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Wow I'm so tired of this "sex = disrespect" bullshit. You know there are lots of women out there that just want sex too right? And they're all smart enough to make their own decisions. I think it's disrespectful (and frankly sexist) to think women aren't smart enough and strong enough to make their own decisions. Trust me, they're fully capable of saying when they do or do not want to fuck. They don't need you white-knighting and protecting them from their own decisions. I almost never hear anyo…
/r/seduction08/09/13 06:25 PM
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That's a harmful worldview. Whether you're right or not is irrelevant. It's going to give you doubts and be psychologically limiting. There's no downside to just simply choosing to believe that looks are irrelevant (and there are lots of upsides).
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:10 AM
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I'd really love to hear your reasoning on why that's an asshole move.
/r/seduction14/07/13 02:11 AM
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Sex is disrespectful. Duh!
/r/seduction14/07/13 02:08 AM
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Yeah exactly. She won't even know what actually attracts her 90% of the time. Being a natural is kind of tough since the steps are as follows: (1) Be a natural. By definition, if you have to learn it first, you're not a natural. :)
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:15 AM
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Get feedback from people, but not from her. The truth is too hard for people to say in circumstances like this, so you won't get it and you'll just end up demonstrating lower value. It's simply not attractive to ask "what don't you like about me?" I think you really only have 2 options for harsh truths: good friends who don't care about being polite, and the internet (which is fantastically impolite).
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:37 AM
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It's impossible to know the answer with the info you've provided, but I doubt you seem as confident as you think. There's no point in asking a girl for feedback on why she's rejected you. It's like asking a child for parenting advice. What you should be doing is more often the complete opposite of what they advise. More importantly, it comes off as needy. Just say "ah well shit happens" and move on. This is just a small detail of course, but it's pretty much the only information that you've give…
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:55 AM
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I'm in exactly the same boat (good-looking + short as hell) and have found the same. I can slay with the ones that are shorter than me, but the taller ones are much harder (which has got to be at least partly in my head). Unfortuntately I like the taller ones better. :\
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:27 AM
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What I'm saying is that if you want a one-night-stand, the first kiss definitely is NOT the end goal (unless there's some new definition of 1NS that I never want to hear about). And the way you're achieving the kiss hurts your chances at actually getting laid because you're treating her like she's the prize, which is basically demonstrating your own lower value. It's cool to trick her into buying a free drink... that makes you funny and care-free. Tricking her into kisses will not have that effe…
/r/seduction07/01/13 02:12 AM
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First off, good work on the many approaches and attempts. One big thing I'd recommend though: seriously work on your inner game. If you think of yourself as an AFC, you'll be an AFC. Don't compare yourself to other guys in a negative light, or you will feel inferior, and subconsciously act inferior, and then be treated by others (including the girl) as inferior. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. At the very least consider that that other guy could have a million things wrong with him that you don…
/r/seduction06/01/13 07:32 PM
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My opinion as an out-of-towner who's been to new orleans more times than I can count: If you want to be around "receptive" women, I honestly think that you really shouldn't go anywhere other than Bourbon street. The non-touristy places are great, but they certainly won't have females in the same I'm-from-out-of-town-and-just-want-to-have-fun mindset that bourbon st. has. That street is probably one of the dirtiest places on earth. Vegas doesn't even come close IMO, unless you want to pay for it.…
/r/seduction06/01/13 06:23 PM
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Escalating gradually (but quickly) would be a hell of a lot less nerve-racking than just putting your balls on the chopping block like you did by flat-out telling her your feelings, wouldn't it? It seems like the way you did it is not only less effective, but also a hell of a lot harder (to me anyway).
/r/seduction17/12/12 01:52 AM
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I didn't mean it like you interpreted it at all. I'm genuinely asking... Do you know how I can be clearer? I honestly don't, and I'd honestly appreciate another constructive point of view. It won't be much use if you just reiterate "be clearer" though, because my problem is that I really don't know how.
/r/seduction18/11/12 11:19 PM
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Well I explained exactly how clear I've been in my comment. Do you not believe what I said, or do you think it's still not clear enough? The "calling it off" happens as soon as I detect the clinginess, and I'm 100% strict about it being off.
/r/seduction18/11/12 08:22 PM
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My experience is the same as antfoo actually. I even tell them "I tell every girl that I don't want a relationship and just want to fuck and they still always get mad when I call it off later.", and they STILL get mad when I call it off. I'm talking about 10+ women I've hooked up with, with only 1 being cool. I've got a clear consience about it, but it has never gone for me how you just said. If there's some secret to it, I'm all ears.
/r/seduction18/11/12 02:35 AM
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I totally agree about attempts (and improving attempts) being a great starting goal in and of itself. I don't know about trying to get the same person's approval like that multiple times though. If they can't make time for you the first time, you shouldn't make any more time for them. You need to be too cool to suffer that kind of bullshit from the same person more than once.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:35 AM
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Do you get the anxiety response by being retrospective and analyzing the night of approaching? It's hard to imagine it's just a reflex if it happens and continues for days/weeks/months. It seems like you must be rolling the night around in your head to keep triggering the response. If that's the case, you need to figure out why you do that, and stop. Some analysis is expected, but after that you have to realize that what's done is done, you can't change it, and you'll live to fight another day. …
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:13 AM
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Instead of figuring out how to recover from this situation, just don't get into it. (1) Stop asking interview questions like "tell me 3 things...". That's awkward. You wouldn't talk to girls you aren't attracted to like that. She can immediately see that you're not comfortable enough to talk to her naturally, so you're in script-mode. (2) Stop asking deep questions in the first 10 minutes. You just met her -- you have no reason to give a shit what her hopes and dreams are. She can smell that a m…
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:07 PM
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