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That sounds great, have you done this yourself?
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:51 PM
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The more you approach the less and less anxiety you feel. I like the phrase, "Girls don't leave their home hoping to not get approached." Also, good for you for working up the courage to approach in the first place!
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:40 AM
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Unfortunately I rode with my friends and had to get up at 8 am, I would've stayed a bit longer if I had taken an Uber downtown, which I should have! Still, an F-close would not have been an option regardless.
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:54 PM
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Replied here, thanks for the question.
/r/seduction12/08/15 12:40 PM
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In short, react in a way that shows you are not, and never were, seeking her validation (because you shouldn't), but be appreciative. I'm not sure how to best put it into words, but I'd probably describe it as a polite deflection or reframe.
/r/seduction12/08/15 12:36 PM
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I agree with the jargon thing but I believe they, as well as FRs, are most helpful to beginners (not that I'm a pro) and have their uses. The banter and how I reacted to what she was saying was all contextual. I wouldn't be reacting the same way if I was in a different environment or had different goals for the evening. It's actually part of my job to be able to gauge my clientel's mood/personality in a short time and accommodate them accordingly. I'll have to check out that video when I have ti…
/r/seduction12/08/15 12:30 PM
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Damn, I need to save that second video and just watch it once a week. I like the way he explains everything in the second half of it.
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:08 PM
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Didn't expect a mod to comment on this, but thanks for the input. The people who didn't understand why I put "nice" in quotes probably also skimmed the post, otherwise they probably would've avoided the confusion.
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:59 PM
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Yeah I'd say it'd be best not to hit her up. If she wants to hang out, she'll text you, but if this same kind of thing happened to you I wouldn't go out of my way to spend time with her again. It has to do with neediness as well as the fact that if somebody treats you like that there's no reason for you to try to include them in your life. The abundance mentality is crucial in these circumstances. There's way too many women out there to limit yourself to one who treats you like that.
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:47 PM
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I agree with you on that one. I thought about that before I had the conversation with her, but I felt like for me to actually learn something I needed to hear her confirm it. I have no intentions to start seeing this girl again so it doesn't matter to me what her opinion is of me. I did it for myself and myself only. This post honestly would be better off on /r/dating_advice but given that the original was posted here I figured I keep it here.
/r/seduction15/01/14 10:48 PM
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I agree in a way, definitely not as useful as the original post. I was just trying to illustrate how I recognize what I did wrong and what I should have done because some people wanted to hear about it in more detail.
/r/seduction15/01/14 09:04 PM
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I played football for 7 years and boxed for a while too, so that's not an issue with me. I was only out of the gym for a couple months, worst I've slacked in years. It makes you feel better and look better, but the real benefits I enjoy are the stress relief and natural high. I have asthma too so it helps with that. When I don't work out I get lethargic and stressed much easier, which can effect my decision making in social situations.
/r/seduction15/01/14 05:41 PM
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I do consider myself an introvert but I am a very social person, I actually get anxiety when I haven't been social enough. I'm just not very keen to certain social situations, ex. I don't like crowded nightclubs/bars for the most part. Lounges though, sure. I guess I should say I'm not the type of person to go out of my way to approach women in clubs/bars cause that's not my scene. This post by /u/JayGatsbyFan is actually one of the things I give credit to me having my epiphany, and I highly rec…
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:57 PM
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Yeah that's pretty much what this post is all about.
/r/seduction15/01/14 02:45 PM
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I've already done 2 years of college, I've just been out of school for a bit because of money and other circumstances. I'm definitely intelligent enough to be writing something like this. I'm smart enough to write something like this articulately, and most people I've met aren't nearly as introspective as me, so I don't see why me not being in school right now would negate the legitimacy of my post. That's one of the last things I expected somebody to comment on. And like I said it's about findi…
/r/seduction15/01/14 02:12 PM
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Well part of the problem that I explained is I was being too black and white, like with the balance of caring too much and not giving a fuck. I found myself on either far side of that spectrum rather than having a real balance between them when I needed it most.
/r/seduction15/01/14 04:47 AM
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Thank you, and yeah and the sad part is that's why I put the quotes.
/r/seduction15/01/14 01:22 AM
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I'm trying to make myself more like that last sentence you wrote except I don't have a problem with being confronted, it's more about committing myself to being the type of person I describe in the last couple of paragraphs. I agree though that people get nice and wimps messed up, see the top comment on this post right now.
/r/seduction15/01/14 12:01 AM
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Thank you, I actually kept my eye out for that book at the store the other day but didn't see it.
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:43 PM
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I'll definitely post one tomorrow then, specifically one that happened a few weeks ago. That gif was pretty funny, but I'm talking about actual face-to-face interactions here and not a facebook group chat. You'll see what I mean.
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:42 PM
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I'm not going to sit here and explain the nice, considerate things I do for people, that's not the point of this post. If that's what the point was I'd be whoring my good deeds in a different sub. I've always been a nice, generally kind person. I was more trying to explain the negative effects of when your niceness effects your life and relationships with people in a negative way. Am I a pussy? I don't think so. Non-confrontational? For sure, which is another thing (included in being more selfis…
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:40 PM
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Late to the party, but holy fuck this was so eye opening to me, have some gold you insightful bastard.
/r/seduction09/01/14 06:33 PM
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Glad I watched this, been guilty of this on several occasions. I needed to hear this.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:37 PM
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Fuck the downvoters, haters gonna hate. Good for you for sticking to your plan.
/r/seduction19/10/13 04:20 PM
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Yeah in the most recent situation I asked a coworker about something about me, or us I guess. It was kind of bold, so I held the line. She sat there for a few seconds and just gawked at me while biting her lip before she responded. I love/hate when women do that.
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:27 PM
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Makes sense, thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction16/07/13 07:54 PM
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I didn't think it was that simple, it just seems like common sense to me.
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:33 PM
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Dude... I have to try this.
/r/seduction08/07/13 12:04 AM
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Sounds like the best possible place to be a dishwasher. I've gotten so many good ideas just from this one post.
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:32 PM
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Where did you work in a hostel? I never thought of doing that but I can definitely see the benefits.
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:31 PM
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I completely agree with this. I lived in a 3 bedroom with two girls for a year. One was my sister who is 4 years older, the other was her friend who was a lesbian. It was literally THE best set up I'll probably ever live in. No drama in relationships because they never intertwined for obvious reasons. Plus they always had cute friends coming over to get their hair done by my roommates. They would always ask my roommates about me saying I was good looking, which gave me a great confidence boost. …
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:28 PM
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I fucking love reading stories like this.
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:30 PM
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