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Boyfriend cheating on you - his body his choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:25 PM
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Probably because they’re shitty people. Women’s reproductive responsibility is to (at least try to) avoid having babies with shitty men. It shouldn’t be such a huge thing to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:39 PM
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29M heterosexual, I’m at least an 8. I’m tall, handsome, funny, creative, and successful in my career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:35 PM
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These young women aren’t looking to make babies with these men What do you think she’s looking for on Tinder? A tea party? A stimulating intellectual conversation? Cope harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:53 PM
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Gosh, it looks like you HAVE provided evidence women sometimes seek out horrible men! Clearly I was wrong. would have been the mature answer. I could list lots more examples, but you’ll just continue moving the goalposts, so why should I provide more evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:27 PM
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Are you suggesting women are just socially retarded and need men to wear literal signs displaying their personality traits? They have no other way of knowing if a man is lazy, or has anger issues, or other red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:23 PM
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<image> Gladly!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:20 PM
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Many of them practically do, and that does nothing to stop women. Oftentimes women will specifically seek out ex convicts and murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:18 PM
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Nope, women are to blame for their choice to have babies with men who are obviously unsuitable or outright despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:08 PM
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*Traditional gender roles, not patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:05 AM
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I do, because no matter how much attraction I get from women, they never try to be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:54 PM
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Men can’t always know when they’re deemed attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:51 PM
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Also women: just leave us alone, stop approaching us ever 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:58 AM
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You’re once again fantasizing that rejection is the only thing men could possibly fear from women, as if women are harmless butterflies. I don’t fear a woman rejecting me. I fear that she could abuse me (or our kids, if we have any) to the point of suicide and then cry her way out of accountability, because I’ve personally experienced this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:55 AM
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I’m very emotionally available. I just don’t find most women emotionally trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:26 AM
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My friends are always working or live in other states. I have no loved ones. I have no family. You’re reinforcing my opinion that women are extremely tone deaf to men’s point of view. We don’t get treated like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:20 PM
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Confidence can be described as a general feeling of “everything will turn out okay.” I don’t have that. I feel very vulnerable despite having a high opinion of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:49 PM
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I’ve had therapy and done journaling. They both basically just serve to document how miserable I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:40 PM
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I have a high opinion of myself. I’m handsome, funny, successful in my career, and have gotten approached and complimented by women many times. I’ve also been called the perfect (potential) husband. However, I have extremely low confidence and self esteem because I’ve been through lots of trauma and have no support system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:39 PM
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we haven’t had a draft in a while Right, and women only complain about things that have actually happened, like boogeymen trying to murder them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:20 PM
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1-3 Don’t care 4 Thicc 5-6 Same ballpark 7 Max 4 I guess 9 Don’t care 10 Hetero 11 Around 24. I’m 29. 12 Non feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:17 PM
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Nothing. It’s not my job to adapt to other peoples’ misandrist fearmongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:58 PM
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I don’t think so. Too emasculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:49 PM
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I think intelligence isn’t really a turn on, but unintelligence is definitely a turn off. There have been several times I was interested in a woman, but then she said something so stupid it made me completely flaccid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:38 PM
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You claimed I benefit somehow from politicians being mostly male, but you can’t explain how. Baseless claims do not become true just because you add detail, or because multiple people made the claim. You need evidence, and you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:26 PM
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Men don’t benefit in any way from being the same gender as a majority of elected officials, nor can you identify any way men benefit from being male. Saying men benefit doesn’t make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:52 PM
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Only if you want it to be. Some people are looking for human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:01 PM
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You provided no evidence the world is male centric, nor can you identify any way men benefit from being male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:00 PM
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Women’s sex appeal is given to them for free They’re favored in courts They can get away with lots of abuse because people can’t help but automatically defend women They’re not expected to have financial stability or confidence while going through tough economic times Enough factors favor women that dating has become completely gynocentric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:17 PM
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They’re mostly male, because people (including women) mostly vote for men and men pursue CEO status far more often than women. This isn’t the checkmate you wish it was. This is not the same as a patriarchy. Most men gain no benefit from being the same gender as the president or a bunch of CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:10 PM
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I didn’t say anything whatsoever about sex. You ignored most of what I said and made a gigantic strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:07 PM
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Authority over dating and family formation. The things women need to form a family are given to them for free, while the things men need are increasingly harder to obtain. Women are offered women’s scholarships which help them succeed academically, in addition to various campus life programs that bring attention to women’s issues and often antagonize men. Women’s inconveniences and fake problems are prioritized way higher by the public than any actual injustice I’ve faced as a man. When people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:09 AM
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None of those are evidence a patriarchy exists, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:30 AM
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No, it’s run by a tiny group of people. That’s different from a society being run by men. The definition you gave says “a system in which men have the power.” If that was how we live, I would have the power they’re referring to. But you can’t tell me what the power is specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:20 AM
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None of those things are evidence our society is a patriarchy that favors men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:17 AM
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What power do I have as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:55 AM
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What power do I hold as a result of being a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:55 AM
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Slightly more towards matriarchal. The average woman has a lot more power than the average man. People who believe in a patriarchy tend to only look at the top 0.01% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:53 AM
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What is any evidence the US is a patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:52 AM
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Agreed, and several of them have revealed themselves in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:50 AM
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“Men” do not hold power or control the economy. A tiny minority of hyper-rich people and elected officials do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:50 AM
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What part of that definition describes the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:48 AM
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Anyone who is only interested in contributing what they “owe” needs to not participate in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:38 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:07 PM
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If you only want to do for other people what they’re entitled to, don’t participate in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:12 PM
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Probability exists though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:53 PM
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Because men aren’t supposed to have any power in the dating world /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:41 PM
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You can help men by having responsibility and doing your damn job. You spent decades claiming you want equality, but now that you have tons of rights, freedoms, and privileges, you’re trying to abandon men and boys entirely because helping us to not kill ourselves would infringe on your precious happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:48 PM
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That’s not what women are pursuing, and you know it. I’m not going to continue with you since you’re being so willfully disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:31 PM
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Or we could strive for a sane middle ground instead of automatically jumping to the opposite extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:36 PM
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The severity matters more than the number of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:35 AM
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No, the abuse comes after the approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:32 PM
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I don’t approach women because they have way too much freedom to cause abuse without consequences. Everybody is on women’s side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:16 AM
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Why would you need to verify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:59 PM
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I offer cooking, money, physical support (great dick), emotional support, great massages, and jokes, and the women I date still don’t treat me well at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:15 AM
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So like 90% of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:12 PM
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You completely ignored the main point. Women right now have all the power because their SMV is given to them for free while men are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:51 PM
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Everyone has options? That’s staggeringly ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:12 PM
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Lazy oversimplification
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:10 PM
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Depends if you mean “need” for survival, or “need” for love and fulfillment. I guess I’d prefer neither, though. I’d rather be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:19 AM
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Uh, no you don’t. Tons of women admit to enjoying “sexual harassment.” It just has to be from a man you’re attracted to. For example, I had a boss who was having a mid life crisis and complained to us during a party about how “men don’t sexually harass me anymore 😞”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:07 AM
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You mean you don’t get a partner, or you don’t want a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:48 AM
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Nope, this is a strawman used by misandrists to downplay actual men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:08 AM
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You made a blanket statement too. They have a hard time finding a partner because the men they do make treat them as objects. Learn some self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:05 AM
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You’re right, I’ve never seen an unattractive woman in my 29 years on this earth. Had no idea they were out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:39 AM
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Yes, I’m aware that both men and women get to take women’s classes. That way women’s “issues” get attention from both women and men. Do you think that’s somehow balanced? There are no men’s issues taken seriously. I’ve never heard of a Minor or a class focused on men’s issues. Maybe they could talk about the issue of misandry, like how when I was at college the RAs would post content that frames abuse as something only men commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:42 PM
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That’s because women can easily get a partner whenever they want. People don’t complain about problems they don’t have. Man aren’t crying about menstruating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:34 PM
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Women at university are getting a lot more help. Women’s issues are taken seriously there. They have all sorts of efforts and action to protect women and their feelings. You can take classes where they talk about specifically women’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:31 PM
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We also don’t need breast milk to nourish babies anymore, yet we all still like them tig bitties, your honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:15 PM
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Definitely curvy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:43 AM
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That guy needs to have more go right for him than just his looks. Women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:54 AM
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Give lots of nonsexual affection. Cheek kisses, hugs, compliments, etc. Take some initiative in planning dates and moving the relationship forward, or telling him you’re not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:40 AM
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My previous girlfriend was a virgin, and it increased my attraction to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:05 PM
