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Your finger looks like Voldemort’s wand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:23 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:23 PM
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Don’t do it, you’ll get doxxed. I did a jaw reveal and I still feel antsy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:09 PM
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It’s a harassment tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:59 PM
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<image> I’ve really been racking these up lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:42 PM
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Half the country was ready to kill those dudes because it fit certain narratives so perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:32 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:53 PM
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“Any sign of violence or aggression is a turn off.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:39 PM
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There you go. And that’s accurate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:25 PM
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His advisor’s name is Elon Mrump.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:22 PM
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Jeremy Meeks tried to kill a kid, he just failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:21 PM
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That’s five.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:19 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:19 PM
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It’s supposed to be three words.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:12 PM
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His family is loaded. He doesn’t need financial help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:11 PM
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You’re right. Still a bit jarring that so many people seem to lack any moral reasoning ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:00 PM
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Roast me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:59 PM
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He wouldn’t be after the acute lead poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:56 PM
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Self defense if it was clear that Luigi was going to shoot him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:54 PM
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It’s probably the biggest event of mass delusion I’ve seen. It’s fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:39 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:20 PM
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If the UHC CEO was a black woman, how would Reddit’s response to the shooting change? Everything else about the situation is identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:08 PM
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The history of feminism is a history of sexual deviancy. People who want to tear down norms tend to be indiscriminate in which norms they want removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:17 AM
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Who’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:15 AM
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It’s sad because what you were doing was authentic support and compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:32 PM
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That’s fair. I don’t think it was an awesome political statement. I’d agree it was an interesting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:31 PM
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Let’s see Paul Allen’s ghost gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:30 PM
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Do you believe what he did was right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:57 PM
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So what should be done instead? Everyone gets to kill whoever he believes deserves to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:47 PM
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That actually is almost as brutal as it gets. He can’t even satisfy his sexual urges. I don’t agree with what he did, but it’s not hard to sympathize with the poor bastard. He’s not a hero so much as a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:22 PM
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I’ve hear reports that his spinal injury prevent him from getting erections, but I don’t know if that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:16 PM
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Why not? He’s pretty popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:15 PM
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One of these is not like the others. Though I do suspect L was a permavirgin. There is no indication he’s ever had a girlfriend, and apparently he’s pretty active in his church. I don’t think ONS would be his thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:11 PM
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This isn’t a defense of the rich and politicians. It’s a defense of order and rule of law. I couldn’t give one wit about the CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:39 PM
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So what alternative would you like to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:37 PM
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So rule of law is a bad thing, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:24 PM
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The situation in Syria is pretty terrible right now. I deleted my Twitter because I was tired of seeing innocent people shot in the head and run over with tanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:57 PM
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The first part of that reads like a sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:56 PM
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Why I think what Luigi did was morally wrong: I’m opposed to the death penalty on principle. This is why I can’t support the summary execution of anyone, no matter how horrible they may be. Rule of law must be upheld, and Luigi should face a jury of his peers. He will get the trial that the CEO should have gotten. You can argue that he needed to kill the CEO because he never would have faced justice otherwise, which is probably true, but our entire ethical and legal system hinges on the fact tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:34 PM
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I don’t t understand how people can post stuff like that and think “people will think well of me for this”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:51 AM
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Reddit: objectifying people without their consent is bad, unless it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:25 AM
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I feel like I’ve been transported to an alternate universe where the moral standards have been flipped. Murder is good. Sexual objectification is good. Turning a murderer in to the police into bad the person should be beaten to death. The hell happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:29 PM
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Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:26 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:24 PM
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Good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:22 PM
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Apparently he can’t even get an erection because his spine is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:12 PM
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The Irwins were based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:01 PM
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I’ve read The Sun Also Rises. Kinda sad novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:35 PM
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I’m talking about the CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:08 PM
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He’s a serial killer, but I’m opposed to the death penalty. The shooter should be jailed for his crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:57 PM
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One of his fake IDs said 6’1”. Another said 5’10”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:07 PM
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<image> Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:49 PM
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This is true, but it’s not because women are gay. It’s because the majority of single women are over 50, while the majority of single men are under 35. Post menopausal women tend to remove themselves from the dating pool while older men do not, significantly unbalancing the male:female ratio in the dating pool (but not in the general population).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:07 PM
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Purple is closest to me, because while I find red pill observations are often true, red pill prescriptions for behavior are goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:02 PM
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It should have been obvious the UHC would be an alt right incel since leftists don’t actually do anything, they just talk about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:30 AM
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If I shot the CEO, Reddit would be calling for my summary execution in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:22 AM
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Apparently JayZ raped a 13 while an unnamed female celebrity watched. Beyoncé?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:20 AM
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I’m 37 and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:08 AM
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Just like in school with bullies, do the provokers don’t get banned, the retaliating provokees get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:19 AM
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Considering all the events that have taken place over the last decade, from Trump and Elon winning the election(s) to Hawk Tuah girl rug pulling in a crypto scam, I have one thing to say to whoever programmed this shit: STOP THE SIMULATION! STOP THE SIMULATION! IT’S NOT FUNNY ANYMORE! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! PLEASE! PLEASE!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:56 AM
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Oh, okay. That does make sense and applies pretty universally imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:15 AM
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Sex once every three or four months is better than no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:52 AM
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So if you asked a guy if he was a “good guy” and he said yes, you would believe that he isn’t? What if he said no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:56 AM
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What does a swoon worthy man do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:54 AM
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She always does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:10 PM
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Expecting compassion and empathy from others is a form of unjustified entitlement. Agree or disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:39 AM
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Here is a chart showing disposable income by US state in comparison to European countries. Note that this accounts for social transfers in kind, such as healthcare and education. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:41 PM
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I went to a few of those when I was a young man in college. Never got a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:28 PM
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Yep. They called out that comment specifically in the notification.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:26 PM
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There’s a female PPD commenter who always comes in with the most extreme, batshit takes. I expressed doubt that this user was actually female, and suggested that the user could actually be a woman-hating man pretending to be a woman to make women look bad. Apparently, that brought the admin ban hammer down on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:53 PM
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Back from my 7-day site wide ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:44 PM
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I’m not gaslighting you. That’s a lazy response. You say your experience with these things comes from fostered teenage boys? Do you think that boys who end up in foster homes are mentally/emotionally healthy and psychologically normal? Do you think that they’re representative of your typical teenage boy? Come on. Given how fucked up you turned out (I remember your comment about keeping a video of one of your coworkers being beaten and that you watch it from time to time for pleasure or some sadi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:18 AM
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You believe those are real stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:03 AM
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Please tell me suicide is option 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:28 PM
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You have to be a man pretending to be a woman trying to make women look bad. There’s no other explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:21 PM
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The Bucks county election commission attempting blatant fraud because something something Trump something something Roe v. Wade is funny as hell. Fortunately the (Democratic majority) PA Supreme Court said “No, you can’t count undated ballots that you pulled out of your ass after the fucking election”. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:01 PM
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That actually happened where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:55 PM
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Funny thing is that she doesn’t even have TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 PM
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My wife called me an “orange cat husband”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:05 PM
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Some people are just universally ugly. That doesn’t mean they can’t get relationships. Women date and marry men they aren’t attracted to all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:13 PM
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So you don’t care if you get to cum/orgasm when having sex if she’s just pretty enough? Honestly, yeah. Male orgasms aren’t very intense, so it’s a secondary concern for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:48 AM
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It’s different in less urban areas. I end up talking to little old ladies all the time when I’m just going about my day. Small talk with cashiers/workers (initiated by them) is pretty common too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:18 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:05 PM
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I agree. However, I’m sensible enough to know that the best version of myself is still mediocre. Most human attributes follow a normal Gaussian pattern, so it’s just not possible for most people to be anything exceptional. After an honest self-assessment, I came to the conclusion that presenting myself as a provider and a stalwart husband was the best chance I had for getting a relationship. It did work. Is it my ideal or preferred life? Not really. But I believe it is the best life I could hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:35 PM
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Slightly below average height, slightly below average dick, unattractive face, middling intelligence, not particularly charismatic, imaginative, or creative. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:22 PM
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Better in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:01 PM
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You are more than your job or bank account. And if you’re not, work on that. The majority of men are mediocre or worse, so my advice to them would be to lean into job/bank account because that’s the only chance they have. It worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:33 PM
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Which is why men who aren’t attractive need to pursue wealth/status to get relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:27 PM
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Right. Which is why physically unattractive men pursue wealth and status to get relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:26 PM
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True. The idea that master morality is the “correct” moral standard and that everyone should pursue it is a lazy interpretation of Nietzsche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:23 PM
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In my opinion, if you can’t trust your SO not to cheat, then what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:18 PM
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I’m pro-gun because I believe all humans have a natural right to own weapons, not because I believe the citizenry could effectively use them as a check against tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:16 PM
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It actually surprises me when people claim that men are not inherently more violent than women. I’m not sure how you can believe that they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:37 PM
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Yes. If you’re interested in the conversations I’m having there, scroll until you see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:24 PM
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Arguing with Redditors who defend not punishing rapists and murderers because it’s “statistically better for society” is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:15 PM
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I’ve only met one man-hater in real life (she kicked me in the balls because she hated men) but my wife has met a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:28 AM
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Apparently his problem is that he has a small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:33 PM
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He’s 50th percentile imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:33 PM
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They count all votes on principle. It won’t change the outcome and Harris still has basically a 0% chance of winning the popular vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:21 PM
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It’s all on video.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:28 PM
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It’s always nice when, in a rare lapse of incompetence, McDonalds actually gets your order correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:09 PM
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I don’t think it’s him. It’s Adrian Pimento I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:40 PM
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The girl at McDonalds took my picture and sent it to her boyfriend because she thought I looked like a character from Brooklyn 99. The only character I even remotely resemble from that show is some dude that’s ugly as fuck. It’s the horseshoe theory of looks. Once you’re ugly enough, you start getting Chad treatment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:32 AM
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The Democratic Party, as it currently exists, will probably cease to be. This defeat will do to them what Obama’s wins in 2008 and 2012 did to the Republicans. How many pre-Trump Republicans are still politically relevant? Not many. The Obama-Clinton hegemony in the Democratic Party is likely over. The current leading figures will cease to be relevant or they will not win elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:29 PM
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That’s not what I meant. Also, PPD is weirdly isolated from the rest of Reddit. The mods are this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:45 PM
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I’m now almost fully convinced that most of the moderators were on the DNC payroll, and after the Democrats suffered a big loss their entire apparatus is in disarray and everyone is abandoning ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:30 PM
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It depends on the political purpose of the survey. Hispanics are white when they commit crimes and POC when they are victims of crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:21 PM
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Trump’s performance with white men decreased this election.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:21 PM
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Reddit is crazy now that all of the mods have basically gone AWOL and people can talk about whatever they want without being banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:19 PM
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Anyone else here find the white knights completely insufferable. Like, most of the women will make concessions and argue in good faith, but the blue pill men are liars and assholes 100% of the time. There is one Star Wars themed user here that has said female on male sexual assault never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:08 PM
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This is what happens when someone with low self-efficacy feels a little bit of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:59 PM
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It’s unbelievable how pathetic and small-souled people can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:56 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:52 PM
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The wisdom behind the prohibition of pork consumption encompasses both spiritual and practical dimensions. From a spiritual perspective, obeying divine commands is central to Islamic faith, and abstaining from pork serves as a testament to one’s submission to Allah’s will. Additionally, consuming pork is considered spiritually harmful, as it defiles the body and soul, hindering spiritual growth and purity. https://iqranetwork.com/blog/why-cant-muslims-eat-pork-unveiling-the-divine-wisdom-behind-…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:42 PM
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Islam’s prohibition of pork has nothing to do with health, that I’m aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:41 PM
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I don’t get it either. It really isn’t hard to not be an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:42 PM
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Kamala Harris going on and on about how great bacon is with a Muslim interviewer is hilarious. I don’t think she’s a genius, but there’s no way that wasn’t intentional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:37 PM
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So businesses as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:32 PM
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Interesting notion. It’s like how being worried about your credit score going down and checking on it makes your credit score go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:27 PM
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Most attackers are men. What does that have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:44 AM
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The men in my life don’t feel that same fear. That’s because men are less neurotic than women and more willing to take risks. In reality, they are statistically more likely to be attacked by a stranger than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:45 AM
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You’re right. I must be misremembering. He didn’t say the word “misinformation” specifically in the debate. Vance was responding to his earlier claims about misinformation. What he said was that you’re not allowed shout fire in a crowded theater if there is no fire. He’s absolutely wrong. You can shout fire in a crowded theater when there is no fire. That’s a spurious hypothetical made by a Supreme Court justice to justify censorship of anti-war speech. Not a good look. It’s clear from Walz’s pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:59 PM
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I’m talking about what he said in the debate with Vance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:41 PM
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One example is Tim Walz claiming - falsely - that “misinformation” isn’t protected by the First Amendment. Harris supported that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:29 PM
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Harris and Walz both have argued for censorship of some views, and Harris has consistently voted to the left of Bernie Sanders in the Senate. I don’t think she qualifies as a true liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:12 PM
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Harris and Walz both have argued for censorship of some views, and Harris has consistently voted to the left of Bernie Sanders in the Senate. I don’t think she qualifies as a true liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:11 PM
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You’ve completely misread the data. 63% of young men are single. The overall singleness rates between men and women of all ages are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:11 PM
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You don’t vote because you don’t like any of the candidates, are protesting the franchise, or are just apathetic. I don’t vote because I refuse to cede power and ownership of my life to politicians by becoming a foot soldier in their personal vendettas, and because there is something inherently debased and ignoble about collective action and drawing strength from the herd instead of from yourself. We are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:55 PM
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My condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:51 PM
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Instinctual impulse to consume calories to fuel potential male vs. male sexual competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:49 PM
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Yeah. A lot of his arguments have no substance, so he relies on pissing people off to get one over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:30 PM
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Probably for the same reason women wouldn’t like shows that objectify them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:24 PM
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Wanna know what every single one of my considerable female friend group prefers most? Sweet, friendly, empathetic, loyal, non-sex-crazed dad bods who are great with family, hosts well, listens, shoulders his share of things. All of them. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR HEADS. non-sex-crazed Women want men like this for relationships, but not sex. Sex-crazed is code for “wants to have sex at all”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:44 PM
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Not Kinsey. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S016363839890011X
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:25 PM
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Wft babies love beauty?!? He may be referring to the studies that find that babies do show a strong preference for attractive people of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:43 PM
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For me, providing resources is the way I know I’m valued in any relationship, and this is doubly so in a marriage. The people that were most often happiest to see me in my life were co-workers. I was off sick for about two weeks in March of 2020, and I’ll never forget the big smiles and happiness I saw from my coworkers when I walked through the door after my time off. My boss’s boss said “You’re such an essential element here”. I like knowing my role and knowing that I’m valued for what I bring…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:05 PM
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I saw a study that found that, while women’s marital happiness was essential for a healthy marriage, men’s marital happiness was basically irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:24 AM
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Sure, I’d be happy to. My belief is that the axis of feminist evaluation is “does this benefit/harm women?” rather than a principled attempt at male-female equality. I’ll digress a bit by saying that, as studies have shown, women tend to make moral judgments based on a benefit/harm appraisal, while men tend to make moral judgements deontologically. I think feminism, unsurprisingly, reflects women’s stronger tendency to assign moral value to events - and people - based on what help or harm they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:58 AM
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Feminism isn’t about equality with men, but rather securing women’s interests. Sometimes that is equality with men, and sometimes it’s not. Feminists used to be honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:28 PM
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That’s another four years between now and 2028 of opportunities that Trump might die, either by natural causes or more assassination attempts. The Democrats see it as buying time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:07 PM
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A lot of them are convinced that they are in mortal or near-mortal danger from a Trump presidency. Given how petty he is, they may not be wrong. Never underestimate what someone will do to save their own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:43 PM
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People need to understand that a Trump electoral college victory, even if accompanied by a popular vote victory, does not guarantee that he will take the White House. The Democrats do have a nuclear option to stop him if he wins: Per Article II, Section I of the Constitution, the slate of electors may be chosen by the state legislature in whatever manner they may choose. Since WI, MI, and PA all have Democrat dominated legislatures, they can appoint Harris-voting electors and then certify that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:13 PM
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It’s crazy that many of them actually seem to believe in this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:08 PM
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My wife and I drove from Indiana to Wyoming for our honeymoon. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:50 PM
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I’ve been to 15 states + DC, but have never flown on a plane or been out of the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:24 PM
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This is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:36 PM
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I like that I have a high willingness to consider perspectives different from my own. Physically, I don’t think there’s anything that I like. It’s all pretty bad. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:46 AM
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Why is he undesirable if he doesn’t get therapy and also undesirable when he does? Because both of those things are seen as equal indicators that the man is weak, or at least vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:23 PM
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My knee-jerk reaction is to say that I would end the relationship, but upon reflection I think ending my marriage would be more damaging than just dealing with it. Like, what actually changes between us because she cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:06 AM
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It’s also uncomfortable to know that these women are targeting young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:20 AM
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Wouldn’t that cause less selective women to out-reproduce the more selective women? I agree that women evolved to be selective, but evolving to be so selective that you remove yourself from the gene pool seems counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:11 AM
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Women are usually the enforcers of conformity in any social environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:42 PM
