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| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestSorry, I know this is old but I just signed into this account after a while. - Anyway, a humdinger of a situation you got/had there. 1) About the time you made that comment I met a girl online and we chatted but she was wary of me because the OKC, the website, told her that I was "sex driven," and consequently she told me that, and also that she was "more philosophical" than me and that she was "more intellectual" than me. 1b) I told her that she was wrong to pre-judge me... I'm actually more ph… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?holy mother of gawd wth did u just link me to?? | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestI hear ya. True. people's ego makes them think or just Occam's razor they are not thinking xD but tbh I agree with you | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestahhhh misdirected beta hate * mmmhm * i feed off it | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestgeneralized what women want ^ ^ LOL @he/romaticized male | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?LOL | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Wait, what?I was waiting for a loch ness monster ending | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestOnly give her what she wants if she gives you what you want, which is sounding like an emotional connection. attention intimacy money baby That's all it can be, all it ever will be. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestPut her in the friend zone, and make it obvious. Okay, this sounds very interesting conceptually to me... no way you've ever made this work. I ... no. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestand guess what happens when she's done? She loses all respect for you. LOL that happened a looooong time ago LOL | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestScummier... but still completely valid, yes. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestYeah, non garbage, I would go I have to be honest, even though .... I think we make good study partners... I have developed feelings for you and it's making it.... ki-...I-.... [better not to be explicit let women feel in whatever emotions they want] ... I just don't think we should be study partners anymore :-/ I'm sorry. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:36 AM |
| 0 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestYou mean you right? The "another guy" is you. Because I disagree wholeheartedly. Ohhhh yeah, I was the host of a show at the time - she was immediately out the door and into mine. Give a girl impression you're stinking wealthy... see how "faithful" works in a female brain then. Go ahead. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestit's a big headache. Stupid mother fuckers love drama, happens more than you'd think I bet hahaha | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestBranch swingers, haha funny term for serial-monogamists | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:29 AM |
| 10 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestBut just know, if you date her or get serious, she will do this stuff behind your back. And I bet even right now you are not the only one. basic logic that escapes most people | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Can't differentiate attention-seeking vs actual interestFeels like I've known her forever. Stopped there. That seems to indicate attn seeking. | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?exclamation* marks I like that, potentially slip under the radar, to her subconscious: "do I feel horny/in need of attention?"* | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?LOL nope | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?if not that's cool too No that's implied | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?What's the point of a dick pic? I mean, I guess the idea is to get right in your face with your manhood... but it never has any positive returns... | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Taking a last shot with a girl whose ghosted you?I've been thinking about this too recently... very low return ratio so best not to dwell too much. However... I have a copypasta bin for dating... so I'm thinking I could have just a couple for this situation: [generically positive for nice girls] "Hey XXX, hope you're have a great day! :-)" [suggestive if it was mostly hookup] "Hey YYY, up for any upside down time??" *jk, not sure if generic works for that. Better to reference whatever playful banter you used?: (one that a girl used on me that … | /r/seduction | 19/11/16 06:16 AM |
| 14 | /r/seduction, I can't thank you enough.RISKYCLICK AMIRITE | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 06:01 PM |
| 0 | /r/seduction, I can't thank you enough.this edit: potentially relevant username | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Amazing documentary on alpha male behavior - Worth a watch!Naftalie for president. | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 11:05 PM |
| 3 | BASICS: 6 Common IOIs Every Man Should KnowNice well written list. I rarely read through full articles in this sub or post, in part because I am far enough along that it's not much help to be on the boards. However, still, many many many pages linked seem to be written either to boost the author's own ego, are trying way too hard to impress noobies, and drive traffic to their site. Even though admittedly not earth shattering new knowledge for me personally, I can tell you have written with an intent to educate and clarify. Your clarifica… | /r/seduction | 21/09/13 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readRelevant username! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 05:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readCurious about both of them. bi-curious ;-) Said 22 somewhere else in this thread. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 05:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readIt's an MPUA trying to inception game into our heads! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 05:49 PM |
| 7 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.NSA | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 09:43 PM |
| 32 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?:-) Nice. I fucking hate bars and clubs. Was the sewing class a local extension thing for an hour a week or what?? | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?Only if you're passionate about it ;-) | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 04:36 PM |
| 5 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?Re: Reading lol that's awesome | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 04:35 PM |
| 3 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?I am hoping that username is relevant. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?unless you just wanna fuck them I'd love to have the option, but I see what you mean, if there is no other chemistry it might not be the best use of my time. The best interactions I've ever had are when a girl and I have some harsh banter back-and-forth, where it kinda seems like we both hate each other Now this is the kind on /r/seduction that makes me smile when I read it :-) There've definitely been times (about a million) where I cross the bounds by saying something too abstract and making m… | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?:-D | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 08:39 AM |
| 10 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?Relevant user names to you both! | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?This. So many memories of being socially anxious/ not acting on it, at least for me, it can be like a thorn in your side! | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?sometimes i tease (playfully!) a girl with low self-esteem too much and she hates me. This. Fellow looker, my usual friendly sarcastic grin always got interpreted as being an ass. Only the highest confidence girls, perhaps lowest?, could hang. I've tried to recalibrate... but not being sarcastic, I'm not really me*. The main good thing I've learned is to slow down my speech, and simplify to just one idea per sentence. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 06:08 AM |
