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First off this sucks and I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Second, this kind of gives you a great opportunity which ever you choose by getting to visit another country and having a place to stay. Going to stay with your father means you are in a new place possibly without friends where you would have friends staying with your mother. Just my thoughts here put it might be helpful to have a good friend group around to help you get through some of this transition. Although therapy would b…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 12:52 PM
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Told my ex-wife if she ever left we were done forever. This was after we got back together in college after a yr breakup. Last year she cheated and we had been together 16 total years. That love doesn't just fade away into nothing. When you spend time and truly connect with that person and their smile and hugs draw you into them every day for years... normal people don't just get over a betrayal like this quickly. Remember the betrayed had no knowledge and all of a sudden the image of their spou…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/22 03:54 AM
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Not all women are betrayer and letting that sink in and become your overall thought about women will make it difficult to form meaningful relationships and you will very likely be alone or be a "player" and possibly hurt women by your actions. But that is just my opinion. And why not remember the good times? You know how those times felt, you know where they ultimately lead and you teach yourself to accept the good with the bad. If you always see the bad you will train yourself to never see the …
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/22 03:46 AM
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In that case I'd say it takes time. I dealt with that going to the gym. It was so distracting for weeks until I stopped going. I got through it somehow and now I'm trying to workout more again and get focused and dropping weight.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 07:02 PM
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I meant don't rush the process of healing or moving on to a new relationship. You don't want to bring your baggage from her into a new relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 06:59 PM
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I can't answer that for you but you have a choice. Continue to hate her for what she has done or let it go. It sucks and I won't tell you what you feel is wrong. My ex-wife and I never had kids so that is something I don't have to deal with. People do terrible things to the people they say they love, but we have to make our own decisions to continue to allow them to hurt us or to move forward away from that abuse. I am truly sorry she did that to you. I don't know what it is like to be alienated…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 06:57 PM
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The moment you forgive her for the betrayal and realize yeah she is a shit person but you have better things to do than dwell on the pain she has caused you, it will help. It helped me atleast and there are times I hate her but I also know I still love her and care about her while also knowing and pardon my language here " fuck it, I've got nothing better to do might as well let it go" and i want to date a really attractive woman in the future and letting her occupy my thoughts won't get me ther…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 06:33 PM
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Never say never on reconciliation. Ut do not expect it. Don't wait for her and Don't jump onto a new relationship. Work on yourself, find a hobby or something to do you enjoy. Take your time to heal yourself and grieve your loss. It will help you work out your feelings towards your ex wife. My state is a 1 yr separation state so I can't divorce until June 15th. She had an emotional affair for a month and the night she left she started sleeping at his house. But she "had no feelings for him" "he'…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/22 05:51 PM
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Split it equally. Do not let her push you around. Be respectful but do not budge on this. She wants the divorce she needs to live with the consequences of her actions. My ex-wife is learning that the hard way now and has to pay me out for the next 4 years. I had to move back in with my parents last year when my ex had an affair. It sucks but I also didn't have a job, I was going back to school and in a bad mental space so when she left I broke. I did a lot of talking to people and watching video…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 01:57 PM
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Hey now. Some of us have morals over here lol. It does suck if you are a guy and your wife cheats though. My soon to be ex-wife settled before we went to court, I think she realized how bad it was going to look to a judge when the judge was told the night she left me she slept at another guy's house whom she started "officially dating" a few months later lol She gets to pay me for the next 3.5 years her choice 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 02:23 AM
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That depends on whether it was the wife or the husband and idk about the 3%. Women are more likely to leave than men are when they have the affair. I didn't find the one I saw but I found this one from March. https://medium.com/@braybrockbank/the-1-club-why-marriages-that-start-off-as-affairs-dont-work-9a6e01119771#:~:text=While%20fewer%20than%2025%20percent,actually%20achieve%20stability%20and%20happiness. I'm not sure if I can find it but I read or watched a video that suggested millennial wom…
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/22 01:19 AM
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I saw a study showing that 90% of affairs do not get married to the AP, and 90% of those that marry end so 98% of affairs end. They do it because people do not know the studies until after they have an affair and because while having the affair they do not care. It's a selfish thing to do but humans are a selfish species.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/22 09:31 PM
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