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Embrace it. Follow through with what you said. Open your mind up with no judgement and manifest it into existence. There's nothing wrong with being nervous about exploring sexually. However, since you flexed big dick energy, it's what she is coming to expect. Be bold enough to not care and do everything you said you were gonna do. She may get off on it. Deliver. Confidently.
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:50 PM
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Everywhere. Look around. Life is all around us. Stop looking at your phone and see it
/r/seduction21/09/21 10:02 PM
7

It's up to you to make it happen young bull. Ask her out. Look in shortys eyes and say "I'm going ___ you wanna come and chill?" See if she's interested. Don't wait. Don't hesitate. Shoot your shot and say "fuck it." See where it goes.
/r/seduction07/09/21 08:44 PM
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You can't force a woman to love you, or respond to you. By reading this, I can tell why she pulled back. You're more emotionally invested than she is. Stop messaging her, wait til she reaches out first
/r/seduction03/09/21 03:59 PM
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Pull back. Waaay back. Understand that she doesn't have that much time anymore. Which is why you need to stop pursuing so hard. She'll come to you. If not, you know where you stand at least. Take this as a lesson bro, learn from it. LDRs are tough... during the time you pull back, go back to your hobbies, friends, things that are about YOU. Not her. YOU. I hope things work out boss. Stay calm and keep your emotions in check no matter what.
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:11 AM
37

There you go bro. It's as easy as that. Use this experience as a building block and it will get easier and easier the more you do it. Live in the moment. This life shit is beautiful.
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:12 AM
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J. Cole - Dreams type shit. Give it a listen and stop that stalker shit. Grab your nuts and introduce yourself. If she rejects you, understand there's millions of women around you. Stop this manipulating bullshit. Either she want you or she dont.
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:11 PM
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Tbh, when a woman is non responsive, that's low interest. I typically move onto warmer women who actually want to talk to me. I reciprocate energy, she's cold? I withdraw. She knows where to find me if she changes her mind. Life is too short to talk to anyone who isn't excited to be around me and submissive. I'm the shit. Though I'm not entitled to anything, if she isn't treating me how I want, there's women all around me, someone else will, I can guarantee it. Different strokes for different fo…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:40 PM
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My boy finally broke free. Great job! I bet she was finally excited to break that 3 year tension too. Kissing someone you actually like and have real chemistry with flows different. Only gets better from here. Just make sure your game is always on point when it comes to the karate kicks. 👑
/r/seduction30/05/21 04:51 PM
2

By not giving a fuck. You let what she said get under your skin. Rebuild yourself and harden your shell.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:16 PM
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This is what separates secure men, and insecure boys homie. Brush it off or flip it back on her for a laugh. Your temperament is everything. Make sure they don't confuse your calmness for weakness.
/r/seduction09/05/21 03:53 AM
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I use humor. "Ew, Franky. Why does your eye go crooked like that? Are you looking at me or her?" "Because it has super powers. It notices that God awful personality and sees something far more interesting..." "You're such an asshole" don't be afraid to drop their self esteem to match yours. Hers may be a little too high.
/r/seduction09/05/21 02:53 AM
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Her: "We're not doing anything though" You: "aight". Bring a little wine and hit her with some finnese. They're wired like this, if you got game you can fuck, if not, you're gonna be the dude she tells her guy problems to and played with. Don't be afraid. Learn early and trust what a woman does, never what she says. That does NOT mean dont listen to them. What I mean is, women react emotionally so in any given moment a bitch can change on you from hot to cold almost in an instant. Just be aware …
/r/seduction08/05/21 05:44 AM
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Ehhh happens bro. You were honest and didn't stroke their ego. I respect it. Its refreshing to see dudes actually putting themselves out there also. 💪🏾👑
/r/seduction29/04/21 02:56 PM
1

