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If a women’s n-count is too high I think she’s gross, and diseased. I wouldn’t have sex with her, not for moral reasons, but for STD risk reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:54 PM
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Is it bitterness, or is it disgust? If you’ve had a few sexual partners fair enough, when you’ve past a certain amount it’s gross. I’m 21, currently on my third gf, meaning my n-count is 3. If a girl has had more than me, or let’s say more than 5 ... ... ... that’s an immediate and indefinite no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:51 PM
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This is a nonsensical post. Let’s take the blackpillers for example. They don’t blame women, the blame ‘god’ or ‘chance’ for not making them attractive. What they do is point out how attractive people only really want attractive people, and will only try to get attractive people. Blame != Observation of circumstance. Also, red pillers and black pillers give very realistic advice: “You’re ugly as fuck so get in the gym, your hair looks like a greasy mop, cut it “ etc ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:47 PM
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I’d leave her. What she’s essentially said to me is “I know we live in a hard world in which people take advantage of prey, but I’m a push over and I’ll let someone do that to me”. I wouldn’t have anything to say to her former partner... what would I possibly want to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 01:41 PM
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From my individual perspective, sex is not a maker in relationship, it’s definitely a deal breaker. If our libidos aren’t ‘in sync’, then it’s a no from me. I, and let me prefix this by saying I don’t speak for all men, just think women offer way less in a relationship than they like to admit. They don’t help with ‘spirituality’, or ‘finding myself’ or my ‘journey’. Also, I can cook better than my current gf, and most women my age (21). Again, I don’t speak for all men, but the only thing they b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:11 AM
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This is one of those questions that is really a mask: it’s actually a statement saying “There is a narrative that RP men don’t get laid, for all the people that agree with this, discuss below”. If men who aren’t “getting laid” are in the minority. Then most RP do get laid. Any other opinion is simply people attempting to besmirch and cope. But I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:53 PM
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I’ve never cared about such a notion. Everything I do educations wise, job wise and gym wise has been for my personal gain. I don’t quite understand what you mean by ‘pick the winners’, no one will just ‘pick’ me. You can’t just ‘pick’ me. I pick them. Don’t get it twisted. Moreover, I don’t buy expensive gifts for anyone, not even my family. What is there to gain ‘at the end’ of my voyage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:38 AM
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When (some) women say that men don’t care about their pleasure, I laugh. If you don’t tell someone what you like they wont know. Interestingly enough, in response to that they’ll say something along the lines of “they should know what to do”. Well, keep both that attitude, and your vibrator close.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:33 AM
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I think sluts are usually nicer people and have experience talking to men so they don’t make things awkward. I’m all for hedonism so if you want to be a slut, go ahead. However, as I’m not promiscuous my self, I wouldn’t date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:28 AM
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We can agree on that. Although, doing that, ‘honing their niche’, would result in a smaller pool of options. If that’s what they want, great. It’s interesting you said that in your final statement, because I’m a gamer, and I only enter relationships with girls who have already had exposure to gaming. Major compatibility green flag for me. Each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:05 AM
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I read that, and all I could think was ‘greed and no control’. As a dude myself... like ... how could you tell me what men want ... as if I haven’t talked to them daily for 21 years. Your mind is greedy, and your lust is feeding on said weakness. Sad really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:54 PM
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I agree for the most part, but you’ve used extreme examples which are too far fetched, and allow for your blanket statement. I think you should correct your statement to... ‘There are no definitive characteristics that would objectively rank someone high in everyones interpretation of the sexual market place, however, there are some universal attributes that would give an individual points in every market place’ What examples have I got?: be healthy, don’t have spots, don’t be deformed, be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:49 PM
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I’m not an anomaly. Even if what you’re saying is true, we can examine further to see why none of this matters: Most men can’t bang the women they want so they settle for what they get, Most women can’t get the men they want (even though jaded hags like to rally their hope on FDS to no avail). , so they settle for the best that comes their way. In addition to that, most people want to be rich, but that won’t happen either. I do however understand your point, promiscuous men can be promiscuous ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:39 PM
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Interesting but common take. Here’s where it goes wrong: you’ve assume all men are promiscuous or want to be ... which simply isn’t true, and you’ve assumed that all women care about having a relationship, which again, is not the case. When you like so- in fact let me just speak for myself: when I like a girl ... like actually like her, not just for sex, I only want that person, and every other girl is invisible. I genuinely think if there are guys out there who are ONLY looking for sex, it’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:28 PM
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It’s subjective. However, I’d say no one knows their real rating, but everyone knows their ‘range’. If you’re talking about looks only, it’s a little clearer. When you talk about quality, I think it gets vague. Intelligence? Interesting hobbies? Financial state ? Personality?. Moreover that, what if someone doesn’t care about any of these things, but instead cares about if you adore them or not. If you’re good looking and have all the other points, then I’d say you’ve got a pretty good chance of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:01 PM
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All three of my girlfriends, including my current, have paid for themselves on the first ‘date’. If someone asks me to pay for them I’ll say no. Anyone else that pays is the definition of a simp. Would you tell someone you’re into, ‘pay for my meal or I don’t like you?’. You wouldn’t right? That’s an A U D I T I O N. I laugh at other men that pay on the first date ... knowing I never have, and never will, yet I’ve always gotten what I wanted. Keep simping. It’s hilarious really, my second girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:46 PM
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Oh absolutely. People need to find a genuine hobby that makes them happy. Something that will have them rushing home to get another minute of ‘play time’. It really is ‘something to live for’. People fade, skills hone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:39 PM
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I like ‘hoes’. Although I don’t dabble with whores myself, I’m not sure what it is but every promiscuous women seems to be much more compatible and understanding of men. Incredibly down to earth, honestly. Does it make it harder? Well of course, your offer is ‘sex’ ... correct? Their offer is ‘Sex with no games and I’ll be a cool friend to have’. Even though I’m not promiscuous myself, I’d much rather have a whorish pickmesha as a friend, even if I’m not banging her: they understand men way more…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:36 PM
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I don’t think you’ve understood what I said? I genuinely do not care. I don’t think I could’ve been more clear, ‘The world isn’t fair’. Get used to it. It’s not like I explicitly said “I want kids” or “I would like to get married in the future”. They assumed it. What does assuming mean? You make an (ASS) of (U) and (ME). Trickery has been part of every game since the dawn of time, cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:30 PM
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Fair point. But, why would I put up more barriers, to slow me down from getting what I want? “Hey, I don’t want you to be my girlfriend, or the mother to my children, or my wife ever, but you wanna hang out sometime?x”. Do I look daft?, I see the rules, I play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:21 PM
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Yeah, I truly believe the ‘horny demon’ is simply asking for sex, way more than it is for companionship. My friends genuinely make me happy, but I’m not gay, so I can’t have sex with them unfortunately. So prostitution and friends would solve the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:17 PM
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What would that be? “Hey women, although you have a major advantage online, please don’t take it”. Sorry man, the worlds just sad like that. Deal with it... or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:15 PM
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Did you not read the post, in which I very clearly stated ‘the worlds not fair’. Why would I give up my hedonism because an internet stranger thinks it immoral? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:14 PM
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Did you not read the post, in which I very clearly stated ‘the worlds not fair’. Why would I give up my hedonism because an internet stranger thinks it immoral? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:13 PM
