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Because men benefit from heterosexual relationships more than women. When men enter relationships with women, they have traditionally gotten free "bangmaids", and the only reason women did this is because men were forcing them to fulfill this role by keeping them out of the opportunities usually afforded to men. The arrangement traditionally was that the man go to work and make money, and in exchange the woman does the more difficult work of raising a family, doing household chores, making every…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:28 AM
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You're confused about the problem at hand. It's not money that's the problem (though lack of money is a straight-up red flag to begin with and a sign of abusiveness); it's abusiveness. So many successful men are single because they're abusive and don't respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:43 AM
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If such men were in short supply, they'd be treated like they're in short supply. Not all abusers are sloppy, inept deadbeats from the getgo. Many are charming, intelligent, successful, handsome men who use these things to lure women into abusive relationships. Some of Lundy Bancroft's earliest patients were Harvard professors. I've also met lots of porn addicts who have six-figure salaries. However, these were all older men. More and more young men aren't graduating university, and, since a bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:20 AM
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I'm 18 months sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:41 AM
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So, so many employers refuse to hire women who have been sexually exploited -- indeed a great injustice and something we should change. This is what I mean by "stigmatized against". This discrimination just keeps women in the sexual exploitation industry. This isn't to mention the health problems women get from being sexually exploited. Not at $600 an hour The average Onlyfans woman makes about $180 a month, and most sex workers who have to physically contact men are survival sex workers who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:40 AM
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She married a man, so certainly she couldn't have hated him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:26 AM
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Please read the rest of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:20 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:20 AM
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too lazy Perhaps they're too traumatized or too stigmatized against? Perhaps they're being abused and controlled by pimps?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:20 AM
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She hated men as a class that oppresses women and gets away with it scot-free. If she hated all men, then she certainly wouldn't have married John Stoltenberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:18 AM
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Dworkin is an expert on the sex trafficking industry who was a survival sex worker herself. What's wrong with referring people to a knowledgable source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:11 AM
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Seeing an escort is automatically abusing that woman because the sexual exploitation industry is the ultimate means of men wielding control over women and men revealing what we, as a class, really think of women. Andrea Dworkin elaborates on this in her book "Pornography: Men Possessing Women".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:56 AM
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Yes because no woman would "willingly" participate in sexual exploitation if not for libfem "sex-positive" ideological brainwashing by men, for deep traumas they're struggling to confront, or because they're in financial need. We could remedy this by allowing women to speak freely, prioritizing the hiring of women for jobs, and inoculating them against "sex-positive" brainwashing. This way, no woman will have to undergo this dehumanizing experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:53 AM
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a much needed service Since when was being a target for a man's orgasm and violent sex a "much needed service", let alone a "service"? Men can live without constant orgasms and bizarre fetishes. I know this because I've managed to live without these things -- and my life has improved for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:45 AM
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Yes, I consider supporting feminism an important part of my recovery and regaining my humanity. Ask any other recovering PA who is working Step 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:26 AM
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I did have a gay phase, and I did think I was a woman for a time, so I'll give you that. But all those things were induced by my porn addiction, and that isn't me. I'm not gay or a woman. What I say about men is not self-hate; it's part of my recovery from my porn addiction. My addiction made me deeply misogynistic for a time, and when I began to take porn addiction recovery seriously, I also realized that it's a tool used by men to oppress women and a facet of misogyny. So I saw it necessary to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:40 AM
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All men are dogs anyway. This just shows that they need us to control them. When we continue to abuse our unchecked power, we tend to get lazy and animalistic. We need to get put under control because our actions are actively harming society. Yeah. Somehow these misogynist beta RP men don't understand that the primary purpose of men is to serve women. We are the prize. But the earliest societies were matriarchical, so . . . wouldn't this be the natural order? I mean, we wouldn't be having these …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:16 AM
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I know you should be in tune to what you like and communicate in that respect. I was referring to men who have no idea how to have sex because of porn and expect women to teach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:08 PM
