TheDollDiaries Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad Oh okay so you’re just dumb 😂 because clearly you couldn’t read and comprehend. You’re upset that even as an Escort I have no interest in entertaining men who can only lead with money in dating. And I also don’t have to accept all sexual advances or monetary proposals. So your original comment was “ma’am you know we can see your profile picture” no shit Sherlock. There’s thousands of women who look like me who aren’t escorts and even when I wasn’t escorting, just going by my day to day those are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:47 PM
0	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad What’s your point? That you assume about someone from how they look orrr you don’t know what a traditional carnivale fit is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:45 PM
0	Women who have cheated: did it feel good and any regrets? Tbh.. I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s made up too or full of people who yeah feels powerful from it or hot. I don’t believe all of the “he cheated first so I cheated back” comments here. And I actually shared here about cheating but then mods hid my comment because of cross referencing? Idk 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 02:32 PM
10	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad Right. Im an escort and even I get tired of the same monetary propositions from men. Doesn’t matter how Im dressed, where Im at, how I meet them. I could say to myself “hmm maybe I want to see where it goes” and it’s always just money because men see a beautiful woman and think “she’s definitely a gold digger and just wants money” at this point someone like me can turn men down in vanilla dating and sex work because it’s an overwhelming majority of men just offering to buy. They don’t understand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 12:13 AM
4	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad Yes I was going to the say the same. Most women don’t do that, that’s just what men think women do.. most young women are dating and sleeping with guys in hopes of relationship and happily ever after more often than … whatever the fuck that was he just described 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 12:10 AM
1	Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is bad Hes not all the way wrong…. The only time men don’t hit on me it’s because they just figured they didn’t have a chance or they notice every other man in the vicinity hitting on me and was thoughtful enough to not be another guy clamming and that’s outside. On dating apps I get asked all the time if I’m a catfish and Tinder & Bumble both have given me free premium subscriptions and highlights my profile as a “Preferred User” to guys. But for OP to say the woman in the dating sub was average becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:48 PM
22	Women who have cheated: did it feel good and any regrets? Who asks these things and expects people to be honest online? Especially on an app like this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 08:53 PM
4	"What could X age possibly have in common in Y age" is a ridiculous argument Saying this after he supplied a valid, resourceful link is wild 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:51 AM
0	I approached a milf at the library You’re welcome, wishing you well on your new journey of enlightenment. I’m happy to have inspired you 🫶🏾	/r/seduction	30/04/25 02:23 PM
0	I approached a milf at the library I don’t believe any of the things you wrote here nor did I say them. I’m sorry your ego felt the need to write this to me out of jealousy, stupidity, and lunacy..I will say a prayer. 🙏	/r/seduction	30/04/25 02:15 PM
–	Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want them You’re welcome to DM me if you want to talk more. I’ll probably respond, but I’ll likely delete this post later. Just wanted to lay it out clearly here because with the reversal of ROE V. WADE this should have been more obvious but it is framed as an attack on women. It is but it’s deeper than just “politicians want to control women bodies” They do but with an emphasis on capitalism not misogyny. From a real world policy standpoint, declining birth rates are a crisis, not a goal. Governments aro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 04:57 AM
5	Question for the Women on this sub who regularly go out to bars and clubs. Making out, dancing, even getting handsy doesn’t really mean much at the club. That’s just the energy of the night. It’s fun, flirty, maybe messy, but it doesn’t always translate into “I want a relationship with this guy” I’ll do a handstand and twerk on my head if I’m lit enough but never would I do that outside of the club setting 😂😂 I don’t do the make out with strangers just because I personally prefer a man who shows composed restraint when first meeting especially because that energy in th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 03:35 AM
-1	I approached a milf at the library Calling my response a rant while delivering an emotional projection of your own is almost ironic. What I wrote was direct, structured, and rooted in both lived and professional insight to the woman who wrote to me. If that challenged your personal comfort to the point to just dismiss my statements with no basis of critical think or understanding: that is your reaction to manage. But trying to label it as insecurity because it forced you to confront your own assumptions is lazy and quite frankly,…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 11:36 PM
1	I approached a milf at the library “If you want a pic I’d be happy to send you one”☝️you wrote that up there since I guess you can’t see it.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 11:14 PM
-7	I approached a milf at the library You are trying to reframe what you said after the fact, but your tone made it clear. You made an attempt to reduce me to my outfits and the fact that I escort, rather than addressing the actual point I was making with critical context. It is not about whether my own experience is typical or not. It is about how quickly you shifted the conversation away from the real topic and redirected it toward judging me based on external factors. That kind of deflection has nothing to do with understanding t…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 08:48 PM