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I don’t agree with everything here, but I’ll go ahead and answer the question. As stated in many posts before, I’m an attractive tall guy, so I’ve been perpetually in relationships. I don’t like sleeping around, unlike my ‘fuck boy’ cousin, who is the polar opposite to me. Why am I in a relationship? I don’t know really, do I see myself going to marriage (which is something I’d never do regardless) with my current girlfriend? No. Kids? No. I say we’re together, to get a steady supply. If it stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:52 PM
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I think the other comments are on track but here’s what I think. If sex wasn’t pushed as hard as it was in the media and online, men would probably try even less in the dating world. The truth is, there’s a lot of guys that don’t care and simply want to play video games because it’s fun. Put yourself in an uncomfortable position that society told you you want, or do things that stimulate the mind and bring enjoyment. It’s fairly obvious that their age mate, at any age, would be more experienced.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:23 PM
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People are trying their hardest to discredit the wall again I see, while not understanding it. Women age quicker, and arguably worse then men. They also have a limited fertility period. As a 21 yo myself, even a super hot women over 30 simply cannot reach the value of an average 20yo. Also, it could be combined with lower testosterone too: so you’re even less likely to be attracted to an age-mate old woman. TLDR: wrinkles, lower fertility + lower testosterone = landslide loss on interest. The wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:12 PM
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Great, it would be a bummer if my girlfriend felt the same way. Oh, and if your born in 86, IF, you’re not young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:40 PM
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Simply rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:38 PM
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That’s the problem right there. I go from girlfriend to girlfriend, yet I’ve never tried to ‘talk a girl out of her panties’. Maybe it’s because I didn’t do that, and let things happen naturally. I guess it’s my fault for misunderstanding really, I thought we were talking of monogamy, not promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:17 PM
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So 60% didn’t. Meaning that it’s most common to date outside of your social circle ... making your suggestion that single men should do this bizarre. If he wants to do this sure, but he LITERALLY has better odds if he dated out. If you’re calling out isolated people gleefully, I’d say you’re a nasty person. Also, if you , and them, see sex as something prosperous, that would speak volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:13 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:05 PM
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We’re not weaker. You guys were just faking. Also, for the longest while now, we don’t care what old people think. We don’t care if your ascribe manliness to physical strength, or aggression, or victory. We don’t care that you want us to wear bootcuts and boots. We care about our finger nails , we want soft hands and we don’t want to wood work. Cry me a river. We’ve changed bro. So now (you must forcefully) accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:01 PM
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I’m honestly so baffled when people say things like this. What does demystifying women mean?, what does how to talk to women even mean? It’s like not a single person has sisters, female cousins and aunts. Let alone that near everyone went to mixed schools. Why do people act like so many people are socially inept? There’s no such thing as ‘learning how to talk to women’, nor ‘learning how to talk to men’. Talk normally, and you’ll be fine. Bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:52 PM
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What? I met my all of my girlfriends as well as my current in classes or at work. I’d say I have about 3 female friends and about 20 males ones, yet never had a problem Also, it’s really interesting you see it like that, if I was on the market and saw a girl I fancied already talking to one of my mates, I’d never talk to her: not in a rude way, but I’d think either my mate or my mates mates have been with her. I definitely don’t like dating within a small social circle, it’s weird and gross (IMO…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:46 PM
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It’s hard to tell from the post, but the point still stands. At what point does it allude to her* having bad social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:48 AM
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Literally nothing from his post said he lacked social skills in general. It said he can’t relate to women because he barely interacts with them, outside of the women he already knows. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:35 AM
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If you feel rejected you’re going to be happy about you rejecter going through something similar. If you say your old bully get beaten up badly, at any age, your not going to have compassion are you? That’s how they perceive it. Women why are past 30 have a COMPLETELY different experience than a 25 or a 21 year old. Even young women who are ‘successful’ on OLD rarely get approached in real life, after 30 OLD slows down, and they pretty much never get approached IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:44 AM
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No specific age if it’s the right girl. If Kiernan Shipka or a younger Emma Watson came out of the woodworks, I’ll be off the dating list for as long as they stay faithful. The problem is that women around my age, 21, think that they can come into my life, and get married in 3 years and have kids in 6. It’s so funny that I get to say this phrase like my dad always says to me “I’ve got shoes for longer than I’ve known you”. They ask for too much, when you don’t know that person at all. I had my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:49 AM
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FDS which supposedly empowers women, ironically tells women to use their bodies as a means to get what they want, commitment. They objectify themselves LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:40 AM
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No. From my perspective as soon as a women gets in the 8 range, she’s attractive enough to date. The problem isn’t natural at all, it stems from hookup culture, in which some men can’t control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:44 PM
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I’m a perpetual relationship kind of guy, and all of my exes, and current are attractive. I’d say I’m a solid 8.5, I won’t do anything will women under an 8. I’m not promiscuous so I’m not ‘smashing’ anything. Any girl under an 8 is a friend to me, and girls whom are overweight make some of the best friends (no, I’m dead serious, they really do). You may be right in the grand scheme of things, but this isn’t every man. Also, will people stop perpetuating the myth that attractive men go after und…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:01 PM
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I agree. Let’s not limit this just to sexlessness though, relationships (as you pointed) also look in bleak position. I’ve seen people I’m close to get cheated on, what people don’t realize is in the same way you can have ‘passive smoking’, you have ‘passive jading’. Here’s how I think: anytime I get in relationship, like the one I’m in now, I never actually like the person on an emotional level, I like them on a oh-you’re-cool level. I never ever think ‘this is the person I want to spend my lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:50 PM
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This is such a delusional comment, and so are the replies: an attempt to misconstrued the notion. The notion, as you all damn well know, is: “I’m unattractive and short, so I may not be able to get 10 normally, so I’ll acquire something (whorish) 10/10 women want: money. Thus I can indirectly buy her”. No one believes 6 zeros in your account makes you Michael B Jordan. Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:31 PM
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He’s delusion. Anytime someone slanders MGTOW they highlight their agenda. MGTOWS aren’t confined to a set of beliefs, they’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:25 PM
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I agree. I’m 21, imagine one of the men at my old workplace was like 40-45, he legitimately said to me “women experience love in a different way, you need to buy them things to show them you love”, ...... that guy also has a young SON. Betas are being made by the day. Tragic. Also what OP said is essentially “you see those good women in your fathers generation? they don’t exist anymore, we’re all vapid and immoral”. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:23 PM
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This answer is the stupidest thing I’ve read on PPD this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:15 PM
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It’s could be a host of reasons. 1.) Sex isn’t actually that great. It may feel involving and constant to women but let me reveal a secret: It doesn’t really feel good until the 20% of the thrust. So the other 80% of the time it’s just a workout where I have to do more. 2.) There’s only one 10 second (?) orgasm for a lot of work 3.) In order to pleasure my partner I have to keep a certain ‘beat’, same with my last 2 girlfriends ... and that rhythm may not be a turn on to me. (You can’t fake plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:12 PM
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I’m an attractive dude, what OP said is nonsense, it’s actually funny really, because I go from relationship to relationship, most average and even ugly men have a higher lay count than me - if you’re talking unique lays that is. Moreover that, if OP’s looks match and below stepped out of the market, OP thinks that’ll mean that attractive men will go for her. No silly, we’ll be even more swamped with ‘Stacey’s’ then ever before. ‘Shooting yourself in your own foot’.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:32 AM
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Jesus, it’s like you stole this comment from me in another universe. Compatibility & Loyalty. It couldn’t be simpler to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:27 AM
