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TheBigForklift/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:04 PM
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TheBigForklift/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:52 AM
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I went to sleep at 2 yesterday until 6. It’s a rare occurrence but I’d been working on a long project for about 10 - 13 hours a day for the last six days. Either way, people take long naps. It happens. Try not to read much into it. If you can’t trust her now when she says she is sleeping, you should just go next.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:15 AM
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I mean people actually go to sleep.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:54 AM
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A lot of dudes have made them regret having their own agency before. You don’t suppose that’s why a lot of women have their guard up ?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 10:16 PM
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I guess I’m asking why that matters?
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:19 AM
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He’s going to keep messaging, and yes she does like the attention. It’s human nature. That’s not disrespect. If she went to his house and sucked his dick, THAT would be disrespectful to you.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:31 PM
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Bro, you should see a therapist, like for real. First of all, why would you be mad or upset at someone for having sex with your girl before you two were together? What did he do wrong? Second, even if it was reasonable for you to hate or be mad at this other dude, what exactly would it accomplish to tell him this? Just let him be the depressed beta bitch boy. Third, if you do tell him this, what do you think it’s going to accomplish? You wanna make someone else feel shit over YOUR insecurity? Th…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:25 PM
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No one “owes” you respect. The sooner you realize that, the easier you’ll be able to command your frame, game, and life in general
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:14 PM
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“Prior taste for black men...” So you’re upset that your gf used to also like black dudes? That seems...oddly specific. What’s that all about?
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:10 PM
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Then you made the right call. I’m fine with a bit of cannibis/drink as long as it’s in moderation and you don’t act like a douche when you use them.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:06 PM
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You should have been wayyy more forward. You know you guys are both out and what you’re looking for. She called bullshit when you tried to hit her with the same question her Uber driver says ESPECIALLY if you guys are already familiar
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:04 PM
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No, it could be just because you personally are a lazy piece of shit with no drive or motivation. That kind of thing.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:00 PM
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Your best bet is to keep it simple and ask her out on a date using the word date. Try to avoid attempting to read “signals” or “signs” or “hints” Just be straightforward with what you want from people.
/r/seduction01/11/18 09:02 PM
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Laser tag/batting cages/go karts
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:08 AM
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Use your street smarts when it comes to the issue of consent. You want to understand that she’s okay with what you’re doing for sure. Be smooth about it of course, but don’t be stupid to deliberately do something that she has told you she isn’t okay with. It isn’t worth jail or accusations to begin with. If someone wants to say that’s really so beta or bp whatever, I don’t really care. As far as asking what she likes, it depends on your motive. If it turns her on to talk about the shit she wants…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:01 AM
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At first I read this as “pro lifer”
/r/askTRP12/09/18 03:48 AM
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Not even citing political opinion here, but how do you figure that Obama is beta? This post most definitely needs more reasoning.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:27 PM
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She’ll see through this
/r/askTRP07/09/18 06:34 AM
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This is fair. I had a fun time but there’s no need to press it at all.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:13 PM
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So basically, keep it simple. No confessions.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:12 PM
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As promised, I said I’d let you know about this, lol. Knows I have a studio session with a client about 15 away from her city late this week. Texted late last night. “Hey, are you still working with [client] later this week?” Me: yeah, what’s up? Her: “I’m hoping I can fuck you on this weekend? I just bought these brand new silk sheets I want you to christen.” I had a laugh at this. Either way I appreciate the advice man
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:11 PM
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It depends. I think the better question for both liberal and conservative anybody is, “does this person show flexibility and the ability to learn?” Someone having a particular set of beliefs doesn’t make them unfuckable/datable/whatever. Hell I’ve dated religious/Christian/Muslim/atheist/agnostic before and as long as you stick to your frame and let her go her own way it’s not really that big of a deal. The other question is are you guys getting married? Sharing finances? A lease? If not, you ma…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:01 PM
