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I literally have no idea if he has the nudes saved. I never asked him. But knowing how men are, I think he still has it saved. That would be funny because I remember at the time when I sent them, he said how my body was unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:38 PM
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He was 17 at the time. Now he’s in college, so he’s 19 right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:40 PM
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Thank you so much! I haven’t thought the answering machine. I’m not quite sure on how to do that? There’s tutorials on YouTube right? I think the hardest thing for me to do is talking to the police. I remember talking to a social worker and a police was accompanying him. And they both basically gaslighted me. And I broke down in front of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:15 PM
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I definitely needed to hear this, thank you so much 🙏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:51 PM
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Yeah I hate to say this but my dad is far from a HVM. So he doesn’t see where I’m coming from. 💀 He thinks celebs use it as a form of communication 24/7. And I literally sat down with him and explained the dangers of Snapchat. He refused to listen. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:45 PM
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Sorry, I wasn’t really sure where to post this. Thank you! 🙏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:37 PM
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Thank you. My parents aren’t being supportive at all. I’m trying to tell them that Snapchat is a red flag. My dad is like “he’s just trying to market himself since he’s well established.” And I’m like no, he’s being disrespectful. Because he’s also posting stuff on his Instagram story. So he’s definitely ignoring me. Oh and btw, the guy is in the same grade as me. He was featured in an article, so it’s a real person. But yeah we’re getting older so it’s weird to use snap. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:32 PM
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Tell me how I got treated wayyy better when I started being mean to men. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:30 AM
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As a young black teenager, all I have experienced is misogyny, trauma and exploitation from my own father and other black men. It’s sickening. It took me such a long time to feel confident in my own skin and body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:00 PM
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Anal is so normalized to the point where teenagers like myself are getting approached with this same topic from boys. Men think majority of the women gets off on it because they saw pornographic scenes. I’m just appalled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:08 AM
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Maybe I’m just overthinking at the end of day. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:33 PM
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Hm, it’s kind of a red flag. We all are going to age, even him so, this statement sounds odd...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:32 PM
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How do you turn off DMs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:30 PM
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Exactly. I find myself carrying the convo majority of the time. And I’m noticing that the guys who complain about dry convos are the ones who absolutely bring NOTHING to the convo. They expect the woman to do all the work. It’s frustrating and I’m over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:17 AM
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Facts. And it’s always the ones who don’t even wash their ass and groom themselves properly. It’s the audacity for me. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:09 PM
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I feel you. This hurts me so much. My mom wakes up early, works a tiring job, pays the bills, cut the lawn, buys groceries, clothing, etc. There’s little to no reciprocation on my dad’s part. My dad has all the free time in the world and makes less compared to my mom. My dad doesn’t get my mother gifts. Nothing for her birthday and the holidays. He always made excuses and put the blame on my sister and I. He never took her out. For Christmas, I saved up money so she can go buy whatever she wants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:12 AM
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Period! I’m happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:36 AM
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I just blocked a dude over this. He was also pornsick and had poor hygiene. He doesn’t even wash his ass. You made the right choice. If you had put up with his BS, you would’ve been in for a disaster. You deserve the world sis, never settle for less. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:45 PM
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Whew I definitely needed to hear this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:12 PM
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Any man who suffers from pornsickness is automatically a LVM. 🤢Just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:01 PM
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That’s so kind of him! I wish I had a dad like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:08 PM
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Thank you ma’am. I’m so thankful for this sub. Ever since I found this sub, I know how much of a narc my father is. I used to be a pick me because of him. I used to seek validation from the wrong types of men. Constantly falling into the trap of changing a man and putting up with BS. Not anymore. I will create a plan so I can move out once I am of age. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:18 PM
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I called CPS a few months later and my social worker did absolutely nothing. He didn’t care that I had welts from my dad putting his hands on me. The social worker was also in favor of my dad since they come from the same country. He also kept on interrupting me and made it hard for me to talk about my situation. It’s like he didn’t care at all. He just said it was discipline and he probably thought I was a rebel. My sister also called CPS and my dad found out and forced her to change up her sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:10 PM
