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| 3 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.Yes, that is actualky the case, you are being sarcastic but you are also correct. Men are literally more risk prone, take worse care of their health, and especially when young they are more likely to think they're invincible. I would absolutely expect to see that the more cautious gender has lower death rates than the more risk-taking gender... That tracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:39 PM |
| 15 | Women are Not Entitled to Men's Credulity towards their "Lived Experiences" and Self-Reports Regarding Dating, Men, etc.*in your opinion Women take all kinds of safety precautions and talk about them widely, which is what I would expect. What I don't expect is a young person to shut themselves away from humanity and limit their college experience or jobs choices rather than the much more typical "It couldn't happen to me, I'm young, careful and invincible" mindset that is far more common in the age range that goes to clubs and college. Life involves risks. We all take risks every time we walk out of our homes. He… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Tradwives reduce men to a paycheck and a bodyguard while Feminists want an actual partner.Not just a man... The White Feather Campaign was a recruitment effort from the military. Young women were handed feathers to give out to young men who were out of uniform, and the movement was not popular with the general public at the time. Which, for this subreddit I feel l must point out: Women would be included in that "general public" who disapproved. It was recruitment propaganda in an era chock full of fucked up recruitment propaganda. Funny how it's the only propaganda that gets remember… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Women have no problems with "power dynamics" if it’s something they’re attracted to and validates their egosI watched some progressive/feminist content on this so I can speak to this a bit: The debates in progressive/feminist circles regarding tradwives include discussing the power dynamic, the situations that power dynamic can lead to, the importance of having your own money as a woman, the consequences of not having your own money and your own job if shit hits the fan, the fact that tradwife influencers do in fact have jobs and thus are hypocritical and often grifters, that they're leading women dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 07:43 AM |
| 6 | Women have no problems with "power dynamics" if it’s something they’re attracted to and validates their egosSometimes the word "free" is used colloquially to mean, "At no additional cost at point of service" by people who understand how insurance and/or taxes work and assume that everyone else does too. They mentioned "with insurance". We can safely assume they meant "at no additional cost at point of service because of said insurance" rather than literally free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 07:23 AM |
| 4 | Dating Advice For Men Doesn't Work Because Women Don't Actually Know What They Want.If you check the automod response to the comments they removed you'll see the reason given. For instance I see that one comment was removed for being "Content-less rhetoric" and another was removed for not being civil. Your failure to follow the rules of the subreddit has nothing to do with feminists, sorry bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Why do they say that there are no benefits in a man having a woman as a friend?Choosing your pill is simple: If you don't identify as Red Pilled then you are Blue Pilled. "Blue pill" is simply the term for the out-group, people who are not "red-pilled", normies and non-members. RedPill is the in-group, they invented the groups, and being blue just means, "Not in the group, not a believer, not Red and thus Blue". What anyone believes as a blue-pilled individual literally does not matter, any religion, any philosophy, the only thing that unites Blue Pillers is "Not red-pille… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 09:38 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Every man's response to the "full custody bluff" social media challenge should be "she can try that," and it mostly already is.Apparently bro enjoys his niche references but also provides the reference point... That's the second time so far in this thread where he responds to a comment and then makes a reference, and the link is to the reference 😂 I guess no one told him we don't watch each other's videos in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:02 PM |
| 10 | If you are the type of feminist to call men paranoid or closeted creeps for not wanting to approach women, while also praising men for following the "cross the street rule," then you are clearly a hypocrite with an agenda.In one article she describes Pence's rule as being limiting, shutting women out of 1-on-1 business meetings with Pence that men are not shut off from, and she says this rule lends creditability to the idea that men aren't able to control themselves. In the other she grapples with her own internal narrative and self image now that she's no longer cat-called on the street and she wishes for the day that she can decouple her own sexual self image from the weird kind of validation that comes from be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Women are hypocritical about sex work.Someone in that post brought up that a man making a similar post would get a different reaction and what followed was a nuanced conversation around how men tend to treat sex work, and the general cultural differences between men and women around sex work. I see a male sex worker talking about his own experience and being well received and treated with respect. And a male client who discusses his own experience who is sitting at 48 upvotes. I also see comment alluding to "haters" of the woman who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion?There’s got to be a pretty good reason to not allow that but to fight and sympathize with it too. Does there? Humans have held abortion as a right, or at least as nbd, across many cultures and religions going back centuries. Many cultures don't consider a fetus "alive" until quickening or even the first breath... Why change now? Why change now, now that we have the medical technology to finally abort safely long before quickening or first breath? There definitely should be a damned good reason i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:02 AM |
| 8 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.Always fun when you guys feel the need to get super pedantic about the entomology of a word in an effort to derail a conversation. You know full well that the term "Patriarchy" is used to describe a society where men are the main holders of power in government, the primary people who are writing and carrying out laws, holding the most social social power and general authority. You know full well that no one ever means 'Patriarchy' is as literal a sense as "Rule of fathers" or father's ruling in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 09:14 PM |
| 3 | If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids?Because personal attacks are banned, not shitty takes. The subreddit thrives on people thinking someone else is having a shitty take 😂 But personal attacks get toxic quickly, and I say that as someone who has been told to play nice more than a handful of times, lol. It's frustrating, but I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:09 PM |
| 4 | If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids?You're forgetting the kind of man who will target a lesbian because she is a lesbian. "Corrective rape" and the power fantasy of "turning" a lesbian. Lesbian women are a minority group that doesn't always have much social protection. Sometimes they are women who are visibly "doing femininity wrong" or if they're doing it "right" then they're a tease because his dick got hard and she isn't into it.... It doesn't shock me that they would be a special target group for abusive people, homophobic peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 6 | If women are the problem, why do you want them to birth and raise more kids?It's a term from an It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia episode, actually. Frank decides he wants a woman to cook and clean for him and who he can also bang. He called her a "Bangmaid". What's funny is that if you were paying attention back when that episode first came out the discussion around it started out as men saying, "Yes, please!!" and now here we are 10 years later and women are being blamed for believing them 😂 "Femcel rhetoric" in this case is literally just women taking men at their wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are there any critiques of feminism that you believe are valid from a woman’s perspective?What is the “straight up advocacy” that you want to promote and you feel it’s worth giving up choice for? That isn't what is being said, "Choice feminism" is a term to describe a particular view that tends to lean towards "Woman does it = Feminism/feminist choice". Being against "Choice Feminism" doesn't mean being against women making choices, it means rejecting the idea that any choice a woman makes in inherently feminist. Which makes sense if you think about it, not all women even identify as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:30 AM |
| 15 | Excluding sons, do you have little to no sympathy for men?Not to circle-jerk but this was my read as well. His sister has been his sister presumably since he was a snot-nosed kid, there could be a million different normal-ass family reasons for why her empathy well might be dry or why she might not feel particularly close/sympathetic towards a particular sibling. Sibling dynamics are complicated and I don't think this can be accurately mapped on to "women", especially since he says his other sister is more sympathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women find male sexuality disgustingWhy did monogamy have to be enforced? Was it because women were having sex with multiple partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 01:20 AM |
| 7 | Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfortSure, and if the population would engage in a general strike then labor would make huge strides... But people have bills to pay today and that makes taking these risks untenable for the vast majority of people. Especially when those people have learned time and time again that being "difficult" or playing hardball ends in them being replaced, sidelined, even blacklisted, etc. People aren't very inclined to risk jumping off financial cliffs with little safety net, and women are not alone in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:15 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?You can’t shame sexless men for “wanting to be able to be assholes” if you barely shame the actual wife beating, women raping, law breaking, assholes. Conversations in which people try to discuss the tactics and manipulations of assholes and talk badly about such people in this subreddit especially, get derailed and the focus gets put back on the victims while ignoring enablers all together. Women who are victims are not the only people giving assholes social cover/acceptance but no one ever wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 08:01 PM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?In my experience: Older folks, often with religious and/or conservative views towards gender roles. Some people are raised being taught by those older folks, their parents, church leaders/general church people, friends of their parents, aunts and uncles, etc. The usual type of people you would expect to be passing on "life lessons" to a younger generation. There's a narrative in many religious cultures that men are wild creatures and that a good woman can and should "tame" a man through her quie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 07:48 PM |
| -2 | Misandrist feminists do not exist.I.e. feminists want only C-suite jobs to be equalised, not labouring jobs nor wanting men in already female majority jobs. There are feminist women who lead entire training courses to specifically get more women into trades, women already work labor jobs which they fought for the right for, and the people who I see leading and engaging in conversations around the positives of getting more men into female majority jobs also tend to be feminists. Just because something doesn't hit your feed that d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyHell no, despite not needing money they almost exclusively marry/date men that are even richer and more powerful than they are. "heads of the household" What you're describing now is financial and partner selection choices made by two equal individuals who both own their own money in their own right, this is far from the legally backed power dynamic that we were discussing. Being the individual in a couple who makes more money than the other is not what we're discussing when it comes to privileg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and Context"That's not what a hate crime is" "Well I hated it, a lot!" Still not hate, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyExcept that being the head of the household is a job that men took, that they have clung to, and that they're trying to cling to even now. Why do you think we're seeing a rise in tradwife propaganda, and controlling women's reproduction while refusing to fix things like the mom career penalty or parental leave? Why do we see the shaming of women who are "boss babes", child-free, etc... shaming and propaganda that goes back over 100 years, I might add, the exact terms get updated but the message … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 6 | "The patriarchy hurts everyone" can also be understood as "our biological realities are challenging".Your argument is largely an "Appeal to Nature" fallacy. If it's just natural human sexuality then deviation wouldn't need to be socially or legally punished, we wouldn't need to argue about it, or care if a person was doing their own gender 'wrong', we would simply let nature sort itself out and let people love/fuck/and arrange their lives however their personal nature and sexuality dictates, so long as they're not hurting anyone. To have these roles ridgedly enforced and for people to argue in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeNo you're right, there's definitely also a segment of the population that are enablers and who have decided that they're fine being second in the hierarchy so long as they have their own people they can look down on. From "Sluts" to other "bad women" who "aren't doing femininity right", to racial and religious minorities, give them someone to look down on and they're happy to continue the system. That same quote about a white man letting you pick his pocket as long as you give him someone to loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeI absolutely agree with you that some people are straight up enablers, and tbh I think that's why conversations around abuse, covert control, and weaponizing enablers against victims are incredibly important to have. We all need more education on what to look out for and more people recognizing that they're being enablers by choosing the wrong person to believe or support, etc, It's all herd social protection against predatory people. Victims should be educated and supported in getting out, regu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How Common is it For Male Relationship Partners to Misbehave So As to Cause Lasting Emotional HarmMan you really are all over the place on this topic, aren't you? Families making these decisions in a "modernized" society is good... But when you hear of it happening in the context of modern society you assume it's because of "3rd worlders" for some reason... And those situations you dismiss out of hand, and you don't want to engage in the harms done by the practice you're advocating for. You seem to have an idea that "3rd worlders" are the issue and that "modernized" families who engage in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:45 PM |
| 2 | What do abusive men bring to the table?Whereas most women getting abused rejected better men so she could date the dominant aggressive man instead. This sounds like something you think because of the assumption some of y'all have that all women get attention from healthy men with good emotional intelligence and all they have to do is say, "yes". Women who have poor self esteem, anxious attachment, autism, women who aren't attractive, those women often get passed on by men, believe it or not. Healthy men don't tend to want an unhealed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What do abusive men bring to the table?From your link (emphasis is mine): On the surface, these traits don’t sound like things that would intuitively be sexually or romantically appealing. However, it turns out that they are often mistaken for attractive traits. For example, if you don’t know a narcissist very well, their overly inflated self-views and tendency to talk about themselves can potentially come across as being talkative and/or confident. Likewise, narcissists and other social manipulators often make an effort to put on a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 8 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeKnown corrupt politicians/abusers get 4 main kinds of women: Corrupt/equally abusive women (political marriages and trashy couples) Women who met the guy when they were both young and he hadn't had a reason to take his emotions out on her yet, or he hadn't had opportunity or a big enough payout to show his corruption, or hadn't been caught cheating yet, yada yada the classic first wife story. Women young/dumb/naive enough to believe that he really did change after (tragic backstory reasons/his f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 07:18 AM |
| 18 | Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even closeHey, thank goodness they were empowered and had their own money to fall back on though, right? Otherwise whatever other mistakes they may have made in their relationships could have really ended up with them stuck, which I wouldn't wish on anyone, personally. To be stuck and not be able to grow and move on from your mistakes and situations that you've outgrown just because you weren't empowered enough or have enough of your own money to leave? ... Yeah I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Better to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:39 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.Ah yes, the reason that women don't bother being more vocal in "taking accountability for calling out other women" has arrived. A woman voluntarily calls out the described behavior of another woman as abuse then the woman gets insulted by the man she's trying to converse with and she and her whole gender are lumped in with the abuser instead of the woman being engaged with in good faith. This is why. Except in curated spaced it's exhausting, pointless, you get insulted and the conversation gets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:28 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.Denial and DARVO would already be pretty expected in someone who has low enough empathy and morals that they cheated, especially when you add in the emotional and practical costs to that secret getting out... Yeah no kidding, a cheater will probably also lie and manipulate, that was already going to happen. The toxic reaction and the same reaction look pretty similar sometimes, and cheating accusations is one of those times. In either direction. If you're going to drop that hammer you better be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:47 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.It always is about their fweelings. Everything is about fweelings. Summer can't be over fast enough... This entire post is you being in your feelings over other people's opinions and perspectives regarding a hypothetical and you taking those feelings out on women. Multiple women in this comment section are trying to pull you out of your feelings and into rational discussion, my friend. Unfortunately they're failing because you favor sticking to simply repeating yourself or calling them cheaters … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:36 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.I mean, OP has openly proclaimed that so much and having a negative feeling or taking a second to react (hesitating) when asked to prove paternity would make him suspicious of his partner, and the person you're responding to was talking directly to the OP. She's not assuming things about men, she's just believing a particular man when he says something about himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:22 AM |
| – | If a woman hesitates on a dna test then you HAVE to assume she cheated.it could also mean they are cheating themselves. So women who get a paternity test sprung on them after they're pregnant should take it as a compliment and also as an indication they may be getting cheated on ? If he asked because he's cheating and projecting onto her then should she still take the paternity request as a compliment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 04:13 AM |
| 3 | If you don’t care about personality, you’ll attract people who also don’t care about personality.It could be that those women purposely pick fights knowing that the person they're goading will abuse them, sure.. sometimes the person who insists they hate drama is exactly the person who enjoys starting it. But if you look into abuse dynamics it's more likely, imo, that an abused person has had abusive dynamics normalized (such as in childhood) and just doesn't know that better treatment exists. Sometimes people are raised being taught "that's just how men are" or "that's just how women are" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is women's popular music so much more sexual than mens?Well I'm late to the party, and I have nothing to back this up beyond the fact that you posted this a couple hours after I specifically mentioned Sabrina Carpenter to you in a comment, but in my head cannon this post was inspired by me and I am enjoying this little gift to myself. 🍿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 03:46 AM |
| 6 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Like bitching how marriage doesn’t guarantee constant sex because there might be times where sex slows down. You don't get to borrow claims made by other commenters to build a Motte and Bailey claim against this one 😂 If you want to talk fallacies: That one would be called a Strawman. It's takes two parts to build the Motte and Bailey, and you've only got the one. That is why he asked you to name the parts of the fallacy and why you couldn't do so. The controversial statement alone doesn't make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 10:06 PM |
| – | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Oh wow, you asked what of women's culture and perspective and whatnot that isn't considered mainstream and that gets generally frowned upon by men, and then when presented with examples you decide that no one is watching that shit and that it isn't actually important to engage with. Like that. Like exactly that. You are the embodiment of the male dismissiveness that keeps men from understanding women. Good job 👍🏼 You speak on Anne of Green Gables as if you don't know that it just had a new show … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 09:28 PM |
| 5 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.He's right, this is not a Motte and Bailey fallacy. That would require a controversial statement and then a retreat to a more reasonable stance, and then pretending that agreeing with the reasonable stance is the same as agreeing to the controversial one, or shifting between the two stances as is they're the same. It's a whole game with a set-up and a back and forth, not just one comment. The opinion might be reductionist, in my opinion, but it's not a Motte and Bailey. Also, hey, if some men th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.And yet, the mother is automatically awarded custody in a vast majority of cases. (Emphasis mine) Can you cite this, please? It's my understanding that mothers aren't automatically awarded custody, but that they actually ask for it, and if the father has not asked for custody then it would be "automatically awarded" to the person who actually asked for it. But perhaps you have information that I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 13 | Misandry is more prevalent than misogynyYou don't find being "head of he household" with full control and ownership of the family finances to be a privilege? You don't find the ability to "discipline" your spouse if they get out of line to be a privilege? Women were barred from education and owning their own property, ffs... It was a hierarchy, and a woman of any given class falls below a man of that class in rights and privileges. Women used to ask for jewels from their suitors and husbands because they couldn't own their own money i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 02:00 AM |
| 18 | You can't effectively fight feminism without harming interests of womenI had to look her up myself, apparently she's a nepo actress, making mainstream movies (XXX and Marie Antoinette to name a couple) who was also one of Weinstein's accusers. But the timeline is what makes her mention in this post fun: 2017: Accuses Weinstein and becomes part of the #MeToo movement May 2018: She deliveres a speech following the 2018 Cannes Film Festival August 2018: New York Times drops an article in which she's accused of sexually assaulting a 17yr old From there some feminists i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 07:24 AM |
| 3 | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)What hobbies, books, media, music, news, history, games or sports would you consider "feminine" "woman focused" "for girls" "for old ladies", etc. Like that. Little boys don't tend to grow up watching Elsa, men aren't watching Bridgerton, they aren't reading Anne of Green Gables or Jane Austin, they don't learn much about women in history, they mock "girly games" and women's sports instead of engaging with them, and guys aren't listening to much Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter. Girls on the ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 06:25 AM |
| 6 | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)You need a study to be able to tell me which red pill solutions YOU find the strongest and what YOU think we should be giving the red pill credit for when it comes to solutions? 🤨 Bro, you said the idea of blaming the red pill was FUNNY because they're one of the only groups offering solutions... What solutions? What are you talking about? Name one. Be specific. Since you know enough to object and make a claim regarding solutions being offered you must have something to back that up with, surely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 05:59 AM |
| 5 | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Sure, my bad, I'll reword my questions: You said that the red pill is one of the few groups offering solutions to this problem. Which solutions that the red pill has offered do you find the strongest? What should be we giving the red pill credit for, solution-offering wise, in your opinion? Do you dismiss the idea that there's red pilled content that is available for women to see and share with each other that is so off-putting to women that they might respond by taking themselves out of the sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 04:09 AM |
| 11 | There will never be a solution to mens issues because 🔵BP society effectively sees intersexual dynamics as a zero sum game (where accommodating one side means taking away from the other)Which red pill solutions do you think have been the most effective? Do you think that there is any red pill content that is being counter productive? If so then please be specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?To quote text cleanly and differentiate from your own reply you can add '>' to the quoted text, but touching the first letter, no space. Ends up looking like this If you're just making a style choice then never mind and I'll see myself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 07:39 AM |
| 2 | If women faced a real safety risk in dating, then their behaviour would represent itIf he can't handle being in public, yes he should stay home. I didn't say he "couldn't handle being in public" and that isn't the metric you've been using up until this point to determine who should stay home. The only things you've mentioned previously that make it so women should "stay the fuck home" are: Feeling afraid, Complaining about feeling afraid, Talking shit about men in general, and Having enough faith in male humanity to keep trying to find safe ones to date anyway. The horror. Such… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:15 AM |
