TheEyesHaveEyes Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU? This works, albeit to varying degrees. Yes, better yourself in every conceivable way possible; you should already be doing this in order to live a fulfilling life. It is not a process that has an end, you must maintain some level of self-awareness throughout your journey of finding the right woman and beyond. Sure, if you take the time to make yourself look good (well-fitting clothes, grooming, lifting weights, etc), better your career, and improve your social circle then women will gravitate to…	/r/seduction	18/09/15 10:41 PM
3	Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc.. Alternatively, what are the differences between cute, hot, & handsome? I usually get the "you're so handsome" kind of deal but rarely ever get the "you're hott" (with two t's)	/r/seduction	09/09/15 03:33 PM
1	Sudden, shitty realization. You need to not give a fuck. Once you do this, you'll be free to dance like an idiot in front of anyone you please... no one will remember you if you don't do these things.	/r/seduction	04/08/15 12:20 PM
1	I can't f*** new girls, or any girl, the first time !! I had this problem briefly with a girl I was seeing for a month or two. What you need to do is get into the mindset that you're about to blow this girl's mind. Get jacked up about the fact that you're about to give it to this girl; think "she doesn't know what she's about to experience, because I'm the fuckin man and I'm about to break this girl in half." Foreplay can sometimes get you pretty confident... go down on her, think about how good you're about to make her feel. Honestly, you probably …	/r/seduction	04/08/15 12:17 AM
0	Please help me You need to live in the moment man. When you're in a situation like this you should be thanking the universe for giving you this opportunity. Just start speaking, don't think about "the best thing to say," just start talking like you would with one of your buddies. Make solid eye contact, smile, laugh, and just do whatever the hell you want... women are attracted to men who are confident in themselves. Tell stories, make jokes, be the leader of your buddies at the party, as if you're the one tha…	/r/seduction	21/07/15 01:55 PM
3	Handsome guys of Seddit, can you easily get girls just by your looks? I've never considered myself overly attractive, I'm definitely good looking, but I wouldn't say I'm a Pierce Brosnan or anything. Lately I've been really taking care of myself - dressing well, eating healthy, going to the gym, personal hygiene, etc. and the outcome has been huge. I've gotten girls just by walking into the bar and having them eyeball me immediately... and then waiting for them to come over and buy me a drink (this has happened multiple times over the past month). Basically you ca…	/r/seduction	07/07/15 12:08 PM
1	Let a girl know i'm interested While I'm not the best at kino right off the bat, making direct eye contact with a smile on your face does wonders. There was a post on here a while ago that described this technique as "trying to look at your reflection in her eyes." Not just looking at them, but staring into the depths of her soul. A well placed, unexpected wink could also be useful. Just flirt, thats the only way to tell her without spelling it out.	/r/seduction	05/07/15 11:19 PM
1	How to get over this sick feeling that women inherently hate me? If you're thin and lanky hit the gym. I know this sounds obvious but combining regular workouts (45-60 mins) with a healthy yet overabundance of calories.. maybe in your situation 3k/day, will help you bulk up a bit. I used to be a tall (6'3") and slightly thin-athletic type but with 6 months of weekly workouts I now weigh in ~200 lbs and the girls that have recently seen me naked definitely like what they see. This will go a long way and will be something that will help with your ego long-term.…	/r/seduction	23/06/15 11:36 PM
1	[Question] What is the Ultimate Book? Becoming Animal by David Abram... the best comprehensive analysis of the human condition I've ever read. It completely changed my outlook on life all together.	/r/seduction	23/06/15 10:17 PM