TheBlueStranger Archive

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5	Physically attractive women are hard to talk to From my experience I'd say it's mostly in your head. Once you have the mindset that the girl is intimidating and difficult to talk to it makes it actually feel that way to you and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Also she senses the vibe that you give off and will mirror it by actually becoming less comfortable in your presence and more difficult to talk to. In reality all women are similar as people, and are just human beings like you and me and their friends, each with their own complex hum…	/r/seduction	05/08/14 06:08 AM
2	So I'm getting a bunch of numbers now but no dates. Can't tell if it's an issue with my texting or the interaction itself. Flakes are usually not a texting issue. 90% of the time flaking it due to not having done the work properly up front when you talked to her. Yes you may have provoked mild interest, enough for her to give you her number (which is pretty easy for her to do), but not enough to sustain her interest in you a couple of days later when you try to make a date. To get a lot less flakes you need to learn how to improve your game up front. That means better and more engaging and compelling conversation an…	/r/seduction	05/08/14 05:54 AM
2	Made a short infield daygame video Cute video, and thanks for posting it (seriously), but without sound or an explanation of what you did or how you did it, it doesn't do much for the group in terms of teaching better game.	/r/seduction	05/08/14 05:43 AM
1	Need advice on girl You're answer may be here: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10152552203017365	/r/seduction	05/08/14 05:25 AM
1	How do I get rid of the mentality that I am trying to prove myself to women? Don't think about it too much before you do it. The only way to learn to do this right is by practicing. Go out there, and focus on the girl and not on yourself and see what happens. You'd be surprised what happens, how much you learn about yourself, and how things change, once you go out there in the field and start doing things. If you've done this for a few weeks and you still have problems with getting rid of the "mentality", then come back and ask again. Your question (if you still have it)…	/r/seduction	04/08/14 04:33 AM
2	Do most women just wait for a guy to show interest? There are two sides to this: You need to practice flirting, and interacting with women in an intriguing and sexual way. Once you do this, women, from their end, will be more interested in you. You need to learn how to read women. There is a way to get a sense of how interested they are from the way they interact with you. For example, do they ask a lot of questions, are they excited when they speak, are they getting lost in the conversation or just getting stuck a lot, are they looking at you in…	/r/seduction	04/08/14 01:41 AM
1	Offering NYC daygame help I've a long-time practitioner, with ideas similar to what you write (I've even taught a few people). Lemme know when you're in the city and want to go out.	/r/seduction	04/08/14 01:15 AM
1	Two years of daygame in NYC with no results. Consider a personal coach. There is a lot you can do to improve, but it has to do with the specifics of your situation and how you approach women, what you do right and wrong and what you personally can do better. A personal coach can watch what you are doing and give you tailored advice. Just make sure you get the right person because many of the guys are just out for the money and aren't necessarily that good at this. Also, getting better at pickup and game is not just about approaching. I've …	/r/seduction	04/08/14 01:02 AM