| 18 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?Yeah?? Good looking guy here, I not sure I get that... but I do tend to get friendly sarcastic comments misinterpreted as being an asshole :-/ | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 06:04 AM |
| 59 | Do girls get intimidated by good looking men like men get intimidated by good looking women?I'm not sure if I laughed more at the comment or the user name. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 05:58 AM |
| 1 | House party tomorrow, a bit freaked out, tips would be appreciated! (F)Are you a freshman too?? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Girl checking me out. I look up; our gazes meet, and we both smile. I walk up and... get blown out. Why?You weren't following this. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like some of the better known PUAs are a little bit full of shit?Psshhfft! Next you're going to be telling us that the tooth fairy doesn't exist! Or the Easter bunny doesn't exist! Or God!! Or that the government is just a bunch of people weilding the mythology of the state -yeah, right! | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 05:52 AM |
| -1 | It's like I Have Oneitis for Every Girl!Umm, they have cuddies... | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming Psychological DisordersGreat comment! :-) | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 07:15 AM |
| 2 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?:-D | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 10:04 PM |
| 4 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?Sometimes, actions come later than words. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 09:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?:-) | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Overcoming Psychological DisordersAddressing challenging psychological disorders is a necessary and crucial part of the process for many of us. Some, nay most all disorders cannot be 'overcome' but can only be managed in ways that best suit your goals and your best interests. The absolute best advice I could give anyone, in the general sense, is to first of all, do your best to be honest with yourself (this post you made is a great opportunity to do that, after you get some good feedback hopefully) about what those diagnoses mea… | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 09:06 AM |
| 61 | How do I let a girls know I want to be more then just a friend?"I would kiss you right now if that girl that likes me wasn't looking at us... I hate to make people jealous." edit: Here is me interviewing the man that I learned that from (I just published the episode yesterday :-) | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 08:40 AM |
| 2 | I come across as gay a lot of the time, what's up?Play "Fap or Trap" on 4chan, it is the only way. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 08:09 AM |
| 2 | How common is a no response after #-close?Common. | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 07:44 AM |
| 1 | I approached 2 girls todayFor 3 hours? | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I approached 2 girls todayWhen you set up a hang out, yes. When you first meet, not so much. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:21 PM |
| 2 | I approached 2 girls todayThe man can learn. Essentially yes, what the other poster said is useful information. No need to put up additional obstacles. Compliments are fine but you generally want to have a very specific reason for them. But more importantly what you did well. Approaching at all, indicating sexual interest, and having fun. Now all you have to do is switch up the order and the timing a little bit and you are good to go. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Winter depression, staying social and pickup?Why type of climate do you live in might I ask? | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?Girls love dat froyo. I dont like to do dates where its obvious that i am catering to girly desires. Like you could do something else near a froyo place and just wait for her to say you should do that and make talk you into it, then just make jokes about whatever toppings she orders. Also ideally, because i am pretty adaptable and like new venues if a girl suggests something or invites me over, i will usually do that. Recently i went to a fancy athletic club to play vball and her mom made her pa… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?:-) Normally I would say fuck what's considered lame or not... but in hs that stuff matters more. However, keep in mind that you can always make up some bullshit reason why that's what you have to be doing, "okay, i know this is lame but my hockey coach as I have to do 40 reps of x drill to get better... but if you want it shouldn't take that long and afterwards we can fuck around on the ice for a bit if you're free." Then when you get there you can just tell her that whatever, you're over it-if… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?I can understand that! I'm somewhat of an introvert with adhd so doing that actually makes me want to cut my dick off. You want to spend as little money as possible. Ideally 0. I like movie hangout time but sometimes this is interpreted as too forward for date one or two...which really annoys me. If you have some activity on which you are in your comfort zone and look like a boss, invite her to come along, examples could be Latin dance, beach volleyball, picnic with friends, To be continued, nee… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?Getting in state, not being in head. Logistically, hangout activities. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 10:40 PM |
| 1 | My hatred for girls fishing for compliments has caused me to never give any compliments to them. How can I find a good middle ground?Be alpha as fuck? j/k Seriously though, did you notice that that comment was about not responding to her fishing, but then the pro tip was about when she changed something, which is when girls are always fishing? My attention was brought to that. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid the getting the "player" stamp?Basically, act the way a beautiful woman acts if a guy calls her beautiful. I...I like this. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | My hatred for girls fishing for compliments has caused me to never give any compliments to them. How can I find a good middle ground?What if she changed something that I don't like? I think I'll notice. then she'll fish. Then I'll be ambivalent. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to hookup with a guy and not have sex?by above the waist do you mean you like guys to play with your breastesses? I not the biggest boob guy but if a girl has nice ones, by the time I get there that's pretty much the point of no return in terms I'll be sad face if that's where it stops. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How to be the guy the girl comes back to at the clubI think that it is more likely if you create an emotional hook or give her a nick name. I have done this, and when I see her again, I give her a mischevious and then get back to having fun. Unless someone she knows shows up or a rare dude with powerful game hits her up, she's likely to try to get my attention again. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Feeling down/Approach Anxiety? Try this.Relevant username. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:19 AM |
| 3 | How to be a good wingman?Yup. Pretty straightforward usually. It's not quite the cliche of jumping on the grenade but there is frequently one girl who's feelings are acting up on her which makes her subconsciously wants to sand bag her friend from getting any dick. This is your focus of attention. You can play gay sex in the city gay friend, you can try to bang her, but most importantly you can't let her be alone or worry about her friend, or be worried about by her friend, or get to drunk. Just keep her within the line… | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Yes, those points you make are true. But learning the rules of the game can be hard at times and it can be stressful and every once in a while some irreverent humor can be a welcomed respite. Notice that it was put in italics. It was brief. It included a reference. You should be encouraged by the fact that people picked up on the fact that it is diametrically opposed to any realistic ideal (you know, not real, like a joke). | /r/seduction | 31/10/12 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Tyler's The Game Is FUN AS HELL!Most thoughtful advice in thread. :-) | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 07:48 PM |
