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21

That's one angle. In my experience they also try to appropriate misandry by saying it's a symptom of feminist issues, gaslighting and deflecting. You are not allowed to have an opinion outside of the feminist perspective.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/22 12:41 AM
1

I watched an exfriend psychologically torture and rake a guy over the coals while maintaining complete innocence. She turned his family on him. A feminist would tell me this is a result of forcing women to be dependent on men, that she's only seen as innocent because society views women as weak, and that the real enemy here is patriarchy and misogyny. This completely ignores the fact that my exfriend misrepresents situations to manipulate people. She chooses to be malicious, manipulative and nar…
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/22 04:31 PM
1

I don't have a problem with people sleeping around, I have a problem with players.
/r/AntiFeminists25/12/22 02:28 PM
1

There's multiple reasons. One thing is these dudes are often just manipulative, and the women are damaged. Another is sometimes women just want sex without attachment, these dudes give it. Another is women chasing guys out of their league. Keep in mind lots of women are manipulative aswell, and they think they can change these guys.
/r/seduction21/08/22 03:16 PM
2

LMAO!! The thing I like about these guys is they tell you to lie to women.. Soooo... Yeah... no credibility.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:03 PM
1

My current take. It means she's probably a little bit toxic, doesn't necessarily like you (or possibly anyone), but still desires your company. Oddly, I've found that if girls think you're cocky, they'll stick around (fucking and dating), and try to break you down. I think some people are attracted to the conflict.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:21 AM
1

I'm maybe a 6 and get a decent amount of matches.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Wrong, sorry.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:23 AM
1

Then how do you know the nice guy thing doesn't work?
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:20 AM
-2

Okay.. In my experience women don't "deny the juice", women almost never just say "sorry I'm not interested". I would respect that. Women just treat you worse, and worse until you go away on your own. When that happens, I don't feel bad about them getting called out.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:15 AM
1

Live and learn my dude. Next time you'll be better prepared.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:09 AM
1

Dude, that chick is toxic, fuck what she thinks. She could have let you down nicely if she wasn't interested, she chose to be a dick, you can do better.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:07 AM
1

Women say this shit because they have no idea how to maintain a relationship with a "nice guy", end up being shitty partners, and don't understand when the dude either 1. leaves, 2. gets upset, or 3. stops trying. Being a nice guy is absolutely worth it if you can find a nice girl, but aside from that, when it comes to dating strong boundaries are necessary, or people will just leech off you. The sad part is strong boundaries make it harder to form connections. Catch 22. I didn't start losing my…
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:50 AM
-1

Unfortunately men don't get treated like people, men get treated like predators and tools. I recognize women are people, and... lots of people will just use you if you give them the opportunity.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:30 PM
1

I dated a girl for 8 months, after we matched and unmatched three times. The connection wasn't there for me originally. After she found out I had a fling she put in a ton of effort, and it was a good time. Took me camping, fucked me on the beach. Like .. it was great.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:11 PM
1

Fuuuuck .. This is brilliant, and just like... completely genuinely human.
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:07 PM
5

Dude.. that's perfect. Explains things perfectly. I had a girl tell me I was a good friend, so my immediate reaction was, "Just so you know, I'm pursuing this as more than a friendship, like.. you know I like you right?", and things have been good 😊
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:04 PM
10

One day at a time man. Be kind to yourself. Don't get too wound up, don't get too attached, just have fun. If you feel anxious, get space.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:29 PM
1

If a woman is calling you sweet, I would take that as a major signal. Maybe just ask them out/ ask for their number before they go.
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:00 AM
3

Fuck the best way, people need to do what works for them. I don't feel the need to make things directly sexual. She knows I want sex. You just need some kind of tension. What I do builds that.
/r/seduction28/07/22 02:30 AM
1

working 15+ hours, studying for classes & admissions tests, volunteering, and shadowing at the same time What you're describing literally doesn't fit into a day, that aside, I do understand people can work multiple jobs. Do you know many intelligent/college educated women? The vast majority I know are working kinda crazy hours. I date a lot of college educated mothers, but I guess I just go for different personalities.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:35 PM
1

Examples?
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:45 PM
4

You just have to start somewhere. Trial and error. The other day I had someone I matched tell me they really appreciate my friendship. My response was something like "You know I see you as more than a friend right? That I'm pursuing you?" and yeah, we're on track 😊 I've never done that before, it was just trial an error. You are going to turn off women, but that's just kind of the position were put in by society as men. We're expected to take charge, which ultimately means we have to take risks.…
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:04 PM
9

