TheDatingCaptain Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working?	TheDatingCaptain	/r/seduction	12/05/14 12:29 AM
0	The Best Places to Meet Women	TheDatingCaptain	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:40 AM
0	Facebook/Social Media Tips for an Alpha Male Profile	TheDatingCaptain	/r/seduction	09/05/14 05:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do any PUAs give flakes another chance? I actually wrote the article and I appreciate the feedback. That's exactly what I was trying to get across. I think assuming the flaking was a shit test or an actual important change of plans is better than taking it personally. Playing it cool after one flaked evening just to see how things go shouldn't be looked down upon in my opinion. Everyone is going to experience flakes at one time or another and giving another chance could lead to something positive. From what I've seen and experienced f…	/r/seduction	15/06/14 08:12 PM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? This is probably my favorite comment of all of these, that's what I personally feel as well, she's trying to earn a living not deal with guys practicing game	/r/seduction	13/05/14 01:05 AM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? I didn't re-define anything I was recalling what I remembered Mystery saying a decade ago and "Hired guns refers to ANY girl whose job description requires them to be FRIENDLY" didn't seem right to me. I just did a google myself and this came up: http://www.theattractionforums.com/strippers-hired-guns/ almost every topic on the board is about bartenders/strippers and the one topic about a cashier discusses the awkwardness of it. I don't think I ever proposed any "laws" either, my comments were m…	/r/seduction	13/05/14 01:01 AM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? This to me is the only exception of when it's ok, when a woman makes it so blatantly obvious it can't just be interpreted as "she's doing her job." I'm including "acceptable exceptions" in my article and including obvious hints whether they be verbal or so overly obvious a woman escalates physically on her own	/r/seduction	12/05/14 10:50 PM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? How did you know there was mutual attraction? I think that's when it's ok, when a woman is making it obvious she's interested moreso than just "being friendly" but engaging in an actual conversation	/r/seduction	12/05/14 09:59 PM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? To your semantics note: everyone is required to be friendly wherever they work, why even have a "term" if it applies to everyone? We're going on about ten years now but I recall that term only being used to describe women hired based on looks, not ones meant to be friendly, otherwise you wouldn't need a distinct term I don't think the seduction community leaving interactions strictly to women "off the clock" is abhorrent. You mean to tell me it is a huge deal if men practicing pick-up can talk t…	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:19 PM
2	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? I agree that being "social", "friendly", or "conversational" is preferential over "hitting on", I think the problem is that most attempt to fit into those 3 positive descriptions and it does just come off as creepy. How many men though are "awesome" to the point that it isn't creepy? At the very least then, beginners shouldn't be looking to practice game on employees it should be left to people that are on the level of being able to keep awkwardness at bay	/r/seduction	12/05/14 09:06 AM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? Let's assume a girl is interested: she might give her number out and looks unprofessional at work. It could be up for debate that she looks unprofessional, but I'm assuming we can all agree it's not part of her job to interact socially on a personal wave with customers. Let's assume the girl is not interested: she's experiencing an awkward situation and is probably worried about pissing the customer off. Like ThrowawayPUA said earlier, it backs her into a corner Regardless of either feeling the …	/r/seduction	12/05/14 08:53 AM
1	The Best Places to Meet Women Which is why on the front page alone 2 people are asking for alternatives to cubs/bars, and in comments in various topics the same questions are posted with different reasonings like "living in a small town" or "not a bar/club" person, seeking other ways to meet women. If "we all know" applied to everyone there would be no resources available and this community wouldn't exist, you may know, but the posts on here say otherwise. You can check out other honest dating subreddits and see the same fro…	/r/seduction	12/05/14 07:47 AM
0	The Best Places to Meet Women This seems to be one of the more common questions on here in various comments and posts lately, so I figured this might help people having trouble with the bar or club scenes or any other methods	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:54 AM
1	Do you think it's "wrong" to hit on women who are working? That term refers to strippers, waitresses, bartenders etc..Women who are hired based on how they look. That's why I wanted to differentiate that here with just everyday women working a "regular" job at a store of some sort. I think when I write my article I'm going to mention if the place doesn't serve alcohol it's a different standard, women serving alcohol expect to be hit on, cashiers on the other hand are working a job where it's borderline inappropriate	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:14 AM
-1	Facebook/Social Media Tips for an Alpha Male Profile So because successful men you know don't utilize social media that means it shouldn't be used by other men trying to perfect their game? To go a step further, I don't quite get how they don't let people write on anything? That would involve changing privacy settings, and is the very "thought and involvement" you're damning. That's rare for social media and is obviously not the norm Also, being involved and thoughtful about enhancing an online profile (because of social appearance) is not "un-alp…	/r/seduction	10/05/14 03:45 PM
0	Facebook/Social Media Tips for an Alpha Male Profile Which was exactly the reason I posted this and why I'm slightly baffled by the negative comments. Facebook is someone's online representation of themselves so it should be congruent to how they portray themselves offline. Using you as an example, you can tell a woman you're a world traveler and when she adds you on Facebook she can see the pictures of exactly what you were talking about. Social media is useful and some men just starting out might need a guide from the get go. I especially think …	/r/seduction	10/05/14 05:25 AM
1	9 months into a relationship. PUA skills fading. Eventually you just start to naturally live it, you get enough practice using skills that you read about that you become confident on your own. Assuming it has become a part of you instead of quick use tactics, they won't fade as quickly (or hopefully at all) when you're in a relationship	/r/seduction	10/05/14 03:47 AM
3	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." I don't think he meant people shouldn't or can't use this advice for "one special girl". I think what he meant was having that mindset that there is "one special girl" with any girl will lead to failure more often than success, so it's better to never have that mindset that someone is above you. Maybe in the back of your mind somewhere you can believe that one girl in particular is everything, but even all the way in the back it can crop up some odd "pedestalizing" comments like he's saying. It'…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:21 PM