| 2 | If women faced a real safety risk in dating, then their behaviour would represent itIf she's afraid, she needs to stay the fuck home. Why, though? Why should those women be punished by staying locked away from the world and suffering the effect of isolation? What harm is a woman who is afraid of men doing to people that should result in a self-imposed house arrest? 🤨 Can you think of any similar thoughts that men might have that would result in you thinking they should "stay the fuck home"? I know a guy who got mugged and beat up a bit a few years ago, he still admits to being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Do abusive men have good personalities?I don't live in some insular religious community, so maybe thats why. It's cute that you think this only happens in insular religious communities. It also happens in regular religious groups, and in much of any community that's built around the conservative ideal of "family". But really, let's be honest and admit that any kind of culture that is quick to assume that a woman is lying or oversensitive and that the guy they smoke weed with on weekends couldn't also be the guy who goes home and abus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Correct? I would happily settle for non-abusive men to simply stop shifting blame onto abused women while ignoring the community around abusive people who enable them... I think I was pretty clear on that. I don't know any abusive men. And many men can say the same thing. Enablers turn a blind eye and refuse to believe women, perhaps you truly don't know any, perhaps you're just ignorant. Statements like yours are hard to take seriously when I've watched wives be ostracized from their communitie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 01:23 AM |
| – | Does Saying “Women Don’t Need Men Anymore” Imply That Men Were Mainly Valued for Providing Resources?This is a gross over simplification leading into a false dichotomy. Women are not choosing between these two opposing options, and not every woman will choose the same even then. Millions of men exist in the middle of those two options, and even with the short list of traits you listed they'll be mixed and matched and not just black and white. Additionally you've excluded all the other factors such as being considerate or not being an entitled asshole. As I said, it's a gross over simplification… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Perhaps "non-abusive men" who are so confused by this phenomenon should spend more time asking women these questions in good faith instead of looking for a "Haha, women's intuition is shit and fails as soon as her pussy get tingles" gotcha moment then. It makes non-abusive men come off as bitter with a side of entitlement rather than concerned or genuinely confused. Perhaps these confused non-abusive men could also spend some of their free time researching abuse dynamics and why they're so insid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Do abusive men have good personalities?As I said, the person we are currently discussing was literally still in school, not a grown woman. Additionally, not all women are watching this content, not all women agree with it, especially women who are raised in more conservative cultures. Women raised in conservative cultures are pre-programed to accept bad behavior from men, to rationalize it, "That's just how men are", "What did you do to cause him to behave this way?" etc. Narratives like this exist in many "average" churches across t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 07:31 AM |
| 32 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Oh damn, and here I thought you made this post in order to learn how abusive people manage to sneak by undetected, not to bash women for not having had sufficient experience with a enough toxic men in order for her Toxicity Detector to come online before she's even left school, ffs. Guess now we all know the level of good faith that's being brought to the discussion. 👍🏼 Thanks, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Do abusive men have good personalities?Not only do abusive people often have outwardly "pleasant", and even fun, helpful, hardworking, etc personas, but they aren't just fooling the women who date them with these personas. They fool their friends, their colleagues, their communities, etc. They are aware that their behavior isn't acceptable because most people they act badly towards walk away and avoid them. Abusive people learn to be manipulative in order to maintain their social lives, get their needs met, and maintain access to peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:00 AM |
| -1 | Society is Addicted to Male Ambition and Productivity — While Systematically Destroying Every Incentive That Creates ItWhy does this feel like a complaint that women will have more freedom to choose a partner based on desire and the happiness their partner brings to their lives rather than being pressured to settle for someone they're less-than-happy-with in order for them and their children to be financially secure? This means that the balance of power will shift from wealthy elites (primarily men btw) to attractive men. No, it means something even worse.. it means the balance of power would shift to women. Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)I never said it was a true dichotomy Good, I guess. And yet it's still an artificially forced black and white choice in a world that is inherently gray. I am trying to know if the person reading/answering believes that the world would be better if people do as they please or as their moral code demands. To what end? Either of those choices could end in a different distopia and neither choice is how humans actually operate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility.No just stop acting as if y'all are god and are always right, that is my point. Strawmen really are so much easier to fight against, aren't they? I did not at any point "act as if women are gods", which you should know from reading my comment. My point was that guys like you miss, dismiss, mock, and ignore women's successes and only focus on their "failures" and thus you guys exhibit Failure Bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)That is called a False Dichotomy. There is no reason anyone needs to play in your make believe world that lacks nuance just because it makes the argument easier on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)People with a healthly self respect want to be respected. People who LACK a healthy self respect and/or who come from cultures who reinforce their unequal dynamics, will put up with disrespect and be able to be told they deserve it, or that 'it's just how men are', or that it's just in women's nature to do these things better or he just can't figure it out, or her standards are just too high, or... The rationalizations go on, they're baked into cultures, and they are used exactly because they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Bad men should be unselected. This Responsibility Falls Mostly on Women. The Freedom of Sexual Selectors and Responsibility.it has a 99% miss rate it seems. Ever hear of survivorship bias? This talking point men use regarding women's intuition smacks of the reverse of that: Failure Bias. Men will ignore the times "women's intuition" is actually successful because it's completely invisible to you... She simply turns down that man, doesn't date him, and you never see it. And if she calls out red flags in the dude that you personally don't understand then you'll assume she just thought he was ugly. Either way you'll ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 09:37 PM |
| -3 | Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes”I think you may be confused as to what the argument is, and also what a Motte and Bailey fallacy entails. It's not a Motte and Bailey to say that women's intuition is experience and discernment, or to also acknowledge that some people are so bitter that it is clearly evident in their word choices and speaking style. These things aren't mutually exclusive and in fact they go together quite nicely. Women have experience with bitter men, women see bitter men in the comments/on social media/IRL, wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes”The problem is your “intuition” isn’t looking at someone’s body language And you know this how? Why do you that women's intuition or discernment, as a rule, doesn't include watching a particular individual and seeing what information their behavior highlights? Again, men want to dismiss women's intuition, discernment, and experience, and they want to project what they think women are doing rather than just listening to what women say and taking them seriously. To many men stick their fingers in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes”I think a lot of men also misunderstand "women's intuition" as being something that all women are born with. Like a 6th sense. Women aren't born with it, it's another term for wisdom, experience, or discernment. It's acquired with age, and yes, it's learned from the mistakes a person makes along the way, or from the mistakes their grandmother's, mother, aunts, sister, female friends and acquaintances. It's acquired and shared knowledge. It's an old term though, from another age, a term that also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:07 PM |
| – | If PUA/RP-Game is Manipulation of Woman why is Makup not?Do you not understand how language works? That includes the word literally. Because it LITERALLY doesn't. Lmao, okay so no, you literally do not understand how language works even when it's explained to you. Thanks for clearing that up, I guess. But hey, no, throw a temper tantrum about feminists rather than joining the rest of the educated world in recognizing that adding a word to another word might change anything. 👍🏼 Redefining a term so that "please have sex with me you're so mid" and "have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 05:46 PM |
| – | If PUA/RP-Game is Manipulation of Woman why is Makup not?Just because you stick "sexual" in front of it doesn't change its meaning. It literally does. In this context adding a whole ass second word changes/adds to the original meaning of the first word. That is, in fact, the point of the additional word. Do you not understand how language works? Crazy how every term brought up by feminism loses its definition to something much more broad, almost as if feminism was a motte and bailey fallacy machine. Defining the term "sexual coersion" doesn't cause re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | If PUA/RP-Game is Manipulation of Woman why is Makup not?That's curious I went on google and it does align. Yes, the definition of the word "coersion", stripped of the context that makes it sexual coersion, does align with your definition. 👍🏼 However, when we're discussing "pushing past last minute resistance" and pushing past a woman's "No" in regards to sex then we are stepping into the realm of a different term, a term with more context: "Sexual coersion", which includes, but is not limited to, manipulation. Again, everything from domestic violence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 2 | If PUA/RP-Game is Manipulation of Woman why is Makup not?It's not coercion unless there's an active threat or blackmail Where did you get this definition? It doesn't seem to align with any of the top 10 links from a quick Google search. Everything from domestic violence resources, medical websites, planned parenthood, a university website, a government website, they all say more than just "active threat or blackmail". Manipulation, guilt, pressure, drugs and alcohol, much of anything that interferes with consent, they all count as sexual coersion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Women tell us to not objectify them, but they end up doing it themselves...but men don't earn by selling ourselves like women are. No, not usually, but men do sell themselves as human machines. That is how men tend to sell their bodies. I presume, following your logic, that you have no issues if women objectify the male population as living machines ? Is it okay for women to assume a man is available and willing to engage in his labor that he uses to pay his bills, regardless of the setting or who is demanding that from him? "Hey bro, men are carpenters, the majorit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Women tell us to not objectify them, but they end up doing it themselvesThe highest group in sex workers are women. And that's still a tiny percentage of women so it's both silly and also disingenuous to pretend that because women make up this higher percentage that you are unable to separate regular women from sex workers. That's like saying a tiger shouldn't be grouped under carnivorous animals I genuinely hope this logic stays consistent when we're talking about "Not all men" and violence statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:44 PM |
| 9 | "Gender Equality" hamstrings crucial social institutions such as the Fire DepartmentI dont know the whole story myself. I just report on what I see. And you then make assumptions and guesses and state them as if they're fact. You're not sure of the full story, so you'll assume it's something about women and sexism. 👍🏼 Great reporting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 04:25 PM |
| – | Men should never listen to womenWomen literally led and participated in bread riots leading up to the French Revolution, my friend. What class of women are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 04:02 AM |
| 15 | Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor.This thread is an example of a logical fallacy called a Motte and Bailey >Women have expressed they do no care about men’s problems so I’m asking why are women entitled to our goodwill and continued belief in the necessity for their legal rights and autonomy First of all here we have "men's problems", which is incredibly vague and could be referring to anything from the draft (which women and feminist groups have repeatedly shown enough "care" about to draft legislation to add women to the draft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 02:11 AM |
| 2 | If women have full agency in modern dating and equal power, why are negative dating outcomes usually framed as men failing women rather than women making poor choices?I can smell the guy miles away while never ever have dated a man myself but women somehow cannot? You smell the guys who smell bad in the ways that you have the correct experience in, and in ways that smell badly to you anyway because they don't have what you want in a relationship anyway. Are you so sure that you're smelling the people who have issues you DON'T have experience in, or you have experience that normalizes the behavior, or people who are generally acting like what you're looking fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:45 AM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Men made the decision and no feminist is fighting to repeal that decision Women have made repeated attempts to include women in the draft, are you under the impression that it's conservative women doing this and not feminists? Feminists tend to take the position of eliminating the draft altogether, or if that isn't possible then adding women to it. They have backed that up with attempts at legislation that have been swatted down by conservatives, unfortunately. But you should already know all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:55 AM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.Bruh, do you really have this poor of an understanding of abusive dynamics? Do you not understand that women get beat by their own husbands, boyfriends and fathers and even brothers and uncles? Why would she fear someone that protects them Because sometimes men only claim to protect a woman from nebulous "other men" while being the man who is actually beating or threatening her behind closed doors... The dangers for women are often INSIDE the house, gaslighting her and telling her he's actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 02:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV: a lot of men don't act use "toxic manipulation" by accident.. they learn it works to keep attraction highWhy people stay as long as they do in toxic relationships for as long as they do is complicated, unfortunately. It can take time to realize that a behavior is actually toxic and not just annoying or immature, while it's being labeled annoying and/or immature there are also positive reinforcements happening intermittently that make the toxic behavior seem less like a personality style and more like a person who needs time, patience, and maybe "good communication" "good boundaries" etc to overcome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 02:06 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women recognize the “selection pressure” men feel in dating, and how it relates to male loneliness?Your opinion then is that men do have inherent value to society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:20 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Do women recognize the “selection pressure” men feel in dating, and how it relates to male loneliness?It's the misogynistic language and behavior that a lot of MGTOW dudes engaged in back then that clued women into the fact that a lot of guys claiming to be MGTOW were in fact NOT going their own way, and instead just forming yet another tired ass He-man-woman-haters-club. MGTOW guys weren't actually decentering women, and women have been trying to explain that fact from the beginning. And you guys have been lazily sticking with this re-framing that paints men trying to go their own way as victim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 07:17 AM |
| 3 | "Man or Bear" argument is a striking example of women's tendency towards in-group sensationalism and overdramatizationHilarious, it was conceived from its inception as a way to slander all men. Oh, was it? I guess I missed that interview, or post from the creator, an email perhaps in which the content creator discussed his intentions in asking the question..? What was your source regarding intent, exactly? There is nothing "personal" about calling out objective slander as bullshit. No, and when you find some objective slander you be sure to let me know, but there is absolutely everything personal in the temper … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:27 AM |
| 3 | "Man or Bear" argument is a striking example of women's tendency towards in-group sensationalism and overdramatizationIf you are "alone" in the woods with a man, then he is "alone" too. Last I checked, primates survival is predicated upon the group. "Alone" is not the same as "lost", why do you assume she would be dependent on this guy for survival rather than it being a question of which she would like to carefully walk around from a safe distance (whatever that might mean) and then continue on her planned day of hiking? You're also projecting quite a lot of virtue onto this random dude when you have no idea i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:31 AM |
| 2 | "Man or Bear" argument is a striking example of women's tendency towards in-group sensationalism and overdramatizationDo you think it was also magnified (and kept alive past its natural lifespan) by men who felt personally attacked? I definitely have heard this meme complained about far longer, louder, and wider than I heard anyone supporting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?And how would you call introducing buzzwords instead of addressing claims? I addressed every claim. You either know this and are once again arguing in bad faith or you didn't read my reply before you said this, either way I see no point in reading further since I suspect the Gish will once again be Galloping. I hope you had fun tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?This, boys and girls, is what we call a Gish-gallop. It's a rhetorical device where a person says a bunch of nonsense as if it's an actual point, knowing that it'll take longer just to set the records straight than the argument is worth (especially since if you've gished once then you're likely to simply do it again) and they often downplay or sidestep the actual meat of the argument altogether in the process, as our friend here as demonstrated. Are women resourceless and useless themselves? No,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Feminists will pick and choose whenever they see men as a colletive.Defensively externalizing blame right away They aren't being defensive by simply bringing up the same issues that involved parents and teachers have been raising for decades. They're ensuring that the whole picture is discussed and not just a throwaway "gotcha" moment. Personally I've been pretty happy with the majority of the teachers my kid has had, they've been engaged, responsive, kind, helpful, proactive (generally, not all). Our family has definitely run into more problems with other kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Women have no choice but to defend their own hypocrisy and here's whyMen also tend to enjoy cushy jobs with air conditioning, humans tend to enjoy cushy jobs with air conditioning, especially since they tend to pay better than blue collar jobs. Women are in many fields, cushy and not, women have also had to fight through bans, discrimination, misogyny, sabotage, even violence, in their continued attempts to join non-cushy jobs. They keep trying despite this and you guys still write women off as only wanting cushy jobs. But perhaps you were unaware that women do m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is Not Like Looking for Clean Water in a Swamp; Rather, it is Like Looking for Healthy Food in a Grocery StoreFeminists have this fantasy of the "Master Manipulator," Redpilled guys have this idea in their head that a manipulative person must be more than just manipulative, they must be a master strategist at that. Some people simply learn through trial and error what gets them what they want (act nice, act in ways that signal socially acceptable behavior, be "vulnerable" in ways that will allow people to excuse their behavior, keep pushing, keep behaving in the toxic ways you're used to, but back off f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 09:41 PM |
| 2 | The pro-choice argument and the forced paternity argument are the same argumentDid you even read that thread? I saw a lot of people defending the kid in that scenario, I did not see any defending of the woman or any defending of cheating women in general. Perhaps you'd like to pull out some quotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist?But none of that is due to DEI initiatives. I didn't say it had to do with DEI, I said that women deserved credit for fighting to join the military and that your framing had denied them that credit while downplaying the conservative minded sexism that blocked women in the first place and that threatens to block them again. Military marching in pride parades or being forced to attend drag shows has nothing to do with women's enlistment rates. Women can be gay, my friend. Women also tend to value … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:48 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Democrats are evil and want to harm children and hate nationalism, religion and culture so they are never going to be good for the world. I have to wonder if you've been paying attention to the news lately... Republicans and church leaders are being caught hurting children on the regular. Nationalism has run so far that Native Americans are being threatened to leave the country. Religion is being weaponized against LGBTQ people who are just trying to live their lives in peace. Democrats have war… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist?"Woke DEI initiatives" have nothing to do with women being in the military or not. Ending the initiatives that supported women and incentivized them to join the military has nothing to do with fewer women wanting to join the military ? Fascinating take. One could even call it disconnected from reality. Eliminating those DEI initiatives does nothing to keep women out of the military. DEI is a Marxist concept, and has no place in a free society. It doesn't BLOCK them, but it does make their career… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:22 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵*you= means the left liberals not you as in you. Hello, I am both currently a left liberal and also someone who goes back far enough in the Republican party to speak to the points you've raised: And he still was more popular than any president who came after him. Yeah the propaganda went strong. People don't remember him for the more negative things... like that he let AIDS run rampant because it was mainly hitting the gay community and he was fine with that. The guy had Alzheimer's while in off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist?You are divorced from reality How, exactly? The reality that he describes is in fact playing out in the USA at the current moment. Conservatives came into power and almost immediately started kicking women out of various military roles and leadership. Then they started talking about making the military manly and strong again. They literally want fewer women in combat roles and have already been blocking women from the draft for years when it's been brought forth. Women exactly can't die fighting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:23 AM |
| – | It seems that the women on this sub are mostly Millennials and Gen Xers and are truly clueless and in denial as to how mainstream the pills are becoming, especially among Gen Z and Gen AlphaAnd in some cases that's when they'll stop using the term. Once they find out the origin doesn't align with their values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:26 AM |
| 1 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?you accused me of invoking OkCupid stats, which I didn’t. Calm down, son, I didn't accuse you of jack, I said "I assume..." That you're using the same "data" that is often used on this subreddit since your claim aligned with those talking points and you gave no source. That is not an accusation it is an invitation to correct my assumption, which you did. Your "source" was even less than the OkCupid data, it was your impression of women on this particular subreddit. Heard. After your correction I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?You cant find most men unattractive and also claim you’re not shallow "That guy's looks don't do anything for me but I like his personality and that matters more than visual attraction" How is that shallow or a contradiction? It doesn't compute in your head, for you, and that's okay, but that doesn't make women shallow or contradictory as a rule. It just means they're different from you and they place what they value in a partner on different things than you do. Everyone is shallow to some exten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 2 | If men shouldn't listen to women, then why women should listen to men?doubly so for the gender that only finds a small portion of men attractive. I assume you're referring to the OkCupid "data" and that you are yet another dude who did not understand how to interpret it. Yes, women were harsher in their ratings of men, but they also messaged a wider range than just men who ranked high in attractiveness. Men on the other hand had that nice bell curve that you guys think means you aren't shallow... Except who the men messaged was NOT in that nice bell curve, men fav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.Oh absolutely, people can find their way to a non toxic interpretation of religion and many do, no doubt. I'm just thinking of the churches I've been to across different states and now the toxicity was baked into the message, the culture, yada yada. That different and less misogynistic or toxic message is gone, it's no longer having an effect, if it even existed in the first place. At that point, like I said, does it really matter if 1000 years ago this was a different message when we're talking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 11:01 PM |
| 11 | Feminists use "misogyny" as an excuse to avoid critcism.Speaking as a former Christian who did some info dives on this stuff on their way out, at some point when the original message gets interrupted by misogynists long enough then that question becomes a moot point. Especially when we're talking about the effects on current culture. Does it matter if 1000+ years ago a religion wasn't misogynistic if at this point the misogyny is baked in either way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?You’re talking about outliers magnitudes greater than anything I’m referencing. I am not, what I'm referencing is shit that is unfortunately quite common and it goes back decades. It's what brought down the Boy Scouts, ffs, finally, and was a huge scandal in the Catholic Church going back decades. The creepy uncle or Grandpa that the little kids don't like going near but that the family won't talk about. There are and have been men getting away with sexual crimes against children all over the pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Look at the sentences and punishments they get. Dude, do you know how many rape kits are sitting untested? What sentencing or responsibility do you think is taking place in those cases? Yeah, cases with undeniable proof and especially with extra violence sometimes make it to sentencing, big deal. I would argue that THOSE are the "outliers", since we know how low reporting is and we know rape kits sit untested for years and how hard it is to prove a rape without violence and other evidence. Next … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Lmao, an example of a woman who raped kids and then didn't want to take responsibility is a "perfect example" of "women in the real world"? Are male rapists who shift responsibility onto their victims, their mother's, society, yada yada also a perfect example of men in the real world, in your opinion? Or would you perhaps like to use an example that actually fits normal people in normal situations rather than painting regular women with the same responsibility-dodging brush as literal child rapi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 05:01 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionWhat does marriage have to do with women's desire for sex? People manage to have sex without marriage and marriage without sex. It's a whole other ballgame that comes with tax and social benefits. It's so far removed from your original argument, in fact, that it looks like you're setting up a motte and bailey fallacy. 🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:11 AM |
