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True and that's why I don't agree with that advice if you want to maximize your chances of doing well with women. There are some strategies which have a higher chances of working than others.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:12 PM
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Good response. Yes, I'm aware of the technique but I wanted him to give more examples to help beginners and also share any field tested, proven lines that he has used. And not just lines which should work in theory but in reality haven't been tested.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:49 PM
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By the way, this technique does work and it's Swinggcat who made it popular but when it was originally taught it just meant complimenting a girl and then teasing her or teasing her and then complimenting her. Or giving her indicators of interests and then indicators of disinterest with your body language or in a subtle way. If you act nice and then start insulting her, it won't work and she will leave eventually and that is not how it was originally taught. Remember that almost everything we do …
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:28 PM
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This is a solid post but can you give specific examples that you've actually used or seen someone use? Some people's idea of pushing might be too far and some people's ideas of pulling could be too much. What is the right amount to use during a conversation? What are the best way to pull and what are the best ways to push? What kind of responses do you get? At what stage of the conversation should you use this?
/r/seduction16/12/21 03:39 PM
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True, I like the way you think. I analyse everything I do and test everything.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:34 AM
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Good analysis and what we need to see more of here
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:24 AM
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Techniques that work? Cold reading, teasing, sexual innuendo those are just a few techniques that work.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:22 AM
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That can work. The line I gave is tested and works well but yes, adapt it to the situation. For example, "I have to go now and I realize you're at work, so what steps can we take to continue this conversation later?" The line is not specific on purpose. We're just asking how we can continue talking to her. We're not asking for a number or to have drinks. She might say Instagram and if that happens you know you haven't generated enough comfort or it could be an autopilot response (it depends) or …
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:23 PM
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No problem. Promoting a business isn't allowed but if people DM me asking for private coaching then I'm allowed to offer them my services.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:57 PM
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The one thing I did was test every technique and talking to the so called experts and realizing that most of them don't know what they are talking about or can't do what they claim. That's why I test everything and only use and give my students high-percentage techniques.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:22 PM
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If people message me, I give them a lot of value for free but if it's something that requires a lot of my time (such as private coaching) then I don't do that for free and I give them their money back if they don't get the results they are looking for (which has never happened yet).
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:16 PM
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I specialize in seducing models on Instagram and I have managed to slide in the DMs of OnlyFan girls too. You don't need a lot of followers. At the moment, with my current methods, I'm able to to get 2 fashion models (with thousands of followers) to respond if I message 10 models. I've given my methods to other people too and they get similar results. Send me a message for more information.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:12 PM
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First of all, I don't suggest that close. It will trigger autopilot responses. You want to talk to her first and then use this line, "What steps can we take to continue this conversation later?". It's indirect and it's vague. It has been tested and it works well. Send me a message. I can help you.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:03 PM
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I don't recommend shows. Remember they are not reality. They are good for learning body language and personality traits but not for conversational skills (most of the time). What you need are field tested. proven, high percentage techniques. That's why I test everything. Send me a message if you want more information.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:01 PM
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This isn't a good idea. First of all, you're going to be triggering autopilot responses answering that way. Also IG and snapchat don't mean anything. There is another reason why this isn't a good idea too. You often see people get quick number closes on YouTube. One thing you must realize is that they don't often go anywhere. They are pumping their emotions and putting them in a positive and suggestible state but as soon as those emotions goes, they will realize that they know nothing about the …
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:55 PM
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Voice matters a lot. You don't need a deep voice but you do need to speak with emotion. If you have a monotone voice and you can't pronounce words clearly then that's going to be a big problem.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:44 PM
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The good news for you is that connection is easy. I can teach you that easily. It's about avoiding logical data driven conversations and connecting emotionally. Send me a DM for more info. I can tell you what questions to ask and avoid and how to respond to their responses.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:02 AM
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It depends. do not call her out. Regardless of what pick up artists say, it does not work. If she were your girlfriend then yes, you can call her out but she isn't so it's a completely different scenario. In my experience, when you call a girl out, it doesn't usually go the way you want it to go. I've never seen it go well. You said that she only liked your text. It might just be that your text didn't require a response from her. What did you send her? You can send me a direct message if you wan…
/r/seduction12/12/21 11:27 PM
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I understand what it's like. To become good with women it requires that you understand social skills, social intelligence, frame control. Most of the material out there is not good. It took a long time for me to figure out how to do well with women. Send me a DM if you want help :)
/r/seduction12/12/21 11:25 PM
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I like the idea of getting her to record you. Have you ever tried it? What were the results like? Also when you say, "Random gym talk" how did you transition from the opener to the "random gym talk" and what line did you use to close her? This is important to know for any newbie's reading this. It helps them understand your process and how you managed to effortlessly flow from opening her to having a conversation. Something a lot of people struggle with.
