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Could be daddy issues. I've noticed it myself as I got older. There are some women who didn't have good relationships with their father and they think by dating an older guy they get something they're missing.
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:56 AM
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I think people who say don't are lumping everything into one group. There's the guys who go there who hit on every pretty girl and then there's the guys who go there to lift who get signals from someone(she smiles at you, keeps looking at you). I think the second type is perfectly ok.
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:52 AM
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I never actively approached but I went to work out. This one girl came up to me in a fitness class we both frequented and asked some random question or something. I ran into her one night at a bar and we made out.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:08 AM
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With night game, right venue selection is important. The right venue can vary from person to person but it's ultimately one you get results in. I think it's good to keep an eye out for places that cater to women certain nights of the week.
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:31 AM
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Join groups that meet regularly. Then give people a chance. I made one friend recently at a group. I thought he was kind of a dweeb at first but after I got to know him he was really funny and sociable.
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:11 PM
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Definitely agree about taking a lot of photos to get some good ones for the app. I too had the second date problem. I think part of my problem was that I wasn't flirting with them on the date. We were hitting it off as friends but there was no sexual tension. I think that caused them to think "he's a nice guy but I don't have romantic interest in him". Now I make it a point to be more romantic.
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:41 PM
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I like asking what their experiences are. When I was out with this one girl, a woman on the street told her she was beautiful. I asked her how often she gets told that and she said daily. So while some guys might think they're unique and ballsy for saying that, she brushes it off as commonplace. For me results is a big part of feedback. If I'm getting first dates but not second dates I have to think about what I'm doing/not doing and then change something.
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:29 PM
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I think inner game is just being in the right state of mind. I know what I bring to the table in a relationship, it's ok to flirt with women and let them know I'm interested, I'm not overly nervous when talking with new people, stuff like that.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:39 PM
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The last girl I dated was beautiful and a woman told her that on the street. I asked her how often she gets told that and she said once a day.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:33 PM
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I think some women have daddy issues and they want an older man in their life. Hence why they date them. Not saying that's all cases but I've personally noticed it a few times.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:32 AM
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I think jerks make moves while nice guys tend to not make moves, or make moves way too late. That simple fact will mean the jerks are the ones who get the women.
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:55 PM
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Could be that they're attracted to you physically but they get bored of you or don't see it going anywhere so they bail.
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:46 AM
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Because it is a somewhat useless phrase. If someone gave me that advice about how to meet women I would be no better off. More useful advice would be action based: Start doing this. Give this a try. Put yourself in situations where you can interact with women who like the same stuff you like. Fix this about your appearance.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:16 PM
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I used to have more "nice guy" tendencies. One problem I had was not being upfront about my romantic interest. I think some nice guys view that as being somewhat beneath them and that guys that are direct are players. It's a bit dishonest. It's human nature to want to be with someone, that's nothing to be ashamed about. No need to hide it. Part of it may have been my wanting to be under the radar to show how great of a guy I was over time. Once she saw that she would show her romantic interest i…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:36 AM
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She was. She also mentioned how she saw a job opening post on LinkedIn and commented on it and her manager who she is connected to saw it and told other people. She was concerned that she would have to move in with her parents if she lost her job. She is a drama queen and her life is a mess.
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:08 AM
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This one girl I hung out with a few times unfriended me on Facebook yesterday. We met up yesterday and she wanted some photos of her taken outdoors. I had mentioned doing a fun photoshoot in the past. After we drove 35 minutes to the sushi place she wanted to check out and then when we got there they said it was an hour wait. She mentioned feeling sick and not wanting to go somewhere else for lunch. When I stopped for gas she got a mountain dew from 7-11 and they didn't have a lid for that size.…
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:17 AM
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Same reason dudes want to bang hot girls with nothing else going for them.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:08 AM
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Most of the time, I think women make up their decision about you before they know what car you own. That said, a really nice car can get you noticed. Women who you see regularly (where you live, work, and exercise) will see you getting in and out of it. As always, it's up to you to make a move.
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:25 AM
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