| 18 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealThat would be because they wanted a mutual and reciprocal relationship and instead they feel that they were used for sex and then left without said relationship. What does that have to do with sex being a "reward"? Sex being a reward seems to be your framing rather than theirs. Are you perhaps projecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Many dont refuse OLD Points not because its "something different" they refuse it becouse its shows the unfiltered truthWhat info do you think men are putting in their dating profiles that signal they'll be bad dates? What signs do you think women are ignoring that they're to blame for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it?Is it your opinion that men and boys experience sexual harassment and physical intimidation from everyone from random strange women, to female family members, female family friends, female teachers/authority figures and female peers and romantic interests on the same scale and frequency as women and girls do? Not to downplay the very real individual experiences that some men do have, but I will point out that "individual experience" is an incredibly broad term. One woman breaking your heart is "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 06:34 PM |
| – | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.You are misunderstanding what I am saying bl_k gay men are a bigger criminal threat to society than non-bl_k gay men I am not and you would know that if you re-read my last paragraph where I already addressed this framing. bl_k people are still incarcerated of more crimes than wh_e people In a country where white and black people smoke cannabis at roughly equal rates but black people are more likely to be arrested for it this is meaningless. As I said, before, in the paragraph you either didn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 04:38 AM |
| – | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Such as? Unpaid: Women do more volunteering at everything from animal shelters, school days, elderly care, crisis helplines, church fundraisers, charity, socials, homeless shelters, you name it women do a lot more volunteering than men do. Throw in relationships and women are doing more child-related labor literally since the moment of conception, and they're more likely to be talking care of their spouses elderly parents in addition to their own. Underpaid: Women are more of the nurses and teac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Men and women both have benefits they give each other. Women do loads of unpaid and underpaid labor that benefits men as well. I know that there's a talking point that men pay higher taxes, but when women are doing so much unpaid and underpaid labor the higher taxes seems less like a burden or a sacrifice and more like a representation of the financial imbalance that men still benefit from. (Men pay more cuz their labor is compensated more) As per usual, the benefits men provide are very importa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.What media specifically did you feel misrepresented by? And can you be sure that you weren't focusing on "Prince Hans" and once again missing "Kristoff and Olaf" ? (Meaning, are you sure you didn't miss some positive representation because you were focusing on "negative" representation?) Again, as someone who does watch parts of the current media I'm always confused at this narrative that positive male figures don't exist anymore. It seems unlikely that I've just managed to stumble across only b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that gay men aren't nearly the same threat level towards women as straight men... We can change the qualifications to "straight men" instead of just "men" though if that level of accuracy is important to you, which, fair point, gay men don't deserve to be lumped in with this. Straight men, across racial lines, are a higher risk to women than other demographics, fixed it. As for race, it plays a factor in the kind of discrimination and oppression that makes tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 03:54 AM |
| 16 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Don't blame me or other men for not being on the up and up about movies these days. Then don't post about current day media and start your post by wondering if we are even up on current media, otherwise we absolutely get to blame you for wasting our time on an issue you're not even informed about. Regarding Frozen: You seem to have left out an entire male love interest who is wholesome AF and beloved by the fandom. One love interest was used to give us a plot twist, sure, but it's okay. We still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:24 AM |
| 10 | Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted.Well the same concept applies to gender. It does not. Race and gender are not the same thing, as much as I know that would be simpler for you guys. Pick a race, any race, and point to one where women are the more dangerous gender. Race and gender are simply not the same thing. Across the racial board it's men who are the bigger risk to women. (Edit: added the word "bigger") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Men Shouldn't Complain About Being Locked out of Casual Sex if They Think it's bad for WomenBoth genders may have the desire but only one is committing their health, becoming increasingly vulnerable and their body less capable, making immediate lifestyle changes, risking their life, etc. It might be an equal desire, but women are the ones taking the risks and putting in that initial investment. The time and bodily investment of the first couple years is not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 12:56 AM |
| 3 | A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power.What would be "helped" by answering your false dichotomy? My question is how is your version of the analogy "more accurate" when yours conveniently sidesteps the fact that not all men and their descendants are akin to the men in the Union Army when it comes to women's rights. Women know that men are a mixed bag, of course they wouldn't give out empathy as if men are all liberators and allies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:17 AM |
| 3 | A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power.A more accurate allegory would state that freedmen should have shown sympathy to Union Army veterans and their descendants. There were men back then who were actively working against women's rights using everything from propaganda to violence. They even have descendants. Why would a "more accurate allegory" be one that ignores that fact and paints all men as liberators? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 01:35 AM |
| 10 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doThey mean "job" as in he's employed by a store or something and is helping a customer out to her car or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Women tend to be more selective in partner choice than men — and it’s not a moral failingShe gave her view on the wider perspective on a topic and you complained that she was explaining other people's thoughts instead of adding her own, she added her own and you call it a text dump and a therapy session... Are you just here to waste people's time?? If you make it more concise, ill assess again. And find another reason to complain instead of reply, of course. The gall, lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 10:17 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Do you think that it's valid when some guys divorce their wives because they aren't having enough sex? Do you think it's valid for a man to divorce his nagging wife? Or his wife who is cold, distant, uninterested in having fun of any kind together? Let's assume all of these issues have been talked about, and that there's no lasting change, let's say for over a decade. Should a man stay married if he feels like a taken-for-granted roommate, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 05:59 PM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationWhat dating advice do you think women have given that leads to feminized men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:55 AM |
| -1 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?You made quite a leap and you got called out on it, no need to pretend that you have some special knowledge that would somehow lessen the ridiculous framing you were going for. From Wikipedia, but it should illustrate the point: "It was one of the most repressive police organisations in the world, infiltrating almost every aspect of life in East Germany, using torture, intimidation, and a vast network of informants to crush dissent." I think we all know enough that we can compare THAT to a Faceb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Women do not deserve betterWhat do you think you accomplish by calling me a little girl instead of engaging with the point? Is it supposed to distract me from the fact that you did not address the "orgasm" that was supposedly happening in your first example and that you didn't attempt to defend a single point related to that? Because if so it only made you look petty and incapable of forming a coherent reply. The reflection is on you my friend, not me. Being racist and right wing does not make you a Nazi. Otherwise, Winst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Women do not deserve betterEvelyne Sulerot, a female French resistance fighter, sounded like she was having an orgasm while writing about them What part, specifically, sounded to you like she was even physically attracted to them let alone having an orgasm? Is calling a tall person "tall" a declaration of wet panties now? Or maybe it was when she described an army known for its fashion sense as looking "superb"? Or was it pointing out that these superbly dressed tall men look different from her shorter, resistance-style f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:32 AM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.A man who disagrees with them on a matter of harmless opinion or who disagrees with them on a matter of their human rights, general equality, and/or bodily autonomy? Gonna bet it's most often the latter and very rarely the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:13 PM |
| 3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Is it your opinion that an embryo is the same as a toddler when it comes to "natural duty to care" or when discussing "killing one's own child" ? At what point in a pregnancy should the embryo gain the rights of legal protection in your opinion? The second sperm hits egg? that one’s natural duty to care for one‘s child may create a “difficult circumstance Some people are already IN a difficult circumstance when they get pregnant. If they're not already in a difficult circumstance, then if having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 12:37 AM |
| 5 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.I actually went from being a similar zealot (raised that way) to being fully pro-choice, so I completely know that... This is however very fun for me 😂 I appreciate the warning though! You're correct, no mind is being changed here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:13 PM |
| 4 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.difficult circumstances Oh so not from "entitlement" or on a "whim" but in reaction to a "difficult circumstance" ? Crazy. Almost like that was my point. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 8 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Whether or not someone else has said something has no bearing on whether or not it is true. You are correct, real evidence is required when making claims like this... and not given in his case. What is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. Until then it's just his opinion and can be dismissed as such. They are so entitled that they argue for a supposed “right” to kill their own children on a whim Medical health is not a "whim", nor is mental health, nor is family/future pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?We don't. But it's okay that you don't understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?Yes, men have been oppressed along class lines as well, sure. Two things can be true at the same time. While men and women were both oppressed along class lines, women were still the ones who had power, money, and education kept from them because of their gender, regardless of class. Poor men had little power, sure. Poor women had even less, and based solely on their gender. Rich women had more power than poor men, but still less than rich men. Regardless of class, the equivalent woman had less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 10:54 PM |
| 2 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?Absolutely. That's the play and he didn't even make the intention subtle. He just, put it in the post, lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?These things still happen. No shit, but the "argument" was a question as to how we can be sure these things were even happening. That they still happen today while being illegal and known as abuse only strengthens my point, which was that of course it was happening back then, too. There have always been and will always be different social expectations for the sexes Yes, and what those differences are and who they benefit vs who they hurt is the topic at hand. We don't have to just accept them, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?i want you to understand that you are vague if you talk about patriarchy and how to tackle it thats all... Nope, I and others can talk about patriarchy with nuance, which might be what you're mistaking for being "vague", if you can't then that's your own problem. i do not care about winning i care about purging double standards and misleading information... Cool, now if only you could explain what that has to do with anything I've said. I was pointing out some rather serious double standards in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?thank you for laying out the exact issue i was talking about...banned and choosing not to is not the same thing Bro I'm super stoked for you that you view this as a win, but I never said they were the same so you'll excuse me for having no clue why you're bringing it up. What is your point ? And you got the lecture on equality because I literally couldn't figure out what else you were talking at me about. Instead of complaining about how I answered when I'd already admitted I was taking stabs in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 10:47 AM |
| 10 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?Is that because conservatives tend to be patriarchal? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:55 AM |
| 8 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?Bro, I know I'm a little high right now but I cannot parse what point you're making... Taking a stab at it: Are you telling me that you can't understand a patriarchal system of power vs a more equal system vs matriarchal/gynocentric system? What gender/s can vote is a pretty good starting point, the gender balance of elected officials, rulers, and other people who are wielding power is another one. Money is power, who is allowed to have it vs who is restricted or banned from having it? Education… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 07:53 AM |
| 18 | Do you think the patriarchy was a more balanced system than what we have today?Which of the things listed do you think weren't actually happening? Be specific so that people can perhaps find some evidence for you. Beating and raping was definitely happening, we know that, financial control, control of movement, heavier social costs for similar behaviors, certain behaviors and freedoms being reserved for men, banned from higher education, taken out of regular school at a younger age, banned and kept from many jobs, banned from owning property or their own money, voting righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:52 AM |
| 14 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?Why would you bother asking women a question if you've stated in your post that you don't believe women? Oh let me guess, so you can call them liars if they disagree with you and then hold up the ones who agree with you as paragons of male-brained logic and honesty? 😂 Man I hope this one is as pop-corn worthy as it looks 🍿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:54 AM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.Do you not understand that the topic of the post is "Why are men in spaces like this?" ?? She wasn't asking "Why are you even here" to get them to shut up, she was asking them to actually answer the question they were responding to. She was asking them to give their perspective, which would be the opposite of shutting up. So happy that you don't think "tone policing" is criticism tho 👍🏼 I never said you felt criticized, btw, I said that your meter is off for criticism in general. How the fuck wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:45 PM |
| – | Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this.If you took that question as "tone policing" then it's no wonder you perceive women as "endlessly tone policing". Perhaps try recalibrating your Criticism Meter, yours is apparently too sensitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 08:25 PM |
| 2 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsYes, my complaint is that you don't understand that answering a question in a debate subreddit is different from "yapping". To find an example of "yapping" you can look at your own replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:13 PM |
| 5 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsSure, my argument is that you don't actually have a rebuttal to their point and that you have to resort to petty complaints about people "yapping" to cover for that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:41 PM |
| 9 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsThis is a debate subreddit. Did you have an argument to add? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from women? What do you think will change?Unsolicited formatting advice incoming: When quoting other people you can use > to make it quoted text. Just have the symbol touch the first letter of your quoted text and it'll format properly: Which looks like this. It separates the text from your own reply makes it clear where you're quoting someone else In case you were interested ✌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionThat's like, just your opinion man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionI didn't say we should assume abuse, I said that people want to talk about power imbalances and point out the potential problems in those imbalances, for awareness, so that people have the knowledge of what red flags to look out for. A lot of survivor stories start at 16-22~ with an age gap for a reason, people want to discuss the reason, and talk about the things that left them extra vulnerable, etc. And sometimes judge others accordingly because humans are like that. Why is it more likely in y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:01 AM |
| 2 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionWhy not think about the unharmful ways too? Your anime aficionado has no meaningful power over the newbie. The newbie isn't likely to end up getting traumatized because someone used their lack of anime knowledge to control their sense of self or push past their boundaries. Romantic relationships can affect our entire life trajectory, they have greater risks, it's more complicated math. bullshit. people have civil rights, and can make their own decisions after 18. I don't recall anyone saying oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionI take your point about "life stages", but I don't think people are going for debate-level accuracy when they use that term, they're using it as an umbrella term that also encompasses life experience (which tbh is my preferred term for exactly this reason), as well as other life related stages that create gaps in power, along with how well those gaps in power, knowledge, authority (whether real or perceived), can influence a romantic relationship in harmful ways. "Life stage" is incredibly subje… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 05:28 AM |
| 0 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionLogical consistency doesn't mean throwing away all nuance and engaging in black and white thinking across all circumstances. There will always be some degree of power imbalances in relationships, but we can discuss which imbalances tend to lead to more damage, and how, and why, and we can decide that certain imbalances go too far, are too risky, are too prone to predatory behavior from the powerful, without that meaning we believe all relationships must magically be perfectly 50/50 equal. Nuance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 4 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionExactly. No one is out here complaining about Leonardo DiCaprio cuz he's old and hot, am I right? No wait... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionPower imbalances can't exist between people of a similar age? Of course they can, certain age gaps and age ranges are more problematic (or potentially) than others, and yes there are other possible power imbalances such as wealth, or a boss dating an employee, etc, that people also side-eye and treat with care and consideration. The existence of other power imbalances doesn't mean we should just ignore them all. We don't stop pointing out one risky choice or wrong decision just because there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:05 AM |
| 3 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionArguments are not automatically fallacies just because you disagree with them. Actual fallacies don't tend to describe or name the actual argument that you don't like, but instead show how the argument itself is flawed. A "Stawman fallacy", for instance, describes a type of argument in which an opponent substitutes a person’s actual position or argument with a distorted, exaggerated, or misrepresented version of the position of the argument, not an argument involving figures made of straw. What … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Except that we aren't talking about "offspring" in general, we are talking about bodily autonomy during a very particular stage of development. The words "child" and "offspring" can refer to a born, breathing, autonomous person and they are words used by people who are anti-abortion to bring high emotions into the discussion and to cloud the issues of bodily autonomy and the very real risks of harm that every pregnant woman takes on unless she opts out. "Fetus" is the accurate and appropriate te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Hoo boy, as I said, using the term "child" to describe a fetus in a discussion about a woman bodily autonomy is not about accuracy, it's about stirring up emotions to distract from the argument and hand and women's rights to their own bodies. As you go on to demonstrate multiple times in this reply. That you “don’t care” about accurate description of the subject at hand is unsurprising You weren't trying to be "accurate" when you called a fetus a child, you were trying to conflate two distinct l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Cool story. Now ask the government for your tax refund for the kid your wife is pregnant with, tell me what they say about if a fetus is a person then. If that pregnant woman was on the way to the abortion clinic when she was murdered then the question is if she was about to exercise her bodily autonomy or shirk responsibility, and my vote is that she was on her way to make a medical decision about her body and what she wants growing inside of it, as well as taking responsibility in the form of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?The most accurate denotation of the English word “child” Don't care. The word "child" is used as a rhetorical device by anti-abortion advocates to stir up emotions and the natural human desire to protect living, breathing children. That is why I made that distinction repeatedly. Breathing children are not the same as fetuses, and I will not be so intellectually dishonest as to link the two together in this debate about bodily autonomy as if they are. Also, pregancy and childbirth do not involve … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Your child’s body is not yours. Sure, but we're talking about a fetus that is occupying a woman's body, not a child. A person owns their own body and gets to make medical decisions for their own body. Including expelling life forms that they don't want to host, regardless of how it got there. And if you create a child, civil societies hold parents responsible for using their bodies to provide sustenance and shelter for the children they create. In the sense that parents must "use their bodies" t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:26 AM |
| 8 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?So, one in a hundred are for emergency reasons. An abortion doesn't have to be for emergency reasons to be about bodily autonomy. The fetus doesn't magically float in a pocket dimension when it's a healthy fetus, it's still inside a woman's body. Pregnancy is still a medical condition affecting her real life body, daily and increasingly until it is ripped out of her body doing damage one way or another in what is often a traumatic event that not every woman has any desire to ever go through. It'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 05:56 PM |
| 7 | The tenets of masculinity™️ overlap with conservatism which is why the ideology appeals to more males than femalesConservatives adhering to gender norms doesnt explain why they also seem to be happier adhering to those same gender norms. Because they fit the gender roles, they're happy because they get to live in ways that suit them naturally anyway, and they have an accepted roadmap for how to achieve that life, they have readily available partners that want to fit into that life and walk that road, and the road they walk is accepted, "normal". It's culturally easy, and all they have to do is be themselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 11:35 PM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Do you have kids? Have you raised one through the toddler stage? I have. Being a short order cook for a picky eater you are obligated to feed nutritional food to for their health is absolutely work. Macaroni and cheese is what lazy uninvolved fathers default to, not what involved parents provide consistently. Yes, changing a diaper is work, and it's not just one diaper it's multiple a day. Sometimes it's so bad the kid needs a whole bath. Did a mention the doing of laundry? Where do you think th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Men don't have a purity concept of virginity as feminists claim, we've concept of character.That isn't hypocrisy, it's just sexual dimorphism, and we are a sexually dimorphic species. Are men hypocritical for tending to want a woman who is smaller than him with a higher voice than him and wider hips than him, or is he just a member of a sexually dimorphic species who enjoys the tell-tale signs of the other sex? Are men hypocritical for enjoying women with large breasts while not having large breasts himself? No, of course not. We're a sexually dimorphic species and we like the signs of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:55 AM |
| – | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'You're going to report me for pointing out that you avoided the argument and calling your attempt to reframe her reply "weasel behavior" ? 😂 I guess it's easier than replying to her in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 5 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Birth control isn't free, it requires doctors appointments and a prescription. Some women will experience detrimental side effects while trying to avoid pregnancy. If birth control fails there is the option of abortion, but not everyone is pro-choice, abortion is still not free, and it is also a physically uncomfortable and sometimes scary medical event. Abortion access is also increasingly restricted. Men do not carry the risk of their birth control failing and a fetus growing inside their body… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:03 AM |
| – | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'That's a lot of bullet points to avoid directly responding to her point. You made two statements, she countered the first one, you now pivot to the statement she didn't argue with rather than responding to her argument and then finish off with a question that makes it look like she tried and failed to counter your second statement. Weasel behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 01:51 AM |
