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Nope. Noooope. There is no acceptable amount of this. Abuse is abuse, he is not a leader if he has to rely on violence to lead. Leave his ass.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 05:27 PM
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Idk why people are downvoting you asking for thoughts. But this way of thinking puts you in a very very vulnerable place. And unfortunately not all men who think they are ideal red pill men, are actually ideal red pill men. So it opens you up dramatically to being manipulated. I agree with the original comment- go to church even if you don’t have a faith, that’s a free place to learn how submissive women behave that’s 0 risk. Learn from them. See how they interact with the pastor, their husbands…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/26 01:29 AM
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I’ll be honest I kind of lost interest in reading after “he doesn’t have a job, and doesn’t want to pursue one that isn’t his calling” (paraphrasing). It’s perfectly fine to seek a calling, but someone who cannot support himself (and there are red flags here too, like wanting to move in after three months when he doesn’t have steady career options yet) IMO is a liability when we already have such limited time. This might be ok for like, a high schooler? But I wouldn’t have been on a second date …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/26 01:00 PM
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Hey! I’m also seeking this kind of material. I think, something like a 5 minute meditation would help. I already try to ground myself with what I hear, see, feel, but a similar exercise around one or some of these treats would help me “train” this frame of mind. Example- I’m in the process of losing over 100 lbs. because of my weight, it’s hard to find clothes that make me feel beautiful. I’m trying to nurture a softer spirit but being vulgar and funny is a coping mechanism so people like SOME p…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/23 01:00 PM
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I can’t remember where I read this, but think about where your dream guy spends his time. Is it in DND circles? Or is out on the golf course? Is he actively going to school, or heavily involved with the alumni org? Does he go to church at a liberal church, or a conservative one? Is he getting lost in a grocery store, or is he spending money on a cooking class to explore a budding hobby? Is he goofing off at frat parties, or is he at the late night library cafe taking a break from studying? I don…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 01:00 PM
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I think it depends on the App. Tinder? Of course, because tinder is the app built for the short term. I’ve found the most success with long term on paid sites vs the unpaid. There will always be a certain level of screening, but generally speaking there’s less riffraff on the paid sites.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 12:08 PM
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I disagree. If he is already not accepting of her past, that’s unlikely to change no matter how hard she works to be the perfect wife.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 07:49 PM
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Part of RPW is respecting yourself. Everyone’s got something they aren’t proud of and moving on from. I read a book I saw recommended here, “why men love bitches”. It came off really manipulative at first, with advice that encourages “the chase” , but looking back through it now, I think the messaging was more how to teach you have to ooooooze feminine confidence. I think it’s something you could benefit from now. Just because he changed your world view, doesn’t mean you won’t find more like him…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 11:56 AM
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Calls me every night, regardless of whether I’m on vacation, get off late at work, he hasn’t missed a day in a year and a half.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:12 AM
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I’m about to start this journey alongside you! Again, as you said it’s nothing against how he treats me now- but I have lost weight and gotten skinny before and the difference in how the WORLD treated me was night and day. The boyfriend back then was a hellish nightmare with serious mental health concerns so it was hell regardless of my weight. Right now, I think losing the weight (for me it’ll be around 100lbs) would improve his families stance towards me more than anything as the woman are all…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/22 01:06 PM
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Grab a sewing machine! There was a post not too long ago about learning to see. I started with latch hook, moved to knitting, and landing on sewing and quilt making because it’s the product lasts tenfold times longer than any knitted counterpart. Sewing does have a higher learning curve and investment than knitting. I would recommend starting with something like a table runner, coasters, or an apron. These are easy projects and once you’ve finished something, you’ll be hooked.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 12:07 PM
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Hi! I make clothes and quilts. It’s a great hobby to get into. Try to find a local quilt shop. They will often have classes where 15-25 folks (usually older women, they are usually like minded!) learn to sew at various skill levels. The one near me has classes for garments and for quilts. See if any friends or relatives have a sewing machine you can have. You don’t need something fancy to get started. The quilt shops will often sell refurbished or second hand models when they get “traded in” for…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 02:42 AM
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My partner is a big “quality timer” too. Big hits that are wallet friendly have been planning a picnic, walks on nearby trails. We’ve also looked at glassblowing demos, drive in theatres, bowling, Christmas light watching (if you live in Ohio/PA, Oglebay is a MUST), festivals, zoo, etc. We also have a long standing tradition of calling each other for an hour at the end of the evening daily, but that’s probably overkill for most guys.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 02:31 AM
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I appreciate the input, but per my post, I'm looking for a more tactful approach. Doyle's book has a good line about this....when you ask a man out, you forsake the very thing that makes you different from a man. She has examples of presenting it as "This park has a great view with the cliffs, it'd be a great spot for a picnic" To reiterate, my problem is more "we're running out of catch up content, how can I steer the conversation towards future endeavors"
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 12:47 PM
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Sure, but how do we get to that point in talking to each other? The issue isn’t date ideas, it’s how do I get us to where we talk about it without being blunt.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 11:23 PM
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Also use this journal, I love how free you are to make your own layouts but I concur that the artwork shouldn’t take up a significant amount of time. I use mine to drag me out of my low spots mentally and keep myself on target.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 01:23 PM
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I’m learning with you! I started at the beginning of COVID, just bought about $500 worth of fabric, 20 patterns and have been practice sewing on old bedsheets from goodwill. I just now feel confident enough to start replacing my wardrobe out- not only do they last longer (because of the material but also because I know now how to repair seams) but custom fitting clothing will ALWAYS trump fast fashion at the department stores
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/21 05:25 AM
