TheFreshOldMe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to prepare for divorce.		TheFreshOldMe	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 07:29 AM

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1	How to prepare for divorce. Yes we were both tested and the issue definitely 100% was with her. We were not able to concieve naturally for 5+ years of trying (IUI required for our first child) until this surprise. Doesn't change the fact that I still will be doing paternity tests.	/r/askMRP	08/09/18 05:48 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Damn	/r/askMRP	03/09/18 05:51 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Yup I'm a chump. To put it in context though, we had not been able to get pregnant for a year even with fertility treatments and calendar scheduling and all that. Birth control is sometimes used in order to extend certain circumstances that are above my head in understanding. She wasn't taking then to avoid getting pregnant. But yeah in hindsight I'm the king of chumps.	/r/askMRP	03/09/18 02:48 AM
3	How to prepare for divorce. I wouldn't consider an abortion.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 10:28 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. I accepted the behavior the first time. I'm not accepting it this second time, hence the original post.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 08:43 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Interesting, it's the opposite of what I want to do which makes me think these are wise words. I need to focus on the end game and not what feels good in the short term and channel all my energy into whatever it takes to achieve that. I went to look at the post you recommended, however I could only see the comments and not the original post.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 07:51 PM
2	How to prepare for divorce. Thank you, I have a lot to do.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 07:47 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Thank you for the real talk. I've never considered myself an angry person, but I've realized just how much my life of covert contracts has secretly boiled under the surface. I was living a lie, and was not exactly who I thought I was.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 04:31 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. You are correct, it is my fault. I started the LTR as terribly as you can and I'm suffering because of it. I've only really started taking this seriously a few months ago but will continue to work on it. However I'm confused, I did set my boundary after the first incident and although shes pranced right past it I'm sticking to what I said and am working on ending it as promised. She just doesn't know it yet. Are you saying I should stick with her to keep practicing on her?	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 03:19 PM
3	How to prepare for divorce. Before all of this, I was on my way as a first ballot member of the beta blue pill hall of fame. Not a single person who knows the two of us (including her family) would ever believe a narrative where I was abusive in any way. It literally is the only positive to the fact that I was a life long blue piller who said yes to everyone and was always there for them no matter what without asking for anything in return. (I was like the LeBron of beta blue pillers). However that being said, I will take …	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 02:45 PM
3	How to prepare for divorce. You are correct about that. Financials are not my biggest concern, but rather the rules seem to change during pregnancy which complicates this whole process. If she weren't pregnant with (presumably) my chld i would just stick to my initial plan of getting the paperwork ironed out and just drop all of it on her at once in a nice civil manner and follow much of the advice I've read around here.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 02:09 PM
7	How to prepare for divorce. Nothing quite like a quick swift kick in the balls to open your mind.	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 02:02 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Yes, I was supposed to do a lot of things I didn't do well, and that all falls on me. I honestly never imagined a world where she would do it again, however I did get attorney paperwork and counseling lined up for my daughter after the first time. I was ready to end things then, before she so strongly appeared to make amends. Clearly I was in a different stupid mindset where she could do go wrong even if she did wrong. The pregnancy is the biggest issue, after so much treatments we couldn't get …	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 01:34 PM
1	How to prepare for divorce. Yes, I am very angry. I did not want this to happen and already stupidly forgave her once before setting my line. The private messages were and are what I assume are standard variety sexts. Dirty talk describing what they are doing to each other sexually snd.Naked pictures and video. They both initiate with each other, usually during the middle of the day and then leave off with comments about having to wait or how excited they are for the next time. I think this occurs most week days and they t…	/r/askMRP	02/09/18 11:26 AM