I once had a partner tell me this is how she flirts with men. She just slowly turns everything sexual. Pretends to misinterpret things, etc.. I take a softer approach, and use my sweetness. Instead of making sexual comments I'll comment about how something makes a girl look really adorable, or how cute it is that she does X, etc...
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:59 AM
5

I met a girl on tinder. She wanted kids, I didn't, so we just ended up being friends. Turns out she was trying to really hard to make a ldr with a highschool sweetheart work. Dude had depression, and wasn't given her the attention she wanted. She'd tell him to take space for himself, and then when he would she'd freak out on him. Eventually he got fed up and tried to end things. I think she told me he was moving to South America for work or something. After that she started going after his famil…
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:53 AM
1

I don't buy it. If girls were THAT fucking scared they wouldn't be going out to clubs. I have women sharing their snap map, work locations, pictures of their fucking kids, all this crap that makes them incredibly vulnerable... But it's not until I need to have my feeling respected that people pull the 'personal safety' card.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:41 AM
1

Unfortunately a cliche situation. She's a cheater. Plain and simple. Don't let that girl get in your head, she will fuck you up. She's not hurt, she's not in trouble, she doesn't need you to save her. She's just a narcissist. She's going to twist the truth to fit whatever she needs in the moment. Women are fucking smart. They know how to indirectly push things along hiding their intentions. Run from the red flags man.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:13 AM
2

You can turn someone down without being mean "Sorry I'm not feeling the connection". The vast majority of people would prefer to be told straight up. No one enjoys getting strung along.
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:06 AM
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I wasn't talking about your online presence. I was talking about the situations when you cold approach someone. Okay? And you understand that I have my own lived experiences right? That I'm posting as a matter of self expression not for you right? And fuck off with your aggression, show your toxic masculinity somewhere else. This ain't your grandma you are talking to. Fuck bigotry. Did I hit someone? No. Did I harass anyone? No. Am I forcing you to read this? No. I'm well within my boundaries to…
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:46 AM
1

I'd look at it this way... Do you want to see someone that you'll have to go a week at a time without seeing? Because personally.. I'd only keep her as an option.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:26 AM
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It's narcissistic to think that someone you've just sparked with isn't going to have some sort of expectations. And it's cruel to lead people on knowing they want more when you can't give it. People exploit this shit. I exploit this shit! I'm a fucking narcissist. I keep a string of tinder matches going so I always have someone available if my current relationships break down, or if I'm just feeling chatty.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:11 AM
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Aside from nurses, I don't know a single woman that works over 8 hours a day or 40 hours a week. I'm sure some do, but the vast vast majority of women don't work in those kind of industries.
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:02 AM
2

I kind of feel like some women want to feel like they're chasing you. They enjoy the hunt. If you just give in there's no fun for them. Also definitely women just use men for validation.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:59 AM
3

They're parroting misogynistic game theory.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:51 AM
11

A genuine thoughtful reply takes time for me. All I did yesterday was smoke weed, and nap. I still haven't responded to a bunch of messages. I'm just not in the mood, and I'm not going to force myself to care.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:46 AM
2

You don't owe these people shit. Respect your own needs, prioritizes, and boundaries. Other people can fuck off.. Seriously. Oh you're busy? Tell it to your therapist, not my problem. NEXT MATCH! I think the problem isn't people taking this crap personally. The problem is trying to change people where the chemistry just isn't right.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:43 AM
-1

Such bullshit. She wasn't scared 2 days ago when she was sharing her snap map, work location, and sharing pictures of her kid, but somehow.. when it comes to owning up.. That's when she needs to protect herself? Bullshit.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:31 AM
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It's not polite. It's conflict avoidance and just ends up sending mixed signals.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:24 AM
23

Well let's be real, girls play games. I've been working, and just had a girl randomly start flirting with me, push me to ask for her number.. just to give me a fake. People are narcissistic.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:33 AM
5

I think it's jealousy.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:13 AM
1

I'm guessing you're not affectionate enough, and they're feeling insecure wondering whether or not you like them. When you get that message about not feeling a connection, have you tried telling them how you feel about them?
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:25 AM
3

I think this is a pretty balanced take. If you're naturally a people person. Great! But I wasn't. People use to bore me. Now I bore myself 😅 Just talking for the sake of talking. Because now silence makes me uncomfortable 😝 I'm killing myself with this competitive mindset.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:06 AM
1

