TheBacher Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The perfect date idea doesn't exi.....		TheBacher	/r/seduction	08/01/20 08:58 PM

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1	Other than being at a healthy bf% and dressing well, what can a guy do to increase attractiveness? Calm confident Body language and voice tone.	/r/seduction	28/07/21 07:58 PM
56	How to “flip the script” with women Same advice applies to you... I came from a conservative religious background. Take the approach that you want to find out if a girl is actually interesting, and is the type of person you would want to date. Don't play 20 questions or treat the date like it's an interview... ... but do be laid back and very present and in the moment and just see what naturally transpires then take the lead if you feel like she might want you to kiss her or something more. Throw away any lines or "game" you learn…	/r/seduction	05/06/21 06:30 PM
1	I want to stop browsing dating advice subreddits and actually go out and have a dating life before I waste my youth Don't worry. No rush. I'm 37 and have a better dating life than I ever have in my life. (Average looking, Not tall or rich by the way) I didn't lose my v-card until I was 21. And every year that goes by since then my dating life has got exponentially better because I progressively improve my life, become more confident etc. I'm dating a couple women and consistently have a couple new dates every month set up (even during covid) Not trying to humble brag just show that it's possible. As a man, If…	/r/seduction	11/09/20 03:03 AM
150	The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like You Skip the self-deprecating humor part and just give them a specific compliment. Eg: "that's a sick haircut". "What a cool jacket, you have good style" etc It shows that you value yourself as well as them and makes you very charismatic	/r/seduction	29/06/20 02:45 AM
15	Do NOT waste time getting girls on social media I disagree. Unless your trying to date wanna-be insta famous girls. I'm average looking... but I post when I'm doing something interesting, I take decent photos and generally show the interesting parts of my life. One of The girls I'm dating now worked out because we connected on instagram first.	/r/seduction	05/06/20 09:50 PM
0	How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally? (Not intended to be a humble brag but might come across this way) Over the last month or two I've had dozens of great conversations with interesting women and have 7-10 dates set up. just saying this so you know I'm not talking out my ass. Some perspective to help... Remember 95% of the time it has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU, the words you use, etc Let's say you send 100 messages. Half of women's profiles are inactive and the dating sites just leave them up. That leaves about 50 profiles/women. Arou…	/r/seduction	22/05/20 10:20 PM
1	What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/Seduction The lie that there's ONE perfect soul mate out there.... And if you haven't found them just wait and give it time. But I believe we should be proactive in finding a good match.	/r/seduction	19/05/19 04:45 AM