1	I approached a milf at the library You cared enough to want to show me what you look like so your words tell lies that I can see through. Wishing you a lovely day🫶🏾	/r/seduction	29/04/25 07:58 PM
-8	I approached a milf at the library The fact that you said you’d feel flattered and assume it was a joke if a younger man hit on you is the exact mark of insecurity. That kind of response reveals a discomfort with being desired, a need to minimize it before someone else can. It’s a defense mechanism dressed up as humility. And instead of examining why that’s your instinct, you’ve redirected it toward me reducing me to a sex worker or someone posting “NSFW content”just because I wear a Carnivale costume & a swimsuit (public outfits…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 07:05 PM
0	I approached a milf at the library Nope. Post history says enough. Critical analysis aside. What you look like isn’t the factor here. Read my comments for any confusion.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 07:00 PM
0	I approached a milf at the library If I could actually trust that the men here were thinking from a female perspective, men wouldn’t even fighting back against other men who have said this is leaning into creep behavior/unhealthy. They would know how uncomfortable it feels to have someone stand over you until you look up and acknowledge them. Be serious. OP didn’t just ‘stand there.’ He said himself that he walked over and stood there until she reacted. No woman likes that. Not just me; women, period. Not every woman will have su…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 06:54 PM
1	I approached a milf at the library Sigh. Honestly, fame doesn’t impress me. I have been in magazines, partied with celebrities, and even dated two. They are no different than anyone else except for the attention they get. Ive been around it long enough to know there is nothing magical about notoriety and the average man in this sub isn’t even an IG influencer or Anything so let’s save our insecure projections and fantasies for the next	/r/seduction	29/04/25 06:13 PM
0	I approached a milf at the library Post history checks out. I mentioned why someone like you would think that, thanks.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:56 PM
1	I approached a milf at the library You didn’t express a different opinion. It’s already noted in my first reply and consequential ones. I downvoted because yes Reddit is weird. I spoke broadly, included the nuances and context there of and here comes someone without the ability to comprehend and interpret words thinking they are sharing some unthought information when I have already acknowledged their existence and this information. So I’m not the one speaking or considering my own personal experience here.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 11:46 AM
1	I approached a milf at the library I’ve already clarified I’m not speaking from just my experience alone. Hardly am I ever am because I’m not the average woman. I’ve already stated why if a woman was to care and you fit a woman that I described who would care rather than the adjectives I used to describe a woman who wouldn’t.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 11:38 AM
5	I approached a milf at the library I hope so. It is good if it causes introspection. I did not offer this perspective to be rude or dismissive, but to support a healthier mindset: fully detaching from the outcome when flirting with a woman. I am not claiming with absolute certainty that she will never think about OP, but realistically, the likelihood is very slim. Not because of my own personal bias or experience alone, but because women who feel deeply validated by moments like this are typically operating from insecurity or lac…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 11:02 AM
0	I approached a milf at the library There’s no such thing as being too secure..That’s just how insecurity perceives confidence it doesn’t understand.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:57 AM
13	I approached a milf at the library Observing behavior isn’t insecurity, it’s awareness and also necessary for any well informed perspective. You’re projecting your own discomfort with rejection onto me because it’s easier than admitting how much it bruises your ego to be wrong about women, especially from a woman. Confidence isn’t the absence of perception; it’s the absence of need. If you were secure, you wouldn’t be so triggered by being seen nor feel the need to try and hide your hurt and resentment behind projections on me. I…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:48 AM
-2	I approached a milf at the library It’s like watching film on the offense. The same way any intelligent man lurks subs full of predominantly women. Come on Pargofan think critically.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 09:08 AM
-3	I approached a milf at the library You are assuming women experience attention the way men do. For most of us, especially when we are secure, it is not even something we register as meaningful. A lot of women more often than not will say “he just wants sex” and I have had to be the one to try and convince them they don’t know unless they actually give a guy a chance. You are free to be shocked, but that says more about your worldview than it does about my reality or truth for any attractive woman. I live in Miami Florida, I’m clo…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 08:50 AM
5	I approached a milf at the library Nope. Most women who are secure in themselves and their relationships genuinely do not entertain other men, even in their minds. Being hit on does not automatically create a consideration unless there is already insecurity, dissatisfaction, or a need for external validation. If you are fulfilled, you register the attention and move on without a second thought and if anything at the time I would be offended on my ex-husbands behalf even though he couldn’t read my thoughts.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 08:36 AM
