TheFeistyNun Archive

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2	[deleted by user] It all boils down to seeing your efforts as transactional or not. As a woman I’ve struggled with this theme in friendships. If you’ve always been taught that you can achieve anything by hard work and grit, it’s kind of a bummer to realize it doesn’t apply to all fields of life. And that you can invest a shit ton of time and money on a friendship and still not be guaranteed with a fun and loyal friend that can stand the test of time. I think dating is the same. As soon as you view it transactiona…	/r/seduction	31/10/20 04:38 AM
-5	Naming your philosophy after something that represented objective reality in a movie doesn't make it that. Replace ‘pessimists’ with ‘misogynists’ and you have yourself a deal.	/r/seduction	08/10/20 03:55 PM
5	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Yes, same! Although I have to say I’m used to asking guys out, too. Not cold approaches on the street or anything, but if I’m already in some sort of contact and I see potential: sure. Coffee never hurts.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 09:50 PM
6	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? This is also why it’s really attractive if a guy picks up on that. It happens so often that their competitive side is triggered when I prove to be a slightly more difficult target. Newsflash, it’s not a game that you need me to lose in, in order to get a number. It’s a game that we both need to win in.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 09:47 PM
7	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Exactly. We crave real connection just as much, only have too much bad experiences. Find a way through the armour and you’re practically solid.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 09:41 PM
11	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? Oh, I have another tip. I’m also a woman who can come off quite sarcastic and bitchy. What really works is if guys don’t try to ‘win’ this back and forth game at any price. It helps if at some point a guy smiles disarmingly as if to say ‘okay that was fun but let’s get real now’ and then show a more vulnerable side. ‘But seriously. You’ve got something. I really would like to get to know you.’ To me, that approach feels like someone actually reaches out to who I am on a personal level, and to su…	/r/seduction	03/10/20 04:49 PM
10	How do you guys pickup highly sarcastic women that seem bitchy when approached? As a woman, I’d say: don’t take it personal and therefore don’t let it throw you off guard. She doesn’t know you yet, so she’s responding to the earlier unpleasant interactions she’s had and is expecting again. She’s not actually responding to you as a person (unless you have an unpleasant approach). Just be confident and accept the fact that it might still be a no, regardless of how much of a catch you are. You don’t need to prove her your worth in the first interaction.	/r/seduction	03/10/20 04:38 PM
1	You can't make someone love you. Good post. I would like to add that also, don’t take it personal if your needs don’t align. If someone is not ready for a relationship, then they’re not ready. This has nothing to do with you. The fact that they don’t spin on a dime and change their mind just because it’s you, doesn’t mean you’re not a great person and a perfect match. So it should not be a reason to let it ruin your self worth.	/r/seduction	15/09/20 09:22 AM
4	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! The line is when they don’t leave me alone if I say ‘no thanks’. However, most days I just want to be left alone with my thoughts and it’s still a nuisance to be approached, by anyone at all. I will have the courtesy to make this clear in a kind manner but I still don’t like it. Nothing to be done about that I’m afraid. I usually avoid busy places because of this. EarPods help a lot, too.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 09:15 PM
4	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! I dunno, I am pretty happy and optimistic and believe that we can spread positivity in the world like a self fulfilling prophecy. Most people take it for what it is: kindness. And some believe I gave them permission to harass me. Those people suck.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 08:26 PM
1	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! Haha, yes, true. And for that same reason I find it difficult to rudely shut them off. Which some of them greedily take advantage of.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 07:48 PM
2	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! I can see your point, too, however it’s rather too much than too little for me and the last thing I need is more men being encouraged to give me unwanted attention. But if they were all to agree that ‘no thank you’ means ‘and please don’t push it’ then we’d be a lot further as a whole, haha.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 07:37 PM
5	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! No I really disagree. I can hardly go out and be polite without constantly being approached. Sometimes - most of the times - I just don’t want that. I still want to show basic kindness though so I smile at people but that doesn’t mean I owe them my time. I don’t mind women coming up to compliment me on my dress because they will usually leave me alone after that. Men, however, never seem to be able to take ‘no thanks’ and go into lengthy patronizing discussions on why I should not turn their inv…	/r/seduction	12/09/20 07:19 PM