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:22 PM
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This is a good comment. But something I would add is that not everybody was good at this in kindergarten. Most people that get into the seduction community are very socially awkward/borderline autistic but I like that you gave him examples instead of just saying, "Socialize just like you did in kindergarten" or "Treat her like you did in the playground". The kind of advice that can easily be misinterpreted. The kind of advice that makes sense if you're already charismatic but doesn't if you neve…
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:16 PM
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Are we going to keep staring at each other or are we going to say hello?
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:14 PM
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I suggest hypnotherapy. It's more effective. A hypnotherapist can get results very quickly.
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:15 AM
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Hey, I understand how it feels to not understand women and quite frankly most of the advice you read from most "pick up gurus" does not work. That's why I created a system which will give you a step by step system to follow. A system that will make anyone charismatic. A system that will transform anyone into a natural. I test all my techniques so I know which techniques to avoid and to use. To do well with women it requires good social intelligence, social skills, frame control, and understandin…
/r/seduction01/12/21 12:11 AM
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Hey, I understand what you're saying. The problem with traditional DHV storytelling taught in the seduction community is that it can completely kill the energy of the interaction. You need to break it up and pause every 10 seconds. For example, You: "Blah blah blah" Her: Yes. You: "Blah blah blah" etc. Also doing one technique over and over again will get old fast, you need to switch between techniques. Even if it's only for a few minutes. Unless you have the most exciting stories in the world, …
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:03 PM
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The problem I see with a lot of PUA methods is that they give vague advice. I've tested a lot of the techniques and theories and quite frankly they don't work. Some of them do work but you have to get through a lot of bullshit to find them. If you send me a direct message I can help you.
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:52 PM
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Women are chaotic. They often have feelings about their feelings and they don't really know what they want. Basically, imagine inside her mind a massive internal fight going on. One side is telling her that she is interested in you and another part is saying that she isn't interested in you. Another part is telling her that you probably don't like her anyway. That's probably what's happening. She has to take a step back to process her emotions to go forward. When she takes a step back, you take …
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:10 PM
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I agree with this. There is so much bullshit in the seduction community. I won't name names, but most of the big pick up artists are frauds and can't do what they claim. I'm not saying that they are not nice people, most of them have good intentions, but they are not as good as they claim. There are definitely techniques that work but you have to go through a lot of bullshit and do a lot of testing to discover what works.
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:08 PM
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I completely agree!
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:31 PM
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Women are chaotic. They often have feelings about their feelings and they don't really know what they want. Basically, imagine inside her mind a massive internal fight going on. One side is telling her that she is interested in you and another part is saying that she isn't interested in you. Another part is telling her that you probably don't like her anyway. That's probably what's happening. She has to take a step back to process her emotions to go forward. When she takes a step back, you take …
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:28 PM
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I suggest you ask him for advice on an exercise you're doing or ask him to spot you. The best time to approach would be when he's resting between sets or before or after a workout. Generally speaking, most people don't like to be interrupted when they're working out so you're going to need to choose a good time to approach and a good reason too. Also regarding the following around thing, I won't judge you because we're not here to do that but here's what I will say to men and women. When you try…
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:06 PM
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There's no league, there's just the feelings she has for you. I've seen fashion models date guys that weren't high status, rich, or dressed well or had a muscular body or an exciting lifestyle. I've seen men in their 60s fuck 19 year old girls. I've seen fat men do well with women. Men that are average. All types of men. It's about how you make her feel. Looks build that initial attraction but when you approach and say hello, it's what you say next that will determine how she feels about you for…
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:01 PM
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I understand what it's like and that's why I started teaching. I wanted to create a system that would turn anyone into a natural. A charismatic man. Doing well with women requires a few things: social skills, social intelligence (very important) frame control, and a strong inner game. Send me a message and I can help you. It will take too long to explain here.