| 4 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Compensated by her taking on extra labor as well, such as laundry, cooking, bearing children, doing the bulk of the childcare, etc (some women even do lawn care, car maintenance, and/or home improvement projects!) ... Or do you exclusively take your compensation in sex? Is sex the only thing you get out of the relationship or the only thing you'll count as "compensation" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:47 AM |
| -1 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Yes, a vast majority of teachers are women, and to my knowledge no one has said otherwise... But there are still male teachers all over the place who are not being called predators or setting off alarms when they walk into school every day. That was the point, not the gender balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?What "reality" are you in? How many kids do you have in public school? How many teachers do you know personally? Over half of my kids teachers are male this year, she's had multiple male teachers every year for almost a decade. Some of them have been her favorites. No issues. This is just a normal suburban public school. What the heck are you talking about, dude? There are male teachers doing their job every day with no alarm going off. Hell there are still male teachers finally just now getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 01:26 AM |
| 18 | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.Practicing safe sex doesn't save a woman from pregnancy complications that would warrant termination of a wanted pregnancy. Yes, obviously, practicing safe sex reduces the chances of an unwanted pregnancy in the first place, but it has no effect on a wanted pregnancy going wrong. Women who ignored pregnancy complications when voting on abortion because they were focusing on "irresponsible women who need abortions" are now suffering when their wanted pregnancies go wrong and they need life saving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:51 PM |
| 23 | There are not enough conservative women for conservative men to date.It's also a lot of, "couldn't happen to me" thinking. Why couldn't it happen? Because I'm going to make all the right choices, every time. And that'll keep the need for abortion away. Let's not think about pregnancy complications, let's focus on the idea that only irresponsible women have abortions. I think we're seeing the consequences of that kind of thinking play out in certain states right now. Conservatives also shun, tbh. I've known people in different churches, communities, families even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?Ah, you're right, I missed the change in usernames. My bad. Yes, the question was rhetorical and an attempt to better understand why they felt so comfortable being that dismissive. I was curious if they thought the woman or her doctor were doing something to cause what they thought was an otherwise avoidable issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 01:54 AM |
| 3 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?You seem to misunderstand where I'm coming from so I'll start over. So don’t do it then 😅 FYI it is entirely possible to give birth without your vagina being ripped open. The female body is very capable. Since It's also entirely possible that a woman will tear, and badly, and since she can't know for sure which will happen until she is giving birth and you agree she has no control over this outcome, this seems like a completely reasonable fear to me rather than something to be dismissive over. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?I'm not blaming anyone, I'm asking what they think went wrong when something that is "entirely possible" to avoid happens anyway. What is your problem with my question and why are you even getting involved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?I'm going to assume that because your comment "started a conversation" that Reddit gave you a notification of my comment even though it wasn't to you. I've been confused by this feature a few times myself. My comment had nothing to do with you personally or your original comment, and you are not the person I commented to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 10:17 PM |
| 0 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?What was done wrong by/to women who did tear, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Please address one point at a time You make multiple points in one reply, which ones am I supposed to ignore? How will I know? Lmao I'll continue to address the points I feel like addressing, but I'll attempt to be brief. Nobody is not reproducing due to climate change. The data disagrees with you We need replacement rate. If we don't reach replacement rate the human race will die in x amount of generations We need some amount of replacement, it doesn't need to be exactly 1 to 1 always at all ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?You're not making sense. You think women are not reproducing due to the fears of climate change? I think that both men and women are saying that fears surrounding climate change contribute to their decision not to reproduce. So it's one of many reasons, yes. One that both genders have expressed. Do you think they should not have children due to climate change? What I think is irrelevant. They get to decide what risks they want to take regarding their own kids. So the human race should end. I did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Women demanding the end of young marriage so they can ride the carousel What does "demanding the end of young marriage" mean? Are they asking for young marriage to be outlawed or to be excused from a contract they aren't interested in? What makes you think that this "demand" is so they can have casual sex, rather than for more through getting and/or getting established in their adult life or a million other reasons? is contributing to a population decline which is below replacement rate Lots of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 11:39 PM |
| 10 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Oh man, now I have so many questions... How is women's sexuality contributing to the end of civilization? End how? Contributing how? Be specific Do men also contribute to the end of civilization? What consequences of having casual sex are women trying to avoid? Are they reasonable consequences or artificial and easily avoidable with say, medication? How can you be sure that it's casual sex without consequences that women are willing to let society crumble over, rather than things like a lost sen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:22 PM |
| – | Women Seem To Glorify Sexual Violence More Than MenEr... I think you may have a few misunderstandings going on First of all, you yourself said that when you looked into women who wanted to engage in CNC many of them were looking to recreate some previous trauma That isn't all women or most women, it's a very specific subset of trauma survivors. You also seem to misunderstand the reason for the recreation, and that is often to reframe and even reclaim the traumatic event with a safe partner who won't hurt them. Not to recreate or add to trauma, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status?You guys know you have lingo, right? You have ways of saying and framing things that you yourselves think are so different from the rest of society that you needed a whole special "pill" to think that way. People who spend time around you guys pick up the lingo and then when they hear it irl they put 1 and 1 together and get 2. So yeah, they gave the "secret" verbal handshake of being someone who isn't "blue pilled" and someone who spends time interacting with red pilled people picked up on it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedSo making multiple posts means I am a man? And what makes you think I am an old lady? Make up your mind, do I think you're a man or do I think your an old lady? Lmao I didn't say you were a man. I said on other posts of yours in other subreddits that users immediately called you out as a troll or a bot. As to what makes me think you're an old lady, that would be the post you made in r/aging where you posted your face and your tips and tricks to looking good. So... your own post of your own face … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:03 PM |
| -3 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedComments on multiple of their other posts from other subreddits call them out as coming off as bot/troll as well. Also it's crazy how many posts they've made in these 6 days, a very busy lady. But no, I'm sure some old lady who has had an account for all of 6 days really did find this obscure and niche subreddit that is largely about dating and relationships and decided to post that women's intuition is overblown. Makes perfect sense if you think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:50 AM |
| – | Men are lonely because women are changed.Your argument that "traditional" means that women are to be dependent on men is literally a strawman argument. It is not. Strawman does not mean, "An argument I don't like." A woman who is not making her own money and who is being provided for financially is financially dependant on that man. She is not making her own money, she depends on his. You don't like it, and yet it is still true. Basically trying to pigeon hold me in a direction that will help bolster your points. I'm making sure we can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:58 AM |
| 10 | You cannot fix problems which do not exist.Economies are built on the realities on the ground not fantasies or utopian ideals. The reality on the ground is that it takes two people to make a kid and also that men are capable of taking time off to help care for their families even if they can't literally breastfeed. Shared parental leave does not have to be a fantasy nor is it utopian. Nature doesn't dictate parental leave policies, humans make choices on what to prioritize and accommodate. There is no reason both parents can't be home fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Men are lonely because women are changed.And feminism is definitely a big factor in why women are hyper vigilant about men. Many will sight sexual assault stats to make the claim that all men are predators and can't be trusted. Did feminism invent the stats? Are women using these stats because feminists told them to or because men discount women's lived experience with men as "anecdotal" ? Women do not need a special group to tell them that men are a danger to them. They have eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.This is a strawman argument. Arguments that people make from their own experience aren't strawmen just because you don't like them. If women from both the past and present who lived as traditional wives say that they were financially dependent on their husbands, who did treat them as second class citizens in their own homes, who are you to tell them they're wrong? Are former tradwives making up a strawman when they council other women that "a man is not a plan" and when describe how fucked they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Mothers don't train their daughters to be traditional or have any respect for men. Why would you expect mothers to train their daughters to be traditional when "tradition" was to be dependent on a man rather than themselves? Why would you expect women train their daughters to put their own needs second? I grew up in a "traditional" conservative culture in the USA, I actually did see women train their daughters to "be traditional and have respect for men". It was heartbreaking. I feel sad for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Men are lonely because women are changed.And you can say the same thing about feminist girls or young women. They are not 100 years old. They don't know what it's like to not vote, not work, or not have a bank account. So their nostalgia is nonsense too. Women and feminists are not experiencing nostalgia, they aren't feeling wistful about a past they'd like to return to, they are heeding a warning of how things were not very long ago and how things can backslide if women aren't vigilant. Women are experiencing the opposite reaction to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:07 PM |
| – | Women Demand Men To "Be Independent" and "Focus On Themselves" Then Throw Tantrums When Men Do Things They Don't Like On Their Own VolitionTaxes are not slavery, they are taxes. For one, you presumably vote for your representative, while slaves do not. If you find your tax burden too high or your government services too low you are allowed to vote, protest, run for office and overthrow your "oppressors", change the system. Your means of redress are built into the law, not denied to you all together. I mean I really can go on and on about the differences. Comparing the two comes off as trying desperately to compete in the Victim Oly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?A rhyme from the 1800's would pre-date the blue pill epoch, I would imagine. So, you were taught a rhyme from before the blue pill "existed", from a country you likely aren't even from, and that is an example that the blue pill is a real thing in the present? How does that even translate? It's also a rhyme that can be interpreted multiple different ways depending on the bias of the reader. Feminists would say the rhyme was being patronizingly sexiest to girls while celebrating "boys will be boys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?So the rhyme is an example of the blue pill shared narrative, and part of that narrative is that girls are good and boys are gross. Do I have it? Question since I see your edit: How would you define the Blue Pill epoch? Give me a rough timeline for how long we've been in The Matrix in your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?The nursery rhyme is an example of part of the episteme, and ideas that make up Blue Pill. To steelman your position and ensure we're on the same page: Your point is that the rhyme is saying "girls=nice boys=yucky", and that this proves there is a large, cohesive, social belief system that could be described as "Blue Pill", and that the red pill is the leaving of this belief system? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?You think a nursery rhyme disproves the fact that the "blue pill" is only defined by being not red pilled? 🤨 Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?There is no blue pill. People do not choose the blue pill or agree with its tenets, because it doesn't exist. The blue pill is only the absence of "taking" the Red Pill. The Red Pill is a cult, and as all cults do they need a way to differentiate the "in group" from the rest of the world, the ones with "the knowledge" and "the truth of the world" vs those who are non-believers. The "blue pill" is just the rest of the world. It has as many cohesive beliefs as people who identify as not believing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 06:23 PM |
| – | Women are wonderful because they are incompetentYour "evidence" is multiple "Appeal to" fallacies in a trenchcoat. That men didn't treat women as equals proves that men did not treat women as equals and nothing more. For instance, does all of this tradition prove women's incompetence or that men can't compete without hamstringing their physically weaker competition? Does it prove women's incompetence or that men will make up post hoc justifications of decisions that benefited men to the detriment of women? We have evidence of these "incompete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 04:02 AM |
| – | Women are wonderful because they are incompetentMaybe, I am a woman on the inside. Or maybe you're just a man who can't back up his own assertion, like many men of questionable competence before you. Deflecting your own incompetence onto women because you can't prove women's incompetence is an interesting choice. Especially since no one asked til you brought it up yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 02:45 AM |
| – | The societal expectation for men to be the protectors should be removedWho is asking you to protect them? How often does that happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:43 AM |
| 11 | Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them?I read that study, what it found was that women were attracted to the confidence and competence that was projected by men with dark triad traits but that the meanness and manipulation was a negative. Just like with so many manosphere talking points the actual point of the study was missed in favor of their preferred framing. And now we've gone from "women are attracted to men with dark triad traits" to "What women find attractive is heavily corralted with abusive behaviors". Because the misinfor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.You couldn't have just stuck with the cleaning and the cooking to show this point? 😂 You say you were showing that women's gender roles have evolved but to illustrate this you pulled out rules that they've never had... How did gender roles evolve or change from an extreme they were never even at? Why would removing rules that never existed in the first place warrant any change in expectations put on men? What point did the extremist rules that never existed show about the evolution of gender rol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men?Ah yes, women are famously always calling their own fears irrational, this sounds like a real talking point from real women that I should take seriously 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameThe thing is that both sides of the male coin here keep insisting that the other doesn't exist or is incredibly rare and they both blame women for either not being able to find the man she's looking for or for thinking that kind of man exists in the first place. And the question is why do women "get mad" when men don't care, they get "mad" because it's part of their criteria for a partner and it's apparently rather hard to meet. They're frustrated at not being able to find a guy who meets this c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:00 PM |
| 20 | Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men?Come on, man, you can read context clues better than that, you're going for such a lazy "gotcha". She's saying women don't just go around randomly summoning thoughts about men like that, they're in their own worlds doing their own thing. They still live in society though, of course thoughts of men are occasionally impossible to avoid, and yes that includes thinking about how to stay safe from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:36 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.What was the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:19 AM |
| 0 | A lot of women start to sound like the very men they call toxic when defending their point — ironically.Only speak when spoken to? Treat your husband's word as law? Oh this part it is telling as shit, yikes. I grew up in a culture so patriarchal that the women were raised that only men are logical, rational, and wise enough to make decisions both in and out of the home, and stuff like that women shouldn't teach or lead, and their only acceptable place was in the home serving others and making babies, and you go even farther than THEM 😂 Why isn't cooking and cleaning and other "female jobs" a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Oh you wanted to learn more? Happy to help! You don't have to hold on to anyone's history but your own life. Only messed up people in tiny little niches still hold on to the racism of whatever time period you think is still relevant Name a field of expertise from Historians to politics and policy, the military, the scientific community, etc, they will ALL tell you that history is important to know, to understand, to reflect on. That it can give us insights into where we are, WHY we are, and what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:19 PM |
| 11 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.The post is about feminists not being enough to stop Trump's win despite their strong and vocal opposition, and thus them not being enough to stop men from tackling other issues if they cared enough, not "Trump won just because of men." The very first sentence should have clued you into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Following historical context through a straight line to the present day is hard for lots of people, it's okay buddy. I'll drop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.What crimes are those? Can they be avoided if you stay straight edge? What does "stay straight edge" mean when the laws will be tweaked as necessary to target you? There was a time when it was illegal for a black man to be found "out of work", that was the "crime". Literally just being between jobs, in a country that doesn't want to hire your race for most jobs, would get black men locked up. Drug laws to THIS DAY are used against black folks more than white folks. Even just for weed. That wasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Poor reading comprehension strikes again. As I said, black folks are still to this day more likely to be arrested for the same crimes than white folks, and they're more likely to receive harsher punishments than the white folks who are arrested. To THIS day. In the year of our Lord 2025. Historical context also matters because black communities and families used to be stronger, and then intentional stuff was done to them, for the purpose of achieving the outcome we are discussing, that we still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Newsflash: Even IF women approached more, not a whole lot would really change.You disagree that a person can want what they cannot have and that a person can settle for what they can get? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 12:36 AM |
| 5 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Every men who participates in unprotected sex is ok with the consequences. Which is why we don't need laws forcing men to pay for their own children and men never take jobs under the table to evade wage garnishing. /s Clearly men do in fact engage in unprotected sex while also not being okay with the consequences. Come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.Sounds like stopping one dumbass would be incredibly more efficient than stopping 15 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The mesosphere not blaming men for creating fatherless kids is the biggest proof they don’t believe in male accountability.From this framing I'm going to assume you're American, and yes, it DOES sound racist, and I'll explain why: We know that the black family was purposefully targeted in the USA via laws carefully written to target them, their families, and their communities, it was admitted decades ago. We know black fathers were and are locked away from their families for crimes white fathers weren't and aren't, and we know that was intentional, over decades. Literally from the time of the slaves being free until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:25 PM |
| 8 | Newsflash: Even IF women approached more, not a whole lot would really change.Or it means that healthy people reject unhealthy people, which they do, because that is the healthy choice. If a woman is damaged from past trauma enough that she can't see the red flags of an abusive relationship then healthy guys will likely pass on her. In fact, rejecting her is a sign of their mental and emotional health. They aren't in her dating pool. Her dating pool consists of the same unhealthy behavior that is already familiar to her. It's been normalized to her for so long and/or from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Newsflash: Even IF women approached more, not a whole lot would really change.Both concepts can be true, men can WANT supermodels and still be willing to fuck anything that moves, those aren't mutually exclusive. Wasn't there a post recently by a dude claiming that a lot more men than women realize aren't actually attracted to their own girlfriends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 08:50 PM |
| – | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyYes, I am an American, on an app crawling with Americans, that everyone knows is America centric. So yes, I tried to relate to you based on the country I know most about, and with a statistical likelihood that it would also be the country you knew most about. Can't win every dice roll 🤷🏼♂️ That said, fashion has been changed through acts of rebellion since the beginning of time and across all kinds of countries and cultures, that you are apparently unaware of that fact doesn't change it. I illu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyThe culture a person was raised in tends to be what the rebelling against, right? Not so much rules about cleanliness or efficiency. People don't tend to steal out of "rebellion" but they DO tend to rebel against "dressing appropriately", that is true. And we all thank them for their contributions to keep fashion evolving past learning how to fold a toga or whatever. I'm sure we're all grateful that women aren't in 20 layers of skirts anymore. We've all heard the jokes about the "rebellious" ank… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 08:10 AM |
| 0 | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyBro, women say it out loud all the time, they just also go into nuance and explain other methods of getting their attention or of losing their attention. But they fucking say it. Here, in TwoX, name the woman centered subreddit and they are saying it. They just don't like it when dudes pretend that women ONLY care about looks or when men don't realize that their personality can help or hurt. Because while guys love to think that just because they as horny-brained dudes only care about looks and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Human psychology can't be ignored. Part of "human psychology" involves self-sabotage, often stemming from insecurities, putting defensiveness over growth, and staying with a devil you know vs pushing out of one's comfort zone and going out into the big scary unknown. We've all seen this and possibly experienced it ourselves. People often choose an unpleasantness that they're familiar with and know how to navigate rather than taking on a new challenge they might fail at and that might make them f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:47 PM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Because it's a numbers game. More creeping = more chances to find the kind of woman who is naive and/or damaged enough to ignore the red flags. Some dudes rely on the numbers game too much to give it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:30 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?They didn't frame one as "good" and one as "bad". They explained the female perspective on male patterns of behavior based on what women were told about their own behavior growing up. "...comes off as rude to women", not the same as "Is rude". Women have been complaining for a few decades now that when women are assertive it comes off as bitchy or rude, even when it's the same behavior as men. Women are not asking to be allowed to be rude, they're asking for people to examine their reactions and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:11 AM |
| 15 | Men issues and female privilege are connected.Now look up who puts forth bills to include women and who opposes them. Hint: Feminists groups have repeatedly tried to get women added to the draft and conservatives have repeatedly shut that down. It's not women or feminists that you should be mad at for this. It's conservatives, and especially conservative men. Feminists tend to fall into 2 camps: "If there's a draft then it should be for everyone" or "No one should be drafted". The third option of, "Only men should be drafted" is coming from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:41 PM |
| 10 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.I've heard it said that "good" men rely on the violence of "bad" men, that the violence of bad men gives them cover, something to compare themselves to, and an implied threat of violence should the "good" man not be properly incentivized to remain "good". I think your comment just illustrated that point quite well. Ah yes, women, be humble, because good men don't have to choose to stay good. Recognize and respect when a man isn't abusing you, always remember that it's a choice and he could choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 8 | People do give men a bunch of chances before giving up on them.OP isn't saying women are wonderful or that it's always the man's fault, they're trying to discuss the kind of situation where you do have a partner/friend who is refusing to listen to feedback and who will then insist the breakup came from no where and they weren't given chances to change. They want to talk about those particular situations because of the notion some guys have that men aren't given chances, and that women will divorce willy nilly. They didn't bring up the topic out of thin air … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Most women date men out of convenience and not because they actually like themYou guys talking about this study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 12:20 AM |