Just reflect brother, medicine is harsh but this is what your guy friends should be doing with you, to make you better. 👑
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:57 PM
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I'm getting Black Philip vibes here ;) it's levels to this and they ain't ready Pimp. 👑
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:56 AM
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You care waaay too much. Reading this, all I hear is you being needy. Not to mention, this story sounds familiar from the one a few days ago... I said it there, ill say it her You're way too invested in this girl. This chick isn't jealous, she's annoyed you're still not getting the hint. You are her time hoe, this is why she wants you around as a FRIEND. Because you feed her ego, are there whenever she calls your phone for a favor, or worse keeps you on the phone for hours talking about her prob…
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:51 AM
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Sounds like she was flirty with you bro. Wait til you see her and ask her out. See how she acts... if she does the same thing, you're in.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:29 PM
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think that if I say I really like her after 30/40 minutes of actual social interaction up close would be weird. Correct. So don't tell her. She can tell by the eye contact and attention you're giving her. Just have fun and be flirty. Stop getting so worked up over feelings. You barely know her, so have fun and see what it turns into. Enjoy the ride, as far as a relationship, don't mention that either.. let her worry about the "feelings" and starting a "relationship" Just vibe. Break the touch ba…
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:15 PM
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All this intense eye contact and no conversation leading towards setting a date? You need to close asap. Idk why you're waiting so long. As more time goes, the more she'll lose interest because she'll assume you're scared. It's as simple as... "I'm going to grab a drink tonight...look her dead in her eyes with a smirk, you wanna go?" Just stop playing games and be direct. If she rejects you, next. Dont overthink. Just go with it and pay attention to what she does and how she looks at you. You'll…
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:47 PM
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Never wait. Go out and meet more beautiful women son, the world is yours.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:40 PM
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She implies it's as friends. Fuck this. Don't ever settle for a friendship if you have any sexual attraction towards her. If a girl is really with it, she's gonna make it easy for you. If you gotta work for her attention, she don't want you.
/r/seduction29/03/21 09:01 AM
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Stop hesitating like a little boy bro. Grab your nuts and ask her out for a drinks tonight. Strike while she's hot. You wait too long, she's gonna go with the next guy who has the balls to do what you're too afraid to do... Ask her out. It all starts there.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:40 AM
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Many won't understand how important this is. Essentially, you practice this enough and you can easily read IOI's and be more aware of those IOD's and react appropriately so things go in your favor more often. This is what "paying attention" means. At least to me. Listening, eye contact, etc., sounds simple... basic skills. Some don't want to work on these basic skills, so they will always struggle with reading social cues and maybe even women in general. This is why women manipulate so easily, b…
/r/seduction14/03/21 10:30 PM
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Society has switched the roles. Thats why. Now we have guys like you who think it's "the way" Men back then were respected, stoic bosses. Now, society has flipped the Masculine and feminine roles. Look how fucked we are Medicine never tastes good but it's needed.
/r/seduction10/03/21 12:43 AM
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You're caring too much. All this feeling youre putting into it is why she's pulling away. Start pursuing things outside of her... like a new chick. You care way too much about fucking this bitch and you are coming off as thirsty in a way. Pull waaaay back homie. Get some new pussy. Why? She knows you "need" her. If you're gonna continue with seducing, I'd stop texting. Start getting her to call you. Let her hear your voice. Build it from there with low tones, make shit natural. If sex comes up, …
/r/seduction10/03/21 12:31 AM
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Men are not emotional. Women are. Men are based on logic. "Cold" just means putting you, your happiness and assets over everything. Being aware of the games men and women play in general so you can finesse and come out on top. King shit. Cause we know it all trickles down from the King(you) and his foundation (mental/emotional control) if she got that.... its GG. Stephs personality just may not be for you. You should be listening to people who motivate you to be better. Nothing less.
/r/seduction10/03/21 12:15 AM
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That's probably because there has been a change in your core energy. A more masculine essence you are carrying. And covid keeping everyone inside has made everyone hornier. Take advantage. If shes choosing, don't hesitate. Ever. Always remember, "Closed mouths don't get fed"
/r/seduction09/03/21 06:04 PM
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While it's greatly appreciated and I do like the feedback, this is supposed to be more of a... "pay attention to social cues, they are ALWAYS there" essentially being more aware. Not a success story.
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:16 PM