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It is stupid, so maybe you ought to leave him if he can't please you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:52 PM
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I know that, and men should be in tune to what women need. It's really not that hard. Before internet porn, men did this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:44 PM
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she clearly has opted to not communicate with him about how her body works sexually. Perhaps communication should be unnecessary because he should be compatible with her and work to increase his compatibility. He should be in tune with her instead of his orgasm. Women don't owe it to men to teach them how to have sex with a real person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:35 PM
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Thank you! Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:08 PM
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That's a belittle. A belittle is an unnecessary insult; calling them LVMs is speaking the truth. Abusers have little value in relationships. men can never hate women as much as women hate men. Then how come men can go in public without being afraid of women leering, raping, and attacking them? Clearly men wouldn't do these things if they didn't hate women. Women actually treat men hate as a sport. No woman would speak out against men if there wasn't a practical reason. For example, women can pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:36 AM
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But they aren't belittling or dehumanizing men -- they're exposing abusive tactics. Women can never hate men as much as men hate women. Thus, women cannot be abusive like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:53 AM
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Men come to redpill in search of a miracle cure for their problems with women and life in general. Women go to FDS many times because they are victims of abuse. They have realized the true abusive nature of men, so they want to learn how to protect themselves from abuse and maximize their potential so they aren't overly dependent on men. This is why FDS has grown so much and why it isn't a "hate subreddit" -- it's exposing men for what they really are: abusers and oppressors. You can't criticize…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:39 AM
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Nonexistent! Every woman is valuable and a victim of abuse by males -- so we cannot say they are "low value". We can divide males, however, into a hierarchy of "high value" and "low value". Some take it a step further and add the division "no value", but "low value" and "no value" seem indistinguishable to me. An LVM is an abuser. Abuse doesn't have to be physical violence; abuse is any action that makes the victim feel belittled, devalued, or dehumanized. By this definition, most men are abuser…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:33 AM
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The book is, funny enough, Lundy Bancroft's "Why Does He Do That?". Read this book and tell all your friends -- especially the women -- to read it as well. It will help you all see him for who he really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:32 PM
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everyone in our group that are apologists for him are the girls Because they're most likely afraid of him, or at least he's gotten himself to live rent free in their heads, as they continue to ask the question "Why does he do that?" (a question so enduring that there's an excellent book on it), and as he continues shifting between his multiple facades -- the charmer, the victim, the bully, the misogynist -- they live in fear of what he might do next, or they just buy into his bad childhood sob s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:06 PM
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Yes it is, and that's why FDS resonates with so many women: because they have been abused by scrotes at one time or another in their lives, and FDS helps stop that. I wouldn't say the only strategy of FDS is avoiding abuse, or that most of FDS focuses on avoiding abuse, but quite a bit of it is focused on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:58 PM
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a moving goal post It's not a moving goalpost; it's protection from abuse. LVMs are abusers and energy vampires.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:42 PM
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Not every man is posing as a HVM to steal women's money. But many do start out as being kind and charming to lure the woman in, then begin to abuse the woman bit by bit -- like boiling frogs. Going from charming to controlling to insulting to violent is a classic abuse tactic. Abusers thrive on not having their true intentions and true nature be understood, and for that reason, women can't risk giving men the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:38 PM
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It's fine for women to have height standards because it's a matter of physical attraction (you don't want a relationship lacking physical attraction) and because short men often have a chip on their shoulder about height. I know lots of short men who have no problem getting dates because they don't have chips on their shoulders about height. They find women who are attracted to them nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:26 PM
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Are you a woman that cares about the way your man looks? You should view men as more than purely physical creatures, then you only encourage toxic masculinity by wanting a tall man instead of a short man. Women are entitled to a man who is visually pleasing to them. This isn't a double standard because most women are visually pleasing to men, while most men look like Orcs -- something that could be remedied if they took care of themselves more. Are a you a woman that cares about the way your man…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:03 PM
