TheBigMan1990 Archive

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1	[need advice] girl probably lying to me about illness to get money from me In some ways… at least you know. Sorry in advance for the long story, but… I met this girl at a gas station a state away who convinced me to give her a ride, long story short-we ended up hooking up and exchanging information. For the next couple years after we’d text each other pretty regularly and periodically I’d pick her up and take her on a date and then bring her back to my place and we’d have sex. She would occasionally hit me up for money, stuff like “hey, could you send me $20 for an ube…	/r/seduction	15/06/26 07:49 AM
2	Is everyone getting laid? Yeah, if I was 20 I’d be able to give you an exact number too. I’m in my 40s now, for the last decade or so I’ve mostly been finding youngish girls on the apps to be something between a fwb and a sb-I usually have at least a couple that I’m seeing at a time and some of them get cycled through pretty fast so they can kind of blend together to an extent, although like you if I met one in the city I’d probably recognize and remember them, maybe I wouldn’t always remember their name though. On top o…	/r/seduction	07/06/26 04:06 AM
1	Do you think a relationship can be the same after a threesome I’d be down if my gf asked. The odds that this is click bait are high… but in the event it isn’t 🤷🏽‍♂️ lucky you, you’ve got a loyal bf, he just wants to fuck your friend-but he wants to do it on the up and up, lol. Whether or not it will change the dynamic in your relationship depends on who you are as a person, and who he is as a person, some couples it’d be fine, others it wouldn’t.	/r/seduction	21/05/26 09:25 AM
1	For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you? It depends-I think you are over simplifying it a bit. Thinking about dating apps, the 9/10 guy with no personality will get exponentially more matches, but his conversion rate (match to meetup) will be a lot lower, and he will lose a lot of the girls that he meets up with before he closes. There aren’t many girls out there who are just going to come over and jump on a guys dick, a lot or going to want to go out and do something first, or at least hang out for a bit before getting to sex if they …	/r/seduction	02/05/26 07:35 PM
3	For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you? The height does help, I’m a 7 at best, like a low 7… but I’m like 6’8. I sometimes wonder if some of the girls who I’ve slept with in the past almost did out of novelty-it’s like sleeping with a giant. Especially because despite being really tall, I tend to be attracted to short women-and I’ve found shorter women tend to be more attracted to me, no idea why-maybe it’s biology trying to create offspring that return to the mean.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 06:53 PM
1	For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you? Because when he slides into a girls DMs he can get his pitch out before the girl just rejects him outright. But if he is mostly shooting messages to younger ladies (thinking like 20-25, nothing gross or illegal here, hopefully), the “I might not be very pretty, but I’ll spoil you” will get some responses.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 06:43 PM
2	For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you? Yeah, I think guys put more thought into their looks than is really necessary. As long as you aren’t like actively unattractive, you’ll be fine if you are confident, fun, and funny-those 3 will get you way further than looks ever will. Also honestly, age, I’ve matched with way more attractive 20-30 year old women as someone in his late 30s/early 40s than i ever did when I was the same age as most of the girls I was swiping on. I am solidly mid-but I know how to have fun, and have a solid sense o…	/r/seduction	02/05/26 06:35 PM
1	First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice. She probably wasn’t vibing nearly as much as you were… girls are pretty good at “faking” it if they aren’t feeling it. Also it really is too bad that there isn’t secretly someone recording the interaction so they could watch it back-often when someone thinks that they are “effortlessly vibing” it’s because they actually hijacked the interaction and spent most of the time doing the talking. When there is a date where the talking is split like 90-10, people often don’t realize that in the moment, …	/r/seduction	16/03/26 07:00 PM
0	Is it common that fwb girls will be monogamous with a guy even though you're seeing others? Are you asking them if they are? The correct answer is it depends on the girl.	/r/seduction	03/03/26 11:19 AM
5	Where do horny women go when they want to find a man to sleep with? Yeah, most of them have a bunch of dudes in their DMs or guys they’ve matched with on dating apps to choose from. They can pick one of those guys who is relatively attractive, and who came up with a message that was actually funny/witty/clever, and who is willing to take them for a drink/coffee/dinner first to see if they are actually as cool as they present themselves online… and if they pass, they can head back to his place/her place/hotel where she can get piped. And that is if they need to f…	/r/seduction	09/02/26 07:23 AM
