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The way you described the situation initially lead me to assume that the interruptor was screening you for her sake. Further reading made it clear that he was quite obviously taking cues from an outdated version of “How to fuck up a meet and greet for dummies”. These people here can better assist you, as I’ve never heard of B.I.T., I’ve only experienced it from the point of view that is unlucky. Frankly, it baffles me that people have to use strategies, but when the opposition is playing a game,…
/r/seduction02/08/24 01:22 AM
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This works, by the way. Finding someone who matches your interests has always been the gold standard of finding peace.
/r/seduction29/06/24 05:54 PM
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To be fair, when I stayed in Munich, there were a couple of women who didn’t screen guys like they were Onlyfans/Instagram royalty. Could have been the “American” accent, but they were just humble, wonderful people. Also, in Munich, they’re respectful of American liberals. If your a cultist, I’d suggest going to Russia.
/r/seduction26/06/24 09:10 PM
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OK, you had your fun. I usually save my vitriol for maggots, however, you do sound like a mouth-breather who actually thinks he’s giving out viable advice, so, giddy up. You* need to be taken down about 12 pegs. Luckily, karma, and more importantly, time, will do that intrinsically. Since you took it upon yourself to assume, straight off the jump, I suppose it’s OK for me to assume that OP may very well be suffering from clinical depression? Maybe just a shit day? Maybe not. I would say “Never a…
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:18 PM
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I’m fairly certain that the phrase “strong frame” is being used in place of a much less kinder message: “You’re too weak..sorry. I need for you to be capable of picking me up without any actual effort. This is critical for my sexual fantasies.” Stating that they require a “strong frame” in a potential partner/fwb/etc is far kinder way of stating their desire.
/r/seduction18/04/24 05:55 PM
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I hear you, mate. I can understand the appeal of that lifestyle: It takes some of the pressure off of her, and makes the man proud to be able to take care of his family. Everyone is happy. This is just an opinion, I can’t really see this being…financially…a good move. If I wasn’t in a playfully competitive relationship, I’m sure I would have been looking into how it would work in full detail, but it just sounds like lost money. Lost money is, to me, lost vacations with my family…and I’d scratch …
/r/seduction16/03/24 08:51 PM
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No, no backpedaling. That’s how things began. Today, if your feeding into that “woman = barefoot in kitchen, pregnant” shite…I mean go ahead, if you’re that insecure that you’re threatened by a woman who can take care of herself and chose to be with you, instead of needing you to take care of her. I don’t see how I’m backpedaling. Everyone needs to get off their ass and contribute to the life they want to live. 50/50, 60/40, whatever. No one can really afford to opt out of work. However, if the …
/r/seduction16/03/24 08:34 PM
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“how do you plan on taking care of a woman?” I must chime in on this part. Sorry to say, I gotta be that guy who says it’s 2024, women in a relationship can and should be a partner*, not a liability. I’m not even going to say I’m an idealist, I was raised by a driven woman who made 100k a year by the time I was 13. I get that their are almost too many women on Reddit trying to opt for the sweet life of sitting at home whilst their partner works, but those aren’t women, they’re girls. 50/50 work …
/r/seduction16/03/24 06:48 PM
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Creepy vs Flirting = Your attractiveness determined by the perception of the attempted cold approach. It’s subjective, tread with caution. My prime was in the 90s and the majority of my dates came from the female approach. Ladies…step up your cold approach game and maybe drop the “YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL” thing because there are a Lot of guys out there that, at least appearance-wise, deserve a shot. Not me though, I’m busy hiding inside your walls.
/r/seduction06/03/24 11:28 PM
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My experience has been the following: Honestly say that you just want to have fun = a couple of dates with the takeaway vibe that they just wanted conversation, company during a meal, and dancing. After that, success in getting what I sought. Later, I sought out a long-term, exclusive situation = straight off from jump, I heard “I just got out of a serious relationship, I’m not looking for anything other than friends”. She then proceeds to smash me a few days each week. Went back a couple years …
/r/seduction27/02/24 12:08 AM
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This is super duper commonplace now. A few women I know in there 30s will do anything to bag a 21 year old. The reverse, however..not so simple.
/r/seduction03/07/23 12:05 AM
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100% yes, men do find truly assertive and straightforward women attractive.
/r/seduction14/06/23 10:08 PM
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And me three, or four.
/r/seduction19/05/23 06:53 PM
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No, you’re right. I didn’t really read All of what you had initially posted. I more-so fired off from the hip. I will however state my total indifference verging on hatred for how contrarian men and men have to act in order to land their own fucked-up personification to an actual relationship. It’s not your fault. However, whomever along the way fucked things up so irrevocably to the point that you have to ignore that of which you want..they can eat a dick.
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:11 AM
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The simple fact that creepiness is subjective is what makes cold approaches difficult for people. Your noted lack of an understanding to this shows your complete lack of insight. I’m lucky to know women who had to make the approach on other women, men, and a couple on me. They* get how difficult it can be. You, however, do not. I’m hoping someone comes along that you desire in the utmost, and you have to approach them.
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:50 PM
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Maybe heels. Maybe men. Who knows these things..
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:01 PM
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I’ve found “creepiness” to be subjective. Two different men, in a same scenario, could use the exact same lines on a particular woman. One man will come off creepy, whilst the other may come off cute. I could be wrong but I think it comes down to immediate physical attraction in the moment. Also, confidence is going to net you more than awkwardness mate. Trust yourself.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:20 PM
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Tis why wing women are the greatest.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:37 PM
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Hey man, if you’re into her, I wouldn’t pass on this.
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:26 PM
1