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It happened around 2 years ago. I was 14. My father constantly says stuff like this. He even said that because of my attitude that a guy wouldn’t want to marry me and I’ll be lonely for ever. And I was like I don’t care and he immediately said that you will regret it and he emphasized that “the clock is ticking” and how I’m expected to have kids soon. Funny thing, this is the same father who shamed women online for ending up in abusive relationships. Meanwhile, he’s putting his hands on his own …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:41 AM
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He said how I’m supposed to get stretch marks during pregnancy only. Since I got them early, he said how I needed to eat healthy and how I ruined myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:26 AM
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I know right? In my situation, my father was the first person to body shame me. He felt the need to put me down since I developed stretch marks early. He said no one would want me. “Guys don’t like that.” As if I needed a guy to be able to love myself. My mother has stretch marks as well and she still went in on the shaming. Funny thing is that my dad is really overweight... 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:24 AM
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Thank you for reporting! This is so sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:26 PM
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I was in the same spot as you a year ago. Most of it stemmed from my LVM father and my enabler mother. I was abused, depressed, and I was seeking love and validation from the wrong type of men. Older men took advantage of me while knowing that I am a minor. I’m so grateful for finding this sub. I regret what happened but I’m proud of the woman that I’m becoming since I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:43 AM
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Facts. Block, delete and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:21 AM
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“I just started using my phone for the day” Total BS. He’s clearly lying to you. If he wanted to make the effort to text you, he would have. He’s definitely not thinking of you as a #1 priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:53 PM
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Yes this post speaks volumes. I’m already seeing it with my parents. My mother is always a “manager” for my dad. She keeps on saying that he will change his ways eventually and things will get better. To this day, the house is not renovated, the pool is green, and my father is unemployed and making way less than my mom even though he has all the free time in the world. It’s been like this for 9 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:34 AM
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I showed my LVM father this post and he said how there’s truth to this post. He continued to make so many excuses for the rapper and saying how he wasn’t being negative. I’m honestly so appalled. This post is clearly degrading black women. You do not see any woman referring to men as exhibit A or B. My father also told me how I’m playing into the “angry black woman” stereotype just for DISAGREEING with him. Oh and this is the same father who claims to support feminism. I’m so sick and tired of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:47 PM
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I’m so thankful for this sub! It’s so hard being a teenager with dysfunctional parents. It’s so easy to fall into peer pressure and horrifying situations. This sub has definitely saved my life! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:56 PM
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Sis, this ISN’T your fault AT ALL. This man was going to put you through an emotional rollercoaster. He has gaslighted and ghosted you, and treated you as a second option. He did not make the effort to take you out to eat on your birthday. He also did not want to commit to the relationship. I know that this is your first love but, you shouldn’t take this to the heart. This man obviously didn’t care. If a man wants you, he’ll show it. He’ll make the effort to do anything that’ll make YOU happy. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:58 AM
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Nope. My mother makes excuses and bends backwards for my LVM Dad. When I was younger, I thought my dad was a HVM until I went into my teenager years. My mom would often say how things were better with my dad when she didn’t have kids. Now he’s lazy, aggressive and grumpy. He doesn’t take my mother out to dinner anymore. He doesn’t get her gifts and he’s very hostile to my sister and I.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:11 AM
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Oh my, I’m very appalled. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:55 PM
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I was talking to a dude about Thanksgiving and he immediately resorted to talking about jerking off. Disgusting. 🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:03 AM
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This post speaks volumes. I remember when I made the decision to cut my damaged hair all off back in June. My low-value father immediately said something along the lines of “Your beauty will decline, are you sure you want to do this?” He didn’t even care about me wanting to have healthy hair. He immediately resorted to what men would think of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:53 AM
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Same thing over here. My dad met my mom when she was 18. He’s 5 years older than her. As years go by, he starts to become a grumpy, narcissist individual. The house that my mom and him brought hasn’t been renovated in 10 years. He doesn’t make the effort to take my mom out, he takes extremely long to do simple tasks like going grocery shopping or fixing the light. My mom obviously makes excuses for him. My sister I were often abused and in trouble for petty things. He would constantly make up li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:08 AM
