TheBacchus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Is Clubgame worth it? / Seduction worth it?		TheBacchus	/r/seduction	21/11/16 03:13 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should have This is exactly it. Self improvement does not only lead to the abundance mentality it also leads to the actual abundance ;) If you enjoy yourself regardless of the things around you, girls will be competing for your attention.	/r/seduction	28/03/17 02:58 PM
3	I realized I might've misunderstood what Seduction is all about and the mentality that one should have This is key: "Seduction isn't manipulating her into liking you, it's meant to give you tools to show her that you like her and recognize if she likes you. It's not me against her, it's me AND her working with each other. Or if we're not on the same page, recognizing that we aren't and not wasting time." I have become a very confident person over the years, nothing like when I started reading this subreddit. And one of the biggest contributors to that was to aknowledge that I do not actually want…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 02:34 PM
1	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. I hope we are a growing breed actually... Otherwise humanity can't hope to take on all the challenges we are and will be facing collectively.	/r/seduction	20/02/17 11:16 AM
11	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. I'm glad I read your post. Even though I find seduction very interesting it took me some time to realize that the reason I was so drawn to it was rather to get a better understanding of human psychology than actually inherently believing in the general PUA paradigm. It was my way of gaining knowledge about communication, emotion, how people think and so on. I saw my lack of social skills (especially with girls) and my social anxiety and tried to gain as much knowledge on how to fix these issues …	/r/seduction	18/02/17 08:13 PM
–	Why are so many helpful and then this... No prob bro. I would consider myself a realist as well. I don't buy into any bullshit that isn't 100% reasonable and try to get a clear non clouded picture of the world and my society. The thing is, cynical or pessimistic people aren't more or less subjective than people with a positive outlook. Both outlooks are real and hold truth to an extend but there is less benefit in having an overly negative outlook since it keeps you well under your potential. What we call "reality" is really just just …	/r/seduction	25/12/16 02:23 PM
4	Why are so many helpful and then this... You know what self confidence really is? It is to feel and accept that nothing really matters. That doesn't mean "fuck everything, I don't give a fuck". It just means that nothing is really too important and therefore it would be laughable to let anything (or the lack of anything) make you feel bad or insecure about yourself. Things like money, hot body, good looks, intelligence, you name it doesn't make you more or less of a person than any other. What makes you desirable is for you to embrace …	/r/seduction	22/12/16 12:39 PM
5	How much of a ripoff are RSD courses? Why would it be ludicrous? Pickup like anything else is something you can devote your time, energy and mind to like a lot of those RSD guys do. Added to that they posses theoretical and practical knowledge that can help countless guys become genuinely more happy as a person and as a man. How many of the things that people pay real money for can have such a postitive impact on your life? Not many... Immaterial goods often posses a much higher value that material goods. And we're talking about hum…	/r/seduction	22/11/16 08:24 AM
–	There is something I am missing It sounds like you are trying to build rapport now but slightly missing building attraction. Could that be? Are you familiar with the concept of emotion spiking? It's essential for building attraction. Maybe you are staying in a middle lane while communicating with girls. It's important to spike both positive and negative emotions. Getting to know and having interest in a person is fine but the essence of game lies more on the emotional side of things. What took me way too long to understand is …	/r/seduction	21/11/16 05:15 PM
–	Is Clubgame worth it? / Seduction worth it? As you mention it you're right, most of the time I have a low sexdrive these days. Sex isn't as good as I used to imagine it either. Or maybe I just haven't fucked girls that really turn me on yet. I never have any problems in bed and can keep going for a long time but I guess that doesn't have to mean anything.	/r/seduction	21/11/16 04:12 PM
–	Is Clubgame worth it? / Seduction worth it? I see. Thats a nice way of determining whether you should/should have approach/ed. I think that'll help me, thanks. And I have noticed that I barely ever have this friend mentality for some reason. I think those are scars from the past. Need to look into that one.	/r/seduction	21/11/16 04:05 PM
–	There is something I am missing Are you authentic when talking to people/girls? You differentiated your game and natural game. But good game is practically natural game... Just that some people pick it up without effort and others "learn" it later. Often after learning the "gimmicky" game first and then noticing that game is mostly about steering your own and the other peoples flow of emotions. It's possible to vibe with drunk people when you are sober but you have to try to amuse yourself and get on a similar high. It doesn't…	/r/seduction	21/11/16 03:54 PM
1	So this pornstar chick is flaking.. what do?? I guess I understood it wrong. Thought she snapped a story. Well if you think about it, we all know it was a test, so basically she saw that you played it cool and wanted your attention or see how you react again. I wouldn't waste too much time on her. Don't run after her like the other guys who play into her little games. You need to project that you're of higher value, don't make it easy for her. Just like Rex_Clonex already mentioned. Did anything new happen so far?	/r/seduction	07/11/16 12:18 PM
5	Does anyone have BOSS? The Natural is the single best piece of selfhelp/seduction media I have ever consumed. It basically teaches you everything about game+girls+(yourself!). I would go as far as to say, as a total newbie you would need nothing more than The Natural to become a confident person with an abundance of women and very good game in any field. Of course with the prerequisite that you are also willing to put in the needed amount of work. It bascialy gives you a very clear picture of everything to do with gir…	/r/seduction	04/11/16 02:05 PM
1	How do you not care about what others think of you? Spot on! It is definetely something one has to work for. First one needs to understand how pointless and meaningless it is to care about what others think of you. And then you try to work on the things that make you insecure about yourself. Because simply by trying to be the best you can and working on yourself you already become a very respectable person. No matter what people might say or think. Respect yourself, because of the effort you put in. Then other people will automatically respect yo…	/r/seduction	04/11/16 12:48 PM
–	So this pornstar chick is flaking.. what do?? Nice storytelling skills ;) Girls flake all the time just to see how you react. (Seemingly) give them the benefit of doubt the first 1 - 2 times they flake. And don't get angry when they do, it's just their way of making sure they don't end up with a betamale by checking how you will handle the situation. Make sure you don't show much reaction when they do, as if you don't care too much (shows that you have abundance of girls and you won't be shaken by something like that). Wrong move would be t…	/r/seduction	04/11/16 12:36 PM