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It depends on the vibe, but flirting is usually strong eye contact, light touching on the arm and carrying from there. I typically like to start slow though and build it. If we're in a group, I like to gauge her interest by being aware of what shes looking at if someone tells a joke. Most people look at someone they like when they're laughing. Teasing, light pushing, play fighting, etc., if you break the touch barrier first and shes/he is into you, she will continue to keep touching you in some …
/r/seduction27/12/20 12:27 AM
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Is it really "cliche" because people have heard this advice multiple times and deemed it to be so? Or is it because people don't want to put in the work it takes to get good at something and fully understand? "Aw not this shit again, here he goes saying the same nonsense with good guys vs nice guys." Realistically, until you've been the nice guy, and had your heart shattered because you were raised by other individuals who instilled the philosophies of society onto you, you won't want to change …
/r/seduction17/12/20 03:32 PM
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They are both two pieces of the same pie, but a majority of men eat one side or the other, but never balance the two or at least struggle on how to do so effectively. Definitely not a key, but it does play a role in your mentality as you're seducing a girl in my opinion🤷🏽‍♂️ What she thinks of you shouldn't matter anyway. The only thing that matters is how you make her feel in that moment.
/r/seduction17/12/20 02:58 PM
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The reasons are infinite imo. How you were raised is a huge factor, fear, insecurities, your environment etc., But because they are probably kids and don't care about the core issue enough to work on it themselves so I decided to simplify.
/r/seduction17/12/20 10:43 AM
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You're both playing games. Cut that shit out. Just be honest. You guys sound like kids, so just show interest with touch and eye contact. Personally, just by how this was written and the words you used, you sound like you're both playing and manipulating each other. Chances are he's a.) tired of your shit. Or b.) He's sexually inexperienced and doesn't know how to escalate things naturally.
/r/seduction17/12/20 09:58 AM
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This needs more recognition. This info, although now is considered "common knowledge" these days, we still got guys out here trying to be nice instead of good men. I've come to the conclusion that some men will never learn. Or just don't care to learn until their hearts shatter and they're miserable, staring at an empty bottle of whiskey, divorced and have lost everything. This is what happens when you follow society's rule instead of your own. Its sink or swim. Figuratively speaking of course.
/r/seduction17/12/20 09:47 AM
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Bro probably doesn't man. But we can't bash him. We need to teach these young bulls.
/r/seduction29/11/20 12:50 AM
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This fluctuates for them bro. They get hot and cold REAL FUCKING FAST. Hop on, nut up and don't think about it. Shes interested based on everything you mentioned. Go for it. Wait too long and you'll miss it
/r/seduction28/11/20 10:24 PM
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Your boy just gave it all away G. No mystery or anything. He sat there and validated her for absolutely nothing. To finish it off, the last line. am definitely a gentleman with my stuff together 😘🥰😍” She'll keep bro around on the back burner cause she knows "he'll support me" shits backwards. He sounds like every other scrub in her DMs. Like Ice T said "you gotta have a cold heart and an even colder dick" that line will eventually click someday. Id tell your boy to find another woman whos actual…
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:51 PM
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This is something so common yet so overlooked. Needs more recognition tbh.
/r/seduction26/11/20 07:19 PM
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And thats what happens when you fake that your "not interested" and play that retarded game. Don't be that asshole and confuse this guy more. If you're interested act like it. If your a dude, let it go. Nut up and make a move
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:15 AM
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take what you can imo I regret not Facts. Regret nothing. Closed mouths don't get fed boys. Nut up and flirt but don't expect shit. You can't pussy out if shes tryna put moves on you, meaning be aware. This is what bro means. Take notes.
/r/seduction23/11/20 01:22 AM
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Here come the simps feeding the troll. Yikes . average at best. You're trying too hard 🥶
/r/seduction23/11/20 12:45 AM
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Its not rocket science. Im just stating women think differently in a psychological sense. Most men don't understand this and they end up manipulated and played.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:27 PM
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It takes a certain type of guy to break a girl out of her shell. With that said, women don't think like we do. Most women (not just quiet girls) don't talk about anything important. Just random shit. You just sit there, listen, make eye contact and flirt. Those high vibe girls are amazing, but again, pretty rare. Those are the ones you can talk about the deeper sides of life with, those are the ones you look for. She just may not be into you and you sound like your ego has been bruised.
/r/seduction28/10/20 01:00 PM
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You guys care too much. She should be the one tryna impress you.. if shes choosing you, you dont gotta worry about shit
/r/seduction20/10/20 03:04 PM
1

