TheCritic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Found the affair yesterday True. So true. But I remember thinking for years “I’ve never heard of betrayal like this. This is unheard of. Even in books or movies, this is unique in human experience.” It wasn’t. It is the story old as time. Just saying, it is part of the process.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/26 12:49 PM
6	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected In my relationship, I made a similar bargain. 15 years past the incidents we still live upstairs/downstairs. Last kid is out in 3 years. We will divorce then. I have always held out hope things would change, but they haven’t. If I had known it would end like this, I’m not sure i would have made this agreement. My fear is as it gets closer, what if she does change? That would just prove that people don’t change unless there is external motivation. Maybe if I had left 15 years ago things would hav…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 02:01 PM
4	I messed up Therapy. Now. Go.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/23 09:37 PM
1	What could have saved your relationship? https://www.ted.com/talks/jeannie_suk_gersen_how_understanding_divorce_can_help_your_marriage?language=en	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/22 04:54 PM
2	Safety Concerns Disconnect the manual button on the wall. Keep a remote in your pocket. Or: If you don’t actually park in the garage, most have manual vacation locks. Disable and lock the garage doors and use the front door. Just brain storming.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/22 10:26 PM
9	Not legally married, still have to pay alimony He consented. He stood up in front of witnesses and said “I do”	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/21 06:56 PM
1	Need advice about my BIL In fact, I have a heart.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/20 04:03 PM
1	Need advice about my BIL The credit cards are being paid.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/20 04:00 PM
1	Need advice about my BIL The fact that she has cancer does not affect the equitable distribution of assets and debts. Neither does his decision to leave her. She deleted the details from her post, and I honestly can’t recall it from memory. Based on the text as it stands, I assume she asked for the opinion of divorced men, and liked some answers but didn’t like others. I felt like it was important that she understand that marital debts are split. She didn’t seem to understand that, if I remember correctly.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/20 03:27 PM
0	Need advice about my BIL And she needs to realize that debt is part of community property to be split evenly or in some way fairly. Sounds like you do too.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/20 03:04 PM
3	Need advice about my BIL They both acquired the debt, but only he pays it?	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/20 07:10 PM
5	When does the guilt end? I have found this to be accessible and valuable. The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual The Practicing Stoic: A Philosophical User's Manual https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085H5R3JJ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fGkiFbBJ60KMS	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/20 10:36 PM
1	Custody Exchange Help Do the exchange at the ice cream parlor. Talk to mil. Ok, daddy’s getting you ice cream now. Bye. Seems like bribery, but in reality you are just bringing positive energy to a negative and confusing process.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/20 11:36 PM