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That’s a horrible idea. Imagine if we commanded women to accept men’s flaws and never criticize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:55 PM
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I’ve done that. The problem is, basically everybody treated me badly, so now I have no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:54 PM
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By ever holding each other accountable for misbehavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:21 PM
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I like when women are nice to me, and I dislike when they are rude, hateful or abusive. Am I supposed to hold the same opinion of every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:04 PM
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So women’s flaws are unchangable like the tide? We should just tolerate women exactly as they are and never hold them to a standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:00 PM
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Yes. I was treated terribly by my parents, which ruined my confidence. Now it feels like I can’t start a family of my own, because women don’t like miserable men. So I feel like I’m just locked out of having a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:05 PM
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Attractive men still need a lot more than looks, like confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:22 PM
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You’re describing boys, not men. Men don’t care whether their family approves of their choice of spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:44 AM
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Did I say that, retard? All you said was that I’m wrong because you have “experience.” So I informed you that I also have experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:09 PM
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Conversely, many women who have chosen to focus on their careers have been left behind when it comes to starting a family, because they find they no longer get the same attention from men as in their twenties. Capitalism didn’t force this. Feminism did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:08 PM
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That’s because it does. There’s a middle ground between being career-focused and being financially helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:08 PM
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I don’t think anyone here is asking women to quit their jobs and become dependent on men. We’re advocating for femininity, which means “having qualities traditionally ascribed to women.” Being financially helpless isn’t a quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:31 PM
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No it doesn’t. I have experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:26 PM
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Then you chose the best 10 candidates out of 1,000. You can’t know 990 of them are unsuitable otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:17 PM
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No one ever talked about hypermasculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:32 PM
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“Maybe” isn’t a very compelling argument. Men already do a pretty massive list of things for women and I don’t see women returning the favor in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:31 PM
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I doubt it. There are just pseudointellectual feminist men pretending they’re attracted to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:29 PM
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Being nurturing is one of the most feminine traits there is. What on earth do you think femininity means?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:18 AM
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Well yeah, when you change a ton of different factors at once to make up for their sexual unattractiveness, they sound like a great partner. But there’s no reason a woman can’t be loyal, nurturing, and efficient AND ALSO sexually attractive. Also, you seem to have listed loyal and nurturing as positive traits, which supports my original argument that men like femininity in women, not “things she takes pride in.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:51 AM
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Sexual attractiveness is part of what makes you a good partner. It’s kind of in the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:31 AM
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We’re not talking about her ability to survive. We’re talking about SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:05 AM
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Commonly yes, because a lot of people are still on the naive bandwagon of pretending men and women are the same and like the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:58 AM
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To appeal to traditionally masculine men, ie the men most women want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:56 AM
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Why would that be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:53 AM
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Should men change their standards so they become attracted to education and professional accomplishments?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:51 AM
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Yep, men value femininity in women, not masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:46 AM
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I’d rather choose the best of 1,000 candidates than the best of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:41 AM
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Men, how do you justify liking boobs if you don’t also have boobs yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:04 PM
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Not weird if it’s the only thing she offers. But if she actually has other qualities he shouldn’t take them for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:48 PM
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A lot of advice conflicts with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:53 PM
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I don’t know. I never saw him or met him. She just told me he was better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:50 AM
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Then we should stop preaching that women of all ages just want respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:13 PM
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That’s the point he’s making.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:11 PM
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I was prettier than he was, also. He was just better at sex, by her own confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:26 PM
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So men should just be sexually successful? Wow, why didn’t I think of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:16 PM
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He’s talking about the thing you quoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:09 PM
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That’s what I was going to reply as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:08 PM
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Moreso that they often prefer assholes. When I was young I had a girlfriend dump me for a guy who called her a fat whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:07 PM
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Those things mean the dictionary definitions of those things. Go look up “rudeness,” “hatred,” “abuse,” and “women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:38 PM
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Women don’t need makeup, and clothing is something both genders are expected to purchase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:10 PM
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Then you’ve automatically invalidated my experiences before you even know what they are, so you’re not genuinely interested in a discussion. Why are you pretending otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:52 PM
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You didn’t ask me to specify those things. You asked me to define words, which you could easily do yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:36 AM
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Some are and many aren’t. I’ve had female coworkers openly insult me before, and my female boss permitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:44 AM
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Check the dictionary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:43 AM
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No, there’s no maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:46 PM
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How about we stop actively striving to make men’s lives worse, like by excusing rudeness, hatred and abuse from women constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:06 PM
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Probably, but I’m not one of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:39 PM
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%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:38 PM
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Openly hating men and boys, and dismissing their problems 100% of the time (or claiming their problems are always their own responsibility, like the moron below you) while pretending to value equality, compassion and justice. And enabling other women to be hateful and abusive by excusing or defending them always. Women have an entire subculture of misandry which other women do nothing about, despite pretending to value equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:34 PM
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Then women should stop devoting such massive effort to make men less suitable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:13 PM
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No, most women don’t need to ornate themselves at all. This is a lie women use to deny their privilege. And yes, I’ve lived with my girlfriend before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:12 AM
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Yes, and also no woman ever loved her husband before 1996. There were zero happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:10 PM
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Traditional men (meaning, the men who women generally want) will find you a lot more attractive and will work harder for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:51 PM
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Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:43 PM
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I’ve (29M) hooked up several times and yes I hate it. I’ve stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 PM
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Me when the hypocrit gender does something hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:15 AM
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Respect would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:59 AM
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Confidence, which is mostly out of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:45 AM
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Accusing others of being controlled by their emotions is an easy way to feel that you’ve invalidated their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:17 PM
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Coming up next, “men are emotionally immature for bottling up their feelings.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:01 PM
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Top 20% isn’t nearly good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:59 PM
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Th first Spongebob Movie
/r/MenSupportMen10/06/23 02:57 PM
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It’s pretty divisive, but I think they’re hot (in these photos specifically)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:44 AM
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Attraction from women is worthless without effort from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:49 AM
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“No.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:52 AM
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“Take initiative and advance the relationship. Ask him on some dates, and if you want him as your boyfriend, ask him to be your boyfriend.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:27 PM
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“You have most of the power, so you need to take the lead and make the approach.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:01 AM
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Being trans grants you special treatment from groups who openly hate men. Some people call this “intersectional armor.” That’s why it’s not harder for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:05 AM
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I’ve met women’s standards many times. Then they put in zero effort and wait for me to approach/babysit them. Their standards for themselves as a partner are low or nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:59 PM
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Many of them at places like school and work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:58 PM
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Many women create people accidentally and without proper preparation, leading to misery. Only give credit when credit is due.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:59 AM
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I don’t care about being rejected, but women who I’m nice to should show me basic manners and respect. That’s not me expecting a reward- it’s called having self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:19 PM
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I’m not saying anything whatsoever about sexual attraction. You must be reading a different argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:17 PM
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People who claim to fight for social justice and equality automatically dismiss the problems of men, and when those men protest the way they’ve been treated they’re branded as an “incel” by the former group. That’s marginalization. By the way, my sister got abused to death by her feminist mom, and I doubt you’ll ever take any action on her behalf, so don’t complain to me about how “some women have lost their lives.” Very few incels have actually murdered anyone, and it doesn’t justify marginaliz…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:15 PM
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You’re placing them in a position of little importance or power with comments exactly like that. You’re automatically dismissing their issues on the basis that they’re incels, which is often not even the case. Many “incels” are not misogynists, bad people, or even involuntary celibates, but just guys who have been beaten down by life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:59 PM
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I didn’t make up any definition. I copied the first result from the dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:31 PM
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Marginalized means “placed in a position of little or no importance, influence, or power.” That describes incels perfectly. No one cares about the problems of unsuccessful men, and people are quick to vilify them for protesting their treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:21 PM
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Strong counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:01 PM
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The same bad attitude. But luckily for women, they’re not expected to quietly tolerate those things. They can speak up about them and get support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:18 AM
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I’ve seen several profiles where she openly admits “looking for felons and ex-cons”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:49 PM
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Try telling that to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:25 PM
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Women are not going to hurt you They’ve given each other the freedom to hate and abuse other people without consequence. It’s not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:11 PM
1