Don't get upset about commentary.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:37 AM
1

I'm curious what your sources are.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:23 PM
1

Did she tell you this was going to be a thing at the start of your relationship?
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:21 PM
2

And how do you feel? If you're cool waiting man, by all means, but man she's not asking for nothing from you, everyday you're putting in an emotional investment. Everyday you're reinforcing your commitment to her. Everyday you're putting her needs over yours. It's only going to be harder to break up as time goes on. I get you feel for this woman, I get you care about her and don't want to hurt her. This shit is going to have an effect on you though man. You want a girl that makes you feel confid…
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:20 PM
1

"Why not?"
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:47 AM
1

The big thing that caught me off guard is that women play the field, but they aren't open about it. If they don't take no for an answer, run. Waaay too many manipulative people out there. If they ask for money, or start talking about things other guys have given them, run. Fuck panhandlers. Most women are just looking for a good time, romance is secondary and commitment is last. If a woman isn't putting in any effort, she's not worth effort. --edit-- in regards to the panhandling, women that beg…
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:27 AM
2

That's my kink 😉
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:27 PM
3

Just know man... If you end up in a relationship with her... She's going to cheat on you man.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:49 PM
5

Fuck off the dude said no. Is this how you get women to sleep with you? There is zero good reason to cheat, or to be involved with a cheater. Zero fucking reason. OP can get other girls that aren't stupid whores.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:48 PM
2

Fuck .. I really like your perspective, I had not considered how she's mistreating OP.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:43 PM
2

So start approaching people dude! She's picking you because she thinks you're safe to cheat with, because you won't tell her boyfriend. What are you going to do if he finds out? Are you prepared to potentially have the shit beat out of you?
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:42 PM
6

That shit weighs on your soul man. Caring around the guilt for the rest of your life just isn't worth it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:40 PM
1

Philosophy on being a loser. https://youtu.be/9bHM-mhgQyk Honestly man .. You sound like my kind of person. Humans are vain as fuck. IMO... Keep being you.. That said.. if you want to change... The key to being a popular human is narcissism and manipulation. Learn to talk about how awesome you are without it being apparent that you're talking yourself up. Start doing things with people. Leverage those experiences to impress other people so you get invited to do more things. Become a yes man. You…
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:37 PM
1

I think flirting with her is your best bet. You need to build some tension. You gotta get her to giggle. If she doesn't feel the same way she might get upset with you, but dude .. your feelings are completely valid. You're completely within your right to pursue something more. People catch feelings. If she's a real friend she'll understand that.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:19 PM
15

Doesn't apply to dominant women in my experience.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:13 PM
8

Lookup anxious/avoidant attachment styles and it'll make sense. People that don't know how to form bonds literally get repulsed as they feel closer to someone. You flop from worrying about pleasing the other person to worrying about disappointing them, as well as worrying about losing your space.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:12 PM
6

Heads up... The only reason you had that experience waaas because you were so eager man. She was enjoying the energy you gave out. She was just looking for a hookup. This.. is honestly probably how a lot of women feel. They meet some hot guy that gives them a night of intensity, and then spend the rest of their life trying to figure out how to capture that guy. The truth is though... The only reason he's perfect.. Is because he has the practice. It's because he sleeps around and doesn't commit t…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:51 PM
1

I don't have any firm data that would allow me to conclude that, and fail to see the benefit of making an assumption.
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:22 PM
1

It's straight up bad information. It's victimhood fantasy.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:28 PM
1

The only reason to say stuff like OP mentioned is so that OP spends more on her. I already gave you another reason.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:25 PM
1

The thing is man .. There are women that will love that shit about you. Maybe you're just looking for something more serious than you girlfriend can provide. If she's not willing to put in work, don't take it as a reflection on you. In my experience it's worth going through the bad relationships to find the good ones.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:59 PM
3

That article is toxic as fuck. Tiktok is NOT a scientific journal, it's a platform for narcissism.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:49 PM
1

My interpretation: She doesn't sound invested. She wants you as an option.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:39 PM
78

I do this to women, I do it because I'm looking to start a conversation/ potentially find something to bond over. "This guy wants to do a photo shoot with me" -me "Fuuck, that's exciting! You should absolutely send me the photos afterwards, you're freaking gorgeous." Don't be threatened by other dudes.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:32 PM
11

Start flirting with her dude! Step 1 message her, see if she responds.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:25 PM
1

Fuuuck. Love it. Time to boot up the series.
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:01 PM
1