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Don’t understand this. If you’re single, go for it, if not, don’t. I think your misunderstanding the Chad/Tyrone ideas: it’s not that you can’t go with them, it’s that a lot of butter-faced-landwhales think they, of all people, D E S E R V E Chad/Tyrone. Then they get pumped and dumped, become old and jaded, and try to persuade young women to be bitter towards men because 20 years later they’re still salty: like the ‘women’ on female dating strategy. They claim to be routing for and supporting/h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:18 AM
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No, that’s exactly what you’re doing, you’re trying to reduce your work load. It’s interesting really, it’s not that you can’t see it, it’s that you don’t want to. I hope you like men covered from head to toe in hair with a Gandalf beard, you don’t want twelve year old forearms and chins now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:13 AM
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Why does this ‘if he likes clean shaven, he likes young individuals’ attitude keep appearing? YOU don’t want to keep your groin groomed, that’s fine, some people prefer something that you don’t want to be, that’s fine too. Stop trying to shame in order to get society to reduce your grooming work load.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:57 AM
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What a nonsensical attitude. I’m glad I don’t know anyone like you in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:39 PM
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You don’t know me. You don’t know whom I’ll be embarrassed walking with. Stop making assumptions to strengthen your non-point. I never said a woman needed half of men having sex with her. Try again. Instead of coming already in battle mode, why don’t you be civil and make reasonable points. It’s a D I S C U S S I O N.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:35 AM
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No one can control that. That’s part of the game. Also, do remember that with all rules, there are exceptions. Take Emma Watson, she’s 29, I thought she looked great at 16 and 21, at 30 she still looks almost immaculate. I’m waiting to see how she is in 5 years though. Shame she’s a feminazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:21 AM
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It’s probably your personality. Just be nice ... bro. I’m 21, and in all seriousness, that’s unfortunate, but if you can’t achieve something in 7 years, there’s no one else to blame. Bear in mind I’m not saying it’s over, I’m saying after that age you MUST lower your expectations. Either that or just join FDS, they’re all jaded, you might fit right in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:00 AM
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I’d agree with you, and the redpillers. They look their best at 20-22, they start very slowly declining from that point to a similar looking 25. From 25-30, they completely change in looks to someone near unrecognizable. I honestly think it’s unfortunate that they age so badly and so rapidly but hey, being a women you’ve had a solid decade of having the upper hand in relationships. If you haven’t made the best use of that advantage by 25 ... ... ... well there’s no soft way of saying this - you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:36 AM
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It’s very simple: women don’t want equality. They want all the benefits of the past, while being in the present. For the young men reading this: I’ve never ‘paid for the first date’, I’ve always paid my 50%, and they’ve paid theirs - just like my current gf. If a women expects you to pay for the first date, this is what’s essentially happening: “Pay me for the audition, if it goes well, pay for another, if it goes badly, you have to recoup all the losses’. Let me say it again in a different way:…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:29 AM
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As a dude, speaking for myself. I think I’ll go ahead and restructure that: ‘Why does almost every girl think that the boys around them WANT TO have sex when they’re blatantly unattractive and/or overweight?’ I think thinking this way gives girls some sense of value, when in reality less than half of the men they know WOULD. Women can continue to lie about it if they want, but if an individual of the opposite gender is attractive people WOULD have sex with them. Here’s the key: WOULD is not equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:21 AM
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It’s not that they’re a whore, it’s that they aren’t a virgin. It’s like cleaning a plate: if there’s even a speck left on it, I don’t want to eat off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:09 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I know men who are very attractive, but have little success with women - partly due to not trying and partly due to whatever else, thus rate themselves lower. Then there’s another dude I knew who was a 2 at best in the face, yet constantly got women (well girls at the time because we were in high school) that even myself would’ve dated. I distinctly remember saying to myself: ‘well if he could get her, I don’t want her at all’. In fact, because of this I actually thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:02 AM
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This is one of those questions that all these cretins will see, come out of the shadows, and start pointing fingers in the other direction. The sick, depraved, dishonorable, disloyal and those underserving of love cheat. No one I would label a ‘real man’ or a ‘real woman’ cheats. If you cheat on someone I GENUINELY wish you never, ever find love again and die lonely, pathetic swines.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:50 AM
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‘These teachers are banging Becky and Stacy’ - outrage. ‘Tyrone & Chad’ - legends. The way society talks about the abuse of young male children just shows the disregard for men, typical. Also, I’m sure there are interracial cases, but it’s probably same-race in most cases due to demographics. Younger individuals are reaching sexual maturity WAY earlier. They have unlimited access to ‘content’.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:43 AM
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I wouldn’t voluntarily disclose. I’m not ashamed that It is what I consider high, and I wouldn’t be ashamed if it was zero or low. I simply wouldn’t voluntarily say. Why wouldn’t I say? because I don’t want to lead to a conversation in which I find out theirs. I live on a “don’t ask if you don’t want to know” notion. I consider any women over 1 to be a whore, thus I’d rather they not tell me so I think of them as a virgin and treat them as such. Fail logic? Yes , My logic? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:04 PM
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She was a land whale, now she’s not, now she’s getting attention from the opposite gender. Absolute fact: if you are overweight, your options are limited, and people will not interact with you in a romantic way. Also, people see obesity as a lack of self control: on the opposite side of the spectrum, a gym bro shows commitment, consistently and achievement. I was never overweight, and I’ve been going gym on and off since 15. It’s had no (visible) impact on my relationship with friends or women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:58 PM
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Arguing about who’s shallower, not realizing that that’s something that changes from person to person is retarded. This post is retarded. Commenters suggesting either side are more/less shallow is retarded. Do better PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:41 PM
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A fuck boy isn’t someone who ‘can’t control his (completely normal, biologically driven, supplemented by testosterone) animalistic urges. It’s someone who (usually) happens to be good looking, and acquires what they desire as a result. SMV != HVM, also != to LVM. It’s not even in the same boat. Also, stop slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:38 PM
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I’m not average. But yes absolutely, we don’t need to find a source to exercise our power... we already own everything important in real life, maybe that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:36 AM
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Oh and to add , as I’ve said many times: the women in their ‘womensphere’ like here in purple pill debate, female dating strategy etc, are either ugly (highly likely) or just about average. They don’t see any of the benefits Stacy see’s, so they are incredibly salty online - the place where they can pretend to be a 10. For example, they get ‘alot’ of matches on dating platforms, but have never been approached in real life, in their entire life ... it only adds to the salt. Most of the women on s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:29 AM
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It’s a very simple concept: they don’t care. Women aren’t nice, to think they are is a manifestation of the deception of early life content - I.e. Disney movies that show them to be nice. The truth is, most of them aren’t nice. Remember, when you fall in the streets or in school, only men will help. Take it from the horses mouth, my girlfriend: If he’s not my dad, brother or boyfriend, he’s invisible. Don’t fool yourself son.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:22 AM
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Oh, you haven’t got the memo yet? Religion is a pick and choose thing. Religious folks choose parts of their text as confirmation bias for the commonly held beliefs in their immediate society. “‘And then he , the holy, said the hand was coldest in winter’, you see !?! , my uncle say his hand gets cold in winter must be true”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:56 AM
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If the question is if people will shoot for their looksmatch after being rejected, the answer is probably not - individuals will try to buy a mansion for a penny if they could. When you say the word ‘settle’, I assume you’re talking about if women will settle. Men will shoot their shot but understand their league - women have no concept of this. They’ve been taught to ‘deserve’, things: it’s the reason that they can’t figure out why Tyrone or Chad won’t commit. Women, if a guy is blatantly 2 poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:52 AM
1