| 0 | How many RP men actually used to be "feminists"?That was too stupid an analogy, it didn’t even deserve a reply. Flip the rest of your comment, replace "red pill" with "feminism" and "men" with "women", etc. What you said is stuff that feminists say, just in reverse. That was the point their "too stupid go reply to" analogy was making. And you made it for them all nice and perfectly illustrated 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How many RP men actually used to be "feminists"?“It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adherents of the Party, the swallowers of slogans, the amateur spies and nosers-out of unorthodoxy.” George Orwell, 1984 This is a work of fiction written by a man, not a study done on real life women in real life circumstances. Authors of fiction can say whatever the hell they want, with whatever biases they carry from their upbringing. Doesn't make it true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 01:33 AM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingWomen have reported things like safety harnesses not being designed for their smaller body or for their chest size. Women have reported things like bulletproof vests having the same issue, leaving gaps unprotected. PPE is often what I hear about, so much of anything worn on a body for protection. Hang out where blue collar women talk and you'll hear more examples explained better than I can, but size can be a huge factor that most men don't even think about. Even your average kitchen counter is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 11:43 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingThe problem that you have is that you erroneously believe that almost every "hard" job that is primarily composed of male workers, are so because of their equipment. Except that I have made it clear that equipment is only part of the problem multiple times including in the comment you're replying to: safety equipment doesn't work as well for women and that is part of why they don't want to do the job. As if the equipment themselves are made with the intention to exclude women. I didn't say equip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 11:34 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingNo I understand that there are many complicated reasons to fight regulations and safety to protect one's own financial stability, even at a cost to one's health. Coal miners are a great historical example of this, even after reaching the "finding out" stage many times. I added in references to corporate greed because the male workers are certainly not the ones who deserve the real blame when they're really just trying to protect their jobs. However that does still gatekeep women, whether it's "g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 10:09 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingThey are "desgined" for men, because men do those jobs... you got the cause and effect backwards. I didn't say otherwise. They were designed for men back when men were the breadwinners and back when women were purposely kept out of heavy jobs, we don't have to continue this way however. We can change and adapt with the times. Which starts with acknowledging things like that the safety equipment doesn't work as well for women and that that is part of why they don't want to do the job. This is a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 09:58 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingMaybe you can say that gloves and boots were hard to find in female sizes in the 70s but that’s absolutely not the case today Go hang out where blue collar women are talking and they say that they're still having issues getting gear that fits, getting equipment made for their size, etc. They also report that men in their fields will fight safety regulations and changes even when the changes benefit men. There’s also plenty of work where being small is an advantage This only matters if the safety… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 09:35 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingThose dangerous jobs are also designed for men, the equipment, the safety gear, all of it is still designed to work with a male body, making those jobs that much harder and that much more dangerous for women. I can understand why women would have such a hard time breaking into those jobs. Companies aren't exactly rushing to re-fit and re-equip just for gender equality and worker safety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateYou put enough children like that into a class and suddenly no one is learning anymore because all of the school's efforts are going towards trying to prevent them from fighting. The problem isn't single moms, it's poverty and everything that comes with it. That's why I talked about investing in children, not "children of single moms". No amount of money can substitute a second parent. Money IS the problem, though. Because as I said, poverty is the problem. Statistically, single moms are struggl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateSociety cares about children, living, breathing, gonna be an adult someday, children, not the propagation of one man or another's genes. People used to understand that funding the education, nutrition, and general well being of all children is a net benefit to all of society because it means more tax payers, better work being done, and more productive/self sufficient members of society... The other choice is paying more taxes to fund other welfare, like indigent care, police officers, prisons, p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.if memory serves me right As I was saying, this statistic seems to be creeping higher by people going from their "memory", so I'd like to see what the actual statistic is, what the sample size was, and who exactly was sampled. Your memory is exactly what I was calling into question, no offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Where do those statistics come from? Is it men who already suspected paternity enough to get it tested or a random sample? I feel like this is also one of those statistics that is stated without evidence so often that it's experiencing statistic creep and getting higher every time it's said. But either way a source would clear all that up, do you have yours handy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves.Sure but whereas women in this subreddit go on and on about the different personality factors that are important to them for compatibility, things they would value in a partner, the guys will straight up say they don't even care, they're not interested. There's "secondary" and then there's what guys here describe about how far down the list personality is to them. Her hobbies, education, interests, yada yada is all interchangeable as long as she's attractive and nice to him. Personality is entir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Male Loneliness Epidemic is a societal problem.You could simply have exceptions that allow abortion in cases of rape and incest. How does rape get proven and how long will this process take? Are you worried this will incentivize false rape accusations in order to secure an abortion? Not all rape is violent enough to leave much evidence of the lack of consent, are you concerned about actual rape victims being unable to prove their case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemBecause I was able to observe a man doing a shitty job I must be a nagging wife? Come on now. Some of the most fastidious people I know have been men, and while I am not that anal I am still capable of seeing a sticky mess with my own eyes and acknowledging that sometimes men will call a half-assed job "done" and get their panties in a twist when it's pointed out to them, even by other men. Work with guys in a professional kitchen setting and you'll see plenty of representation of both sides of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a ProblemMen actually do things. Do they, though? Some men, sure... But then I've also seen a man wipe up a sticky spill with a dry tissue and walk away declaring the job "done". If the job is half assed then it isn't done, and someone else has to notice and yes, take the time and effort to fix the half-assed job. That person might also resent having to come behind a grown adult who is giving themselves credit for having "done the thing" that is so clearly not done. If these men are fed up at being treat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badOutwardly, you can have plenty of friends, just not feel particularly 'seen' by any of them. If you're not feeling particularly seen by any of your friends then personally I wouldn't call those "good" relationships. (General "you") It's something that a lot of people seek out a partner to rectify. Another way to rectify that could be finding good friends who do actually see you instead of settling for being alone in a crowd of shitty acquaintances who don't. People don't have to stay in shitty q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 10:41 PM |
| 10 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?Sure, but women aren't using the stolen labor of men to claim that "women built society" to the exclusion of men, like men will do to women. Women's contributions have been downplayed, demeaned, stolen and hidden and then (and this is the important part) their hidden/stolen contributions are used to continue to hold back and demean women as a whole. Then we add in things like "Man is bad at math = THAT man is bad at math, woman is bad at math must mean that women are bad at math" and it's no won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalYeah people dont change out of highschool Actually most people DO grow as people past highschool, it is in fact quite expected. People who stay stuck in highschool are often mocked for it, ffs. Staying stuck is a choice, not a foregone conclusion. "Wisdom comes with age" is the saying, not "Wisdom is set in highschool so pay attention kids!" Comparing grown men to teenage girls is incredibly silly on its face. As is pretending that grown men don't cheat if given the opportunity since men and wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:43 PM |
| -1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalI don't pay attention to usernames so I didn't realize that I was having a conversation with a separate person until now. But... I'm not sure what the argument is - beyond a valid criticism of potential confounding factors. Yep, that was my whole point. That this "fucking insane imbalance" that he said can't be ignored doesn't actually tell us much, and then some reasons why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalWhether I have another framework or a better one doesn't matter, yours is still flawed. Correlation still doesn't equal causation even if I don't know what the causation is. "Women file X percentage of divorces" still doesn't tell me WHO broke the marriage or who ultimately decided to end it, it only tells me who was responsible for filing the paperwork that made the end official. If your wife cheats on you and leaves you to go from Chad to Chad but didn't file the paperwork then I would not acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalWhich imo just goes to show how much of a pure fantasy 50 Shades is in actuality. BDSM doesn't seem to be something most of those women were experiencing or experienced with IRL. Since they didn't have real life experience with BDSM themes they didn't know how serious and messed up such a scenario would actually be. Like men who romanticize going to battle vs actual vets who know how bad things can actually go. And of course in both cases it's ultimately a power fantasy rather than a real wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalKnowing who filed the paperwork does not tell us who broke the marriage. Hell it doesn't even tell us who actually said, "Let's get divorced", it just tells us who ultimately filed the paperwork. One partner could cheat, abuse their spouse, abuse substances, and even physically leave the relationship but if they don't file the paperwork then the statistics "blame" the person who does. Correlation does not equal causation, and "who files" is not the whole picture, it's just a convenient framing u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:38 PM |
| -2 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalwomen In highschool You're talking about teenagers... Raging hormone monsters who haven't gained sense or wisdom yet. do it to a guy and hes like "i like the lady at home better" At home, meaning his mom because we're being consistent and judging teenagers across the board or are you actually comparing the behavior of grown men to teenage girls? Also: Ah yes, men, famous for turning down opportunities to cheat 🙄 You apparently live in a fantasy world made up of your own confirmation bias that li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notWas the math here that you didn't think Harris would improve your life anyway so you might as well see your enemies lose something, or did you give up some gain in your own life to hurt other people? If Trump makes your own life worse in some measure will you mind or is the pain of your enemies more valuable to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | The same women who would call out men for body-shaming or slut-shaming use sexuality as a weapon the moment their pride takes a hitWhen people talk about homophobia they talk about male homophobes when people talk about bullying they always mention male bullies etc Is this reality or your personal bubbles/biases? I have absolutely seen women as a group called out for homophobia BY other women, sometimes very specifically with going into detail of the ways in which women's homophobia presents differently, etc. And women made an entire well known movie about female bullying over two decades ago, a movie that is still talked a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward menPerhaps, but they didn't describe vague social issues, they described very specific sorting behavior surrounding what could even be a special interest... The same very specific behavior we would expect to see in an autistic individual. So what does your comment have to do with theirs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesOf course not, we're a sexually dimorphic species, the males tend to be larger and the females tend to be smaller, so a woman being small is just a woman being as expected and even desired. This would be like being surprised that tall men don't develop an inferiority complex over their height... No shit. TALL women, however, can absolutely develop insecurities over it and feel like she's perceived as being giant and "manly". The "overcompensating" she'll do however is also the opposite of what a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 6 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesHave women by lying or have men been combining the different opinions of different women into "Women the Monolith" with no nuance and no understanding of balance and moderation? The women who say they don't care about height probably don't, and the women who do care probably aren't the ones saying they don't care. How much height matters is individual and since women also come in different sizes what is an attractive height is going to have that much more range. I've known many short (sub 5'3) d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:46 PM |
| 9 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesMen might be less likely to obsess over celebrity personal lives but they will absolutely drool over a body or criticize a lack of drool-inducing visuals. Men lost their shit over Lizzo being held up and called beautiful, you think women didn't notice that? I can remember men openly criticizing the looks of celebrity women going back decades, and even then fathers would engage. Men young and old since the beginning of time have obsessed over and criticized women's bodies, and women have ears, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Where did I write something about little girls? Is keeping up with a conversation really this taxing for you? You were RESPONDING to someone who brought up harassment from a young age as a consequence of having "tons of men interested in her sexually and romantically" regardless of her own interest or even the laws regarding age of consent. Your response was that all women have to do is choose "the best one". Which translates to "choose the best harasser", for those who were actually keeping up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 08:27 PM |
| 5 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Every woman has a ton of men interested in her both romantically and sexually. ... Yeah that would be the problem they're describing, bud. And the only thing she has to do is to choose the best one. This after having it pointed out that another "thing women have to do" is to protect themselves from horny men who are quite literally trying to touch and grab them from the age of 12... Just some light trauma-inducing harassment from people bigger and stronger than you who will follow you around yel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:06 AM |
| – | Q4W: Why do you want to marry and date men, given that the majority of women are not attracted to the male body?what do you except that i should feel good that women like my credit card and tolerate my existence Obviously not, if that is all your woman sees in you then you should absolutely move on and look for a woman who likes your thoughts, opinions, lifestyle/goals, voice, vibe, and whose time is made better by spending it with you. Women aren't alone in this, especially for long-term relationships. Looks don't carry a relationship, and they also fade with time, so looks are not enough on their own fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 11:44 PM |
| – | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?what are the risks for pregnancy in pro-choice jurisdictions? Higher than they are for a man. An abortion isn't painless or free, even early on. It takes time, effort, and then going through the painful process of expelling a fetus, abortions can also have complications since it's a medical procedure. It's not just "Sex, cum, walk away" like it can be for men, even with abortion being legal sex is still a higher risk of negative consequences for women than they are for men. A man who is literall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | We need more two-way empathy, not sympathyIs this something that's been studied or something you're assuming because it sounds logical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 07:58 PM |
| – | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooBro I've been on Reddit for over 15 years, so has my wife, my sister, many female friends, coworkers, acquaintances, hell my 65 yr old mother has used Reddit for 5+ years. How many years has 2X been a default sub, ffs, against their will because REDDIT wanted to use them to attract more women. Perhaps you don't know this "for men" website as well as you think you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 04:17 PM |
| 15 | Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers?They don’t respect their providers like they used to What does this mean, specifically? This could mean that women used to "respect their providers" by waiting on them hand and foot and speaking to them like they're a peasant in front of a King, but now they treat "their provider" like a husband and a teammate instead, in which case "providers" can cry all of us a river for this "loss". I'm reminded of that quote: "Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why such a hostile, negative reaction to a woman proposing to a man?They talk about themselves to provide a counter example straight from the horses mouth with whatever extra context they feel is relevant...they aren't pretending all other women feel the same though. It's just a counter example from their real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooDebates are just so much easier when the opposition doesn't show up, amiright? This isn't Red Pill Debate (with each other? I guess?) it's purple, meaning mixed. Blue should be represented or else it'd be a shitty circle jerk instead of a debate. Women are half the population so it shouldn't be surprising there are gonna be women here debating gender, dating, and relationships, since they also have a gender, and they date and have relationships. Women being here is as 'confusing' as men being he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooSure, it was a group of men who founded Reddit, but can you show me where he or anyone in Reddit leadership has said anything about Reddit being for men with any desire on their part for exclusion of women from the space? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:37 PM |
| 4 | What would your perfered insult be?AOC insulted Steven Miller in various ways, including calling him a "clown" and saying that he looks like he's angry that he's 4 foot 10 inches and that he looks like he's so mad that he takes that anger about being 4 foot 10 inches out on other segments of the population. (Paraphrasing but that's the gist) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Female double standards regarding insecurityher trauma does not erase her category as a desirable sex object and potential partner in the way a man's shortness or ugliness can. Again, this shows your ignorance of women's lives. First of all you're assuming that a woman with trauma will even be believed rather than labeled as a liar who wants attention by ruining men's lives. Wanna guess what that kind of rumor does to a person's entire social life and "sexual desirability" ? that value is rooted in your biology and your capacity for pair … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:49 PM |
| – | Question for women regarding Anti-NatalismCool beans, and I don't know if you know this but, we are not bugs. Maybe look into how social species behave and then try choosing not to cherry pick the absolute worst behavior of other species and applying that behavior to human men as "nature". Men are better behaved than bedbugs ffs, and I expect us to hold ourselves to a higher standard than engaging in rape, traumatic insemination, and sexual cannibalism as an emotional response to another member of our social species rejecting our advanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:58 PM |
| – | Question for women regarding Anti-NatalismI'm sorry... Maybe I lost the thread, I thought we were talking about the male of many species being more colorful to attract a mate, where did we veer into men being inferior to women and having inferior lives? Do you think that men are superior to women because women are currently the more colorful mate? Are women living inferior quality lives currently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:50 PM |
| – | Question for women regarding Anti-NatalismCause these women use nature as an example forgetting that it wouldnt be pretty for them too. No, you've declared that men will choose the worst aspects of other animals as an emotional response to not getting what they want from another human being under their own terms, that is not "nature". Most men will never support a system in which they cant get access to social needs and a relationship. No one said men wouldn't be able to get access, just that men would need to find their bimbofication g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Question for women regarding Anti-NatalismRape, murder, incest, child killing, sure these are all things that appear in nature, sure... but they aren't "how nature works". Some species engage in some of these behaviors and to carrying degrees, others don't at all. Another thing found in nature, in social species in particular obviously, we see behavior-policing. The group decides that certain behavior isn't beneficial for the group to tolerate and so they don't tolerate it. We also see empathy in nature and in studies done on animals, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:48 AM |
| 16 | Female double standards regarding insecurityWhen you, as a woman, are victimized, you still retain your fundamental sexual value, the world may offer you sympathy, support, and crucially, it does not disqualify you from finding partnership, your trauma does not negate your desirability. That is your perception, but it makes you sound like someone who doesn't know many women who are abuse and trauma survivors. Women can and do lose their perceived sexual value, their partnerships, and "desirability" based on their past and/or recent trauma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?The majority of people aren't into BDSM, and even in BDSM not everyone is into degradation, praise kinks are a big thing ffs. "You'll be called Chad's perfect, precious princess and you'll like it" doesn't hit the same way though. Women can dominate, too, btw. Like, seriously you guys don't seem to understand all the various flavors of people out there or how rare people who are into being degraded actually are. Or you guys just like to make an assumption that lets you hurl insults while feeling… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 08:00 AM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really arewas due to women being more picky and not choosing the avg man Why do you think that was why young men went right? Over all the other issues people vote based on, why is this the deciding factor in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 07:50 AM |
| – | Men think they are more attractive than they really areWhen you bring up "women like muscles" they immediately jump to idea of the most extreme, huge wadling body builder type. That wasn't OP's point and that isn't what they said. They said that the friend focused on muscles to the exclusion of all other factors which made him miss the other factors that she took points off for. The friend was completely distracted by the big muscles and missed other weaknesses, that was the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 07:31 AM |
| 3 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?They didn't say they reacted with positive vibes. They described neutral vibes towards the dirty looker, and simply refused to let someone else's negative feedback affect the positive view they already had towards themselves. They didn't let someone who couldn't regulate their face and mind their damn business shake their confidence in their own personal outfit choice and you choose to spin that as a narcissist at best. 🤨 How was she "supposed" to react to a dirty look, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 4 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?This is why men will say they don’t care for or even like certain things women do with their appearance like makeup styles and nail art but women still do it. Sometimes being man-repellent is even the point, or at least a nice bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 06:45 PM |
| 16 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?Why do you assume it's "for you" just because you're attracted to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Young women are dating the same terrible menYes. I have seen women take accountability many times, both personally and professionally. Many people have. It's honestly weird to me that you supposedly haven't ever seen a woman take accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?Don't worry about it, champ, I'll simplify it for you. I was just explaining that the "inherent social value" that you ascribe to women doesn't actually reflect reality. I explained that this is obvious when we look at how class, "respectability" and race factor in, both of the victim and of the perpetrator. Then I reminded you that it's a phrase, not a law, and that a man can literally say, "Don't hit women" one day and then hit a woman he considers sufficiently "cockroach-like" the next. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?"Not hurting women" has to do with the inherent social value women have in their continued existence as a privilege of being female, not with their physical weakness. Otherwise, it would be socially acceptable to hit stronger or more dominant women, but it's not. The scale of how acceptable it is to hit a given woman is a sliding one based on many factors. On the "Ghastly behavior becoming of a cad!" Side of things we see richer, more "respectable" and whiter women, and on the "Sometimes you hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?There have always been people with different views on how to handle life, and women. The people who were anti women-hitting would naturally be the ones telling the people who hit women to stop. Without people who are hitting women there's no need to tell anyone not to hit women. And of course not everyone who says, "Don't hit women" is engaging in benevolent sexism, but that blanket, unnuanced statement only makes sense in the context of not remembering that there ARE women who are willing and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird?Otherwise we'd have to accept that all of the upsides of being a man in society is also just benevolent sexism against men. Only if we don't apply critical thinking and ask ourselves what the historical, social, and biological context might be for such terms, but luckily we DO have that context and we can dissect why the terms might be different depending on gender. "Don't hit women" came from a place of men viewing women as frail, ineffective fighters who couldn't really defend themselves in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 02:02 AM |