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“I’m a strong believer in equality.” Smile.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:57 PM
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Maybe to you... lol “faggot” are you 11, or 12?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:56 PM
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Some people sit while they pee for comfort, or they have a small bathroom, etc.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:29 PM
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This is exactly what I needed, thank you
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:27 AM
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I’ll let you know if I see her again. Literally making myself a reminder, hold on. If not, I’m sure I’ll live, lol.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:09 AM
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Yes, I said it as just a run of the mill item, but I felt it would stew for awhile. People’s minds tend to make unfounded connections. “So he was with two hot foreign girls and partying...” I guess what I’m wondering is this over the top or effective at all? Basically just need feedback.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:59 AM
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Oh, I didn’t know you were the keeper of all things beta and alpha, I’ll be sure to always ask your permission in the future before I use drugs
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:54 AM
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Besides doing things like lifting, exercising, and eating correctly, if you suffer from chronic anxiety, I would recommend talking to your pastor or better yet a trained counselor who uses DBT as a therapy type. I tried this a few years back and it really helped my life out a lot especially for confidence in myself and learning to deal with high pressure situations. And before anyone says therapy and counseling is beta, I don’t care because it worked for me
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:30 AM
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Not gonna lie, I definitely laughed at the use of Incredibles 2 as an example. Like, no shit. To answer your question, I enjoy what I enjoy. If people think it’s feminine or liberal or too manly or this or that I don’t care. If I enjoy it I enjoy it. That said if you don’t like something just don’t watch it. Doesn’t matter what it is. If the only reason you do or don’t do something is because people on the internet tell you, you’re just weak. Also side note: I can’t watch the good doctor because…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:23 PM
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Escalate at the pool. That’s pretty much the perfect place for kino
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:50 AM
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Watch that scene in Hitch. That’s really all you need to know.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:29 PM
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You just have to own it. Fuck lifts. Fuck height gatekeeping too. Who cares how tall she is? I’m 5’6” and it took me the longest time to get over that insecurity, but once you understand that humans look weird as hell, you’ll laugh at all the short jokes. Hell maybe you’ll make a few of your own
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:22 PM
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Nah, you’re good buddy. It’s friendly. If you’re unsure though, think of a different pet name like tiger or sport and call them that
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:56 PM
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Get your blood work done. Check for testosterone especially. Also, talk to a professional psychiatrist about using mood stabilizers instead of antidepressants. Also take a two week vacation from porn and jacking off.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:00 PM
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I don’t think this is the best idea in this case. If he says this he will just look insecure for thinking about WK dude.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:37 PM
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I was just about to write this!
/r/askTRP21/08/18 10:21 PM
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You don’t try to top it. You do your own thing and ask her what works for her throughout the interaction. If you psych yourself out about what might have been good for her in the past, you’re going to lose concentration when you’re fucking her. Learn to see what works for both of you and is fun and go from there.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:40 PM
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I mean, I would look at you weird if you didn’t cry after this. And provided that she isn’t a psychopath, I’m guessing the same is true for her. As other people have said, there’s a huge difference between someone crying because they’re under pressure and can’t take it — thereby looking weak; and someone who experiences a traumatic event such as a crash, a sexual assault, or a war zone and has an overflow of emotion and adrenaline. This is normal. Basically what I’m getting at is if your relatio…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:33 PM
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This is exactly what I’m looking for, thanks!
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:21 PM
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I’ve heard this before but I have yet to see an actual study that verifies this. Nothing against you personally but we do no good for ourselves by making scientific claims with no evidence
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:11 PM
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Yes, exactly. She knows you have a phone that you check, so there’s no real point in making her wait especially when she probably has 10 other guys she gave her number to in the last few days.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:56 AM
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She may mean play it by ear in terms of logistics. So, “I believe I’m off Friday so I believe I can hang out but let’s play it by ear.”