Embrace you’re inexperience. From my point of view, women want a young, inexperienced dude that they can cuff to a bed in the basement and keep as a slave. You’re lucky mate, embrace it.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:07 PM
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I grow them in my basement. Every spring I pluck one.
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:15 PM
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Confidence Charisma Don’t drool.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:26 PM
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It is known
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:42 AM
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You got this one covered.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:48 PM
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Yes. Stressing about it will just ruin the first date, so I learned to leave it to chance.
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:47 PM
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Her job shouldn’t matter mate. If you dig her, go for it. It’s not as though you’ll see her frequently enough that it should be an issue.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:03 AM
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Indifference is like Valium.
/r/seduction04/01/22 02:15 AM
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Pete Davidson had Grande. You, sir...can do anything you put your mind to.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:02 AM
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The lesson is..if your a guy, learn how to Not need affection. You’ll get swarmed.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:49 AM
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Ultimately, it would be best if you were to approach someone you found attractive..but some guys (who aren’t going to put themselves out on a limb to get shot down) will likely try and communicate with you via the eyes or expressions from across the bar.
/r/seduction16/11/21 07:01 PM
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Don’t talk yourself up. Don’t be desperate. Instead of looking to lose your virginity, try looking for a person that you might want to spend time with, and move from there
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:20 PM
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This is how it works. You don’t want them, they want you. You want them, they’ll probably go after your best friend.
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:36 AM
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Both.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:49 PM
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Wow...just..wow.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:08 PM
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I would say Yes... Unnnnnless she’s a touchy-all-the-timey kind of person. Good luck mate. Edit: didn’t see that it didn’t work out at time of posting. Sorry.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:42 PM
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Charisma goes a Long way mate. More importantly, or should I say crucially..there is a thin, indecipherable line between “that funny asshole that says whatever’s on his mind..and it always charms the ladies” and a flat out creep. I believe this to be subjective to the woman’s level of attraction to you...as I’ve been the popular asshole And* the creep purely depending on the person I speak to. Basically..just say what’s on your mind (within reason) and hope you don’t get jumped.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:04 PM
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If you knock und she says “Seriously you need to go or I’m calling the police!”, you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction21/09/21 08:56 PM
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When you find out how to cope, let me know the secret mate.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:19 PM
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From my experience, I fucking love it. More women should do this. Thing is, if a guy approaches a woman and she doesn’t find him attractive, she can simply label him a creep (even if he just says “hi”). It’s subjective to attraction. So please, if you dig someone..approach them.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:23 PM
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Was an attempt.
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:41 PM
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I dated a woman for two years who was 6’1. She didn’t care about the extra inch. Could be because she was a dom, or because height isn’t always the most important thing. Girth is.
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:10 PM
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Hey OP. Nicely done. Still, some cases aren’t as black and white. Met a woman....who shares the property across from me (sure I broke a golden rule talking up a neighbor, but you didn’t see her, nor hear of her so you don’t even know). Initially, thought she was WAY out of my league. Sweetest heart on two legs, used to sing in theater, give resuscitation to baby/adult animals, had a voice that stimulated every fiber of my being and at the same time soothes the soul, was level-headed, and was a d…
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:09 AM
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It’s not the rejection that sometimes gets me. It’s the initial glances as I approach that get to me.
/r/seduction04/09/21 02:48 AM
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Dude..just grow eyes in the back of your head. Being alone+looking for a woman’s company at a bar=beatdown. Maybe your luck will be better.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:26 PM
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Absolutely not, you’re 21 mate. To be completely honest with you, I’m a little envious..as there are Loads of women who love the idea of having someone inexperienced, and blowing their mind. Lead with it, don’t ever hide it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:19 PM
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She is quite literally half in, half out with you. I would, as someone already said, not get my hopes up. This could be her way of saying you will be dropped as soon as she finds..well whatever interests her fully. I don’t say this to be a downer mate, but she’s giving you a heads up for a reason.
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:37 PM
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It is not. I get labeled a fuckrag by women I think are worth the big picture, and I’m not supposed to be hurt by this (or so I’ve been told Lol). So I’d say it’s fair for a guy to play this card as well.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:54 PM
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Don’t do it..my personal opinion. If* it backfires, you have to see her every day.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:54 PM
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You might be intimidated by the ones you have interest in, whether you know it or not.
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:20 PM
1