-10	I approached a milf at the library You seem very emotional for someone who claims to be so secure. I hope one day you realize that real connection has nothing to do with ticking off a checklist, and everything to do with how you move through the world without being creepy and fantasizing about a woman who clearly would rather you leave her alone 🫶🏾 Have a goodnight	/r/seduction	29/04/25 08:25 AM
-26	I approached a milf at the library Oh you’re DEFINITELY not a socially inept individual and someone people should be taking field work advice from 😆	/r/seduction	29/04/25 08:18 AM
6	I approached a milf at the library Not at all cause myself would have told him to fuck off. It’s not projection when a woman names an experience she knows firsthand. What’s happening here is a group of men telling a woman that her understanding of discomfort in public spaces is wrong because it makes them uncomfortable to hear it. You are so used to centering the male experience that when a woman points out a real, common emotional reality for women, you frame it as “projecting” rather than listening because then this dismantles …	/r/seduction	29/04/25 07:18 AM
-8	I approached a milf at the library Okay fine you’re right 😆 but as long as it’s understood it’s a dream	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:33 AM
5	I approached a milf at the library Respectfully, it’s not a bad take. It’s reality from the other side of the experience. Blushing and being flustered doesn’t automatically mean happiness. Sometimes it’s just discomfort mixed with being caught off guard, especially in a quiet public space where there’s social pressure to be polite. The silence and waiting for her to look up would feel intimidating to a lot of women, even if the intentions were good. You can respect the courage it takes to shoot your shot while still understanding…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:29 AM
-46	I approached a milf at the library ??? Women get hit on everyday B I get at least 10 a day. Which I’m not saying don’t not approach but please don’t think women’s realities are guys. Even a plain Jane gets 1 guy hitting on her at some point in her daily life during the week.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:18 AM
-6	I approached a milf at the library As a woman this is the advice fr. And I’m on this sub all the time saying I respect the plays but men are applying male logic/emotions to female emotions. For all we know the blushing and fluster was really uncomfortable to her. OP said he just stood there until she looked up and then said hi…. That’s creepy.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:17 AM
24	I approached a milf at the library I promise it’s less likely. All the men who hit on me while I was married and pregnant are never thoughts again. Unless she believes shes unattractive or insecure. She won’t care about OP 😆	/r/seduction	29/04/25 05:15 AM
12	Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want them Yeah I was going through my divorce, some people warned me not to, told me there weren’t any men like my husband left…They said dating had changed, that it would be so much worse now. But honestly, it feels exactly the same. Not just for me, but for the people around me too. The real shift isn’t the quality of people. It’s the volume. Social media and dating apps gave everyone a bigger stage, but not better behavior. More options, less connection. More noise, less self-awareness. Studies have sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:39 PM
0	Q4M: On the Shannon Sharpe & Karli Zuniga scandal - what did he do wrong in your eyes? The mistake was never her age. It was that Shannon Sharpe failed to assess risk. When you live in a world built on power, everyone you bring close is either an asset or a liability. There is no in between. She exposed who she was the moment she was willing to weaponize the most intimate details and things she engaged in she’s attempting to shame him for, like the race play, just to harm him. That kind of betrayal is not spontaneous. It is woven into character. A man who has built what he built s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 06:25 PM
33	Women on this sub make it sound like they're single because they're unwilling to compromise on being in a great relationship, but in reality they're single because most men don't want them You’re not wrong perse. When men say dating sucks, the world tells them to improve. When women say dating sucks, the world tells them it is because men have gotten worse. There is truth on both sides, but there is also a bigger picture no one really likes to admit. Most people, men and women, are bad at seeing themselves clearly. Modern dating just magnifies it. I say this as a woman who has been on every side of it. Single, married, divorced, dating again as a single mother. Nothing about the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:01 PM
2	Sizes and Orgasms You just be sitting around thinking about dicks. Try it and find out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 06:03 AM
8	Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM? This is so simple and so obvious !	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 06:01 AM
7	Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM? No because we aren’t dating the same men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 05:59 AM
2	My experience on dating apps and why I hate them. Yes skip it altogether truthfully if you can pull and seduce real life. You’re better off.	/r/seduction	14/04/25 07:32 PM
0	Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men? It does it just isn’t projected in the same way we seen porn brain affects men. But women who watch porn through the male gaze may feel the need to “perform”, make noises when nothing is happening, get plastic surgery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 07:08 PM
