TheDarkTriadMan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to control the seven deadly sins	TheDarkTriadMan	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/15 09:55 PM
0	3 Red Flags of the Damaged Woman	TheDarkTriadMan	/r/seduction	24/11/15 01:41 PM
0	3 Red Flags of the Damaged Woman	TheDarkTriadMan	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/11/15 01:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	What do I do now? What should I have done? The interest of a woman is a transient thing. An inability to accept that you may have been toyed with is a repeat vulnerability waiting to happen. I would suggest not taking the flaking and toying as a judgment on your personal value, but rather as a reminder of the fickle nature of the feminine - and that the root of a woman's desire may not match your own. Be cautious in attributing an assumed motivation. As the first commentator noted, "you do not want to salvage it." Regards, Ivan www.darkt…	/r/seduction	30/11/15 11:54 PM
-2	I [24 m] don't know where or how to begin Confidence is essential. Confidence must come from achievement and acknowledgment of your own competence. Confidence is not something to fake until you make it. The other comments are correct. Work on moving away from gaming and towards a purposeful life. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	30/11/15 11:06 PM
-2	Help curing my pathetic cold approach game? The cold approach is essential. You are on the right track. Learning to prosecute the cold approach is where you will realize better outcomes. Improving your cold approach skills Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	30/11/15 10:13 PM
1	3 Red Flags of the Damaged Woman Fair enough. The first red flag of the damaged woman is her crazy speed. In the real world the development of a relationship and trust requires two things. It requires shared experiences and it requires that those shared experiences take place over time. Without that ingredient of time it is not a relationship. The second red flag of the damaged woman is her tale of sadism. The damaged woman will often out herself by telling a proud tale of sadism. It may be a story of revenge against a former p…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/11/15 04:19 PM
2	A Confused College Nerd Looking for Advices Where do you want to be five years after you have your degree? Answer that question first. Then pursue it with every bit of indomitable, ferocious power you can muster. The rest will work itself out. Including all your decisions of where to spend your time, with who, and to what purpose. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:41 PM
6	Ex texted me and a bit confused about this text. She is keeping her options open. It is not personal. I would recommend not taking it personally. Sometimes "truly" is merely pleasantry. Is she begging you not to leave? If not, it is politeness. You are headed to a new adventure. Look forwards, not backwards. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:39 PM
3	Losing girl's interest the longer I talk to them Close faster. See if that changes your results. A woman expects you to close. If you do not, interest will evaporate rapidly. Don't overcomplicate it yet by "working on it". It isn't about your conversation. It's about closing. If you are not ready to close, it will show, and that is off-putting to the female that took your approach and interest as a potential sale. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:37 PM
3	How to be authentic and self-confident, when you are still psychologically somewhat fucked-up? You have an extremely powerful opportunity. It seems like a oxymoron of a kind in this state of mind. From suffering comes growth, and from conquering internal demons comes power. I have been diagnosed of C-PTSD, which is basically avoidant personality disorder, major depression, anxiety with symptoms resembling classical PTSD and ADD. Basically, coctail of everything unhelpful what comes to pick-up. That is a painful array of issues to confront. I've been doing a lot of work past few years to g…	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:35 PM
4	How do I get over my ex. Probably a unique situation. The answer is not fun. Stop drinking. To enable your mind to heal, find space. As other posters have commented, get out of the building. Stop spending your time watching the new lovers come and go. Create a mission for yourself and get out into the world and achieve it. Stay out in the world. Stop drinking. I repeat this because it is a deadly trap of risk. I won't say good luck. I will say, go and achieve and you will forget. Time heals, power erases. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:25 PM
1	When a girl asks why you approach her instead of someone else? A go-to answer is not appropriate. Do not be canned. Being canned is self-deadening. Rather, strive to cultivate seamless and powerful responses. The cold approach is one of the best methods but it does require practice. If you wish to possess that skill and learn how to handle it from initial awareness of desire to competent followup, you must train in it. http://darktriadman.com/2015/11/16/top-5-cold-approach-skills-all-men-need-to-master/ If you do not wish to train and develop yourself, then…	/r/seduction	17/11/15 10:21 PM
