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| 1 | How to make your friend see you as more than a friend?You stop behaving like a friend. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?It works how exactly? He shows himself interacting awkwardly with girls... how many of those did he actually "lay". | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub?I'd be more hard pressed to remember ever seeing good advice on this sub. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Things to watch/read if you want to develop a ‘rapid fire’ for saying random funny stuff or comebacks?Why do you want to do that in the first place? It won't be of much help in the long run, it's just a party trick. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird that I don't feel ready or mature enough to start to date or get into a relationship at 26?Maybe deep down you feel like the things that you enjoy are boring to others? Try to banter about the things you'd usually only talk about when you're drunk with cashiers and random people, and see if anything changes. I had this stigma about videogames, turned out everyone loves them. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird that I don't feel ready or mature enough to start to date or get into a relationship at 26?That's how it works. It shelters your sense of identity by justifying why you shouldn't do what you know you should. Do you have any hobbies? Anything you're passionate about? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Is it weird that I don't feel ready or mature enough to start to date or get into a relationship at 26?Reproduction is a core biological need. If you don't feel ready, it's just your ego playing tricks on you to shelter you from your overall lack of confidence and insecurity. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you want them to make the first move, it's because you are not confident that you can approach sets. You're running in circles around your self to shelter your ego. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meYou answered your question without realizing.... too much comfort, not enough attraction. Read mystery method... it has nothing to do with confidence. It's an art not a state of mind. Simply put, you're unaware how seduction works. Otherwise, you will not struggle this much escalating. What you need is more knowledge, not self-criticism. Can't read? https://youtu.be/w8E-lmub6R8 Here's all you need to know. All others are copycats who rely on the fundamentals laid out by mystery. Period. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I will translate it for you: you're not a creep, but you're also not exciting. I hope you find a woman that just wants a good man at home. I want someone who can turn me on. Being nice or polite is not wrong, being a pushover is. You should leave girls the room to chase and compliment you every once in a while. If you're taking all the initiative, you're satisfying them to the point that their basic instinct to pursue (we are hunters) is going towards someone else. (Or something) | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I get 20-30 matches a day but not a lot of success getting them to meet upOP... I don't want to sound like a prick, but I have a hard time believing you're being honest with us. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Men of Reddit, what body language you notice when you make eye contact with a woman?Doesn't matter. You can't fake confidence with body language. Your mindset matters more than anything. Your body lanaguage will reflect that naturally. I still genuinely hope you don't actually say that to girls regardless... it's very cringe. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 9 | Compliments with physical touchesNext question by OP: hey guys, do you think intercourse means she likes me? | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youShe should send him off of he's too direct. Otherwise, move on. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ok. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 37 | When and how to reignite the conversation after she doesn’t reply to you?You should be texting 3 or more girls at the same time at all times. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah, because Niel Strauss was such a looker.... You have attraction circuitry fundamentally misunderstood. Men and women are nothing alike. Women are more attracted to confidence and status than to looks. No amount of physical beauty will be a match for raw masculine energy. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It's 100% her mood. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 01:37 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Ugh.... scrolled through the comments. OP has no time to invest into himself but has the time to write essays on reddit. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach a group of girls.Read Mystery Method. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Going out as friends, should I?If she is suggesting the frame, it probably means that you conveyed too much interest. You don't get friendzoned for not flirting enough, you get friendzoned for being more interested in her than she is in you. (One way or another, it happened, no matter how much your ego tries to deny it) There are plenty of guys who friendzone girls and only deal with them platonically, while the girls have crushes on them. You haven't conveyed enough value, but you did seem comfortable enough to hangout with.… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Got this cute chicks number while cold approachingThe name is the last of your worries... your post says that your mental frame is all wrong. Getting the number is irrelevant, it's just a time bridge for a date, nothing less, nothing more. Objectively, if I was a girl, unless I had an absolute crush on you or I was completely bored, I'd view your initial text as lame. If you haven't established attraction at first, your chances of taking this anywhere are very slim. You didn't seem to give out any worthwhile details like how the conversation we… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth it trying to get a girl to change some of her ways for you?Red flag? Bro, you have this whole game so wrong | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?Be objective son. You're a virgin, he's not. Your idea of him being less attractive doesn't seem to be working for you, so maybe you should heed his advice. I honestly don't think you're being honest with yourself. Aren't you being nice just because in truth, you're not secure about being your genuine self out of fear of confrontation? When you dislike some form of behavior, mention it. If you didn't like her not texting back, state: I would have appreciated a negative response, it's the mature … | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Asking for numbers without a conversationIt may work on very rare occasions, but will mostly fail. The reason being is you would knock her value down pretty low if she complied. Even if she thought you were cute, she'll trash talk you in front of her friends when you leave. That's why MM suggests you need to disqualify and isolate the target first. Don't listen to the advice of RSD and "natural game" gurus, they are all fluff and no skill. You need to win the group over first, especially if they are friends, because it will create a lo… | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?Plus the fact that it teaches you actual social dynamics and none of this bizarre woowoo crap RSD preaches. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?Todd's game is horrible tho... | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?It's about group dynamics and attraction triggers. If you can't demonstrate value and be the prize, you will never have choice in girls, and you'll be stuck pursuing, no matter what mentality you adopt. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?Mystery Method has all the core concepts covered, everything else is fluff that does not work. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe?RSD fucked everyone up so bad.... wtf do you mean confident vibe? It doesn't matter. If you're not opening sets as soon as you enter the club, you'll never get good at the game. If you can't convey pre-selection at a club, you'll only attract horny girls that would have slept with just about anyone there by the end of the night. Doesn't matter if you sleep with hundreds, you can still be a dud who never gets the girls he wants. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?It could be that you over thought about her behavior, what direct IOIs can you list that she gave you? Also, did you ask for her number and built a bit of comfort? If not, why are you DMing her? That's creepy. Also, why are you wondering about the girl? Literally nothing happened between you except some idle banter... that's extremely awkward. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 01:50 PM |
| -1 | How to ask out a waitress?She's a waitress, your social value is quite likely inherently higher than hers... just man up son, be sweet, smile, and ask her out "you're cute, wanna hangout sometime?"... she's very very likely to say yes. But if she doesn't, bro, you missed a date with a waitress. No matter how cute she is, you should bear this in mind. You need to be selective. High level game with negs, frame control and DHVs is only for girls that are solid 9s or 10s. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 08:17 AM |
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