Does that mean we simply shouldn’t date broke women at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:46 PM
2

I think 2-3 months is perfectly reasonable, as long as she’s still putting in effort (talking to me and generally trying to make me feel good) during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:39 AM
1

If a woman posts a question for men, can I say whatever I want without any women correcting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:48 PM
1

If I post a question for men, can I say whatever I want without any women correcting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:03 PM
1

No it’s not. Blaming a single woman for anything, even if it is absolutely her fault, usually qualifies as misogyny and is therefore not a woman-approved way of talking about his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:54 AM
5

Feminists always use this excuse. If women want support, it’s considered urgent automatically and people are shamed for not going along with it. But when men need support, you’re only interested in giving them the bare minimum that’s legally owed to them. Hypocrisy at its finest. Stop pretending you value any form of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:34 PM
11

He’s not only talking about people you’re close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:11 PM
9

There’s nothing unhealthy about pointing out harmful things many women are doing. If you want everybody to be happy and want women to be respected, blaming women when they do bad things is a necessary part of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:10 PM
10

…I’m not a virgin. That has nothing whatsoever to do with this. If you were truly referencing “Male approved methods” of communication, it would include methods approved by me, a male. Instead, you’re once again only allowing “male approved methods” you personally approve of. Also, books and therapists are not the miracle cure people pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:36 PM
13

Learn how to communicate your feelings in healthy and meaningful ways So once again, woman-approved ways. Which includes never blaming women for anything women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:23 PM
9

I’m not talking about feeling. I’m talking about doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:15 PM
12

You should avoid actively striving to make those people’s lives worse and then most of them will stop despising you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:15 PM
11

don’t open up to women from the angle of them being at fault Why? What if they actually are at fault? “You, a woman, did a thing that was harmful to me or others” should not be that controversial to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:02 PM
16

Not all of us have fathers, brothers, or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:58 PM
1

Me too, basically. I dated a Chinese girl who was temporarily working in the US and started out having a great personality, but after a few years of living here she was whiny, lazy, and entitled. I moved on.
/r/MenSupportMen04/05/23 12:07 AM
4

I’d only split major costs 50/50, not every little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:54 AM
6

And you guys have an undying urge to point out injustice where there is none, and pretend you’re standing up for women or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:08 PM
0

No part of that comment was based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:05 PM
2

It’s called an observation. There’s nothing wrong with adults expressing physical attraction to other adults. Calm down. Just listen to the other guy- Noticing a woman is attractive has never been a crime by any measure!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:03 PM
2

Jesus Christ dude. There’s nothing wrong with adults pointing out the attractiveness of other adults. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:01 PM
8

You proved my point perfectly. Pointing out that a woman is hot is not automatically objectifying her. And this is somehow right after you said “Noticing a woman is attractive has never been a crime by any measure.“
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:29 AM
4

I’m inclined to point out positive things in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:14 AM
6

No, it’s not. It’s shamed, because a man is always supposed to comment on something besides her attractiveness first. Sometimes I just want to point out a woman is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:51 AM
22

Absolutely is. Male sexual attraction to adult women is normally framed as objectification, sexualization, or some other thought crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:35 AM
1

I think then she should just communicate up front that she’s shy, so the guy doesn’t view her silence as boredom. She still has to communicate somewhat though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:11 PM
1

In person? Where men have been told to leave women alone in every single setting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:00 PM
1

Correct, and men are encountering a massive abundance of women who play games like that, while other people shield these women from blame or criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:58 PM
1

Take some initiative in the conversation instead of just responding to what men say. Communicate how well things are going. Make some compliments and/or some criticism. Generally try to make the other person have a good time and be happy. That’s the job of both people on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:53 PM
1

This is a just world fallacy. You’re implying women always do the right thing and are never entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:51 PM
1

If they don’t like me, they wasted both our time by matching with me, expressing interest, and agreeing to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:49 PM
5

What if instead of waiting for women to “randomly” develop personalities, we stopped shaming men who are trying to help by pointing out specific flaws in her personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:28 AM
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If these women don’t have personalities, other women ought to stop demanding that men love women for their personalities. I always put effort into dating. Women are the ones who need to be told to step it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:18 AM
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That’s kind of what we’re saying. The girls aren’t interesting and we don’t connect because the women make no effort to showcase their personality or their other strengths. They just sit there and expect men to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:07 AM
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I’m my experience, they’re not contributing to conversation or making it easier to move the relationship forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:54 AM
1

This is correct. Women’s role in dating is to be worth men’s effort. I think a lot of them don’t realize how easy that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:26 AM
2

No, I did not say or imply women should avoid all men. And none of the things in that list conflict with each other. What exactly are you confused about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:02 AM
5

Oh, got it. It’s plural. My mistake. So once I plan FOUR well thought-out, expensive, high quality dates, it will somehow stop me from pumping and dumping her afterward? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:56 PM
-1

I agree. It’s not attractive when men have no self control. Women are supposed to reject those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:01 PM
6

So if I plan a well thought-out, expensive, high quality date, it will somehow stop me from pumping and dumping her afterward? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:45 PM
6

That depends. Do you want a relationship, or do you want to be pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:58 PM
5

What’s requiring you to say Yes to him at any point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:57 PM
9

You can vet men and determine their worthiness instead of giving up and not caring. And withholding sex for a certain period will repel a lot of men who would have otherwise pumped and dumped. It’s not something that’s guaranteed to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:36 PM
4

Because he’s horny. Does that blow your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:28 PM
5

So how do you propose she avoid being pumped and dumped after the third date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:21 PM
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Well they’d better learn, because that’s their job. Honestly it shouldn’t be a huge challenge for a person to not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:48 PM
117

Don’t bang dudes until a minimum of 3 dates and 1 month. During that 1 month show him what else you have to offer- fun, support, and nonsexual affection, for starters. Make a real effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:51 PM
1

Power over the dating market Power to abuse other people without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:31 PM
1

Correction, women regard themselves as a separate species. A species that doesn’t do bad things and can be trusted with unlimited power. That makes it pretty hard to be at ease in women’s company.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:17 PM
1

Incel doesn’t exactly mean “virgin loser,” as many sexually successful men get called incels, even Henry Caville. It’s a completely meaningless insult at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:37 PM
2

No it’s not. Women’s advice is to avoid women entirely. Or “be confident,” which is one of many expectations women have the luxury of avoiding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:35 PM
1

Hydration is the best sex technique
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:38 AM
1