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I was talking shit about Europeans in another comment and got in trouble for “race baiting”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:06 PM
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I know some experts have been saying that self defense classes like that, especially for women, do more harm than good because they give people a false sense of competency in violent situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:38 PM
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Fuck’s sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:25 PM
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Not all Europeans, obviously, but it seems like a culture of submission over there. Here in the US people will fight you for looking at them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:20 PM
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I think retribution is the heart of justice. Any form of “justice” that doesn’t involve making the wrongdoer suffer in some way is not justice. This doesn’t mean that I’m opposed to rehabilitative elements, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:50 PM
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That’s also why the attack was so sexual as well. Mass mutilation of sexual organs on living victims, male and female. Basically, Islam itself is a religion of sexual resentment and envy. Palestinians are simply the best case study.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:47 PM
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The scenario he presented is one of the most likely, but if polling underestimates Trump’s performance by the same degree it did in 2016 and 2020, then Trump’s victory will be even more absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:53 PM
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“Ugly” is a term so laden with negatives that it’s easy to associate the word with moral failure. “Unfortunate looking” primes for pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:51 AM
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Teachers are all a bunch of damn socialists. She wasn’t trying to teach you a moral lesson, she was trying to punish you for daring to have something that someone else didn’t have. She knew full well that dipshit kid would wreck you shit. He was her weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:26 PM
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I read an article talking about how professors at elite colleges are noticing that their studies don’t know how to read books. Not that they won’t or don’t want to, but that they simply can’t. They can’t keep track of the plots or how the details fit in to the overall narrative. According to the professors, this was not an issue 20 years ago. Apparently, Gen Z isn’t expected to read through entire books in high school. That’s shocking to me. I was getting book assignments in elementary school an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:04 PM
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I’ve noticed the same thing. My mom isn’t bad, but she’s gotten less mature as she’s aged. I’ve seen that in other 55+ adults as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:19 PM
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I think Trump and Walz share a very similar trait: they basically have zero ability to regulate their own emotions. I don’t know what it is with boomers getting to advanced ages and still having teenager-level executive functioning, but Ive noticed it a lot. Contrast this with Vance who has Gus Fring level control. I’ve never seen Harris respond with excessive emotional displays that weren’t deliberate, either. The only thing that slightly redeems Trump in this case is that he at least believes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:24 PM
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Nietzsche really hit the nail on the head when it comes to people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:16 PM
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Other studies have found that women rate themselves higher relative to their ratings of others, while men rate everyone more generously, including themselves, but tend not to rate themselves as more attractive than other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:24 AM
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Trump is a different breed of animal. Hillary and Biden were both polling lot better than Harris is at this point in the race. Hillary lost and Biden won PA and GA by some pretty slim margins. Less than 100k votes total, and it easily could have gone the other way and we’d be in Trump’s second term. Don’t underestimate that bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:48 PM
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Israel has it under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:39 PM
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RCP currently has him ahead by 0.1. It’s a small lead, but a lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:38 PM
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I predict that Trump will win the battleground states of GA, NC, PA, and AZ. He is polling ahead of Harris in all of these states. These plus the solid red states he has in the bag will grant him 281 electoral votes and the White House. This only applies if the polls don’t underestimate his performance like they did in 2016 and 2020. If there is significant underestimation of Trump occurring in the 2024 polls, he may take Michigan and Nevada as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:25 PM
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I’d be a hypocrite if I wasn’t willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:58 PM
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I think that’s a pretty extreme assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:46 AM
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I don’t think women are being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:14 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:34 PM
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Women prefer attractive partners, but I’ve noticed a strong willingness for women to settle down with men they aren’t physically attracted to, but that nevertheless check most of their other preference boxes. I mean, there’s no other way to explain how the majority of men eventually get married. My wife will tell you that she didn’t marry me for my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:29 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:59 PM
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I swear that picture of him fumbling the football cost him the 2004 election.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:25 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, my girth is 4.8 inches and I can’t feel anything from oral either. There are a lot of guys that it does nothing for, though I can see how that girth would be an issue for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:21 AM
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Sure, I agree with that. But I said asking for clarification can be what sets them off. My interactions with women (or anyone else for that matter) don’t usually end result in them being upset with me. I do agree with OP to some extent, and I believe that women often have a very indirect communication style that can be frustrating for those that prefer directness. If my wife wants ice cream from the store, for example, she won’t just say “Get some ice cream.” It’ll be some elaborate, subtle inti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:20 AM
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The First Amendment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:13 AM
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That girth is insane. Most men are under 5 inches in girth. That’s your problem. If you were 5.5 inches, women would probably love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:03 AM
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I guess we can add John Kerry to the list of American politicians who don’t like the 1A.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:00 AM
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In my experience, asking for clarification can be exactly what sets them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:00 AM
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The percentage of men who reported engaging in casual sex dropped from 38 percent in 2007 to 24 percent in 2017. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854#:~:text=The%20percentage%20of%20men%20who,to%2024%20percent%20in%202017.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:42 PM
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I remember reading somewhere (maybe a novelization) that the thermonuclear weapon used against the alien ship in Independence Day actually worked. It brought the shields down below 50%, and if they had nuked the ship again like the Secretary of Defense wanted, it would have destroyed or seriously damaged the ship. The aliens apparently had no idea humans had weapons like that since they had never observed humans using them against each other in wars, and were projecting their own belligerence an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:39 PM
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I don’t know. When you use definitions of rape and sexual assault that don’t exclude the most common forms that men experience, you get near parity in male/female victimization rates and most of those women report female perpetrators. I don’t think the disparity is as big as we used to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:01 PM
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I posted a comment in this thread about a study that found no significant difference between males and females in the 19 and under age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:35 PM
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By age 19, the number of men and women who self report themselves as perpetrators of rape or attempted rape are about equal. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/1748355 It’s about 10% of the population. I would imagine this percentage might be higher if the entire adult population was counted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:30 PM
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That’s only true when you exclude the forms of sexual assault that men are more likely to experience from the definition of sexual assault and rape, which is exactly what they did prior to 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:13 AM
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For women it’s a little less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:37 PM
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This might sound maudlin, but I don’t want children because I don’t want anyone to inherit my worst attributes. Genetic recombination can be a bitch. What if they end up like me, leading them to experience many of the negative things I experienced? What if they are less able to cope with life than I am? I haven’t had a god-awful life, but I still wouldn’t wish it upon my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:53 PM
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The latest data shows that about 24% of men have engaged in casual sex. So pretty close to 80% haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:57 PM
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That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:40 PM
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They can often get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:18 PM
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I’m okay with the government eliminating student loan debt, but only if the tax liability is exclusive to people who have loans outstanding. Don’t transfer wealth from the working class to the middle and upper class to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:11 PM
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The disparity is only that great when you use definitions of rape and sexual assault that exclude the forms of sexual abuse that men are most likely to experience (such as made to penetrate). Once you start using gender neutral terms it’s much closer to male:female parity, but in terms of offenders and victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:10 PM
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If that’s true, you need to present the dms to the moderators.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:00 PM
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Who cleans the homes of the cleaners?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:38 PM
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And the majority of people are at least overweight. That fact that over 20% of people are beyond overweight and the obese is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:50 PM
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Evolutionary incentives can exist without conscious intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:19 AM
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What interest rate are you getting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:51 PM
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You realize that inflation does the opposite to a dollar, right? It will be worth less when you’re 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:37 PM
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Did you even bother reading my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:31 PM
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She didn’t really do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:17 PM
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“Hedy Lamarr invented WiFi” is an egregious twisting of the truth that does a disservice to both her and the people who actually invented WiFi. Hedy Lamarr had nothing to do with the invention of WiFi. Zero. Zilch. What she did do, along with her friend George Antheil, was patent a system that would employ frequency hopping that would prevent radio signals between torpedoes and their mother ships from being jammed. Here’s the story: Lamarr used to go to arms deals during WW2 with her husband bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:56 PM
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“Death grip” is an internet myth. It doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:58 AM
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There’s no evidence porn causes ED for any significant amount of the population, and there’s no medically theory as to why it would. There’s also no good evidence that “death grip” is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:57 AM
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Zero interest in anal and wouldn’t do it if asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:17 PM
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Are the two presidential candidates in a competition to see who will commit the most egregious abuse of executive power if elected? Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:29 PM
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I think you need to check again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:11 PM
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I’m shocked at how much men don’t realize so many of us want them and think about them all the time. I view men as objects of desire. I could stare at yall for days. I could listen to a man with a deep voice read the phone book and think it was sexy. That’s because the majority of men aren’t objects of desire. They’ve never experienced it. I’ve witnessed this dynamic with attractive male friends. I had one friend in particular who was a Hollister model. Women were direct and aggressive with him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:25 PM
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The amount of people who believe we live or should live in some kind of electoral majoritarian state bothers me. “Anything goes, so long as 50.000001% of the population wants it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:16 PM
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The Roof Koreans were based beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:35 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:29 PM
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I don’t expect people to like guns or want to own them, but I’ve never talked to anyone who supports a gun ban who isn’t grievously misinformed on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:25 PM
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Maybe you’re right, but your use of the term “hit box” and the fact that: I know exactly what you meant It’s perfectly valid use of that phrase outside of gaming has got me tickled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:23 PM
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Democrats and Republicans have this in common: they want nothing more than control over other human beings. They only differ in who they target. Trump is a notorious control freak, and I probably don’t need to get into the detail about that. We all know who he is. JD Vance wants to use taxation to control people. He believes that childless people should be taxed at a higher rate than people with kids (and this is effectively already the case). Why? He’s a control freak, that’s why. The only cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:17 PM
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You could define their ability to survive as strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:46 PM
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No animal evolves to be defenseless against its primary predator. Since human males are the primary predator of human females, and given the added complication that human females need human males to reproduce, it’s not surprising that human females have evolved mechanisms for manipulating and controlling male behavior. Women are almost completely at the mercy of men physically. They need some power in their corner. This post is basically a gazelle wondering why it’s so good at evading lions, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:23 AM
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True for me. I’m significantly more socially isolated now that I was before I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:48 AM
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Trump chose Vance because he’s a friend of Trump’s son. I’ve noticed Trump makes a lot of loyalty/quid-pro-quo decisions and judgments, and it colors him negatively imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:34 AM
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I don’t find Harris to be all that politically competent, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:44 PM
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Nah. Kelly’s resume is much more impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:38 PM
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Harris won’t pick Kelly because he would overshadow her in a big way. People would be asking this very valid question: why isn’t Kelly at the top of the ticket?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:27 PM
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I’ve been called names left and right. Nothing. I call someone’s husband an idiot (who isn’t even on this subreddit) and I get a 3 day ban that lasts 7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:21 PM
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Philosophies should be judged based on their proximity to truth, not on whether or not they make you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:27 PM
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There have been a couple of peer reviewed studies in recent years that put 70% of men in the below average category as rated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:52 PM
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We’re about one step away from these kids blaming capitalism for the extinction of the dinosaurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:10 PM
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It’s less than 20% of men, actually. If you said it was 1%, you might be closer to the truth. The percent of men that really drive women crazy is less than 1%. I’ve known maybe 2 or 3 guys that are basically to women what women are to men. I had a buddy I used to work with at a small mom & pop restaurant. He was actually a part time model for a big clothing brand. The amount of sexual harassment he was subject to was insane. This was pre-2010, so no one had any really concept of what female on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:43 AM
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My frenulum was completely ablated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:27 PM
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Circumcision in the US was originally adopted as a method of reducing the pleasure men get from sex. It often, but not always, ablates the frenulum, which significantly reduces the experience of sexual pleasure. It can also desensitize the glans. As a circumcised man, I’ll say that it absolutely can reduce pleasure pretty significantly. My glans is completely free of any pleasurable sensation and my frenulum is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:11 PM
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I wonder if it affects people differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:59 PM
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There are rare medical conditions that require circumcision to correct. I think that’s we she’s talking about. Also, adults should be free to modify their bodies as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:56 PM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:19 PM
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Aren’t circumcision discussions off-topic for this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:04 PM
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Hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:01 PM
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My friends getting aggressively flirted with while that never happened to me is how I discovered I was ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:01 PM
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I think sometimes people fail to distinguish between “I’m attracted to this person” and “this person is an attractive option for a relationship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:32 PM
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From what I’ve seen, plenty of women date and marry men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:50 PM
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Bust the statistics don’t show more women are dating than men. They show that more young women are in relationships than young men, but the overall number of single people is basically the same in both men and women. It’s just that single women tend to be over 50, while single men tend to be under 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:42 AM
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There are the same number of single women as single men, it’s just most single women are over the age of 50, while most single men are under the age of 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:39 AM
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Or most single women are post menopausal while most single men are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:37 AM
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I see the benefits capitalism as a snowball rolling down hill. We’ll get there. We’ll solve climate change, improve standards of living for everyone, and universalize liberty. I don’t think any kind of consumption is really mindless. I don’t see how consumption is a bad thing. We have to consume more and more energy as the population grows and technology advances. However, both of those things enhances our command of nature and the ability to extract value from it. I don’t believe we’re at risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:08 PM
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And what resources are they hoarding?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:04 PM
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You seem upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:04 PM
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Yeah. Tesla also believed in a luminiferous ether and thought he was in psychic contact with aliens. Einstein didn’t have many good ideas after about 1930 or so. At any rate, neither of those men were economists, whatever else their contributions may have been. Socialism is a failed idea. There’s a reason it was almost universally abandoned as a practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:03 PM
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No. Critiques of capitalism are always misguided, often moronic, and usually a product of the failed public education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:52 PM
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Who’s hoarding resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:50 PM
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Global poverty and food insecurity have both dropped like a rock under US and capitalistic hegemony. The standard of living on Earth has never been higher. Wherever free market capitalism is allowed to thrive, quality of life skyrockets. The human race is collectively wealthier, healthier, happier, and fulfilled. Capitalism hasn’t fucked up our environment. Technology has, and I believe technology can reverse the damage. It’s not like the environment would have fared better under a global social…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:45 PM
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Capitalism is the greatest force for good the world has ever known. Nothing else has done more to improve the human condition. People complaining about this or that and then blaming capitalism are silly. It shares a fate with the concept of patriarchy: some nebulous, protean evil spirit that’s invoked to explain personal failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:18 PM
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A lot of women these days experience dildos before they experience penises. Since a dildo is an object in and of itself, they sometimes tend to treat a penis the same way and don’t perceive it as someone else’s body part. This results is rough or painful treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:08 PM
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Yeah. Sex is indistinguishable from masturbation as far as physical pleasure is concerned. There needs to be more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:04 PM
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Yes. And now the juice is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:54 PM
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I think everything can be rationalized, or at least reduced to simpler or more fundamental phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:57 PM
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No shit. I was referring to your first comment. Women are the majority in all countries where “allyship” is a relevant notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:14 PM
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When my wife was my girlfriend, her political views were close to the opposite of mine, in some respects. We had several discussions where I calmly explained my perspective and why I believe the things I do, and now we pretty much agree on everything. She’s probably the only person I reasoned into changing their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:11 PM
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I was born in 1987. Couldn’t be more of a 90s kid than me. Literally turned 13 in 2000. There was never a better decade to be a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:08 PM
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It’s not necessarily true that average exists because of a preference for it. Women prefer men who are above average in height, looks, and income, but there are still men who are average in those areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:59 PM
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Not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:55 PM
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Men are a minority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:16 PM
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Are you arguing against your original point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:52 PM
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If her needs are no longer being met in the relationship, why wouldn’t she leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:23 AM
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Yeah, I agree completely. As it stands, I don’t think there is any significant force in society sincerely advocating for men. The issues are just used as cudgels one way or another. I’m my opinion, feminism succeeded because the sociopolitical and economic environment of the 20th century was ripe for it. I do not believe the conditions of our time are ripe for a similar scenario for men. If anything, I think we’ll find the clock rolling back a bit in that regard. I think the integrity of society…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:08 PM
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I do agree that the manosphere at large uses men’s issues as a cudgel against women. However, I do believe that some of the issues raised are legitimate considerations, even if I believe they are often argued in bad faith. The problem with r/menslib is that it exists primarily to police men and how they respond to their struggles, and to do so in a way that is ultimately beneficial to women. Teaching men how to deal with their problems in a healthy way is an important part of tackling men’s issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:15 PM
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I don’t like this advice. I seriously doubt any woman would respond positively to a request to insert a sleeve into her vagina to make it tighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:09 AM
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I honestly don’t know how anyone other than an idle billionaire playboy has enough time for more than one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:10 AM
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Apparently his staff was blindsided by the tweet saying he dropped out of the race. I wonder if he found out he wasn’t going to be the nominee before or after the tweet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:09 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:06 AM
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That happens to me occasionally in the middle of the night. It actually gets me offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:22 PM
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Afghan heroin funded American black operations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:38 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:12 AM
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This has happened plenty of times. It’s always my own responsibility, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:49 PM
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I have a big ass nose, and according to my wife it’s my one redeeming feature, physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:52 AM
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Life has no purpose, in the conventional sense. You evolved to seek comfort, convenience, stimulation, and freedom because those things enhance the probability that you will successfully reproduce and have genetically fit, healthy offspring. Why else would you have those desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:16 PM
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Yours, mine, and everyone else’s. Every work of art, every cathedral, every novel, every skyscraper, every war, every peace treaty, every country, every revolution, every post on Reddit, and everything you’ve ever done. All of it driven by behavior that evolution selected for because it enhances reproductive fitness or did at some point in the past. Do you believe that humans have incorporeal souls?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:09 PM
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Of course it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:59 PM
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Reproduction is the end of all life. Everything that doesn’t feature in life by mere happenstance serves reproduction. Evolution only selects for reproductive fitness, so only traits that lend themselves to reproductive fitness are selected for. Just about everything that any living thing has ever done, whether that creature was consciously aware of it or not, was done to increase the chances of successful reproduction. As one evolutionary biologist put it, your body doesn’t have genitals. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:37 PM
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Why wouldn’t sex be the reason for everything? Evolution only selects for reproductive fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:42 PM
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There’s no good evidence it exists. There’s also no sensible theory as to why porn would induce ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:36 PM
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I live in West Virginia. My wife and I live in a luxury apartment in a gated community that has a two stall garage and an on-site gym. It’s quiet. The rent is $1200 a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:13 PM
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You can live in town. Look at the Parkersburg metropolitan area, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:11 PM