Didn’t say that wasn’t true. In fact, I didn’t claim either of those things are untrue. Take your helmet off, I’m not your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:31 PM
-1

It’s a back handed compliment. ‘Your green hair looks good, but I liked it better brunette’. Women are incredibly sensitive and insecure - pretty much all of them. So? Never project any honest opinions, keep them in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:56 AM
16

Firstly, incoming hordes of women who pretend to not like sex. Secondly, it’s probably the validation. It’s the same thing I’ve experienced, upper-average women tend to be better at sex because of their consistent supply, whereas really attractive women aren’t usually that great in bed, because of their high filter. It’s like how men say fat girls are ‘freaks’. I wouldn’t know though, I wouldn’t touch any girl over 55kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:49 AM
2

I don’t like that. Gives me promiscuous vibes. It’s best to keep it simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:06 PM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:05 PM
0

Not a lot. Why anyone would want to do that is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:16 PM
0

Firstly, I’m a relationship or FWB man, so I only deal with a single person at a time, anything else is gross. In order to sleep with me I require a recent STD check up. If you’re sleeping with someone else, you are no longer clean in my eyes. What don’t people understand? ONE person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:10 PM
5

This is nonsense, and a purposeful mischaracterization of ‘so many men’. Firstly, from birth, every single man knows he doesn’t inherently deserve anything. It is simply an observation of how others treat chad, vs how they are treated themselves. Even ugly women are treated with a certain level of respect, albeit nowhere near Staceys. Ugly men have no such experience. Also, I have a question: why do ugly women come online and act as if anyone’s talking about them. ‘Men’ only talk about Staceys ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:41 PM
2

I’ve said this like a million times. I’m tall and good looking, if you’re more than a point under me and/or fat it’s a definite no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:04 PM
2

It’s a nonsensical comment. It’s nonsensical both ways. If an individual commits suicide over a break up, they were unstable to begin with. It’s not the leavers fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:14 AM
1

If he wants to suppress his desires he could get a (non-permanent) castration. If he doesn’t want a committed relationship use a prostitute. Why even bother talking to women if you can pay for a hooker? As for the answer to the question: No. Do what you have to do to prosper in a harsh world. Lead them on, get what you want, leave. If you’ve never been approached, got a new sports car, now all of a sudden people start showing interest: they don’t, never have and never will care about you. If YOU…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:10 AM
1

Nor did I make said claim. I said ‘do you’, in English that lead is characteristic of a Q U E S T I O N.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:07 AM
-1

I’m not understanding your question... do you suggest it will change for better or for worse. I’m going to assume the latter. I never understood why some individuals think that average or less than average men will never find someone. Here’s a simple fact of nature: some people are unable to find a spouse, and do not get to pass their genes on ... it is what it is. However, most do. I’m going to also assume you’re asking this question as it seems that the notion of women dating across and up is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:04 AM
0

I think this idea of men wanting to be man whores stems from 2 misconceptions: Men find the average girl attractive (we don’t, most men find a non-fat, BODY attractive, not face), and men have low standards (not true, men tend to date a looksmatch ) Me personally, I’d want every woman to disappear, and then replaced by 3.5 (or is it 4 now?) billion Kiernan Shipka’s. That’s whom I find attractive, somewhat funny, and incredibly charismatic. It’s an injustice that other women are allowed to steal …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:10 PM
1

Well, I’ve never slept around: being good looking and tall I’ve never felt the need to,nor have I wanted to - most women are ugly. Also, I’m well endowed, so I’ve always thought ‘not just anyone can have it’. For these reasons, and to answer your question: no. FWB (who are actually friends and nice people) or a SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:02 PM
3

I’d agree. It’s quite literally a beast in your mind telling you to cave to lust. I’ve never had a ‘short supply’, but if the need wasn’t there I genuinely don’t think I’d interact with women at all (unless they were my friend beforehand). In fact, if there was a pill to completely kill libido ( i.e. for a year at a time) I’d take it immediately. It’s as close to a need as possible, with the exception being it’s absence doesn’t kill you. It’s a useless distraction, that I think most men will cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:17 PM
0