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The whole "body count" question is very problematic for me because it has its roots in the dehumanization and pornification of women and femininity. Men shouldn't care about body counts because men should see women as more than purely sexual creatures. And for men who say "But what about STDs", it's a given that any STDs would be disclosed before sexual activity, else it would be rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:42 PM
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You're not a slave meaning you are forced to be a tradwife/trad husband. Would women be tradwives if they weren't pressured by men to do so? Would the role of the tradwife even exist if not for men pressuring women -- which is abuse? Also I'd say what's really abuse is to dehumanize women who actually want to be trad wives and to stop them from being what they want to be. What about empowering women to expand their horizons? after looking through your post history, it's pretty clear you're an FD…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:41 PM
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This is the one of the best descriptions of redpill I've read. We men know a lot more about relationships and male/female dynamics than we are willing to admit. Redpill is just abusers abusing abusers. Redpill men believe women aren't entitled to basic rights such as the right to free expression because they literally believe men are superior to women. The basis of redpill is dehumanizing and belittling women, which is the very definition of abuse. I was reading a wonderful post on FDS talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:54 PM
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But the abuse of men by women is a much larger issue. It's women, not men, who often need domestic abuse shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:30 PM
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So? His area of expertise isn't in vaccines, so I wouldn't trust his opinion on vaccines no more than his opinion on 8th century Gothic funeral rites. But he is an expert on abuse, and his answers have brought more peace to women than any other traditional therapy, so I would trust what he has to say on abuse. (And I'm not an anti vaxxer or a grifter, by the way).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:28 PM
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That's certainly the case today. Most women are out getting jobs and going to university while men are hiding away in their basements wanking to porn and playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:26 PM
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No plenty of times the wife is completely fine with her relationship in traditional marriages and the role she serves. You don't even seem to know what abuse even is tbh so I'll start there having expectations of a partner isn't abuse by itself. Abuse is any action that belittles and dehumanizes a woman. Expecting a tradwife is, by definition, abuse because she's being reduced to a slave for the husband instead of a full person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:25 PM
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No, that's not it at all. If that's what you got out of FDS, you totally missed the point. Recognizing that you're entitled to many things and working to give up that entitlement isn't letting women walk all over you at all, and it's pretty telling that you think it is because you think that giving up power will allow a woman to do all the horrible things you'd like to do to her: cheating, being choked and slapped during sex, being chained to the kitchen, and many more things. Women can never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:23 PM
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a man with no standards and no boundaries for what women can do to them. You're confusing HVM with cuck, which is what a lot of men do. FDS isn't asking men to become cucks -- it's simply asking men to recognize the root of their entitlement and get rid of it. Most men act the way they do because of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:41 PM
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Read Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?". This entire book proves my point. Bancroft pioneered one of the first abuser rehabilitation programs in the world, and what he has told abusers and their partners has helped them much more than traditional therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:39 PM
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Who are these mythical men you speak of lol? Every man, but few men will acknowledge this. Not really lots of traditional couples end up just fine. They may have the outward appearance of a good relationship, but that's because the wife is too afraid to speak her mind. If she was empowered to speak freely, she would have something else to say about traditional couples. And you can't trust the man because abusers always lie. You know that the wife likely expects you to take charge of the financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:34 PM
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Majority are old, ugly, fat and unstable women. I really hate this line of reasoning lots of men use when thinking about FDS. It's just an ad hominem attack because men know what FDS says is right, but they don't want to come to terms with their own abusiveness and learn to be better. Most men are abusers and predators. If you expect a tradwife who exists to serve you, you're an abuser. If you expect your wife to take the charge in the domestic and emotional labour in the relationship, you're an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:14 PM
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It is. Like a magic trick, Bancroft has shown how abusive men work so that they can't work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:56 PM
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This book is nothing of the sort -- it pulls back the curtain to give a revealing expose on how abusive men think. And lots of men, especially PAs and RPers, do think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:58 AM
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I recommend that you read Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?". You'll see that so many actions men exhibit regularly, especially towards women, are abusive and predatory. That's where I'm getting this from. And Bancroft's book is THE book on abuse -- it has been for over 20 years -- so I'd trust what he has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:48 AM