Those subs are circle jerks, if you go against the grain you get hostile replies, and eventually banned if you defend yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:30 PM
1

You might be using your humour as a crutch.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:20 PM
1

Good on you!
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:15 PM
2

Nothing wrong with having someone hot on the side though! Fuck these dudes, no offense but they're just trying to protect their feelings. As long as you're feeling chill, I'd say pursue her. If you get annoyed, back off. Some women like to be chased, some women are also just flakey. I say be playful with her, see if you can get a reaction, just don't get upset.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:15 PM
1

Yeeeaah... I don't buy this. You're tell me you can't get ONE man? How many guys have you asked out?
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:10 PM
2

Proudly so.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:36 PM
5

Sweet, you take all the women that don't let you have emotions, and I'll take all the women that make me feel amazing about myself.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:20 PM
1

I... like your thought process!
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:19 AM
2

Seriously not worth the mind games, but I also think with my dick. Google bdsm brat. The impression I'm getting is she either wants to be dominated, or is enjoying dominating you. She's going to keep pushing your buttons hoping you get pissed off. It's all a games. Her saying you're too harsh, her saying you're too impatient, etc.. is all to try and provoke a reaction out of you. Keep playing cool.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:14 AM
1

Is that all you see these women as? Objects to fuck? Like fuck man, you describe your own conversations as mundane. You straight up don't sound fun to be around, these women have other options, why should they spend their time with you?
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:55 AM
1

I'd ask someone you know.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:46 AM
1

Dude... It's a journey. I can't speak for other people, but I'm getting better and better at talking women up, flirting, reading signals, paying attention to red flags, and not getting overinvested. This community is a nice outlet, and source for inspiration.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:45 AM
1

Lmao! Great misdirection!
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:00 AM
1

Point blank biggest difference I've noticed.. if a dude doesn't want to talk to you.. you might get five sentences before you just down right get ignored. If a girl doesn't like you, in general, they just treat you worse and worse until you "get the hint".
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:52 AM
1

Nah.. toxic people want to believe everyone's like them so they don't have to take accountability for their shitty behaviour.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:41 AM
1

The definition of seduction is getting someone to do what you desire by making them believe it was there idea. Any form of attracting a person is seduction. Literally casting your line and seeing what hits is seduction, it's just less active. What's with the gatekeeping?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:34 AM
0

You need to get in tune with your women. I made someone squirt 3 times in 5 minutes last week. 🤟
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:27 AM
2

Some women cum extremely easily.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:24 AM
11

So guaranteed the second she's upset with you she's going to try and hurt you by sleeping with your brother. Be prepared man.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:18 AM
1

That's your call.
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:20 PM
2

Google the Madonna whore complex.
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:12 AM
0

You'll be swamped with prospects. Seriously it doesn't matter if you're overweight, there's shallow guys, but just ignore them. Watch out for hot guys, statisically they're probably fucking everyone. Imo.. find some average looking dude that treats you with respect, and shows interest in you as a person, and then tell them what you want from a relationship, if they can't give it, move on.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:00 AM
1

Explain.
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:51 PM
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Heads up... You're the one that broke the deal here. She offered you her contact, but you had a chip on your shoulder and turned her down. Also just straight up.. When girls post in their profile they don't have snap, that's a massive turn off for me, I don't need that stubbornness. It also shows a lack of understanding for how people socialize these days. Snap chat is fun. The photo features are very playful, a lot more personalable, and having the ability to post and comment on stories is huuu…
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:18 PM
2

All my life i have felt like a loser filled with insecurities. You are a loser filled with insecurities. Who cares man. I'm also a loser filled with insecurities, and I had a beautiful fucking woman gargling my cock the other night, and at least 3 other beautiful women messaging me this morning. You seriously just need to own who you are. The problem here is entirely that you lack self respect, stop treating yourself so badly dude. Bit by bit you just have to accept... You are good enough. Becau…
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:10 PM
0

This is what I sent to a tinder match the other day. "You have excellent choice in lipstick!😊😋" "and such a beautiful smile 🥰" "I hope you're having a good morning 😊 how's mom life treating you?" She asked me for my snap last night.
/r/seduction19/06/22 06:00 PM
4

"I've done nothing and I'm all out of ideas". You must have some idea of what you're doing wrong.
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:49 PM
0

Fuuuck.. I think I needed this, thank you!
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:16 PM
1

Sweet, let's do this. Do you believe women have a right to their own autonomy?
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:34 PM
-5