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The houses are a lot cheaper too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:11 PM
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Got an IQ over 115 and a marketable skill set? Move to a state like WV or MS and like a king/queen. If you’re making over $20 an hour, get yourself a nice luxury apartment with a two stall garage and an on-site gym. Companies will fight over you. Bonus points if you know how to get along with blue collar people. Contrary to popular belief, they actually have a lot of respect for well-educated and intelligent people when they aren’t pretentious, elitist assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:58 PM
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Good God almighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:54 PM
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I don’t have any extreme views or radical takes, I don’t think. I don’t know how healthy or unhealthy my life experiences were. Many of them were unpleasant, but may have strengthened my character. I had it continually reinforced to me as a teenager and young adult that I was unattractive. This has caused me to develop other traits in an attempt to compensate for that. My attempts must have been at least marginally successful, because I’m married now. She’s made it clear that there isn’t any rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:00 PM
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That’s definitely a 2000’s pizza. I don’t know what’s wrong with them now, but they ain’t like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:06 PM
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Why do you write in such an unconventional way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:03 PM
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I’ve been working with no significant breaks since I was 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:38 AM
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This is easily the most insightful comment in the post. A consistent feature with you, I’ve noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:35 PM
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We don’t know that women aren’t lying either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:44 PM
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Maybe. I don’t think it’s that uncommon. Like, I’d say at least 30%, and maybe more than 40% of men have never been flirted with. I mean, have you seen most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:34 PM
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The gap between young men and women is pretty big if it’s not reflective of actually sexual violence rates. Twice as many young women as men report being a perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:17 PM
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That’s something that crossed my mind as well. A man is more likely to reflect on his past behavior and think “Oof, that sounds bad. Better not mention it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:29 PM
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Our culture teaches boys not to sexually prey upon people, but doesn’t teach girls not to do so. It’s not surprising that we’d see figures like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:02 PM
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Assuming everyone is being honest in the responses, I would imagine this is partially due to the fact that young men are conditioned to see themselves as potential predators, and are hyper conscious about their behavior. Young women, on the other hand, are not conditioned to see themselves as potential perpetrators of sexual abuse. The idea that what they’re doing is wrong likely never enters their minds because the “me - abuser, them - abused” dynamic is completely alien to them. Boys aren’t ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:57 PM
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A significant number of men never experience this, so it’s understandable that there would be confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 12:36 PM
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Not sexually attractive, no. I seriously doubt there’s anyone on Earth who would. However, we have a good relationship with a lot of love. I treat her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:19 AM
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I think blue pillers have a slight anti-male bias that’s analogous to the slight anti-female bias red pillers have. In that respect, they tend to frame men as the inferior, and consequently less deserving, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:58 PM
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I think people unconsciously understand where they are on the attractiveness totem pole. It makes sense that evolution would select for creatures that accurately assess their ability to procure mates, and then make a cost/benefit analysis when choosing one. Some research has found that male attractiveness influences female orgasm frequency and intensity. It showed that women have more and better orgasms with men their friends would also find attractive (conventionally attractive men), but not wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:14 PM
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I still wonder if what’s being described as “responsive desire” is just an absence of attraction. Like, I can imagine I’d have responsive desire too if I was with someone I wasn’t attracted to. Someone coming in to you sexually can get you going even if you don’t find that person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:36 PM
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Research shows that humans do assortive mating. People of like attractiveness tend to pair up. The attractive women with ugly men trope just doesn’t hold water.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:28 PM
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I think I’m in the “main problem is appearance category. I’ve never had trouble making friends, male or female, but always had a hard time dating. When I was a teenager, my mother told me to stop hanging out with one of my friends because “you won’t be able to get a girlfriend with him around”, implying that he was so much better looking than me that the comparative advantage he had was insurmountable. She was correct. I’m married now, but I know full well that it isn’t because my wife finds me …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:58 PM
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This is true in my experience. I always had plenty of friends, male and female alike. Still struggled massively with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:36 PM
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I never rate myself below a woman. I don’t care how hot she think she is. I am convinced I’m hotter than she is. If you actually value truth, this approach doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:02 PM
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I like the work I do and I enjoy working generally. I’d rather be working than taking a vacation. It’s the bureaucracy and inefficiency that wearies me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:30 PM
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When I was a teenager, my mother told me to stop hanging out with a buddy of mine because “You’ll never be able to get a girlfriend with him around.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:40 PM
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Yeah. I got the feeling that they were trying to tell me something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:36 PM
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I had some gal friends tell me once that most men shouldn’t be sexual because they just don’t look good enough to justify having a sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:26 PM
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Downvoting is petty and the mark of a small soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:30 AM
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You didn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:34 AM
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So I’m guessing you’d be okay if, after giving birth to a child, all newborns are randomly assigned to a mother. They may or may not be getting their biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:51 AM
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Did you see the video? The crowd did respond like they were under threat. Some of them were shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:08 PM
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I’m hearing that counter-snipers spotted him just before he fired. They got him quick, but too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:09 AM
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There’s no way Trump would let some random guy shoot in his general direction. I wouldn’t trust my wife to that with me. Also, a lot of people would have to be in on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:06 AM
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So Trump hired someone to… shoot him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:42 AM
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Trump was literally inches away from being assassinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:46 PM
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Because women aren’t making men come, in my experience. Men are making themselves come.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:20 PM
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It’s been pretty well established in the scientific literature that a significant portion of personality traits are basically genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:23 AM
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Dune, though he isn’t portrayed as a hero, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:41 AM
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Consistent and strongest significant correlation was between flaccid stretched or erect length and height, which ranged from r = 0.2 to 0.6. https://bjui-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/bju.13010 Stat crunch finds a correlation coefficient of about 0.6 for height and shoe size. So they’re pretty similar on the higher end of the estimates and that’s probably the study I was thinking of. For reference, the correlation coefficient between height and sex is somewhere between 0.3 and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:31 AM
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I’ll add two more: good looking and big dicked. I’ve heard several women say that guys who grew up with money tend to have big penises. Of course, height and penis size are correlated as strongly as height and shoe size, so that could be a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:18 AM
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The 2013 El Reno tornado was insane. It was 2.6 miles wide (omfg) and had peak wind speeds over 300 mph, but was only rated an EF3 because it encountered human structures in a weaker state, doing damage with wind speeds at only ~150 mph. Not only was it the only tornado in history to kill a storm chaser, it actually killed four of them. It was rain wrapped and behaving in a very unusual manner, and it’s thought that it actually had multiple sub-vortices orbiting the main vortex that killed some …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:16 AM
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It’s ironic, but the highest concentration of left chads and chadlites I’ve ever seen are in incel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:17 PM
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It is BS, when you dig into the data of the study that people often cite to support the idea that the majority of women can’t orgasm from PIV, you find that it’s a rather small minority of women who haven’t orgasmed from PIV. The media and social sites ran with a confused headline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:47 AM
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Nobody who seeks the presidency is fit for it. This is all the more true with the current state of the office, which is (and has been since the early 20th century) an over-powerful pseudo-dictatorship. The nature of the presidency itself fatally compromises even good-faith attempts at real civil service from the executive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:00 PM
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There’s really no evidence that men aren’t pulling their weight financially and domestically. Just the opposite, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:43 PM
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We don’t have it for libido either. It’s real stimulation and climax.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:15 PM
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If you always put your needs first, you’re not going to have a healthy relationship. No one can meet 100% of your needs, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:12 AM
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I’ve never had a woman show interest in me unsolicited, but I’d have to imagine that I’d feel flattered if it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:56 PM
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I wouldn’t be offended, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:33 PM
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Calm down and try to keep the conversation to one comment. I responded to you elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:03 PM
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Nah, men are even more likely to be targeted by strangers than women. The narrative that women are safer because they avoid danger just doesn’t hold water: https://www.smh.com.au/national/men-more-likely-to-be-attacked-by-strangers-than-women-20180703-p4zp5z.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:02 PM
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I mean, men are much more likely to be victims of violent crime. That doesn’t sound safer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:57 AM
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Men are more likely to be victims of random crimes than women: https://www.smh.com.au/national/men-more-likely-to-be-attacked-by-strangers-than-women-20180703-p4zp5z.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:55 AM
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If men are just as at risk for sexual and domestic violence as women are, why do all the stats on the matter say otherwise? Why aren’t men reported to be experiencing rape, sexual assault, or domestic violence at the same rate as women? You guys just pull narratives out of your ass that aren’t backed up by actual research at all. Men are sexually victimized about as much as women: The survey found that men and women had a similar prevalence of nonconsensual sex in the previous 12 months (1.270 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:52 AM
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That’s not true, statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:43 AM
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I think he overestimated his ability to think clearly while juiced to the tits with adrenaline. Thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:11 PM
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I share your suspicion that a lot of the people who seek out this kind of employment are doing so for unscrupulous reasons. Like your example of foot fetishists getting jobs at shoe stores, I’ve often wondered what % of doctors, nurses, teachers, cops, prison guards, clergy, managers, and other positions that grant a tremendous amount of power over other human beings seek out those specific job to gain access to victims. Cops tend to be power-obsessed egomaniacs in my experience. Maybe I’m being…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:45 PM
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Like I said, even when you control for that women are still disproportionately likely to sexually abuse inmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:17 PM
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It’s hard to tolerate that kind of jealousy. When I was dating my wife, she would get angry with me if the server was nicer to me than she felt she should have been. She’s a lot more secure now, but that shit drives me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:10 PM
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Sure. There’s not a lot of good peer-reviewed literature on the subject, but experts generally agree that hybristophilla is more common in women than men. It’s considered a paraphilia, and is the only paraphilia that is more common in women than in men. I saw a paraphilia dot plot once, and I do remember hybristophilla being almost exclusive to women. I’ll see if I can find that. https://www.magellantv.com/articles/romancing-the-monster-what-is-hybristophilia Also, female prison guards are invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:46 PM
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Hybristophilia is more common in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:12 PM
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The same phenomenon takes place in men’s circles, and they’re still apparently less selective. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard the exact same thing from older men throughout my life, or seen some married guy that just looks like all the will and life has been drained from him. I and other young men were constantly warned about the “vampiric” nature of being married to a woman. I think it’s a pretty universal and not sex-specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:55 AM
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I would doubt that this is all that prevalent. The drive to seek out a mate is strong in almost everyone, especially young people. The data show that women are a lot less likely than men to be single until they hit menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:50 AM
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I’m cut and I believe it has significantly affected my sexual functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:57 PM
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A semantic distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:09 PM
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In my experience, a woman’s desire for emotional openness in men (or vulnerability) is actually a desire for signals of emotional investment - by him - in her. She wants to reassurance that he’s got strong feelings of devotedness for her. She also wants to be sure that he’s open enough to her for her feelings and insecurities to be validated. It definitely isn’t a desire to see a man express doubt, fear, or weakness in any way, except in circumstances where she may be having doubts and is probin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:27 PM
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I don’t know if my issues are due to circumcision, but don’t know what else it could be. I don’t believe it’s a stretch to think that the issues I have with my genitals is related to my genitals being mutilated in infancy. I suspect there is a wide spectrum of outcomes with circumcision, with some men being hardly effected and others being more effected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 12:34 PM
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“No son of mine runs from a fight, but I don’t mind him losing one.” my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:08 AM
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I would say most, sure. For most men, their “type” is whatever small % of women will tolerate being in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:04 AM
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I don’t know. When I was an infant, the doctors removed my foreskin and frenulum. Since then, the glans of my penis has been constantly exposed to fabric. I basically have zero pleasurable sensation in the head of my penis, and it actually takes a lot of force for me to feel anything at all. Like, you could bite down on it and I probably wouldn’t feel anything until you were doing actual damage. Is that why in don’t enjoy blowjobs? I don’t know. I wish I did know. I don’t get a lot of physical p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:39 AM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:49 PM
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The research doesn’t show that. The “only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone” thing is based on a misunderstanding of a study. There were some oddly named categories that got popular science magazines and the media confused, and they ran with the false headline. Now it’s “common knowledge” that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, even though the very study cited to reinforce that belief says the opposite. I made a post on here previously that went into more det…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:45 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:55 PM
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Oh, right. Yeah, Joseph’s dream interpretation suggested Egypt needed to bust ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:44 PM
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Who knows. I don’t think we ever find out what happened to Potipher’s wife. We don’t even know why Potipher let Joseph out of prison. Maybe she confessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:36 PM
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The story of Jospeh and Potipher’s wife in the Bible is interesting because of it’s verisimilitude. It seems to follow the typical pattern of sexual abuse: Someone in a position of power engages in ongoing sexual harassment of a subordinate which eventually evolves into full blown sexual assault. The victim is then blamed and punished by the gaslighting abuser and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:00 PM
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They need to do that if they want a standard for measurement. Otherwise you’re not sure where to start measuring from. What if you push into the pubic fat slightly or not at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:28 PM
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You getting double stuffed in that scenario or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:21 PM
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Graduated Magna Cum Laude with an engineering degree. My career isn’t worth a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:15 PM
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Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:03 PM
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My wife just isn’t a very nurturing or affectionate person by nature. I don’t think that makes here “bad” or anything. I do like physical affection and give it readily, so I have to moderate my impulses a bit and back off sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:40 PM
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“How many women can orgasm from penetration alone?” Is probably too simplistic of a question. You also have to factor in how frequently it happens and under what conditions it happens. But the media doesn’t like nuance, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:38 PM
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I’m glad you have that kind of relationship. I also don’t think it’s very common. Maybe it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:02 PM
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The “only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone” thing is based on a misunderstanding of a study. There were some oddly named categories that got popular science magazines and the media confused, and they ran with the false headline. Now it’s “common knowledge” that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, even though the very study cited to reinforce that belief says the opposite. I made a post on here previously that went into more detail: https://np.reddit.com/r/Pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:55 PM
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The “only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone” thing is based on a misunderstanding of a study. There were some oddly named categories that got popular science magazines and the media confused, and they ran with the false headline. Now it’s “common knowledge” that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, even though the very study cited to reinforce that belief says the opposite. I made a post on here previously that went into more detail: https://np.reddit.com/r/Pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 PM
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The “only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone” thing is based on a misunderstanding of a study. There were some oddly named categories that got popular science magazines and the media confused, and they ran with the false headline. Now it’s “common knowledge” that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, even though the very study cited to reinforce that belief says the opposite. I made a post on here previously that went into more detail: https://np.reddit.com/r/Pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 PM
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What makes you think that? I’m married. And if I did have little sexual experience, what bearing would that have on the validity of the data I’m presenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:38 PM
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The “only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration alone” thing is based on a misunderstanding of a study. There were some oddly named categories that got popular science magazines and the media confused, and they ran with the false headline. Now it’s “common knowledge” that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, even though the very study cited to reinforce that belief says the opposite. I made a post on here previously that went into more detail: https://np.reddit.com/r/Pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:32 PM
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I’m married and this scenario isn’t reality. My wife actually doesn’t like it if I come home too early because she wants to spend more time alone. The only place where people are excited to see me show up is work. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:19 PM
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Most male victims of sexual violence were abused by women: The survey found that men and women had a similar prevalence of nonconsensual sex in the previous 12 months (1.270 million women and 1.267 million men).5 This remarkable finding challenges stereotypical assumptions about the gender of victims of sexual violence. However unintentionally, the CDC’s publications and the media coverage that followed instead highlighted female sexual victimization, reinforcing public perceptions that sexual v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:36 PM
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The data show that the majority of women can orgasm from penetration alone, and around half do so regularly. But they also show that most women prefer clitoral stimulation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:07 AM
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The data show that most women can orgasm from penetration alone at least occasionally, and around half do so regularly. However, few women prefer to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:06 AM
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Sure. In my experience, I’ve only seen a few men who seemed to be actively desired by women. These few men got basically 100% of the attention. They never had to approach. Women came to them. The shy girls, the gregarious girls, the mean girls, the nice girls, the Christian girls, the goth girls. It didn’t matter. They all behaved the same toward those guys. Most of those girls eventually got other boyfriends who weren’t those guys, and they seemed to merely tolerate them. They never approached …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:56 AM
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My wife told me the other day that the reason she likes performing oral so much is because she thinks it’s submissive. I don’t really enjoy getting it and just do it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:15 AM
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You’re gonna have to be more specific, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:59 PM
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The evidence coming out now is that he didn’t actually do anything wrong. That makes sense, considering Twitch apparently lifted his ban after the court proceedings. EDIT: Never mind. Looks pretty bad for Doc, though likely not illegal. Still ugly for a married 42 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:30 PM
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I’m not the person you asked, but I’ll take a stab at your question. I think women do experience active desire for men, but I also think that the number of men who are objects of that desire is very low. Less than 1% of the population. Since being the object of sexual desire is arousing even if mutual desire is absent (this is universal to men and women I think. An ugly woman wanting to fuck you can be a turn on), most women can tolerate or even sexually enjoy being in relationships where they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:07 PM
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By that I mean that she prefers it that way a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:24 PM
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Is Wonyoung the woman in the image, or did the woman in the image say that about someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:10 PM
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That’s a really good question. My wife said that she believes it is a fundamentally submissive act. However, she tolerates me performing oral on her when I’m doing so in a way that kind of “restrains” her or puts her into a physically submissive position (lying on her back, ankles towards her head).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:09 PM
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I saw a survey where only about 12% of men or something like that felt sexually desired by their partner in a relationship. I think this due is how sex is perceived as being divided between the giver/receiver or dominant/submissive roles, and I think women are more interested in stark contrasts between these roles than men are. After talking with my wife and hearing what many other women have said, I think most heterosexual women are repulsed by anything that compromises the image of their partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:00 PM
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Male cops have a relatively easy time dating everywhere. Power really is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Liberal women will fuck a cop’s brains out just as readily as a conservative woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:22 PM
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Go to r/askfeminists some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:58 PM
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It’s easy for people to interpret things others say on this sub in uncharitable ways. I’ve done it myself. It’s a hostile place sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:57 PM
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It’s magical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:30 PM
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I think it’s a pretty self-evident observation that articles of cultural influence tend not to be universal, even if they’re common. In the T-SNE visualizations, we see a stark demarcation between male and female. If this was a product of culture, you just wouldn’t expect such a clear sex-dependent variation to exist. You would expect to see some men on the female side and some women on the male side. You would expect to see a lot of both in the middle. You might see a continuum rather than disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:14 PM
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It’s true that you can’t rule out socialization. You also can’t rule out that the asteroid that killed the dinosaurs was flung at the planet by aliens. The stark differences indicated in the study strongly suggest that biology, not socialization, is responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:56 PM
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This is really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:06 PM
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I’ve clarified what I meant. Why don’t you have a look and see?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:59 PM
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I’ve know a few people like that, male and female. They’re so exhausting to be around even when you’re not the target of their ire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:42 PM
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Not when the injury being addressed is non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:36 PM
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People who are needlessly confrontational feel the need to address every perceived slight. They’ll interpret everything everybody does in the most uncharitable manner possible, and see other people as potential adversaries who need to be defeated. They think combativness is righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:31 PM
1