1	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! Nooooo no no no guys please do not take OP’s advice. I’m a woman too and am genuinely CREEPED OUT by guys coming up just because I smiled. Please no. Just no. If I like you, I’ll come and talk to you. If you ignore my advice, don’t be surprised if women increasingly start using their bitch shield. I feel forced to do that sometimes and I hate it.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 06:57 PM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? (Thanks for taking the time to wait! I don’t mind sharing my views on your response, but we’re drifting off topic and also, discussing in another language takes quite its toll on my energy balance lately. Don’t hesitate to add me as a reddit friend, I’d be happy to restart a discussion like this someday, as I too value the chance to look through someone else’s perspective. However for now I’ll call it a day. Thanks for turning this into something constructive and maybe till a later time!)	/r/seduction	31/08/20 04:48 PM
3	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I severely recognize what you write about depression. I suffered from the worst one I’ve ever encountered only last year. It was the loneliest experience ever. Friends dropped me under the pretense of ‘protecting their boundaries’, even my therapist dropped me because ‘computer says no’ and I had to claw my way up in a bureaucratic system to get help whilst battling the monster in my chest. It was brutal. So yes... even being a woman didn’t save me here. I’m in a better place now. But still. Ple…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:48 AM
2	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? Some are. But I’ll always have to choose between ignoring a person in emotional need or being accused of friend zoning. As long as I can muster I will choose the second, because I don’t want anyone suffering without me trying to solve it. Even if it means they lead themselves on.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:34 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? Well, I think I fundamentally disagree on the ‘men being better suited for certain jobs’ part. I will keep it short as I have other obligations as well. But I think it’s a fundamental misconception that men are better at leading. In my book, leading means serving the community and holding space for the weaker, with compassion and kindness. I don’t see how women would be worse at that then men.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:32 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? Thanks! I find that’s indeed what happens if I come across a guy that’s been ‘emotionally liberated’ so to put it, haha. They are not threatened by me or my ambition. In awe, rather. I find that level of confidence very attractive.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:29 AM
5	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? This kind of stuff breaks my heart. This is exactly the reason why statistics show that men are many times more likely to self medicate through alcohol and drugs, and also a multitude more likely to commit suicide. Realizing this is more important than you think. Please try to find the strength to reach out until someone will listen. A male friend, a female friend, a counselor, anyone. We are not meant to keep everything to ourselves. And men out there who do feel comfortable with their feelings…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:19 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I don’t identify with any movement that is too radical and shuns discussion. And as said, I’m not US based so I can only really relate to the ones here in the Netherlands. I’m not sure about the job issue. On one hand I feel that positively discriminating women still reduces us to nothing more than a gender. On the other hand, the difference between male/female leads are still staggering. I wonder if ‘forcing the new normal’ for a while might break the patterns that hold it this way. But I’m not…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:07 AM
2	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? It can be quite draining yes. If you feel its very bad, a professional counselor might be of help. I needed this as a female, too, when I started to burden my friends too much. But it also depends on their level of boundaries. A stable person is able to help a friend without being dragged down. Just don’t expect them to solve it for you, though. And... thumbs up to you big time for starting.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 10:04 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I think this is the core of it all. To view another group based on its most outspoken/aggressive members and eruptions. I realize that feminism has a image issue that largely overshadows the pure goals that the majority strives for. Just like you mentioned. Therefore I’m grateful that we are finding each other here. Thank you for sharing this with me.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 09:50 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I appreciate your long post and I think we have a lot of common ground. The biggest issue here might be the F word that for me signifies exactly what you want as well, but for many people has the notion of wanting to emasculate or overpower men.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 09:08 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? That will be the same answer as your question about good masculine traits. But now I’m curious about your view on this matter?	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:45 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I feel like you’re trying to derail me by your persistent focus on the difference between masculine and feminine traits. I’m uncomfortable with that. So unless this discussion takes a turn and you actually reply on the contents of what I’m saying, I will have to withdraw from it.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:38 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I don’t know. I never think about that. What do you think it means?	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:29 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I’m not sure I differentiate anymore between masculine and feminine. I rather think of ‘good human traits’ which would benefit people from all genders and the quality of their contact as well. And those traits, well I haven’t really gone listing them. But considering the topic of my rant above, I suppose it would be something like having a healthy relationship with your emotions and affectionate needs, being able to express what you feel in a healthy, responsible and accountable way. Setting hea…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:18 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? As stated above: the need to be strong and tough, not crying or sharing emotions or fears.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:12 AM