I don't believe your gender changes the content of my post at all. I'm willing to sit here and break you apart if you're down, your argument is hogwash.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:07 PM
1

Everyone is going through different shit. These women sound entitled to me, but fuck, I don't know, there's possibly generations of trauma there. It's not your job to figure their shit out though. It's your job to watch yourself, watch how you treat others people, and watch how you treat yourself. My concern about these women is the good won't outweigh the bad, and eventually I'd lose confidence in expressing myself. Right now I just don't feel like having those arguments. Last week I was at a f…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:59 PM
-4

You are a prude. Aside from entitlement to gifts everything you're describing is just a form of personal expression. Why do you care what people choose to wear? Why do care if these women are promiscuous? Why do care if they post themselves online? It's not your body, you should seriously keep those opinims to yourself. It's hypocritical that you gloat about how these women are being mislead, that their actions aren't their own. Let's be real man, you want that same control over them, you just w…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:38 PM
1

Legitimately she could make up not remembering too. I feel like often people try to pin this on not taking responsibility and having regrets, but just straight up... Alcohol could make her forget the entire conversation.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:03 PM
2

Not worth it, you made the right choice, you don't want any guilt on your mind. Fuck I met someone, we spent every day and night fucking. Would wake up a few times during the night and fuck. Great chemistry. One day she tells me last night she was only half awake when we were fucking. I'm definitely taking it too hard, like... she was responsive, grinding on me, and making eye contact. Idk... maybe she was trying to start a kink. Maybe she's a sexsomniac. Maybe I misread her signals. I don't kno…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:01 PM
1

Sorry, I'm not OP lol. 100% have respect for yourself, don't let people use you, but mutually beneficial situations are solid. I've been the guy with the car haha. Her asking me to pick her up so she can come over and we can have a good time, fucking awesome. Her wanting groceries, fuck that. Totally get what you're saying, and don't really disagree with the premises, I just disagreed with not wanting to be "the convenient guy", I looove being the convenient guy! Typical dating culture really so…
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:22 PM
2

You got this man. Enjoy the ride. Go with the flow. If she sits on your bed, that's a good sign she wants you to make a move. hahah I wish I could give better advice, but it literally all depends on the people and chemistry. Learning to be playful is what works for me, being able to compliment, flirt, or touch someone without it being strictly sexual. Compliment something she's wearing. Honestly though... I learned by waiting for women to make the move 😆 Once you have more experience you'll be a…
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:08 PM
2

Eh.. I seriously loove being the convenient guy. It takes some time, but I'm learning if I'm just chill with girls, put out positive energy, throw out some flirts, they'll hit me up. The other week I had a woman invite me over 3 times. She smoked me out, we fooled around. She made me a fucking bracelet! Invited me to walk with her in Pride where I met all her friends, had a fucking blast! Got invited to a fire at her girlfriends place. By the end of the night we were all cuddled up on a couch to…
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:09 AM
13

Show intent, if they don’t respond positively, move on.. Its ok to chase a little, but dont act desperate. imo.. Don't worry about acting desperate. Don't walk on eggshells. People are different. Women are different. They want different things. Find a girl that enjoys the attention you give her, ignore the girls that aren't into it.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:36 AM
2

Dating apps work consistently for me, I wouldn't call that an exception.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:26 AM
0

Wrong.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:19 AM
1

None of what you've said changes what I said above. She's in a relationship. She doesn't get brownie points for holding back on her flirting.
/r/seduction05/06/22 10:56 AM
2

although she is flirting a little bit and tells me she likes me, she really isn’t crossing any major lines. I guess just personally this is an issue for me. I get that she's on her way out of the relationship but right now she's still in it. A 10 year relationship. There's also a real possibility she doesn't leave him. Also to add. The issue with her actions isn't that they're immoral, it's that someone could get hurt. Her partner doesn't deserve that regardless of whatever problems they're havi…
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:23 PM
3

This is a bad decision man. Sorry, but I'm going to give some tough love here. She's using you as a way to escape her broken relationship. Whatever shit she's telling you about her failing relationship I can tell you right now she's complicit. Having relationship problems doesn't mean you get to play the market. Right now she is playing games behind her partner's back. It's bullshit. You know you can't trust her. If you want to get with this girl, whatever, but for the love of God man don't have…
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:38 PM
1

Just to add on. The women you attract while you're in that state will probably value you for being that way. I thiiink.. maybe abused women like having a man they can control. Makes sense. Eventually relationships have conflict though, and that's when these people run. Fucking sucks.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:09 PM
5