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Thank you for the reminder. I’ve learned so much on this sub. Growing up with an enabler mother and a LVM father has affected me so much. Thank you again. I feel like I’m heading on the right path. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:42 AM
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Stop right there. You are worthy of love. Always remember that you are the PRIZE. Do not let the actions of a LVM bring you down. Level up and get that masters degree sis. 💁🏽‍♀️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:38 PM
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I wouldn’t even do Netflix & Chill in the first place. We all know where that leads up to. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:39 PM
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This one is definitely a rollercoaster that I do not want to end up in. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:15 AM
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Yes. You hit the nail right on the head! My own father has abused me and I really thought that this was normal. He shamed me for having stretch marks when my enabler mom has it. He gaslights me and make it seem like I’m overreacting or my opinion doesn’t matter. It often made me feel depressed and I ended up seeking the wrong guys and getting groomed and taken advantage of on the internet. I’m only 16 and I’m trying to heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:13 AM
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It’s really tough out here for women but do not give up on your dreams for ANY man. A lot of the women in my family made the mistake of doing that. And honestly, being single is way better than picking up LVM who will WASTE YOUR TIME and bring you suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:02 AM
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This is just so sad to hear. I don’t know how she put up with this for so long. I’m at lost for words...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:52 AM
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Once again, thanks for this sub!! I’m glad to be here. I made a lot of mistakes in the past but I’m now focusing on leveling up, fulfilling my dreams and being financially secured. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:23 AM
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Oh my, this is a nightmare. Please do not get back with that man. He’s definitely manipulating and abusing you for his own pleasure. Do not entertain those CROCODILE TEARS! 🐊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:24 AM
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So sad. Im getting flashbacks from the past. I’m a teen and I was groomed a lot and conditioned to believe in this way. 😔Thank god I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:10 PM
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I love this post. Unfortunately my mom is an enabler and my dad has put his hands on my sister and I over petty things. I can’t wait to break the cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:40 PM
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It’s the last slide for me. 🤢💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:42 PM
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Thank you, I don’t really have the guy’s info but he’s been trying to contact me ever since. He sent me a request yesterday but I blocked him. I might unblock him to get some proof to report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:24 PM
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Yes, I’m still a minor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:20 PM
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I’m 16. The guy who did this is supposed to be 16. He distributed it to a discord server so multiple people got it. They decided to create a video as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:19 PM
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What a weirdo...🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:04 PM
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If you look at the guy’s post history, he admitted to manipulating and abusing his wife. What a piece of dog shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:57 AM
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Hmm, where I’m from there’s a lot of black men. And actually it’s common for a black man to not date a dark skin. They typically go for the lighter shades. But all shades of black are beautiful so please don’t compare yourself and put down women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:59 PM
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Same, I want to start a YouTube channel as well but I’m afraid. What’s even worse is that the guy screen recorded me on video call without my knowledge and sent them around. 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:14 AM
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Sis, you don’t need validation from men. You are beautiful just the way you are! Sheesh, I wish I was very tall. Those who have made fun of you were clearly immature. Ignore them and do you sis. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:49 AM
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Exactly. Women have it way worse than men. End of discussion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:28 AM
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“He thinks we're close to being something really good that he can enthusiastically commit to, but he "needs more time" to fully commit because there are some things about me he doesn't like.” This doesn’t sit right with me sis. A man saying “he needs more time to commit” will NEVER commit. He’s telling you a bunch of lies that you want to hear. “There are some things about me he doesn’t like.” Why are you even wasting your time on a man who doesn’t even like you for who you are? Please drop him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:57 PM
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It’s time to leave sis and never look back. Don’t waste anymore time on him. He will DRAIN your energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:36 PM
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What’s worse is that I saw this post on the teenagers sub. Being a teenager myself, this is extremely frustrating. Absolutely no effort to his response. These LVM are starting real young with this type of mentality. Sick of it.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:48 PM
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