| 10 | Tyler's The Game Is FUN AS HELL!Neil Strauss said he was uncool in a book!! /s | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 01:45 AM |
| 7 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Breaking Bad? | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Rofl | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:14 PM |
| 10 | Tyler's The Game Is FUN AS HELL!I have very much liked the recent videos I have seen from this guy. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 247 | I got the girl, how do I keep her?Chain up in basement. Feed occasionally. Bucket lotion for skin care. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Texting too much reduces attraction, but is that still the case after a few dates?Only logistics until you eff. If you must text to build interest/rapport/sexual tension but randomly don't respond to 1/3 messages. For the ones you do respond to, take random amounts of time to reply (1min to 3 days) Once you eff, you can randomly not respond to 1/5. You can respond on average slightly sooner. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 08:45 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.It is very very obvious that you are starting with your conclusions and trying to use backwards rationalizations to explain why you are right. This is not a tactic of somewhat who is interested in truth or bettering the world, but of someone who will sacrafice their integrity to get what they want. I am no longer interested in continuing this conversation especially because you frequently contradict yourself and it is clear that not reason or evidence will sway you from the belief that something… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:46 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.The exact definitions of what that means, of course, are disputable, and thus it is never perfect for any one individual. Definitions aren't really disputable. We use words to communicate, that's why we have definitions so that we can be talking about the* same things when we communicate. I am not invading, because to invade, it has to not belong to me, and belong to them, and I cannot see a way to define this outside the context of an overarching state. Whether they have property or they don't … | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:41 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.While I agree there is something unfortunate about the way the state works, I see no viable alternative This is fair and open of you to say. However, your not seeing a way that people could live with a group of people who are allowed to agress against others, does not mean that there is no viable alternative unless you are god. It only means what you said, you see no alternative. and thus You were only saying something about yourself, this does not extend to truths about the world and society. b… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:30 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.All good and thanks. I am not a big fan of the state, that is, a group of people who decides the rules for everyone else in a given area. Sounds like we might have some common ground there. I like voluntary interactions and agreements. I try to avoid prescribing how people's voluntary interactions should or would pan out. There is just no way I can know this. I think I understand some of your concerns with the notion of property, but I don't know if I would go as far as invading other societies … | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:24 PM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Got it, thanks. I misunderstood at first. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 08:33 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Yes, and people could not make agreements, and undermine any of the agreements people did make. How would people not making agreements undermine agreements other people make?!!?? You are not making any sense to me. The "Captialism" aspect of the idea is what does not make sense; how do you propose capitalism exist? I feel like you are talking through me and not actually treating me as a person to have a discussion with right now. I understand that your feelings are that you dislike a concept tha… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 08:32 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.I am able to use a piece of land, and pick plants off of it. Now someone builds a house and a farm there, and starts farming. Would you talk to that person and tell him that you were getting your food from that land? Should I trade with him for the wheat? You tell me, I don't know what kind of society you are describing. What is the culture, the rules, and the accepted practices? He did, after all, steal my ability to freely pick plants there, my ability to make a farm myself there, and so on. I… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:19 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Sure some of them might. So once again, you are saying that anarchy may consist of a concept of property rights. But lets say I don't. I am able to go and use any item that is not used by another. So a group people voluntarily agrees on a societal code of conduct for their society except you don't,. You chose not to be part of that society because you don't want to agree. But you still return to that society to knowingly violate the rules that these people have voluntarily agreed to. Unless you … | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 07:07 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.People may try to trade land, for example. But how can you trade land when I don't agree on which land you own in the first place? Or which materials belonged to you? You already told me that people would have to agree on these things first. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:49 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.If I disagree with your "initial ownership state" (ie, the land or materials you used belonged to someone else), then I do not need to trade for a good, How is this my state? We are talking about hypothetical future anarchy. I have no state. Maybe in the future people come up with some sort of agreements, some way of interacting. You can take things because you have total disregard for everyone else in society? I guess that could be your point of view. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:33 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Yes, that is exactly it. There are no physical goods at all? No physical reality? | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:30 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.How do you determine who owns what without the enforcement of a state? People could make agreements? You said this earlier. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 06:29 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Okay... if you do not want to speak to what your actual concern is, I cannot make you. Let's continue to dance around and talk about the concept of property, as if that is your actual concern. The problem is simply defining who owns what to start out with. K. I'll note that you used the word "own" but you also don't seem to support the notion of private property. How can I make a trade with you, without us first agreeing that certain things belong to you, and certain things to me? Is it enough f… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 05:35 AM |