I’m sorry mate..I think at best you may be on her backburner.
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:50 PM
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That’s somewhat adorable but I wouldn’t read too much into it mate.
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:24 PM
1

This*
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:45 PM
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Use your mouth When she comes, keep using your mouth Switch to fingers, show the booty some love Have sex Cuddle, laugh, smoke, recharge Have sex again If she’s dehydrated..get her some damn water
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:19 PM
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For your sake mate, I hope she calls. I can imagine how..uncomfortable the situation might be if the time came to go back to said gym and she hasn’t contacted you yet. If she hasn’t, I wouldn’t pursue. Personally, I write off smiles/friendly behavior as just that, she’s working and wants people to enjoy their time at the gym. I commend you on your approach, but let her make the next move.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:57 PM
4

Agreed. Confidence is paramount but some of this sounds like manipulation and lying to oneself. If it works for some of you, more power to it I suppose.
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:39 PM
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Uhm..it could go exceptionally well, but if it doesn’t.. You’ll have to live with a girl at your work being awkward around you. It’s ultimately your choice but..be careful mate.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:34 PM
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You’re..shooting down each giver of advice to further bury yourself under the weight of your self pity.. Look mate, some of the people here are generally trying to give you some helpful advice..however the cliched-to-hell truth of it is that you have to decide if you’re going to take heed of said advice. Sorry that things have been hard for you man, but you must adopt a different frame of thinking to get past this.
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:44 PM
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Ah, I thought this was a conversation, not a question.. ...as it says conversation. But anyway, Approach.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:45 PM
1

I wasn’t meant to be..if it was, you would have spoken to her/she would have approached you. Maybe you’ll see her again, maybe there is someone else out there. This is cliche as cliche can be cliche, but it helps.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:42 PM
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This is kind of why cold approaches have become difficult.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:35 PM
2

Assertiveness, confidence. Challenge their mind, ensnare their senses: taste, touch, smell, etc.
/r/seduction25/06/21 04:33 PM
1

What Poopafol said, he nailed it. Try not to let the responses of cold approaches hurt you. Height doesn’t mean anything..I’ve known quite a few tall women who Love having a shorter guy. Also, hair is negligible. Bald can be done right easily.
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:49 PM
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It’s a gesture. An act of chivalry, I use to think. However, not everyone believes that.. And some women can be offended by that assumption as well. Doesn’t always have to be the guy. Doesn’t always have to be the lady. Doesn’t always have to be them/they. It’s subjective. ...maybe the one who wants to bang more.
/r/seduction18/06/21 08:00 PM
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