That’s actually a big sample size and you wouldn’t significantly increase the confidence interval by increasing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:10 PM
20

Gentleness, kindness, and not being needlessly confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:59 PM
5

I mean, these middle aged women are traveling the third world countries and paying teenage boys to fuck them for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:33 PM
1

I guess it depends. I’m thinking of scenarios that require some “umph”. However, even with moving chairs and desks, it’s better to have the stronger individuals do it. Why would women want to be recruited for this menial work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:25 PM
3

Having an argument on another subreddit at the moment where people are saying that teachers recruiting boys to do manual labor instead of girls is misogyny. I pointed out that boys tend to be stronger and more robust (less likely to get injured doing these tasks) than girls are, and someone chimed in telling me that my comment was harmful. Absolutely delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:13 PM
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Women got to Northern Africa to get laid because it’s easy access to desperate poor people who will fuck them for money and the tryst can be easily concealed from husband/friends/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:55 PM
3

A majority of men didn’t choose 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:22 PM
1

More than half picked a woman other than 3. This is actually a really good point and not something that I picked up on. The majority did not vote for 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:23 PM
1

There’s a pretty big gulf between 3 and 1/5. 5 is the runner up and 1 comes in third, but 1 is quite far from conventionally attractive, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:14 PM
1

So slavery is okay when the ruling class is threatened?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:30 PM
7

This was sad. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:40 PM
1

What stances?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:17 PM
0

No one should be drafted. The fact that we occasionally enslave half the population isn’t moral justification for doing it to the other half. Spare women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:05 PM
3

US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:57 PM
6

Everything that exists biologically is a product of evolution, and can be explained by evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:15 AM
1

People forget that humans are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:52 PM
1

Living in N. Ireland, I would imagine so. Lots of seaside cliffs there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:48 PM
1

I have a very restricted sociosexuality, and realizing that was eye-opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:47 AM
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I’ve said before that society needs men to be trapped in expectations and gender roles to function properly. Any time there is a push to relieve men of these expectations, there is a reflexive societal response to counter it. We’d all be speaking German right now if the Allies never enslaved young men by the millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:58 AM
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Intrasexual competition among women is less intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:46 AM
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It’s possible for there to be a non-normal distribution in the partner count. If we consider 10 hypothetical men, where 5 have zero partners, 3 have 1 partner, and 2 have 9 partners, then the average partner count is 2.1, even though 80% of men in our sample have had fewer partners than that. Real life isn’t so extreme, but when you look at the data, promiscuous outliers do skew the average quite a bit. Average does not equal typical. Median is considered to be more representative of typicality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:36 PM
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Several years ago, I had a young woman come on to me. She knew I was married. The idea of cheating on my wife never crossed my mind. I’m actually grateful for having been tested, in retrospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:48 PM
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They shave their mustaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:42 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:56 PM
4

All of these things can and have been done to me by women who weren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:56 PM
2

That’s fine. The mod removed it for “no posts about looks”, I figured that posts about looks in general are banned. I’m not sure how I can go into more detail about what the research meant than I did, but maybe I’ll try to repost it someday. Thanks for the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:56 PM
1

I meant that automod removed the comment I just made with the link to my post. Maybe I can send you a link with my post in a message?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:46 PM
1

Got a message from the automod that my comment with the link was removed, but I still see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:40 PM
5

Meanwhile, I make a post about research related to appearance and it gets nuked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:28 AM
4

A study found that men also had higher suicidal intention. In other words, men’s suicide attempts are sincere efforts to kill themselves. For women, suicide attempts are often a cry for help or an expression of pain, but they often are actually trying to end their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:02 AM
4

Nah, she’s the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 AM
3

You can do that, but they’ve found that averaging faces together like that actually produces faces that are better looking than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:09 AM
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He’s not average level attractiveness, he’s an average of all faces. They’ve found that averaging faces creates attractive faces, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:05 AM
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I don’t think 33 women of out millions being killed by an intimate partner every year in Australia is a good indicator of dating difficulty. That’s an exceptionally rare event.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:58 PM
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I’ve seen enough good, kind-hearted people in relationships with abusive people to know that not everyone who is in a relationship with a shitty person is shitty themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:16 PM
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The problem is that almost no one actually wants that. I believe that most people who do claim to want that don’t want to eliminate hierarchy, they simply want to invert it and place themselves at the top. All social movements are attempts at power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:00 AM
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Women make up the majority of voters in all of the most powerful countries, so we already have a world where women rule in a certain sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:40 AM
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It boggles your mind that 33 women are killed every year by a partner when there are 13 million women in the country?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:16 PM
1

If she’s going to cheat, she’s going to cheat. I can’t control her behavior. If I have to worry about her cheating, then attempting to prevent her from doing so is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:03 PM
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And he was saying that men are more violent, no desperation needed. Men are inherently more violent than women and anyone who believes otherwise is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:50 PM
1

The vast majority of women cannot attain the strength of an average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:44 PM
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While 18.4% of women reported that intercourse alone was sufficient for orgasm, 36.6% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse, and an additional 36% indicated that, while clitoral stimulation was not needed, their orgasms feel better if their clitoris is stimulated during intercourse. That’s actually 54.4% of women who can orgasm from intercourse alone. Also, I’ve read further into that study. That was the percentage of women who orgasm from penetration alone re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:02 PM
1

The incels of today are tame by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:23 PM
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As a man, I find this pretty strange. I demand nothing of my wife. I require nothing from her to keep me happy and don’t expect her to put any effort toward pleasing me or anything else. That’s my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:56 PM
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I’m naturally reserved, but I do also make a deliberate effort to try to limit strong emotional expressions out of consideration for others. My wife is kind of like your husband. She has a hard time controlling her anger and it can be difficult to predict what will set her off. I’ve noticed that she sees anger fundamentally differently than I do. For me, any emotion is a bodily function, like digestion or breathing. It occurs in me but is distinct from me. For her, it’s part of identity. She als…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:16 PM
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Based on the comments I’ve received, they don’t perceive it as self control but rather as cowardice or an unwillingness to fight for myself. It’s neither of the later two things, but unrestrained emotional expression is so universal and normalized that I don’t really blame people for being unable to recognize self control as such or to distinguish it from less virtuous behavioral restraints. Anger = strength in the mind of most. In truth, anger is a response to feelings of weakness and vulnerabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:34 PM
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I’m someone who doesn’t easily anger and who doesn’t express anger when I am angry. It’s not something I’ve conditioned, I’ve just always been that way. This has always been interpreted as weakness, and not just by romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:34 PM
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I’ve seen Redditors use post-partum depression to defend murder. This is pretty tame by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:13 PM
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The impulse to wear makeup is just a permutation of preening, which is done for reproductive reasons. It’s not a coincidence that the way women apply makeup to their faces causes them to appear more sexually attractive to the opposite sex. They aren’t painting themselves to look like clowns (if they’re actually competent at applying makeup). Makeup accentuates and or exaggerates facial expressions and features that signal sexual availability. When you say you wear makeup for yourself because it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:26 AM
1

What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:17 PM
1

I've noticed his soccer team is displaying more and more forms of...hm...intramale competition and hierarchy sorting? When I see "boys being boys" on the field or sidelines I wince, but I know it's a necessary part of male socialization and development for kiddo. This is true, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s a positive experience for all parties or that it’s beneficial for all parties. The ones who come out on top benefit greatly from this sorting, and the ones who find themselves at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:29 AM
2

I think it’s a lot more than a semantic distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:57 PM
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That merely prevented banks from discriminating against women, which I’m sure happened. There was never a law that said “women aren’t allowed to have their own bank accounts”. The law didn’t grant women the right to open a bank account. They always had that right. It restricted banks from denying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:32 PM
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There was never a time in this country when women couldn’t have their own bank accounts. Married women often had trouble opening a bank account without their husband present since he was the sole source of income. The banks wanted to talk with the person earning the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:25 PM
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Though that hasn’t always been the case. When the suffragettes were campaigning for voting rights, they were adamant that their right to vote not be contingent on signing up for selective service as it was for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:11 PM
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Well, yeah. They wouldn’t want it to catch on, no matter the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:52 AM
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Yep. It was pursed as a tactic because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:30 PM
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Body positivity is not, and never was, a principled, universal opposition to body shaming. It is, itself, a shaming campaign directed against men in order to artificially raise the sexual value of fat women and lower the sexual value of fit women. It is intrasexual competition on a larger scale, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:58 AM
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Me too. I’m convinced it’s static throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:16 PM
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Not really, no. It’s pretty expansive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:13 AM
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I’ve never seen so much shit talked about STEM guys until I came to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:57 AM
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Ask a man in Nairobi what he thinks is beautiful. Then ask a Russian. Then an Ecuadorian. Universality of Attractiveness Judgements. Assessments of attractiveness are surprisingly similar between men and women and among groups of people. A meta-analysis, covering 919 studies and over 15,000 observers, reported that people agree, both within cultures and across cultures, who is attractive and who is not. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6523404/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:51 AM
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In my experience, sharing your problems and frustrations with other people is of little benefit to you. Best just to keep quiet and reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:02 PM
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God, that’s pathetic. I see why simps are such a turn off for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:31 AM
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If that were the case, the overall number of men reporting to be single would be higher than women. That very same survey found that the overall singleness rate between men and women was exactly the same, it’s just that most single men were under 40 while most single women were over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:19 AM
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That’s because Poland lost a significant amount of its male population during WW2. Only the most attractive women were able to mate, and female attractiveness is highly heritable mother —> daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:47 AM
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Considering how many Israeli women were raped on and after Oct. 7th, this image takes on a more sinister tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:12 AM
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I don’t think it’s themselves that they don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:49 PM
2

I thought it was someone on his secret service detail that was caught with a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:48 PM
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Abusers, for all their transgressions, nevertheless still appear powerful, self-assured, and unneedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:15 PM
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Probably 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:14 PM
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I really does say “No Pill Man”, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:23 PM
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Even in the general population women rate most men below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:47 AM
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Probably a 3. I’ve got a bit of the ‘tism, but I’m highly functional. A 4, but only if I’ve looks maxed. 5’9” on the dot. A little taller in the morning. About 150 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:09 PM
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Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:05 PM
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They had different names, it’s just that when I saw Steve, I thought both guys were Steve. When I saw Bob, I thought both guys were Bob. Truly the weirdest brain fuck I’ve had in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:30 PM
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I’m a white man, and I once went for years thinking that two other white men, both of whom I knew personally, were the same guy. You’re probably not a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:25 PM
2

I don’t disagree. Quite the opposite. I just wanted to read what the Sumerians had to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:47 PM
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Got any references? I’m always interested in ancient perspectives on these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:43 PM
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I means that he believes what you said was the truth, and a particularly brutal truth at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:42 PM
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That’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:23 PM
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It’s not false and I didn’t pull it out of my ass. You shouldn’t throw around empty accusations. Be better. https://www.cbsnews.com/philadelphia/news/daniel-pierson-arrest-attempted-rape-kidnapping-middletown-township-grocery-store-parking-lot/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:18 PM
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He had a $1 milllion dollar bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:06 PM
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I’m 37. I feel like a boomer with these Gen Z kids too. Back when I was working at a mom & pop restaurant in my late teens and early twenties, we busted ass. Even the Silent Generation couple who owned the place remarked how hard-working millennials were. These young people don’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:08 AM
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In a choice between encountering a random man or a random woman, the rational choice is the woman. In a choice between encountering a random bear and a random man, the rational choice is the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:55 AM
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I do think women value truth, as a good in itself, less than men do. They tend to align their moral reasoning along a care/harm axis more often than men do. I remember reading some research where women were a lot more likely to say that jailing or punishing innocent people was okay if it resulted societal peace. They were also more likely to use different standards of moral judgment when evaluating the transgressions of friends/relatives vs. strangers. When could speculate on the evo-psych reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:49 AM
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She has a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:33 PM
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You aren’t the first woman to be accused of being a man on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:30 PM
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They don’t rape because they’re frustrated. They rape because they come from a culture where women have no value outside of their utility to men. They import their beliefs to the West and we shockedpickachu.jpg when they act on them. This woman is just circling the wagons around Islam like so many other progressives. It’s absurd. A lot of feminists will even throw other women under the bus in their zeal to defend these and other barbarisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:59 PM
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Not red pill, but: 5’9” / 65k / 6.5” BPEL & 4.8” girth / married no -virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:45 AM
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The number of teenagers here really bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:40 AM
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A male fetus does not begin as female. This is a common misconception. Some have said that a fetus is phenotypically female, but you could just as easily argue the opposite. Sex is determined by whether an X carrying sperm or a Y carrying sperm fertilizes the egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:22 PM
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There really aren’t any laws regarding that. It’s typically the mother’s decision by default just because of proximity to the people doing the circumcising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:17 AM
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Anyone can choose not to circumcise their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:02 AM
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Blue states have a lower rate of circumcision btw. Because of feminism. https://wisevoter.com/state-rankings/circumcision-rate-by-state/ It appears that it’s more of a geographic thing. Even if it wasn’t, I doubt feminism would have the ability to just magically stop circumcisions from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:51 AM
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True. Most people are animalistic opportunists who only abide by the rules out of fear of punishment or because doing so is convenient at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:45 AM
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That table is a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:53 AM
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I had a strong sense that my father was going to die in the weeks before he died. I kept getting the intrusive thought, “My dad is going to die.” It was pretty sudden and unexpected, so it’s not like I had some advanced knowledge about it. It’s probably just a coincidence, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:33 PM
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I had a couple of rejections where I thought there was interest when there wasn’t. In both instances, mutual female friends told me that there was interest on the woman’s part. I guess I just felt like an idiot afterwards and doubted both my own attractiveness and my ability to distinguish friendliness from romantic interest. I was paranoid after that, and it took me a decade before I had the courage to make myself vulnerable like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:18 PM
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The rules here seem designed to facilitate discussion on the stupidest possible level and hinder intelligent conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:09 AM
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There have been other studies that kind of agree with the OkayCupid data. This study from Italy is one: https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/personality/2023-costa.pdf Here are some key takeaways: Male (but not female) faces got less attractive the taller the individual got. BMI significantly affected facial attractiveness. Men and women both rated women as more attractive than men. Men rated both men and women higher than women rated both men and women. Men gave women a median attractiveness score …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:57 AM
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It’s true. Saw an article about a young woman that’s going to end her life because of mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:40 PM
1