1	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I missed this comment. Thank you for reaching out to find a common ground. That’s very constructive. I have no idea what it’s like to be a man in 2020. So I don’t know your experiences in life. All I know from men that I’ve spoken to and that is what made me conclude that we as a society are harming boys by imposing toxic masculine standards on them (just as we are imposing toxic feminine expectations on girls).	/r/seduction	31/08/20 08:06 AM
2	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I feared that you were twisting my words for an opposite agenda. Hence why you deliberately kept vague on these ‘groups’. I consider myself to be a feminist, meaning I want equal rights for all genders. And I think this benefits men, as it frees them from toxic expectations that ruin their mental and emotional health and perceptions of love. I am not blind to the suffering that society has brought upon men. But if you’re trying to hang me up on my intentions to change this, then we have nothing …	/r/seduction	31/08/20 07:54 AM
5	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? I’m not sure what you’re referring to as I’m not from the US. In any case I hope that our generation can somewhat undo the toxic expectations that men were held to for too long. I’m not kidding when I say that feminism helps men, too.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 07:48 AM
7	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? Society in general. Of course I’m generalizing here. But boys are told not to cry, not to be a wuss, to get over it already and not show weakness. My ex had to completely re-learn how to actually feel his emotions, and then he had to re-learn how to express them without constant self hatred for ‘acting like a p#ssy’. And still he didn’t trust anyone but me with his vulnerable side, leaving me basically his only (only!!) contact to express and discuss his emotions.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 06:41 AM
23	I thought this was very interesting. Wdy think? Agree. Also, I blame the idea that men always have to be rough and tough. As a result it seems that generally speaking most male friendships tend to be less emotional, when of course every human being has a need for emotional connection just the same. When I, as a woman, establish such a connection with a guy friend, it is easily mistaken for romance. Because he is not used to having that connection and assumes it must mean more. Even sadder that some men are so starved for normal human kindness…	/r/seduction	31/08/20 05:46 AM
3	Stop trying to constantly please her Agree! And I think that women face the same challenge. I know I do. It’s damn difficult to show who you really are and not some polished, hyped up, over the top chill with everything girl because that’s what men seem to like most. If I really like someone, it’s almost physically painful to show them the parts of me that I’ve had or seen negative feedback on - in the past or online. But in the end, it’s definitely best.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 11:12 PM
2	I'm gentle and intimate during sex, which apparently is bad? I’m rather on the other end of the spectrum (F). Very very sensitive and most guys just start rubbing and pinching and squeezing and it just fucking HURTS. And I constantly have to go ‘whoa there stop it please do it softer and slower’. I’ve read that well over 50% of young women are on antidepressants and this apparently desensitizes their bodies a bit, which I can confirm from friends who are on AD and suddenly needed heavier tools. Considering that they need those for their health though, I d…	/r/seduction	22/08/20 07:21 AM
6	Eggs in one basket You should be downvoted into oblivion even just for that patronizing ‘and you should really pay attention to this’. I really should not, for the following reasons. First of all: you’re wrong. Second of all: I do also have female friends. Third of all: I do not, and never will, take responsibility for something that is not my responsibility. If a guy chooses to present himself as a platonic friend, I am free to believe he is, until proven otherwise. Do not put the burden of someone else’s secret …	/r/seduction	15/06/20 02:37 PM
6	Eggs in one basket No to 1 and 2, yes to 3. Because obvs friends are for sharing dating woes... but as they share their woes about other women with me, too, I suppose we’re good here. Thanks! Fingers crossed.	/r/seduction	15/06/20 11:38 AM
13	Eggs in one basket That’s a weird question. Are you asking me to ‘prove’ my worth as a friend? Why should I have anything to offer that other people don’t? The whole idea of friendship is that it’s not exclusive. There may well be something in my friendship that others can offer, too, and i can still be a good friend. But if you’d like an answer: I’m a decent open minded human being who supports her friends (mentally, emotionally, practically) without getting into competitions or being judgy of them. I have a kind…	/r/seduction	15/06/20 11:04 AM
28	Eggs in one basket It’s good advice, don’t get me wrong. And I’m very sorry you’ve had to lose so much time and had your hopes up all the time. It’s just... I wanted to point out that we all are responsible for expectations we have that others don’t raise in us. Your post made me wonder if any of my good male friends might secretly have a double agenda and might at some point snap at me without a warning, ending the friendship. I would be devastated. Best of luck in the future!	/r/seduction	15/06/20 07:18 AM