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:45 PM
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If you want to become good with women it requires learning body language, social skills, social intelligence, the ability to calibrate, and frame control. I can help you. I can tell you exactly what to say step by step and give you a roadmap so you know which direction you want to go in and which directions to avoid. Send me a direct message. I'll be happy to help. It will take too long to explain here.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:04 AM
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I agree with you everyone has different strategy they follow but some strategies will lead a number more often than other strategies. And statistically speaking, most pick up artists fuck only around 2% of all women they approach on the street. Why? Because they don't know what they are doing. I'm not going to claim that I'm a pick up god. I'm not. But I have seen some really really bad advice online. Advice that would get people into trouble. You have to be careful about which advice you follow…
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:25 PM
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The problem I see in the seduction community is that they give vague advice or advice that, quite frankly, does not work. If you want to become good with women it requires learning body language, social skills, social intelligence, the ability to calibrate, and frame control. I can help you. I can tell you exactly what to say step by step and give you a roadmap so you know which direction you want to go in and which directions to avoid. Send me a direct message. I'll be happy to help. It will ta…
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:04 PM
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Women are chaotic. The best way to handle this is to agree with her. Never get angry or snap at her. When you're dealing with resistance from a woman you either deal with it by agreeing with her, or using humor. In some cases you can ignore it or call her on her bullshit but in this case, this wouldn't be a good move. The best move you can make in this move is to agree with her and you will look like a completely cool guy. You can say, "I understand, I don't like to feel pressured either so let'…
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:58 PM
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I see why you're having problems. The issue is escalating. You need to remove that mindset of first asking for consent and instead look at her body language. Trust me when I say this. Guys that get laid do not directly ask for consent most of the time. You let the way a girl is reacting tell you if she is comfortable with your touch. You need to calibrate. I don't mean saying hello and then touching her breasts or ass. Do not do that. I mean small touches on the shoulder first. Friendly touches.…
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:05 AM
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It looks like your issue is closing. That is what your issue is. You need to be more sexually aggressive. Start touching women. That's the first thing you need to do. Research LMR and kino escalation. If you send me a direct message, I can give you specific lines to use and tell you where to specifically touch her.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:49 AM
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Let me ask you this, are you being funny, are you sexualizing the interaction, are you teasing them, are you touching them or are you just talking to them like you would with your friends and building comfort and rapport? Trust me, the issue is the way you're talking to them. If you're talking to them about rocket science, or talking about data instead of emotions then they will not have sex with you. One of the biggest lies in seduction is that rapport = attraction. It does not. Comfort (rappor…
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:56 PM
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You've got to think about what states you're putting women in when you're talking to them. It looks like the issue is that you don't know what to say when you talk to women. Your looks are not a problem. I've seen models go out with guys that don't have a nice car, or an exciting lifestyle or are rich or have a muscular body. So I can 100% guarantee that it's not your looks. Send me a message and I'll be happy to help you. I can tell you exactly what to say and what to avoid during a conversatio…
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:26 PM
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Use descriptive language. Stop describing things in data. For example, if you're talking about riding a rollercoaster, you wouldn't want to say that your heart can go 160 beats per minute and the fastest rollercoaster can go 150mph. You would want to talk about the anticipation as it goes up and up. You would want to talk about how you feel your heart beating with excitement and as it drops you're screaming with excitement. Do you understand? Descriptive language.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:59 AM
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I see what you're doing with the sexual compliment idea but it my experience It's much better to flip the frame so that they want you. You're the object of desire. They are attracted to you. For example, "You're just saying that because you're attracted to me", "Hey I noticed you staring at my ass, stop thinking about my ass, you naughty girl" "You look like you want to kiss me". Notice how we're not telling them that you're turned on (which in my experience does not work unless she is already r…
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:51 AM