8	Trust in your gut. She can't hide her emotions as well as you think. Where there is a progression of revelation to you, there is another deeper truth that is still pending. The first time a truth is expanded upon, you must flag that as both a pattern of deception and a risk that has not been identified. Mostly it has to do with not wanting things to be different than how they are. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/15 02:38 PM
1	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction Machiavellianism is not about shortcuts. It is about graceful and effective navigation of social challenge. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/15 12:06 AM
3	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction I disagree. If you can have personal integrity AND STILL beat these "Machiavellian" dark triad jackoffs, that means you REALLY have it together. Your attachment to negative casting is a visible outcrop upon which to rest external influence. You would be best served, if you wish to competently oppose a Dark Triad Man, not to reveal posture. Often times these tactics are the easy way out. Stabbing someone in the back, lying, cheating. Having those skills are important, because people will try to u…	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 11:50 PM
0	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction It should be stated that the public perception of your morality, true or not, can be leveraged in a myriad of powerful ways. Yes, this is one of the methods of the Way. Well said. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 11:42 PM
1	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction ...but if someone opposes me and is a big enough threat, I suspend my conventional morals in dealing with them and anything goes. That is not a suspension of conventional morals. That is simply a shifting of boundaries as demanded by necessitated immediate outcomes. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 11:41 PM
1	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction It is not morality that becomes a millstone. It is the boundaries that morality affix to your mobility. The difference is subtle but crucial. Within that difference lies an understanding of the Way. Having your boundaries used against you is simply poor Machiavellianism in action. Such can be improved. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 11:36 PM
2	"The Machiavellian Approach" Part 2 You are correct that Machiavellianism is amoral. Often people mistake "amoral" to mean "it is okay to be immoral". It is nothing of the sort. Amoral means without the illusion of boundaries. http://darktriadman.com/2015/10/29/machiavellianism-of-the-dark-triad-man/ Regards, Ivan	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/15 09:57 PM
7	The Harvard Business Review suddenly discovers that dark triad men experience more career success and satisfaction From the article: It should be noted that, unlike clinical personality traits, these traits are normally distributed in the population – e.g., you can score low, average or high – and perfectly indicative of normal functioning. In other words, just because you score high doesn’t mean that you have problems, either at work or in your personal life. And despite the antisocial implications of the dark triad, recent research has highlighted a wide range of career-related benefits for these personali…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/15 10:17 PM
1	I felt betrayed. Now I feel better. It's my pleasure, and welcome to Dark Triad Man. Regards, Ivan	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/15 09:11 PM
4	I felt betrayed. Now I feel better. Don't wanna bore you with an extremely intricate back story. So I'll save you the torture and give the main bullet points. An intricate backstory is not relevant to the immediate situation. Your subliminal purpose was not to deliver a story of improvement but to share pain that you have not diffused. That is fine; being a man is a painful experience, as it involves sacrifice and struggle for power, wealth and prosperity. But be clear on your motives. Was introduced to the perfect girl 2 years ag…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/15 12:24 PM
3	22 years old, 20 men Multiply her count by three. Your thinking is not inexperienced. Your thinking is disordered. Stop thinking. Drop the girl. Lift weights. Build your career. Indulge in sexual behavior as amusement. Defer relationships until maturity. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 07:20 PM
4	22 years old, 20 men That right there is your first problem. Stop analyzing yourself and wallowing in your findings. That is feminine behavior. If you are broadcasting yourself with an emotional label of INFP you're being a fool. Stop worrying about your emotions. That is useless. Go achieve things in the world. a) Lift weights b) Build your manhood c) Repeat Stop the mental masturbation. Regards, Ivan www.darktriadman.com	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 03:37 PM
14	22 years old, 20 men Your best bet is to immediately cease all contact with this creature and to totally eliminate any considerations of long term relationships from your thinking. Here's why: At this stage in your mental and emotional development of masculinity you are not merely completely in error - you are also horrifically confused. I say this not as condemnation but as constructive criticism designed to mentor. Do not attach commitment emotions to your penis until you have achieved physical, economic and mascu…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/15 02:43 PM