Delusional. They can stop having feelings for you. Like how all our relationships have ended thus far??Whatever gets you to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:40 PM
1

You could read it as ‘75% are happy’, or you could read it as ‘1 in 4 men who entered a legally binding financial risk are unhappy with their marriage’. Depends on how you want to look at it. Would you gamble your house if the risk of losing is 25%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:39 PM
0

TRP references hypergamy as a women’s nature. The slut is in reference to the behavior they enact as part of their supposed nature. A 6/10 will try as hard as she can to lockdown Chad/Tryrone, and fail. If said women could go up the ladder, from 10/10 chad, to 11/10 chad etc she would. Thus they’ll be a ‘slut’ for as long as it takes to ‘secure the bag’.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:34 PM
15

Interesting question. I see other people’s comments, some are rational, some aren’t. I genuinely think it comes down to our ‘not taking the risk’, ‘why leave my house’, ‘things are expensive’ attitude. We don’t really care for it. Also, jacking off suppresses the majority of young men - hence why ‘cold’ approaches are all but extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:17 PM
4

It says that people use their phones too much. It also says that marriage is a bad idea for men, especially when their libido dies. It’s funny really, I didn’t know ‘dead bedrooms’ existed until a few weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:07 PM
1

I don’t think they’re boring personally, but I still maintain they aren’t remotely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:40 PM
5

‘the group consensus was just wrong’. Sorry, do you mean “here are the views, that some of you hold , that I disagree with”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:36 PM
3

I w*nted to. Interesting really, I bet you wouldn’t have been justifying it if it was your daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:51 PM
1

Firstly, porn isn’t making men sick, stop pushing this nonsense, any addiction (even eating ... especially eating) has adverse effects. Secondly, I’m not going to comment on ’whom’ is behind this. However, I will take your greater point. We’re going through a period of rapid change into grounds that have never been discovered - social media sponsoring cults (like feminism), loneliness (because we all stay in our purpose-built communities we’ve forged online) etc. If you feel like a victim, you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 01:03 PM
8

We build them, destroy them, and build them again. What’s your point? What do you do during the cycle? Edit: Yes ... that’s correct... we build the greatest societies (which you gleefully omitted), and also the worst ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:44 PM
57

Notice how it’s never rpe, nor p*ophilia? Women get away with this all the time, and other women simply turn a blind eye because it’s ‘bad for their image’. I remember being assaulted four times in my life at the hands of women, all reported, all went nowhere. For the dudes reading this, some of you are also part of the problem for thinking it’s funny , and it’s a game - like my supervisors at the time. For anyone that abuses or turns a blind eye: you’ll change your attitude really fast if it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:41 PM
5

Ahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:39 AM
1

You know why, I know why, we all know why ... control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:00 AM
2

Threats like that is why the marriage rate continues to decline - women use it as a hostage situation. The younger generation isn’t daft lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:12 PM
2

While I’m not going to disrespect you or disregard the knowledge you may have gained through experience... I’m not going to let anyone say “you don’t know what you’re talking about, you’re 21”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:09 PM
1

That’s not all men, obviously. And my original comment tells you why..... and you already know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:05 PM
4

Couldn’t be more right. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:04 PM
1

You’re 21, you don’t know anything, my husband says he would never choose a doll over me. You’re 21, you’ve had no relationship, you don’t know what it feels like to cuddle. Okay lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:01 PM
5

Why can’t anyone just say it? I’ll say it: I’m 21, there’s probably not a single person in my generation who isn’t trying to win on all fronts. I can cook (better than the majority of women I know), clean, work, study ... so can every other male and every other female. So? Fuck the other gender, they’re useless. Joke, but we seriously don’t need each other. I’ve said it once, I’m going to say it a million times; cheap prostitutes, widely available porn, sentient-tier sex robots and most men woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:52 PM
3

Women aren’t funny, but I did (EXTREMELY BRIEFLY) chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:46 PM
1

Very true. My face kind of twisted when you said ‘were on your tails already’. It’s somewhere between disingenuous and misleading. It’s easy to climb the staircase when it’s already built. Good luck though, genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:44 PM
5

‘Never have control’. I can definitely tell a woman made this comment by how delusional it is. Science will make the interaction between men and women obsolete before the century ends. Men simply haven’t discovered yet - give it time - we always get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:41 PM
9

Firstly, both men and women must be careful what rabbit hole they fall down, the feelings gained by facing reality can alter the way you treat people when dating, which can make dating harder... and the cycle starts. Also, men ARE NOT attracted to anything, stop pushing this myth. Men are, by default, attracted to slim, healthy BODIES. If you’re an ugly woman , you have no advantage. Let’s repeat it again: MEN are NOT attracted to the average females FACE, but their BODY. FDS may be worth a try …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:28 PM
2

If you’re trying to be ‘right/correct ’, you can have it. Also, the achievements of women don’t trickledown to you either. You can’t bring up ‘oh you need us to make you’ because that’s mutual. Anyways, you’re ‘correct’, cya.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:18 PM
2

That may or may not be so. It is definitely true that, in some civilizations, they were barred from doing anything academic. Which any rational modern being would say that is incredibly unfair for 1 term, let alone thousands of years. Here’s the thing, men HAVE done it, women COULD do it. Proofs in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:14 PM
1

If you’re talking about people not getting credit for their achievements - ‘people of color’ have you beat by a mile. Women have also contributed to society, to say they were significant in discoveries as a whole is just a lie that you make up to make yourself feel better. Just a question, out of all discoveries in history, what percentage were women - no matter what you say, it isn’t 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:06 PM
-1

I’m not ‘team male’, I’m not undermining women either - I’m simply saying ‘cry me a damn river’ if you continue cry about having birth. Don’t like like birth ... don’t do it. I’m not just going to sit here and have women constantly bring that shit up - get over it. Exceptional men and women exist ... we know this. Also, I didn’t pull the ‘men build’ card I simply pointed out the belief pattern of some men. You’re simply getting emotional. No man cares about minimizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:03 PM
2

Yeah I agree. So when’s too much? 10,30, 950 ? What’s the issue? She’s just experimenting. 34 gang bangs in public in 2 weeks on a nude beach, don’t objectify anyone. ‘Holier than thou’.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:19 PM
2

Do you want a prize or something? Why do (some) women always bring this up? It’s almost as if it’s the only thing they have. Thank you mommy for giving me life - I know it takes a man and a women to procreate - but let’s give you all the roses. Like Jesus Christ, you’ve performed your biological function - I didn’t beam you telepathically before I was conceived and say “Hey future mom, pop me out please”. Get a grip, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 07:04 PM
2