Of course its not. Bro, you guys need to stop living living like robots. "Do I need to post how 'exciting' I am?" You dont have to do shit. Be yourself and focus on YOU and your mission. Social media isn't essential for seduction, all it does is give her a glimpse of you and it makes her wonder. Me personally, I could not care less what anyone thinks. If you're posting for you, good. But if you're posting specifically focusing on chasing pussy, you care too much.
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:34 PM
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You did it brother. You overcame a fear. Do this with everyone! Use this as a building tool for success. The next step is to avoid this texting bullshit. You did the hardest part, don't ruin that chemistry with MEANINGLESS texts. Texting isn't for getting to know someone. Texting is for setting a date, remember that next time for your future women. Get to know her on the date. It gives you things to talk about.. Reading this made me feel proud of you though bro. Congratulations . Always remember…
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:04 PM
1

Shes a cage for every ugly spirit bro.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:26 PM
1

Heeere we go.
/r/seduction30/07/20 08:58 AM
1

Ya really wildin. If she's choosing just approach. If she's choosing, she wants you to come up to her. Simple. If you doing your own thing she'll make it known or will waddle her stupid ass up to you and act retarded. You don't have to make shit weird.
/r/seduction24/07/20 04:33 PM
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"NO. Means no" but gasp "noooo, stoooop itttt, you're soooo bad" doesn't mean "NO!" -Bill Burr Read her body language. Most of the time you can see "NO!" Before it comes out of her mouth.
/r/seduction15/07/20 10:54 PM
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This guy does indeed have a point. But this is only after flirting for a bit, where she's comfortable with you already. Seduce her with eye contact, Be smooth with it. Its not creepy if the person is reciprocating. Chill tf out. This me too shit got ya scared asf to be men around women who actually want you.
/r/seduction15/07/20 09:35 PM
1

Accept that failures do indeed happen, embrace who you are at your masculine core and realize that making excuses will only hurt you in the long run. Be honest, all while being confident within yourself and vibration. Manifest those "if I were" desires and make them happen. ✌🏽🤍
/r/seduction13/07/20 08:42 PM
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OooOoh Jeeeeesuuuuss🤍✌🏽
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:00 AM
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Dude as much as you feel that connection there, use that sexual desire and energy to fuck her. Don't get so hung up on feelings! MAKE THE MOVE!!!! I was baked and fell asleep when I wrote this and forgot to hit Post...sorry. DONT EVER HESITATE. EVER
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:03 AM
1

Better. All you gotta learn how to say "soy de los estados unidos"
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:42 PM
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I loved this response. Thank you. Maybe you're right. 10+ years dealing with shit you think is "normal" until you love yourself and step back and realize yo this shit is toxic. It changes you. Thankfully I was able to walk away before it was too late. Some dont even get the second chance after being dug so deep in that "hole"
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:24 PM
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Thank you boss! I made this entire post insanely cocked. It wasn't til I sobered up with my sativas that I realized how pathetic that shit was so I deleted it. I appreciate it man. Sometimes you gotta be a dick so they remember to respect you when you walk away Stay healthy out there brother and chase that purpose!
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:32 PM
2

"I gotta see what I'm up against, you show me first ;)"
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:01 PM
2

I moved out and she found a new boyfriend. Been dealing with this girl for over 10 years and she always comes to me when things dont work out. I'm her fall back guy, I do agree since I was drinking maybe I was a little sensitive at the end, but this was the first time I've ever rejected her advances. It doesn't show in the video but before I put her on ignore she called and messaged me twice from her different facebooks. Shes generally hot and cold but when she texts its like this. I distanced m…
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:48 PM
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Very. Especially if you're American, dude 😂 This is coming from a Dominican who lives in America., When I went back they were all around me. Women you dont even know putting their arms around you, biting your neck and shit. Its easy because you're like an opportunity to them, almost like a meal ticket. I personally didnt give a fuck and gamed a few with my broken ass spanish and within an hour and a half, the hottest one of 4 women that night was getting it in every angle in the cabana If you're…
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:14 PM
1

