TheEldritchHorror Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	A Queen Grandmama. I remember after my parents got divorced, my grandma carefully cut out outlines from pieces of black construction paper and covered up my dad in all of her framed family pictures. It was actually pretty funny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 09:10 AM
7	Trauma will keep you in a loop of your past Well it was that or have another nervous breakdown, I think I made the right choice lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 03:01 AM
102	Trauma will keep you in a loop of your past I’m working through a ton of poor coping mechanisms I learned from childhood trauma right now with my therapist. It’s amazing and disquieting how much things that happened 20 years ago still affect us. Everything self-destructive thing I do is because I’m terrified of rejection, and I realize now that I can’t be in a healthy relationship until I lose that mindset. At least it isn’t just me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 05:15 PM
34	Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independence I’m 29 and have been on maybe 4 dates, with guys I didn’t even like. It’s hard not to feel like there’s something wrong with me. This makes me feel better about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 10:34 PM
43	Patriarchy 🤮 I’m a child of divorce and I can tell you that I would have been mentally and emotionally better off if my parents had divorced much earlier. Never stay together for the kids, growing up watching your parents’ toxic marriage is more damaging.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 02:22 AM
53	Patriarchy 🤮 A family friend went to her pastor because her husband would get drunk and beat her. The pastor told her that she needed to stay and support him because he was struggling with his alcoholism. Shameful and disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 02:20 AM
29	❤️❤️ My mom taught me from a young age that every woman needs to be financially independent. We both know too many women who are stuck in bad situations because they depend on men to support them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/20 08:53 PM
4	Is there anything more suddenly feeble than a man being held accountable? Last time I checked the Golden State Killer is trying the same bullshit. Trying to look like a feeble old man 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/20 07:39 PM
34	JUST👏🏼SAY👏🏼NO👏🏼TO👏🏼TACO👏🏼BELL👏🏼 😂 I had a date once that literally consisted of walking down the railroad tracks listening to him talk about glass insulators. We didn’t last long.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 09:29 PM
54	Well god damn. And these are usually the same guys who whine that they’re being “emasculated” if a woman can pay her own way or, heaven forbid, makes more money than them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/19 04:31 PM
29	Tis the season! It was a really nasty divorce so there were some extreme feelings flying around. I do love my dad, but I’ll admit that he wasn’t a good husband to my mom. It’s been another ten years since then and I’ve resolved my issues with him, and the rest of the family is civil on the rare occasions that they interact.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/19 06:25 PM
55	Tis the season! My grandma has a bit of a dilemma when my parent’s 20 year marriage ended because my dad was right in the middle of all the pictures. Her solution was to cut out black construction paper in his shape and paste it over him. So we’d have all the family members and some random black blob.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/19 05:05 PM
15	Never let him "talk you into" sex. I really needed to read this! I want to try online dating but I’m so worried that he’ll expect to have sex right away that I’ve always held off on trying it. I’m tired of feeling like an old-fashioned prude because I won’t “put out” for a man who’s practically a stranger.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 04:50 PM