36	Eggs in one basket Are you still her friend? It wasn’t her fault that you had a double agenda.	/r/seduction	15/06/20 07:08 AM
12	[deleted by user] Support her head by putting your hand in her neck. This will make it more comfortable as she doesn’t have to support her head in an uncomfortable upwards angle to keep kissing you, and at the same time it’s a very robust, protective gesture that makes me melt in a man’s arms. For the romantic vibe: head in both hands and slow kissing. For the more passionate vibe: one hand in her neck, one around her waist, pulling her closer. Slow down sometimes. Frantic kissing can be very cathartic but stop s…	/r/seduction	14/06/20 10:04 AM
1	"Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a woman Just a question - is it so bad to hurt over a woman? I’m a woman and I’ve spent the better part of last year brutally hurting over a man. He didn’t even do anything ‘wrong’, it just didn’t work out and my feelings were so deep it was very painful. Isn’t that kind of what love is about? Putting yourself out there in the hopes of loving someone, but with the risk of getting hurt? I mean - I’m done with love and dating too, for the moment. A broken heart can do that to you. But it usually doesn’t l…	/r/seduction	09/06/20 06:50 AM
9	How To Spike Sexual Tension By CHALLENGING Girls (With Examples) Yes, exactly! Also, if I feel like I constantly have to ‘prove’ something or correct a misinterpretation, this will leave me feeling like: a. He doesn’t really pay attention and gives me the ‘one size fits all treatment’ or b. Our brain frequencies are so incompatible that he keeps misinterpreting what I say. Both are quite tiresome and usually don’t last long with me.	/r/seduction	07/06/20 12:09 AM
40	How To Spike Sexual Tension By CHALLENGING Girls (With Examples) I don’t mean to burst your bubble here, but it’s always clear as day when a guy pulls this trick and tries to ‘challenge’ (or should I say undermine / neg) me just for the sake of it. It’s cringey AF, borderline disrespectful, and usually makes me zone out immediately. It makes me feel like his masculinity is so fragile that he needs to subtly belittle me to feel better about himself. Immediate red flag. What I really find impressive is a guy who seems genuinely happy for me and encourages me. M…	/r/seduction	06/06/20 11:09 PM
2	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. Thanks for the beautiful compliment! That’s really nice to hear. Just hoping to help bridge the gap - this sub is very instructive for me.	/r/seduction	31/05/20 09:44 PM
1	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. Thanks for your kind and helpful words and the translation for the male readers :-) this is indeed a topic that I have been long addressing in therapy, and lockdown is a really good catalyst. My self esteem is growing and my heart is mending. It’s reassuring to see that men have the same questions as I do about authenticity, motivations, attraction, etc. I liked your comment about it being like a fresh breath of air, if a guy is authentic. I could not agree more. Nothing puts me off like feeling…	/r/seduction	31/05/20 06:38 PM
7	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. I’ll have to admit... I’m not entirely innocent in that aspect, either. This, too, is a thin line between nature/evolution/morals/intellect/etc. But anyway. Thanks a lot, and best of luck to you too!	/r/seduction	31/05/20 11:40 AM
10	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. That seems like a smart decision, respectful to her and mostly good for your own sanity. That being said, I really do relate to the scenario you were picturing. It’s one of the few scenarios in which the love seems to sprout from genuine affection instead of something superficial like looks. Especially since I struggle with the prospect of ending up in a relationship that’s boring and lifeless after the first happy years. If there’s a genuine connection there, you might both get old and ugly but…	/r/seduction	31/05/20 11:02 AM
10	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. That’s a very good point you’re making. And I think I need to do some reflection on my expectations. On one hand, I want a guy who is genuinely happy to be my platonic friend - yet I want there to be an option of love after all. Maybe I can’t have my cake and eat it, too. I agree that there are women who like to keep guys in their orbit as a guaranteed adoration or something. That’s quite diminishing and probably what you’re referring to when you say ‘hey cut your balls and give them to me on a …	/r/seduction	31/05/20 10:41 AM
3	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. Oh, I’ve just realized something else: I think I’d be most comfortable in a relationship with someone who is equally attractive. Because that levels out the playing field. I don’t have to worry if I’m being his trophy girlfriend if we both bring looks on the table. So there’s another reason for self improvement on both sides. :-)	/r/seduction	31/05/20 09:26 AM
18	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. It’s a thin line to walk, indeed. And although I am not consciously aware of performing shit tests, I do admit that I gauge their sincerity all the time. The stakes are just too high. Imagine yourself being extremely rich for example - wouldn’t you get a little paranoid from the attention? I’m currently recovering from a very hurtful experience in that regard and have serious issues trusting any kind gesture anymore. And I’ve figured it’s probably best to start out with a friendship. If it doesn…	/r/seduction	31/05/20 09:18 AM
47	I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't. In case you’d like a woman’s perspective: this is exactly the catch 22 that many of us find ourselves in, especially those who are attractive ‘as is’. You always, always wonder if a guy is genuinely interested in you as a person, or just motivated by your looks. If he really wants to be with you, or just likes the idea of being with you and showing you off to his friends. You second guess every kind gesture, compliment, every flirt and even sometimes the starting relationship itself. It’s quite …	/r/seduction	31/05/20 07:32 AM
