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| 1 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsngl I'm almost one of those guys. overweight women are the one thing that prevents me from being that. I find 99.9% of women my age who aren't to be attractive. too bad none of them have thus far returned this attraction 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?if your a woman, or a mega-attractive guy that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:39 PM |
| 2 | What is happening to men? I am concernedYou are a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedWhere do you think 100% of their income came from lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manExplicit law is not the only way a society can treat one group favorably over another There is practiced law even if not written which gives women favorable treatment in the court system. This issue is not so much that men as a whole are actively oppressed, more so that women a quite actively given significant help and assistance by society, while men receive none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 01:04 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manJordan Peterson is a quack. He says a couple of true but obvious things and gives some decent life advice, but then packs it with a bunch of bullshit about trans people, climate change, anti-activism, racism, etc. He did a video not that long ago where he said that Europeans have overall helped Africans, and the only reason not a single one of the 54 African nations come close to European prosperity is because they’re just inept and uncivilized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?They are well off and popular. Enough said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys who lie about their height vs women who lie about their weightHeight can’t be controlled while weight can and should be. Short men are kings, fat acceptance is cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusOther things are nice. But it’s hard to be happy with them when you are cripplingly alone. Most people don’t understand what being alone long term does to a person. It’s so painful. So very fucking painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersI fucking hate rich people so god damn much holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:52 AM |
| – | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalI prefer to view it as most women acting in their material interests when dating, while most men act in their emotional interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backI’m sorry, but if it worked, I would become a dancing fucking peacock for a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:49 AM |
| 1 | You’re only a “dancing monkey” if the woman isn’t dancing backI’ve never experienced this receptiveness you’re talking about. I do think it exists, certainly, but it is rare, and not the norm. Most women absolutely expect the man to do all the “heavy lifting” in courtship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?Women know how desperate men are, and many like to take advantage of this, I would imagine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.I even walk near a woman and they act like something wrong. Not long ago I heard a woman question to another if I was stalking her. I had seen her earlier that day, but it was sheer coincidence. It’s ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Are average men really desperate for sex?Yes. So desperate, you could never understand. Not just sex but intimacy, closeness. Being with another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Women don’t like me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?I would never lust after another if I were actually able to find someone willing to date me. I think a lot of other men are in the same position. You might find your partner a little less physically attractive as they age, but you’d never be disloyal to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:39 AM |
| – | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentI’m a virgin with quite bad ED and this post is bullshit. It’s bullshit, women don’t care about sex. They can’t. They don’t. They don’t care. It’s just a man thing and I’ll get over it somehow. Somehow. Somehow. I will. Somehow. I will. I will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menWomen are ridiculously more picky than men, in other news… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?We’re supposed to just kill ourself or something idk, I’m at a loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:33 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manThe apartheid comparison is a little over the top, but he’s not wrong overall. American society absolutely does everything it can to help women, while offering men nothing. And no, you can’t just make yourself trans. I am a man. I don’t want to be a woman, and I can’t change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:30 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manIt’s such a serious issue, one of the greatest which we currently have, yet I never see it talked about in the mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:28 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manAbsolutely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Let's Debate about the IG followers ruleI used instagram a fair bit in high school, and followed everyone I knew, ended up with with 80-90 followers, I don’t really see how you would get to 1k+. Perhaps because my whole school only had 4K people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | I think a new culture of transparency and accountability regarding female sexual power would go a long way toward fixing contemporary gender relations.With good reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Let's Debate about the IG followers rule300 people from school? Wow, damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to themWhere did I say that women should be made to fuck men they don’t want to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionWhen men try too hard with fashion they get called gay, same if a man were to put on even a gram of makeup (something which is geared towards femininity rather than masculinity anyways). It should also be mentioned that women are obese and anorexic at higher rates. And as far as I can tell, while there are more unhygienic men than women, the average man has fine hygiene. From a quick google search, men actually shower more often than women, at least in the US. Men also exercise more on average. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionlmao pokimane but yeah she’s hot af even in that unflattering picture, but most women in my experience wouldn’t find the fellow on the right attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Women are just as visual as men. It's just that most men don't elicit this type of attractionBeing willing to date partners who are less outwardly attractive is a good thing, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:08 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.>Is Redditor >Has sex doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:04 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.Absolutely true, but I do still agree with the title, as ridiculous as this post is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:01 AM |