Sexism is defined as “behavior based on traditional stereotypes of gender roles.” But sexism is sometimes correct, because when it comes to dating, women like being treated like women and men like being treated like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:32 PM
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-except when women are the biggest victim. When men’s problems are worse, we’re just expected to shut up about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:34 AM
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Replying “but men” is a logical response to give people who claim to fight for equality (which is everyone who talks about women’s issues). If the problems facing men are worse, we SHOULD prioritize those higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:42 AM
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The first step towards fixing a problem is recognizing there is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:38 AM
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What polls and surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:37 AM
4

Not high enough to meet women’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:41 AM
3

Why would they want to be losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:39 AM
1

Exactly. And women will say “I don’t hate men!” because she doesn’t hate hot famous actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:32 AM
2

Just say nice things to us and take a little initiative if you’re interested in dating one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:23 AM
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Women want commitment, but the relationships they offer are consistently awful. Women have way too much freedom to cause abuse, yet they still expect me to take initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:22 AM
1

They’ve never been too nice. Nice is what I want from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:23 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:39 PM
0

Traditional men, the thing that they want and are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:00 PM
7

You lose time, and possibly also your general sense of optimism and hope when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:49 AM
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No, it’s not only the women who are dating him. It’s a widespread problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:45 AM
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I’ve dated a few women who made an effort, so I know they exist and I’ll continue to cut off the ones that don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:36 AM
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Women don’t really “mock” me for showing vulnerable feelings. It’s more accurate to say they ignore or antagonize me, especially if my hurt feelings were caused by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:42 PM
1

He was lucky and/or lives in a different place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:39 PM
3

Sure there is. The amount of attention I get from women says I’m very attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:15 AM
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I didn’t. They’re grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:14 AM
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I get tons of attention from women (including hundreds of matches online) but a lack of effort. My standards are basically “be pretty and be nice to me” yet it’s rare to find a woman who can meet those criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:19 PM
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That’s a pretty lame excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:09 PM
5

Because many other women still have the attitude that men should approach women, and then these women complain about not being approached, even though the men are urged to never approach. And like OP said, there are tons of married couples with stories about how they met because the man approached the woman in a public place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:50 PM
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Then they need to stop trying to speak on behalf of all women, with rules like “NEVER approach at women in public!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:46 PM
5

I’m supposed to receive a hiring decision soon on a job in Vegas that would be life changing for me. It’s looking good and they said they’d contact me early next week!
/r/MenSupportMen08/04/23 01:32 AM
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I agree with most of your post, but we mustn’t let namecalling stop us from holding women to a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:19 PM
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Boobs are optional. Firmness and shape matter more than size. Ass is non-negotiable. It must be grabbable. Yes, hourglass figure is pretty much perfect. Hips are amazing. Some amount of fat is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:19 PM
9

Women prefer men taller than them, so if he’s not taller, she’s likely to leave or not contribute to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:24 PM
1

They do sometimes approach men, but I strongly feel that it should become the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:30 AM
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No. Women need to either make the approach by default or make women more approachable for men. People are saying a man can approach women if he’s attractive, which I am. But no amount of attractiveness can compensate for my fear of the abuse she’s free to cause without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:27 AM
1

What sign did they give for him to approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:23 AM
1

It’s not just you. I’m trying to date and women keep hitting me with lines like “you could be a murderer!”
/r/MenSupportMen01/04/23 03:46 PM
1

This is correct. The makeup thing is how women deny the massive amount of privilege that’s been given to (most of) them. They sound when Jeff Bezos claims he has no income and therefore doesn’t need to pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:49 PM
-2

But also, women are required to spend thousands of dollars in makeup and clothes to get attention from men... Even though men will fuck anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:30 PM
11

Most women have completely forgotten what femininity is, and now they think it means slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:57 PM
13

Women have spent decades asking for something they don’t really want: equality. Men who are equal to you aren’t sexy enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:54 PM
5

The results I want from women is more effort, which I have no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:52 PM
3

How can I feel safe with a woman when nothing is considered abusive, rude, hateful, or unacceptable so long as a woman does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:54 PM
2

How would I select women who will engage with me during the date and be nice to me? I’ve only met one woman online who did that, and I didn’t use any special strategy that I didn’t use before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:22 PM
6

… do I really have to explain what it means to not give something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:11 PM
9

A partner. Parters provide love and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 PM
3

No. I’ve already had my attractiveness verified by many women and even some gay guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:00 PM
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I’ve met plenty of women in person. They almost never put effort into the date. I take all the initiative and carry the conversation, nearly always. And when I’ve had girlfriends who express tons of attraction to me they still don’t have any interest in contributing to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:10 PM
9

Terrific, thanks for letting me know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
8

I meet that criteria, and women still don’t reciprocate any of my efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:00 PM
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I’m super attractive and having the same problem. I get plenty of matches but women don’t reciprocate an ounce of my effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:58 PM
2

Honestly a very tough choice. I might lean towards the smarter one because higher emotional intelligence could lead to fewer arguments, better communication, and more intimacy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:04 PM
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A woman’s career doesn’t increase my attraction to her whatsoever unless it’s something that can be applied to our life like being a chef, or a painter, or a trainer or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:43 PM
7

Probably closer to average income, and less confident. It’s pretty hard for men to be confident these days, but the possibility of a relationship would increase that confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:59 PM
18

More men would be incentivized to improve themselves to meet women’s now-attainable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:37 PM
2

Yes, I’ve been approached several times as a man, by both women and men. Feels good when it’s a woman ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:28 PM
1

Yes, I’d say so. Men offer plenty of constructive criticism to women, but no matter how respectful it is, it usually doesn’t stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:25 PM
2

You are spot on, unfortunately. The exact thing you described has happened to me like 6 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:04 PM
2

My mom freely abused me and my sister because she knew she was surrounded by liberals who would automatically defend the woman as long as she cried. Her abuse led to my sister’s suicide, and everybody still treats our mom like the victim. That’s a much worse fear than a woman rejecting my advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:50 PM
1

I don’t expend any effort on women’s issues, because women caused my issues intentionally and other women willfully ignore them. Effort towards men’s issues would look like talking about them and at least validating men instead of prioritizing women’s inconveniences and fake problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:48 PM
0

No, it does not have to be based on that hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:21 AM
0

Venting specifically about anything related to women usually qualifies as misogyny and results in a ban throughout most subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:18 AM
4

Quit automatically framing all sexual attraction to adult women as objectification, dehumanization, sexualization, or whatever. It’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:07 AM
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They may know a shitty woman, but they act as if the only thing men possibly have to fear from women is rejection. And that’s not so. Women have a huge amount of freedom to abuse other people, courtesy of liberals and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:48 AM
1

I already answered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:33 AM
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Most of those things are just employing men. Employing men is not respecting or valuing them. It’s just valuing their labor. Respecting men would mean putting forth actual effort toward our issues instead of simply saying you don’t hate men. It might even mean women not being in the spotlight sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:25 AM
5

If men aren’t meeting your standards, help us to meet those standards instead of abandoning us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:07 AM
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Women should stop underestimating how awful some women are. We have a lot more to fear from you than rejection. Stop believing in just world fallacies, such as “women always reciprocate men’s respect.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:06 AM
4

Either make the approach by default, or tell other women to quit vilifying us for approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:00 AM
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Start holding other women accountable when they do bad things. Learn to say “No, Cindy, that thing was indeed your fault. You were rude/harmful/abusive to another person.” Right now tons of women (and liberals who “””respect women”””) just impulsively defend other women always. When women are not held accountable for doing bad things, and are automatically excused, they’re given a huge amount of freedom to abuse others. My mom used this freedom to abuse me and my sister as much as she wanted, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:40 AM
3

