TheClappyCappy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	What is the best mindset a short guy can have to promote taking action without living in delusion?	Building Power	TheClappyCappy	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/25 06:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	How can i challenge my beliefs that all married men are low status? Let’s quantify status. Is it money? Lots of married guys that are mega rich like Bezos. Is it popularity? Lots of married guys are mega popular like Ryan Reynolds and Hugh Jackman. Is it fame? Christiano Ronaldo and Messi are two of the most famous athletes ever both are married. If you don’t think Ryan Reynold, Hugh Jackman, Ronaldo or Messi get attention from women I don’t know what to tell you. If you think that “freedom” is the most important element of status, firstly I’d say it’s entirely …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/26 01:16 PM
4	Toxic Masculinity Scale (Exposing Bias Against Men in Research Literature) That’s kinda what got me into this space. I couldn’t reconcile the discourse around masculinity, both from men and women, when everyone you look I feel like this is just the behaviour that gets rewarded so it becomes automatic.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/03/26 11:10 PM
2	The case of Kingsman's removal from the Marvel Rivals Tournament is a perfect example of women's in-group bias and the women-are-wonderful effect Yes I think we need to be clear that it was the people in this situation who were wrong.	/r/MensRights	21/01/26 04:37 PM
2	I made this meme to broadly describe our current situation, and why it is so hard for us to speak up So what is the proposed solution? Finding this sub has been good to know I am not alone, but I feel like it’s diminishing returns. Lots of raising awareness about the harm of misandry but very little actionable advice / direction on how to become active in my community irl.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/01/26 04:33 PM
0	I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spaces This is why intersectionality is so important. For example is we look at an issue and split it down gender lines, there is no room to discuss how different experiences affect people differently. For example I saw a post lately where someone said something to the extent of “men have no idea what it’s like to be prosecuted against for literally thousands of years”. So again this statement would imply that Men simply cannot relate to the struggle of oppressed peoples, and therefore should stay quie…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/01/26 04:14 PM
22	The Second She Feels Safe, She Leaves You. Lots of Red Pill advice is just an extreme over correction from being raised as a people pleaser. Helpful for people who are reading for the first time, but those who lack the critical thinking to read between the lines start sperging out and get lost in the sauce. These are the dudes that read “women love assholes” and then start acting like bitchy little cunts then don’t understand why they have no friends.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 04:19 PM
14	The Second She Feels Safe, She Leaves You. Averages are good for understanding groups but bad for individual people. Still, I think what OP said rings true for 90% of people, so there are bound to be outliers who fall outside of the normal bounds. In that case, she wants something slightly different than the “average” woman (within normal margins) so yes her needs will be different. It’s up to you to decide if the juice is worth the squeeze, as in OP’s dissertation, and like much of the basic RP advice, it’s about doing less not more. Th…	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 04:17 PM
1	Women see AF/BB as a singular journey of personal growth. Rollo doing a little hamstering lol	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/25 01:43 PM
2	I Think I Just Found the Bridge Between Femininity and the Positive Side of the Red Pill The anger probably starts just before, and is usually the inciting incident that makes some realizations, or leads to a motivation to find some more knowledge / wisdom. I’d say a lot of guys can get into an “anger” phase when they “realize” sone of the RP truths. I don’t think this anger is ever directly throw at the RP or community, until the denial or bargaining phase where many guys will try and unlearn what they now know, and usually fail to do so. I think the RP anger phase is usually direc…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/25 01:38 PM
2	Why You MUST Pay for Everything: Understanding the Phases of Redpill and Buying Coffee Such a beautiful way to put it. In my martial arts career I’ve noticed a pattern like this as well. I actually improved the most over a period of eight months following a big move where I was randomly bouncing between gyms. No coach, no consistent training partners just trial and error drilling random stuff and “trying” to improve. This was the most frustrated I ever was in my career. I did t know if I was getting better, I didn’t know if I was wasting my time, and I didn’t know what to do next.…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/25 03:57 AM
3	Woman gets Terminal Cancer - Dumps Husband for a wild Sex Romp Female Walter white	/r/MensRights	13/04/25 03:33 AM
2	Statement about TRP.RED loss of funding aprilfoolspilled if you will	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/25 05:25 PM
2	Statement about TRP.RED loss of funding Has a secret double-speak meaning, while also vague enough to be mainstream and popular. We expand with a cryptic viral marketing campaign with a bunch of stock photos except every colour is replaced with a different shade of pink. The tag line will simply say: see the difference? No elaboration. Then we will sell shirts that just say pink, then just the letter “p”, then no words at all just pink shirts, then we eventually sell “see through shirts” which actually don’t exist people will just pay…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/25 05:25 PM