I believe you played it how I would have. Reading this, I was also thinking "what a shit test, is that all ya got you dumb broad?" Dont text her. Let her reach out first. She sounds like shes keeping you as a potential option for when her soft ass boyfriend fucks up, then shes gonna find any excuse to be a slut, I guarantee you'll be that guy, if you dont fuck up and fall for this stupidity shes pulling. Regardless, I think you did well. What do you guys think?
/r/seduction12/04/20 06:33 PM
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Be different then. You're getting left on read because you're messaging them like every other guy would. We're talking about a girl from another country here's It really is as simple as a hey. The issue is your social skills. With practice you'll deal with this a lot less. Edit,: if shes giving one word answers her interest isnt high, which is why she isn't responding.. that's just how they are
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:27 PM
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Dude theres nothing to think about. It's as simple as "hey" She's from another country, so keep it simple. Dont try so hard. Go with your personality. For instance, I'm typically the funny guy who cracks jokes about anything. Cause that's what I'm like in reality. I'm just being myself. A girl had posted a selfie on Facebook which is rare rn so I decided to DM her. I said something off the wall like "you're pretty cute, too bad I'm not into blondes 🙄 Turns out it worked. We just talked, laughed,…
/r/seduction06/04/20 11:57 PM
3

I completely agree. I honestly just might take a page out your book bud. Perfect time to take your advice and try to get rid of the man tits🥴
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:56 PM
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I respect the free spirit. Get ready for all the simps to comment like they never seen a pair of tits😂 the things you girls are willing to do for attention is just adorable🥴
/r/seduction01/04/20 02:24 AM
1

Try foreplay, like the other comment suggested. It's one of the most, if not, the most important part when it comes to sex. Warming things up, teasing your partner, getting them to REALLY want you is what makes it more enjoyable. If your partner does this, I'm sure he can make you cum. Hes gotta read your body language and adapt accordingly to what you like and dont like. It's you and your partners job to keep it exciting. Try new things and experiment. If you guys are comfortable together and h…
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:13 PM
3

Let it go. You're her fallback guy. Be cold to her. Open your options up with other women. If the sex was decent, focus on acting quick and smash her without hesitation before she goes cold again. Shes getting all this attention from numerous men, stand out and lay it down right. I personally wouldn't even bother. Too much work.
/r/seduction26/12/19 05:50 AM
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Shes bitching when shes doing the same thing you are. Ya not dating exclusively. Let her think what she wants. She knew what she got into when the shit started. Dont stop shit just cause she gets pissed off. Shes pulling double standards like a motherfucker. Whether shes your favorite or not, keep doing you. If she wants exclusiveness she gotta dead her ties too. She just dont like competition regardless what you tell her. That's not your issue.
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:19 PM
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you wasted your time texting son. Should've just set up a date. Texting isnt for getting to know someone. You were legit talking about nothing. Tbh I got bored too reading this. Harsh truth bro, you'll get the ring next season. In the meantime work on your game. EDIT: Do NOTHING. you see her at work just keep it chill. No need to fret or get emotional. EVER. That's what women do.
/r/seduction21/12/19 09:34 PM
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Anywhere you see women. Anywhere. Everywhere
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:03 AM
2

Dont focus so much on type kid. Talk to everybody. Be more flirty with the girls you do find attractive. Talk to the fat girls, skinny girls, shy girls, popular girls, the known sluts at your school (be a little extra flirty on those kinda girls, if you play your cards right you can smash pretty easily. Point is, talk to EVERYBODY. You cant work on your game if you're not social and putting yourself in circumstances to do so. Until you're old enough to yo more places and be selective with women,…
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:37 PM
1

