TheEngDude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Someone please differentiate the differences between "Oneitis" and "Actually have reasonable feelings and want to be a couple" Great responses so far. To make things even more concise: Healthy: Wanting somebody Oneitis: Needing somebody	/r/seduction	21/07/11 01:32 AM
2	Alright I've done it, I've got a girlfriend. Now how do I keep up the attraction? Here's the mindset I like to take. Now, instead of chasing multiple women to keep you from being overly dependent on one person, chase multiple life goals. Yes, you should always be doing this but presumably you were putting a lot of time into going out and going on dates with girls before so now you should have more time to put towards dreams. Be a high status person and continue to surprise her with how motivated you are and what you can achieve. Having lots of energy and passion is contagious…	/r/seduction	16/07/11 05:39 PM
1	BayArea Seddit Lair? Calling all BayArea Sedditors, Meet Up This Week 23 and in SF. Definitely have some sticking points I'd like to work on and can contribute where I've had success as well. Email will be messaged.	/r/seduction	23/02/11 08:06 AM
2	Finally built up enough courage to call her on the phone and ask her out... damn its rough stomaching a rejection. Both ways are valid, it's all in the presentation. It's definitely possible to frame saying "What time should I pick you up?" in a playful manner that doesn't come off as douchey.	/r/seduction	12/02/11 02:11 PM
1	Any good guides on how to flirt and being playful? I'm a small town guy who typically picks up small town girls. My advice is to know your audience. Some of these girls laugh at sarcasm but yes, some just think you are being an idiot when you say things like "I'm homeless." Throw a few things out there at first and see what sticks. Whatever they respond best to keep pushing that angle. In general though, if they don't like sarcasm, I tend to take the genuine guy approach, which I find to be along the lines of being a nice guy but not a push over…	/r/seduction	06/02/11 08:46 AM
1	I met with people from online yesteday. I feel pathetic seddit. I don't think there is anything wrong with using the Internet to meet girls. Yes, there are desperate girls online but there are quite a few high self esteem girls as well that are looking for something specific that they may not have had luck finding through random encounters in their day to day. Internet dating is becoming much more commonplace these days. Your description leads me to question, why are you meeting up with girls online that you say you are not interested in? Read their profile …	/r/seduction	06/02/11 08:26 AM
2	[fR] Girl on the bus Innocently ask her if she is going to a modeling class.	/r/seduction	06/02/11 01:03 AM
2	From the Couch to the Bedroom: How To? This sounds a little overly complicated to me. There are two different points in this routine where she could say no or ruin the mood in some way. I think the best way would be to just pick her up and carry her to the bedroom cave man style while making out.	/r/seduction	19/01/11 06:49 AM