“Everybody’s talking about the future, ha! Everyone’s fucking afraid of it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:28 PM
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You should prioritize decency because it’s ethical and morally correct, not because of any benefit you derive from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:14 PM
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I don’t disagree. It’s funny: I was significantly less averse to handing bugs as a child than I am now. I used to pick up worms, grasshoppers, daddy longlegs, you name it. I used to peel the cicada shells off the trees, but it was hard to keep them intact. I liked the feeling of those little green and black fuzzy caterpillars as they walked on my arm. I wouldn’t want to touch any of those things now. I’m not afraid, per se, but I’m not fond of the little critters anymore. I kind of miss the free…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:08 PM
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My experience has been the opposite. I’ve worked on factory floors with a bug problems, and the people with the most fearful reactions were always women (and the ones who stepped up to deal with the bug were usually men). I’ve always been the spider killer in my household. It could location dependent though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:13 PM
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I never claimed that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:52 PM
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Some of the reasons you list aren’t even true (married women are, in fact, happier than unmarried women and men and women work the same hours when domestic and paid labor is tailed together), so your premise is pretty weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:51 PM
2

What am I wrong about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:16 AM
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Sure, but someone can incorrectly believe that they are safe when they aren’t or vice versa. No one has any societal entitlement to feelings of safety, and the primary reason is that it’s effectively impossible to secure that for the delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:34 PM
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People are entitled to be safe. I don’t think they’re entitled to feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:29 PM
1

Bears have been known to avoid men and target women and children, so probably the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:34 PM
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I understand your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:20 PM
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There are a lot of variables, which makes the question kind of silly, ultimately. Do you think you would rather meet another woman or a bear in the woods? That’s an important corollary, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:18 PM
1

Would you rather meet a woman or a bear in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:15 PM
5

The difference between men and bears is that most men have a conscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:14 PM
3

I really admire women’s capacity for empathy and compassion. I’m an empathetic person, but I think women just have a greater capacity to be emotionally present with someone who is suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:13 PM
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So you would choose the bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:06 PM
5

What other creatures live in natural harmony?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:16 PM
3

There was a post several months ago that said that men don’t have souls. It was met with widespread approbation from the usual suspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:13 PM
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Feminism has a messaging problem. I would consider myself an egalitarian, not a feminist. I probably do align pretty well with the standard liberal, free market feminism of yesteryear, but I don’t think it’s entirely honest or accurate to call myself one (though many people probably would classify me as a feminist). ‘Feminist’ as a term is laden with associations that I don’t feel are very representative of my beliefs. It’s a big tent, and not necessarily one I want to be under. A lot of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:00 AM
2

Because that’s literally the implication in OPs post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:48 AM
2

It’s not the responsibility of the faithful partner to prevent himself (or herself) from being cheated on. Cheaters will cheat, and they don’t need any input from their partners to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:47 AM
3

No it does NOT What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:40 AM
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I guess it depends. My penis feels about the same as rest of my body, and then loses sensation as it becomes more erect. I might be less sensitive than most men, or perhaps not. Sensitively tests have shown that the penis isn’t a particularly sensitive organ, for the most part, when compared with the rest of the body. I think women often believe that the penis is just a giant clitoris. While this is true in some sense, it’s just not anywhere near as sensitive as the clitoris. The very tip of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:27 AM
1

Huh. My dick gets less sensitive the harder it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:17 AM
3

There’s no more stimulation on the penis and testicles than any other part of the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:15 AM
1

This is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:46 PM
3

No worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:50 PM
11

I think it passes from cheating to rape if someone gets roofied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:49 PM
6

No, you’re correct. You don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:41 PM
8

Oh, I suspect the alienation of family is fully the intent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:31 PM
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We will relieve the parents’ burden of caring for their children State-raised children. Brilliant. That will definitely produce an independent, thoughtful citizenry with a healthy skepticism of government. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:30 PM
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This applies to both men and women: If your partner intends to cheat on you, preventing them from doing so does not make your relationship situation any better. If they do not intend to cheat on you, you have no reason to prevent them from doing what they want. If your partner cheats on you, they likely would have done so without any input from you. I don’t understand how acting to prevent your partner from cheating on you does you any good. If they want to cheat at all, the relationship is alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:18 PM
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The point is that gang-related activity makes up a minority of homicides. It might skew the statistics, but not heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:49 PM
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Why would I say that I would like to see research on that topic if I had already seen research on that topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:45 PM
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You don’t believe that more men being out there doing stuff is a factor? You don’t believe that is 10:1 gang membership is indicative? How about all the women who are at home with pregnancy and child care? How about the well known fact that women are more risk averse and more cautious overall? I believe I explicitly said that this was a workable and pretty strong hypothesis. that muggers and such claimed that they tended to target grown men because going after the elderly or women was unsporting…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:43 PM
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I don’t see what any of this has to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:36 PM
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None of that is solid evidence that the reason men represent the majority of murder victims is because they’re less vigilant or put themselves in dangerous situations more. It’s a workable hypothesis, and a pretty strong one, but there are competing arguments. For example, it could be that men are more likely to be targeted. I remember seeing a an interview with a criminologist who claimed that muggers and such claimed that they tended to target grown men because going after the elderly or women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:35 PM
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Most murders in the US are not gang-related. Only 13% of homicides are attributed to gang activity: https://nationalgangcenter.ojp.gov/survey-analysis/measuring-the-extent-of-gang-problems
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:17 PM
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No gym for your skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:11 PM
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Men are more likely to encounter stranger violence because they do not take steps to guard their own safety, and because men are far more likely to indulge in risk-taking behavior. Is there any evidence that this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:56 PM
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I knew a dude who had a receding hairline in 5th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:47 PM
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You have to have the right skull for it. Most men look like shit bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:46 AM
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I’m not following your logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:45 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:02 PM
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In 37. I always wanted kids, it just never happened. It wouldn’t be wise in the economy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:26 AM
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I wouldn’t be caught dead at an in-person PPD gathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:54 PM
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I’ve noticed a trend of high-profile male feminists turning out to be sex pests. I think a lot of time, these guys assume that the average man is even worse than they are (I’m actually a good guy, so other men must be worse than me). It’s just projection. It’s like how Kamala Harris, a genuine idiot, believes that she’s actually intelligent.. since she thinks she’s smart, she assumes the average person must be a complete moron. That’s why she talks to adults like they’re 3 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:43 PM
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Part of the issue with the Brock Turner case is that he was never convicted of rape, only sexual assault. Pretty difficult to get long sentences with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:32 AM
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I agree with these.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:29 AM
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I was the resident funny man in high school and college. Being funny certainly made me socially attractive. People wanted to hang out with me. But it didn’t make me sexually attractive and I never expected it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:26 AM
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A woman. The dog doesn’t have opposable thumbs, can’t follow complex instructions (or communicate them to me), and is incapable of engaging in abstraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:10 PM
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Probably marginally easier to outrun the 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:38 PM
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Come on. I really want to know who’s going to destroy the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:22 PM
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I actually don’t think it’s a problem for a teacher to have any kind of thing like an OF. I do understand that students being able to view it would complicate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:21 PM
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That’s a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:20 PM
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My understanding of the discussion is that women who would rather meet a bear than a man in the woods believe that there’s a higher chance the man will do them harm. I really don’t think that’s the case. If the crux is, instead, the notion that a man might want something sexual from the woman while the bear would not, then I get it. I still don’t think it’s rational in most cases to prefer the bear over the man, but I under where that’s coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:17 PM
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I’ve never been hit, but I’ve had the shit scratched out of me bad enough that it left scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:05 PM
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I’ve been friends with women I don’t find attractive. It’s actually easier, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:55 PM
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Obvious bait is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:51 PM
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No, women have significantly lower suicidal intention: https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-017-1398-8
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:32 PM
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Bear attacks are rare because bear encounters are rare. If women (or anyone else) encountered bears as often as they encountered human males, bear attacks would be the leading cause of death.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:25 PM
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To be fair, it’s hard to argue against stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:52 PM
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Women attempt more often and succeed less because they have lower suicidal intention. They aren’t actually trying to kill themselves, sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:50 PM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:45 PM
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I’ve noticed that there is a subset on the internet population that writes like that, and they usually have the dumbest things to say. Most seem like boomers who never learned to write properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:44 PM
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Based and truth-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:40 PM
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Just like that. Thanks for the update.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:38 AM
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Don’t underestimate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:13 PM
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I like pretty dark haired women and breakfast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:50 PM
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A while ago, you could ask Chat GPT to make a joke about women and it would refuse and say that it was unable to mock a specific group of people. Then you could ask it to make a joke about men, and it would come up with some real zingers. That may no longer be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:43 PM
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I’d rather be in the woods with a strange man than a bear as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:47 PM
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If it’s white, good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:45 PM
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This person is either a troll or psychopath. She claimed that she has a video of a male coworker being choked out by a bouncer, and that she watches the video every time he does something that upsets her. She’s probably bullshitting, but if not, she’s 100% a psychopath. That is not normal or healthy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:43 PM
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Sure. If it’s a choice between a black bear and John Wick (who intends to kill me), I’ll take my chances with the bear. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:36 PM
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Sure. As a man, I’m well aware of the danger other men pose. However, I’d rather be trapped in an enclosed space with a man than with any large animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:29 PM
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My wife would kill me if I got stuck on a desert island with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:16 PM
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Like any wild animal, they’re perfectly capable of attacking you for just being in their space.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:11 PM
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A panda absolutely will fuck you up, and for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:43 PM
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Black women are not 59% of murders in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:28 AM
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It’s an involuntary thing I do, not something I do on purpose. It’s just how I was raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:18 AM
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Yep. Your feathers are ruffled and your jimmies, rustled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:24 AM
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In red states, a Democrat is just a conservative that doesn’t like Trump, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:15 PM
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I’m guessing that ruffles your feathers a bit, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:13 PM
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To be fair, you were tearing her a new asshole. That didnt seem like a very logical conversation on either end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:32 PM
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I’ve been guilty of benevolent sexism in the past and will be guilty of it in the future. I give women the benefit of the doubt in situations where I would not have extended that grace to men. I’m just nicer to women in general and probably treat them better. I intuitively see violence against women as worse than violence against men, and care a lot less when I see that a man has been murdered in the news. It happens naturally and I don’t realize I’m doing it until after I’ve done it. It would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:09 PM
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Come on, now. That’s incel talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:49 AM
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Poland lost a massive portion of its male population in WW2. That means that only the most attractive women were able to find mates. Since female attractiveness has been shown to be highly heritable, we find that Polish women are very attractive, while the men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:18 AM
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My wife is smart. It doesn’t take much to be smarter than me, so she probably is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:52 AM
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The research has found that the effect applies to women and men in general, without reference to specific individuals. You do raise a good point, but I’d venture that what you’re describing is just garden variety halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:46 AM
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It seems to be innate: This research found that while both women and men have more favorable views of women, women's in-group biases were 4.5 times stronger[5] than those of men. And only women (not men) showed cognitive balance among in-group bias, identity, and self-esteem, revealing that men lack a mechanism that bolsters automatic preference for their own gender.[5]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:26 AM
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The women-are-wonderful effect is the phenomenon found in psychological and sociological research which suggests that people associate more positive attributes with women when compared to men. This bias reflects an emotional bias toward women as a general case. The phrase was coined by Alice Eagly and Antonio Mladinic in 1994 after finding that both male and female participants tend to assign positive traits to women, with female participants showing a far more pronounced bias. Positive traits w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:21 AM
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That’s not true. Tolkien and Lewis were geniuses and believed in it. Karl Barth was a believer and a philosophical genius. Francis Collins led the Human Genome Project and was the director of the National Institute of Health. He believes. I agree that religion isn’t real, but smart people still believe it. Only morons believe in New Age stuff. There’s a massive gulf between to two and making an equivalency is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:20 AM
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The Abrahamic religions are orders of magnitude more sophisticated than New Age spirituality. New Age is vapid nonsense. Abrahamic religions are the heart of some of greatest ideas, philosophies, and civilizations the world has ever seen. The only civilizations comparable are China and India, which had their own sophisticated religions and philosophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:54 PM
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That is unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:27 PM
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It’s about 60%, not two thirds. It wouldn’t surprise me if it hit two thirds in a decade or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:25 PM
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To be fair, social and emotional competence isn’t very g loaded, so defining it as intelligence is iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:46 PM
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There have been a couple of peer reviewed studies since then where women rate most men below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:43 PM
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You have no first hand experience with oppression either. No one living in a developed country does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:22 PM
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Maybe I’m dense, but you can explain why the bolded is bolded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:17 PM
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This is the first I’ve heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:14 PM
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That’s my suspicion. Can’t see the signal for noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:10 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:16 PM
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I always thought benevolent sexism was a concept that only applied to women. I didn’t think women could have benevolent sexist attitudes about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:07 PM
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I didn’t see where in the study benevolence toward men = benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:56 PM
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I’m purple, so I’m not sure I belong to any particular side, but I can say that I do empathize with women and I hope I give everyone a fair shake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:57 PM
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One odd thing is that non-feminists scored higher in benevolence towards men and higher in hostility towards men. You would expect those to items to be negatively correlated with each other, but they don’t appear to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:29 PM
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I agree, but personally still try to refrain from calling individuals useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:01 PM
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Or maybe the big problem here is that we’re assigning value to people according to how useful they are to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:49 PM
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I noticed that as well. Inherent neurological differences between the sexes is pretty well established.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:42 PM
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I mean, the meta study did also show that feminists show less benevolence to men than non-feminists do. They also sampled from a lot of studies that are more than 20 years old. While this isn’t necessarily bad, ideological drift can and does occur over such time periods and those attitudes might not representative of modern sentiments. It’s also not clear how they chose which studies to include in their meta study, unless I missed something. I wouldn’t call this a faulty study, but when the auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:40 PM
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This is such a simple notion that needs to be more widely recognized.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:40 PM
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Because it’s a lie. Lies are bad. Pervasive, widespread lies are incredibly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:36 PM
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I don’t disagree with you. Everyone wants to believe he has a big dick (and I find no fault in that). Just one small counterpoint to what you’ve said: men who have regular sex are not necessarily a representative sample of the population. It’s entire possible that selection bias occurs from any number of things, like men with bigger penises being more confident or just having more experience. It’s possible that your sample of men could skew higher than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:06 PM
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The 5.1 inch average doesn’t have much basis in reality. The meta study that came up with that conclusion had some major flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:51 PM
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Yeah. That’s why “average is average for a reason” doesn’t make any sense. Women (and men) tend to prefer things to be above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:50 PM
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It’s really not. It’s normal to be born with two eyes. It’s normal to grow hair. It’s normal to have a penis between 5.5 and 6.5 inches long. Penis far outside that range are abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:29 PM
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We live in a society that shames normal size penises. Of course they’re convinced they’re inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:52 PM
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It’s something they have over in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:05 PM
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Your desires are understandable, but I don’t understand what the big mystery about why men want PIV is. What you’re basically asking is why men want to experience pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:58 PM
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You can’t be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:51 PM
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I’m assuming you’re being sarcastic about the climbing thing, because bears are notoriously good tree climbers and climbing a tree is definitely on the list of things you’re not supposed to do when chased by a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:25 AM
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There are a LOT of women who don’t like it when men sleep, I’ve found.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:06 PM
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You mean like Henry Cavill? https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/10/29/article-0-0E90256800000578-292_468x676.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:05 PM
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Even women on PPD say that personality doesn’t matter if the looks aren’t there, so I don’t understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:51 AM
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Interesting. I’ve never had that experience, and I assume you’re probably right that men who haven’t experienced that are probably not attractive in any real way. I’m quite unfortunate looking, and to a degree that people haven’t had a hard time telling me about it. I’m married now, but I don’t think my wife has ever simped for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:42 AM
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Women screening men by asking for dick pics is not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:38 AM
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What does simping mean on this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:51 AM
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Ah yes. That study. It’s over 30 years old and fails to account for disparities in the acquittal rate. Women received longer average sentences because they were acquitted in all both the most egregious crimes. Women who murder their husbands are significantly more likely to receive no jail time at all compared to men who murder their wives. This is evidence that the justice system is more lenient with women, not more harsh. Also, other studies from that time period dispute the findings you poste…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:34 PM
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Im going to need to see your sources on that. Here are mine: In 2012 Sonja B. Starr from University of Michigan Law School found that, controlling for the crime, "men receive 63% longer sentences on average than women do," and "[w]omen are…twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted", also based on data from US federal court cases.[12][13] In 2006 Ann Martin Stacey and Cassia Spohn found that women receive more lenient sentences than men after controlling for presumptive sentence, family…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:51 PM
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She killed the men that it was easiest to kill. They’ve noticed that serial killers, whether they’re after men or women, tend to go after smaller people. They target the vulnerable ones. She killed johns because killing men that weren’t in a vulnerable position was too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:00 AM
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It really is a definition game. I’m generally in favor of more expansive definitions to avoid excluding people. Men were excluded by default from a lot of the sexual assault statistics until they changed the definitions to be more gender neutral in 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:38 AM
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Nobody who is dead knows that he’s dead. Christians who die will never know they didn’t go to heaven. Life has no meaning anyway. There’s no life that’s any more a waste than the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:37 AM
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Aileen Wuornos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:01 AM
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All of the research shows that women get lighter sentences than men for the same crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:59 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen apologia for violence against women except among incels, and even then other incels will call them out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:58 AM
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Source on that? I can’t find anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:16 PM
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This is true. But what’s also true is that the number of women I would be willing to have sex with (assuming I wasn’t married) is much, much larger than the number of women willing to have sex with me. As far as I know, the number of women willing to have sex with me is 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah. The study really isn’t a mystery at all. Women date slightly older men, and older women remove themselves from the dating market. Since this causes the dating market (though not the general population) to have a disproportionately high number of males, the least desirable men will struggle to date. The total number of single men and single women is the same, it’s just that the number of women looking to date is smaller than the number of men looking to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:16 PM
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We don’t actually know why testosterone levels are dropping. Hormones in the food and water supply is one hypothesized cause, but we don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:13 PM
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I think it depends on where you live. I only ever see fit, tall men with overweight or obese women in public. All other men are alone. My wife was the one who pointed it out to me. Of course, this is just anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:09 PM
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It should be noted that women only slightly outnumber men. You wouldn’t see a big disparity from that. Also, the same study you’re referring to found that the number of single women and single men across the entire population was the same, it’s just that single women cluster in the over 50 range, and single men cluster in the under 40 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:55 PM
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All the data we have shows that most women (around 80%) say that they orgasm from penetration alone at least occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:12 AM
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I don’t think he hated women, he just liked to “schlap” them from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:02 AM
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No. This guy really is just genuinely unhinged. If his behavior on this sub is any indication, he’s the dangerous one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:00 AM
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I get enjoyment out of it, just not physical enjoyment. I never have. Masturbation is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:06 PM
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I’ve never been interested in causal sex, but I wonder how much of that disinterest is due to me not really getting much physical enjoyment from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:09 PM
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Good point. I got hired for an engineering technician job and quit after I discovered it was actually an accounting job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:35 PM
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It better be a gay app or it’s going to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:16 PM
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I’ve known a few. I’d basically just repeating what everyone else here has said. They were subject to almost constant sexual harassment, sometimes even sexual assault, when the women were in groups. One was my co-worker, and a female co-worker made a list of all of here friends (with phone numbers) and gave the list to him. He fucked his way through the whole list. Her number was on the list as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:22 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:56 PM
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If that’s all they do, it may qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:34 PM
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“An OECD report called Grade Expectations found that teachers in nations across the developed world, including the United States, give girls higher grades for the same performance. The same report found that grades significantly influenced whether a student was going to pursue further education. Children tend to estimate their own abilities based on assessments by adults like grades. Boys receive lower grades and think they’re not capable. Consequently, girls in many OECD countries are as much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:27 PM
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I’d say about 75%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:05 PM
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The fact that men and boys are discriminated against in education is pretty well established by research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:01 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:05 AM
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Women are approaching them. Men who are actually attractive to women don’t need to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:18 AM
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But there is no other case where surgical ablation of a healthy organ is done. The health benefits of remolding the foreskin are the same health benefits of removing any other organs. If you remove the big toe, you eliminate the possibility of health problems occurring with that toe. That still isn’t a good reason to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:48 AM
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That study had a lot of problems, including confusing centimeters and inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:03 PM
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The most reliable me studies show the average around 6.2 inches in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:03 PM
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It’s literally the women in this sub that say that women aren’t attracted to most men. I learned this truth from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:01 PM
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That’s actually not true. Very little violent crime in the US is actually gang-related. I looked it up once because I believed it was, and found that I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:56 PM
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For white people in general in the US, and especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:52 PM
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DARVO?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:30 PM
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Since he abandoned the body for the sake of the mind, it’s the only gymnastics he can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:49 PM
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I try not to cry or express any strong emotion (positive or negative) in front of anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:25 PM
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I think you’d be disappointed with how weak male orgasms are in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:45 AM
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I think he was implying that he was made aware of his competition and didn’t stack up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:31 AM
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Nothing you described is socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:58 AM
-1

