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Being the center of attention? Depends on the level, from endearingly involuntary, to continuous nightmare.
/r/seduction03/07/26 03:12 PM
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I guess it depends on the person. Making out is AWESOME! If a beginner is making up time of not getting anything at all in the past, kisses, groping, whatever, is good stuff. After a while, though, sure. If this is all a guy is getting, then more tension needs to be built. Or maybe they are bad kissers and they need to improve that. Women usually want to make out more with me after a good make out session. But that took some trial and error.
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:10 PM
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Thanks for clarifying.
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:07 AM
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You're assuming way too much about the question asker. Irish stuff may not apply to his circumstances.
/r/seduction22/02/26 06:51 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. Perhaps by people who don't belong to this community, or to indicate "how much of a noob you are", which is stupid. You're 40. You're still relatively young. You stand a chance with 29-35 year olds. At this age, the "age gap" is not as significant as when you were younger. You'll be fine. Just act your age, don't be a creep, don't be a whiner, be open to communication, listen to her, assert your value and most importantly, make sure you both have fun! Sourc…
/r/seduction12/02/26 04:39 PM
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First of all, congrats on experimenting! The cool thing about experiments is that you learn from them, yup, even from failures. Second of all, you're on the right track, bro. Keep on going. The only thing I'd add is that, as long as your mindset is to have fun during the night no matter the outcome, then you'll be fine. I used to focus on "get ass" only when going out, and I was having a miserable existence. I'm no hot hunk, so more often than not I got rejected and it sucked to go back home wit…
/r/seduction02/02/26 02:30 PM
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Yeah dude great strawman rofl Regardless, OP, /u/Flower-Bender , you'll be fine. You can be a little mean in a playful way without being full asshole, and you'll get girls.
/r/seduction31/01/26 06:51 PM
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Or, you can fake it. Source: I've done it. But it's exhausting, because it's not me. Eventually when I started getting pussy, I just adapted what I learned to my circumstances, and things are much, much better. I'm not an asshole, I don't manipulate anyone, but I'm not a doormat either, I can lead when necessary and those two last traits are considered hot by many women.
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:34 PM
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I see them as training wheels. But later, you can incorporate what you learned from them to your own set of values. "Treat women like trash! Success? Whoa!!!! Why did that work? Oh, because of this and that. Ok, I'll apply this and that to my life." This and that may be many things. Assertiveness, confidence, not being a doormat, being a teaser, a joker, or not being afraid of expressing certain feelings. Now you don't treat women as like trash (because that's bullshit anyway), but get the benef…
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:29 PM
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"Stop whining about height because I had success" is not really helpful without a bit more of context.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:33 PM
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Oh okay. Tone gets lost with plain text.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:32 PM
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You're probably a troll or a bot. And if you're just frustrated, DM me, bro. I got some good advice for you to get you out of that mindset and so that you're happier in life.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:28 PM
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Not worth dating women because you're short and it takes more effort? What a ridiculous statement. I'd rather get laid once in my life after 1000 attempts, than never get laid after 0 attempts. Who calls women "females" in 2026 anyway.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:28 PM
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You're not here to help. You're here to brag. I despise this kind of "friends". I've run into them way too many times in my life (I'm in my 40s) and frankly, I wish I cut them off sooner. I've had wingmen with more positive attitudes, who brought me better results. Elaborate or bust.
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:24 PM
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I didn't read the book, but yup, I am familiar with that scenario (neediness/clinginess ----> loss of attraction.) I was just addressing the argument that once a woman doesn't like you, then it's game over. It isn't. And you don't have be a clingy mess to stay in the game. If it's some random woman in a bar, yeah, if you get rejected, just move on. Plenty of fish. Next! But if it's a woman you have the opportunity to see consistently in other social situations, then without being clingy you can …
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:39 AM
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This goes for /u/Mallu_guyyyy as well. I'm not sure if things have changed in the past 4 or 5 years. But back when I started, "Be yourself" was considered bad, bad advice. Because if you're some awkward dude, weird dude, anxious dude, "being yourself" won't get you anywhere. Fake it until you make it. Once you build confidence, two things will happen: either that old anxious/weird/akward self is no longer present, to which you can finally "be yourself," relax and reap what you've sowed; or you'l…
/r/seduction26/12/25 01:41 PM
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Oy, I don't know if things have changed as of lately, but something that one must be careful of is falling into oneitis, that is, obsession for getting "that one girl". It can mess with your head, and it can stop you from getting other quality women. This is at least the mindset of these seduction forums when I first started. Have things changed?
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:40 PM
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This is not the sub for this kind of mentality. This is seduction, and as such, it's about the art of seducing women, including the women you want. "Just lower your standards and be happy" is, I don't know, material for some zen or spiritual forum? If I didn't discover forums like these, I would have dated whatever fell on my lap. After discovering these forums? Holy smokes, it was as if a window to heaven opened for me. And I'm below average. If your methods don't work, don't get mad. Step back…
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:50 AM
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Chat.... GPT. Stop listening to a robot that can hallucinate. Stick to this sub.
/r/seduction09/10/25 02:40 PM
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Is this generated by AI?
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:14 PM
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No, try again. But only once. Then, yes, plenty of fish.
/r/seduction16/08/25 05:55 PM
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/u/Luiszizo listen to Jack. Women who are looking for a long-term relationship are looking for a man who gives honesty and reliability vibes. Some guys here will claim that "oh that's so beta!" but ignore that. I'm not saying that you should become clingy or a drama queen or obsessive. I'm saying that you should be honest about who you are and why, and how that has affected your life in a positive way. The above advice is solid. I've done it myself. "I was a late bloomer, believe it or not, I on…
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:50 PM
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You're confusing kindness with weakness or being a pushover or people pleaser. Sometimes there is an overlap, sometimes there isn't. I've seen kind people putting bullies in their place, or standing their ground. And when that happens, women notice. You can be the type of person who will open the door to a small, elderly woman in a walker for her to pass while blocking the way to a brat trying to go past said lady and telling him "Didn't they teach you manners at home? Wait your damn turn!"
