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Inner Game TheGamersPad/r/seduction24/09/22 06:06 PM
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I've come to that realization as well, that I am actually pissing girls off because I've been told I am a catch but because I am shit at showing interest and escalating they actually think I am not in to them.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:49 AM
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It's all mental for me bro. Like i am starting the realize does impulses, where i want to touch her, get closer, kiss her, take her home, I got to listen to them not push them down... but I suppress them.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:46 AM
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Thanks bro, I appreciate the content and advice that you shared. But man the whole concept, I have alot of mental resistance, like the thought of me escalating feels like such a huge hurdle, yet I have done it, but that's all part of the game. Like I think I know what I need to do, but internally i am resistant. Like the process is very natural right if you like someone you would want to get closer to them, touch them, caress them, hold them, kiss them, want to hangout with them more, but I keep…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:33 AM
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Bro went philosophical on me and lost me... but i think i get it... basically i have to view physical escalation as an oppurtunity to learn about me and the women. I should view it from a lens of curiosity so that it becomes an natural part of me?
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:33 PM
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Yeah that's the problem with me right now. I have been in a relationship for a decade since uni and it ended last year. I started being more proactive, in the dating game but I feel like i finding that the timing of escalation is so foreign to me. When in your in a relationship, you naturally are just physical with your partner. But with someone new, you can't just touch them right, you have to like see if there ok with it before progressing, so the timing of all that is just weird. Also girls t…
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:04 PM
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I like how you stated to be more specific, and to describe the emotional experience. PUA seems to robotic and systematic but the dating is an emotional experience. I so happen to be reading the alabaster girl and the descriptions the author uses to describe the women in the book is extremely detailed and emotional, i will try writing a journal detailing the women I meet in that manner to start practicing.
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:59 AM
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do you know friends that are really talented photographers? they should be able to help you out
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:40 PM
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Ok time to clarify and go into details. So for number one, I tried on the second and third date. On the third date, she told me not yet despite us being all over each other... I tried to take her up to her room, but she said she is a submissive and she wants a LTR, and if we go up to her condo it would be game over. Ok... mental attraction isn't hard, physically escalating is weird because I don't feel comfortable but I guess i simply need to practice and work on my inner game. Noted No more fir…
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:39 PM
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Had an awesome photographer take photos of me that shows the many facets of my personality and lifestyle. - I do have a handsome face, I have been told. - I am lean athletic build from soccer - I look good in a suit - I short clip of me lifting alot of weights - I have 2 photos of me playing soccer and basketball
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:30 PM
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This post will have me thinking for the next month or so, it really does explain alot of things in my life that I noticed: My mom is neurotic and insecure as hell, but that was because when her dad died, she and her family were rejected by her dad's family and forced to survive on the streets of Nigeria, she has low trust in people and it has rubbed off on to me. My ex-gf of 10 years told me the breaking point was, I got distant from her and did not show her physical affection for 4 months becau…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 11:52 AM
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exactly that... this post will make some guys feel insecure, but the reality is... you don't want to be this guy, he has one thing going in his life...
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 04:38 PM
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depends on your up-bringing. I grew up with african parents and in a competitive sports environemnt... so I was probably conditioned to have boundaries... Also I expect her to have the right kind of boundaries as well... nothing over the top just basic respect boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 11:25 PM
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there is no turning back you are gone
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 11:23 PM
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She pulled you, but you didn't fuck up... so congrats. I was in a similiar situation where I met a french girl who didnt speak english well at all. She asked me if it was a problem but i told her no because we can use google translate. She was very happy about that and she told me most guys won't bother. So from my experience however limited, it could that you gained her trust by showing that you can adapt to her needs.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 11:21 PM
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Your not beta for wanting love or meaningful relationship, most people on the redpill here think wanting love is weaknesses and that's wrong. The problem with most people, is that most of us don't know how to have a meaningful relationship because it takes a lot emotional maturity to have one and sustain one. And most people aren't as emotional mature as they think. Because of the lack of emotional immaturity, most people run into problems and they don't see how they are causing problems and thi…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 01:39 PM
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yeah but if you look into the way elon runs his relationship, there is alot of holes.If you research the details of the relationship, it was dysfunctional. And thats the main thing alot of guys on here forget... they see high status guys getting divorced and then they think "hey if those guys can't keep a women what makes me think i can", no man do some research relationships those relationships have issuess that aren't being managed properly.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 12:10 PM
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Your just venting bro, your story is a case study of what not to do. This shouldn't be something to get angry about. She could have lead you on or you may have made a mistake in your game, hard to tell. When she says she just wants to be friends, just be honest that that's not what your looking for and move on. If you lift, focus on your career and your life, its easy to make progress, not everyone is pushing themselves to be better everyday, most people are stagnant.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 08:47 PM
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I know redpill builds up this idea that women under the right condition can seem like innocent virgins on one end and be total whores on another.... but sometimes I think, some men can be like that as well you know... the put up a front their prince charming and faithful, but they be shagging half the neighbourhood.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 03:36 PM
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I think its a redpill perspective problem where we think if your just ALPHA enough your women won't leave you. There is alot of other things that need to be cultivated like communication, managing expectations that needs to be solid for it to work.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 03:22 PM
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I think the whole autism thing is a bit of an excuse. Yeah it's a little harder but if you learn to channel how your brain works in the right direction, your not going to have much problems: Having ADHD is an advantage because you can hyperfocus We have a tendancy to have a wide variety of interests which can be transformed into an awesome lifestyle I used to totally lack social and emotional intelligence, but i started journaling and got a man's journal that prompted the right questions and it …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/22 05:35 PM
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LOL bruh I get that. And to be honest it's easier to hold information in your head by focusing on key concepts, and just extrapolating all ideas from key concepts.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/22 09:53 PM
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You make not thing it was necessary, but as someone who grew up in an engineering background and had to learn about killing my desire to be technically accurate when conversing with women, he lays it out well for the "science guys" who need that explanation.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 11:17 PM
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I am going to offer a different perspective... How well is he fostering the actual relationship with his girl and making sure the dynamic is healthy... basically we don't know if the guy maintained attraction at all in the relationship, we are just judging the breakup Breakups are messy in general, there is alot of guilt involved, on the dumper and there acting out because there mad they feel like after alot of investment... people who are not emotionally aware enough say some real stupid shit a…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 09:39 PM
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It took me a while to reflect on this post but the more think about it, the more I realize how true it is: The quality of the sex is highly dependent on the guy... when I look back, the quality of all my sexual interactions was dependent on me, when I sucked, the sex sucked, when I was on point I blew my mind and hers. I have been told by women I one of the few guys they can expect to have an orgasm with. Some wrote me emails on this. I remember in 2012 when I was at a camping party, I remember …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/21 03:19 PM
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You have some gems in your argument that most people who started lifting never trained for a sport growing u p. And that most people's view of fitness is limited to lifting because that is what is in vogue right now. Very few people have never and will never understand the pleasure of breaking someone's ankles in a sport like football, basketball, soccer. Most will never understand the pleasure of dunking on someone. Most will never understand the pleasure of outrunning someone in the open field…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 12:17 PM
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