TheBearJew6779 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I wanna vent for a difficult period in my life... I'd argue that more often than not they're the jacked dude with the fat girlfriend.	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/22 01:24 PM
13	Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑 Well that was five years ago and I work somewhere else now, but that's not a risk in the industry I was working in lol	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/22 03:25 PM
59	Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑 A few female coworkers (really cool chicks) were talking about that with me one time, if I'd ever date a fat girl. I said no fuckin way. They laughed and said now BearJew, don't you know you're not supposed to judge a girl on looks? What if she's got a great personality? And I said "Can't fuck a personality!"	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/22 03:16 PM
14	Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑 She got three kids, she's tired and used up. She just wants someone stable to provide for said kids so the burden is shifted off her.	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/22 03:15 PM
16	The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women I disagree with just about all of this. I text just about nonstop with the chicks I match with on Tinder/Bumble, whatever. When I'm busy and don't, they end up bombarding me for attention. When I'm with a girl, I say what I think and feel with absolutely zero interest in her opinion on the matter. I always control the flow of conversation and interaction. Guess what? Chicks love it. They want a guy to open up to them, just not to be feminine and girly about it by complaining and appearing weak. …	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/19 05:13 AM
5	TheReason We All Ended Up Here Feminism is seriously frowned upon; but chivalry is a big deal, especially in Texas. I wouldn't say that I was blue pilled per se, but I had some of those traits when it came to my interactions with women.	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/19 03:29 PM
54	TheReason We All Ended Up Here The part about a mentor figure really can't be stressed enough. My dad is a great guy and my best friend in the world, but he's got such bad social anxiety disorder that I learned absolutely no social skills from him whatsoever. What's worse, I grew up extremely isolated on my family's ranch in rural Texas. So I just didn't have the opportunity to really develop socially. When I joined the army I was a fit, athletic guy from a lifetime as a ranch hand, but I had zero confidence or knowledge when…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/19 02:55 AM
1	Why are women generally not honest about the characteristics they are looking for in a man? OP, you're wildly mischaracterizing what females are looking for. In aggregate, I'm sure everything you listed in the first typology is fairly uniform among most women college age and after. It definitely isn't that women seek the second, however. It may better serve you to instead readjust the frame in which you view the second typology. Aggressive: this should probably be redefined as assertive. Most people, women and men both, like someone who knows what they want and seek it out. If they wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/19 11:08 PM
139	Marriage Has Lost It's Value For Men My grandma has given me much sage wisdom over the years. I think the one that always stood out was her statement: "Never get married. It simply isn't worth it. Find someone you like, stay with them until you don't. If you want a child, find a girl you really like, agree to do it, and keep custody for yourself when you don't want them any more. But never get married."	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/19 05:19 AM
30	How To Get Your Shit Together: A Guide For 15-to-25-Year-Old Pieces of Shit An appreciation for philosophy can help someone who's looking for a framework for life guidance. When I was eighteen, my Dad got me a copy of Miyamoto Musashi's Book of Five Rings. I read it and gave it deep thought which, combined with extensive conversations with my Dad about it gave me a solid framework moving forward. Now my experience may be different from most. I was an athlete all through highschool and then in college, while also living on a cattle ranch and being a ranch-hand my entire …	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/19 06:36 PM
3	"What the fuck is wrong with girls and social media?" I'll tell you what the fuck: daygame, real life, real value I have plenty of female friends who say bald is sexy. Grow, trim and maintain a beard or goatee, it generally offsets the bald thing and looks good. While I'm not naturally bald, I usually have my hair trimmed short or even totally shaved; in college because longer hair pulled in my football helmet, in the army for obvious reasons and now today because I just can't see myself any other way. I sport a goatee now (because I can't grow a beard to save my life) and I've never had anyone say anything…	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/19 04:48 AM
20	Female Fantasy I think I might have misrepresented what I was trying to say because I agree with you. What I'm saying is that you don't share the boring shit, you only tell the exciting and interesting shit. Edit: I should add on that this was in response to an above poster talking about sharing the mundane and dull parts of their job, and I was giving examples of dull and mundane things I did, as oppose to the exciting.	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/19 05:56 PM
1	Female Fantasy Truth, women despise men who work hard, they just want the results of that labor to be natural. If one is not giving her constant attention and is not available at all times, she will leave. Like I said in an above post about my life as a security contractor, I was gone for months at a time to Africa, the Middle East, and East Europe, all the while having a long term girlfriend (at the time she left, for nine years). Finally, I found out that she was sleeping with her boss for two years saying t…	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/19 04:54 PM
1	Female Fantasy I can confirm. I was a security contractor for a time. My most exciting events involved leading evacuations of oil workers from Erbil during the Iraqi-Turkish invasion of Kurdistan, rescuing a college girl volunteer from mobs of political unrest in Honduras, and a family from a besieged hotel in Burkina Faso. I tell those stories. I don't tell the stories of driving rich executives to meetings in Sandton, Johannesburg, South Africa, or giving briefings to security managers in peaceful parts of U…	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/19 04:48 PM
1	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. Yeah I could've probably explained what I meant better. If I'm out doing something, I'm not glued to my phone, I'm engaged with the other people around me. I post pictures or whatever later, when I'm by myself. If you're sitting on your phone while you're with people, and especially if you're with a girl you're trying to bang, you're not doing it right. That's what I meant.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 07:43 AM