| – | CMV If you‘re a Man and the only thing that u value in a Women is sex you’re a weirdo.He’s lying lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Men with few options usually screw up the few options they hadIt’s not even necessarily social ineptitude. I understand social queues and how to act socially intuitively. Both before and after, and even to a lesser degree, during, and interaction, I know precisely what to do. But then I can never actually do it. I speak to softly, say something apart from what I meant to, mumble, have awkward posture, etc. And as much as I try and practice, it never seems to get any easier or better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to themThere are ways to influence women on a societal level. Implement policies that encourage marriage, (such as tax benefits, subsidized housing, etc.), and criminalize adultery, to reduce hypergamy. Increase minimum wage, give unions better conditions for organizing, remove right-to-work laws, etc. so men can more easily become breadwinners. And stop being so accepting of women being ridiculous with their standards. I’m a feminist, and support women’s empowerment generally, but dating is one area w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.Most all men find most all women attractive. Men are not the ones with unreasonable standards. To say so would be a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:30 AM |
| – | Asking that women be with men they are not attracted to has never, is never, and will never be a remotely plausible solution to anything.Where I disagree is that male loneliness is a problem Please take a long walk off a short pier. It’s more of a problem then I could imagine you ever understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is not completely consequence free.Women really don’t know what it’s like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:26 AM |
| – | Do you believe the women on amiugly?woman moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.We need to bring back unions. Men have had a harder and harder time being breadwinners since union rates have declined. In 1954, unionization rates were more than triple what they are now. I can’t even find anything decent and unionized in Kentucky, with our abysmal 7.9% unionization, and “right-to-work”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:19 AM |
| 0 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.women are way too picky tbf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | A significant association between suicide intent and gender was found, where ‘Serious Suicide Attempts’ were rated significantly more frequently in males than females.:( | /r/BlackPillScience | 14/03/23 03:23 AM |
| 20 | As a woman, I think gender roles are naturalAs a gender abolitionist, I strongly disagree. Gender roles are, yes, greatly influenced by biology, but society has constructed the expectations that all individuals conform to these roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | What do women gain from having relationships with red-pilled men vs. blue-pilled men?I hate that right wingers have co-opted the term redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 02:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys on Reddit love to claim that only an incredibly low amount of women can cum from penetration because they don't want to blame themselves.Please stop and look at yourself in a mirror. You are not a good person, you know this. Internalize it as the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to?Women aren’t entirely unattracted to most men, they simply have high standards. If they were forced to “settle” or whatever for some reason, I feel that most would realize they can be happy with a man of equivalent attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:50 PM |
| 4 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandrytrue but also dumbass bullshit. I feel like women are really just much more picky, just look at gay men vs lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:47 PM |
| 9 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandryA lot of bi men, such as myself, are really only attracted to feminine individuals, and feminine women obviously greatly outnumber feminine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:45 PM |
| 0 | "Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship how much porn is acceptable? What is crossing a boundary/when does it become a problem?that’s definitely way too much porn, and I say this as a complete coomer. Definitely talk to them about this. I wouldn’t be surprised if they themselves wanted to view less, porn can be addictive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:43 PM |
| 3 | the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren'twtf no lmao it's a Led Zeppelin reference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most mencringe peterson, i thought he would at least have a good take on this, but not even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:33 PM |
| 51 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most menSimilarly, women are more attracted to men that have already been in relationships, and have more experience. This creates a positive feedback loop for those who have already been with women, and a barrier of entry for those who have not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:30 PM |
| 22 | [CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most mensaying the solutions is that every man needs to “become a top tier man” is like saying the solution to poverty and wealth disparity under capitalism is for everyone to own a small business. It's impossible. Doesn't mean you shouldn't work to improve yourself in both situations, but a individualistic solution can never solve a systematic problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | the problem isn't sex the problem is that men are still expected to be traditional while women aren'tThis Is All I Gotta Say To You Woman: Your Time Is Gonna Come | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are projecting when they try and scare women by the "cat lady" and "die alone" trope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?You realize these are different men with differing opinions? Men on here are not just one big hivemind lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverwomen need partners to be happy just as much as men. this is not true. women: seek out a long term relationship. you will be unhappy in the future if you do not have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverwhere is this? maybe i can find a woman my age who has as little experience dating as myself, haha... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Men would be better off having female friendswomen avoid me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty should be deliberately searched for in a partner, not assumed and taken for grantedloyalty is the most important trait in a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Men are projecting when they try and scare women by the "cat lady" and "die alone" tropewomen do not like to be alone. i refuse to believe it. it is not true, women who choose to be alone will die sad. seek a male partner. please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Can we stop these double standards?People can have bad preferences. Only being willing to date white people because you’re racist is clearly bad. Why don’t we also see it as bad when people prefer not to date bisexuals? And body count actually has negative effects on an individual/relationships, so it is a reasonable preference. Studies show that higher body counts lead to lower partner satisfaction, and higher divorce rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?genetically ugly women are like 0.1% of women. even deformities and shit don’t bother most men. the problem is that women are far more picky with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?As a young man myself I would say 99.9% of young women who aren’t overweight are attractive, plus a decent portion of women who are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why are redpill guys so angrywe need another world war dammit I’ll take the jail time for the draft | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationI do recognize the ways in which women are discriminated against outside of dating, and it is terrible. That being said, I would prefer that a large fat ugly man violently raped me and hospitalized me if it meant I had the dating advantages that women do. Yes I understand it would be horribly traumatic and I would be effected by it for the rest of my life. Still worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 7 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationYes, women are discriminated against in a million other ways. But women don’t realize just how important the advantages they get in dating are to overall life satisfaction/happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 rulewe need a national girlfriend distribution distribution service unironically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 17 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationWhen it comes to dating and relationships, women have all of the power sadly. Most men are willing to date 85% of women and women use this to their advantage to be picky af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women don't need marriage in 2022we need a national girlfriend distribution service | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think settles more in relationships?Women settle more but only because they have absurd standards and are never happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks.People just in general should not be promiscuous. Sex and relationships should be a serious matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:37 PM |
| 18 | Does availability of options dictate whether someone views dating as a market?Yeah I often find women acting as though dating is just something they do as they please meanwhile dating is more like a massive goal in my life and to be with one woman one time would be a major accomplishment/achievement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | At what age have you personally felt most sexually desirable to the opposite sex?none | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.Criteria and parameters are fine. But grouping some of them into "red flags", and acting as if everyone should look out for and care about the same "red flags" (as people do on the internet), is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wish femcels were real that would be epic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 7 | According to a 2020 study, the rate of 18- to 24 year old men who had no sex in the past year jumped from 18.9% in 2002 to 30.9% in 2018, while women's respective rate only went from 15.1% to 19.1%. This confirms the recent trend that women are having more sex with the same men.yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are initially attracted to more than just a small handful of menAs a 5’10 average looking man I’ve had a small but consistent amount of women approach me while out at parties, clubs etc. this is just a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be.I've always felt this way about maintaining a relationship, it's entering one that that is so very hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you recommend your single friends to each other?dont have any friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.I was already a loser virgin long before I started to consider why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.strong disagree. As a man, I could care less about casual sex. I'm interested in a LTR (and sex ofc but not casual). If all I wanted was to get off, I'd just jack off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.statistically just not true. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-sexual-history-affect-marital-happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:52 PM |
| 7 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.I love women in theory so much, but in practice they cause nothing but pain. I guess I wouldn't mind a meteor all that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.You mean women? hahaha But really, just because "hypocrites can date" doesn't mean you can't be critical of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 8 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.I hate "red flags". I never view a trait as a "red flag". It's just another thing about a person, good or bad. It seems like it's mostly just social media bullshit that doesn't work in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.Yeah but that sucks for 80% of men. More than sucks. It's a systemic issue which needs to be addressed. It's that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?What I’m saying is that if it weren’t punishable for military personnel to commit adulatory then their rates would be even higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Infidelity in the military is greatly increased relative to the general population because servicemen spend extended periods of time away from their partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:00 AM |
