TheButcher2680 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Intro	TheButcher2680	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/24 06:15 PM
2	Switched Electric	TheButcher2680	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/24 12:13 AM
1	Co pays	TheButcher2680	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 04:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Switched Electric Thank you. As I am thinking about her ego is clouding her judgement. Its also invoking mine too. I let my lawyer know. Its not something I need to focus on. Jjst got to keep showing up for my kids	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/24 04:52 PM
0	Switched Electric She is trying to get my name off of bills and property to claim I dont contribute. I paid all the bills in the house she took care of groceries. Now she want to still pay all bills. But now I am to buy my own groceries. The bills work out to about 3grand a month. After that I maybe have 3-400 for gas, and whatever else I need.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/24 06:59 AM
1	Switched Electric Right? I mean court orders are issued for this reason.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/24 01:05 AM
1	Co pays Lucky for me she cleaned it out with her surgory. Now I am putting.money back in, but there is only125 in there	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 07:46 PM
2	Co pays These are the ones for her therapy, and other visits. In her name	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 07:04 PM
3	Co pays Its been terrible, she is controlling the kids, tried to switch car to her name. Take.me.off home.insurance. demanded I.pay all the bills while her and hwr mom by groceries. Then also told me to buy my own groceries for my self and when I cook for kids. She has lost it. She thinks she is.going to dust me because I am leaving the marriage. She cheated and kept doing it while trying to work on it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 06:56 PM
1	Co pays Exactly	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 06:40 PM
1	Co pays Not dotching her from the insurance. Just whether or not copays she drained the HSA with appointments. Now I am paying for copays out of pocket. Shpuldnt she?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 06:10 PM
1	Co pays I have filed, the HSA is empty from her surgory so i cancelledthe cards so I can build up for my cost. Our deductible is met so it is just co pays now.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 05:36 PM
11	Externalizing everything still miss her I am noticing a trend that around the 10-15 year mark there are many marriages failing. Very similar reasons. Mine did the same thing, then got involved in an affair, i took her back twice and she refused to give it up while I worked on myself and eventually said when I caught her again, I am done and deserve better with confidence. I miss the old version of her, and that person is long gone.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/24 04:27 PM
1	Intro What is gray rock. I have heard it but not sure what it really is	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/24 07:49 AM
2	Why is it so difficult This is exactly what its like. I still blame her therapist that convinved her my job was a break from the home.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 06:09 PM