Preference is preference. Pick your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:59 PM
-5

Firstly, let’s not get emotional, we’re civilized people. It is possible my reply may have touched a nerve. However, what I said still stands, whether or not TRP men believe they are the prize, when it comes to interacting with the opposite gender, that does not manifest - whereas it does for FDS. Also, Einstein’s mother is not remembered in history, she has nothing to do with his achievements. Edit: I have never stated what pills (or lack there of) I have taken, I have no affiliation or ‘devoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:49 PM
-3

I think the misrepresentation is on your part. TRP may state that men are more valuable, and state rational reasons as to why that’s true; we built, invented, discovered and maintained everything. This belief is very valid. While it may manifest into entitled BELIEFS, it DOES NOT however translate into ACTION. I’m looking at an FDS post now: the ‘lady’ wasn’t interested because he used the phrase ‘hang out’ instead of date. Bahaha, you’re a women, on reddit, on FDS, using online dating - you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:36 PM
1

Labor and time are resources... but you spend those resources anyway right? My rooms clean, I sometimes light candles especially around festive seasons, I’m a clean individual.... I can’t see what EXTRA I’ve had to do? Send a few texts saying what we’re doing , where we’re meeting etc - that’s it. If you have 10 hours to talk to your mates but not a few minutes for some texts, you’re priorities are elsewhere (and that’s fine).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:26 PM
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I’d actually say FDS is more dangerous. TRP tells you to be ruthless and unwavering. It doesn’t say you have any inherent value, or you’re a ‘prize’. FDS genuinely believe they are inherently better, and owed something - TRP believes no such thing, and tells you that straight up. Employ a tactic or fail. I’m not going to go tit for tat on their tactics , I couldn’t care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:14 PM
2

Firstly, in my experience I’ve never had to use any ‘resources’ to get a woman, it’s either she’s into me or she’s not - boohoo. Interestingly enough, the only people that didn’t understand this from early was the less active, less attractive, good hearted individuals. Do you think that I think girls have given me chances for as long as I can remember because they x-rayed me, and saw my personality? They know the game. I know the game. It’s either you play or you don’t. Unfortunately (and it tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:56 PM
56

I’ve said it once, I’ll say it a million more times. TRP & FDS are people who’ve grown up thinking being moral was a righteous thing to do, until they realized (or perceived) that barely anyone’s playing that way. They now employ tactics that solely benefit them. People aren’t satisfied winning 7/10 things, they want a landslide victory in every possible way. It’s really just a greater reflection on society as a whole, people who ‘play by the rules’ will be crushed. What good is honesty, if ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:46 PM
1

You don’t speak for all women, as I don’t speak for all men. I gave my opinion. In addition, you said they’re gross, I didn’t. I actually do enjoy doing what I’m referring to, I simply won’t enjoy it if the person isn’t attractive. I don’t see where you’re coming from. This is not what I was referring to, but let’s give an easy example, why in the world would I want to give, orally, to a fat women? Is it inherently gross? No. I just won’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:34 PM
1

You don’t speak for all women, as I don’t speak for all men. I gave my opinion. In addition, you said they’re gross, I didn’t. I actually do enjoy doing what I’m referring to, I simply won’t enjoy it is the person isn’t attractive. I don’t see where your coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:28 PM
1

Projection of insecurity? No. Projection of my own way of being? ... err yeah, I literally just said that’s what I do. Also, not remotely true, they may like me more, but they can be more attracted to someone else. Do you, personally, look like your SO’s (if exists) celebrity crush ?.... or do you look less attractive? The latter is probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:24 PM
1

Oh this is the easiest to answer yet: because I (although unlikely) may not be as attractive as her historic partners. Personally, what I’d be willing to do (experiment wise) depends 30% on how comfortable I am with someone, and 70% on how attractive they are. They’re things that I’ve done for (and with) women I consider attractive, that I’ll never ever even consider doing with a woman I’d consider average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:02 PM
1

If that’s your opinion, then sure. If your wildly attracted to a 4/10 there’s absolutely no problem with that. In fact, power to you , and power to the guy. It seems like you’re(respectfully) trying to change my view: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:46 PM
1

You can be distrustful if you wish. Live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:31 PM
1

1 .) good point. 2 .) I was referring to things she enjoyed, and you know that. 3.) The same does go for me, also there are reckless moms and dads right now, so why would I give the benefit of doubt to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:30 PM
1

It’s funny really, I’d say FWB come along relatively easily in general. I guess you could say I’m ‘seeing’ someone, but in reality she’s going to become another FWB. I read things on here and in different places (I.e. YouTube comment section) that would have you believe that women want you to pay for this that and the other - I’m not saying that isn’t true - but I am saying that’s never ever happened to me ... and I got what I wanted. It may or may not be because I’m tall and attractive, I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:06 PM
4

Firstly, ‘most men’ nor ‘most women’ have engaged is such actions, excluding casual sex. Unless you have something to prove otherwise. Let me talk about myself. I think it comes from the ‘perfect world’ fantasy everyone has growing up. We weren’t told that Snow White had a gang bang growing up, so we had the idea that it was one man, and one woman. To face reality in my mid teens was horrific at best - imagine the girl (for example) you crushed on got dogged out behind a dumpster? It will shock …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:50 PM
1

I thought this was obvious, but apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:56 PM
1

Simple, you’re making a few comments seem like a representation for ‘men’ , hence the title of your post. Also, saying ‘who cares’ to that, is confirming what I said : women use English gymnastics to save face. Whereas men, like me, simply say I’m not interested in fat women. It’s even detrimental to themselves: they’ll tell their obese friend, “if he doesn’t like you for who you are he’s shallow”, whereas men will tell their obese friend, “women don’t like x, they like y, so you have to z (work…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:55 PM
7

As per usual, ‘men’ is used to reference every male in existence. You’re deluded if you think there aren’t men (like me) who enjoy performing. I read a post, I think it was on PPD but I’m not sure, where it seems men can’t win on this one. 1.) Get off seeing how much pleasure you see her having from your skills: “he’s egotistical, he only cares that he’s good at it, not that she’s enjoying it.” 2.) He doesn’t like giving it: “he’s selfish” (True) 3.) He’s not experienced, he doesn’t really know …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:40 PM
3

I think what you’re saying is disingenuous at best. While I have seen similar posts/replies to the ones your talking about, to lump them together paints a false depiction. In fact, your very dramatization of discussion between the girl and the typical reddit response shows this. How? ‘I can’ . Which means ‘I would prefer not to’. To make things clearer, and more genuine, ‘she’ could’ve said: “If I had to choose I’d definitely prefer a 6ft man, but (if I HAD to) I’d choose a man of a smaller stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:30 PM
1