Stop pretending you’re fighting for equality if you only ever make effort on women’s behalf. Especially if you then invent new problems for women to stay in the spotlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:32 AM
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The relationships most women seem to be offering are terrible and gynocentric. That’s not an incentive for men to improve themselves. Women have to actually offer good relationships that benefit his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:20 PM
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Women don’t need to change to appeal to men. They just need to not ruin what was given to them naturally. Meaning, don’t get fat and don’t invent reasons to be angry at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:17 PM
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What incentive have women give us to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:23 AM
5

I don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:51 PM
11

It’s the women who need to be told this, not the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:45 PM
19

I’m attractive and women still hit me with lines like “sorry, you could be a murderer.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:44 PM
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They wouldn’t commit to them. That’s what the wall means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:29 PM
5

Usually people go out with someone they’ve chatted online with for a few days, weeks, or even months. You shouldn’t be dating a complete stranger. Why do they have to invest in makeup and clothes? Who’s requiring you to do those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:32 PM
4

Why is it risky for women to go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:22 PM
3

No, they do not. Especially not when you base your belief on a sample of one single workplace. Those guys may be hooking up with older women because young men are usually pretty powerless in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:51 PM
3

They love milfs because milfs are hot by definition. Most moms and older women are not milfs, which is why the term exists in the first place for a special kind of person. You’re arguing that attractive women are attractive, and unattractive men are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:25 PM
4

I get lots of attraction from women and many opportunities to date them, but they almost never put in effort, and they often give some variation of “are you going to murder me!?” which is a turn off. Also, while it may not always be intentional, women’s (and male liberals’) impulsive defense of other women has given women way too much freedom to abuse others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:32 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:40 PM
1

I can only remember one such time, and it was just dinner at Olive Garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:45 AM
2

Arcade, walk in the park, boating, biking, movie, an art class… just about anything non-sport related
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:48 AM
1

Plan dates, meals, shopping, etc. Tell him thanks for doing things, and compliments his strengths, not just his appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 AM
1

Initiative and appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:39 PM
1

I get tons of attraction from women but rarely any effort, and they have too much freedom to cause abuse. I’m single and have pretty much given up trying, at least for the moment. Women aren’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:45 PM
1

Same as men owe women: nothing. But men contribute a heck of a lot more to women than they “owe” them, so if you’re looking for excuses to give nothing back, then don’t pretend you value equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:35 AM
1

I put a lot more effort into my dates than women do. I usually plan it and carry the conversation. I also avoid viewing my own gender through rose colored glasses. I don’t automatically defend men when they’re accused of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:20 PM
1

You’re not legally required to contribute more than the absolute bare minimum to other people of the world, but if you choose to only do the bare minimum, don’t complain when things get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:26 PM
0

I’m also not obligated to avoid letting out enormous farts when there are other people around, yet I do show restraint anyways because I’m not trying to contribute the absolute bare minimum to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:21 PM
1

Yep, there no middle ground between those things /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:51 PM
1

If a woman has kids, she obligated to provide for their basic needs and take responsibility for raising them, as well as carefully choosing their father.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:35 PM
0

You should want to do more for men than what’s owed. If men and women do absolutely nothing for each other besides what’s required by law, love will pretty much go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:31 PM
2

And the jobs don’t pay nearly enough, nor are the interviewers qualified for their own position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:02 PM
6

Maybe a couple, but a drastically reduced number from before she hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:58 PM
14

Terrific! Why are you suddenly giving men the benefit of the doubt? Don’t people usually complain about men only wanting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:48 PM
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Why are you suddenly giving men the benefit of the doubt? Don’t women usually complain about men only wanting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:45 PM
2

“Common denominator” logic is lazy, untrue, and unproductive. Being treated poorly by numerous people doesn’t automatically mean it was your fault. Why isn’t the common denominator the fact that they were all women? Or they all took place in the same country? Or the fact that I was always wearing shoes during the date?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:31 PM
2

Women are not any kinder to me in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:26 PM
3

Banging sexually unattractive people is not sexually satisfying. Do I really need to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:13 PM
1

I found one a year ago, after going through hundreds of Hinge matches. She was amazing, but I didn’t get a second date unfortunately. She was very courteous in rejecting me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:05 PM
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I disagree- I think she’d be happier with a man who meets at least some/most of her expectations than completely alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:02 PM
1

Yes, it does have logic. When an attractive person (especially an attractive woman) has a low body count it shows she has restraint and high standards, which increases her value. I’ll keep my body count preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:46 PM
60

This is correct. Feminists tried to abandon men, and now they complain that men have deteriorated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:25 AM
25

We’re staying far away from modern women, just like you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:10 AM
1

Not sure, why do you ask? I said beauty was the main thing, not the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:22 PM
2

It’s both. Every time men on this sub (correctly) describe femininity they get mocked and ridiculed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:41 PM
3

Wow, men expect TWO whole things from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:16 PM
0

Most women do not need to put effort into their looks. Most of their beauty is given to them for free- no work required. “Going out lots” is not work. And tons of women get free lunches. Many demand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:00 PM
-4

Men mainly seek women who are beautiful. How does her beauty allow him to do less?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:55 PM
22

Taking initiative,fixing your own things, and buying your own meal doesn’t make you a slave. You ought to try actual slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:54 PM
5

I don’t treat my gut feelings like an unquestionable, all-knowing superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:55 PM
1

No. And if she thinks it does, that lowers her attractiveness because it shows she doesn’t understand romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:48 PM
1

Why don’t men just form happy relationships? Are they stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:20 PM
1

I have an extremely short bald friend who got hired at $60k/yr straight out of college. He still out earns me, even though I’m the tall handsome one. You’re talking nonsense. Men need skills to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:27 PM
15

I disagree. Prettiness is like 90% of what women need to have and maybe 30% of what men need to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:09 PM
3

I’m way above average and also struggling. I get lots of attraction from women but rarely any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:29 PM
2

Innocence and purity mainly means she doesn’t want to be angry at me or ruin my life. That’s not hedonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:15 PM
4

Women’s looks are not the problem. Their personalities and freedom to harm others are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:06 PM
4

Most women in the American dating market are not worth competing for. That’s the entire problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:55 AM
9

How are foreign women similar to disabled children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:15 AM
10

Dating abroad isn’t the same thing as abandoning your fatherland. And we’re not asking for help, just for the odds not to be overwhelmingly stacked against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:25 AM
8

*minus the parts of personhood where they’re flawed or capable of abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:07 PM
12

For the most part it’s pretty women who don’t make an effort
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:30 AM
19

I love dating women who are attractive (both inside and out) and put effort into dating me. That just rarely happens during my dating efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:08 AM
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My mom was very abusive to me and my sister and she faced no punishment whatsoever. Everyone protects her. Abuse committed by women seem to just be something I’m supposed to tolerate. This has made me extremely hesitant to interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:50 PM
5

Because men need to try much harder to have an attractive body. They don’t get ass and titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:52 AM
1

Because it’s pretty close to the dictionary definition, which is having qualities traditionally ascribed to women, as sensitivity or gentleness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:23 PM
1

I don’t see most women that way. I see femininity that way. That’s what the question was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:41 PM
-2

Pure of character, supportive, and (mostly) innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:24 AM
10

Dating success isn’t the same as marriage? Uh, yes it is. Marriage is usually the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:53 AM
22

People constantly insult men based on how low they appeal to women, which implies that dating success with women is something they’re supposed to seek. That’s why “incel” is Reddit’s word of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:29 AM
7

Sure they are. One of my colleagues just tried to arrange a competition to see which of us could get the most dates in two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:27 AM
7

how is it "irresponsible" for women to support the police actually investigating sexual assaults, rather than assume all women are liars? It’s not. It’s irresponsible for them to assume every accused man is guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:40 PM
-1

That sounds great. And yet asking women for those things is typically framed as right wing extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:29 AM
29

He’s obviously not saying don’t be yourself. He’s saying it takes a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:46 PM
16

Exactly. There’s a severe lack of accountability for women right now imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:21 PM
2