| 4 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?You know how men are basically biologically programmed to help women in distress, even if they aren't related to them? I'm not who you asked, but no, I did not know that men were so innately pulled to help women, is that backed up by a study or just your own observation? Women have a similarly strong reaction to seeing men cry or express any other "unmanly" emotions, and the reaction is to shame those men for being weak. Same question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 05:02 AM |
| 5 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personWhat specific behavior of women do you think should be outlawed? Outline a couple laws for us to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 09:11 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My kids school wants to get them evaluated but I'm honestly getting concerned about what their future looks like if they get diagnosed now. Do I want them to have accommodations, support and to better understand their own brain or do I want to protect them from an increasingly uncertain world in regards to their safety? I hope you stay safe out there, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Before or AfterI have had women friends help me move and been with them while they helped other friends of theirs (and ours) move. Women do a lot, too, they lift, they organize, they take charge, they motivate, they clean, they play Tetris the moving van effectively... Women are awesome at helping their friends move in my experience and with no expectations beyond "Thank you" and some pizza. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Women and sex are not your reward for working and contributing to societyBut if you come to this corner for anything more than entertainment, you’re an idiot. Maybe you're new here, but starting a discussion based on talking points from "the other side" of this same subreddit is kinda how we entertain ourselves here. OP is sticking with the theme of the subreddit with this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?I can agree that there are women who are naive enough that they don't see the red flags or so toxic that they seek them out, I don't think anyone is arguing that. The problem is that far too often these conversations focus exclusively on the women who find themselves in these relationships, placing all of the blame on the women while refusing to acknowledge that there is nuance. That there are abusive people who pretend to be normal and healthy, which is not a woman's fault. They don't want to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Seems fine to me. If someone makes a huge mistake because of negligence or sheer stupidity, they generally don't get off scot-free. A functional child who had never encountered evil or a lie believed the first lie they had ever heard in their life and for this you're fine with women taking blame for all eternity? But let me guess, men shouldn't be blamed for the patriarchy, you know, "Sins of the father" and all that. I'll also remind you that Eve did not get off scott free, and that blaming wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Bad men are bad men. Women choosing bad men are women's fault. There are no guarantees in life. You can walk across the street and be hit by a car tomorrow or develop cancer next week This is called a motte and bailey fallacy. First you claim that women choosing bad men is women's fault (the motte) and then when challenged you retreat to your reasonable bailey of "No guarantees in life". There being no guarantees in life was the position of your opponents, you are the one who assumes that anyone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?You act like you go on one date with a person and you're committed for life. And you act like abusers aren't capable of being on their best behavior to get their way, the way they behave at work and with their family and friends. "The frog in the pot" is a well known tactic of getting a person to accept treatment they wouldn't if they'd known they were jumping into a pot that was already boiling, and it's a tactic that works on both men and women. Abusive people are aware that their behavior isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:45 PM |
| 18 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Right, it's a power fantasy, and like all fantasy it remains safe as long as it remains a fantasy. The bad-guy romantic interest is written, he's controlled, he cannot come off the page and behave differently towards the reader than how he is written. He will ALWAYS be loving and caring towards the reader and his true nature will never turn on her because it cannot, he is not real. It's a safe way to feel a thrill of "danger" while being removed from any real danger, like riding a rollercoaster … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Do you think bad men are simply a case of demand breeds supply?Kind of a counterproductive example since Lucifer is the original bad boy But Lucifer doesn't really get the weight of the blame, does he? Women do, religiously and even in the bible. That story has been used to tell women why they shouldn't be in charge of anything for more than 2000 years. If your point has merit then why wasn't the lesson about humans needing to be careful about the devil instead of "Women shouldn't be trusted or in charge of anything for the rest of all eternity" ? Eve was o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:25 PM |
| 1 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.Why not? What is unhealthy about a social animal seeking social connection when they're going through something emotionally hard, confusing, frustrating, etc? What's unhealthy about seeking advice, a reality check, and a new perspective? I think it's important to be mindful of what is said, to whom, and what social knock-on affects might be from anything said, but you don't think a person should have anyone they're talking to about their relationship? In your opinion what is a healthy way to ven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:49 PM |
| – | Western women complain about 3rd world men having high standards for women when they do the same for menIf you grew up in the 2000s then you know the body shaming of that era was indeed off the chains. You should also be able to remember that it wasn't just "feminists" who were pushing back, because it really did get that bad with pro-ana on the rise and whatnot, and that it wasn't even push-back "against men"... Although of course some men did take the push-back given to the media industry as an "attack" on them by taking away their gatekeeping "rights" on acceptable body types for public viewing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Men should just pay for submissionEh, her post is about charging for submission, which can include submissive sex I suppose, but I think she means it in an out-of-bedroom context as well. The full 24/7 submissive package and all that entails in day-to-day life, rather than simple sexual access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Why is "pregnancy is expensive and costly for women" a thing that matters given the woman can just choose to not have children? ... Because being able to choose not to do the expensive, dangerous, and time consuming thing does not make the thing less expensive, dangerous, or time consuming to the people who do do that labor. Men ejaculate and walk away, women carry a fetus to term, pregnancy makes eggs more expensive than sperm, deal with it. The choice not to changes NOTHING beyond giving women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Jesus Christ dude this is not a hard concept to grasp... Giving sperm costs a man NOTHING but his own pleasure Giving eggs costs time, resources, bodily harm, life-long body changes, life-long conditions and can include the cost of ones own LIFE. One man can impregnate HUNDREDS of women in a year Most women can birth only ONE child a year, with more fetuses equaling more risk and a higher cost, while the father incurs zero physical extra cost for multiple births That is the math being done when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Oh yeah? Babies are coming out of artificial wombs now, by-passing the physical cost to the women who do have children? Amazing. Nah bro, eggs got MORE expensive. The people who used to have no means of controlling giving eggs away besides being celibate, which they also didn't always have control over, those people now have CONTROL over their very valuable resource. The egg producer got control over their means of production and the cost of their labor went UP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men?Not with good genetic health, no, of course not, but you CAN populate society with just a few men if you have enough women; genetic health be damned. The "expense" is pregnancy and to some extent breastfeeding, the expense is physical harm and discomfort and vulnerability over 9 months during which a woman cannot get pregnant again, which means the expense is also time for a woman in ways it isn't for a man. A man can impregnate as many women as his refractory period will allow, at bare minimum … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 06:39 PM |
| 3 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?And feelings don't mean shit. Women could learn to use their fucking brains instead of "feelings". You're saying this with the context being "feeling safe". It's not about literal emotions, it's about doing whatever personal assessment of the situation and making a decision based on that. Men also assess situations and individuals to see if they assess the situation as "safe", they might be less likely to use the word "feel" in that sentence, but it's the same basic idea. Were you really unable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?The issue is that in order to quantify it you would need to see the whole person life together with it's context. Bro, we aren't talking about "a person" were talking about the concept that people exist who do not handle their emotions well. You disagree? OF COURSE there is nuance as to why an individual person might not handle even a minor conflict well, but the original comment I was replying to said that "Women never leave highschool", where was all this nit-picking about context for THAT sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?There's no such thing as emotional intelligence Would you prefer "emotional maturity"? Surely you can acknowledge that there's some difference in emotional something between a person who would throw a fit vs someone who can remain calm and talk it out, and that's the kind of thing being referred to here. I don't care what you call it. Also you comparing hobbies with gossip is disgusting I guess I wasn't clear enough, my bad. I was comparing losing oneself in their hobbies to the neglect of the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Yeah, some people don't grow up and it sucks. Some women stay in the "mean girl" mentality, weaponize their learned incompetence when it comes to "male" tasks, etc. and some dudes never grow out of spending all their time on their hobby of choice, never learn emotional intelligence, and weaponize their learned incompetence when it comes to "female" tasks. Luckily there are many men and women who DO grow up and mature as they age, they become well rounded adults who can take care of themselves an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:53 PM |
| 9 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesDo you have something more recent available? The app "studies" that I know of are about 10 yrs old as well, unfortunately. But if you have something more recent I'm sure it would be interesting to pick through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why criminals are attractive to women?But boys playing CoD are not getting turned on No, because COD is a war game, they're not turned on but they are "excited" and enjoying the fantasy scenario that they likely would NOT enjoy irl, which was the point. The fantasy is "safe", you can mentally play dangerous games that you would never put yourself in irl because they aren't so fun in the real world where you don't have that control over the outcomes and your personal mental, sexual and physical safety. People have all kinds of fantas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:11 PM |
| – | Most incels are left wingI grew up with a conservative family in a liberal area and I disagree that conservatives have better overall social skills, and the tighter-knit social structures are only beneficial if the structure is an overall egalitarian and tolerant one, imo. Otherwise it can be a whole lot of bullying as "socialization", not to mention that some conservative communities also genuinely think that women are mentally and socially inferior to men, which a lot of women find to be a bit of a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:32 PM |
| – | Most incels are left wingAnd yet there can be something about him that makes it harder for women to click with him. It happens. That doesn't mean that women aren't telling the truth when they say they want a great, moral, respectful and funny guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 0 | The red pill humanizes womenOh definitely, what's that well-known blue pill saying? "Women are the oldest teenager in the room." Something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Men are sitting on two chairs, speaking for women and themselvesHe now knows enough to be confident in approaching that same gym bunny, with far more hope. None of your comment has anything to do with her point, though. "It's as simple as that" while missing that the crux of that argument isn't "men don't know enough about women to hit on them," it's that too often men want to be able to speak to what men AND women find attractive in a partner and dismiss the perspective of women all together. Men will insist that, "you don't ask a fish how to catch fish" an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindKids cost money. She's contributing to the roof over the kids head, food, clothes, hobbies and activities, transportation, etc. Child support reimburses some of that, but not all. She's paying for the kid that she is also doing caretaking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Happy marriageWhen the red pill was created they needed a way to differentiate themselves from everyone who didn't buy into their ideology, the people who choose "the comfortable lie" instead of the Red Pill, so all "Blue pilled" means is "Not red pilled". Blue Pilled is just a way for red pilled individuals to say, "anyone who isn't us". The general population. Normal people. Blue pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites(Emphasis mine and paraphrasing the other commenter) You: Would you do anything to achieve this? Them: Working on the logistics that forward the goal of achieving this is literally my job You: I'm asking would you go to any length to make it so? Nice goal post moving, dude. No wonder they gave up on trying to have a conversation with you 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesNot saying it’s right, but they often think whatever their “should” argument is must be based in reality since it sounds nice, even when it’s the most easily unrealistic thing imaginable. Men and women both argue this way, but as per usual when a man is bad at math then men think that that man is bad at math, but when a woman is bad at math men assume WOMEN are bad at math and forget altogether that some men are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I'm an elder Millennial, I have an older brother who is Gen X, the neglect we and our cohort suffered is WHY we're more involved today. We know that no kid should feel that alone and on their own at the ages we were, it wasn't healthy and did not set us up for success. "Self sufficient at a young age" means they couldn't trust that they could count on their own parents for help when they needed it and had to step up and rescue themselves... At a young age. Neglect is not a better parenting choic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standardsHey man some of us are still waiting on sources for your claim beyond "I did some math and drew some conclusions". We need to know how you know about the consistency of the condom use of cheating couples vs how many of these people with poor impulse control and who lack any consideration of the consequences of their own actions are going at it raw in the moment, for one. Then we need to know how you know they're fucking different partners, rather than just 1 partner over and over. Alright, what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledEh, hard to say if it's the SAME women, there are also women who didn't/don't buy into body positivity, and it completely makes sense that it's for the same reason that some men dislike body positivity: They are bullies who want to bully people and who don't want to be told that they're bullies for bullying people. That behavior is gender neutral, some of the biggest culprits and most frequently mentioned body shamers of the shaming era were women. My point wasn't that all women are perfect ange… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 11:13 PM |
| 2 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.There's no reason for which the numbers would have any difference since we had little to none difference in social trends. But wait, the OkCupid "study" (I looked it up for you) says that the women rated 20% of men as being attractive (not the ~1% you quoted, I'm afraid) and 15 years later 2.6% of men are getting matches on Tinder (I looked that one up too). You think that sounds like "little to none difference in social trends" ? Really? Tinder male match rates are rougly 2% Online dating is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:03 AM |
| 7 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.Okay, so wait, I'm going to take you at face value and try to make sure I understand. Let me try to steelman you here, you're saying that you understand that she does not desire sex, you've got that, you just don't think that not desiring sex on any given day, regardless of emotional state, regardless of the state of the relationship in that moment, you think that a woman not desiring sex on a given day is a sufficient reason for a man to leave the relationship? Does this apply to all emotional … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledAnd that women on women body shaming is a reaction from the obesity epidemic. First of all thank you for conceding my point that the body positivity movement was a reaction to pervasive shaming rather than a sunshine and rainbows message that "unattractive women" have always gotten just for being women or something that came out of nowhere. I appreciate it. Secondly, do not make me laugh with this ridiculous attempt to pretend that it was just women on women body shaming and men were sat on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.These are two people and from the same family no less, some families are toxic, and someone with a history of drug abuse already makes me question the emotional intelligence and general raising from the parents, tbh, so MIL was already sus. She's also the one in your story who suggested withholding sex for control, you don't even say if your SIL agreed, so all I hear so far is that MIL is toxic and it just keeps showing. One person's (or family's) toxicity doesn't belong being projected on the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:29 PM |
| 5 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.Second OkCupid data women see only ~1% of men as handsome. Istg this 15yr old "data" has an ever shrinking amount of men being fought over. I could swear the original was 20%ish and that it's never gotten an update, but perhaps you have something more recent that reflects your ~1% claim? Additionally, what percentage of women have ever used OkCupid? Is it a large enough amount to project the findings of one particular website onto "women" in general? Or does it just tell you about the kind of wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:01 PM |
| 10 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.If you're still talking about this in terms of "withholding" though then you're not engaging with the original comment you replied to, which is why you're being "misunderstood". In the original comment: They are completely unable and unwilling to understand that women (almost all women) are NOT the same as men and do NOT want and will not enjoy sex under any of those scenarios. It’s not malicious “withholding”, it’s absolute lack of desire and complete disinterest. Sex under those scenarios is c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledThat messaging came about because the body shaming women were going through was insane right before body positivity became a thing. It was a reaction and a defense against very real and constant body shaming. Anyone who thinks that women, even conventionally attractive women, haven't heard enough negative crap about their bodies to warrant a counter movement hasn't been paying attention to what women actually deal with. Then dumbasses will hear the counter message that's meant to give some relie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledWhat does this non-sequitur have to do with the conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Apparently “Men are only incentivized by what women reward” and “Women shaming/punishing men only pushes them away”.I know of many short dudes who have had girlfriends and I even know married short guys. From highschool to middle age I can think of short guys I know who have had girlfriends and/or a wife. And none of the short dudes I know who are married are the main breadwinners, either. Off the top of my head I can't think of a short guy I've known who hasn't ever dated, and most of them are currently married. It honestly surprises me that so many guys in this subreddit claim to not know any short guys who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 10:00 PM |
| 6 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologySo basically the bluepill says nothing? Useful... Yes, and that makes complete sense if you understand the origins of red pill terms as relates to dating. The people who took the term from the Matrix movie (Red pilled individuals) needed a contrast and a way to differentiate themselves from "normies", people who choose to "believe the lie" and "stay in the Matrix", thus they define anyone who isn't Red Pilled as being "blue pilled". Your comment is like someone decrying the lack of useful religi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Western women preferencesIf you have constant penetration from even just a sex toy it can stretch the vagina slightly. They weren't talking about the effect on the vagina though, they were very specifically talking about the cervix. The cervix will move higher during arousal, but it will not be any kind of permanently moved, and especially not by a dick. Perhaps your ex was extra turned on during this time in your relationship, but bro did not move her cervix. It's just not how things work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Western women preferencesI can immediately debunk this by pointing out that models tend to be taller than the average woman That's because a model is doing a very particular job. Yes they tend to be conventionally attractive, but they are also a walking clothes hanger. The body shape of the modeling industry is based on what shows off the clothes the best, not what men find hot. some of the most popular actresses of all time have been really tall Was their height a factor in their success though, or just an incidental f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).... No shit, but they ARE a group of men who were subjugated for centuries, which was the point being made. That men can be stripped of their rights as well. Anyone can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).And trust men to be honest? Don't make me laugh. Clearly the only way to learn about the true nature of men in relationships is to ignore what men say about themselves and go off of women sharing their observations. The women learned that from watching the red pill guys, so it must be the correct methodology. Why would they want men's biased opinions and lies muddying the water? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:15 AM |
| 10 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).Bro you keep trying to call her a hoe and you're just revealing that you didn't read a word she said 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 12:08 AM |
| 3 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayIf it was as common throughout time and history, then it can no longer fit the definition of “perversion”. Do you extend this grace to any and all human sexual proclivities? As long as some particular desire has always been present in human history it shouldn't be considered a perversion, in your opinion? Or can something be both as old as time itself and perverse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:11 AM |
| 5 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menSo it was apparently attracting people who posted all kinds of porn of questionable legality ... Yeah I can see why it got shut down, and not because of "women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:42 PM |
| 2 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menYes, we know, everything that goes against the manosphere and their male victimization narrative is a lie, we've heard. It comes off as a super convenient conspiracy theory designed to be unfalsifiable, but maybe that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeAs always, NotAllWomen. Even an individual woman can enjoy a variety of experiences and call them "good", let alone all of womandom. This might shock you, but some women like to dominate, and some are even (gasp) lesbians. Your blanket statement is silly on its face. But that wasn't even the point of the conversation, so to come back to my point: It is entirely normal, natural, and even expected for human beings (including women) to behave differently and to want different treatment outside the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being attracted to women is misogynyThere are differences in cold approaches, conversational and casual vs guys who almost literally are licking their lips while walking over and eyeing a woman like a juicy steak, for instance. I'm sure there's some amount of misjudgements in either direction, but some guys are quite obviously purely objectifying women, and those will often be the ones who won't respect her "No" as well. Being objectified can be straight up dangerous so it's no wonder that women are wary of being viewed that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 09:53 PM |
| 9 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeYes baby girl your a strong powerful woman that just wants to get dicked down, but every where else yes youre so strong and powerful! Uh... Yeah, actually. Unironically and without mocking, women want to have good sex with someone they can trust AND to be treated as competent adults with agency over their lives outside of the bedroom. That isn't protecting anyone's ego that's just facts. Men tend to also want to be treated as competent adults with agency over their lives outside of being driven … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeI wish it wasn't this way, but I've never been with a woman that didn't ultimately prefer to defer. When some people realize they're seeing the same patterns over and over again will do some introspection and look at themselves to see why they're attracting and/or seeking and then accepting people who fall into this pattern. Others project their own choice patterns on to all of an entire gender and shut themselves off from what they claim to want. It's very interesting. There are all types out t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:04 PM |
| 5 | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menWas that the one that was banned because instead of being used to warn about abusive partners it was flooded with revenge porn? Or is that a different one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveWhich is why, imo, intersectionality is so important. Broader support leaves fewer people in the cold and gives more people a chance to have their lived experience heard and taken seriously. It also informs our responses even when we are being more narrow in our bias in a particular moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportiveYou don't think that men can support each other without resorting to violence against women? Interesting take. Women seem to be able to support each other through cheating partners without going so far as stoning cheating men, why can't men do the same in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Men simply want virgin women because of security and feeling of being special.but lying is immature So is straw-manning and going for attacking the character of your opponent instead of making any real argument. But let's face it, making up strawmen to argue with and making unfounded accusations is so much simpler and more emotionally satisfying than trying to keep up with the conversation and debate in good faith. Such a shame that the only two people on this particular thread who are "arguing" your position have gone the same general route. Lotta insults, not a lot of a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooThere already was a provider Yes, and women saw how well that was working out for them in the real world and decided it wasn't worth the risks. Modern women have heard from their mothers and grandmothers who did live those lives, who then warned them "never depend on a man", women have done the risk assessment and decided the "reward" isn't worth the risks. What good is "having a provider" in the long run when he can die and leave you unable to provide for yourself? Or when he can beat and abuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).A couple weeks ago it was "only women". Yes, as more information comes out things sometimes get an update. This is how news works after a chaotic event. After looking through about 10 articles on the subject I found one entire man reported as being stabbed, and one article that mentioned "law enforcement" officers being stabbed which could include men, though it wasn't specified. With 14 different attackers in multiple different incidents there's bound to be a little variety. I don't think this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 0 | We should start sexualizing menCountless men keep telling women that they don’t need to cake on any amount of makeup, or put on expensive dresses. What's that red pill quote? "Pay attention to their actions, not their words", something like that. Men tell women, "you don't need to do xyz" but women know full well when they're more likely to be hit on, they know what they look like when they're treated better or when they're treated worse, they've seen which friend gets more attention, they've seen the actual effect that makeu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:29 AM |
