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| 82 | Is the Next Phase of Sex Positivity Choosing Not to Have Sex? (Vogue article)“It’s what you get when you liberate sex without liberating women” = Gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 11:25 AM |
| 4 | J.Lo and Ben … ultimate pickme?Yeah I’m team Mariah haha, have you seen that clip of JLo going to her old childhood home and telling the old guy living there that she used to live there and him asking who is Jennifer lopez? hahaha. Yeah she looks great but she seems like a dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 06:37 AM |
| 96 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.Exactly where is our non-hormonal pill?! I don’t think our pill has actually changed much at all since the 1950s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 9 | Nah sis.If you’re gonna do this, the operative word is “dangling” the carrot, I hope the papers are in her name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:44 AM |
| 47 | Yes, you are. 💋lol where do I get one of these “I’m grumpy” shirts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 7 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?I’m still going through all the comments but wanted to say this is a great post and discussion topic. And I feel a great reminder to everyone to bring awareness to how these self-objectification thoughts can infiltrate into our behaviour and self image at varying degrees, lol especially when we assume we’re immune to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:10 AM |
| 76 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesHahaha, this happened very severely to me a few weeks ago, I call it hormone goggles now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:43 AM |
| 39 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?This is shockingly effective, never seen losers visibly turn into such tiny pitiful worms after doing this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 02:41 PM |
| 16 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?As already commented here, best advice is to walk with purpose and not walk around like a tourist, something my dad instilled in me and my sister since childhood to avoid this and general getting mugged off/taken advantage of. In addition just plain ignoring with confidence is kind of our best tactic to shut that shit down. Unfortunately we can’t control the actions of others, definitely don’t feel like you have to respond to anything they say, let them call you a rude bitch if it means you don’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 78 | Why are men so fucking weird ?Is he not just trying to make him only being able to pick up “less attractive” women as some kind of grand bro scheme rather than him just being allegedly successful with women more “at his level”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Well said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:03 PM |
| 0 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Firstly, let me congratulate you on a rational and HV tone. No, I don’t doubt that the hijab is enforced, especially in Saudi Arabia - that’s common knowledge, but your tone and your specific reach to make a justified issue about enforced hijabs to “I’m sick of Muslims” and to also “they’re taking over and we’re the minority now” is telling. Your “matching foundation” comment was just a grossly glib and offensive comment to make regarding a POC telling you that you aren’t in a position to fully … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:00 PM |
| -3 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.1) A lot of Muslim women don’t wear a hijab, and didn’t for years before, this is more of a cultural/fashion trend in areas. Shocker - there is often a mix of women who do wear it and don’t wear it within the same families. 2) the ‘hispanic’ as you described her, isn’t wrong - POC understanding other POC struggles is deeper than “they can share foundation more easily” (can’t believe I have to explain that) 3) saying “I live in an area with a high (any minority/and or immigrant) population and I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 54 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.UPDATE!: one of the pedos asking for links has been fired from his job. Twitter users reported his profile, and reported to his local police and to his company who then issued a statement that they’ve investigated and terminated him 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 10 | Scroll to 0:50 for Elon Musk's new fiance (2nd wife) talking about him proposing after ten days, how she would have said yes to almost anyone, how her parents are traumatized by the whole experience, and how she often has the urge to escape.Lol, a quick google search shows they married and divorced - twice 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:51 PM |
| 56 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.I saw this thread happening, there was a military dude (With all his info public on his profile) asking for links too which then incited 1000+ replies asking for links, she’s since contacted and formally complained to his regiment with pics for evidence as he soon deleted all his harassing tweets and locked up his account. I’ve just started following her, she’s getting a lot of support but the sheer amount of abuse and criticism she’s getting from POS like this guy as well as die hard pornhub de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:36 PM |