| 1 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Also, if you have not read The Dispossessed, you should go do that now. It is a Hugo Award winning sci-fi novel, so you can at least be assured that it is a riveting read, I always appreciate a good fiction recommendation. I suspect that if I was to read that book, you would only be interested in my post read insights if they resulted in my moving closer to your worldview which seems to be in the category of anarcho-syndicalism/communism/mutualism. even if you don't find the deep, thought provok… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:24 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.A lot of the rationalizations also use terrible or completely incorrect views of human psychology, I never make the* claim that AnCap free market theory is a* perfect predictor in every way. Nor do I claim or think that all of it's proponents are well versed in psychology. like assuming that rewards scale linearly, or are even needed beyond a token amount in most areas of human labor. I think what you say here is a good point to make and could benefit many people's world view. I do not see how t… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:14 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Free market in relation to the idea of property I do not know what you mean by this. A free association of people (stateless) who have come to accept some notion of 'property rights?' But in the abstract??? A relation? is only a tool which, That abstraction is only a tool? An abstraction that relates free association and a notion of property? while useful in many cases How is this abstract tool useful? for the progress How are you defining progress? Surviving? and self actualization of individua… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:09 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.but any physical goods or property exist only as forcible, unwilling exclusion of use of materials to others. All physical goods constitute aggression? If you foresee a stateless society as a society which only trades in labor, do they not have any goods at all? I don't follow. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:44 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.and without the state, the only trade-able good is labor itself I understand that this is your view. I cannot see into the stateless future. I do imagine that, yes, people might trade labor in a stateless society. I imagine they may try to trade other things. I am not sure exactly how it would look. You sound certain. I am not sure how you are so certain. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:42 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Free market cannot be inherently free as the initial state is enforced unfairly by the existence of a State This sounds like a lot recursive language; free isn't free because a state makes a state? How do you know that people won't have property without the state? Are you able to predict the future? | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:39 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Thus any property can only exist within a non-anarchist construct of the state, I am not sure that proves that, but again, I cannot predict a stateless future, try as I might. and as such, is subject to higher human rights and freedoms. I have no idea what you are saying here, sorry. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:35 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.the "labor" excuse does not explain away the theft of materials from the collective Excuse for what? The state defining property rights? | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:34 PM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.I don't see property as being rationally definable outside of the state Fair enough. I do not claim to know what kinds of decisions and agreements people would make in a future world without the state. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 10:33 PM |
| 7 | Are there any decent alternatives besides bars/clubs to meet people on a Friday/Saturday night?:) Pardon me i left out an /s | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 05:05 AM |
| 18 | Are there any decent alternatives besides bars/clubs to meet people on a Friday/Saturday night?4chan /soc/ craigslist missed encounters livejasmin late night public cables ads | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 03:41 AM |
| 0 | OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation.Well said, furthermore showing that human interaction is not a zero sum game. Are you an economist? Hope to see you on /r/Anarcho_Capitalism :-) | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I'm a DJ - I didn't play girls song. She asked me out a few days later.Kind of a brag, true, but I still feel like it does, he was being a high value guy doing high value things he enjoys. Girl was a welcomed afterthought. He is not used to getting asked out, he wants to know he was good in getting her number to get back in the driver's seat or if he should have considered something else. You know like built rapport, played hard to get, or sent a collage of dick pics. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:48 PM |
| 8 | What are some funny things you say that can be considered flirting?It can. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 11:49 AM |
| -2 | What are some funny things you say that can be considered flirting?Playing some coed volleyball the other week, this girl is on the ground after barely failing to make a hard play. I use her to prop myself up. TGG: "Could you at least put in some effort next time?! Jeez what is is this i feel like i am doing all the work! her mom was there too. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...:-) Thank you sir! Feels notbadObama.jpg to be honest. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...You can do italics in SMS? | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:21 AM |
| 25 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...Shit test. Forming a response to this should be fun. - Me? It would probably be the sarcastic route.* "Yeah...every 1,000 I drop a bunch of balloons and confetti on her head." | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:21 AM |
| -29 | Girls I approach keep asking me this...Upboats for alphality. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 12:20 AM |
| 1 | So, I had a date setup. She flaked. Now what?Tl;dr Tell her, I am gonna do this cool thing at this time, feel free to join if you want. I hope you can because I don't tend to flakers repeat opportunities. | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Girl stops replying when I suggest hanging out?Yes, she is always ancillary to your having fun, because that is who you are, someone who haves fun. If she happens to join you, great, maybe you'll have some more fun. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Girl stops replying when I suggest hanging out?She all one on the open ocean with some dude she hardly knows, what's she gonna do, say no? | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 05:46 AM |
| 3 | What are your go to jokes?Fascists. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, we need to talkBest tl;dr in subreddit! | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Pro Tip: Before Posting Any Pics to FB, OKC, or PoF, Get Them Rated on any 3rd Party WebsiteFor anyone else that does this: I would be very interested in knowing if there is a good alternative website (less sign up,less hassle, more accurate feedback). | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:25 AM |
| 1 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: PetsmartYo. Cats, dogs, feathers, dust mites. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I haven't had my own group of "boys" (friend circle of guys that I'm close to, not kids) since early high school...any advice?It's the worst, isn't it? Especially when they are trying to guess at what is going on and they try to impress a girl in ways that aren't turn ons (face palm) or put you down in ways that they think you aren't going to notice. Worst of all is when they try to elicit pity from the girl, like she's their mom, depraved approval seeking. Sorry, I'm making us both AFC, haha. I was on a google hangout on Friday when one dude went into full creeper/ one ups manship mode and it must have dented my frame… | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had my own group of "boys" (friend circle of guys that I'm close to, not kids) since early high school...any advice?If they are AFCs you probably should avoid them. Every time I talk with an AFC for 15 minutes I just about relapse. | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 03:28 AM |