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:44 AM
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Let me tell you one thing: I've dumped women. While crying my eyes out. Why? Because breaking up fucking sucks. These were people I cared a lot about, but realized I wasn't compatible with. So the idea of hurting them sucked ass. But after the deed was done, I felt relief. Utter and blissful relief. Because breaking up is what I wanted. If any of the women wanted me back, started telling me "we should try again," well maybe the first time I'd feel compassion, but I would tell them a firm no. The…
/r/seduction03/08/25 11:09 AM
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/u/Just_Party96 , listen to this king. I was going to respond to your question with: "It's a catch-22. Women make you happy, but you're not happy if you don't have women. You have to break that circle somewhere, and the breakpoint is: make yourself happy first". But the way you wrote it is much, much better. For some people it's ironic to think that you must be happy first to get women. Even impossible. But it is possible. Also, what does "happiness" mean in this context? Does it mean to be alwa…
/r/seduction31/07/25 11:22 AM
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Lol. I wish I had your confidence when incorrect. Oh wait, no. No, I don't.
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:21 AM
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False. I've seen ugly fucks with hot models. Be it because of money, charm or other factors (daddy issues?). Do being an LA 9 help? Sure. But it's not necessary.
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:49 AM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. It's a legit question. I can be very shallow in terms of women, but even I recognize that that was a broad generalization.
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:47 AM
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That's a start! But be careful, because it can be very draining if you are constantly making an effort to ignore the intrusive thoughts. What the whole cloud stuff taught me was to accept that, welp, that shit is with me. And that it is okay to feel the way I feel. That the thoughts are not necessarily right. They probably say "you're not worth it. People laugh at you behind your back. You are weird. You are ugly/fat/skinny/big eared. You are one awkward motherfucker" and you have to learn to ac…
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:22 PM
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I think you have to sort yourself out first, friend. Talk to a specialist. Maybe you just need some medication temporarily that lifts that cloud of anxiety and confusion. At least, that's what I did. When the cloud was gone, I saw everything clearly. Then, when I stopped the medication, some of the cloud came back, but this time around, I was prepared. I knew how things were without that damn cloud. I took the cloud by the balls and made it my bitch. I didn't let it govern my life. So now the cl…
/r/seduction30/07/25 02:34 PM
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You are my hero.
/r/seduction30/07/25 02:30 PM
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Where exactly have I used this word? This is you (emphasis mine): You don't get it, of course it does. Everyone might have heard a story about someone winning a lottery – does that mean everyone should be buying the tickets? So, potato potato. The rest of your comment is a red herring, which is hilarious for a redditor throwing the survivorship bias term around.
/r/seduction30/07/25 02:26 PM
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But that's not the same thing, sorry. You used the word "everybody," which implies, all or nothing, black and white, this or that. Nobody is saying that women ALWAYS change their feelings about a man. The argument is, it can happen. Does it always happen? Of course not! But it can happen. Way more often than the lottery, even. Like, 1 in 10 odds instead of 1 in 10 million. And therefore, it's worth taking into account.
/r/seduction30/07/25 08:29 AM
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What changed two years ago? Did you start smoking pot? Cigarettes?
/r/seduction30/07/25 08:21 AM
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Who said anything about orbiting? No, my man. In frame, I am talking to several women at any given point. And every other blue moon, I stumble upon this one chick that, oh yeah, I've seen before at Sue's. And at that one social event at the corner coffee shop. She seemed aloof back then, but so was I. Then I fuck her. That's my frame. Like I said, if you pick up a woman, and you give each other the best time of your lives, what does it matter if "oh boo-hoo but you were not her first choice"? Th…
/r/seduction30/07/25 12:10 AM
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Well, this is a Seduction subreddit, not a "Long, stable relationships" one. Do you want to pick up women or not? What does it matter if "she settles for you"?
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:27 PM
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Survivorship bias, mate. How many times have you heard "at first I didn't like him, and now he's god knows where"? Never, no one registers such situations. You can't make conclusions from incomplete data. There is also "At first I liked him, but boy did he disgust me two minutes later!!!" so...... what's the point again? The argument is flawed, man. Just because the other scenario is not registered, it doesn't invalidate what /u/epimpstyle said. It's quite clear: if a woman says "at first I didn…
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:23 PM
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She has tens of options and she acts the same way you would if you were in her shoes. I had this epiphany years ago, and it was oh so useful! Before it, yup, I got butthurt and it hurt my game. But then I realized that, really, she owes me absolutely nothing. I knocked on her door, she doesn't have to answer. It's her fucking home, she does whatever the fuck she wants (I'm talking about a figurative home, guys, not a literal one.) So when she doesn't respond to my silliness or awesomeness, I shr…
/r/seduction29/07/25 09:36 PM
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Talk to a university counselor, friend. I'm not even kidding or being condescending. What you describe is called anxiety or social phobia. I used to suffer from that. Well, I still do, but I can handle those stupid intrusive thoughts now. A therapist can suggest mechanisms to help you handle your difficulties. I can tell you one thing, though: be willing to try and fail. You don't have to succeed the first time. Focus on the approach, on socializing, on initiating talking to strangers. Their rea…
/r/seduction29/07/25 09:23 PM
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I think you misunderstood what /u/Zotoaster meant. If "the best foot forward" requires a lot of energy, then it's not the best foot forward. The best foot forward is what is best for the guy, not what's best for the situation. I do this too. I see a woman that's way out of my league. I could overcome my approach anxiety and put a draining act that will allow me to close (or not). That would be "the best foot forward" for the purpose of the interaction (to close). Or.... I could overcome my appro…
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:33 PM
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Do your partners know that you're sharing these photos? Out of curiosity...
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:56 PM
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If they're unsolicited, I agree with you. If his girlfriend is asking for them, then why not do it the right way? Don't assume that much. (For the record, I would never send a dick pic, but that's just me. If someone wants to send a solicited one, well, more power to him.)
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:23 PM
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The GC?
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:20 PM
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Shit, man, I hear you. I've had loooong dry spells, and every time I don't know how long they will last, or if (gasp!) that's it, I will never be with a woman I like again. But trying different things is key. Something has to work, friend. If it's not something about you, then it's something about the environments you participate.
/r/seduction19/07/25 07:00 PM
1