13	You Can't Force Someone to Like You THANK YOU VERY MUCH I love this post. It gives women back some basic respect that I really miss in some of the other topics on this sub. We are not difficult machines to handle without an error margin... we are human. And just like men wouldn’t want to sleep with every woman, we don’t want to sleep with every man. Thank you thank you thank you.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 01:20 PM
2	If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔 Thanks for taking the time to elaborate, and thanks for not taking my questions personal. I understand it better now. I can’t for the love of me understand why women would do that without going Dutch per default and discuss expectations beforehand, but then again I dread feeling that I owe someone something. But you are right - it probably happens a lot. I still feel there’s a responsibility with the guy to explore beforehand why he is doing this and what he is expecting in return. Because I wou…	/r/seduction	15/05/20 10:40 PM
-1	If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔 But honestly, if a guy ‘uses’ a trip as a ‘form of escalation’, who is really the asshole then? Instead of just being a wonderful person and winning her heart, some guys apparently think that women are machines that you throw coins into or something. I personally refuse the coins as I refuse to deliver the desired outcome for a transaction like that. But I still think it’s a dick move if a guy tries that on me.	/r/seduction	15/05/20 10:19 PM
-2	If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔 I’d love to see statistics of that. I literally know no such woman and I have too much confidence in men’s ability to judge a woman’s character before such a trip to believe that this would happen often. Is it really happening that often or is it convenient to believe so, so you have a good reason to tell yourself that women suck?	/r/seduction	15/05/20 10:09 PM
-1	If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔 Sheez this is a really hurtful comment. I’d happily strut along, pay half of the expenses and discuss expectations beforehand. I’m sorry you have such a negative view on women...	/r/seduction	15/05/20 09:57 PM
-1	Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yours Still don’t agree, sorry. I’m very fond of men who are having fun, spontaneous and even loud. I just don’t like fake. And if I feel like a man is plotting his level of flirtiness, I pick up on that and am immediately put off.	/r/seduction	15/05/20 12:53 PM
-1	Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yours Hmm thanks for your reply! But I’m still gonna go with no. I hate flirty lines in real life, too. Like I said, most are very inauthentic. Can’t we just all like - be ourselves and have a good time until if you’re both lucky, you feel there’s something more?	/r/seduction	14/05/20 10:43 PM
0	Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yours Actually, as a girl, I’m very much put off by guys who can hold a perfectly good conversation but feel the constant need to throw flirty innuendo in there. Really, it’s all the same, it doesn’t seem authentic and it makes an otherwise interesting conversation feel stale and outworn. I’m literally getting tired of this. I’m not gonna decide over text if I’m attracted to him, anyways. Intellectually, yes. But physically, no. I’ll have to see them to know/feel that. I’m not gonna friend zone someon…	/r/seduction	14/05/20 09:54 PM
1	Guys, what are some of your experiences with shit tests girls give you? Thanks for the elaboration! I still think I don’t do this. But now that you explain it, I do remember my teenage classmates constantly shit testing me in high school - and me constantly failing them, lol. I think I’m uncool beyond salvation and wouldn’t know how to conduct a shit test to save my life.	/r/seduction	09/05/20 05:41 PM
2	Guys, what are some of your experiences with shit tests girls give you? Haha, before that I was not born ;-)	/r/seduction	07/05/20 06:33 AM
3	How do you stop constant texting with girls you're interested in without it feeling weird or creating distance? This is so sad. Do guys actually believe this? I’m a woman and I can always tell if a guy is playing this game. And the biggest turnoff for me is knowing that he is approaching me like I’m a game. Just be you, man. I like a man who gets as enthusiastic as me about topics and will text immediately and long texts. Surely everyone’s too busy anyways to text constantly. But these lame ass rules - I always see guys doing this and it makes me lose confidence in their maturity.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 11:18 PM
1	Women want what other women want Seconded. If a guy shows interest in about any other woman in my circle, I will deduct that he is somewhat desperate.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 11:08 PM
3	Guys, what are some of your experiences with shit tests girls give you? I have to step my game up bro. Been a female for many decades and I’ve literally never done this. I didn’t even know it existed until you explained it...	/r/seduction	06/05/20 10:53 PM
2	Discussion: What Value Does A Men Really Have To A Woman Aside From Sex? Dear OP, I’m a female and will try to answer as honest as possible. First of all, I’m looking for a connection with people. In all kinds of ways - family, friends, even professional. But also romantically. As I’m cishet, i turn to men for that desire. For me, this translates into feeling like you’re on the same wavelength with someone. Like finding a kindred spirit. Whether that is long (relationship) or short (ONS) term (although for the record I don’t do that anymore). I found it can hardly be…	/r/seduction	06/05/20 10:41 PM