That's fine brother. Even if you like her, you are single RIGHT NOW. the girl dumped YOU. Go out and work on yourself. Have some fun with friends and maybe take a few women out to dinner. Chances are she will contact you. I dont think you fucked up too bad. Not saying it's a guarantee she will, if she doesn't tho, walk away and appreciate the experience. Best of luck man.
/r/seduction24/10/19 05:53 AM
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Go no contact. Shes made up her mind. She ended things with you whether she was honest or not. You were the one who got dumped. Dont text her, dont call her or anything. During class just talk to your friends and have a good time. You're in college right? Do college shit. Talk to other women, go on dates. Whenever she decides to contact you just keep it light. If she wants to meet up let her know you're busy, (which you should be if you're out with friends/other women) and reschedule. You should…
/r/seduction24/10/19 05:36 AM
3

Honesty dude. "Fucked my back up at work, or I was born with a disability so i dont work. I still got a mean stroke game in the sack though, if you were wondering ;)
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:48 AM
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You'll be just fine bro. Just keep it up. Think about this logically: They may have history but theres a reason shes fucking you. History plays a role, but women think emotionally. If shes happier with you, the chances of her going back to her ex is slim. Especially if her ex doesnt know how to act. There must he a massive ?amount of attraction between the two of you so I don't think if you pull back when Shes away itll affect you. You say hes a "sure thing" for her? I disagree. Hes only got her…
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:54 PM
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Play it cool. Dont message until she messages you. Keep things just the way they are. You're killing the game right now. To he completely honest with you, whatever is going on with her and her ex, just be like "that's not my business" with a smirk. If I were you just keep sleeping with her til she goes on the overseas trip and back off completely. Let her chase you when she gets back. This seems like an absurd amount of drama. Let her deal with that bullshit. Ask yourself if shes worth it in ter…
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:49 PM
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Its the balance. Showing you care but also not taking any bullshit. Be firm but fun I guess. You dont have to be a dick.. although I use sarcasm all the time it's just my personality. You don't have to be cold all the time. If they seem distant, pull back, if they are constantly touching you and wanting affection, do it. If you feel in your gut you're doing too much, then pull back. Keep em guessing and wondering. You're fucked if you are too predictable
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:51 AM
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Bro I mean just in general. Unless your adding to that sexual tension, texting is pointless. Texting should be used for setting the next date or plans to get together. Not getting to know someone. You should be doing that in person. If she texted you first, assume she wants to see you and ask her out. Take advantage and strike while shes hot. Cause the more you text, the less of a mystery you are to her, which kills the magic. She'll lose interest and move on cause she'll think you're not man en…
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:50 PM
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They dont think. Ever. Men think logically, women do not. Everything they say is the opposite of what they do. And when they say "I like a guy who's nice, buys me flowers etc", its full of shit too. What those women are attracted to are men who are in their masculine energy. Who aren't afraid to put them in their place. She could say she wants a nice guy but who can respect a guy who's like a doormat? NOBODY! all that other shit? That abusive shit? Those are damaged individuals. Not men. And the…
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:28 AM
1