Probably the least they possibly can. Then tell their children that their father isn’t sending them anything. Thus, she increases cohesion between herself and the children , while collecting the check and distancing the unit from the farther. ...probably why single mother households almost always fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:11 PM
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I agree somewhat. However, couldn’t it be phrased in a different way: “Men ask a question that women know is in regards to immediate visual sexual appeal, and women answer the question with a list of traits they want their boyfriend to have, because listing off visual traits will make them seem shallow, which will damage their ‘holier than thou’ false image” ... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:07 PM
1

I understand that height is an important trait in our society, and may still have a lot to do with desirability by the time my future children are born. I want them to have the best genetics possible, for when they enter a harsh world. Also, it’s quite cumbersome being with a gnome outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:44 PM
2

“You’d have to play with a lot of boobs to like big boobs” ... yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:56 AM
1

I agree, my individual beliefs on height may not be for the average male. I’m 6’2”, so the chances of me overlooking height is 0. I’d rather die that reproduce with a short female.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:53 AM
1

You can’t be ‘wrong’ in an opinion poll facepalm. It seems you’re just salty for some reason. It’s either your a Becky, or a sub-Becky. Only way I can rationalize you coming at me so hard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:49 AM
1

In your personal opinion, nothing wrong with that. It’s a huge factor for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:21 AM
1

Sorry, the question from OP was (when ordered correctly), what does Stacey look like. He wanted a run-down. As there exists no definitive run down, I have my own. Now sod off if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:20 AM
1

Culturally broken? What in the world is that meant to mean? especially in the context you provided. Sure, it’s granted that (men and) women from western cultures don’t generally talk about Dr James Gates’ work as a way to flirt. People don’t share their academic backgrounds because it’s either uninteresting or obnoxious to do so. Oh, and I hate to break the news, but pegging an individuals value to their test scores is one of the most retarded ways of filtering for potential mates. ‘Smart’ doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:10 AM
1

If you don’t include height in your perception of what is attractive, completely acceptable - that’s your stance. I do. Also, not remotely true: they’d both be Stacey-gnomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:52 AM
1

Becky is the epitome of average. Thus if she isn’t average she’s not Becky. She could, however, be a Becky-looking gnome. 5’6” & 5’7” are grey zones. Stacy is 5’8”, to 5’11”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:26 AM
18

That’s an easy no. What you’ve said is ‘Chads & Tyrones’, get all the ‘privileges’ while not having to commit. I.e.”You’re not that attractive, so you have to do more for the same results” Imagine being so mentally deprived, that you say yes to that. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:07 AM
9

This. This guy Becks it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:58 AM
2

Good question, let’s answer it. Beckys Dimensions. Firstly, I’ll go right ahead and say Becky isn’t fat. If you aren’t fat, don’t even consider anyone who is - they are irresponsible. As for chubby, it’s a stern no from me, but you may like it. So, secondly , Becky may or may not be chubby. We’ll then go onto say, if Becky is considered the perfect representation of average, so is her height. Becky is between 5’3” & 5’5”. Good hygiene is mandatory for everyone. Now this is where it varies greatl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:56 AM
0

I’ve read the post, as usual, a couple of times. I understand your logic behind it. What do I think? I think the ‘advantage’ that you speak of only exists because of the average males standards: which are low. I genuinely believe that if everyone took on what I consider to be attractive (or at least increased their bar to something remotely near mine) , we (you) wouldn’t have this problem. Here are the basics. Fat women aren’t voluptuous, they’re unhealthy and have no discipline. Short women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:29 AM
1

I genuinely wonder how long until ‘men’, isn’t a reference for everyone who has a dick? I think you’re greatly misunderstanding what ‘attraction’ means in this context. In my opinion (so you can get off my back from now) most women have ugly faces, and look even worse without makeup. So if you made ‘men’ judge by just faces alone, the outcome would be incredibly different. What you actually mean is, if a women isn’t fat , then ‘men’ find her BODY (key word) attractive. This is because to become …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:55 AM
6