They’re frustrated that different women want different things? No, I’m frustrated when they act like women unanimously agree on certain topics and men are dense for not understanding. IE, “of course she does/doesn’t want to be approached! It’s so obvious!”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:43 PM
1

I’d be comfortable doing it soon, but I wouldn’t propose it myself until after a few dates and a probably few weeks at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:23 AM
-1

Which men said they don’t care about personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:32 PM
-1

I’ve gotten tons of attraction from women throughout my life, and I’m still complaining about dating, so no, it’s not just low value people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:01 PM
0

If people were happy with the gender dynamics they’d be getting into relationships and cohabitating to save tons of money. Instead, there’s been a drop in marriage rates and everyone’s complaining about how dating sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:13 PM
5

Do you have a source for that? I thought the consensus was that there’s a mental health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:37 PM
3

You think most people are happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:24 PM
3

There is also an appropriate time to blame women and society. Not everything is a man’s own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:14 PM
1

I think a lot of men actually would love to meet a woman who is smart, interesting, fun, etc. but can't even fathom the idea because they haven't met a woman who is any of those things. I agree completely. I’ve been thinking about this a lot. Last year I finally dated a woman who was hot AND had a fantastic personality, and it was like a whole new world. Most women I date don’t make nearly that much effort though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:32 PM
-3

most women still manage to not sexualize men I strongly doubt that. In the presence of an attractive man I think most women would automatically have sexual thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:30 PM
30

True, but for most men, raising their standards almost guarantees they get nothing, which is a scary concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:24 PM
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Second paragraph is not true. Gold diggers pursue men making six figures, not just “decent money.” Fourth paragraph is also wildly untrue. There are TONS of exciting things about a person besides their job. She could be sweet, fun, affectionate, funny, adventurous, etc. Stop trying to convince us to be attracted to masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:53 AM
1

CEOs are usually people who are willing to work 80 hours a week, as I mentioned. And some of them also create their own businesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:22 AM
1

A lot of high IQ men create their own jobs. They’re also more willing to work 80 hours per week than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:41 PM
-1

Men have the highest IQs and the lowest IQs. That’s a large part of the reason there are so many men at the top, and also so many men in jail. That’s not misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:46 AM
24

“How is Jordan Peterson a misogynist?” “He’s a misogynist.” Thanks for clearing that up 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:36 AM
3

Doing many of the things they complain about men doing. Sexually harassing, objectifying, emotional instability, sexism, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:52 PM
12

Approaches women “Just leave women alone! You’re not entitled to our time!” Doesn’t approach women “Grow a pair. Are you trying to live the rest of your life alone?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:14 PM
15

Social Media grants women access to automatic agreement from tons of people for every possible scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:58 PM
1

I’m a guy and I dated a woman once who was chivalrous. She held doors for me and paid for our dinner (after I paid for her movie ticket). She was amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:13 PM
4

She’s rarely going to need physical strength. Why would it matter if she has less?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:16 PM
1

The women I date have been given a huge amount of freedom to abuse other people without consequences, and as a man I’m expected to just ignore that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:06 PM
2

I’d also be her upstanding friend if she wanted, but my priority right now is finding a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:28 AM
2

Where are you finding women who offer love, friendship, and companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:01 AM
1

SOME women have delightful personalities and are enjoyable to be around. I’d gladly be an upstanding boyfriend for such a woman, and am searching for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:54 AM
6

Common denominator logic is stupid and worthless. If a person gets treated poorly by numerous partners, it’s not automatically the person’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:22 PM
3

He’s not angry and demanding women. You made a gigantic strawman argument and asked me to defend it. This sub has to start requiring that you’ve passed the 8th grade…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:53 PM
19

I was going to say something similar. Why should there be a high value man for EVERY woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:16 PM
4

Your comment required way more twisting than theirs. For one, they simply said having a career doesn’t make a woman high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:06 PM
-2

Don’t expect evidence when you offered none to support your own argument. Using emojis doesn’t make you right 🫠🤣🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:00 PM
-2

Nope, they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:43 PM
0

Risk to your body and career are included in the concept of murder. I didn’t ignore them. If you get murdered, your career and body will not fare very well. And Reddit absolutely says that being a woman is dangerous, so I have no idea what you’re grasping at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:30 PM
2

That’s a pretty minor inconvenience to be complaining about, especially from a demographic I’m supposed to believe is oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:17 PM
4

They edited their comment. They were originally talking about effortlessly getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:15 PM
0

What part do you feel I ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:14 PM
0

Doesn’t every woman already have like a 10% chance of dying every day though? That’s what Reddit taught me at least. If that’s the case, why not risk death in a way that makes you a huge profit?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:55 PM
15

How do you plan to achieve sex with little to no effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:37 PM
9

A lack of demand is stopping them from doing that now, and possibly also a sense of dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:36 PM
3

Half these are made up entirely. Media is full of handsome men and women, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:34 PM
0

I do like a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:37 PM
1

not liking the opposite gender is pretty dumb. That’s half the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:36 PM
-1

I like individual women, but no, I generally don’t like their whole gender. They seem to view me in a negative light by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:22 PM
-3

So I should like women because there are many of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:21 PM
2

The woman could wake up as Henry Caville and probably still find a way to not get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:15 AM
1

I spent time in China and it was awesome how women would salivate over me. Students would ask me on dates, or where I live, and things like that. Unfortunately I was trying to stay loyal to my gf, otherwise I could have probably had a harem.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 02:28 AM
7

Some people are better looking than others, welcome to reality
/r/MensRights29/01/23 02:19 AM
0

Because it’s nowhere near as dangerous as some women make it out to be. I’ve dated enough women to notice they have different levels of paranoia around men. Some women are completely comfortable conversing with me and even inviting me into their apartments. Others will ask me right up front if I’m going to murder them, without any reason to accuse me of that sort of thing. These are the type of women you find on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:36 AM
0

The rights women rebelled for only existed in the first place because of men. Instead of being grateful for this, feminists typically complain about not getting rights sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:42 PM
0

It’s also pretty hard to rebel against the British when they’ll declare you traitors and try to kill/imprison you because of it. Again, “not being allowed” didn’t stop the founding fathers from doing it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:59 PM
1

No, you wouldn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:53 PM
0

When has rebelling ever been easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:53 PM
1

They shouldn’t have needed permission. When the founding fathers weren’t allowed to rebel against the British and create the United States, did that stop them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:36 PM
3

it just made me want to fuck anything that would consent. Out of curiosity, how many old women did you bang during this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:25 PM
1

Women make less than men because of their own choices. Women do not get paid lower wages for the same work. Also, being harassed and abused has nothing to do with being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:14 PM
0

Please get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:32 PM
8

I’m not sure if I’m actually attracted to intelligence in a woman, but I’m definitely repulsed if she’s noticably unintelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:30 PM
1

I think they’re pointing out that left-leaning and feminist are essentially the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:27 PM
1

Modesty, kindness, humor, compassion, emotional maturity, and the ability to playfully tease without being hurtful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:25 PM
1

First gf, age 19, she blew me while sitting on my face. Was perfect 👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:51 AM
1

Work out and get in great physical shape. Including dieting decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:47 AM
-1

Terrific. Then maybe we’re talking about other rude things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:22 PM
1

I do support other men. You have no reason to assume I don’t. Both genders sometimes support people they shouldn’t though, and my original comment was saying women should stop praising rude women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:53 PM
0

No, it’s usually “I was mildly inconvenienced by a man” with 20,000 upvotes and a bunch of comments supporting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:13 PM
-5

The TwoXChromosomes subreddit, or any other feminist community
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:42 AM
0

Help me officer, I’m being statistically murdered!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:03 PM
4

This might not be the entire thing, but it’ll give you the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:00 PM
-2

