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1	Lateral Game: The Fundamental Kernel of Natural Game Sigh... that is not how research works my friend. Scientists don't just use observation, they also use experimentation. Good experimental design will prevent self-selection with random assignment. So, they will have men of all different heights, attractiveness levels, social charm, income levels etc. in each test group. Then one group uses the PUA methods and the other group more traditional methods. The men who used tactics like negging fared worse than the men who were kind and focused on groo…	/r/seduction	18/01/19 06:20 PM
1	I have a problem Didn't miss the point, I just disagree.	/r/seduction	18/01/19 06:07 PM
1	I have a problem Matches may be holding you back but not all guys. Don't project your stuff on everyone else...	/r/seduction	18/01/19 06:06 PM
0	I have a problem Sure, this subreddit may be about seduction, but but he mentioned severe anxiety and that's what I addressed. If you feel you know more about this subject feel free to offer some actual insight. Didn't see you offer anything useful to him... Becoming good at seducing women does not address anxiety. In fact, rejection is going to make it worse for him than other people. A match, or an LTR is better in my opinion. And he should do this soon before, god forbid, he starts going bald.	/r/seduction	18/01/19 06:01 PM
1	Have a hard time picking up signals as my mind negatively interprets it as something else Sure, I can take a look.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 09:16 PM
1	How do I stop being do triggerhappy on dating apps/sites? Just keep being you.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 09:02 PM
2	Have a hard time picking up signals as my mind negatively interprets it as something else It appeared she was staring at your lips. She could also have had a lot on her mind and staring blankly. Unfortunately, I did this to a professor's crotch once :\| Lol...hopefully it was your lips. Maybe ask her a friendly non-threatening question like what is her favorite restaurant in town. If she is interested in chatting, then invite her to eat there with you.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 08:59 PM
2	Made things awkward with a co-worker. How do I fix it? If you feel the need to say something, maybe something like, "Hey, I know I got a little celebratory last night. I hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable. I want you to know I respect you professionally and you don't have to worry about me bothering you again. If there is ever anything I can do to be helpful here at work, feel free to let me know." Smile and play it off while maintaining confidence and recovering your dignity. Then leave her alone!	/r/seduction	17/01/19 08:56 PM
0	I have a problem Dude, I am decent looking and a fairly good conversationalist but I have had WAY more dates bomb than were "successful." I think that's really normal. Not because you are so terrible, but because most people just aren't a match. Think of the dozens of women you meet a week than are not a match: older, younger, too religious, not religious enough, different smoking habits, incompatible lifestyles, wrong political party, opposing views on number of kids to have, and so on. They are not bad people,…	/r/seduction	17/01/19 08:22 PM
1	Lateral Game: The Fundamental Kernel of Natural Game The most successful people with women aren't working on self talk to succeed with women. They're not deliberately practicing and honing their seduction skills. Preach! Research shows that those who do try the PUA methods are actually less successful than nice guys. This "lateral" approach is just putting your energy into more valuable pursuits in terms of women; educated, traveled, happy in your career, accomplished are each WAY sexier than put-downs any day.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 08:12 PM
1	Why Are Women In Relationships More Friendly and Receptive While Single Girls Act More Guarded Towards Me? I might be more affectionate around guys because they know I am not available and are less likely to misinterpret my affection as interest. I am less affectionate around men if there is a chance they might be lead on/encouraged. Also, women are not mind readers. Just because they are single doesn't mean they know you are interested in them. If I like a guy and neither of us has made a move, I don't assume he feels the same way. I won't know you are interested until you ask me out on a date.	/r/seduction	17/01/19 07:59 PM
4	Tinder date...lol Leave her alone. She is not interested in you the way you want her to be. Do not waste any more energy on a lost cause. Be grateful she respected you enough to be honest. Get ready for your next date and hopefully you'll have chemistry with her. Good luck!	/r/seduction	17/01/19 07:53 PM