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| 1 | Modern dating and IRL approachesIts very different today as a gen z man the social constructs have changed vastly. Irl connections can be hard to come by at times. I dont like to be pessimistic but as a whole women have started showing more cruel behavior over the years. These factors make it very difficult to form social and romantic connections in these times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and IRL approachesWhat generation are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards?real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards?What about someone that does not drink or smoke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:51 AM |
| – | Men of PPD, if you only had two choices, would you rather date a woman from today (modern woman) or a woman from the 1950s (traditional woman, minus the racism)? Explain your reasoning.1950s woman plus the racism because they had better mental development for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How important is physical fitness to you?I mean relative to how I am now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How important is physical fitness to you?Not too important to me just dont be FAT and you are good. Personally I would like to be more fit but as long as my partner is reasonably healthy its all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them.They can still be healthy in a relationship just maybe a little dim. But I do agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them.But multiple times? How many times can you fall for for lovebombing before its your fault, if you are lovebombed 109 times you have to catch on eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?I guess that does make sense are those options good? If so then I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?Filter for things that matter more if you are attracted to more people you can have your pick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: "Women are too picky", but also "I don't want to feel like I was settled for". Which one is it?If its the first thing you filter for it is, it can lead to finding more compatible people with less scarcity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Telling women to "choose better" does more harm than good; we should be telling good men to choose better.Its just not something the type of women a lot of men are looking for would get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Telling women to "choose better" does more harm than good; we should be telling good men to choose better.We do tell men to chose better thats pretty much why those redpillers say not to date women with tattoos or with a high n count. A decent chunk of mens advice is about how to choose a good woman if its not how to get chosen yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | A person with no options is NOT a better option.Usually when I feel grateful I just try to pay it back somehow and I feel a sense of respect for the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Which subreddit members/users are a red/yellow flag for you ?Or bropill women and trans men gentrified it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:55 PM |
| -6 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?Having an abortion is killing a child being a single mother is failing them the single mother is better morally but their actions have still lead to their child's detriment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:28 PM |
| -5 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?I'm not supportive of single mothers because of that reason but they should get money for the good of the children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you help someone out of the redpill cult?You can't argue the way you want to what you have to do is find a point you agree on and work from there. You have to validate his worldviews a little bit and understand why he became red pill in the first place | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/25 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Which Type of Partner Do You prefer2 but only if they can follow my lead in dangerous situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.Any advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:20 AM |
| 7 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.I don't care about how quick it I'd I prefer to wait but the problem is women that do wait may be doing so out of high self control, or low libido so it can be a gamble especially since it would take more time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:15 AM |
| 4 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.I along with most men I am assuming just want a woman that's sexually interested in me and not promiscuous, but often if you wait you could have not have as much sex as desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 11:11 AM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)Wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 05:30 AM |
| 4 | If you could get across any messaqge to the redpill community, what would that message be?There needs to be spaces for complaining about and criticizing women some of that may lead to anger being expressed and that is necessary. The problem with these spaces you recommend is that they are heavily censored and are not made to elevate men but rather to indoctrinate men. These spaces also allow trans people and even worse women and these people do not belong in male spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 05:59 AM |
| 15 | Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"?> Does she love me? Then she's not dead weight Exactly if someone loves you they will almost always be better to have in your life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.It's a social evil and it's prevalent everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a broke woman?It's fine if they love me and are not a dependent too early on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:59 AM |
| 3 | What screams wife material to you?If I can disagree with her without her getting mad about certain things that is good, even better if we can debate about it. If she lets me love her without me feeling like she will be turned off by it thats grounds for a happy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 03:58 AM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.What solutions and compromises do you suggest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:10 AM |
| 6 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenAny tips? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.I kind of go to a place like that in NC its nice but I wish there was no alcohol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 02:10 AM |
| 12 | Invisible women exist just as much as invisible men.We just need spaces for men and women to meet without alcohol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Women desire respect for being *anything other than* sex objects. Men desire respect for *being* a sex objectThis redpiller is not saying he is dating to prove his masculinity and status but, he is saying that being a husband type (second choice) is compromising his status and masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Men who’ve given up on dating, what’s the point of convincing internet strangers you made the right decision?Id only say it to men who are struggling or airing out their grievances. If I see a man struggling, I try to encourage him to stop wasting his time with fostering a hate for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandNice how did you do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Are Reddit women's sentiment regarding male attention reflective of women in real life?I feel you can be more open if you are in a public area with explicitly telling people you arent interested. Otherwise I agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think so many women have the same dating issueTo be fair on dating apps its meant to be casual where irl you could find someone willing to enter an ltr pretty quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 12:07 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministHelping someone is not about you being a man or them being a woman its about you both being human. If you dont want to risk your life that is fine but at least get help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityDeep conversations are a great way to connect with someone so that does make sense. I find that the main limit in my conversations is the ability to accept other opinions. If they are smart you get a nice calm debate or moment of understanding and if they are not as smart you can get a nice teaching moment both deepening the bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:28 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityMost men don't care about many things when it comes to a relationship. I personally care most if there is mutual attraction, our personalities work well, and that they are a good person. I could love anyone of any intelligence as long as they don't make choices that result in our mutual detriment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Males aren't hypergamous because of insecurityWhy do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 03:36 PM |