She should at least not be given automatic praise from other people. People have to stop telling women all the time (both explicitly and implicitly) that they’re all kind, intelligent, and generally flawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:58 PM
3

I agree. Most women don’t give an any reason to like, respect, or admire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:34 AM
1

I’ve had a similar experience, and I know it can be hard to appear friendly after you’ve been given repeated negative feedback. Are you already following the usual advice of caring for your physical health? Especially exercising? Exercising will make you more naturally happy and therefore more approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:07 PM
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It doesn’t. It’s a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:47 AM
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I don’t care about women denying me sex. That’s generally their job. I care about them prioritizing my real issues lower than their inconveniences and artificial problems, and then pretending they fight for gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:13 PM
2

I know women are in happy relationships with men who initially approached them in public, and these women STILL urge men should never approach women. Woman can be pretty obllivious to reality sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:35 PM
0

Affection is NOT a resource women can just give away! …Um, yes it is. Saying something kind and affectionate to another person costs you absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:05 AM
1

Not necessarily. Women often use this as an excuse to deny men basic decency and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:39 AM
1

Are you implying the only thing you could give to men is sex? Why not basic respect, decency, and friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:02 AM
1

Who said she doesn’t date by choice? … No one? How is it a privilege to not be assumed to be a criminal? Are you dumb? Sure, but she also runs the risk of being assaulted since men are more like to commit violent crimes. She is not automatically in danger just because crime exists somewhere in the world. Apparently men have every freedom to do the same thing to women Really? You’d automatically agree with me if I blamed something on a woman? I kind of doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:46 PM
2

Couldn’t I use this to justify cheating on my girlfriend? I could just say Sorry honey, you just got outcompeted! But don’t be angry at me, be angry at the woman I cheated with! Wanting the best for myself is perfectly fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:38 PM
2

I’m not turning them off. Several girlfriends have said they love me, or that I would be the perfect husband. My longest relationship lasted 3.5 years before I ended it because of a lack of effort from my girlfriend. As I said, I don’t have a lack of attraction from women, I have a lack of effort from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:17 PM
7

I’m 6’4”, very handsome, and make an upper middle class income, and I’m still struggling. I’ve been single for about 5 years and have only had maybe 8 dates in that time. I get a fair amount of attention from women (they’ve complimented me and sometimes asked for my phone number) and tons of matches on dating apps, but I just get ghosted constantly. I’ve had relationships before and I know how to be a great boyfriend, but women never seem to want to reciprocate my effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:42 PM
2

If she chooses to date, she’ll likely have a much easier time as a woman. She’s never regarded as being a murderer or rapist by default. If someone of the opposite sex does something bad to her, she can stand up for herself and talk about the issue without being dismissed as sexist. The freedom to blame absolutely anything on men if she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:14 AM
1

You say mean things because you’re a cunt, not because you’re happy. There are loads of happy people who don’t feel the need to spread misery unto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:32 AM
5

…Do old people not make spelling mistakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:31 PM
2

No, you’d have to be crazy or incredibly sheltered to not hate ANY women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:27 PM
1

Coming up next, “Men don’t actually care about titties”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:11 AM
1

They are real and don’t require alcohol. They appear in such forms as “bedroom eyes” or women wiggling their hips/butts at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:54 PM
0

He sounds no more ridiculous than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:36 PM
11

As a gorgeous man, I can confirm I get flirted with by women and gay guys regularly, and it is nothing close to the horror that feminists make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:08 PM
0

I am looking. It feels like more than 1 out of 100 women should be girlfriend material. Things won’t get better by never criticisizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:49 PM
2

There’s a severe shortage of women with attractive bodies AND personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:25 PM
5

Sometimes, but it’s also women’s lack of standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:34 PM
1

I could go to any shopping mall and find dozens of real women pretty enough for me to date. SOME men don’t find real women attractive because he’s helplessly porn addicted, but I think that’s a small minority of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:51 PM
1

Be pretty, be affectionate and supportive, and don’t cause tons of problems
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:08 PM
1

Desirable men are only like the top 20% or so, whereas desirable women are like the top 50% at least. So I’d disagree, women have more control over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:06 PM
1

Being admired by many women makes him more sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:09 PM
0

No, that’s preposterous. It’s ruined several generations of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:38 PM
-2

Gaming together is far more enjoyable than reading together. Lots of women game with their boyfriends and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:35 PM
-4

Yes, it has. Feminism guarantees no woman ever has to take criticism or be blamed for her own choices. Every woman can find feminists who will automatically defend her 100% of the time in 100% of possible scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:25 PM
1

Feminists impulsively shoots down 100% of criticism of women, no matter how respectful or correct the criticism is. That directly leads to women being boring and low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:18 PM
-1

Feminism gives women no standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:13 PM
0

Those guys typically don’t automatically told they’re a catch. Men tend not to receive automatic validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:11 PM
1

…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:09 PM
1

I haven’t had only one relationship. Obviously you’re the one who can’t hear me speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:32 PM
1

Having long enough relationships is actually how I developed these beliefs. Most modern women aren’t interested in improving themselves. They’re focused on lowering what’s expected of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:12 PM
2

… So you agree with me. That those things listed are NOT the only things he has to do to meet an average woman’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:51 PM
4

Dump her and search for someone 2 pounds lighter
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:20 AM
1

Why don’t you ask nasty men not to approach women then, instead of all men? Bye, have fun fleeing from the fact that you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:57 AM
1

Being approached by a person you’re not attracted to isn’t “dealing with” anything. You must be extremely privileged if that’s what you’re complaining about. And I hope you don’t also pretend to advocate for gender equality, because I have far worse issues that receive zero support while you hog the spotlight with your inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:44 AM
1

Because you complain about us doing a thing that you admit works. You complain about men approaching you, but you’re thankful your boyfriend approached you. Two OPPOSITE things cannot be true at the same time. Again, your annoyance is a small price to pay for romance to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:33 AM
1

If you met your boyfriend in public, why would you argue most women want to be left alone? Would you be happier if he had never approached you? Women being annoyed is a very small price to pay in order for romance to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:13 AM
3

No, you don’t all want to be left alone. You don’t speak for all women. I have a coworker who was approached by her current husband on a golf course, and they now have a loving relationship. If men always left women alone, their marriage wouldn’t have happened. Would you prefer it if romance was abolished, so you wouldn’t have to be “exhausted” from being approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:54 AM
1

It hasn’t happened to me, because I don’t approach women publicly anymore. Women post to social media on a regular basis venting about being approached. Not harassed, or wronged in any way. Just approached. Try checking out any female-centric subreddit like TwoXChromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:41 AM
0

I don’t care about being rejected. I care about her wanting to be angry at me, which is the route many women take these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:07 AM
-1

So we should just let etiquette die, instead of expect basic decency from people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:50 AM
1

Nobody suggested there was one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:44 PM
4

And you’re guessing that because you think women are perfect. You proved their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:23 PM
16

Their looks aren’t the problem. What industry focuses on improving women’s personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:21 PM
2

If women want to be approached by men, they need to tell other women to stop vilifying men who respectfully approach women. Not every approach is harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:15 PM
4

Telling women they’re automatically valuable leads to entitlement and laziness. Men and woman both have to actually DO things for each other to make a relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:33 PM
0

Pretty much. I just wanted to emphasize that they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:33 PM
6

When he checks these boxes, the majority of women suddenly realize they have more standards than just this. To name a few: He also has to vote the way she wants him to. He also has to give her lots of attention, while simulataneously giving her space. He also has to take most of the initiative, while also knowing what she wants via actual magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:26 PM
2

This is so incredibly true. Then so many women pretend they NEED makeup and expensive clothing, or that they’re risking death by even associating with men, so that they can deny that women’s value is given to them for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:21 PM
1

You’re suspicious if a man starts talking to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:16 PM
1