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I'm not sure "chasing" is the right word here. I'm attracted to him because he is physically attractive, has stable plans for his life and where he wants that to go, is protective / dominant and seems to have a similar perspective on how a relationship should operate. He has trust issues, for reasons I won't go into for privacy. Because of those reasons I have tolerated some of the 'red flag' behavior until I got a better sense for how this affects his life (i.e., is this the general theme of th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 03:51 PM
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I don't think I've seen this suggested anywhere, but while RPW books like "Surrendered Single" were great mindset shifters, the book that actually has provided the greatest insight into actually CHANGING myself is "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg. It's a fantastic read for anyone looking to build some of the wonderful red pill "changes" into their lives and making it stick, like working out or keeping organized, focusing on a hobby, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 11:57 PM
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Oh man do I relate to this as well!! I haven't spent much time here, and my friends are all 3-5 years of friendships around people who are VERY feminist. In all honesty the only close friends I have haven't had relationships in years and are extremely bitter about the fact that I'm out there dating people. I've been considering joining a few rec center classes- if you've moved to a big city, those might be a resource to meet other hobbyists you share interests with (for example, I've signed up f…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 05:41 PM
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Thank you for addressing that fattier foods can be way more satiating- I've been on a high fat, low carb diet over the last six months and dropped 49.6 pounds thus far (so damn close to 50!!!!). I will also say that forcing yourself to meal prep and have a weekly budget makes eating right so much easier. If you give yourself a budget of 30 bucks, you won't be able to feed yourself with fast food, and you'll be forced to consider options like cucumbers, chicken and some pistachios. If anyone is s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 11:25 AM
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I'll be using cards from /r/theXeffect/ to do the following: Run for 15 minutes every day (Card started September 30th) Drop to 194 (Started 9/30 at 204.5, Currently 201) Finish the "Make the bed" card I started end of August Stop nail biting
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 03:16 PM
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I would try tracking it religiously for a week straight- you'd be surprised at the number of carbs and calories that sneak in. When I get lazy and the weight loss stops, my 'estimate' of 30g might actually be closer to 45 or 50g, and I've been doing it for almost six months.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 04:34 PM
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Would you recommend halting bedroom endeavors? That seems like a passive aggressive way of handling it once it's already started but I'm also new here :/
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 12:28 PM
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I'm doing Keto, -45 lbs in 5 and a half months. Paleo allows for more carbs than Keto. What are your macros on the Keto diet?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 12:16 PM
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I have a good example for you: I like knitting. There's not a knitting club in my area, but there is a quilting club that meets once a week. It's not my favorite per say, but if I'm looking to make friends, roughly half of the people interested in quilting will also be interested in crochet/knitting. So you would meet new friends by proxy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 06:59 PM
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in all honesty, there was a guy I was dating that introduced me to it. I googled who he was (he was extreme right wing, made comments about wanting to kill minorities, other crazy red flags) to make sure he wasn't a closet ax murderer, discovered his reddit account, and discovered Red Pill. From there, RPW. I gotta say, that whole debacle has taught me that even the craziest radical has something useful you can take away. RP's strategies was horrifying to me, but RPW hit home by showing me there…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 12:04 PM
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To bounce off of this, include more home cooking in your meals. It's easy to eat 1000 calories of iced mochas from mcdonalds, but 1000 calories of cooked brocoli would borderline rupture your stomach from the quantity. It's a lot easier to feel full on the right foods :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:23 PM
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ZUCCHINI PASTA. Seriously, it has replaced noodles forever for me, which knocks off about 400-500 calories off dinner time alone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:21 PM
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Some free-lancing can also be a higher paying alternative. I do Graphic Design on Etsy- I'm not formally educated, but I've worked with photoshop for years. I haven't been able to take it full time just because I worry it will be cutting it close with living expenses...but someone with kids could absolutely make a full time living out of it. It takes at most an hour to accomplish something meaningful a day, and since it's a digital medium you only make it once. It adds up
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 12:25 PM
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Meal prepped two dishes this week: Kielbasa and Sourkraut, slow cooked and put in glass dishes for work lunches, and slow cooked crockpot chicken quesadilla soup.... The soup ended up blowing in my face- it requires 8oz of cheese, and of course it never crossed my mind that processed cheese doesn't melt....so now I have to start that off from scratch again and figure out where on earth I'm going to get half a pound of fresh Monterrey jack cheese (certainly not at kroger!)
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 12:21 PM
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All excellent points. I haven't had cable or even a television in my apartment for five years now, I don't miss it one bit. I'm close to cutting out internet altogether- I pay for my phone through my parents (my mom got grandfathered into unlimited data plans for pennies). The biggest setback would be the online income I have (Etsy, ~30k a year) but as soon as I can configure a schedule hanging out at the library that compliments that platform, internet will be gone too. I will definitely look i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 12:18 PM
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Question...sorry if I'm butting in on this, but what do you mean by "two years and no ring and a date"? Is there some hidden memo about how long a LTR should last before tying the knot??
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 06:27 PM
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Fleece lined leggings!!! They feel like pajama pants and are super cozy, and look awesome paired with any skirt
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 12:14 PM
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Hi there! I'm also pretty new here, I'm normally lurking on /r/keto and I've lost 41 lbs (and counting) within the last four months. The way I set my mind on it is you have to convince yourself that food is fuel, not a way to pass the time. Drink a glass of water, look at those chips and ask yourself if that's REALLY what your body needs to operate right now....if you have to snack, physically make something food wise. Go shove a bundle of asparagus in the oven with olive oil, salt and pepper.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 01:40 PM
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