| 1 | DAE Think it Would be Awesome if There was a ADHD PUA phone app? - I get numbers, etc but then NEVER get myself to follow leads.Seriously, I depend on external structure for everything. Google calendar tells when to go to appointments. Alarm clock plus tells me when to wake up. My task list tells me what do this week. Nothing reminds to follow up on leads, so I don't do it. It sounds silly, but the ADHD mind likes to torture its owner this way. Here's how I see it: Meet a girl, set it to green, yellow, red for quick play it, normal, or slow play it respectively. Then have it bring up the contact info with a general remin… | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"Awesome. That is gonna go over 69% of girls heads though, but awesome none the less. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 05:16 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"Fuck this subreddit is fun sometimes. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 05:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"I like this answer best at the moment. The throw logic to the wind approach. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 05:13 AM |
| 4 | How do you respond to "Are you trying to fuck me?"Tiger. Lol. | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 05:13 AM |
| 6 | Can anyone distill 50 Shades of Grey, once and for all?This. I just like to hang out with any girl who is in the middle of reading it. = no work | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Getting to the sex is getting easier. What next?This is what the Tom Leykis show was/is all about. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Getting to the sex is getting easier. What next?Feltching. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 03:33 PM |
| 2 | How to Deal With Jerks While Talking to WomenFacebook up. Hit your lawyer. Delete the gym. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Exit strategy for when the girl isn't ready.I say, go for the crash and burn or be friends if there is any reason to do so (mostly likely no). Crash and burn could even still get you a desperate booty call later. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 09:43 AM |
| 2 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Whoop there it is. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How many of you guys legit studied this material like it was for a class in college?Best comment in thread. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 01:15 AM |
| 1 | As a young working professional working 40-60 hours a week, I'm having trouble finding time to even meet people at all. What should I do?I just signed up a few days ago because I am stuck at home on call for work this week. Adapt! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What to do during the day time in my long Summer?You are a hero. Acting class is one that intrigues me. Also voice training which I guess is related. How was it? Was it through a CC? | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What are you learning right now? How are you trying to improve yourself?Thanks! I am lurker there, hopefully I am on track to know the basics. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 04:48 PM |
| 2 | What are you learning right now? How are you trying to improve yourself?Meditation. How to fix my back pain causes by a disc herniation. How to cope with anxiety. How to dress better (slow process). How to be indifferent about calling girls whose numbers I get. What happens in season 2 of game of thrones. A new dish to cook that is easy and healthy. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 04:51 AM |
| 1 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?Don't worry, everyone randomly gets sent to oblivion in this sub. The important thing is that you follow up by going to skyrim. | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:23 AM |
| 2 | "Aww, you're so sweet/cute!" Seddit, how do I react to this?You sound like you are giving a sermon. And then...at 3:16 into the psong "Yeah!"...in the book of Usher... | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 01:21 AM |
| 1 | DAE find yourself knowing what you should do yet still not being able to do it?Anxious person here, checking in. I have more memories of dropping the ball with hot girls than I'd care to admit to. | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Self-Deprecating Humor - Yay or Nay?Seriously though, I'm hung like a gnat. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!Looks are important for girls. It is smart to focus on what is important. Girls that know what they are doing make sure to make sure they look good, especially in photos. Thanks for all the downvotes, friends...please spend your entire lives focusing on the "attraction phase," make no effort to learn more about what women are actually like. /s | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Moved away from everyone I know and I need some actionYou sound like you have a couple subs to get through before here, maybe r/introvert or r/anxiety or r/mfa. I have no idea really but it's not clear if you are asking a logistical question or a self improvement question. But a friend base, start doing things you like with others. Girls usually follow. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Self-Deprecating Humor - Yay or Nay?I tell girls I have a small dick...3 to 5 times per day. I am 6'4" so I am not sure if they believe me... | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 07:13 AM |
| -8 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!Those mags are like maxim for guys, they just tell them what they want to hear/feel. The girls that know what they are doing focus on looks and camera poses, also communication with their bf. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 07:04 AM |
| 6 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!He's just gonna fap in there. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 07:01 AM |
| 1 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!Yeah. I feel like the OP is moving to fast for me. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 06:59 AM |
| 3 | I'm a girl and I'm on to you!I have seen some woman/girls post in saying that they never understood the "shit test" that is why they felt the need to start calling a guy out and getting him to show weekness and back down. Have you had that experience/realization since coming here? | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Are women testing the waters by standing very close to you or by prolonged "accidental" touching?Yes. | /r/seduction | 21/05/12 08:38 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Making Changes to SedditCan I be in your top 8? :D /I kid, I kid. | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Text game, on a different level.Ignore. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 05:40 AM |
| 7 | My rule of thumb for getting the environment you want.I think I love you?? Except for the whole getting married bit. Half your stuff bro. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Words of advice to those who get good at this...A high value problem, but a problem nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 10:31 PM |
| 1 | So ive been fucking a coworker of mine. I think she is catching feelings, what should i do?Wow. You always find some hidden gems if you read far enough down the page. Lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 05:01 PM |
| 3 | So ive been fucking a coworker of mine. I think she is catching feelings, what should i do?While. She may enjoy the erotic asphyxiation. Then seduce her cousin and sister at the funeral service. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Girls like me these days, but I'm a 22 y/o virgin... Embarrassment/insecurity/anxiety prevents me from losing it.Go to r/circlejerk for confidence. Virgin neckbeards are reverred there like the Gods they are! That being said, I understand your sitch. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:35 PM |
| 20 | So ive been fucking a coworker of mine. I think she is catching feelings, what should i do?This. Now the OP will just have to kill her. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:33 PM |
| 27 | Why Women lose the dating game (or: AFgirl?)Before you hit your expiration date, 30. [FTFY] | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:32 PM |
