TheFaeBelieveInIdony Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience You still have to be the initiator usually. But the reception is nicer if you look nice. Otherwise, there might be something else off-putting about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 08:15 AM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I'm 27	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:06 PM
2	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I don't think you know what male fashion is if that's your definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:05 PM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism I think that's more of a parasocial relationship thing than a status thing. People, men and women, usually with mental illness, become obsessed with celebrities all the time and feel like they know them. They're not going to develop feelings that way with the average person because the average person isn't available in a way for them to develop a parasocial relationship. It happens with small influencers, too, who develop stalkers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:33 AM
–	Women who are saying they are not interested in a suitor, are not withholding/concealing anything, they are just being nice. I've never met a man in my personal life who can't pick up on basic social cues like that, I've only ever seen men complain about that stuff online. I think it's just poor social skills	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:13 AM
1	Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choice its not like men are the ones laser-swiping left on anyone who doesn't have the proportions of a starlet Are women doing this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:09 AM
1	Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee dates I've never rejected a coffee date. I would not get dinner for a first date, I want the option to get up and leave at any moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:04 AM
0	Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase" Sure. I still think any old person who dates someone who doesn't have their brain fully developed is creepy	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:03 AM
2	All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offer More than not having all the things that I want in a human, I find there to be a long list of cons that come with partnering with a man. It's a personal preference, but I've always found having a man around actively made my life worse rather than better or even neutral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:01 AM
5	Setting the Negativity Aside, In Your Opinion Which Broad Trend(s) Is/Are Headed in a Good Direction? Speed dating events are becoming more common. There's different companies hosting one almost every week where I live. They're successful and I'm assuming it's because people don't want to do online dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:54 AM
2	Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not? I think anyone who generalizes and hates a whole group of people because of their experience with one, likely has some major mental illness going on. I wouldn't make fun, but I also wouldn't seek out talking to someone like that at all. These are adults you're talking about, they need to grow up and move on. But also, men being cheated on and then becoming red pill ppl is not something I've ever considered. My immediate assumption is probably closer to red pills being incels who hate their mothe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:46 AM
4	Passport bros (i.e. men who visit certain countries or relocate solely to get a much younger, submissive gf/wifeu from a more conservative culture) shouldn’t really complain about gold diggers. Or at least green card enthusiasts. That’s a tradeoff they have to accept In fact, I'd probably pretend to be vietnamese diaspora from Russia because I speak Russian from doing a language minor instead of an American specifically to avoid gold diggers and passport seekers I think it would be lonely and hard to develop a genuine connection with anyone if you're leading with such a big lie. It's not hard to spot someone golddigging, as long as you talk to them a lot and try to have lots of deep convos to get to know them	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:43 AM
11	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I often find men from other cultures attractive, like Europe or East Asia or even some parts of the Middle East, because they put a lot of time into wearing nice clothes, styling their hair, having good hygiene, and smelling nice. I live in Canada, and the amount of Canadian adult men I see walking around in jean shorts or basketball shorts and hoodies or video game related t-shirts is astounding. I don't personally know any adult Canadian men that style their hair. My point being - men choose t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:27 AM
11	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience At least in my experience, most fat women I know date fat men. Couples I've seen where one is skinny are usually fat man - skinny woman, but those aren't super common, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:22 AM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience As a woman, I don't enjoy the dating process or think it is fair for me, either. I also don't think it's on the same level as a job, as we all need to work to survive. A romantic relationship is not a necessity and something I have decided to opt out of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:19 AM