Hell yeah my brother!
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:45 PM
2

There was this one time when the girl was surrounded by guys talking to each other, trying to one-up each other. And I was on the dance floor dancing on my own, or at the bar, talking to the bartender (can't remember if guy or gal) or talking to other people - and she would turn her head to look at me! We hooked up days later. She found me on facebook (when facebook was the thing everyone was using.) And another time I was in some basement, there was this one hot, hot, HOT Eastern European blond…
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:43 PM
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Hm, no, I still side with /u/A1Horizon . You can be "not nice" but still be kind. I've observed guys who are way too straightforward, see things backfire, then calling the woman names "because that's what non-nice guys do". I think you can still create an atmosphere of mystery and banter, but still being chivalrous if the situation merits it, for example. "Could you hold my purse for a minute?" Bad answer: "Oh yes, yes, of course, sure! Whatever you need!" Worst answer: "No, what the fuck, do I …
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:12 PM
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Nooooo, don't ever do that! That's "guy drama" and that's like bug repellent to women. Really, play it cool, man! But anyway. How did it go?
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:06 PM
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Off-topic, but I hate when this happens. I want my own room, dammit.
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:05 PM
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Man, once you have game, college is like shooting fish in a barrel. College is the time to party, have sex, have fun!! This is my experience: I am an ugly introvert. No way around it. I accepted it many years ago. So, I focused on four things during college: I tried my best to look the best I can look, without appearing a try-hard. Out of shape? Play a sport, or run, or go to the gym. Try to be in the best physical shape you can be. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Arnold Scharzenegger i…
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:00 PM
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Bro. Bro. Bro. You're on vacation. And you're wasting precious time with some girl you haven't even kissed yet, in the off chance that she will sleep with you. And you'll be paying for a separate hotel room. Read that again. She said she wants a separate room, and you'll be paying for it. What the fuck, bro? You're on vacation in an island. And you're focusing on some chick? Why aren't you talking to other girls? But let's suppose you go on an adventure with this woman. You meet some other woman…
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:23 PM
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It's a mixed bag. But I'd rather have 10% success rate than the 0% success rate I used to have. I speak Spanish too, so that can help a bit.
/r/seduction17/07/25 11:50 PM
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Oh man, you have a self-awareness moment right there in front of you. You're so close! That's why you're being downvoted. Also, don't be rude to beggars.
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:49 PM
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Imagine that you're with a group of friends. And just to take it to an extreme, let's say that some woman absolutely no one in your group finds attractive, starts chatting with you all. Before she showed up, you were bantering, you were shitting the shiz, and all of a sudden, this woman is asking questions or commenting on people's appearances, uninvited. If she just started doing that and not even acknowledging that she knows she just butted in, wouldn't you find it annoying? But regardless, to…
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:45 PM
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Still silly. They will become "britishized" way before becoming americanized, if ever.
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:03 AM
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Hm, that has happened to me about four times too. But you know what, I've had 200 interactions with awesome outcomes. I'm sure you have too. Focus on that. It's more fun and more productive. Don't sweat about it. Grow those numbers, continue improving your skills and yourself. Stay away from chicks with "the ex right there by the door."
/r/seduction13/07/25 12:04 AM
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Yup. Plenty of fish, it's a numbers game. Plus here's how I see it: I'm minding my own business. Someone, anyone comes into my world, I don't owe that person absolutely anything. This has helped me a lot when I get rejected. I say "well, it was me who walked up to her/addressed her/whatevs, she doesn't owe me anything. Ok. Next." Edit: Oh, god, I just saw the video. "I wish you could have appreciated the compliment". NO, MEN! That's so clingy. And cringy! "Oh, boo-hoo, don't you see I'm being ni…
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:57 PM
6