Instead of trying to be clever just ask questions about them. These women love to talk about themselves. Just let them talk and ask questions based off of what they say. They should be doing most of the talking anyway. Just vibe. You get some sluts who dont want a second date but you'll find it easier to get a second date if the attraction is there. Always try to build that sexual tension throughout the night. Work on yourself. Do spontaneous fun things so you can start becoming more outgoing, w…
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:15 AM
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He is flirting with you. (Eye contact, touching and closeness) if you like him back, make a move. It shouldn't always be the guy initiating. Give him your phone number. I'm a guy so what I usually do is ask a girl if she wants to grab dinner and a drink and get to know each other. Dating is all about fun. Dont be so uptight love, just have fun and vibe.
/r/seduction19/10/19 07:33 AM
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If you confirmed the date and they still flaked, chances are they weren't into you. I'd say something like "that's fine. At least we're not wasting any more of each others time. I'll go with someone else" or something similar with your own little twist. Shit happens. Find a new date instead
/r/seduction19/10/19 07:25 AM
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You texted too much bro. You killed any chance of her sleeping with you. Now shes gonna view you as annoying or even worse... her gay Male boyfriend. Dont be that guy. Anyway, she sounds like an attention whore, for her, you're just the guy she texts when shes bored. Talk to other women. If she had any interest at all, she'll text you first out of curiosity.. they all do when you start socializing and dating more beautiful women. As hard as it is to hear... girls like this do these things by lik…
/r/seduction19/10/19 07:03 AM
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There you go man. Woo her. Show her you're a different man compared to how you use to be. Court her like a boss. Just remember to stand your ground, make sure you dont put up with her bullshit and dont be afraid to put her in her place when she starts to test your confidence. All in all, just have fun with it. If shes interested just have fun with her. Dont ever bring up the relationship thing. That's her area. Leave her wondering where she stands with you, just like you would with someone new, …
/r/seduction19/10/19 06:25 AM
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To try and help everyone who's been in the same position as you, since changing, if you guys still text your ex (which I wouldn't recommend) it all depends if shes still showing signs of interest, if she does, ask her out for dinner. DONT MENTION GETTING BACK TOGETHER. PLEASE. DONT DO IT. let her have that convo with you. Just hang out, have fun and hook up if shes with it. Dont put that pressure for a relationship, that's feminine energy. Stay in your masculine and you got this. If shes not wit…
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:01 AM
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Your first mistake was being her friend. Dont ever befriend a woman you have attraction towards. You are in the friendzone. You also fucked up buying her shit. Shes not your girl. Dont spend a dime. What she says and what she does are two different things bro. This is gonna sound harsh, but you need to hear it. Shes seeing you as her gay Male boyfriend now. You fucked yourself royally. You are putting her on a pedestal she doesn't deserve to be on. She says she likes you, but does she SHOW you? …
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:35 AM
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Although its sarcastic, texting that is pretty weak. You sound like you're trying too hard. Sarcasm only works in person because it's all about the tone in your voice. If you write that you'll sound like a little bitch.
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:20 AM
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Read body language. Get her outta there. If she just met you and you're kissing her at the bar hit her with "you wanna get outta here" with eye contact. 9 times out of 10 shes giving you the "fuck me eyes" Anywhere else, just stay calm and in your energy and carry on the conversation and keep building that tension building.
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:54 PM
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Looks dont matter. If you have power, you have money and if you have money, she has security with you. Looks play no role in that scenario. The truth is, women dont know what they want. What they are attracted to is a masculine man with confidence. One who isnt afraid to put them in their place when they do their shitty test. I have plenty of friends who fuck beautiful women and guess what? They live check to check. One even survives off of Social Security and they are "decent" looking at best.
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:37 PM
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Whatever way works for you mate. You cant take it too serious, stop thinking about it. That nothing to lose attitude is gonna get you laid. Best of luck.
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:30 PM
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Simple. Go up to her and say "Hi, insert name here with a smile. That's the best opener on the planet. I like to go for the handshake to start and break the touch barrier as she usually responds, I usually linger there for a few extra seconds all while making eye contact and smiling.
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:26 PM
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Like others have stated, use texting to set up the next date. It wasn't til about two years ago that I fixed one of the main flaws in my game. I use to text all the time. That kills the chemistry you develop with someone in person, along with killing a lot of the sexual tension you may have created when you both met. Phone calls and texting should only be for setting up dates and trying to get together. More than 90% of men have this mentality. So dont be afraid to show her you're different. Eve…
/r/seduction06/10/19 10:42 PM
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This is the greatest comment of all time. The amount of truth to this is astounding. Listen to this man. Women love this direct, masculine behavior. You guys shitting on him fail to look behind the true meaning of this message. Send her a picture and write your number underneath. Send her a snap and keep it casual. If she sends you a sexy snap back, ask for her number and continue from there. Just dont be the guy to keep sending her snaps. It gets boring. Set the date ASAP. the phone is for sett…
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:47 PM
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I think you are 100 percent right. I cant stand girls like this though, I wish a majority of you women were more direct. On a more positive note, that built up tension would be an unforgettable night :) Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:27 PM
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Thanks boss 💪
/r/seduction28/09/19 06:34 PM
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