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A lot of people will claim she picked you up, but I would argue that is not necessarily the case. Men have to lead the interaction which is what you did when you asked her to drink a beer with you and your friends. Also breaking the touch barrier early then escalating in the car is not something a beginner can do.
/r/seduction30/10/24 05:02 PM
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Ok I would say arranged marriage is still the default. How would you answer his question?
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:09 PM
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Yes in India, there is no concept of dating because of arranged marriage. When Indians come to the US their children are behind the curve. Read my first article which actually covered this: https://open.substack.com/pub/desiplayboy/p/the-impact-of-desi-parenting-on-game?utm_source=app-post-stats-page&r=k8bgi&utm_medium=ios
/r/seduction25/10/24 10:07 PM
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Haha you commented
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:06 PM
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Highly recommend “The Value of Others” by Dr. Orion Taraban. This is probably not on the lists you see here because it is new.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/24 07:53 PM
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When did I say replace video games with tik tok? It is just as bad. Honestly, that’s great that you can manage fitting in video games. My main point is that the hours spent playing video games can be spent on more productive pursuits if you aren’t where you want to be. Sounds like you are.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 04:16 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/24 08:18 PM
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“You usually ask strangers for drinks?”
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah this another way of looking at it! Was there anything you could have done to prevent her from redefining you from stud to creep?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/24 01:00 PM
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A great way to handle AMOGs is to frame them as upset. Asking "Are you ok?" or saying "You sound upset".
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah that’s exactly what that line is…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 11:08 PM
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Do you live in a cave? Most women get wet when you show them the view from your high rise
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 09:04 PM
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Desi women go for desi men 90% of the time. Yes, but there is no advice catered to Desi men on how to be attractive, be social and not be weird. This is almost saying “just be yourself” bro which TRP advises against right? Are you Desi? It depends on how you are raised and the culture you grew up. Desi men have specific cultural and mental hurdles they have to overcome before leveling the playing field.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/24 10:08 PM
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This is a good take. Exactly, there are issues blocking Desi men before they can even move onto game.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/24 07:26 PM
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Your comment reflects the exact kind of stereotype and negativity that we need to move past. The goal here is to elevate ourselves, challenge outdated narratives, and become better men, not reinforce low-level banter that only holds us back. If you’re serious about improving yourself and your results with women, you should focus on constructive discussion and leave the stereotypes at the door.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/24 07:25 PM
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You need to actually believe you are in their league or even above their league. If you can’t do that then that is because you have some work to do.
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:05 PM
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An 8 will get more initial receptivity, but without game he won’t close the deal.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:55 PM
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Thank you sir!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:51 PM
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It is helpful to create a cheat sheet, but after a bunch of approaches it becomes muscle memory.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:51 PM
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I bet his dick, this is written by a bot.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:50 PM
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Hey man, that is related to approach anxiety. I will have an action plan for this coming out for my paid members soon. How many approaches have you done? Confidence comes from repeated exposure.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:49 PM
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Thank you sir!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:35 PM
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So the key here is to open the whole group then build rapport. The rest of the group will dismiss you and cock block if you exclude them. Then you can narrow your focus on one girl. You should approach anyways to get a feel for it. You can still open a girl with headphones with a non verbal gesture, but monitor her facial expression. If you are not getting eye contact then you may have to max out your looks. Also maybe the wrong environment.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 05:34 PM
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Is it possible? Yes. But a 5 will probably have to approach more times than an 8. So put your best foot forward and max out your looks.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/24 02:14 PM
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Yes. You will suck at first, but get more comfortable as you go on more dates.
/r/seduction18/08/24 12:07 PM
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Confidence comes from repeated exposure. Start talking to women. You will suck at first, but over time you will improve. Then you will be confident.
/r/seduction17/08/24 09:30 PM
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You can always train an inexperienced girl. That is why low body count in a woman is valuable.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/24 08:12 PM
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If this is a success story to you then maybe you’re average like Amit!
