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| 3 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?So just not asking is automatic chickenshit? Has nothing to really do with confidence. As much as ill say sure, you can even ask it in a seductive way, but saying it is the one and only way to go and if you dont youre sexually assaulting, is delusional. Dating in itself is a subjective thing as different people have success with and prefer to take different approaches, and when i say forced and mechanical, you are making it into an abc strategy, and too rigid. Otherwise you wouldnt even be sayin… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:00 PM |
| 6 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?Not true, youre making it way too forced and mechanical by asking, there is much more intensity in doing it in the heat of the moment, given that you have somewhat an idea to read the vibe, which alot people do, but are afraid to act on. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?Here we go again …… why are we having this argument here guys…. Calm down its just reddit ..other peoples opinions shouldnt affect you this much … | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?The last part is only correct if you are that way straight off the bat. Later down the line you can be vulnerable otherwise there will be little room for real connection. Just make sure first that its not some toxic girl that expects you to be a certain way and will judge you for your vulnerable side and youre good. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?You should be selectively open. Be closed off until a person gives you a reason to open up. They have to earn and deserve it. U dont have to be emotionless and cold, but dont give ur emotions and feelings away like that. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | On being a "Player"No one is being negative, they just dont agree. And neither do i. Being a player is basically being manipulative. Its why is called “player”, he plays people. And its toxic. Its no better than being a nice guy, who is manipulative in another way. Just go about bringing whats inside of you to the outside with your own creative spin to it, stop being copycat, and altering yourself for the sake of others. It wont work. Just be yourself and work on being confident in that. I notice people on this su… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn’t want things to be seriousHow is it wrong? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroI mean, having been in his shoes, its a bit more complicated than what you state, but the essence of your comment is right. Its like “i want muscle” and not working out, or going through pain barriers and uncomfortable situations. When i was younger, i had alot of feeling sorry for myself and wanted pity like you say here. So you arent wrong about that. The reason i say its more complicated, is because it is an underlying issue. You cant fix that and just get a girlfriend or friends 0 to 100. Do… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:Be good looking and seem like you go places. Also have muscles and abs. Thats OLD for ya. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:04 PM |
| 3 | What can you say to compliment women's Boobs while making out?the way u described that actually made me lmao | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you build excitement?Feel the excitement and she will feel it too | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 5 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?A grocery store/bus stop is a place where you dont approach a stranger for a convo? Youre joking right.? The number of times ive had convos with people and even women in places like these…not even for any specific reason but just to chit chat, also, who the fuck approaches someone with “youre hot”, thats not cold approaching, that is just simping. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned againYeah, dw. I know ur intent with it. The concept itself is really good and i agree with it, just in a practical sense could be not working as well as you want it to ig. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Never be friendzoned againNo, its really not. The heartbreak itself can be easily avoided. Can learn the exact same without really being heartbroken. I mean ofc bad stuff is going to happen eventually but why set yourself up for heartbreak in this case scenario when its literally not needed, and can be prevented? Are they masochistic now or? A newbie needs to learn detachment and investment, realistically. He needs to start off with extremes and slowly go towards a more balanced approach to it. Which means either investi… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Never be friendzoned againA beginner is not going to be able to truely move on like that. Because he is always 100% invested. He will end up constantly checking the chat despite the mute get sad/mad when none of that ends up happening, and feel overall more dissapointed. “When they come back” for a beginner, that chance is almost zero. The more you learn to deal with loss, the better you are able to invest 50% only and remain 50% detached always, and not care much about the outcome anymore. You accept if it goes wrong or… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned againYeah but the problem is if you actually end up having to mute and not talk etc with potential hope that theyll ask for a date, youre gonna have a bad time, and thats how a beginner is going to take this. and it also means that youre not really moving on at all. It would be better to just unfriend/unfollow to get an actual new beginning, closing the door, and learning to deal with losses straight up. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Never be friendzoned againThis shit just seems like a scarcity mindset and being hung up on one girl, unable to actually move on. Muting and shit dont reach out and dont talk unless its another date, wtf is this lol, just talk normally and dont invest emotionally anymore, i can still talk or be friends with such a person without being emotionally invested , its not that hard man. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:42 AM |
| 14 | A quick rant about Reddit’s views on cold approaches, and a word of encouragementI agree, entirely dependent om demeanour, and overall energy of the approacher. If he is able to remain detached and just talk without it being too forced, not a problem | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyI mean, its kind of expected for people to act like experts on internet, about topics they are clueless in. i know what you mean though, everyone acting like they are super casanova deluxe when irl the polar opposite. Its just obvious through their ridiculous claims and almost fantasy-like way of thinking. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyAgain, its reddit, tf do you expect? | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyIts reddit, what exactly were your expectations? | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginEntirely dependant on how its conveyed , and other factors. But the concept of virginity itself? Nah i dont think so. If its a virgin that is anxious, insecure, bad looking, etc, then yeah, might be. If its a 10/10 that was just a virgin because he didnt want to, still very charismatic, smart, funny in other aspects, you think woman will care that much? You say they view it as incompetent but most of the reason for that, from my experience of talking to plenty of women, is just that they often a… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginI agree with showing whats good about you, ofc, my point is just that in order to get people you really want, especially for this guy , its good to be honest. Imagine if he meets up with someone whos gonna judge the hell out of him for that, even if the deed gets done, he was already destroyed over this woman unmatching and not having met yet. Now picture him actually meeting her, he not knowing what to do, she just being like wtf r u doing and making him even more anxious than he was before. He… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginYou don't want to do stats work, yet you've shown me nothing concrete. Just your opinions and perspective. Atleast if you're going to act like something is factual, have the stats to back it up, or just don't say anything at all. I'm not being petulant, merely pointing out your own contradictions and judgemental nature. At some point you've said the exact same concept as me, but i guess you're just going to ignore that. And trying to say stuff like "high value man said this" but forgetting what … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginYeah it is, so what? You are talking about high value men, and religious purposes. You directed the topic away from strictly seduction, thats on you. sure, if one is a virgin, has insecurities surrounding it, and gives himself a hard time for it, not good for himself. But if one loses your virginity because they feel pressured that society is going to judge you for it, care way too much, then thats equally as bad, and low value. And based on fear. A high value man does not care about such, he do… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginHow is something that is a subjective thing, which, many different people will view in many different ways, objectively bad? Youre trying to make a subjective thing into something objective and then talk about “lie”, as if it is an absolute. this just displays how much society and its standards affect you, and your emotional attachment to it, instead of being able to see things from a factual perspective. and that certainly does not make you a high value man. Such thing is only bad if one views … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginSince when is being a virgin a bad part though, you say this is subjective but then contradict by calling a subjective thing “bad”. and the second part you say is actually what you should be doing. If someone is going to care that you cant afford a car, youre going to know they have a superficial mindset to begin with, and if thats not what you want, how is it bad to filter? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:15 PM |
| -1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginI agree with you actually. It wouldve been much worse if he actually went, it was going to be obvious he was still a virgin before even starting anything due to lack of initiation or knowing what to do etc, ive seen stories like this where the woman ended up leaving on the spot and given the fact that she was looking for experience in the first place,very likely chance she wouldve been like “yeah, this isnt going to work.” And just bailed, i think that wouldve been a far greater hit to his confi… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagThanks , i appreciate it | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagYes, i know that. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagNo , i really dont care to give anyone a hard time. If anything, my post is intended to give clarity, but you are being overly defensive, and taking it the wrong way. do you think i would have commented the things i did on your other post, if i was trying to give you a hard time? Tell me what kind of asshole i am, im keen to hear it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagNah, he is actually not trolling | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagSo then what the hell are you doing on a seduction subreddit? The way i see it there is no point to ur post other than ranting about being called a simp, and likely butthurt. Actually, you literally just got called that in another one of your post i commented on, and decided to follow up with this. It just shows exactly what i tell you about being too much in emotion and getting affected way too easily. I dont know where you get the idea of nasty chicks from, its probably the furthest from what … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 7 | What if heartbreak completely killed my desire to date/cold approach?I would get rid of depression first before you end up using sex as a means to fill a void. Fix up yourself forst before you enter any rela/meaningful connection. If you dont, i can guarantee youll end up with toxic trina that will make you feel even more miserable. And if you look for genuine connections, AVOID dating apps lol. Most people on there are just promiscuous and want sex only. I think what works best is just enjoying yourself and going places and if you meet someone you like you go fo… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagYes and no. They want someone that is genuine and honest(assuming ur talking about real attraction, and not fake forced shit) but not someone that gives themselves away indiscriminately. Or being too sensitive. If you are too much like that, youll become naive, and start seeing the world through rose colored glasses, in the sense that its all going to be seen from emotion. You also will pretty much be unguarded all the time and leave yourself vulnerable for people that will want to take advantag… | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Advice to my younger self.No one said anything about ass kissing or simping? And didnt i say playing bit of a character does the trick just as good? Which is what you more or less described now. The part you mentioned prior however, has little to do with what you just said, and its just being toxic. Its playing on trauma of women , feeding into their parental issues, and narcissistic. If thats the kind of shit youre into, go for it, i couldnt care less. But saying thats what has to be done, and is the onlyway to get thin… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Advice to my younger self.Its one way to do it but not the only way. And many dont want to be straight up manipulative. A bit of playing a character works just as good. No need to act like a cunt. Youre just playing on someones traumas and this is pretty fucked up. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 16 | Meaningless in getting girlsOpposite for me, easier for me to end up connecting more in depth , but ons/hookup, fwb takes effort. It just depends on the women for this one. If you want more in depth and long lasting, you want women that dont look for superficial things and have to forget about the whole “seduction” part or “game” or anything like that, and instead be actually interested, and enquire about their life, past, and “hidden” side. will take alot of openness from yourself as well and willingness to be vulnerable.… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Honesty gets you a very long wayYoure trolling right? I did everything you said and 0 result, the moment i started beding more honest, things started working for me. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:57 PM |
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