2	Realizations: I figured it out. I see this a lot coaching youth sports. A lot of kids don’t want to compete because if they go and lose, they feel like they will be have gone “down” in perceived skill. It’s easy to gaslight yourself to thinking you are really good at something if you never have to prove it. It’s therefore more comfortable to sit there in the comfort of fantasy then to test your mettle and find out. This is how a lot of men who have not been exposed safe environments where they could experience failure develop …	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/25 04:57 PM
1	Realizations: I figured it out. You don’t ask you don’t get. And it doesn’t matter what your “real value” is. If you don’t advertise it and demonstrate it with confidence it’s entirely unrealized. For example you may have a Ferrari and a nice apartment and six pack abs and be funny and confident. But if you stay in your room all day, anxious and nervous about talking to other people and women because you “might” not be liked, it’s no different than being invisible. If a tree falls in the woods but no one hears it did it really…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/25 04:44 PM
3	Realizations: I figured it out. Yes it’s the classic “if I can’t trust your no, I can’t trust your yes”. No one likes a yes man anyways, and insofar as women are concerned, how can she trust you if you are always code-switching and trying to be a yes man for everyone else? If you can’t say “No” to put your own interests first, how could you ever say “No” in order to protect a wife and child? Not everyone wants a traditional arrangement. But those that do need to understand what it really means. Being a blue-pilled orbiter guy …	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/25 04:37 PM
21	Redpillers are bitching that women are only interested in money, status and looks, but when they come across exceptions among women, they brutally humiliate them They have 1 bad experience or zero experiences and see on online, interpret it incorrectly, search for others who affirm their view and encourage them not to think critically about the world of the perspective of the other gender, look for confirmation bias in ever other experience and every other person they meet then project that onto the world.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/25 08:40 PM
1	Isolation, Globo-Homo Speak and Actual Progress: Why Monk Mode is the Magic Bullet that Never Was I think it can be a good “strategy” to eliminate superficial needs for people who have more serious problems. It doesn’t matter how many social circles you join or extracurricular you have if you are currently living with your parents, no degree and broke. This is an extreme case of course but I’m just saying some people are in too much of a rush to become the final product and are majoring in the minors so to speak. Certain fundamental things you simply need to love a fulfilling and self-actual…	/r/TheRedPill	28/03/25 08:37 PM
4	One thing I never understood about RedPill types is rather simple Haha yea that’s a really good point and a pretty glaring contradiction. I think the “no moralizing” rule is more so to say you can’t discount another repiller’s advice / anecdotes bc of your own personal morals. Ex: Someone makes a post saying that you should “spin plates”, use “dream game” etc. Someone posts under it saying: “I don’t want to use this advice. It makes me feel like a bad person / guilty / ashamed / gross” etc. The commenter will then be shunned / silenced because “no moralizing” …	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/25 02:13 PM
3	One thing I never understood about RedPill types is rather simple As someone who has spent the last 10 years of my life chronically online, and has accidentally fallen into some of these hateful groups, I can shine sone light in this for anyone who wants the real answer: I think the premise of the Red Pill relies heavily on distrusting any traditional media, as well as institutions like schools and the government. The entire “Red Pill” metaphor is a reference to the movie The Matrix and the whole premise is that the “real world” is actually a simulation and on…	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/25 05:50 PM
8	The Myth of the Alpha Male The problem with “acting” Alpha or Beta is that people put the cart before the horse. Beta traits - agreeableness, conflict avoidant, empathetic, altruistic, prioritizing maintaining peace over conflict etc… are inherently useful. It’s certainly more useful for women especially if they want to be accepted in an environment or chosen by a man who doesn’t want a constant challenge, but even men will need to employ beta behaviours at some point or another in their life in order to maintain relation…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/25 03:10 PM
6	The Myth of the Alpha Male I think the loud alpha male archetype is probably and over-broadcasted idea, but is likely pushed so heavily because, especially on the internet, it’s seen as a radical 180 from the shut-in introvert conflict avoidant “Beta”. Realistically like all behaviour change it’s probably on a bell-curve. You start as passive and in offensive, then you radically over correct and become a brash asshole, then you re-centre back to the middle as a chill, respectful guy who has a spine and sets hard boundarie…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/25 02:58 PM
1	Whenever I try to be dominant I end up laughing This guy woke up and chose violence	/r/seduction	24/05/22 02:31 AM