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In this case, It doesn't mean anything. Sometimes they just give a heart if they can't think of a response. Her response was perfectly normal. If you ask her a question and she doesn't respond then that's a different story.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:40 AM
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Don't break eye contact. Let her look away first. Women give windows of opportunities. They will give you subtle signs to see if you're interested and if you don't notice them or take action when you notice those signs they will assume you're not interested or gay and they will move on. I'm not joking. Women are chaotic, they can go from being obsessed with you to not being interested at all very quickly. I suggest next time you see her staring at you you can say, "Excuse me, I noticed staring a…
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:36 AM
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I can help you. All I focus on is conversational skills. In my opinion, inner game gets talked about way too much. I can tell you exactly what to say and what to avoid. Message me if you want more info. It will take too long to explain here.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:10 PM
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No it's not weird. I suggest you say this, "What steps can we take to continue this conversation outside of here?" or "What steps can we take to continue this conversation later?". I suggest you avoid asking for her number directly, it could lead to an autopilot response.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:08 PM
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The resistance you might encounter just before you sleep with her. It usually not real resistance and she just doesn't want to feel pressured or look like a slut.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:04 PM
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It's possible. In fact, it's the hardest way to meet women and that's why it's a good place to practice. Meeting women in real life is always the best way to meet women but I also believe that if your text game is bad then your real life game is bad too and you're relying on your looks, and vibe to uphold the interaction. During lockdown, I spent a lot of time texting fashion models on social media and I got to the point where I managed to slide in their DMs consistently. Send me a message if yo…
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:54 PM
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It sounds like you didn't calibrate. You didn't read the context correctly. By the way, if you ever end up in an awkward situation like that again, call yourself on it. Honesty is the best way to handle that and demonstrate social intelligence and build attraction. Social intelligence is very attractive to women and it doesn't get talked about enough in my opinion. Also clubs are not a good place to meet women in my opinion. Try daygame instead. It's much better.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:49 PM
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There is no difference between a 9 and 10 and a 5. If you're not making her feel states of arousal, desire, connection, then nothing will work. Focus on the states you want her to feel and not how she looks. I've seen models go out with guys that don't have an exciting lifestyle, don't have a nice car, don't have a nice body, don't dress well and are boring. It has nothing to do with your looks (as you have experienced). Looks help for that initial attraction but once you open your mouth and say…
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:46 PM
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I understand what it's like to have no social skills. I understand what it's like to not understand what you're doing. I remember reading every seduction book and watching every video and most of them are not good and most pick up artists can't do what they claim and they charge thousands of dollars to teach shit that doesn't work. If you want help then feel free to message me. I'm happy to help you for free.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:40 PM
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LMAO!! This might be the funniest post I've seen on here. I suggest you own it. Call yourself on it. It will create sexual tension if you're in rapport. You can say, "I know this is inappropriate but I can't stop staring at your beasts. Honestly they are really nice". I remember Yad (A British pick up artist) would say something similar to that. If you're in rapport it will get a laugh. You need to have big balls if you're going to try it. You need to fully 100% believe she will respond well to …
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:31 PM
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This guy is correct. There is a difference between, "No" and, "NO!". LMR is easy to deal with. You just have to agree with her and take a step back. In most cases, LMR happens because they don't want to feel pressured or look like a slut so when you take a step back, it lets them process their emotions so they can go forward.
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:36 PM
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This is my response to another question that was similar to yours. I hope it helps. This is going to sound "new agey" but I strongly believe that we're all connected and always communicating to people. So if you are needy, or obsessed with a girl, even if you don't display it in your behaviour, she can still sense it and it will make her run. The more you detach, the more she'll come running to you instead of away from you and if she decides she doesn't want to be with you then that's okay too. …
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:45 AM
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I'm happy to help!