Fuck me, I hate these! I take a bit to process stuff, and usually shit tests just end up making me think a girl isn't interested, so I lose interest, and then things go to hell 😅 Luck fuck, I don't want to feel like I have to babysit my damn dates. I don't want to spend time with someone where I always have to be on guard to prove myself, to quench their fucking insecurities. Because let's be real, all of this shit has nothing to do with me as a person, and has everything to do with filling some…
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:02 PM
2

If you own it, you'll still appear confident. I confidently tell people I have social anxiety, and then laugh it off. It's incredibly a appealing to a lot of women to be self aware of your flaws. Just don't dwell.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:54 PM
1

I can't compete with literally dozens of men. I can't give a woman the level of attention she gets when she's single and dating. I can't compete with that feeling of falling for someone new, and constantly learning new things you love about each other.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:15 AM
8

Maaaan ... I wish I realized this before I spent all that time, energy, and emotions trying to do the right thing and communicate with the women in my life. Holy fuck was that a head ride. The fucking gas lighting! The fucking deflecting! I can't wait for the next plane crash! I'm catching onto these tricks.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:06 AM
2

One in your hand is better than two in the bush.
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:41 PM
9

You know guys when they are practically offered sex by some one decently attractive... they will never say no. Nah, that's just you. I wouldn't fuck someone my friend cares about. That sexual tension would be insane though, I'd have to bail out a window. Or, you know.. Get pissed at the girl trying to hurt my buddy.
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:12 PM
2

She's trying to provoke a reaction out of you because she needs to prove in her mind that all men are scum. She wants you to become abusive so she can play the victim. Don't feed her with your emotions. She's a troll. It you want the best revenge, don't disrespect her, just drop all interest. In her mind you getting upset proves she's valuable. You losing interest means you must have better options, and she just fucked up. You'll be the guy that got away. I've been that guy, and it's a great fee…
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:02 PM
1

Socializing is a skill, you'll get better at it the more you try. Point blank, (aside from drugs) probably nothing you can do right now is going to make you magically become talkative. You just need time and practice. A big thing for me has been developing extroverted energy. One (shallow) part of being interesting to people is being interested in what they're saying. Most people just want to talk about themselves, and their lives without feeling like a burden. You could talk to someone for 2 ho…
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:30 PM
1

Fuck that dude. I'm insecure as fuck, and... yeah.. I just make it work for me.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:08 AM
2

Dude... Fuck everyone telling you to conform to shallowest pickup standards. I guarantee you're getting more depth out of your interactions. Those questions are awesome. Thanks!
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:06 AM
2

Google bdsm bratting, and look at some of the text conversations, see if it resonates with her personality, because that's what I'm picking up here. Bratts like fucking with people, it's a control thing. Warning, I'm probably completely wrong, but that's been my experience. Not a completely horrible thing, because these girls will push you to be more dominant. I'd straight up ask her if she likes to be involved in date planning, or would prefer if you take charge. If she wants you to take charge…
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:58 AM
2

Fuck... I like your style. Those are actually totally the women I'm after. Anymore question examples?
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:28 AM
17

I've met enough female Fuck Bois to know this is bullshit.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:22 PM
1

It's possible he has a unique sense of style you're not picking up on.
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:36 PM
1

Your ex sounds like an asshole, why are you so hung up over her? Dude, you were in love, fucking suck it up. Your ex bailed on you because she's fucked up. You need to recognize that she was the problem, not you. Like holy fuck man.. You were together for 3 years and she called you desperate? That's some gaslighting bullshit. For the love of God watch some videos on narcissism, and learn to avoid these people in the future. The dating scene is FULL of narcissistic assholes just looking for a goo…
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:05 AM
3

I don’t want to approach and get rejected because then it’ll feel like her words are true… I’m stuck Just keep processing it dude. You're not stuck, you're here looking for help, that's progress. You have two options. You can wait, and hope this feeling goes away, or you can push through it.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:39 AM
2

What's with the fucking stringing along though? When to let go is my issue.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:04 AM
2

Great advice! Thank you!
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:07 PM
1

Alright, so my style is just being myself, respecting myself, and discovering chemistry. Fuck games. "Thanks, your seems great too, I'm just not looking for friends right now." I wouldn't put her pussy on a pedestal. She's just one person.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:12 PM
1

I want low effort people. Why set the bar high?
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:27 AM
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