| 7 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Ok but you do understand the difference between statistics and anecdotes right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Criminalizing adulatory has nothing to do with helping people get laid. Maybe encourage faithfulness to some degree, which I hope you would agree is good. Discouraging hook up culture isn’t just to help people get laid. I mean, it would even make some people have a harder time getting laid, at least as much as they currently do, obviously. But mainly, as I said, studies show that it makes those who participate in it less happy in the long term too. It’s really good for no one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 6 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Ok that’s fine I listed literally 0 of those things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 4 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Here's a copy and paste of my comment on the post: I think the main issues are women having higher standards, the commodification of dating, and hypergamy. I don't just blame women for these issues however. The progressive movement which has occurred in recent years is a cause. Women are now able to support themselves, and don't need to rely on men. Sex is no longer something which is frowned upon outside of just reproducing. That being said, I am a progressive and a feminist, and I don't think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Society will always grow and change. Capitalism will eventually be replaced with socialism and communism, and it with something else. It's funny, people nowadays under latestage capitalism can more easily imagine the end of the world than a change in the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 7 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Dating issues and loneliness are increasing on a broad societal level though. Societal issues require societal answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 10 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?There is an obvious problem of increasing male loneliness. Incels are a symptom of this, and if we want a solution there must be a systemic change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 9 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?I think the main issues are women having higher standards, the commodification of dating, and hypergamy. I don't just blame women for these issues however. The progressive movement which has occurred in recent years is a cause. Women are now able to support themselves, and don't need to rely on men. Sex is no longer something which is frowned upon outside of just reproducing. That being said, I am a progressive and a feminist, and I don't think stripping women of their rights is a solution. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBASED SOUTH KOREA LETS GO, STILL A CAPITALIST HELLHOLE, BUT DAMN I WANT THAT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI doubt much will change, but a movement in favor of marriage and monogamy, and against hypergamy would be very nice. As far as government policy goes, subsidized housing for newly married couples, cheaper, or even free college education, and criminalization of adulatory would be a start. Abolishing capitalism would be pretty epic though if anything is on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think most people have sex on the first date, and no kissing isn't really that bad either. It's probably fine. Just try to continue things along as if there's no problem, because there's probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbut many older couples seem not to be happy with their marriages... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps.You make it sound like men are just worse than women or something. wtf. Even if what you're looking for is a serious long term relationship and not just sex, you'll have a vastly easier time as a woman than as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menAbsolutely true. Straight up, I find like 99.9% of women my age who aren't overweight attractive, plus a decent portion of those who are. Women seem to find such a tiny portion of men attractive. I absolutely hate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?I thought you were talking about just some women. I'm not great with women, but I'm pretty sure most of them don't want to spend their lives alone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?What does that have to do with anything. If they just want to be alone, that's fine obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherYou're not wrong but I should mention "men who regularly get laid" are not in touch with the reality of the vast majority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Why are you trying to shame "women" into lowering their standards?Because they should lower their standards... It's that simple. It's not "settling", it's being realistic. And if you're willing to be with someone who isn't super attractive or wealthy or whatever, you might find that those things aren't as important as you thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Health, but also my anxiety in a way. My doctor has said I need to see a urologist, but it took me like 6 months to build up the courage to talk to him about it. I'll see a urologist eventually... I came up with the name when I was in middle school like 8 or 9 years ago lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Men who want a woman desired by others VS Men who don't want anyone to notice their womanI am very insecure so I dislike the idea of other men being interested in a theoretical SO. In the end though, as long as she is only interested in me, I am more than happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?Hopefully I currently have none, but with my ED that might stay the same, but hopefully it would not. I don't want to die a virgin, and if I were in a relationship with a woman I would obviously want to engage in mutually satisfactory physical intimacy. No, I'm also very awkward and uncharismatic, plus I have the aforementioned ED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceAgreed. I've never understood why adulatory isn't criminalized. I mean, otherwise, what's the point of marriage being a legal government thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the differenceI understand that you're probably right, but I need the copium. But I mean, even a gal who is with me because of a state mandate is millions of times better than nothing at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?This is just outright misandry. You are straight up just saying men are worse. wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:42 PM |
| 4 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.It is a relatively high level need, and it is something anyone should be able to have. We are entitled to it, or at least a real opportunity to achieve such things. I am a progressive, and an intersectional feminist. I believe one line along which people are oppressed which is often ignored is attractiveness. We need large social changes. I support certain policy changes- subsided housing for newly married couples, a Gaddafi inspired policy. This will encourage marriage at a younger age, and inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:10 PM |
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