3	Why doesn't porn seem to warp womens' perceptions of sex the same way it does for men? LMFAO	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 07:06 PM
18	My experience on dating apps and why I hate them. Speaking as a woman who uses dating apps: we get flooded. Literally hundreds of thousands of likes. Most of us don’t even scroll through them anymore, especially if they’re even slightly unattractive. It’s just noise. So when a guy I’ve seen in person doesn’t approach but then sends a Super Like? It doesn’t feel cute it feels passive, or even a little off. Not necessarily creepy, but it gives “I watched you, but couldn’t say anything in real life.” And that energy doesn’t translate well. It’s gi…	/r/seduction	12/04/25 08:41 PM
2	Should there be a male equivalent to a “girls girl?” A bro .. like a girls girl is a bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 08:08 PM
4	Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20s Yep I have a love for culture and beautiful things especially girly things. And I collect bags & shoes might as well collect female funkos & Betty & Veronica comics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:48 PM
0	Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20s Ohhh then my apologies. I read it as though basically how my reply reads as if it’s just Impossible/unattainable. I do find there are other attributes about those types that make them undateable and it’s not the hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:46 PM
-2	Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20s That part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:41 PM
3	Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20s This just isn’t true. I’ve literally sat through One Piece for an ex. When you care about someone, you naturally engage with their interests. You might not become a superfan, but you’ll show up for the things that matter to them, just like you’d want them to do for you. Also, women are not monoliths. I love comic books, anime, video games, and Funko Pops just as much as I love designer bags, day drinking, and booking a spontaneous flight. The idea that women don’t want to watch anime with their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:40 PM
4	A lot of men participate in casual misogyny and then turn around and get upset with casual misandry. This post brings up something so real. Casual misogyny isn’t always obvious. Sometimes it’s a man interrupting you midsentence without noticing. Or assuming you don’t know much about money, business, or politics because you’re pretty. Or brushing off a woman’s boundaries as her having an attitude. It’s quiet, but it’s constant. Still, I don’t think women need to carry that same weight or mirror that same energy. We can’t teach empathy by mirroring the same harm. We can’t ask men to see our human…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 02:47 AM
–	What are your sexual fantasies? He takes me shopping, eyes on me like I’m the only thing worth buying. I slip into heels, run my fingers over diamonds, hold up bags like I need his approval but I already have it. Every swipe of his card feels like a slow touch. In a low, husky voice he asks if I want it & I nod. He pays again and again. It’s almost sinful how much I fantasize about a man just swiping endlessly for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 04:16 AM
5	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Extremely rare just off looks alone. Don’t get me started on what’s the inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:53 AM
5	I was into one girl. Now I’m feeling her friend. How do I move without drama? Just ask the second girl out 🤷‍♀️ let them deal with their own friendship but first girl should realize things just different with her friend. If she confronts you about it let hit happen over text so in case she tries to run back to the friend and put her own spin it. The next time first girl tries to flirt shut it down, apologetically, because you want something real with the 2nd girl.	/r/seduction	28/03/25 09:19 PM
1	Want to get the bank tellers number Just ask. I give my number to any man in public who at least attempts light convo, flirting & just has the balls to ask me.	/r/seduction	19/03/25 10:51 AM
1	I went out with 3 women for a woman’s birthday Yes it will help. My guy friends will beg me to come out with them just for them to pick up girls but I do it because my drinks are free and I love to dance. But do more than just holding doors idk that’s basic like mentioned earlier, even I do that for the elderly.	/r/seduction	12/03/25 11:41 AM
1	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? Oh my apologies then. Both! I send them on my own but if he texts me after I been busy with work I’ll bless his phone or FaceTime. We’re long distance sadly.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 03:39 PM
2	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? No. It’s possible. Just not a woman who is using dating apps and sexting out of town men and offering up the last time she had sex. Interact with more women offline. U will see the signs.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 03:04 PM
-1	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? ? Other women do find me attractive unless u mean women finding men attractive? It happens. I have several crushes that are purely physical.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 07:57 AM
11	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? 🤷‍♀️ sometimes because he’s that attractive, sometimes u believe he might satisfy a certain itch, sometimes it’s just for the boredom of it all. But time is relative, u make time for what u want. Lmao like it doesn’t take much to sext a guy. I’ve taken pics and sent them to guys in 2 mins	/r/seduction	19/01/25 02:39 AM
32	Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do? Yes we have our pick; We just don’t want them. And tbh take it from a woman: we be lying. If they’re sexting a guy out of town they’re definitely fucking a guy in town. U just tell a guy it’s been months so u don’t sound like a slut.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 02:34 AM