This is an easy one for me, Assuming that monogamous meant monogamous, I’d pick a relationship with someone who was exactly what I want. Random whores aren’t interesting for 2 reasons: If they’ve (many other men) have had it, I don’t want it at all. Also, I’m not interested in that much casual sex because most women aren’t that attractive - the average guys 10 is my 7. With that said, whores often seem to be more likable, bubbly, and have an overall appealing straight forward (boyish) personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:57 AM
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Let’s go ahead and give my opinion. Firstly, let’s look at the question. ‘dangerous’. I’ve understood this to mean one of two things: danger in terms individuals claiming (sexual) assault, or a temptation to a relationship. I’m going to assume it’s the latter, and answer: yes. There’s a reason men and women were separated, and the reason, as if it was not obvious, is that they are attracted to one another. You’ve mentioned that you were aroused twice I believe... by staying in that environment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:38 PM
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Let’s answer the question. Firstly, it’s hard to know how many men like or dislike fake boobs. They may like seeing them, but not want their partner to have them because they look tacky. Think of bimbos... are they attractive? Possibly. Would you want them as your SO? No. As for the phraseology of your question, ‘should’ , is up to people’s individual beliefs. Would women discriminate? This is asking a very important question that can be broken into 2 parts; Do the women you talk of go for heigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:22 PM
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Firstly, I’ve read the post twice. Your bias to TRP is showing. FDS employs similar tactics. They both have identified x, now they are employing y, to get Z. TRP uses deception. FDS uses their body. TRP is looking for sex (without attachment usually). FDS is looking for commitment (using shit tests and sexuality) Secondly, People employ psychopathic techniques to get some benefit all the time. Why do people laugh when a joke isn’t funny? To make the teller comfortable and/or build rapport. Why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:50 AM
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‘No matter how many dates’, I was with you until this nonsensical comment. If he takes you on a certain amount of dates, and you don’t even (explicitly) say that your interested in him, he’ll assume he’s in the friend zone, and completely disengage: hence ghosting - ghosting = “you took too long to state what you were looking for, so I’m going to assume it isn’t me and move on immediately”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:48 PM
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So this is an interesting question, and I’ll really say it depends on the guy. First and foremost, you must understand that men are the gatekeepers of relationships, and women of sex. So let me tell you this as straight forward as possible: I’ll (personally) decide if your attractive enough to date within the first 30 seconds - so there’s nothing you can do if your ugly. Secondly, a guy cannot decide if he wants a relationship or not within 3 dates, he’s simply ’working’ towards sex. What women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:43 PM
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In Europe it’s a range of 50 euros and up. I was talking about if the supply increased, the price would fall. So we’re not that far off already
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:28 PM
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finally someone said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:44 PM
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So women want an Alpha, who's sexually attractive, but won't treat them bad. In addition to this - through his own prestige and hard work - will give her prestige by association? Yes, women will try to go for the best they possibly can ... what's the point? Also, just a reminder that grass is green.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:43 PM
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Your bias is clear, let me respond. You've touch upon third wave feminism 'poisoning' the idea of women. Naturally, the 'progression' (change) of society affects both men and women. (some) Women have the idea today that men should pay 100% (i.e. not 50/50), while not being able to cook or clean, nor wanting to. First L From my modern perspective, 50/50 is mandatory. The idea that anything else, flipped in any persons favour is fair ... well by definition isn't true. The fact that you said ' woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:03 PM
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Perfect. It really is as simple as: - Pay, let's say $30, for an audition (date) or - Pay, let's $25 for a prostitute, then use the remain $5 do go hang out with your mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:42 PM
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I agree, if you had the upper hand (in this context) simply by existing, would you allow innovations to enter the market that you dominate to flourish? and threaten you? This is exactly what women are doing. When the dildo became wildly accepted, men didn't care. Whereas, it was women who were calling men 'weird' for purchasing or using a flesh light - not only did they manage to convince the women around them that it was 'weird' (common female terminology), they also attempted to convince other…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:31 PM
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... ... of course. What does that have to do with anything? We were also the first gathers, before we become hunters, we were also the first clothes makers, before there was 'fashion houses'... ... of course, we made everything ... what is your point? OP was alluding to why MODERN women make certain choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:38 PM
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not sure who's the boomer, nor am i sure if there's an element of sarcasm. thus i cannot respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:22 PM
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This is the daftest thing (no offence) I've read on this post so far. What constitutes an 'older' kid? 5 y/o? - OP will be 26, 10 y/o? OP will be 31. OP, continue to date, if not for an LTR, for experience. You will always need experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:12 PM
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Oh dear oh dear. Ohhhh dear oh dear. If a woman knows someone in your family is rich, she's going to throw herself at you. Never, ever let a woman know that you're connected indirectly or directly to wealth (or any inheritance) How could you have been this foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:05 PM
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Again, you've assumed (probably rightly so) that he will only go for women who haven't hit the wall. Also, you don't get to decide what high value women do, or do not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:00 PM
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OP, don't listen to this individual. (some) Women genuinely think it's okay to birth a child that you did not want - they know it has adverse consequences for your life, and make a conscious decision to go forth. It's incredibly unfair, that after just 21 years of life, a human-being can come along and ruin it. However, if you choose to have no relationship with that child - the consequences may be permanent. Choose carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:58 PM
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I second this. You don't have any obligations to that child in my opinion. Remember it takes two people to decide to have children. Don't mention your predicament to other women, and focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:52 PM
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Firstly, he never said he wanted a High Value Women Secondly, his high value, and your high value are most likely different So, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:50 PM
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Deluded. What position came before, let's say, software architect? Now tell me that, that field, that lead to a need for there to be that position, wasn't already male dominated. i.e. to create that position, there was 10 dudes who said "we need someone to specifically focus on this part of the field".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:47 PM
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Unfortunately, although it's less so for men, you've made a horrendous life decision, but you know that, so I'm not going to go there. I'm sorry to say it so blunt, but what I'm about to state is true. A man who has a child can only be 'saved' by one of two things: - Being chad/Tyrone so women choose your genetics over your predicament. - Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:32 PM
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This. I really don't like when people are wilfully disingenuous to save face. We all know the difference, it's very clear. It's equivalent to: "Give him a pear", "He doesn't like pears", "You're an ass hole for not offering him a pear"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:50 PM
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This is absolutely true, anyone that say otherwise is deluded. For my generation, and the previous, the idea that women have been intentionally guided to not pick certain roles isn't true. When growing up, and I know it's a little trivial but, when have you heard a girl say "I'm gonna be a boss"? However, who's to blame for this lack of female success ? No one. It's a known fact that if you see people in high or prestigious positions, that share some trait you link to yourself (gender, race, nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:48 PM
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This argument is nonsense, and not genuine at all. There's 'two types' of judgement going on here. 1: 'He won't like her (because I know what he likes)' - which is based on intimate discussions with his brother over a long period of time. 2: You're an ass hole because your not giving him the chance (to see something he won't like anyway) Stop being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:35 PM
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Well this is a known fact, a simply reality. Women band together and 'defend' each other, because they're usually in the same boat, or knows someone that is. What do I mean by this? women tend to see a critique that they are a group of (i.e. fat) and will defend them, and make all the women around them defend against the critique too. Men don't do this for each other, rightfully so. As for the post - the idea that his wife could say to him he doesn't 'know everything about my brother', is idioti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 01:30 PM
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90% ? If the number is that high, your standards are too low. Based on a point system (n/10), you’d be saying that 2.5’s and up are hot from my perspective. As for the LTR part, I’d say any woman 6.5+ could be considered for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:13 AM
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From the 300+ males I’ve associated with throughout school and other places, and in order of most undesirable to less so. Wrinkles, Crows Feet, Sagging (Anti-youth) Fat (excluding ‘chubby’) Gummy Smile w/ Terrible Dental Hygiene Body Odor Extended Backs (Anti-a) Extended Collar bones (Anti-bbs) Height (too short or too tall)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 12:01 AM
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While I won’t say women directly bash men for their height in the most part, what I can say is that they do state their preference for men taller than them louder than men state their preference. To answer your question, body positivity campaigns have been focused on what men should NOT say about women. Nowadays it’s socially acceptable for women to state their preference, not so much for men. I have no idea why anyone outside would actually adhere to such rules - me personally I make it very cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:27 PM
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What your essentially saying here is being disciplined is hard. Yes, being disciplined is hard - especially when you’ve not been disciplined for so long. It’s one of the reasons I believe that parents should be hounded and fined if their child becomes obese: it’s child abuse that manifests in the form of a lower social status - which , in turn , affects self esteem, friend making and dating. All of which can have life long repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:14 PM
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I genuinely believe that the idea of ‘maintenance romance’ is a scourge in the mind of women. This is exactly the reason as to why there’s a 50% chance of divorce (per year) depending on which statistics you read. It also strengthens the red pilled line of thought: a woman only cares about what your doing for her currently. In addition, it strengthens MGTOW’ish line of thought of, ‘don’t get married unless you permanently want to be courting for the rest of your life’ Also, I don’t particularly …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:03 PM
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