| 2 | has anyone here actually been hit, or beaten up, by an AMOG or jealous bf?I tried to tell them that a pimp's love is very different from that of a square! Yep. You? | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 11:12 PM |
| 3 | has anyone here actually been hit, or beaten up, by an AMOG or jealous bf?I had a couple guys, one in particular at a promotion mountain biking party try to fight me this weekend... Trouble is, while I am a tall guy, but I think I am a tall guy that people think they can beat up. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 04:54 AM |
| 1 | The harsh truth of why hot chicks go for the average joe...Moral of the story: DNA test any child you are raising/pay for! | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:31 AM |
| 1 | The harsh truth of why hot chicks go for the average joe...There were a number of other articles with similar stats (30% in Beijing, seems a bit of a strech imo, but I bet population density has a big effect on these stats): The perfect crime (they all look the same). Yes, I am going to hell for that one, excuse me my esteemed Chinese PUA brethren! | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The harsh truth of why hot chicks go for the average joe...Totally, not just women. Everyone is looking to upgrade all the time. I hope that is the correct stat because I was curious to know it! Problem with women though is they hit their expiration date earlier so settling becomes a matter of necessity sometimes. Which, as you say, of course, does not mean they are not going for some outside dick. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:56 AM |
| 2 | The harsh truth of why hot chicks go for the average joe...Yes, but this is who they settle with. They see how big they can go, fuck all the hot guys, then settle with poindexter. He things he's a winner, really she owns his ass. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:28 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone ever been to a singles event before? Pro-tips?Awesome. If I don't let my creativity out, I will go insane. This is just fact. This is helpful not as much for the example you give (I am sure I could make up tons on the spot, as I am sure you could too) but just the reminder that it is okay. :) In San Francisco I usually tell people how hard I am trying to be hipster, which is great because I out ironic them because the hipsters are trying so hard to not be anything. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:24 AM |
| 19 | What to say when your soloing and a girl ask where you friends areOr say "Oh long Johnson." | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:20 AM |
| 5 | How do you initiate sex with a guy?Above looks like the best advice you got, FYI. Also, Field report for sure! I'm not in this sub reddit enough, but girl posts are often a breath of fresh air. BTW, I've been this guy before, generally confident and funny and good looking but some weird brain fart where pulling the trigger to fuck just did not happen for me...so it does happen, but that is more the exception than the rule. Touch him on his chest, middle of the chest. That is unmistakable, even my roommate, female, basically went … | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Intelligence and Seduction- competing interests?I can sympathize, 28, it gets better. You learn to slow down and savor and explore different things. After all this forced education you are forced to be a robotic slave thing, not a person. Now I try to connect my brain to humanity in a less judgemental way...at least when I am in a chipper mood! That being said, I could stand getting a lot more ass. Do you have the problem where you feel the need to solve people's problems? Be a therapist? I moved past that but I still to this day am improving… | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 12:58 AM |
| 5 | I'm nobody special, but here's what I've learned in the last yearyou are somebody special! | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Learn the SKILLS, Stop the HYPEYeah. Fuck Kony! Right?!...guys? | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | The Ultimate "Bubble of Love" Thread.She is a hostile troll. | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 01:07 AM |
| -9 | How to Form RelationshipsYou are demonstrating and aptitude for and an interest in economics! If talking about rational self interest and voluntary interactions are in face your things, I strongly suggest you come down to reddit.com/r/anarcho_capitalism (did I mention that we recently took a poll and showed that we were 85% introverts as a subreddit?) | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 06:02 AM |
| -9 | How to Form RelationshipsYou are making nothing but good sense my good sir using pragmatic logical thought. Please, welcome yourself to r/anarcho_capitalism! We have cookies. :-D | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Simple game to show playfulness and confidence, while still being flirty!Yeah, you got time, I took it at 21. Not aware of any more 26 videos, I guess the guy is a stand up comic and maybe that's what he does more of. You might try searching by extramask. | /r/seduction | 09/03/12 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Simple game to show playfulness and confidence, while still being flirty!Thanks buddy! Hey how old are you? | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Friend zone level: HopelessLololol I love missed connections. It's like the most depraved futile state of AFC imaginable. Even when I am down on myself about my own slow game progress I can pause for a moment and say, "fuck, at least I am not that guy!!!" | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Simple game to show playfulness and confidence, while still being flirty!Upvote for username and comment synergy. | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Simple game to show playfulness and confidence, while still being flirty!Oh my, I am blushing on Reddit. I am not very active recently, I am getting over a chronic pain condition so I have not been upping my game as much as I would like but... I might have a recent seduction that is FR worthy. :-) It's just kinda depressing to talk about because I am not banging her right now! Stupid back/nerve pain. Also yes! You probably wouldn't be into an authoritarian, but that's the point of running her through hoops, this is how we find out. (Also your user name is a tell to y… | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | "You try too hard to 1. get people to like you 2. be funny." I need to fix this, and I want your help.I would keep in mind but not take it to heart. I studied abroad when I was newer to game and I think I gave that impression to more people than I would now. Keep calibrating until you've got the desired result. | /r/seduction | 07/03/12 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Simple game to show playfulness and confidence, while still being flirty!You seem like someone with high ideaphoria, flow of ideas! I am in that boat, if I don't keep creating games or roles or puns or sarcastic lies I will go insane. I see how this could be fun, especially if the girl is OCD or authoritarian you could really mess with her with having the rules be vague or inconsistent. This fits really well with making girls think you have particular standards. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Friend zone level: 99And tickle its balls? | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 01:22 AM |
| 1 | "I only have sex when I'm in love"Very solid. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 01:14 AM |
| 1 | "I only have sex when I'm in love"I would rather upvote you into Skyrim. Girls have feelings and they vomit up words like "I never do this." As Tom Leykis would say, "if you have a date scheduled and the goal isn't sex cancel it right now." Other than that, she is a coworker so that is generally a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 01:12 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyA scrub is a guy who can't get no love... Awesome FR sir. You sound a little bit more advanced than I am but I do know that saying "he really likes you" was not only the perfect thing to say but it had to be addressed. Poor guy, curious: what gave away that he was AFC. I realize that this may not have been that interesting. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Best Advice on pickup -- from 4chanGreat. Read it in granulated form on my phone. The emotional stuff is the best, the guy doesn't sound like a genius but definitely he gets it. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Death to Pickup Lines!;-) | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Death to Pickup Lines!You were at 0 points... yet I learned more from your comment than the video. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Death to Pickup Lines!Yeah, I was looking long and hard for a voice of reason. I mean just spending time on Reddit tells you what comments get upvoted. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 04:04 AM |