| -2 | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring themHer: All the men on here who have been unkind to me have had redpilled flair You: Proves the point by being insulting and rude for the rest of the conversation Classic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men.You're always going to have some level of the population who falls into "It couldn't happen to me" ways of thinking, and the rest watch those things absolutely happen to their "It couldn't happen to me" friends and tighten up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?Eh, it always depends on if they're saying it literally or as a sentimental turn of phrase. I didn't see any red flags in the rest of the comment so I assume it's the latter until proven otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Can someone be a feminist while thinking men have non-fabricated, deterministic struggles?If you think that ugly, old, or butch women (because let's be honest about who gets read as "lesbian") get anywhere near the same level of protection as pretty women inside their fertile age window then you clearly don't listen to a wide enough variety of women. Ugly women can still be fucked, "just put a bag over her head", fat women are just extra soft in the dark, old women get general "old people" protection with the occasional benefit of being assumed to be a cute little grandmother, but wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Can someone be a feminist while thinking men have non-fabricated, deterministic struggles?If weak man equals woman they would protect weak men, not discard them. They don't want to fuck weak men and weak men aren't physically capable of bearing their children and then raising them. A traditional man often thinks weak men are actually worse than women because they fail to live up to their gender and they don't desire those men sexually either. Straight dudes get little value out of weak men, "traditional" men view them with contempt, and weak men can't defend themselves effectively fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:49 PM |
| – | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.The issue with marriage contracts is that they can be broken on a no fault basis. This makes them particularly dangerous to enter. Bro what does this have to do with the conversation at hand? We're not debating "the issue with marriage contracts", the conversation was about accountability, then you changed it to a wildly inaccurate statement that "The fact is 80% of the time women leave. Hard stop". Stay on topic. This statistic that you made up was your answer to women and accountability. The r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:13 PM |
| – | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.Is the legal agreement just to physically stay in the home and/or contract though? Most contracts have far more terms than that to not be considered broken, if Person A doesn't fulfill their side of the contract then Person B is not generally thought to be the one at fault for walking away. Is a person who is checked out emotionally, who is no longer willing to do their fair share in the household, who doesn't spend time and energy on their own kids and instead leaving it to their spouse, are th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Stop the "emotional labor"Terms stray from their origins all the time, they're often broadened by some person or group who goes, "Oh hey, that describes this other thing, too!" Emotional labor is putting on a happy, friendly face to keep others emotionally happy? ... Sounds like something that can absolutely be expanded to the rest of the world, we ALL sometimes have to stuff our own emotions down to keep others comfortable, to keep peace, to live up to social expectations, to keep our jobs, friendships, and relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 08:20 PM |
| 12 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.If you've been on this sub long you'll see this commenter enough to know he was speaking to stuff like the myth that women all only want the same top 20% of men and that this post shows how untrue that actually is. His comment wasn't about women or shaming them, it was countering certain talking points some men in here believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsAnd those men are going to be judged for it no matter how they feel. No one is talking about locking them up, but other members of society can judge them and look down on them for it like we do with 1000 other perfectly legal choices that other adults make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:22 AM |
| 9 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsI don't think anyone is telling her she "can't" date an older dude, they're just saying that it might not be the best idea, they're giving reasons why and/or things to look out for just in case, and for the dude there's often judgement. But no one is saying they "can't". Adult make all kinds of life choices that other adults look at and go, "Eh, that's a mistake/bad look/whatever", that doesn't mean they're being controlling for pointing it out. They just give their opinion and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?You're good, man. Living with shitty people who won't accept accountability can definitely do a number on a person and have us with our guard up. Hell I think that's important after what you went through, like your nervous system is reminding you that you have a right to get mad and defend yourself. It's a process, and you're still going through it, you're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?If men are disposable then women are equally disposable and then wtf point were you trying to make? If all you were trying to say is that all humans are disposable to some amount of other humans then thank you Captain Obvious, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:35 AM |
| 32 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?If men are disposable creatures based on this then so are women. People can treat others as disposable, but that does not mean that an entire gender is seen that way based on the choices of a handful of people. People date a nd vet each other during that process all the time, not everyone a person dates/has sex with will make it into every potential long term relationship but that doesn't make them disposable. They just weren't a good fit for that person, and that happens for women too. Women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?You have nothing to explain yourself for, I criticized her ex and your ex, not you. I gave you credit for gaining empathy, something we all should strive for as we age and gain experience, something you accomplished, and I said that your ex was wrong in her behavior towards you and I wished you well in your recovery. I couldn't speak to any grace you might have given your ex since I don't know anything about your relationship 🤷🏼♂️ so I didn't assume in either direction. I said the other comment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeLike I said, it’s a defining trait of femininity lol You said it, yes, but when I asked you to back it up I got nothing but more of your opinions. Anyone can just say shit and mock others for not believing, but if science is on your side so firmly then it should be trivially easy to find a reputable source. Even if sexual submissiveness is a "defining trait of femininity" (which you did not back up with any evidence) What makes you think that FEMINIST women, as opposed to traditional women or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?I’m sure that fed your ego. I was too hard on my ex about cleaning as she had mental health problems I didn’t understand. Sounds like her ex should have had more empathy for her while she was doing the cleaning as well rather than criticizing something he also wasn't capable of keeping to his own standards. Instead he tore at her ego, so if she got it fed on seeing the consequences of his actions then perhaps she deserved the meal to recover from his lack of empathy in that department. I'm glad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 06:52 PM |
| 4 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeA defining trait of femininity is being sexually submissive in bed to a man According to whom? Can you cite this for me please? It’s why even the most ardent feminist usually enjoys sexually submitting to her man Even the most ardent feminist CAN enjoy being sexually submissive, they CAN enjoy the sensations of spanking and consensual rough sex, but what makes you say they "usually" do? Feminist and BDSM circles debate women being sexually submissive and feminist at the same time to this day and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 03:40 AM |
| 11 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeI guess Adam was also submissive to Eve since he bit the apple on her say-so. Under your definition they were both submissive, and before submitting to a snake or a woman they were both submissive to God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:56 AM |
| 5 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeI was raised in a very traditional and conservative culture, when I was a kid I would hear the "submissive" women talking, and the ones who were okay with their role were also putting themselves down and who felt like it was their husbands right as a husband to treat them in ways they didn't love, or to let those women and their kids down and not show up as a husband and a father because those women's self worth and views towards women as a class of people was in the toilet. They thought being a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 12:32 AM |
| 5 | The belief that femininity is inherently submissive simply doesn’t align with reality (or even history), and is bad for society as a wholeYou seem to be conflating physical strength with mental strength and survival with submissiveness. People lose wars not because they're submissive but because they're out-manned (in numbers and/or physical strength), out-gunned, or out-strategized but that does not make the losers inherently "submissive" as a people and it does not excuse their subjugator for choosing to enslave people. Human brains will do what they need to survive, and if that means they lost a war to a power that wants to ens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Female performers can get away with more than male performers canMen in showbiz with credible allegations lose their careers for it, for example R Kelly and P Diddy. Credible allegations of doing what? Saying "vagina", talking about cumming, or doing sexual and/or violent crimes? Do you think those 3 things are equivalent? Do you not think people should lose their careers over committing sexual and/or violent crimes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 11 | The only situation where it’s OKAY to cheatWhat if the breadwinner is also a grumpy, critical, unpleasant person who isn't much of a giver in the bedroom? What if they've let their health and grooming slip to an unattractive degree? Your scenario doesn't leave room for some level of breadwinner error when it comes to the dead bedroom, imo. In your scenario the person who makes less money has to have sex with someone who might treat them badly or have let themselves go and whoever makes more gets to be whoever they want and still get laid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 05:20 AM |
| 17 | Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally.Your "multitude of examples" is exactly one woman, do I understand that correctly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 10:15 PM |
| 16 | What men say they want in a woman is overly vague and hard to define (and vice versa)Women regularly pick men they are “attracted” to yet their body viscerally rejects him. Can you expand on this idea and perhaps a source or two that I can look over? I'm interested to know how "regularly" we're talking, what percentage of women, if those women have anything else in common, what does "attracted" (with the quotations) mean, how it was determined that the women in question weren't really attracted to those men and why they would have thought they were, and how it was determined tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Labor is a resource, bud. Using time energy and brainpower to get shit done is a resource. Too many men don't want to count it as a resource exchange to spare their ego, but that doesn't change the fact that labor is still a resource, and that men want access to that resource. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Some people have kinks, some of those kinks involve roleplay, some roleplays are deeper than others, this is new to you? Why do some men call their SO's Mommy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Men try to solve the problem, women try to avoid blameIsn't your claim based on your own personal experience? I haven't seen you back up your claim with anything stronger than, "That hasn't been my experience" and "Check out Reddit threads". Maybe I'm wrong though and you have something more solid? Otherwise we're all just out here giving our personal experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themThe amount of things that the ancients have written about regarding how very well they understood the nature of this or that thing that we've since proven was utter nonsense could fill multiple libraries. I'm sure if you give it a few moments of thought you can think of other groups of people that our ancestors looked down on and wanted to control, too. That just means they liked control, not that they were justified. This is why we should be careful when appealing to tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.If my partner wanted to engage in scat play I would have to hold to my own personal boundaries and lack of interest, but I would absolutely still respect them as a human being, ffs. It's weird that you have trouble respecting people's humanity for the sin of getting turned on by things you don't. Like, let people have fun, dude. It doesn't have to affect you in any way unless you choose to let it for some reason. Redditors will do anything to justify their fetishes. I think we call this kind of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.That's so crazy because I'm actually the one who DOES the degrading and I can confirm that I do in fact respect my partner. I respect them enough in fact that when they tell me they enjoy being degraded in the bedroom only and that they require me to in actual fact deeply respect them as a person both inside and outside of the bedroom I believe them. When they tell me they have limits I respect those limits and hold them sacred out of respect and care, because we are playing a game together and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.Just gonna save time and repeat myself: Bro's in here really love discussing kinks they don't understand and making assumptions about people based on their misunderstandings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.It’s still abusive in nature, dress it up however you want. I guess you should stop engaging in that behavior then since you think it's abusive, but then I also I have a feeling your partners think they're playing and you think something different is happening, that you can't tell play from abuse inside your own bedroom let alone outside it, and that you're not the one to listen to if I want to know how women feel about abuse OR rough sex. There are definitely people who play in such a way that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.I am the one who calls someone a slutty whore and yes, I respect them afterwards because it's a GAME. They're a wonderful, valuable, and respectable person out in the real world and a whole lot of fun in the sheets. YOUR issues separating the two are not everyone else's issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.Among self-identified BDSM participants, 62 % of women prefer the submissive role, aligning with interest in rough/forceful acts. The submissive role in BDSM means they've explained their boundaries, likes and dislikes, personal kinks, hard and soft limits right down to what names they like to be called or disallow all together, the tone that should be behind certain words and actions in order to be acceptable, the what when and how any soft limits ARE soft, etc. Rough/forceful sex doesn't mean … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want.And I'm pretty sure the majority of women don't want to be called a filthy little slut. And a decent percentage of women who do enjoy being called a dirty slut are enjoying that aspect of their sexuality being accepted freely and enjoyed rather than feeling shame and getting off to it. The women are hearing, "You're a sexual being with agency and desire and I love that about you and accept you for it," not "You're an actual degenerate and you should feel bad about that." Bro's in here really lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 11:23 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionThat is not what they're saying. The question was about a bear, YOU specified a grizzly bear and they are reminding you that the original question just said "a bear", not a specific, extra large, aggressive kind of bear. It's supposed to be just a bear. There are many kinds of bears and not all of them are so large or hostile. You're changing the hypothetical to make women seem ridiculous for choosing a specific kind of bear that was not in the original question. Much like their acquaintance who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women in their 20s prefer older men over younger men (even by 10–20 years), while younger men get overlooked or dismissed?I do have alt accounts like any normal Redditor however I am not stupid or insecure enough to be on the same subs with any of my alts. The entire point of alt accounts is to curate different experiences (and porn). Why are you bringing up Wikipedia when I'm asking you if you have a source for your own claim? You do not have to use Wikipedia, in case that wasn't clear. Also, I don't care about the Wikipedia marriage data, and I don't care about your conversation with the person who posted it unle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Why do so many women in their 20s prefer older men over younger men (even by 10–20 years), while younger men get overlooked or dismissed?Do you have any stats on how many young women are dating significantly older men and then going on to marry men closer to their own age bracket? I believe that was what the other commenter was actually asking for, and I'm interested as well, tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 12:53 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsNo, bro, her approach is two people trying to get to know each other and one person making a socially common gesture during that process that she personally finds to be an important indicator. A gesture he is not mandated to make, I might add, if that isn't the kind of woman/relationship that he's interested in. Additionally, the sex worker is not only never going to get emotionally attached to him, she likely also has rules, boundaries, and walls up to prevent that emotional attachment from for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 09:39 PM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsI mean, presumably the sex worker isn't vetting the dude for a future relationship, doesn't offer a future relationship at all, will laugh at your jokes and cater any conversation to making you feel good about yourself rather than getting to know you or being honest in her replies and reactions, comes with damn near guaranteed sex regardless of her actual interest level and possibly counter to it all together, sex in the way that YOU like, with little to no consideration of her own enjoyment and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | People don’t “outgrow” or “change” away from their partner, they just don’t know who they are and so are at faultI think that the reasons people grow apart are far more varied than what you allow for and I think that "fault" doesn't always need to be placed on anyone in particular in a lot of cases. I've been married for almost 20 years, my spouse and I have definitely changed as people over the years but we were incredibly fortunate to grow in the same direction and at roughly the same rate. I've watched other couples, friends, my parents, coworkers, etc... and there's just so much variety when it comes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.I made an observational claim based on real life patterns I've seen. My options are to counter with my own observed patterns, which are just as valid as yours are here on the internet and then we're at an impasse or I can make a counter claim after spending time looking up statistics that you'll claim are only reflecting the gynocracies power of suppression when it comes to the truth. Sounds like a great and productive time but I'll pass. If you really think what I'm saying is so Ludacris, why d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like emotionally available men. Even if they like, that doesn't mean they think so.I mean, it's a debate forum. Said so confidently by someone who then goes on to miss such a basic rule of debate. It's YOUR claim, the way it works in a debate isn't, "I make a claim and you prove me wrong or else admit I'm right", it's "The burden of proof is on the one who made the claim". Your claim, your burden of proof, otherwise we get to ignore you. That's how a debate forum works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 12:48 AM |
| 7 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?Even heterosexual vanilla relationships in the bad old days weren't anything like that, though, so what's your point? What are you gender flipping? Whose relationship is like that for you to gender flip it to illustrate a point? You described something that's extreme BDSM, and even in a Master/slave, 24/7, high protocol, Total Power Exchange, etc. what you describe is more than what a couple would practice daily, you're talking about a special weekend kind of a vibe for extra fun. A tiny niche i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 12:30 AM |
| 13 | How much "empowerment" do women need until they are satisfied?Colleges only have so many spots, jobs can only hire so many people, and there are only so many affordable homes in an area. Sounds like we need to invest in building more colleges and homes, affordability and better wages, not gender wars. Fewer people should be left out for arbitrary availability reasons since we have the power to build more. Sure not everyone will get into an Ivy, the scarcity keeps things prestigious and limits the access of the rabble, but state college should be more readi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 12:13 AM |
| 5 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationThe women at work flirt all day long, and there's a few that show genuine interest. Red Pill comes along and speaks about hypergamy, and for the lack of any other explanations, it makes sense. From my experience, I've worked in several workplaces where men and women platonically flirt with each other just out of pure boredom. People who are long married, happily married, with no intentions of any kind, just passing the time by saying shit with a willing banter partner. Not everyone is like that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Many men don’t like women platonically and have no interest in friendships with them*Some women who don't care about men's lives enjoy reminding them There are also women and men who care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:14 AM |
| 4 | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.Just an observation And what makes you think that your personal observations about things certain people say when they're willing to talk publicly about their experiences gives you enough information to encompass everything there is to know about people who aren't talking to you? I think you're operating on a framework that applied more to the past than it does today. And I think you're ignorant of what goes on inside homes you aren't in, but that it doesn't keep you from talking about your limi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:08 AM |
| 6 | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.I'm sure they do, but it's far less likely than an experienced woman. Where do you get your evidence for that? Do you not understand how many women are living today who were raised that "his needs come first" and that women are "just too complicated" to fuss over or that they're defective themselves if they don't get off easily? There are places even in the western world where the sexual revolution was less "revolutionary" and more just an extra excuse to police ones daughters. Good point, you n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 01:07 AM |
| 10 | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.It's never the women with low body counts claiming men can't satisfy them. Women with low body counts are more likely to be more private with their sex lives in general so if they're having an issue you are less likely to hear about it. Women with low body counts definitely can still have issues getting satisfied and I find it amusing that you think that just because they're less public about it that they don't exist. Attraction is another factor, you never hear them complain about the attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:50 PM |
| 30 | Many men don’t like women platonically and have no interest in friendships with themRight, which is one reason why women don't want to date them. I certainly wouldn't want to date someone who could give two shits about my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 11:40 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to.How was it a sugar situation if the date was going well until she saw he left a $0 tip, and needed gas money? That is not what I said, I was speaking to her advertised expectations. There were clear signs that she is the type of woman who wants to be spoiled and paid for so it shouldn't have been a shock that she'd expect a sugary situation. She was who she said she was to anyone who was paying attention, your friend got who he asked for and shouldn't complain or project who she is onto other wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 09:15 PM |
| 9 | CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to.Sounds like your bro went after a particular kind of woman who one could easily expect to behave in this way and have these expectations and then you two want to be shocked little Pikachu's when she behaved exactly as expected. And then you project that type of sugar seeking onto other women. There are beautiful women who aren't into sugar situations, your friend went after one who was and then got surprised when she behaved exactly like she advertised herself. If she's literally posting about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Okay... And detailing the delusions that the killer had makes her a victim how? A person can be deeply disturbed and still not a "victim". Again, the commenter was countering the claim that she was a femcel by providing the actual motivations of the perpetrator, in no way does that paint the perpetrator as a victim. You're reaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 06:13 AM |
