divorce, no infidelity involved…Find an Mentor Discover Inspire meeting near you. https://www.mentordiscoverinspire.org/ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 04:10 PM |
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