That person agrees with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:17 PM
0

Nah. It’s not a “couple women” dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:23 PM
-1

So you formed an opinion without doing any research into it? The equal credit and opportunities act, didn't come out of nowhere. It was lobbied by groups that were absolutely being discriminated against within banking institutions. What? If I said I had never seen any evidence of unicorns, would you say that I formed an opinion on unicorns without research into it? For your information, I did research it. There is no evidence that any law ever existed prohibiting women from getting credit cards …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:20 PM
2

I haven’t read your whole comment history. Ive never clicked your profile. You comment here enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:09 PM
1

Stop deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:53 PM
2

Women were 100% free to open their own bank accounts during both World Wars. You said otherwise. The notion that women weren’t free to open their own bank accounts is myth. It’s absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:42 PM
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They were still required to have a man co signed in most cases. I’ve never seen any evidence of this. It doesn’t even make any sense. I don't think you understand how banking or credit works, if you don't realize that banks turned down anyone they didn't think could pay. And back before it was illegal they did it by sex and race. For credit, not for opening a checking account. They have literally no incentive to deny someone a checking account unless they’re extremely racist or sexist. I don’t c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:36 PM
1

Given your past comments on PPD, you are very much in the habit of realizing inaccurate things. You’re also in the habit of saying inaccurate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:32 PM
2

But when you tally both paid and unpaid labor, men work very slightly more than women. It’s basically even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:30 PM
2

That doesn’t contradict what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:15 PM
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Single women with good income had no trouble opening bank accounts or getting credit cards. Banks aren’t going to turn down free money. The reason women needed their husband to open a bank account or a credit card was because men were usually the only income earning partner in the relationship. The banks would naturally want the person making the money to sign on the dotted line, regardless of who the account was for. It wasn’t so much sexism as circumspection. That’s archaic now, of course, sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:14 PM
0

Jesus was a socialist. He hated capitalism and demanded his people care for others, the immigrant, the widow, the orphan, the poor. He would not just overturn the money-changers in our world today, he would overturn the entire system. Absolutely absurd. The notions of socialism and capitalism didn’t exist in the time of Jesus. Even if they did, Jesus’ ideas are far from socialism. I don’t remember Jesus ever advocating for workers owning the means of production. He advocated for voluntary charit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:09 PM
0

The more apolitical the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:37 PM
0

You realize the notion that women couldn’t have their own bank accounts until the 60s is a myth, right? There are records of women with their own bank accounts going back to the 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:33 PM
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If anything, those things make it more obvious. Those kinds of people tend to have strong tells.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:25 PM
1

What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:24 PM
3

Maybe not as much as women do. Are you suggesting the data is inaccurate or fabricated? The data is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:56 PM
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His wife isn’t unattractive, but they’re far from looks-matched. He’s way better looking than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:42 PM
7

You realize that responses like this are a ticket to getting your posted deleted, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:15 PM
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Anyone who has had attractive male friends knows that when a woman is genuinely attracted to man, the signals are unambiguous. If she seems ambiguous, she’s not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:08 PM
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Sleeping, eating, personal grooming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:00 PM
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You don’t even have to remove the prejudice and objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:27 AM
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No, but they might be doing things that qualify neither as work nor leisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:04 AM
2

The last two are in conflict with each other too. He wants to have his cake, eat it, and never have to shit it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:46 AM
1

It could be a lot of things that qualify neither as work nor leisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:32 AM
2

The data shows that men and women put in about the same amount of time when both paid and unpaid work are tallied. Man may have more leisure time, but the lack of leisure time for women isn’t from labor or childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:09 AM
2

That’s true. Jesus told a parable where the guy who failed to make more money through wise investment was the bad guy. The parable wasn’t about money, of course, but Jesus’ choice of material is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:07 AM
2

Good grief. How could statisticians make such an egregious error?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:36 AM
0

It is easy to lose, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:45 PM
2

I don’t understand how this question follows from my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:45 PM
4

But men spend their entire lives from puberty onward with their heads on a swivel continually appraising and ranking every female above 12 for her fuckability. This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:41 AM
2

Life is a game, though. Or rather, games are simulacra of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:09 AM
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That doesn’t mean that the people on that sub are a representative sample. It could over represent women because they’re more likely to tall about relationships, both online and in real life. The actual research shows that in most marriages, the woman is the low libido partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:55 AM
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I’ve seen some of the peer reviewed research about women finding most men unattractive (not the OK Cupid thing, actual research) but I’ve never seen any where women rank men along a standard bell curve like men do women. Got a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:51 AM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:00 AM
3

Based on the other comments I’ve seen from him, I’m willing to believe he’s stone-cold sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:57 PM
0

In some places in the US mutual combat is allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:54 PM
2

It does matter. If you don’t think men and women are in competition with one another in the dating market, then you haven’t understood the dating market. If you’re trying to acquire a thing, you typically seek to acquire it as cheaply as possible. If you’re trying to sell something, you want as much as you can get for it. A 25 year old woman can “sell” her “goods” at a much steeper “price” than a 25 year old man can “sell” his “goods”. This disparity in value gives the 25 year old woman an advan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:30 PM
1

The wall doesn’t exist. The disparity between male and female sexual desirability is greatest in the 20s and shrinks with age, but women are always more sexually valuable than men. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:23 PM
1

It’s not nearly enough to account for that discrepancy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:18 PM
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I don’t think it would take that long. Maybe a decade or two. There’s nothing stopping women from fielding female candidates, voting them into power, appointing female judges, and passing whatever laws they like. There’s nothing men could legally do to stop it. If women wanted, everyone in the country holding political office would be a woman. You could radically change the structure of the country right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:31 PM
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My point is that women currently have the power to shape the country as they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:24 PM
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I wouldn’t call it slight. Women outvote men by 3% to 5% in presidential election years, and that’s a pretty significant disparity for voter turnout. It’s more than enough to give women absolute control over who gets elected. I don’t see what any of this has to do with women previously being denied the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:18 PM
1

I saw a study once that found that women who identified as liberal were significantly more likely to defend female infidelity, and they were the only group of people prone to defend infidelity in general. I’ll see if I can find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:28 PM
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In the United States, most voters are women. They have a monopoly on power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:24 AM
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I didn’t imitate being an asshole, but I’m sure I wouldn’t be married right now if I wasn’t as stoic as I am. I’ve never been all that emotionally expressive, and I’ve made a conscious effort to refrain from expressing strong emotions in any circumstance. In my experience, no one - not friends, girlfriends, wives, family, or employers - like a man who isn’t in control of his emotions 100% of the time. They don’t want to see any weakness, any fear, any doubt. I experience all of these, of course,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:44 PM
2

I’ve had this conversation with him before. You’re not going to be able to get him to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:01 PM
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That’s not really what the research shows. It’s the fact that he’s married that makes him attractive. Read the links I posted elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:30 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0022103109001048 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20161739/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:40 PM
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The scientific literature has demonstrated pretty well that women are more attracted to a man once they know he’s married. Some other woman has done the hard work of vetting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:30 PM
2

Yeah, it’s a weird situation. I don’t fault you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:48 PM
3

I thought Sony still owned the rights to Spider-man, unless something changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:11 PM
6

It’s complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:07 PM
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Exactly what I said. I don’t like the word “polyamory” because it mixes the Greek “poly-“ with the Latin “-amor”. That’s something that just isn’t done.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:49 PM
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I don’t like polyamory because it mixes Latin and Greek roots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:56 PM
2

I believe he was in a medically-induced coma for 9 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:14 PM
6

Post-coma Peterson has brain damage, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:10 PM
2

I think it was addiction to benzos that got it. He was prescribed something for anxiety and depression, and addiction took hold. He then had a detox where he went into a coma. I remember that the doctors said he wouldn’t come out the other end (if he ever woke) without brain damage. I think the dude has brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:09 PM
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Peterson’s classroom teaching from before he got famous is excellent stuff. I’ve heard stories that it was almost impossible to get into his classes if it wasn’t a part of your major because the demand was so high. Students would sit outside the room and cry when they had finished their last class with him. He was extremely popular with the students and with psychologists around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:57 PM
3

Honestly, I didn’t find OP to be intelligent enough to be worth responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:51 PM
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I don’t think Peterson and Tate are in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:31 PM
2

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:17 AM
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I don’t disagree, but I can understand why someone would be upset by this. I don’t think it’s unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:58 AM
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Really? If I told my friends that my wife is “good in bed”, I think she would be justifiably upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:53 AM
2

The men who authored that paper were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:33 PM
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Straight men can’t even seduce straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:20 PM
2

Maybe. I was a teenager in the early 2000s, and no mother I knew would ever allow her son to have a poster of a woman on his on wall. There has been a shift from seeing male sexuality as normal and healthy to perverse and predatory, and I think that’s why you don’t see posters on the wall anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:43 PM
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I like how the reasoning is “I’d never meet him” and “He’d never give me a chance”, and not “I’m loyal to my spouse”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:39 PM
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If you’re just going to accuse people of lying when you don’t like what they say, why do you bother interacting here at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:13 AM
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I’ve never heard of this. I’ve contacted people to let them know I arrived at X location safely, but that’s just perfunctory and had more to do with being in an accident than being a victim of violence. Unless you’re a black man in the US, your odds of being a victim of a violent crime are very low in any Western country. People seem to focus on the possibilities that are least likely to occur. For example, the odds of being killed by a mass shooter in the US are less likely than the odds of dyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:26 PM
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He asks for the license plate number of the taxis you take. Does that sound like normal behavior to you? Who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:50 AM
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You’re unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:44 AM
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At the same time, almost no man gets a consistent dose of feeling very vulnerable physically, while getting picked on by other bigger and stronger men for no reason at all. Yes we do. This is common, believe me. Men are scared of other men, but voicing that fear makes you look weak and vulnerable, which is itself an invitation for more aggressive behavior by both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:38 AM
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I’m happily married and, as far as I can tell, sane. There are a lot of married women on here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:17 AM
1

If someone gets attacked and fights back to prevent harm to himself, does that make him violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:24 PM
1

Sure. But the younger women are also dating these older men. And it’s usually men less than 5 years older than they are, so it’s not much of a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
1

Sure. But the younger women are also dating these older men. And it’s usually men less than 5 years older than they are, so it’s not much of a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
0

Sure. But the younger women are also dating these older men. And it’s usually men less than 5 years older than they are, so it’s not much of a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:00 PM
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My understanding is that the dearth of dating options for young men is due to the fact that all the single ladies are way too old for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:11 PM
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The data shows that the number of single men and single women are equal. It’s just that most single men are under 40 and most single women are over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:24 PM
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That’s true. But it still doesn’t justify it. The only person I’m morally responsible for is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:05 PM
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Sometimes I do agree with red pill observations, but I can never get behind the unethical behavior that is often promoted in red pill spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:14 PM
2

Most women aren’t interested in talking about abstractions, no matter how smart they are. That’s the primary purpose of social media sites like Reddit. The men on here are far more representative of the typical man than the women on here are of the typical woman. Women just do not have the same interest in abstract philosophical discussions that men do. I once took a gender’s studies class because I thought it would challenge my perspectives and make sensible, coherent arguments about certain be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:31 PM
1

Which research are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:48 AM
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Women have less leisure, but it’s not because they’re doing more work. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:50 PM
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What “trust me bro” citation did I make? The link you posted only talks about out the distribution of household chores. I said that I doubt the disparity between total hours worked has changed much since 2013. The article you linked doesn’t address that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:21 PM
0