| 10 | Why don't women look down on or criticize femcels as much as incels?Where in that comment are they calling the woman a victim? They were pushing back on the statement that she was a femcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problemWhat makes you think it's "most (single) women. (Period)" Rather than "most single women you in particular have had success with" ? There are tons of single women, they run the gambit of "morals", the ones who are easier to get are going to skew your opinion because they're who you are seeing more often. The single women who aren't interested in what you have to offer are going to be nearly invisible to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Elephant in the room: Taken guys on the dating market are a big problemWhat makes you think it's "most (single) women. (Period)" Rather than "most single women you in particular have had success with" ? There are tons of single women, they run the gambit of "morals", the ones who are easier to get are going to skew your opinion because they're who you are seeing more often. The single women who aren't interested in what you have to offer are going to be nearly invisible to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.They can sense it in the ones they can sense it in, the ones whose tells are familiar to them because they've known a sufficient amount of misogynist men who behaved or talked the same way and had a similar skill level in masking their behavior. Men whose tells are unfamiliar, whose tactics they haven't had experience in, and whose skill level in masking their true personality is higher will still fly under their radar. All kinds of factors can affect the skill check, some skill checks will be e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Women's advice to men here is to keep them guessing, single, guilt tripped until they're so old they'll get creepshamed anywayI've known several abusive men in my life, my own dad and a handful of my friends dads were my first introduction. So many soft spoken, gentle, helpful, pillars of their community, and they use it as cover. Smart abusers groom their character witnesses just as much as they do their victims. That community voice of, "Oh but he's such a good man" is a powerful cover. Your entire community is telling you this man is safe, but expect you, the main target, to have been able to see through what they c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 03:52 PM |
| 2 | It is acceptable, even congratulated, sometimes, for a woman to be 'masculine', bot for a man to be 'feminine'.Literally no one said women were "stronger", people can lead without relying on physical strength, even men have done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 03:27 AM |
| 2 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to comeFun fact: Some kind of "masculinity crisis" has existed for a good hundred plus years as well, and "No one wants to work", and "The youths are all lazy and disrespectful these days"... That last one dates back a couple thousand years, ffs. But someday the gender wars will come about, manhood will finally collapse, no one will work, and the younger generations will stop growing up and will instead stay in a perpetual state of babyhood like we've all been told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:23 AM |
| 22 | The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come80% of men in modern times aren't having kids? Do you have a source available? That sounds wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 02:13 AM |
| 4 | The worm question indicates/implies that many woman's love is conditional and inauthentic. At least more so than a man's love.See this is me is one of those "signaling" questions... You know how there are all kinds of social signals that people trade back and forth to convey a sense that they're in the same tribe, or are happily working together, essentially? Think of a handshake. Humans shake hands as a greeting and as a vibe check, a weak handshake can signal an unwillingness to be friendly, and even have hints of disgust, and a solid firm handshake can convey friendliness, warmth, and a willingness to get along. Hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | One of the biggest reasons for the discrepancy of sexualization and the argument over approach and effort is the 'education of sexiness'. Many men overlook this and simply believe women are genetically "blessed to be more attractive than men"; and that women put in no effort at all to make a move.Unfortunately my friend, words have meaning and we can only take you at your chosen words. I understand that you didn't know the difference but it's not on us to interpret for you. Pre-pubescent means before puberty, think of a kid under the age of 10-ish, then comes puberty lasting through the majority of the teen years, this is when kids bodies start making all those changes, getting body hair, voice changes, acne, body changes, periods start, all that jazz. They're not a little kid anymore bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 07:32 PM |
| 5 | One of the biggest reasons for the discrepancy of sexualization and the argument over approach and effort is the 'education of sexiness'. Many men overlook this and simply believe women are genetically "blessed to be more attractive than men"; and that women put in no effort at all to make a move.Your average 13 yr old is post pre-pubescent, they're often pubescent, in fact. Being sexually attracted to a 13 yr old would be "icky" yet it would fall within your stated acceptable range. "Post pre-pubescent" does not equal "a fully developed woman". Did you perhaps mean to say "post pubescent" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 04:56 AM |
| 21 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debateswith a few exceptions like sexual assault and intimate partner violence. Right ... And men who sexually assault women and hurt them tend to objectify them first, so women are wary of being objectified since that can lead to those "few exceptions" in which women are more likely to be hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why are so many of you so convinced that abusers are obvious, blatant, cartoonishly evil people that can be easily spotted?Saying that there are some obvious signs that some abusers and/or misogynists give out that women pick up on isn't the same as saying that ALL abusers and/or misogynists give those same signs and to the same degree. Some people are more subtle than others, and women only know what they've experienced. "Women's intuition" is just a collection of past experiences that she doesn't want to have to try to explain or justify in that moment. So, a woman may have past experience with one type of abuser … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 12:46 AM |
| 8 | Dear women of PPD, for those of us who are older (30+) virgins, what do you actually want us to do?People are capable of growing as a person until the day they die. People often choose not to, but that doesn't mean they're incapable of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.Trevor Noah, and it was his mom who originally said it, he quotes her in his book: Abel wanted a traditional marriage with a traditional wife. For a long time I wondered why he ever married a woman like my mom in the first place, as she was the opposite of that in every way. If he wanted a woman to bow to him, there were plenty of girls back in Tzaneen being raised solely for that purpose. The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Today’s Version Masculine Ideal Is Undermining Boys’ Academic SuccessAnd the academy bureaucracy that would rather not have to deal with irate parents But apparently they are dealing with irate parents since, again, I know of multiple male teachers at multiple different schools. According to you the schools must be getting constant complaints and yet they still have male teachers. Do you have any evidence that parents don't want male teachers? Because again, I have a school aged child, I'm certainly okay with male teachers, as is my spouse, know parents from the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Today’s Version Masculine Ideal Is Undermining Boys’ Academic SuccessSo you're saying that we may have male teachers but still that no one "wants them" ? They're there against the parents will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:59 AM |
| 4 | Today’s Version Masculine Ideal Is Undermining Boys’ Academic SuccessMy kid has had male teachers, coaches and subs in every grade, what do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men got scapegoated for Purity CultureLike, you can be intentional in raising your children to be honest, upright, and respectful but not everyone will. Absolutely, which is why it's also important to educate our kids about the fact that some people suck and some people hide how much they suck for a while and how to look for those red flags. No system is going to be perfect, some people don't respond to shame or advice, and that's life. All we can do is keep trying to refine our collective emotional intelligence and keep trying to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Men got scapegoated for Purity CultureLike, you can be intentional in raising your children to be honest, upright, and respectful but not everyone will. Absolutely, which is why it's also important to educate our kids about the fact that some people suck and some people hide how much they suck for a while and how to look for those red flags. No system is going to be perfect, some people don't respond to shame or advice, and that's life. All we can do is keep trying to refine our collective emotional intelligence and keep trying to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Men got scapegoated for Purity CulturePurity culture wasn’t fully good, but it is what men specifically need to be good to women. Men need that sense of responsibility taught to them so they do not make bad decisions that hurt themselves and others Purity culture is more than just education on common sense rules of engagement, the responsibility to think through the natural consequences, to use protective measures, and to engage in respectful behavior. Purity culture involves telling someone that they're bad, gross, ruined, and "imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?Bro I asked you to help me make sure I was following you then I explained your circular logic and that you were sounding like you weren't interested in having your mind changed and your reply was, "Yeah on reddit at least". What do you want from me? Lol That's all you gave me to work with. I took you at your word. I've always vehemently agreed with everyone woman who affirmed the fact that women like larger penises. Because it's rare to see common sense in that department here even when presente… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?No valueless internet points means women will be more honest? Interesting. Are the men on Quora more honest, too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?On Reddit you agree with people who agree with you? I feel like that's probably true off of Reddit as well, but good to know. Thank you for clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 06:41 AM |
| 26 | Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men?The OP was asking why women aren't affected negatively by porn and she challenged that assumption and explained why. She didn't call them "victims", she explained a way that porn affects women negatively that men might not notice. Something can affect a person negatively without making that person a "victim". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?Just to make sure I'm following you, you're saying that you always agree with the women who confirm your worldview... You are less likely to "agree" with a woman who goes against your worldview when giving her own personal preferences, though ... Especially since the women who agree with you and your "common sense" opinion are so rare. It's more rare to see women who agree with you than those who disagree with you when it comes to women's size preferences, and that's how you know the women who a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Do Some Women Avoid Being Open About Physical Preferences on reddit?What makes you say they're "more honest", out of curiosity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.As someone who was raised in a conservative culture I can say that is absolutely the right call. I know more than one woman who slowly got out of that mindset because of the work of women who understood the full picture. They went from being anti-feminists who genuinely believed they belonged under men to being very grateful to feminist women who kept insisting that they were just as capable as men. The strongest feminists I know are the ones from conservative patriarchal backgrounds. Not man-ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women.Women are supposed to simply ignore legislative attacks on their access to birth control, abortion, maternal health, and no-fault divorce? And what, pray those attacks magically go away on their own? Social pressure can be ignored to some extent, legal consequences not so much. Women should also apparently "just ignore" when the laws are actually passed, and they should just ignore their own deaths due to lack of access as well. So EZ. If you ignore your impending death for long enough it eventu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 07:15 PM |
| 3 | If you’re an average NPC, becoming “sexy” is about shifting your behavioral mindset more than anything.I kinda figured but I also didn't feel like wading through any extra nonsense over it, lol. And we all know that men do not play "children's games" in any kind of professional or recreational capacity, it's "grown-up games" when men play them, for reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:50 AM |
| 4 | If you’re an average NPC, becoming “sexy” is about shifting your behavioral mindset more than anything.Do you think most/all women are like this and that's why a man who puts in effort will only attract such a woman? A man who has worked on himself can look for and hold out for a woman who fits his own interests and values. They run the whole gambit of the looks spectrum, though some combinations are more rare than others I grant you, but that's true for men as well. If you want a conservative woman who doesn't drink or play "children's games" then you're in luck cuz they're out there, and again,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | If you’re an average NPC, becoming “sexy” is about shifting your behavioral mindset more than anything.Every nerdy dude I know is currently married to a woman who matches his energy and looks, self included. I am clearly not alone in that experience since women are saying the same thing. Are we all virtual signaling by stating our personal experiences? What's the "virtue" that we're signaling by saying what we see/experience? Yes, nerdy sexless losers exist, of course they do, but nerdy winners exist as well. Nerdy guys are capable of winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableThey aren't calling it historical fact, they're saying that the trope of a man being smitten by women he doesn't even know purely based on her looks has existed since ancient times. It's an ancient work of fiction which was written by real human people a couple thousand years ago because even in their times it was the kind of story that they knew would resonate with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutYou use anedocte as evidence, there's no evidence that will satisfie you. Your "evidence" is just that you said so, about people you've never even met, and you will also never hear evidence that you'll believe. Pot, meet kettle. We're at an impasse. Enjoy your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 12:06 AM |
| 3 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutYeah I should just not have a life and go from home to home knock at people doors asking if the women or someone daughter is single, this will work for sure. Yes, this is literally the only way you can meet other kinds of women. Nailed it. You're confusing what they want and what they can get. I might be, except that I already said that even if we were talking about wildest fantasies you'd still have more variation than what you allow for, and you've given me no reason not to believe the evidenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 01:26 AM |
| 4 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutIf you think that's the "only women available" it's because you're not looking hard enough or in the right places. Even if we're talking about pure "what if I won the biggest lottery in existence" levels of fantasy there would still be more variation than what you assert. If we're talking about "common levels of expectation for a partner" you're way off base, as we can see from simply walking outside for a few minutes around other people. Not a single couple I know includes the man you describe,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 12:30 AM |
| 14 | "Red pill" men really just want approval from the same women they complain aboutThere's only this type of women. only this type of women exist. What type of women is that, specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyhttps://www.cnn.com/2025/04/01/politics/trump-dissent-immigration-protests/index.html https://apnews.com/article/50501-protests-project-2025-trump-state-capitols-ddd341171a54ba9b498cbfe7530e18ab These are the top 2 results of a Google search for "Trump protests 2025", I made practically zero effort to find them. Protests are happening all over the country, if you're not seeing any news coverage of the protests that have been happening then perhaps you need to look at your news sources. Chuck Sch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 15 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchySounds like we've got a lot of 14yr olds in this subreddit then, because "men built civilization" is used as a rebuttal/ conversation shut down pretty frequently. Come to think of it, it gets worse in the summer when school is out, so maybe there really are a lot of 14yr olds in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyThere have been protests all over the country, what are you talking about? The pussy hats got retired pretty quickly, but Democrats are absolutely still protesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | The advocating of age gap relationshipsNot everyone in an age gap relationship has daddy issues, I was just explaining the general concept of what "daddy issues" means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 4 | The advocating of age gap relationshipsYes, many, many people are walking around out there with issues and trauma that they have to deal with and work though. Different experiences will lead to different outcomes; such as an overbearing helicopter mom might lead to an adult with failure to launch who "can't" take care of themselves. Our parents shape a lot of how we perceive the world and how we react to things. Daddy issues are far from the only issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 10:37 PM |
| 2 | The advocating of age gap relationshipsValidation that a wise and experienced older person thinks they're good, valuable, worth their time, some people feel they need mentoring and they can sometimes get it from their older partner. Some of them put a lot of value into things that make them feel mature/wise for their age, and being accepted by an older person can accomplish that. I knew a couple different girls with poor relationships with their fathers, and not all of them went the same way of seeking older male validation, but most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 10:34 PM |
| 7 | The advocating of age gap relationshipsTypically in my experience it means their own dad was emotionally unavailable at best, and downright abusive at worst. Those women never had a secure relationship with their dads and they keep trying to find that validation by getting it from older men. Almost like they need it to prove that their dad was the problem, that it wasn't their fault or something missing in them, that they're worthy after all. They're insecure in who they are because of a broken relationship with that parent for their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Are all or most women attracted to women?Sexual attraction is a literal physical response. “It’s a physiological response I cannot believe you actually quoted the parts that are rebuttals to your point, but thank you. The word "feel" is used for more than just emotions, my dude. When you feel cold do you think you're being emotional? These women are trying to use simple terms to explain not feeling physical arousal while looking at beautiful women and you still think they're talking about their emotional feelings 😂 It's almost like tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Are all or most women attracted to women?Basically they told me they operate off of feelings/emotions That is not what they said, it's what you assumed from what they said because you can't understand a concept like enjoying art or a sunset just because it's strikingly beautiful without being sexually attracted to that beautiful thing. I promise you there are men out there who understand art, sunsets, and understanding how a woman can be pretty while not being their personal cup of tea for whatever reason. You also seem to have decided… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedThey're saying you didn't get the "data" for your "average standards" from a reputable source, and that you're tilting at windmills, meaning you're fighting something that really only exists in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.Sex no more "directly" leads to a child being born than dressing provocatively leads to sexual assault. Sex directly causes the pregnancy, a pregnancy left unterminated will result in a child being born, sure, but that doesn't shift the direct cause. Dressing provocatively doesn't directly cause behavior from another person, however sex does directly cause a pregnancy and thus it's only natural conclusion, which is a child being born. Just like steps can be taken to avoid a sexual assault in pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.Okay? And? How does the fact that "not taking birth control is a choice" change the fact that cum going in a vagina is the direct cause of a pregnancy? 😂 The pregnancy was already directly caused by two people having sex, unprotected or not, someone choosing not to END something doesn't mean they've at that moment magically started the thing. This is very basic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild.... Did you skip sex ed? Sex very directly leads to a child being born, in fact in order to prevent this natural consequence of sex steps must be taken, birth control, a condom, or an abortion if those steps failed or weren't taken. Once the sperm hits the egg only purposeful action will stop the process. You don't get much more direct than that. A person who dresses provocatively doesn't directly cause jack shit, the rapist is free to look away, they aren't being lured into offending like a sir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | There’s no such thing as no pill, all pills are dumb etcDid you ever notice that women call themselves strong and independent when they perform the basic functions of an adult? Women were told for centuries that they needed the protection of a man in order to live, then they fought for the right to prove that idea wrong and they stood up and said, "No, I do not actually need a man to protect and provide for me, I am strong and independent." And now chuds on the internet mock them like they have no idea where the need to say that came from. Now it's, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Men will always have to be the ones to approachSeems like he was just sharing his personal opinions and experience. I don't think he was necessarily arguing with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments.Is she less likely to seek out men she's attracted to when she has an unattractive partner, in your opinion? Is a man being unattractive to his partner getting some kind of extra security when it comes to more attractive men tempting his partner? Just trying to understand your overall point/perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 06:05 PM |
| 5 | The common misconception among women. We need to get over it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary repeated arguments.To be fair, what you said was you claimed, without evidence, that if her current boyfriend behaved as badly as her former boyfriend she'd still claim they acted the same. You made an unfalsifiable claim, and the point of an unfalsifiable claim is that it is impossible to "address", so you got the only possible outcome. Perhaps try arguing without logical fallacies if you'd like your claims to be addressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughI think I generally agree with you, let me steelman you and find out. I think you're saying that it isn't sufficient to only view the world and our policies and attempts to shape it through a "Think of the women!" type of framing because it'll leave holes in our vetting process, it's too narrow. Class, race, the impact on men, the economy, yada yada, these things must be considered too. And yes, there are women of all races, classes, women are impacted by the economy, etc, but "feminism" (the im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 6 | What is meant by “accountability”?I think if you looked through the comments you'd be surprised how often something to the effect of, "Women need to lower their looks standards and then they'll be treated right" is the full "discussion". I know I'll be paying extra attention for more substance than that to see if you're correct that I've just been missing it. What are your top 3 red flags that women should look out for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 06:04 PM |
| 3 | What is meant by “accountability”?In the 1900s the social contract was that there didn't need to be force behind the no. As I keep trying to explain to you, that may have been your perception of how things worked, and it's definitely the ideal, but too many women found it wasn't working that way in reality and the social contract got an update. It wasn't an update out of boredom or "oversensitivity", it was an update made from previous bad experiences that happened under your "1900s social contract". The "contract" was not being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:02 PM |
| 9 | What is meant by “accountability”?You cut off my sentence, I said "feeling safe enough to say no forcefully enough to stop him." Women are conditioned that being forceful is rude, being rude to a man who isn't listening to your soft "no" is risky, does he not see your soft no, or does he not care? If he doesn't care then what will he do if you're more forceful? You also seem to have missed that GenZ learned this from GenX and millennials who had bad experiences, so let's not blame the young folks for learning from their elders a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 06:38 AM |
| 9 | What is meant by “accountability”?That's the rub, sometimes you have to make mistakes to gain experience 🫤 No one starts off with all the experience and wisdom of a lifetime of making mistakes and asking yourself questions. That isn't how life works I'm afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:20 AM |
| 7 | What is meant by “accountability”?so now it's whatever enthusiastic consent is. Too many men not understanding enthusiastic consent, a general idea of what it looks like, and why it's important is why the goalpost got moved. The genX and millennial women passed on their stories of not being sober enough or feeling safe enough to say "no" forcefully enough to convey it to their "partner". Now they ask for enthusiastic consent so that there are no missed messages. As for enthusiastic consent, think of it like the difference betwee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:18 AM |
| 16 | What is meant by “accountability”?She's saying that because "stop going for Chad" is the only "advice" most men give, especially in this subreddit. That isn't actionable, that isn't helpful, that isn't specific as far as behaviors to look out for that might be disingenuous. It translates to, "Date uglier men", and women know full well that ugly dudes can be just as awful (by which I mean that kind people and awful people are in all levels of attractive people) so that advice still isn't going to help them weed out behaviors that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 05:02 AM |
| 9 | Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountabilityAre those men being "milked of their hard earned money", or are they making a choice with their own money to spend it on content that they enjoy because they've decided that the good feelings are worth the cost? Should those men accountable for very basic consumer safety like remembering that you're buying a product, and not actually forming a relationship? In short, should they be held responsible for what comes out of their own wallets and where it goes, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 10:53 PM |
| 14 | Women live life on easy mode.Ah yes, just dial up your local single extremely rich guy! Everyone knows they're always super nice, have only your best interests at heart, and would never be an entitled asshole. Brilliant. So easy. Such love in her life. The dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 04:07 AM |
| 16 | When a conventionally unattractive woman low-key brags about her hedonistic sex life, how to rationalize it?Not all cases are the same, my friend. Some guys might still be into a particular "unattractive" woman, some men might have low standards 🤷🏼♀️ it's a mix, dude. I didn't see the other comment yet, but did they really say all women are beautiful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menPutting the words "men" and "women" in the title and claiming that they're roughly the same does not equate to pitting them against each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 09:36 PM |
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