Possibly, but there’s definitely such thing as a man-child, just as there are woman-children also. Both types of people are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:11 PM
1

And if they’re not dating CEOs, doctors, dentists, etc, that somehow proves they don’t WANT to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:01 PM
-1

Based and blackpilled I slightly disagree though, there’s just an EXTREMELY small selection of women available who are suitable for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:56 PM
18

I’m a very handsome guy and gets lots of matches, so I can testify: There are many options of women who want me to babysit them. There is not an abundance of women who actually are girlfriend/wife material. I know that’s more that a lot of guys have to choose from, but still, just wanted to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:12 PM
1

I’ve never been jumped, but I’m 6’4”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:52 AM
8

Women should sometimes be blamed for things, because things can be women’s fault. If you tire from women ever being blamed, you’re opposing actual gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:54 PM
3

Women initiate the majority of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:54 AM
2

Nonsense! Men will always respect you if you respect them! That’s how it sounds when you say men won’t be vilified when they approach women. People of either gender aren’t always reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:41 PM
2

You’re a dumbass. I’m not insulting you though, I’m just making a note.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:34 PM
2

No, you can't. And you also can't answer incredibly simple questions before you go on to insult other people's intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:23 PM
1

Women don't respect men either, but you tried to tell me they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:21 PM
3

That’s a just world fallacy. It’s like telling women that if they do X, they’re guaranteed to be respected by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:00 PM
2

I have a bachelors degree and an IQ of 136. It seems you just can’t answer my simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:24 PM
2

Education and intelligence are completely different things. How does any man benefit from his woman having a college degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:00 PM
2

Why does a woman’s education really matter in dating? How would her college degree add value to my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:45 PM
5

Yet women vilify men for approaching women in person, no matter how respectful he is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:31 PM
3

It was her ex boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:57 AM
3

Good analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:37 AM
1

More men would view women as potential friends if women would actually be friendly to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:35 AM
4

29M, had 2 girlfriends. First one dumped me for a guy who was better at sex, second became more entitled and immature until I dumped her. For a 40 year old to have had more than like 6 LTRs would probably be a red flag to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:51 PM
0

Exactly. Person you replied to is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:33 AM
1

Did you have a good upbringing and normal parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:46 PM
2

That’s why I added “or whatever.” You set the standard. It just shouldn’t be “never.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:38 PM
6

You act like there’s no middle ground between banging on the first date and complete celibacy. You’re not required to fuck him asap. But if you NEVER do, then he may lose interest. So maybe just wait till you’ve dated him a few weeks/months or whatever and then go ahead. If someone still shames you for that, they’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:25 AM
1

Women don’t make dating appealing for ANY men most of the time imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:17 PM
3

…and attraction leads to emotional investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:37 PM
1

Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:11 PM
11

Yes it is, it’s an emotional investment. That’s why women are so often heartbroken when a guy pumps and dumps her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:42 PM
14

Haven’t you invested less by not banging him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:24 PM
3

Maybe, but most of the pizzas have pineapple on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:34 PM
15

The title is very often true (to the point I pretty much expect it by default), but not always. I’ve had a couple women from Hinge treat me well and I always make an effort to reciprocate their kindness and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:31 PM
2

Choosing not to depend on others’ approval would make me emotionally mature, not internally misogynistic. Dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:39 PM
2

How is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:19 PM
1

That claim is baseless, and even if it were true, do you want men to NEVER defend women if the alternative is saving women but wanting to bone them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:54 AM
0

Men used to be expected to protect women, and be treated with respect in return. Now they’re not. Chivalry is dead, but evidently many men will still protect women simply because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:34 AM
3

Nope, men do protect women a lot of the time. Isn’t that also why women say they pretend to be friends with a guy to avoid being followed by another guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:23 AM
2

Women killed chivalry, so they have no business complaining about this. And men do still protect women often, like in the Brock Turner case. Men stumbled across a rape in progress and stopped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:16 AM
1

The police, as well as many male bystanders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:40 AM
3

There’s nothing to deal with. If I don’t want their dicks inside me, I have a right to decline, and that right will be protected by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:34 PM
3

I’d tell other women to quit being such cunts to men and boys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:57 PM
0

It’s only competition if those men are committing. Otherwise he can bang all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:24 PM
1

Maybe, but oftentimes I think they have no incentive. They don’t feel the women in their area are worth improving themselves for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:04 PM
10

My stepdad did this after my mom destroyed my family. She abused my sister till she killed herself and my stepdad said our mom deserved support because she was taking a difficult chemistry class.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 03:37 PM
15

I guess feminists breathe a sigh of relief when a murderer turns out to be female
/r/MensRights28/11/22 01:58 AM
4

Don’t let women pretend they’re “fighting for gender equality” by downplaying men’s issues always and prioritizing fake problems like the wage gap.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 04:05 PM
0

It appears often in woke media, like the infamous Gillette commercial where a man was stopped just for trying to talk to a woman on the street. Combine that with women complaining about men approaching them at all (no matter how respectfully) and it’s reasonable that men would get the impression they’re expected to never approach women.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 03:15 AM
2

Good. The Woke climate vilifies us for approaching women, even if we’re respectful about it.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 01:49 AM
2

Ask women to take initiative if she likes a guy. Or at least give him unmistakably clear signals.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 06:55 PM
10

It is a gender thing. My mom wouldn’t have been rewarded for her abuse if she were a man.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 10:11 PM
0

No, I’m afraid of women for a different reason- nothing is abusive when a woman does it.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 09:17 PM
38

Giving out 2.6 million $5 dumpster BJs
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/22 07:01 PM
3

When women have the opportunity to talk about whatever issues they want, it’s VERY common for them to complain about bullshit, and that leads people to believe women must not have more serious problems to complain about. Most first world feminists don’t complain about serious issues. They complain about being catcalled and interrupted, what gender the president is, and the “injustice” of women being paid less money just because they did less work.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 03:28 PM
6

Worldwide? There are women who are actually oppressed, can’t go to school, are forced into arranged marriages, and more. First world feminists haven’t experienced any of these things. Instead of tackling the issues, they try to include themselves in those oppressed groups as an excuse to do less work. And while doing so they choose to hate men for no reason, and frame all backlash as misogyny.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 03:19 PM
7

I didn’t imply women don’t face problems. Some of women’s problems are completely fictional, like the gender wage gap, and those fictional problems usually receive more attention than men’s actual problems.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 03:10 PM
7

Feminism is absolutely about placing women at a higher position in society. The way Feminists convince themselves they want equality is by creating an imaginary version of men’s lives, and then saying they want to be equal to the status they imagine men have. If feminists actually wanted equality, men’s problems would matter more than women’s inconveniences and fictional problems, but they don’t.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 03:01 PM
4

There are also tons of things women are supposed to be capable of, and tons of things men are supposed to be forbidden to do.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen18/10/21 09:07 PM
4

-has pure thoughts like Gaston!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/21 04:04 AM
14

Was gonna say, they each own 10 silicon copies of something they claim has no value
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 03:01 AM
0

Shouldn’t it be tight/loose pussy energy, not big/small?
/r/AntiFeminists26/09/21 07:35 PM
16

That’s what a pedo would say. Only children take care of their bodies.
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/21 01:39 PM
1

You mean they’re not really made of bacon?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/21 06:59 PM
7

Well organized and articulate arguments
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/21 04:32 AM
11

I struggle to imagine a modern woman doing even one of these things
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/20 08:01 AM
0

The butt
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:14 AM
1

I'm 6'3". My techniques are to smile and dress well. Then you come off as a jolly giant and not a mugger.
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:15 PM
1

No jk
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 11:46 AM
71

I’m 9, pls explain
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 05:57 PM
1

Is it really too much of a stretch to suggest that at some time in human history there has been a woman who actually was too sensitive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/19 03:22 AM
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