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:37 AM
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Roll with it and realize you are gonna make mistakes at first. Basically be able to not take shit too seriously. Tell her you want to explore with her or something cheesy like that.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:33 AM
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I think the best way to avoid any trouble is honestly to check in with her throughout the interaction to see what’s good, what she does like, make sure she’s comfortable etc. I try to do this both verbally and non verbally. Besides being a good idea from a legal standpoint, you’re also building trust with her in sexual territory which is good. I’ve also had an experience where I hooked up with this girl. At one point, she freaked out for a second. Basically froze. I asked her if she was okay, sh…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:30 AM
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I was just about to say. He could have gotten clever with this.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:20 AM
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I’ve noticed it’s a regular thing. But it can be entertaining to just pass every one of them. And since I don’t shit where I eat I can look at is as practice, if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:18 AM
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I personally don’t care. It doesn’t matter to me as long as you’re tested + clean. I’m not sure what’s with some people’s fixation on this. It seems like it would be stressful to try to keep track of this. And then even if you can, you have no idea whether she’s telling the truth most of the time.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:15 AM
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That evening, maybe the next morning at the latest.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:12 AM
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This advice is solid
/r/askTRP12/08/18 02:22 AM
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Say less. Obviously don’t confirm or even deny over message. Talk in person.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 01:23 AM
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“You’re five minutes late.” “Oh yeah? We can make If ten next time.”
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:21 AM
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Good shit dude. You put your will out there and you made some shit happen. I’m kinda learning the same shit myself.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:18 PM
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I don’t know about this, it’s a pretty big stretch. Not only is your main claim here unfounded (“I’ve met a lot of women who...” isn’t really compelling evidence either. My other issues with this are that you don’t ever fully specify what a “unique interest” is. Like, if she takes a Jiu Jitsu (sp?) class or owns a copy of The White Album demoes on vinyl, is that unique, or are we talking about someone who has a split tongue and raises genetically modified bees for fun? Gotta be more specific. Se…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 04:35 AM
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No, the downvotes are due to bad information and not knowing what bipolar actually is. I had an English teacher that used to say, “write about what you know about.” OP probably could have benefitted from having him as a teacher.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 02:18 AM
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Actually, if you have depressive or anxiety disorders, you should lift and meditate and go to therapy and medication may also help. The disorders you described are not at all a black and white issue and “giving yourself value” isn’t as easy as you would like to make it. If you were able to cure your issues by making changes in your life without medication or therapy, awesome. But this post kind of reads as, “your legs aren’t “broken”, you just need to get off your crutches and take a run.” Altho…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 01:26 AM
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I had a mentor who told me two words a few years back that have been extremely powerful in my life and apply to most situations. Doesn’t matter if its women, police/government, parents, anything. “Say less.”
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 12:26 AM
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I originally misread the last part but very good call! And you’re right, you don’t owe her shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:13 PM
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So I’m somewhat new here. Posted a few comments here and there, but just learning at the moment. Two questions for you: (a) what would you suggest those guys to actually do in that situation? (Besides have standards) Even if you have a plate/fuckbuddy/ltr, who is to say she also does not have plates? (B) kinda a follow up, but is it unreasonable to say that If roommate can get three dicks into her room in that amount of time, that 7 you got with could do the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:49 PM
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I think these are good points. One thing I’m working on is keeping my head up and thing of myself in a positive light vs freaking out every time a girl talks to someone else (I. E. In the club setting you described). It makes me feel badass and powerful, like I’m not gonna let stupid shit distract me from my goals. You also mention venting to your homie instead of your plate/not showing weaknesses. I have a girl in a nearby city that I got with recently. She has some pretty severe anxiety and we…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:14 PM
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Brand new here. Learning little by little. Talking with a girl on Tinder, she’s 18, I’m 24. After some conversation, she says “what are you looking for in a gal?” Basically I want someone who is a bad ass chick who has her own thing going, is intelligent, driven, ambitious. Be into me but not so much that we both can’t focus on our own projects and killing shit I’m looking for suggestions on ways to answer this in a way that “sounds good”. I’m new to tinder as well, I’m a lot better at “talking”…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:47 AM
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I stopped adding sugar to stuff a few weeks ago starting with the morning coffee. Also replaced shitty snacks with fruits. I actually sleep a lot better and don’t wake up feeling like I got hit by a truck needing that “fix.” Crazy how addicted the mind can get.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 12:58 PM
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Yo, thank you for writing this. Long time lurker. I need to unfuck myself too. I’m on my way little by little.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:25 PM
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