| 4 | Death to Pickup Lines!Also Seddit. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Death to Pickup Lines!It's a way to test your patience. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Thanks for answer my question on the slap. I'm trying to paint in my mind what 'kind of girl' this would be. Biker chick, hipster, spoiled blonde american girl, mexican girl, or just any girl who you give a lot crap/negs who decides that you really want to shit test you. | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Ouch, yeah, I feel ya. I mean, I have to get really creative with this because I am not your standard issue human being either. I might try to divert the conversation with randomness: "Do you think Snooki would make a good astronaut?" Usually when I talk about something boring I put my own abstract framework over it. In my head: okay so people who like to talk about main stream media/ MTV tend to act like this, I wonder if you could chart her meyers briggs, name any psychology profile, aptitude … | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 12:43 AM |
| 2 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.haha, yeah sorry. I was saying that I feel like I am a more effective seducer when I am try to maintain a certain pace. So like you said, if it gets too hot I try to de-escalate or if she's not feeling it try to bring it up. Seems just to work out better over all. edit: let me know if I don't make sense. Game conversation is really abstract and there are so many variables that my conversations are always really hit or miss. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 01:05 AM |
| 2 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Some nights I stress out thinking about how I can de-escalate with a girl Recently I've noticed that it puts me in a more powerful place when I think about how to get a girl within a certain window, rather than just threw the roof. | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 12:57 AM |
| 9 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.I'm not the OP but this will always be a problem. Especially if you are more sensitive/introverted/intelligent or some kind of mix therein it can be hard to be stimulated in a way that feels natural. You drive to keep doing this if you see and end goal. If you improve on communicating and knowing yourself you can target what you want. Everyone has something interesting about themself, something that would interest you, the goal is getting better at bringing that out. I have learned to be more di… | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 12:55 AM |
| 2 | I found seddit 18 months ago. I've learnt a lot since then. Here are some hopefully unique thoughts, warnings and tips for intermediate users.Well this is interesting. I am going to have to do some research on this. I liked your post by the by. Not many people get my interest to hang out with people because they are not like me. One thing you will have to explain is the slap you might get from a feisty 8 HB. How do you pass that and do I even want to? My move currently would be to end the interaction because I do not support violence. However, that being said, if I am questing and learning about the human condition, I might tolerate s… | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 12:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The No Fap Crew Are Going To Hate ThisNothing is wrong with going through an exercise in no fap. But I get anxious as shit all the time and I agree it can help. Is it the best thing? Probably not but everyone's different and if people start making unsupported claims then who are you to trust? | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Relevant SMBC comic about approaching is relevant.Brofist, engineer. It really doesn't have to limit you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.I do, I do. You got some good responses too. I guess I wanted to comment like that b/c I think that I have had problems myself being realistic about what solo game really entails. Going out solo is great, just don't put the weight of the world on your shoulders as far as being a rock star and having more fun than everyone else, it can psyche you out. | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 12:37 AM |
| -7 | [FR] The No Fap Crew Are Going To Hate ThisUpvote for No Fap Crew troll | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:57 AM |
| 3 | [Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.http://memegenerator.net/instance/13772531 | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:56 AM |
| 2 | [Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.Yes! This is awesome. I've been wandering around, especially traveling and people don't know how to place you but you look fun. They try to get you into their group but they are guessing your social worth, sometimes they are even intimidated, "you don't hang out with people like me usually, i'm sure, I probably should not even have asked." Even if that doesn't happen, it doesn't matter, as long as you aren't hungry, have some kind of upper or booze or whatever in you, the world is your oyster an… | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:51 AM |
| 7 | [Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.I also want to be able to be completely self-reliant in my social life. You realize how insane that sounds by itself, right? Just sayin'. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Relevant SMBC comic about approaching is relevant.What's your actual career? Actor who played a police interrogator on the show The Shield? | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Quality problem - Picking up tons of girls since moving to a city, but just don't have the libido for it...You don't know that w/o more info. There are wide variations in libido. | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Quality problem - Picking up tons of girls since moving to a city, but just don't have the libido for it...Just filled my first order of tadalafil, generic for cialis (why pay more) last nite. Generic4all.com : We are happy to inform you that a doctor has approved the prescription for your order based on the online consultation (Order ##########). Your prescription has now been forwarded to a pharmacy for processing and you will shortly receive a separate shipping confirmation by email. Cialis is a better drug than Viagra. It is a later generation drug which generally means it does the same thing but… | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 07:47 PM |