Who are you hanging out with?!!!
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:56 PM
1

Silly comment. They have Britain right next door.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:55 PM
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Spanish women are generally different from your big-booty latinas.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:54 PM
2

hehe no, man, I'm not that other redditor. You're referring to /u/MeatMarket92 .
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:53 PM
2

There's alcohol involved. Is this the U.S.? A charge of assault is very easy to file with evidence.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:52 PM
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Get the douchebag on video, then file a police report. Street fights aren't worth it. I've seen them. Girls are turned off by them. They don't see it as two hot dudes fighting for them. They see it as two dudes in some dick measuring contest.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:51 PM
2

How often does this happen? Every single time? Or just once in a while? Have a friend record you, then have a woman friend review the recording - and listen to her feedback.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:46 PM
1

I wonder if OP goes for certain types. If it "keeps happening to him", who is he going for? Women with gun tattoos or something?
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:44 PM
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I'm sorry, my guy, but yes, some of the stuff you're saying is wrong. "They taught me that violence might bring fatal consequences, so I'm frustrated that men keep cockblocking me.... AND I'M THE ONE WITH THE GUNS". Just no, bro. Again, is anyone harassing you in a bar, club, event? Flag down security. Acting responsibly is kinda hot for many women.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:41 PM
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Bro, chill. I was actually rooting for you, but these responses aren't helping.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:39 PM
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The form of consequence is to talk to the lady and say "do you want to stay with this guy?" and if the answer is no, then you tell the other guy to back off. And if he doesn't back off, flag down the bartender or a security guy. The staff is trained to deal with that kind of bullshit.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:38 PM
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Men will ABSOLUTRLY KILL you if they think you're a threat to their chances of getting laid. Man, c'mon, that's a bit extreme. You sound as if you're referring to all men, and that's not true. Men who would "absolutely KILL you" are either psychos or from a society that would allow this.
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:36 PM
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Did the girl allow it? Did she stay with him after the altercation? Then she's not worth it. It could be that she's afraid. But it is more likely that she is in this toxic relationship with the douchebag, and actually wants that to happen. Having said that, when a person lays a hand on you, that's a different story. One thing is for someone to get in the way between you and someone else (and probably push you a little), and another thing is that the guy actually and aggressively pushes you. That…
/r/seduction12/07/25 11:34 PM
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Hm, I don't know, man. Easy for me to think "eh, being single is also an option" when I'm in my 40s and have been with all the types of women I desired. But if someone told me "you know, being single is also an option" at 19, I would have replied "fuck you!" I understand that there are people who will always and ultimately be alone. But that's not the majority of men who otherwise just need to work on themselves. Being single while one works on oneself is an option. But accepting this reality wh…
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:58 PM
1

I visited London five years ago and I so want to go back. So much I saw, so much I am yet to see!
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:08 PM
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