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No I didn't. I don't think I'm high-value, but I certainly aspire to that, and I'm inviting other men to aspire with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:06 AM
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I'm getting it from the men's victims -- women. Always trust the victims because their picture will be more accurate. Show me an abuser, and I'll show you a liar. Show me a victim, and I'll show you a truth-teller.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:51 AM
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RARELY do I ever see those who are most angry with women consider helping each other as a solution. This is the way, and this is why I'm participating on this subreddit -- to show other men that being high-value and being an ally to women IS possible, and to give them the epiphanies they need to turn their lives around. People think I'm a troll or a parody account because what I say is shocking to them, especially coming from a man, but we men need to help each other repair each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:36 AM
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*His. I'm male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:21 AM
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No, but, seeing as how matriarchical societies were the original state of humanity, wouldn't they be good?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:00 AM
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I'm not a troll -- just stating the facts from the scary radfems your bros warned you about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:21 PM
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I'm not -- I'm just stating the scientific facts. The earliest societies were matriarchical, which means women are naturally better leaders, thinkers, and workers than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:20 PM
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Thank you! I will in a few days -- these are some ideas that have been floating around in my head lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:18 PM
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Which kind of twice the amount of work?, please tell me if that would be the case no company would hire any man because women do double the work. Women have constantly proven themselves to be harder workers than men because they have to put out twice as much work to be recognized for their achievements. And why? Because sexism and misogyny are rampant in this patriarchical world. Men want to keep women in the kitchens and on porn sets so women can do degrading jobs that don't reflect their true …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:16 PM
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But the fact remains that women are, in general, better workers than men, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:25 PM
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I'm not attacking his character. Instead, I'm empowering him to take responsibility for his actions and learn to be a better person and a better ally to women. We can walk around in a fog of ignorance, or we can learn the truth, and if you've read about domestic abuse and predatory men, as I have, you'll see that lots of men exhibit these characteristics and face no flack for it because it's been normalized in society. Obviously, it's not a good way to live, but so many would prefer to think it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:08 PM
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Oh, puh-leeze. If that's the case, then why do so many women have to put out twice as much work to advance in the workplace than men do? And why do women have to deal with sexual predators at work, but men don't? If you're struggling in life, make an effort to turn things around for yourself without help from anyone else. It's one of the most basic experiences of being human. (I'm a man, by the way).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:58 PM
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It is. Even 20 years ago, the man I described above would be considered a loser and an abuser, but now it's the norm unfortunately. We could blame lots of things on this -- the porn industry, parenting styles -- but the onus still lies on men to take responsibility for their own behaviour and improve their own lives. Nothing's stopping them from going to trade school or a coding bootcamp to get a lucrative job except themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:16 PM
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Creeping on women and their salaries. Real attractive and certainly not something a desperate porn addict would do. Abusers always tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:09 PM
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And how do you know that? Could it not just be that women are simply harder workers, which means they're able to afford nice things and more deserving of nice things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:05 PM
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No. Men are "starving" because men have deteriorated, which means the majority of men are low-value. This has always been the case, but it's gotten much, much worse nowadays. 30 years ago, a man in his mid-20s would likely have finished university or trade school and have a good job, or he would have been working since the day he graduated high school. From the day he turned 18, he would have been functioning as an independent adult. It was the norm for these young men to have lasting jobs, own …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:55 PM
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there’s no indication whatsoever that the porn use is causing a conflict within the relationship at all. That's because the male porn addict (PA) is making excuses to justify his addiction and is minimizing his partner's concerns so he can make himself look like the gift he narcissistically thinks he is. He does this because he is extremely entitled. Minimization is an abuse tactic, and it's something all PAs do. This is why women should never pursue or attempt to save a relationship with a PA -…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:58 AM
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