That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:11 PM
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I doubt it’s significantly different than it was 10 years ago. What I think is happening is that women are just doing what humans do: they’re unhappy for whatever reason, and then seeking out a post-hoc reason for why that is so. “My spouse doesn’t do enough housework” is a convenient and easy explanation. It may even be a correct one in some cases. You know, I hear men at work talking about how lazy their wives are all the time. According to them, they don’t do jack shit. If I relied on my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:10 PM
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You’re always going to have a minority of people doing any given undesirable thing. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:02 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:00 PM
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So women are doing even more housework even those we know that the amount of housework that men do has increased?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:00 PM
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You know those videos where people walk around Manhattan or wherever and ask people to name three countries, and most people can’t? Those are selectively edited. Most people can name three countries, but they only show you the minority that can’t because that’s what pulls in views. People want to believe that they’re smarter than average and what those kinds of videos offer is exactly that perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:59 PM
5

So what are women doing during that extra time that doesn’t count as work and doesn’t count as pleasure? Personal maintenance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:56 PM
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The data from Pew suggests otherwise for the US: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/ The WEF study is a global one. I’m referring to US data only. I don’t think it’s fair to refer to women in Sudan and Afghanistan and then blame western men for being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:52 PM
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The best data from the US shows that when domestic chores, childcare, and paid labor are all tallied together, men work slightly more hours per week than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:32 PM
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The best data we have from the US shows that when childcare, domestic chores, and paid labor are all tallied together, men work slightly more hours than women do in total. It’s women’s perception that men aren’t doing enough work that makes them unhappy. It’s just that their perception is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:25 PM
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Around the age of 12 or 13 I realized that girls had no romantic interest in me. They were more than happy to be friends with me, and I did indeed have plenty of female friends, but they weren’t interested in me “like that”. One even said that she thought I was gay because “God would never have made you so unattractive to women otherwise”. Never dated in college either. Plenty of women friends there too, but no interest in me aside from that. I’m married now, and I’m lucky that I’ve found someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:30 AM
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I assume you mean how was I abused. When I was young (younger than 10) two older neighborhood girls pulled my swimming trunks down and touched me. I was ashamed of that for a long time. I’ve been catcalled. I’ve had a gal repeatedly slap my ass with a door (lol). When I worked on appliances, I was propositioned multiple times by lonely housewives. When I was 16 a woman at church kept trying to get me alone. Looking back on that and other things she did, I know what she wanted was sexual. I didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:09 AM
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I can’t tell if you’re being serious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:06 AM
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Why would I be offended by someone’s thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:49 AM
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Sure. Never felt traumatized by it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:52 PM
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I would even disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:26 PM
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Ah. Yeah, that’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:31 PM
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The hell even is a “spank bank”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:09 PM
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I think every dude knew that one guy that effortlessly attracted women. Most probably know a few. It becomes abundantly clear from the teenage years onward that there really are two classes of men when it comes to that. Category A: women are naturally attracted to the men in this group, and the men don’t have to do anything special (just basic hygiene and maintenance) for women to be attracted to them. They are, in some ways, like women. The thing that makes them attractive is an internality by …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:23 AM
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I don’t think red pill perspectives are valuable as behavioral prescriptions, but I do think they occasionally have observational merit. When red pill advocates things like dread game or manipulation, I would advise against it. It’s unethical, immoral, and not conducive to a healthy relationship. It’s better to fail as a honest man than it is to succeed as prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:45 AM
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When I was a teenager, all the girls liked Viggo Mortenson, who is unquestionably a man’s man and not a twink.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:38 AM
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World War BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:27 PM
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True. But you would expect that to be the case given that white men are the majority of men in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:48 PM
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White men were actually underrepresented among them in comparison to their proportion in the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:38 PM
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Level 47 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:06 AM
1

Yeah, I would say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:12 PM
1

Probably also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:54 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:36 PM
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I think at least some of it is innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:22 PM
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I don’t have children and never will have them. I don’t think I’d be able to give them a good life. Do I regret that? Somewhat. I always imagined myself as a father, but that was never realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:57 PM
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I don’t know. I’ve never done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:41 PM
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Expecting sex from someone that you know isn’t attracted to you is pretty bad, I agree. I think monstrous is a bit of an exaggeration. What Hamas did on 10/7 was monstrous, and I don’t think having inconsiderate expectations qualifies. I don’t think accepting it when it’s offered is bad, necessarily. Obviously, someone can willing have sex with someone they’re not all that attracted to without the dynamic between them being problematic. Ultimately, I think the source of many of the woes of young…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:33 PM
1