2	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. That's a different matter entirely; if one is on social media while with said hottie, they shouldn't be surprised if they don't get much action haha	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 07:17 AM
1	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. I disagree heavily, though respectfully, with the delete social media comment. In my experience having an active social media presence is important since its another mechanism where a guy demonstrates social proofing, which is essential in scoring top quality women. They need to know the guy isn't a loner. A good buddy of mine initially had trouble dating because women wanted his insta or snapchat, which he emphatically refused to use. Women thought that was a creepy red flag and would bail on h…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 02:59 AM
1	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. In economics that $12 spent on a martini is an opportunity cost. An individual spends $12+ dollars in the hopes of gaining access to the female's vagina, valuing that possibility over the other potential uses of the same amount of money.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 02:53 AM
2	A woman can't make herself want to fuck you. All she can do is give you the chance to make her feel something. The one area where you're wrong is that women don't generally accept drinks at a bar because they want to get laid; they do it because they want to get free drinks. My ex and her friends used to laugh at all the poor suckers at the bar who'd swarm them offering drinks etc hoping to score, and would buy the rounds all night...only to come home to their respective boyfriends while the guys are out in some cases substantial sums of money. If you're in your late 20s and still buying girls drinks at …	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/19 02:46 AM
1	Has anyone lost their virginity in a casual sex setting? Would you recommend it? To the actual OP question - Yes, and that's up to you. My first several sexual encounters were casual things. First kiss and blowjob occurred at the same time my senior year of highschool because I helped a classmate write her term paper. First sex was the following weekend with the same girl at a party, and the second time having sex was with a female friend my freshman year of college who was ostensibly a lesbian and wanted to experiment with being straight. If you ever do meet Ms. Right, don'…	/r/seduction	04/05/19 05:45 AM
3	I wanna give this guy a blowjob What in the sweet hell did I just read?	/r/seduction	04/05/19 05:39 AM
2	Not sure what to say next. Please help F	/r/seduction	04/05/19 05:34 AM
2	Feminine sexual strategy is presumed wholesome, male sexual strategy is a-priori vilified. Any sort of imbalance is encouraged when it favors women, extremely evil otherwise, and never their fault even when directly resulting from their actions. Okay, that I can accept as a response.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 05:21 PM
2	Feminine sexual strategy is presumed wholesome, male sexual strategy is a-priori vilified. Any sort of imbalance is encouraged when it favors women, extremely evil otherwise, and never their fault even when directly resulting from their actions. Except at least two posts above literally say "women will never date a less educated man", and those are just the ones I've seen. That's why I made the statement. Preference, sure, but the posters said the words never, so you cannot say "nobody claims" that to be the case. Clearly somebody does.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 05:19 PM
3	Feminine sexual strategy is presumed wholesome, male sexual strategy is a-priori vilified. Any sort of imbalance is encouraged when it favors women, extremely evil otherwise, and never their fault even when directly resulting from their actions. I've never understood the 'women never consider a lesser educated man' part of TRP. Perhaps I'm only experiencing a large volume of outliers, but to my view women only care about looks and money. I know a lot of well educated women, as I have two masters and a PhD. Most of them do indeed date someone with at least a BA or BS, true, but a sizable percentage are with men who have no higher education, and a few attractive trophy boyfriends who basically work menial jobs but are otherwise dead broke…	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 04:30 PM
5	Feminine sexual strategy is presumed wholesome, male sexual strategy is a-priori vilified. Any sort of imbalance is encouraged when it favors women, extremely evil otherwise, and never their fault even when directly resulting from their actions. The push towards encouraging 'lipstick lesbianism' over the past two decades is, in my view, likely a mechanism to account for this imbalance. The idea is that women cannot expect reasonable pairing with the upper 15-25% of males, but anything below that grade will never be acceptable. To ensure women's emotional and physical needs are met, the excess can be encouraged to pair with other females. I started considering this hypothesis when I noticed the large volume of women who engage in same-se…	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/19 04:18 PM
10	FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pill This completely. A man should own his feelings and put that shit out there with confidence. All he did was deny and cower in fear.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/19 06:01 PM
5	FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pill Things don't always go well, that's why we date rather than just marry. Still, like I said to the other responder, it's always better to be a man and just say what's on your mind. Even if it doesn't go your way, cowering makes you a pussy and reinforces those behaviors which are harmful in the long run. If part of the redpill is about reclaiming our masculinity in a society determined to suppress it, then we should encourage people to man up rather than bottle up.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/19 05:55 PM
0	FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pill From the sound of it, it's a group of friends. And what's wrong with saying it in public? The guys embarrassed because he's inexperienced, I get it, I was a teenager once too. Still, if I knew then that having a pair and just saying what's on your mind is all women want you to do, I'd have had a lot more fun back then. While I do agree that women collect orbiters gleefully, women don't tend to humiliate friends in a mutual group and only call out like that when they're wanting an affirmative res…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/19 05:46 PM
3	FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pill No, you dolt. I'm referring to the being in love with her bit. No one actually baits like that unless they're hoping for an affirmative response.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/19 05:32 PM
8	FR - a Beta Orbiter swallows a red pill All I read here is that he didn't have the cahones to make eye contact and say "Yep, absolutely true" during the game. Odds are, that's what she wanted and now he's being a sad sap over the whole thing like an idiot. Even if rejected, which I highly doubt he would've been, it's always better to own your manhood and step up.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/19 05:27 PM