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:22 AM
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Fuck no, there is no league, there is only the level of attraction she feels for you. I've seen models go out with skinny guys that don't dress well and are boring. Definitely not a high value guy according to most people's opinion. Don't ever lower your standards.
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:08 AM
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It sounds like your problem is that you're not intriguing them. I don't believe in Mystery Method but I believe that he got it correct when he said that you need to build attraction first. Research push pull, teasing and disqualifying a girl. Avoid qualifying tactics. They make you sound weird and they don't work in most cases but disqualification works really well. Qualification lines usually sound like, "Tell me 3 reasons why I should date you" Don't ever use them. Disqualifying looks like thi…
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:05 AM
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Yes you can do that. You really have to calibrate. He's talking about push pull (I think). In some cases you can give a small IOD to make her reach for more (to create investment). For example, looking around instead of at her. But in most cases, you should either match her investment level or she should be more invested than you. You shouldn't be more invested as her. If that happens then it's usually game over. Generally speaking, respond to an IOI with an IOI but there are some girls that alw…
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:47 AM
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If a girl gives an IOI, you give an IOI, if a girl gives an IOD, you give an IOD. If a girl gives any resistance, you always take a step back and agree with her. Never put pressure on a girl or start an argument. It will go nowhere
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:38 AM
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No, but I've watched his stuff and also Yad and Andy Yosha's courses so I've very familiar with what they teach. It's not often I say this but they can actually do what they claim. Their stuff is great if you want to learn daygame but I believe there is better material out there for learning conversational skills. If you want to learn specific problems that happen during daygame, I would definitely recommend their courses. Geek get girl, The Yad Show and also Day Game Immersion. They are all rea…
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:28 AM
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That's completely true. But I've discovered (from helping a lot of guys) that most guys that get into pickup are usually very socially awkward (borderline autistic) so they literally need to be told what to do every step of the way. But yes, if a guy has any social skills at all or ability to calibrate, then fucking a girl that is interested in you is very easy. You just need to lead her, maintain your frame and deal with autopilot and last minute resistance.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:13 AM
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This is a very deep question but I'll try my best to give you enough advice to get you started. Work on your conversational skills. There are three vibes you have to work on, funny, genuine and sexual. Most men have no problem building comfort and rapport, it's the sexual vibe men have a problem with. Avoid asking the typical questions guys will ask. Whenever you look at a girl, ask yourself, "What does this girl go through on a daily basis?" This will help you understand her which will help you…
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:03 AM
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This is going to sound "new agey" but I strongly believe that we're all connected and always communicating to people. So if you are needy, or obsessed with a girl, even if you don't display it in your behaviour, she can still sense it and it will make her run. The more you detach, the more she'll come running to you instead of away from you and if she decides she doesn't want to be with you then that's okay too. I'm not the type of guy that talks about energy and that type of stuff but I believe…
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:43 AM
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I completely agree with you. Daygame is much better than meeting girls online. Girls are much more open in real life. In real life, you can use your touch, and vibe which you can't use over text.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:49 AM
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Keep the focus on her. Get her talking about herself. A good phrase to remember and use is "Tell me more about that". It will save you when you can't think of anything to say. Focus on demonstrating understanding of her world. Keep as much eye contact as possible. If an awkward silence happens, call it out. It will demonstrate social intelligence. Another good phrase is this, "Here's that awkward moment where we gaze at each other longingly". Send me a direct message and I will be happy to help …
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:54 AM
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Memes are very good. You can also tease her. That's the direction you want to go in. Humor, teasing her, push pull, challenging her.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:46 AM
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Sarging models over Instagram is my speciality. You don't need a lot of followers or money. I do this everyday. First thing you should understand is a model's world. Do some research about what the average model experiences. It will help you a lot. Most models hate their job. They wake up early, fly across the world, stand in front of camera all day posing in uncomfortable clothes and positions, rushed to endless castings and have their skin and hair abused everyday with product. They travel a l…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:39 AM
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You should "make your move" whenever she is ready for it. It sounds like you missed your opportunity and now you will have to focus on building attraction again. Burgess
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:18 AM
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They value the feelings they feel for us.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:15 AM
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