I saw a study that found that a slight majority of incels identify as left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:48 PM
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That men are suppressing their emotions when they aren’t expressing them in a way that someone else deems appropriate. I believe that actual emotion suppression among men is rare. Men (by nature, I’d argue) just have a much narrower emotional range than women do. We don’t have the highs or the lows. Sometimes we literally just feel nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:21 PM
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Any man who expects to be sexually desired by women is a fool. The vast majority of men throughout history have gone through life without experiencing being desired. That’s the default. There are men who are desired, but no man should expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:10 AM
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I don’t know how common it is, but I’ve definitely heard grown-ass women say something to that effect on several occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:12 PM
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The data seems to back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:14 PM
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Don’t know about all the rest, but female chauvinism isn’t exactly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:07 PM
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AI can now differentiate between a male brain and a female brain with over 90% accuracy. I guess the easiest way to define masculine and feminine is to see what traits are more common in an AI identified male brain than in an AI identified female brain, and vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:01 AM
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I don’t know that that’s true. And warfare is probably older than farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:36 PM
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Hunting was a communal activity back when there was evolutionary pressure on humans. It wasn't exclusive to men. Not totally exclusive to men, but the hunting of large game was almost certainly a 100% male activity. I know there was a study recently released that suggested women participated en masse, but that study has been rightfully criticized by anthropologists. They cherry picked data and did a number of other unethical things that study. Warfare didnt really affect out evolution. Yes it di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:20 PM
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Hunting, warfare, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:01 PM
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For most of human history, men were constantly involved in dangerous undertakings. Each man in the group had to know his role, and any weak link could fatally compromise the group and get people killed. A man who can’t take a little good-natured ribbing can’t be trusted to be part of the team. He likely has other mental/social weaknesses that would make him a poor team player.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:35 AM
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They’re unconsciously probing the new guy for weakness. If he wants to be part of their group, they can’t allow any of his frailty to compromise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:29 AM
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This is the best answer. It would get downvoted to oblivion anywhere else on this God-forsaken website, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:22 PM
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There is some truth to the idea that the Greeks and Romans saw sex as an act between a penetrating partner and a receiving partner. However, being the receiving partner was female-coded and being a male who received was considered shameful, and a man who penetrated another man was often seen as cruel for inflicting such an indignity on another man. As far as Alexander the Great being involved in homosexual relationships, I think that’s also modern invention. Alexander was recorded to have bedded…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:08 PM
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The idea that the ancient Greeks accepted homosexual relationships as normal is almost entirely an invention of modernity. Plenty of literature from the Classical Era and before portray homosexuality as shameful, and sometimes even as traitorous or demonic. There isn’t a single description of homosexual acts in all of Hellenic literature, but there are plenty of examples of heterosexual acts and relationships. Plato said that sex between two men was an “utterly unholy act”. The city states would…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:12 PM
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Data from porn sites and studies not affiliated with porn sites show that women are significantly more likely than men to seek out rough sex porn, non-consensual porn, and other kinds of sexual violence. I don’t think that’s the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:52 PM
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The notions of fidelity to your liege, treating captured foes as guests, and refusing to be petty and trying to escape from an enemy that had captured you is badass and based.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:17 AM
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Can. Would. Have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:10 PM
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Some studies have found that the correlation between height and penis size is a strong as the correlation between height and shoe size. It wouldn’t be wrong to assume taller men have bigger dicks in general, and anecdotal evidence seems to support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:12 AM
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What makes you think they’re fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:27 AM
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The data shows that you’re incorrect. The first link cites a study from 2002 to support its statistics. Like I mentioned in my comment, in 2014 the CDC and FBI made it so that men who are sexually victimized by women are no longer classified under “unwanted contact”, which was a different category and didn’t qualify as rape or sexual assault. The reason it appeared that 91% of the victims were women and 99% of the perpetrators were men was because male victims of female offenders were literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:31 PM
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It’s not like you would be able to feel anything without it. What changes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:18 AM
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I was speaking of violence generally, but even the statistic you cited no longer holds true. There has been, in recent, a greater examination of sexual violence committed against men, especially when committed by women. Several years ago, the FBI and CDC decided to abandon the gendered language that produced statistics like “90% of sexual assault victims are women” or “99% of rape victims are women”. In the case of rape, it was traditionally defined as penetration of an orifice by a penis (or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:37 PM
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I don’t think someone could be too into me. I remember fondly every instance of a woman saying something positive to me or about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:46 PM
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Women are more targeted than men as the victims of crime. The reason men are more likely to be victims of violence has less to do with direct targeting and more to do with behaviors which fall under the ideals of classical masculinity taken to extremes - pissing contests, fights, competitiveness, etc. much of the violence is mutual and it’s mostly men killing The only evidence we have actually contradicts this: there was a study done in Australia that found that men were more likely to be random…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:01 PM
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It doesn’t mean they can’t, but I think it does mean they probably won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:29 PM
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Our ability to restrain ourselves is a product of evolution. Morality is a product of evolution. Everything you are capable of thinking or doing is a product of evolution, and you are not capable of doing or thinking anything other than what you evolved to think or do. You can be a peaceful and moral person and still be as much a slave to evolution as a chimpanzee. If you’re claiming that humans are free to behave in ways they did not evolve to behave in, then you’re essentially claiming that hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:56 PM
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Being a slave to evolution doesn’t mean you’d run around killing people. How do you think any aspect of your personality or behavior got there if it didn’t evolve? How can anything biological exist if it didn’t evolve?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:42 PM
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I think that was probably the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:57 PM
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I tried Tinder once. I matched with a gal and part of the way through the conversation, she sent me pictures of her face with bologna slices on it. The eyes and mouth were cut out like a mask. Then she started asking me if I would have any problems beating her and possibly cutting her with a knife. I uninstalled Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:24 AM
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Good work. As I pointed out in one of my posts, the media has a tendency to misunderstand and misrepresent research, even sometimes saying that a study found the opposite of what it actually found.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:18 PM
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That’s possible. I shouldn’t be throwing accusations around. I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:21 PM
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I’m going to go with N O
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:33 PM
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Me either. I think a mod just didn’t like the content of my post, but couldn’t delete it because I wasn’t breaking any rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:50 AM
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No. It still exists, the mods just hid it from view for some reason. I asked about it and got no response. Just typical Reddit moderator stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:47 AM
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I understand where you’re coming from. What do you mean by “what happened to OP?”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:06 AM
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That may be. The only libertarian I know is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:31 PM
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Maybe I’m misunderstanding, but most libertarians (and Objectivists too) subscribe to a deontological ethic where any kind of dishonesty or unfair play is seen as immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:31 PM
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I did have people tell me I was making up numbers even though they could just click the links and see that I wasn’t. Some said that the researchers had fabricated the results. Some even said that I was right, but I shouldn’t have been spreading the truth like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:42 PM
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My post included data and no one was able to argue against it, so they just insulted me and called me names. That was permitted, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:36 PM
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I too lived ignorance of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:34 PM
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It broke no rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:30 PM
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My most recent post was made invisible. You can’t see it when scrolling through the sub anymore. No rules were broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:24 PM
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You’re not reading those statistics correctly. 62% said that PIV was the best trigger for orgasm. Another portion said that external clitoral stimulation was the best. Of those, 48% said with a partner was best, while 37% said it was themselves. The reminder had no preference or had difficulty orgasming at all. They did use pretty awkward language, so it’s pretty confusing. That seems to be a consistent trend in these studies. As for your other points, I’m not sure how to address them. It’s enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:42 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:36 PM
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I don’t have any alts. Look at my comment history. I post all over the place. If I had alts, I wouldn’t use this account for everything. I’d use alts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:09 PM
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The clitoris is more than an external part. It has two vestibules on either side that come down and contact the vaginal canal. Movement in the vaginal canal stimulate this part of the clitoris. Intuitively, one would expect a thicker penis to stretch the vaginal canal more, and better stimulate the vestibules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:41 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:36 PM
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I don’t think women want to be part of a harem, at least knowingly. Perhaps they could be tricked into it, it that seems like a lot of work for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:34 PM
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That’s not my alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:05 PM
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What do libertarians have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:16 PM
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What do libertarians have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:15 PM
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I don’t understand these people who think retreating into ignorance is a point of pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:19 PM
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I was called autistic last night on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:18 PM
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I’ve asked people multiple times if there is any study that contradicts these. No one has produced anything. Also, I debate with the comments that oppose my opinion because that’s literally a requirement for making a post like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:01 PM
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If I do, it’s because I know, on some level, that I feel good because I know I’m attractive to women. There’s no such thing as someone wanting to feel sexy for only themselves, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:25 PM
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Apparently, my post is no longer visible when scrolling through the sub. At least not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:03 PM
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No, I’m married. Do you have anything useful to add or are you just going to continue your senseless yammering?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:35 AM
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Yeah. Honestly, I’m stuck in a debate with someone right now who is claiming that I need a study to prove that lying to women about their bodies is a bad thing. I’ve seen some absolutely wild arguments in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:28 AM
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I never claimed that any of the studies harm women. I claimed that misrepresenting a study to the public, and telling people that it says something it doesn’t, harms men and women both. It’s should be intuitively obvious to you that spreading misinformation hurts people. I haven’t lied once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:15 AM
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Which doesn’t in any way apply to me or this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:10 AM
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I agree with everything you’ve said. In hindsight, maybe I should have made it more clear in my post that I’m not saying certain women are broken of dysfunctional. I felt at the time that it was clear what my message was, but it seems that isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:10 AM
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But there is a real moral difference between lying to someone and causing them harm that way and telling them the truth, to which they incidentally respond negatively to. I can control what I say. I can control whether I tell the truth or lie. I can control how I respond. I can’t control how someone else responds. I just can’t believe that you think the truth should be withheld from grown ass adults because it might upset them. That’s a cowardly and immoral way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:08 AM
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Not at all. You’re misunderstanding me. When I said “hurt women” I meant that spreading misinformation about their bodies can harm their sexual wellbeing. You seem to be conflating people getting pissy because someone said something they don’t like with “hurting” them. No one who reads this post and gets upset with it because they lack emotional maturity is in any way harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:59 AM
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If the truth pisses someone off, that’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:50 AM
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What am I trying to sell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:45 AM
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These are the opinions of women. Each of these studies polled women. Almost 2000 of them in total, in fact. I’m elevating their voices and echoing what they have already said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:40 AM
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No, it wasn’t that weird. It made sense in the context it was in. The person you’re responding to just isn’t very bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:38 AM
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Who are you talking to? Actually, I think the more pertinent question is: what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:00 AM
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Sure, if both partners are comfortable with it. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:57 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:56 AM
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This isn’t about trying to convince any particular woman that she can orgasm in a certain way even if she can’t. Are you suggesting we should be spreading misinformation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:56 AM
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If Solo’s behavior in real life is in any way similar to the way he behaves on this sub, it’s unlikely that anyone would want to be around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:50 AM
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Reddit is full of man-babies and whatever the female equivalent would be. It’s not hard to get good at deflecting their BS if you’re here for long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:48 AM
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Your data only suggests that orgasms are possible via penetration not that they happen frequently. Yes, I know. I posted charts from the sources saying as much. Though it’s not exactly infrequent according to most of the studies. Clitorial stimulation increases orgasm strength and certainty. Telling men they can rely on their penises to get women off is misleading, because they really can’t. Your data even suggests 48% of women orgasm 50% of the time or less from penetration. Which not only tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:46 AM
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I now believe it’s possible to troll in the internet simply by telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:38 AM
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That’s the impression I got as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:31 AM
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Can you give me a few key points about why you think it lacks validity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:04 AM
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Right. I think claiming that the majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone, and then citing a study to support that when the study actually shows the opposite, is harmful. I don’t have a problem with clitoral stimulation at all and fully support it, for whatever that’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:02 AM
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Do you mind if I ask why your name is Sadsad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:55 AM
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True. Like my post said, women seem to prefer both cultural and vaginal stimulation. Edit: clitoral, not cultural. I’ll leave that sentence the way it is because it’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:52 AM
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I think you’re on to something. I know that during sex with my wife, the primality of the sex is what gets her aroused the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:34 AM
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I don’t understand what you said, but I know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:30 AM
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You raise good points here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:18 AM
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That’s a possibility, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:10 AM
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I disagree. I explicitly stated my argument in my post. If people want to ignore what I wrote and then argue against points I never made, that’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:05 AM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:00 AM
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Might be a lot of lurkers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:57 AM
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True. The clitoris is actually a large structure that has vestibules that wrap around the vaginal canal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:54 AM
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Judging by the quality of the comments from the people insulting me, I think I’ll keep doing what I’m doing. Those people seem like morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:54 AM
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Because this post was created to address a specific misconception. If there are any misconceptions about the male orgasm, tell me and maybe I’ll make a post about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:53 AM
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And all of these studies have more than 100 participants. Two of them have over 1,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:48 AM
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True, but irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:47 AM
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Even when I made it explicitly clear in my post that most women enjoy both clitoral and vaginal stimulation? I guess I could have put a disclaimer at the bottom of the post, but it was long enough already and I doubt many people made it half way through, judging by the comments I’m getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:45 AM
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Hmm. That’s actually a really interesting notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:43 AM
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I never said that clitoral stimulation as a viable way to achieve orgasm was harmful. I said that saying a study found that only 18% of women could achieve orgasm, when it actually found the exact opposite to be the case, was harmful. My position is that the data shows there are more avenues for orgasm for most women than is being suggested on Reddit and in popular science articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:42 AM
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As far as I can tell, these studies did their best to account for that. Still something to keep in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 AM
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I never implied any such thing. In fact, I said that most women prefer both external clitoral stimulation and vaginal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:38 AM
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A wizard cast an ancient spell on my penis once. It was quite powerful, but temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:36 AM
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I expected pushback, but not like this. I’ve made research-supported posts on this and other subs, and they always seem to bring out the angriest people (the truth has that effect), but this is almost unbelievable. I’m literally getting arguments that the studies should be ignored because they’re either falsified or because women’s “lived experience” should be used as a more reliable source of information. It’s wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:32 AM
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But the studies I linked say the opposite. I explained why and how at length. I do see your point though. However, I think that the truth is better for people than falsehood, and I don’t believe the truth should be withheld from people because there’s a possibility they might walk away with the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:30 AM
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I suppose I do understand the defensiveness and should probably be mindful of potential insecurities when address people about this topic. About the fornix thing: I have a longer than average dick and average girth (though I’d like it a bit thicker). There have been times with my wife where I’ve been able to get pretty deep in certain positions. Her eyes roll into her sockets when that happens. I asked her about it and she said it was completely involuntary and that the sensation is incredible. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:29 AM
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I guess not. Why is it harmful? Because lies are bad, I guess. And because I believe that giving young men and women false information about sex will negatively affect their sexual wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:24 AM
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Because the studies show that most women can orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:18 AM
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Maybe not. I’m not really here to make a value judgement regarding that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:09 AM
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Another unpopular notion, which is a corollary to this, is that penetration orgasm frequency and intensity is closely related to penis size. There isn’t a lot of data out there on this, but the data that does exist show that women who experience vaginal orgasms say that bigger penises are better. Now, if you go anywhere on Reddit and say that your average woman will likely be more sexually satisfied by a big penis than by a small one, the haters will come out of the woodwork. I was actually a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:08 AM
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Actually, the clitoris does have vestibule that contact the vaginal canal and movement within the canal can stimulate the clitoris. https://dailytrust.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Clitoris-520x400.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:58 AM
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Maybe you’re lying right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:56 AM
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It’s not all and probably not most, but I’ve encountered this attitude myself. I’ve typically found myself more willing to give than my partner was to receive. Ironically, I don’t enjoy oral sex being performed on me because I can’t feel anything, but I find that my wife really enjoys giving blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:55 AM
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I do believe what my wife tells me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:53 AM
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Because your questions don’t make any sense. I do believe real women, just like the real women they polled for these studies. Why do I find a study more truthful than what random people say on the internet? Because the studies took representative samples from the population in question and have scientific rigor. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:44 AM
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You seem to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:42 AM
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Real women? As opposed to the fake women they polled in these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:41 AM
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Because this is directly from women. They polled women for these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:40 AM
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I don’t see what that has to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:39 AM
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That could be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:27 AM
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The sample sizes in all of those studies give at least a 95% confidence interval. They’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 AM
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And we do that by establishing a foundation of truth first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:25 AM
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Keep the room cold and most guys have tight balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:18 AM
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If they’re not related to dick size, why is the big dick implied to be good and the small dick implied to the bad? Do you think it’s just as likely that small dick energy could have been the positive term?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:16 AM
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Not sure what point you’re making here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:07 AM
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You’re not broken at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:02 AM
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How does spreading truth to counter falsehood help people? I think that question answers itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:01 AM
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Widespread misinformation like the kind I addressed in this post has the potential to harm the sexual wellbeing of both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:00 AM
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But this might help women (and their partners) who can. Understand that I’m not saying anyone is broken or dysfunctional. Everyone is different and needs different things. But truth is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:47 AM
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Maybe. At least one of the studies I cited found that vaginal penetration was the most reliable way to orgasm, and that more than half of them orgasmed this way most of the time. I’d be willing to concede that point if it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:31 AM
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Probably behind the paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:26 AM
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What do you mean by “gave no basis”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:24 AM
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I fixated on that because that was the specific piece of misinformation I was countering. Redditors and pop-science media are constantly saying that only 18% of women can orgasm from penetration when the opposite is true. Whether that number should be higher or not has nothing to do with my post. It isn’t my place to say what things should be. I’m talking about how things are now, and that’s the only way we can make things better for men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:24 AM
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I’d like to see those studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:18 AM
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True, and that’s probably why orgasm frequency is still greater in men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:15 AM
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I do that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:14 AM
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My entire post was about orgasm frequency. I clearly distinguished between the categories. You seem to be under the impression that I’m making a claim that I’m not making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:14 AM
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What multiple studies said. They’re upset because they don’t like it, and lacking emotional maturity, they do the only thing they know: lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:06 AM
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No I didn’t. I clearly distinguished those two categories in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:05 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:56 AM
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This post didn’t require selflessness. It barely required effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:55 AM
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It’s not a smoking gun and not intended to be. The specific misinformation that I’m trying to counter is that confident assertion that the majority of women cannot orgasm from penetration. That isn’t true, and that misinformation is incredibly harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:55 AM
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I don’t want to say anything is acceptable or unacceptable. That isn’t my place. What I do think is that, if our intent is to further the sexual wellbeing of both men and women, then we need to do some on a foundational that is truth-based. Women aren’t helped by false information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:53 AM
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I about had an orgasm from all the salty comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:44 AM
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Women who are sexually satisfied by vaginal intercourse are more likely to engage in it, and are therefore more likely to reproduce and pass their proclivity onto their female descendants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:40 AM
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That’s not really my premise. Of course, it would be ideal if women could orgasm 100% of the time, but that’s probably unobtainable due to the big physiological differences between men and women. Nevertheless, that’s not the point I was making any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:38 AM
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It does indeed take more than the two minutes and the man needs to have some idea of what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:36 AM
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There are certain ways of stroking that seem to just hit right. Like, it doesn’t have to fast, just deliberate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:32 AM
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Oh. My apologies. I was under the impression that jokes were supposed to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:30 AM
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No. I think widespread misinformation has a profound potential for negatively impacting the sexual wellbeing of a lot of people. Truth is superior to falsehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:29 AM
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Sure. What other studies differ? I’d like to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:19 AM
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I would like to see more studies done on this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:18 AM
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Because this kind of misinformation can have a huge negative effect on people’s sexual wellbeing. And also because the truth has merit on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:18 AM
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I never said that all women always orgasm from penetration sex alone. If you dig into the data of the Lloyd study, it concurs with the others. Thank you from bringing it to my attention. I should have included it. Also, cherry picking is when you select a few studies that contradict the majority. I don’t do that. If the Lloyd study actually contradicted the others, you would be the one cherry picking. Edit: Also, the Lloyd study has a much smaller sample size and only featured women who were pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:17 AM
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It would be mansplaining if I was telling women who couldn’t orgasm that they actually could. I’m not doing that. I’m correcting widespread misinformation in the hopes that both men and women will be heartened and better informed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:15 AM
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Doesn’t inspire confidence in what? Your reasoning skills and command of the English language don’t inspire much confidence in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:11 AM
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I’m not explaining anything except what other women have already said. All of these surveys polled women for their data. I’m echoing their voices, not my own. You’re the one that seems to have a problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:10 AM
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Based on the plethora of insults I’ve received for posting this, I think a lot of people don’t want to know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 AM
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What am I putting my head in the sand about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:09 AM
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False. I sometimes do have the opposite problem. I’ll hold off so that she can get there, then find I can’t cum afterwards. It’s a bit frustrating, but we’re working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:08 AM
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My wife is doing just fine. The ad hominem from you and others just means you don’t have a real argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:07 AM
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I don’t, actually. Do you have anything substantive to say, or are you just here to bitch and moan?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:06 AM
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Paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:05 AM
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No, I don’t think it is presumptuous. In fact, I think misinformation and propaganda can have a massive effect on how young people see themselves and their bodies. Besides, the truth is valuable in and of itself. Do you want to live in a world where misinformation goes unchecked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:04 AM
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I never suggested not doing other things, like cunnilingus. In fact, I explicitly pointed out that women prefer clitoral stimulation to go along with penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:03 AM
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No, I never said anything like that. I’m countering misinformation. It’s entirely possible for a young woman to read the “most women can’t cum from penetration” falsehood and walk away thinking her body is more limited than it actually is. And besides, the truth is valuable in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:00 AM
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I’m married, so I wouldn’t want to be “Mr. Bitches” anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:58 AM
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Or just do both like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:57 AM
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So the guy telling the truth is bad, but the people spreading false information (in particular, false information that harms women) are the good guys. Is that a correct approximation of your position here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:56 AM
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No. Making women cum is relatively easy. Is there any part of this post that you take issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:55 AM
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I’ve thought about this too. Women’s bodies, like men’s bodies, evolved to incentivize them to engage in intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:53 AM
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Is anything I’ve said false?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:52 AM
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The things you mentioned could very well factor into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:50 AM
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How can anything be something other than what it evolved to be? Evolution equipped us with the ability to change and adapt to novel stimuli, but we’re still bound by the limits of what it gave us. Everything we see in humans and every other animal is a product of evolution in one way or another. How can you believe otherwise unless you believe there’s something more than the material world?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:54 PM
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I’ve never had trouble expressing myself or understanding my feelings or anything like that. I have been and am circumspect in how I divulge those feelings and thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:57 PM
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Everyone is a slave of evolution, and I don’t understand how you can believe otherwise unless you think humans have an incorporeal soul or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:55 PM
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Despite the memes, a relationship is probably cheaper in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:52 AM
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That may be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:34 PM
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Someone with an IQ of 100 is average, not a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:55 PM
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Unless I’m mistaken, I believe he means that sex is not a benefit women get from relationships with most men, and use sex as a token of exchange in those relationships to derive other benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:42 PM
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I’ll let you in on something: if a man is even remotely attractive, he knows it damn well. A lot of unattractive men falsely believe themselves to be attractive, but every attractive man knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:03 PM
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Only the weak need compliments. Of course women are going to feel disdain for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:00 PM
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It’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:55 AM
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They really are all cut from the same cloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:57 PM
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I always give citations when asked for them. I don’t tend to offer them unsolicited because most people aren’t pursing the truth to being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:47 PM
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Interesting how women view the pursuit of power and money more positively than men do. You’d think it would be the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:03 PM
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Why would an average man be average height or taller? That’s an above average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:54 PM
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I’m convinced that much of what humans perceive as “personality” is just assumptions we make based on physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:08 AM
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“An OECD report called Grade Expectations found that teachers in nations across the developed world, including the United States, give girls higher grades for the same performance. The same report found that grades significantly influenced whether a student was going to pursue further education. Children tend to estimate their own abilities based on assessments by adults like grades. Boys receive lower grades and think they’re not capable. Consequently, girls in many OECD countries are as much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:08 PM
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Ah, I missed it. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:31 PM
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Only 32.4% of respondents reported being below average US male height? lmao people are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:27 PM
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I have seen a study that found that men have much higher suicidal intent than women, which is why there is a disparity between “attempts” and completion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:16 PM
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But active discrimination against boys in education has been demonstrated in western countries. There are many studies that have come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:34 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:48 AM
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Yeah. Yet another big-wig at Harvard has been discovered to have plagiarized big time. And when you read anything from these people that happens to be their own original work, it’s absolute, objective shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:44 PM
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Based on what I’ve seen, people mock and deride others on this sub almost entirely without consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:39 PM
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It’s nihilistic, cynical, and nakedly utilitarian. It’s not really about ending abuses of power or resolving conflicts. Critical theory seems primarily concerned with shifting power from demographic x to demographic y. It’s not “let’s limit the amount of power we humans have access to”, it’s “let’s limit power for them, and expand it for us without limit”. That’s why I’m always skeptical of the attitude that we need to just vote the right people into office, if only we could just place power in …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:34 PM
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Most of my understanding of critical theory comes from people opposed to critical theory, so that’s not really an ideal source. I’ve always had the view that the most honest understanding of any idea or philosophy will always come from the people who adhere to it rather than its opponents. I’m a free-market libertarian, but if I want to understand communism, I seek out the perspective of communists. I find that first-generation critical theory is exceptionally difficult to get your hands one. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:46 PM
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This happens with a lot of things. Intersectionality and other things often associated with “wokeism” started in academia in the 70s, 80s, and 90s. Those ideas were neither entirely without merit nor totally coherent, in my opinion, but their translation from the academy to the public discourse produced a mutant breed of critical theory. The popular apprehension of critical theory is ham-fisted and clumsy at best, and deliberately twisted at its worst. That’s how you get things like identity pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:54 PM
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Work on your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:06 PM
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I believe that bullying evolved as an adaptive feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:27 AM
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What are you saying? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:10 PM
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This is tangential the topic at hand, but my parents forbade me from dating until I turned 18, and then were aghast when I was unable to secure a relationship in the timeframe they thought was appropriate. In my opinion, boomers had a nasty habit of sabotaging their children and then blaming the kid for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:53 AM
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I don’t think Vince McMahon is the dude you want to be defending.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:26 AM
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The year is 2124. Radia looks out at the blasted, desolate landscape from her window in what used to be an apartment building. Her boyfriend, Chard, is a mutant. She’s worried that her friends will discover that Chard’s dick is less radioactive than their boyfriends’ dicks. They already give her shit because he’s only eight feet tall. Even Nuka’s boyfriend has three arms. Chard only has two. Radia glances at Chard and wonders if she can do better. Radia pulls out her iPhone 38 and logs into Cind…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:07 AM
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I don’t know if it qualifies as support, but I’ll defend women’s right to legal equality with men to my death.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:39 PM
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I feel like young people under 30 struggle a lot with hypotheticals these days. I see it a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:14 AM
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Good-looking men with high self esteem and high testosterone appear to prefer short-term engagements. For women, it’s a lot more complex. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_mating_strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:45 AM
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The PIV orgasm thing? Yeah, it’s actually a huge white pill so I like to spread it around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:20 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:30 AM
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I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:38 PM
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Are you asking how I feel when other people experience shadenfreud? How would I know what they’re feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:37 PM
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What do you mean “when I see schadenfreude”? Do you mean when I see other people experiencing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:38 PM
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I don’t have that misconception. I never even mentioned big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:30 PM
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Pleasing your partner isn’t emasculating, no. Being told that your genitalia are inadequate is, though. I don’t think most women would respond very well to “your vagina doesn’t feel nice, so you better be good at oral” and I wouldn’t blame them. There’s something a bit malicious about that attitude. Also, every study I’ve seen show that the majority of women can orgasm from penetration. The study that has been cited ad infinitum as showing that only ~18% of women can orgasm from penetration is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:10 AM
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Yes, it is emasculating, but it’s something men with small penises have to deal with if they want to have sex with women. They were dealt a shit hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:38 AM
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Yeah. And apparently men and women also experience emotions differently. A couple of years ago I came to the realization that I’ve never experienced joy. My experience of happiness is more like a feeling of relief and contentment, or a lack of negative feeling. It’s more defined by what’s absent rather than what’s present. I always thought that people who exploded with happiness were either doing so performatively or simply had a low level of emotional control. Now I think it’s just because my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:41 PM
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This is an interesting read. It appears there is some difference between the ways men and women experience and process emotions. Neuroimaging studies have investigated these findings further and discovered that females utilise more areas of the brain containing mirror neurons than males when they process emotions. Psychologically it seems men and women differ in the way they process and express emotions. https://theconversation.com/men-and-women-experience-happiness-differently-heres-why-104507
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:13 PM
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There are plenty of crazy, bigoted people on this sub, male and female (and you’re one of them), but saying that every man on here sees women as nothing more than means to an end is demonstrably absurd. And I have made my position on this perfectly clear plenty of times before. I don’t need to “stand up”, and certainly not because you, of all people, demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:46 PM
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Yes. It may surprise you to learn that men are just as human, and therefore possess as much moral agency, as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:26 PM
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I don’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:25 PM
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