3	to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself. I’d probably try to get a laugh or a smile before I even approached, like I might make eye contact and pretend to be distracted by her and walk into a wall, but make it exaggerated so it’s obvious that it’s a bit of a show. You said she seems to be vibing to the music… I might loosen up a bit and let myself dance along and then pretend to be embarrassed when I “notice” her there. Then when I approached I’d probably make a funny little quip-like an “is this the cool kids section” or a “hey don’t …	/r/seduction	03/02/26 10:30 AM
3	Anyone try pulling a stripper? I agree… based on the couple strippers I’ve known, and occasionally hanging out with some of the people they stripped with, a lot of the stripper stereotypes are honestly come by🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	25/08/25 06:03 AM
1	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy Definitely, actually generally don’t have problems with girls coming with a lot of expectations to be met… but a lot of women in their 30s don’t realize that me starting to date them now isn’t the same as we started dating or were married in our 20s and built this thing together. I find a lot of women in their 30s have an unearned sense of entitlement, which makes it hard to carry out any kind of long term relationship with them. I was more saying that going out with an 18/19/20 year old as a 40…	/r/seduction	19/08/25 11:22 PM
-1	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy Go for it, lol, who cares what people think. I’m definitely not the guy to ask though, my last gf and I started dating when she was 19… I was almost 40. Depends what you are looking for though-if you are wanting a deep/serious relationship… you are probably more likely to find it in someone closer to your age, but at 32 I’d say anything 25+ is close to your age. And it isn’t impossible to find something deep and meaningful with someone a lot younger than you-just less likely.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 08:09 PM
2	Why do women like older guys so much Or ending up matching with someone out of their age preferences after they went through all the guys in their set preference range. Or matching with someone who wouldn’t have normally been shown to them, but they sent a like, or a message. I’m in my 40s, and I match with plenty of women aged 20-28 on hinge, but almost never “organically” it’s almost always women who I sent some quip to as a like already. I also understand how wildly anecdotal that ⬆️ is, but that has been my experience. I do ten…	/r/seduction	26/06/25 06:26 PM
1	Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women? Honestly, in my experience, it goes: 1-charisma 2-humour 3-looks 4-money They all kind of compliment each other, like it’s much easier to be charismatic when you are attractive (life ain’t fair, I know). And money can definitely seal the deal, but the average looking, average income dude who’s either really charismatic or funny will have no problems finding attractive women to date and/or hookup with.	/r/seduction	21/04/25 05:45 AM
2	She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatched It’s also totally possible that the profile just got taken down. If they were a scammer, you probably weren’t the only mark-and if enough people reported the profile…	/r/seduction	17/03/25 12:02 AM
2	She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatched I dunno, I’ve been propositioned a handful of times on dating apps. It’s never as direct as “Hey, wanna have sex” or anything like that, but it’s not like they were crazy subtle either. Although the above scenario does sound super scammy-it’s just as likely (if not more likely) that the profile got kicked off of the app rather than she unmatched the OP. Although it is possible that it was real. I once had a girl ask me to come over because she was feeling frisky-and I came up with a flirty versi…	/r/seduction	17/03/25 12:00 AM
3	How to bail? Just chat her up, give her a couple compliments, have some fun. It’ll be more meaningful for her if she isn’t super attractive, a stunner gets approached all the time, but she probably doesn’t-you can be a bright spot in her week. Also conversational skills are built through repetition, so enjoy the freebie-you don’t need to exchange information at the end of the exchange.	/r/seduction	31/08/24 05:16 AM
9	Setting up a hookup from tinder matches? Totally depends on the gal, last week I matched with a girl on Tinder. After exchanging some flirty messages I was getting a vibe from her that she would be down for some casual fun, so I invited her over for a drink in the chat in the app. She was down so I got her address, went and picked her up, brought her to my place, had some drinks, went to bed and had some fun. She was a lot of fun too, woke up with my d*ck in her mouth, she just said that that is every guys favourite alarm (I don’t disa…	/r/seduction	28/02/24 10:20 AM