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| 1 | How to approach a girl who's with her friends?From girls perspective: Why would I give my number to a guy I know nothing about. If we were having a great conversation, then sure! Why would a guy need my number when he can't even have a conversation with me right here. Shows I have nothing to look forward to more than more small talk. Is he not confident enough to just talk to me now? Realistically, you should be getting into a conversation and THEN deciding if this girl is even cool enough that you WANT her number! Then ask :) Otherwise see… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went out with stunning HB, slept at her place without closingShe let you sleep at her house, that's something. Go out with her again somewhere close(r) to home. Give it another shot. | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 05:37 AM |
| 1 | I heard hiking was a good idea for a second date, but I have no idea how to make it a good date by just walking around and talking. Any advice?Speaking from a female perspective in M&F relationship, assuming you're a male in said scenario: I think it can work for a second date if you already sort of know this girl (friend of friend, you've hung out before) but might be kind of awkward if brand new girl you really don't know much about. So maybe more of a third or fourth date. Learn the area. It's sexy if you somewhat know what you're doing (IE how to drive there without getting lost, which route has the best views, are able to get clos… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 01:43 AM |
| 2 | how old is too old for college bars?35? But not really a set age, unless you act standoff-ish. I am a college girl (well grad student) and I've run into plenty of guys in their 30's who my friends and I ended up chatting with. This also happened in my younger college years. Older men are sexy, generally more smooth/confident, and have their life together a bit more. Not to mention those guys always bought all of our drinks all night. They didn't need to to keep our attention, but we weren't about to tell them that. Go, and act lik… | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach a random girl and starting a conversation with her?Not too weird, just read her signals. Once I had this guy stop the direction he was walking in (opposite of mine) to talk and walk with me ALL the way to the door of my car in the parking lot (5min away) because he "had time". The whole time I was being cordial but very short and would have been more concerned (maybe worried for my safety?) if he were a larger guy. Then he asked me for my snapchat, I told him I had a boyfriend and I DIPPED. Just don't be that guy, and keep approaches to well-pop… | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 08:55 AM |
| 1 | How to tell a girl ur moving on/tired of pursuing someone flaky.Also a girl, definitely agree with this. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Calling a Girl Your FriendThis times a zillion^ If I'm into a guy and he calls me his friend then I will either think he doesn't like me, think he does like me but is trying to hide it, or think he might like me but is trying to be playful or not jump the gun. If I am on the fence about a guy (maybe he has a great personality, we have good chemistry, but he's not really my type) and he says something playfully about how we are friends but he would fuck me, I am instantly more attracted to him. I can give you names of the… | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Will she lose interest?It's worth a shot! Usually if I find someone attractive it doesn't just go away. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 07:15 AM |
| 3 | How To Get Past ''Hey, How Are You?''If these are girls you see sort of often like through work or church or something semi regularly I would follow that up with "what's new in your life" or "what have you been up to today?", which is usually easier to answer. Her: errands and the gym, I'm so sore! You: I also went to the gym, being sore sure does suck, just wait until tomorrow when you'll really be sore! What gym do you go to?" Her:"__" You: "Oh, how is the __ there? I've been wanting to try a new one that has ___ or oh, my friend… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I talk to a girl in my lecture?Does she always sit in the same spot? If so, sit right next to the seat she normally takes. Then you can ask her if she got a note you missed or some other general question. I would tread lightly, as guys hitting on you in class can be creepy and just not the time/place. Plus, everyone can hear your entire conversation so she might not feel comfortable flirting even if she wanted to. Since you can't walk and talk with her after class because she stays in the room, I would become class friends wi… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Is this what shit tests are?That response would be hilarious. OP I think you handled it well. She was was being random by saying that, and you were being random by trying to kiss her. She started it and you finished it. I think it probably was a shit test. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Older womenI'm 25 and the same way with younger guys. Not saying it's right, but just how I am and how I feel. I can't speak for others, but for myself I see them as being in a completely different place in life. Even if it's just casual it just seems like I am taking advantage of this child, and the next morning I'm headed to my job while they are headed to play video games at a friends and go clothes shopping with their mom. (Not that I don't do those things). I would suggest acting very confident. She i… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Iam living now in a very bad rented apartment on my own..do you think that invite a girl here will be bad idea? Iam hesitate to invite her here because she may will never call me back.Some quality decorations/ framed pictures go a long way. NOT POSTERS taped to the wall. Like nice framed photos or painted canvas pieces (perhaps a theme throughout the space) Get a color scheme going, matching pillows on the bed. Quality towels. I don't think there's anything wrong with your apartment. Let it come up and in conversation and mention you live in a tiny apartment but it works for you or is good for X reason like saving money for something. You don't need to point out how shitty yo… | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Am I being played?Maybe, since she is resisting so much for just a kiss. You could stop contacting her and see if she contacts you, which could indicate interest. Maybe she isn't sure how she feels about you. Maybe she wants you to be more confident/aggressive. Maybe she is shy. Maybe kissing is a big deal to her. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Taking a girl on a date to play poolThis. I mean it's sexy when a guy is good at anything- but she might be competitive too and if you win by a ton every time it might not be fun. Like someone else said, make it about getting to know her and less about pool. Definitely show off trick shots, but also let her break the rules a bit if she really sucks. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 05:07 AM |
| 1 | My friends and I came up with a really fun and easy way to crush AAThis is awesome. I'm sad I'm a girl who likes guys because it wouldn't be the same. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 04:58 AM |
| 2 | how to be 'fun'Female in her 20's here. If a male 7 comes up to me and makes me laugh right away I'm sold over the 10 that seems really mellow and just asks me "hey, what's up?". Laughter is a great ice-breaker. Basically interactions should be care free, and laughing/teasing makes everyone feel more comfortable. It shows you are easy going and don't care what people think of you (like if you do something stupid for laughs). I love it when guys tease me or say something that makes me shocked. Hard to think of … | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to ComplimentGirl here, if a guy complimented my eyebrows I would think he was trying to be funny. Like, "Your head has a nice shape to it", haha uh thanks? This might work on some girls, just not me. | /r/seduction | 29/06/16 07:55 AM |
| 1 | In no position to have a girlfriend and need advice on how to go about thingsI don't think it is sending the wrong message, I think it sounds like fun. Many people don't want to deal with the drama/time/commitment of a relationship but still want to enjoy dating or doing something fun with someone you find physically attractive. You laid everything out on the table so you don't have anything to worry about. Like someone else mentioned- "Don't think about it like you're doing things to keep her from getting attached, instead think of it like you're trying to communicate t… | /r/seduction | 29/01/14 07:54 AM |
| 1 | In no position to have a girlfriend and need advice on how to go about thingsYou might be surprised by how many girls are looking for this exact thing. Not all women get attached after having sex. My advice would be to seek out other women who are at a similar point in life. IE: who are moving to another place soon, who have somewhat recently ended a relationship, busy students or just busy in general. Source: I am a girl who would fit this criteria and have many friends who have expressed interest in an arrangement similar to what you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Tips/Tricks to not be intimidated by the attractiveness of a woman.Imagine her in baggy clothes, without makeup on or her hair done. If she actually looks like that already, imagine her taking a dump as someone else mentioned. Girls are people too- even the pretty ones. And they all have their own insecurities, probably many more than men do. | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Tricky situation, logistics prevented me from getting a girl's number - how to contact without creepiness?I agree, If she's into you it won't matter. If you want to avoid coming off as creepy you could use work as an excuse- you need another model, the pictures are done if she wants a look, etc. and then go from there. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 06:50 AM |
| 3 | The Line Between Showing Interest and Being NeedyFrom what you posted she seems interested. I would wait a couple days to text her if you texted last. There is nothing worse that a needy guy, although you should still show her you're interested. To do this, just make sure if she is "busy" the next time you try to invite her out, don't be like okay what about the day after, or when are you free? Just be chill and wait for her to hit you up at that point. In that situation I would not be pushy- I'm not sure how that conversation started, but avo… | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 05:56 AM |
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