/r/TheRedPill26/07/24 06:48 PM
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Another good one is Dicarlo's Kino Escalation Ladder. This describes how to kino her from first meeting her to even after getting her in bed: https://www.scribd.com/doc/202670438/Kino-Escalation-Ladder-2nd-Edition-Vin-DiCarlo
/r/TheRedPill20/07/24 07:49 PM
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What kind of workout routine are you doing? I recommend checking out my previous articles on diet and working out.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 06:19 PM
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/u/Librathrow can you elaborate on encouraging hypergamy with all those arranged marriages? What do you mean? Also most of the topics you mentioned are not really Desi related either.. but I plan to cover some of them in the future.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 03:43 PM
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Where are you getting protein? Are you working out? What exercises are you doing? It’s not as simple as cutting out roti and rice.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/24 03:38 PM
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Yeah agreed. This is more of an intro to game, but those topics will be covered soon! Thanks for the feedback.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah he dated multiple attractive women not the most attractive woman. Hypergamy is when you go for the best socioeconomic option. Has nothing to do with physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:20 PM
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I definitely agree that bodyweight exercises might be the only option for broke guys. Broke guys should focus on getting money first. Barbell exercises literally build strength so not sure what you are talking about here. There are beginner barbell routines. Any beginner can start these exercises with the barbell with no additional weight. If a person cannot even lift the bar then that is where your bodyweight exercises may come into play. Maybe your idea of beginner is different than mine. My f…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 12:49 PM
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Yup exactly why I mentioned build your own home gym if you have the means. Personally my routine looks more like yours, but my article is aimed at guys who have never stepped foot in the gym before. Consistency is key.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 01:10 AM
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Hey man this is aimed at the beginners who haven’t stepped foot in the gym. Agreed that you need to add some isolation work, but the compound movements I mentioned get the most bang for your buck.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 01:08 AM
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Cardio is mentioned in the workout routine depending on your body type. Lifting weights is the fastest way to build muscle. If you want slower results then sure do bodyweight exercises.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 09:12 PM
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Dude I met my wife on Tinder years ago. I feel like online dating gets an unnecessarily bad reputation. Sure cold approach has its place, but it takes more time to do that. Why cold approach when you can get more matches sitting on the toilet? Game needs to adapt to the current era instead of being stuck in the 90s. Online dating is only going to become more prevalent and who knows what things will look like when we integrate AI. If you want to date a girl without a phone then join the Amish.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 04:26 AM
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You’re right, but think of it as more of a spectrum: https://blog.nasm.org/body-types-mesomorph-ectomorphs-endomorphs-explained#:~:text=The%20Body%20Type%20Spectrum,exist%20in%20the%20greater%20population. "Although the notion of a predetermined and unchangeable body type has been debunked since the 1940’s, it is true that many of the physiological markers and observations associated with each somatotype do actually exist in the greater population."
/r/TheRedPill18/05/24 02:16 PM
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Ok I think a balance can be achieved where you can incorporate the best of the worlds. To be successful in dating in the US some assimilation is required otherwise you can stick it out for an arranged marriage. By no means am I suggesting to be ashamed of your culture and heritage, but you need to adapt to thrive in a new environment. I see your point in the US importing only high IQ Indians who probably lean toward introversion. Perhaps the lower IQ Indians who migrate to the US will have an ea…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 08:12 PM
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Yeah I think this is even more prevalent among first generation Indians rather than Indians who were born in the US. There is more segregation between men and women in India so they are sticking to the same routine.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 08:03 PM
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Just curious what are you trying to gain from TRP? My advice is catered toward Indian immigrants or Indian Americans who want to date successfully in the US which many Indian men want to do. If you stay in India obviously my article will not benefit you.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:34 PM
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Yeah my article can be extrapolated to Asians in general.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 03:30 PM
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Yeah this is my first article. The one I posted earlier is the follow up. My follow up articles will contain more actionable advice on how to tackle these problems.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 01:48 PM
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Now you're focusing on the real shit. Keep going man.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:15 AM
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They can't help it because they don't know any better. Luckily, we have resources like /r/TheRedPill to set us on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:07 AM
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Yes and the earlier you figure this out, the better.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/24 04:05 AM
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Hmmm will keep that in mind for future articles.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/24 02:47 AM
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Sure let me know /u/Vermillion-Rx. My content is TRP, but catered to South Asian men.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/24 09:44 PM
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