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TheExodian/r/seduction31/08/19 11:22 PM
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So this is my opinion: I feel that hookups devalue you as man because you need to just relegate yourself to your base desires (I’m attractive enough to get laid by this woman). As a man interested in hookups you are devaluing your needs and desires as a man just to get laid. That’s why I said fuck hookups. Find someone who brings meaning to your life. You’ll know what I mean when you find them. -TheExodan
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:11 AM
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As a neuroscientist I know there are studies that cover that. You can find it yourself, using Google Scholar just search Male Attractiveness. If you want scientific journals you’ll have to turn to research institutions.
/r/seduction28/12/20 02:01 PM
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I totally understand your point, when I was still a virgin I was super scared of everything, especially STDs. I was concerned more with us loving each other before we would seal the deal. Correct me if i am wrong, but It sounds to me that you are struggling with finding the right person to make you feel at ease, in my experience it is not wrong to question your potential boyfriend or girlfriend if they have had any encounters with STDs. Unfortunately I am a guy and I don’t physically understand …
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:53 PM
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I have been in a similar situation, have you had a relationship that you weren’t in long distance? Also if you don’t mind answering, when did you two break up (time wise I.E 3 months 7 months etc.)
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:41 PM
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Was there a point where this started? Like when did you notice the loss of feeling and intimacy.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:30 PM
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So like the top comment said should I start with conversation and try to lead it in that direction with like an Amused Mastery approach (there’s a post about it in hot posts current)? How would you go about it? Or should I just focus on college girls?
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:40 PM
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Well I’m seeing this job as a forward to pushing me through my career I work as a bartender, server, and I am becoming their sommelier so I don’t know if workplace romance would benefit me or actually hinder my time there. I’ve established myself as a reliable part of the business. Should I just focus on my college girls? I am a senior so I don’t have too much time left
/r/seduction01/09/19 01:39 PM
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What do you mean? Like in life or the actual game?
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:51 AM
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Novel way to think about it. I love it. What do you believe the Smough and Orenstien of seduction? In my personal opinion for most guys I think it would be approach anxiety and confidence.
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:46 AM
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Frankly yeah you do have it in the bag man. I’d be careful of who you hit up just because you don’t want to get tangled up in younger girls crap. You’ll definitely be a catch at CU not every girl in college gets to date someone who’s a veteran.
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:04 AM
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We can’t solve all the problems right now. You need to make sure YOU are ready for this girl in your life. From the sounds of it and what everyone else is saying you have to not come off as desperate and clingy. If you want this girl that badly and SHE LIKES YOU and thinks you’re attractive. Take pride in that seriously. I’ve been in your shoes before recently but I learned to be confident in myself and be happy with my own life which took years of dedication to myself before I met the girl who …
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:19 PM
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Man same here, we’ve got a lot on our mind and a tremendous amount to say, some people are intimidated by the body of someone who’s in shape and those who are smart and are confident enough to not be fake. Don’t doubt your genuineness. I know people don’t seem to like those who are sure of themselves in those regards. Especially physical attractiveness is a key part, but to have a strong mind and person behind it make some people feel that they couldn’t measure up and they could never reach your…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:38 AM
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I’m in the same boat dude. My ex literally told me she was intimated by me before she stared talking to me. Are you someone who’s outspoken? Have you ever been called like intense? Do you always speak your mind? Even if you don’t think you’re confident do people say you come off as if you are?
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:12 AM
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Damn I used to do that all the time then sex came into the mix and shit and I got so focused on that I forgot about just connecting. Bro that’s smart af
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:41 PM
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Two words Active Listening. Listen with the intent to learn and not to answer or interrupt. You need to ask questions that make them more into talking about themselves, make sure you connect back to what they were saying to make them feel that they are understood. See where the conversation goes and if you see another interesting side road developing throw caution to the wind and go for it. But it needs to be bit by bit. From initial interaction being cool and it being normal to talk to them to …
/r/seduction14/02/19 11:11 PM
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Ok man then let me think. Because now you present the challenge to me fam. Won’t have anything till tomorrow though
/r/seduction07/02/19 04:37 AM
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Just discovered School of Life recently but seriously this shits fire https://youtu.be/vWy3C38U7Lw
/r/seduction07/02/19 04:20 AM
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I can try my best my man. My first piece of advice is are you sure no woman has considered you attractive? Let me tell you the girl I thought in a million years wouldn’t want me and I crushed on for years. Turns out she had a major crush on me. Like this girl is an easy 10/10. Value yourself more. Work on you, and if you love yourself and can portray confidence that shits sexy af. Guys ask how do i get that? How is that possible? Confidence is just being proud of you and believing in yourself an…
/r/seduction07/02/19 04:13 AM
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Gotchu man.
/r/seduction07/02/19 01:02 AM
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Disclaimer I’m a dude but I have a good understanding of nonverbal cues: Ladies if you’re reading this please critique me so I can learn (but most if not all of it applies for both of you). These are subliminal, you don’t even know you’re doing them. Some of these are commonly misinterpreted as romantic signs where they can be friend signs so be cautious. Look at how her body language is around you. Follow this acronym: FESTER, Facial Expression (Does she “light up” around you, excited, engaging…
/r/seduction07/02/19 12:50 AM
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Stay with the girl who gives you the time, the one who wants to be with you. The one that’s RIGHT for you. You should write a list of things you want in a relationship and what you don’t. I suggest watching this: How to Choose a Partner Wisely . It helps believe me. I wish you all the best.
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:57 PM
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So then there’s this whole movement I’ve been hearing about the cool vs. the warm man. School of Life does it justice so watch it How to be a Man . But anyways. Games important I can see that but if you’re actually trying to get cuffed and you go from this arrogant asshole to your actual self if you can manage to stop acting or feel comfortable with them to do that, do you believe that would benefit you or not?
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:34 PM
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