| 21 | Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"?I would like jump on this r/circlejerk style alpha train. choo chooo | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Why you got friendzoned.Dating advice from women.... * sigh *. Sad thing is it sounds like the advice is influenced by the PUA scene, perhaps even written by a man. So it is not bad advice obviously, but all of the girl feelings and story are not helpful unless you need help reinforcing the concept: * woman will not risk a therapist for dick when they can already get dick. * women like attention as much as they like dick. * it just doesn't feel right to them if you don't pull the trigger. For actionable advice: when yo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Your introduction. 25 words or less. GoUpvote for username coment combo. | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Your introduction. 25 words or less. GoThis. Thanks for articulating that. Vibe is a good enough term. I feel like as soon as I start thinking about what I am going to say/do with only the language part of my brain I am done. I can get anxious easily and I can just read people's response to me as awkward. And if I am understanding you right, I do the same thing where you just kinda hang back a bit until you are struck by something interesting. You might call it the intuitive subconscious part of the brain but it usually works. Don't … | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Older guy (41) seeks advice as to where to start in a new town. Help me Seddit, you're my only hope.Is bottom feeding on the drunk Jefferson an option? What kind of coed activities are there? Dance class? Hiking? Meetup com? Cooking? Maybe you can teach one at the college? | /r/seduction | 22/12/11 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Talk To Everyone, Not Just Hot Girls!I took this advice to heart for a while, but I am not that extroverted. It came of as unnatural and I think some people could tell, not that I'm a bad actor. Finally, I went out with my brother once, younger, and he said no, don't talk to them-that notion kinda stuck. Glad it's working well for you though! Main problem was that I would run out of steam before I got to the actractive girls and people who knew they had less value were like uhh, I think you want to talk to the higher value people..… | /r/seduction | 22/12/11 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Porn and Masturbation AbstinenceYeah, I have never heard anything conclusive just some anecdotes like that of the OP and studies which have a conclusion, *but not a conclusion that not masturbating to internet porn results in less fear of the approach.• that is an absurdly strong claim. Not that the topic isn't interesting nor is this a bad theory. I could just as well make a theory that: > motivation is not an issue but jacking off regularly rid me of approach anxiety b/c my brain thinks I have been getting laid all the time … | /r/seduction | 22/12/11 02:09 AM |
| 2 | My sister (who I live with) is in a sorority, how would you use this to your advantage to meet more girls if you were in my position?My friend's sister was the president. He would throw 'fish in a barrel' parties where he would get them over. Do that. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Little changes in behavior that will lead you to become more alphaWell said, "be yourself" is the pickup advice you get from women, and...yeah, getting pickup advice from women is like getting non tampon related advice from women (j/k, kinda) I think this kind of advice (be alpha 24/7, 110%) is not directly useful, it fits in the fake it till you make category, or like you said, don't blend in with the crowd, which helps to derail people from the AFC railroad, and gets them out of their comfort zone, but it's not taking them all the way to where they are going… | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:38 AM |
| 29 | Little changes in behavior that will lead you to become more alphaYes! Let me tell you why you are in r/seduction. You are here because you know something. What you know you can apparently explain. Additionally you feel it, like blue balls, driving you mad... Relevant factoid: I heard of some study, sorry no reference, in which they found that the person with the highest social status in a group was not the person who talked the most, but the person who was talked to the most. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Little changes in behavior that will lead you to become more alphaThis too. Understanding and being comfortable with your feelings is key. Everyone has down feelings and up feelings and if you try to pretend like you don't...feelings are too strong, you will be incongruent, it will confuse people. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Little changes in behavior that will lead you to become more alphaYeah, I guess I buy this but maybe the term is just being streched beyond the point of being useful. Also, why the distant voice, are you just a tourist in this subreddit? (I am by no means a regular.) | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:26 AM |
| 11 | Little changes in behavior that will lead you to become more alphaThis. I like r/seduction but I feel there is a Jersey Shore contingency (60 to 80%) and a more mild but not necessarily less savvy minority. One group likes to talk about 4 million approaches per day, and ALPHA... ALL THE THINGS!!!! I love game, the pragmatic mindset, the psychology, playing the odds, but are we in the minority if we are not about being frat till we die? | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Is "I'm going to break your heart" a shit-test?Thanks, good point. The post was a little bit of tl;dr and I was kindof assuming that the OP was already dating and had had sex a few times. In my mind I tend to separate dating and relationships from seduction. In any case, I think his issue is more about general psychology than seduction. Disclaimer: I am not a psychiatrist or a psychologist. However, I know there are shit test equivalents in relationships even: My friend with a kid on the way, and my former roommate with a baby tell me about … | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Is "I'm going to break your heart" a shit-test?You are trying to get waaayy too much mileage out of "shit test." Shit test is an approach term, an early stage term, things related to attraction. Your question is about psychology and mental health. Perhaps an underlying issue. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 01:08 AM |
| 0 | Motivational quote from Neil StraussI just bought it but it's been sitting on the shelf, I thought it was going to be more about how to actually have 5 flags and cover your ass for the apocolypse but it sounds like it's just him telling celebrity related stories from reviews I've read. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:35 AM |
| -1 | Motivational quote from Neil StraussCuz he believes the universe is trying to fuck all of us. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The power of social proof was underestimated by myself...Thanks for the response!! I wrote that not thinking that it would click with anybody and it didn't at first but a couple really cool responses now. :) (please excuse the typos) | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:12 AM |
| 16 | The power of social proof was underestimated by myself...Tangent: Your writing style is engaging. Simple sentences, but a brisk pace and a rhythm without a lot of filler. Gamewise: Thanks for the FR. If you want feedback: I'd say you are accurate about the DHV/ social proof (if we are to use cryptic jargon). Notes: My new kick, that is my theory about how women view and react and feel to these approaches is not (at least not usually) whoa, I wanna fuck that guy. Even though girls will say that amongst themselves, I think it's generally hyperbole, they… | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 04:54 AM |
| 15 | Created my very own pickup routine last night, and it's gold.so you realize for this to be a routine you would have to walk around with tampons all the time? Not that I have a problem with that, I'm just trying to hash out the logisitcs. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Created my very own pickup routine last night, and it's gold.Make new friends, but keEEEeeeEEp the ooold, one is silver and the other-.... | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix ithaha, i slowed down over that too. I can buy emotionally resilient. Practical minded might be in terms of getting someone to pay for their shit... and maybe they are always doing that have-their-friends-tell-them-how-pretty-they-are-thing to avoid moping. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix itWurd. And you can tailor your game and venue type to your strengths like err, picking your RPG or FPS class. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 01:36 AM |
| 8 | I never knew...Took me a while to realize too, all that focus on the glamorous, going out to meet people, looking good, memorizing lines...we are all gay and in the process of admitting it to ourselves. Let us consider your thread a glorious coming out party for us all! | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 03:26 AM |
| 5 | How can I tell if this HB9 is taking me for a ride or its just a serious case of LMR?Man, I forget almost all of my game with a 9, good call though. | /r/seduction | 12/06/11 07:38 PM |
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