| 27 | Scroll to 0:50 for Elon Musk's new fiance (2nd wife) talking about him proposing after ten days, how she would have said yes to almost anyone, how her parents are traumatized by the whole experience, and how she often has the urge to escape.Hahahaha! This whole thing plays like a Christopher Guest-esque mockumentary. I especially like him harping on how difficult watching his five kids is while his back is turned and fiancé no2 is running after them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 14 | Finding a Muslim HVMThis is a really great post! And absolutely the case with HV Muslim men I’ve known | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Finding a Muslim HVMI think a few of the points you listed can be navigated through basic vetting and how he treats you and people around him - I.e, talks about his exes, his views on women’s roles etc. I’ve known quite a few HV Muslim men and I think most people who live in a remotely cosmopolitan city have too, other than than the above I don’t have much specific advice except that I can see how a Muslim man may not tell his folks about you super soon as, depending on how open he’s been with them about his dating… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 29 | Never Let Them Gaslight You (Especially Those Ex Who Says 'We Broke Up Coz She's a Psycho".. Nah, Dude It's Coz You're an Ass)Happens everyday at one degree or another in workplace too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:42 PM |
| 135 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Yep, yep and yep. Answer is he will treat you shitty. Never go out with an insecure man, he’ll fuck around and do his best to make you as insecure as him or worse to ‘level the playing field’ / boost his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:08 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020Fashion and modelling industry is one of the most ‘chew you up / spit you out’ industries there are at best - at worst sex trafficking. Is there a reason why this agent can’t find a job in your country? I’d be very cautious and depending on your age get a parent / guardian to escort you and get involved in all correspondence and negotiations - even as an adult, run it by a trusted responsible, savvy friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Evening all, I’m working on an FDS oldies/rock/ soul/ instrumental/ singer songwriter/ vintage/ whatever playlist, inviting your suggestionsHaha! I was at a show a few years ago, definitely tried to get a plectrum from Scott Gorham too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Evening all, I’m working on an FDS oldies/rock/ soul/ instrumental/ singer songwriter/ vintage/ whatever playlist, inviting your suggestionsThin Lizzy - Get Out Of Here https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Rcmdl6vpujw probably my favourite break up song (Also just a favourite band). Excerpt of lyrics: ‘No way, I must go, can't stay, must run No chance, I can't give a second chance No hope, there's no hope for you now No romance, no more romance No how, no how could we stay together No need, I have no need for you now No fear, no fear of you no more Get out of here Get out of here Do I make myself clear Pack up, give in, go home, get out‘ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:53 AM |
| 19 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedI can almost hear their “A mAlE cHiMpAnZeE!!” counter argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 60 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedSo by their logic, throwing a chimpanzee into that cage with them would prove genetic superiority too... In which case I guess he’s onto something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 04:43 PM |
| 83 | “Touring Musician” ran away after I listed that I sang back in the day and had a few hobby instruments 🤡😂“Chello 🥴” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:56 PM |
| 31 | The KinkMeishas have officially gone too farNailed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:28 AM |
| 37 | When she doesn't immediately have sex with you after your reddit pick-up line😂 talk about microscraping the barrel of excuses. Hooray, even dating app trash is starting to take itself out 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 08:48 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I felt similarly at first, then you realise not blocking is only impeding you / giving them mental space when they really couldn’t GAF. Seriously the only way I’ve become more comfortable with it is just by practice until it becomes an auto response to lvm behaviour. When in doubt it helps to take an objective look, would you advise a close friend (or a fellow FDS-er) to block this idiot and forget about him? Then do it. Ps - as you get comfortable with blocking when necessary, you also realise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 09:21 AM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I’ve been a reddit relationship advice sub lurker for years (to no avail) and first stumbled on FDS in January. Needless to say I read the handbook through and through and have been checking the sub every day since. It’s changed my life entirely, even my mother has noticed and commented the changes she’s seen in me for the better. I’ve actually just made my first reddit profile just because the impact FDS and this community has had on my life in such a short time so just wanted to say Hi to you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Was he looking to make a skinsuit “it rubs tha lotion on its skin” 🥺🙄😂😂😂 “beige pink skin” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 10:01 PM |
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