| 11 | Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/partiesThe music is just bad and generic in general as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 07:39 PM |
| 2 | The “Childless Cat Lady” Feminist Outrage Truly Proves We’re Living In Bizarro WorldI see what you mean the first post I saw was about abortion. People want men to be able to express any emotion but rage I notice | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 04:40 PM |
| -6 | The “Childless Cat Lady” Feminist Outrage Truly Proves We’re Living In Bizarro WorldWhat's wrong with men'slib? | /r/MensRights | 11/09/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful.Ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful.Sounds painful I was talking more about stamina | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Similar to mainstream dating advice, mainstream sex advice for men should be ignored if they want to be the most successful.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What would be the downsides if men believed that women are barely capable of romantic love?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 03:59 AM |
| 8 | Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinityThe assumption is that their opinions are formed mostly or entirely from social media and rage bait The rage bait mostly hits due to experiences these guys had too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:33 PM |
| 3 | An average guy who is a good conversationalist has a greater chance of women treating him as "one of the girls" rather than it being an influence on their attraction toward him.Sometimes you don't know you want to date someone at first but if you do I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 11:15 PM |
| – | Average guys are made to feel "dirty" for having a sexual desireNo because women see more benefit to relationships with average men than hookups some don't even want the with good looking dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 03:45 PM |
| – | CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women.You can get sexual experience within a relationship it's 🪝 ups men have a problem with mostly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Most ppl want to be the AdorersWhy? Mostly because men are expected to put in the lions share of effort to start a relationship so women being the adorer would keep things balanced. Also because women already have leverage in relationships being able to get a partner quicker and being desired out the gate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”.Id argue there are many differences in these two examples. 1: Being poor is the default state for most people and getting richer requires a lifetime of work. Being fat however is not a default state (bad decisions) for most people and it takes work still to get fit but it can be done much more quickly. 2: Most men don't have a problem if a woman is trying to help him become rich that's why they ask for someone to build but on the other hand most fat women do not want to be told by a partner to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | A woman listening to Red Pill influencers and taking their advice to heart is a sure way to attract abusers and narcissistsWhat is the pink pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:17 AM |
| – | Why do men insist women are too picky?Most men cannot afford to have low standards but when they are increased they are still easier to achieve and lower than women's overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:12 PM |
| – | Why do men insist women are too picky?Extremely low and very easy to achieve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.Thats true as a sober person I hate when people are annoying about it one way or the other but the added difficulty is definitely not very good imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.Id say that these things are not good for society and that it is a little unjust for this to be not only the norm but nearly a requirement to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 01:42 AM |
| 8 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.Its perfectly fine with not liking these things and not wanting to be a part of this culture is reasonable as they don't get you high quality partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.WDYM normal person things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 01:34 AM |
| – | How long did you wait to be sexual with your current partner?Only thing I care about is paper power and my mother not all of us are sex fiends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?He means treating the non red pill guys better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?They are at higher rates of men at the same level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?I'll admit that a lot of men choose attractiveness over what they should be looking for but men find a large amount of women attractive vs women finding less men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?Looks are important at least 95% of the time in many ways. Men are often locked out of dating due to things that take great effort or are even completely out of their control. A lot of it is whining but men have a valid reason to be mad at the current dating market . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 4 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?As someone that became #1 and was #2 we're the same people I love my gf I even made a game for her but a large amount of women are choosing attraction over stability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:25 AM |
| -1 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Women treat male strangers worse and male friends better than men to their female counterparts. I'd say in cases of dating men are taught how to treat women but not the other way around (as much) . In terms of politics women get much more grace and sympathy for their movements while men get made fun of often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Finally in a healthy relationship and still scaredMeditation and communication would do wonders considering you already have the mindset | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | My fiancé went out last night with friends and didn’t return until the following eveningPersonally I would love to meet my gfs mom and if I was to miss it for a football game that would be a consciousness decision from me. Let him know that you are upset and tell him to not do it again. For this I support healthy soft communication the first two times while still warning that you are getting upset. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What experiences or observations do you think leads to someone being “misandrist”? What experiences or observations do you think leads to someone being “misogynistic”?I used to HATE women as a result of sexual abuse and misandry earlier in life. One day I realized we are all on the same path as people and we have similar issues and interests. I think the solution to both is a safe and welcoming community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:11 AM |
| 7 | German police conduct raids against “people” (meaning men) suspected of posting misogynistic hate speech onlineThe shoes on the other foot now | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 07:39 PM |
| 17 | A man was falsely accused of raping a woman. When he gave the police a video showing the sex was likely consensual, he was instead charged with felony "video voyeurism" for the video which exonerated him of rape."Maybe just don't be a terrible person and stop raping women" As if that's what we do on the daily | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't we compensate for the "Women are Wonderful" effect for boys in school?Girls get more favorable grades, classes are designed to benefit girls, feminism and female superiority is taught but nothing about boys needs.I feel students should not be grouped on how they learn best but what they learn best. Would fix a ton of problems | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 02:08 AM |
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