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| 1 | From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women.Female beauty at the very pinnacle requires you to just eat right. If you happen to hit the genetic lottery as a woman, just don’t get fat and don’t have any children outside of a marriage to a man you want to commit to for the rest of your life and you will have an endless stream of high caliber options well into your 30s and 40s. Male beauty at its pinnacle still requires physical exertion. If you are fortunate enough to be 6’4, with a great hairline and head of hair, nice smile and teeth, gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women.I have personally never seen that. I’m sure it exists but I imagine it is statistically insignificant. You will absolutely get bigger if you’re in a caloric surplus eating protein dense foods and training correctly for hypertrophy, not strength. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 04:21 AM |
| 8 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Admired probably isn’t the word but there are studies that verify the perceived increase in a value of a dude that has a lot of sex. Women like men that get other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out thereI think you should. Religious men who actually take their faith seriously would have a lot of values that align with your values. They serve something greater than themselves and follow Gods word very seriously. If you find an agnostic dude that has good morals. His moral compass is only as good as what he thinks it should be, thus it’s more susceptible to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 12:38 PM |
| 11 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.Well according dating app data, 46% of the time men swipe right, meanwhile, women swipe right 14% of the time so if they stick on some average looking dude on there. They’d seriously struggle. In the same breath, most women unprovoked won’t make fun of you for getting no bitches lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?So say you were partnered up with a man, what percentage of your spending money would come from him and what percentage is coming from you. Ideally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?I did say empirically. If your experiences have seen different results, I’d love to hear your rebuttal 😉 but I’ve lived in 3 different continents for 4+ years each (including NA) so I’m sharing what I’ve typically witnessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?Majority are attracted to women that aren’t fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 07:28 PM |
| 15 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?Look at the physique of the men that avid female gym goers go for vs non gym goers. Empirically, the women that go to the gym are typically partnered up with buff/athletic looking men or dudes that have lots of money. Fat (obese) women in my experience typically are partnered up with tall skinny guys or other fat dudes. Thicc (voluptuous) non gym going women are typically partnered up with the same profile of man as the active gym going women. Rich and/or in shape as well as tall men. Like reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(I have a wild theory on this lol. The same way girls sleep with the bad boy and settle down with the good guy later because of the long term security you’d get from the latter, is the same way guys will mess around with shorter girls and settle down with taller girls because of the the quality of their genetics filtering into his offspring. I’m 6’2 and have a cut off point for girls I’ll take seriously. 5’6 - 5’8 is optimal but I can go up to 6’0. 5’0 to 5’5 is a good time. So if you’re tall, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate?I can never take you seriously. If you’ve had a one night stand and fucked after the first date, I’m not about to take you out on dates and spend money and time on you when you didn’t expect that from all the other men prior. In the extremely unlikely event that I were to wait around, she’d have to pay for her own everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:15 AM |
| 2 | The rise of the lone woman holding other women accountable, JustPearlyThings, illustrates that Redpill beliefs resonate with A LOT of men and that most women aren't interested in engaging in good faith in dating related discussionI’m invalidating your argument not what happens between the women in your communities. I said that your recollection for your personal accounts are probably true but if you’re going to say a statement like “women hold other women accountable too” and then only refer to your personal stories which again, are probably true. I’m going to discredit your argument because you can’t extrapolate your personal accounts to the female populous. The reason why my assumptions are more valid that yours is bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The rise of the lone woman holding other women accountable, JustPearlyThings, illustrates that Redpill beliefs resonate with A LOT of men and that most women aren't interested in engaging in good faith in dating related discussionI don’t think the red pill is inherently mysoginistic but let’s assume I agree. Do you think on average given what you understand women to find arousing and attractive objectively (please don’t resort to saying women aren’t a monolith, there are quantifiable common denominators we can use like, height, muscle mass & tone, income, competence level, status level etc), find that the men who replicate the components of what constitute the red pill to the fullest extent, tend to be the most successfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | The rise of the lone woman holding other women accountable, JustPearlyThings, illustrates that Redpill beliefs resonate with A LOT of men and that most women aren't interested in engaging in good faith in dating related discussionI don’t like when people give personal accounts to represent a population in a debate. You are probably telling the truth about your experiences but women are more agreeable on average than men, and are significantly more neurotic on average than men. Both claims can cited by credible publications if requested. So it’s safe to assume that women are more likely to tell each other comforting lies to preserve the stability of a woman’s emotional stature, and men are more likely to share uncomfortab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What are ways to build confidence and how to show it?I like this answer. Therefore this is the correct one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?What he’s saying is subjective advice is irrelevant and women should be objective when giving advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 09:29 AM |
| 5 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Sure. But what’s that got to do with what I’ve said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 09:16 AM |
| 26 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Lmao it’s fairly simple now, but to answer your question, It’s because when you typically ask women how to get results, the majority of them say some variation of “just be nice” or “be confident” or “be yourself”. So of course you try that and nothing happens, all the while, you see your jacked, decent looking, funny asshole friends be very aloof and deceitful with the many women in their rotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 28 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I was 6’2 awkward, neurotic, broke, poorly groomed and skinny with a bunch of acne and nobody told me that being tall is an attraction trigger if maximized until a year ago lol. Been in the gym for 5/6 years now, been to therapy, have a good job and make good money, have a trendy haircut and I’m socially a lot more outgoing and extroverted and it was night and day lol. It was weird to witness how dramatically different women treat you just for being tall, charismatic and in shape. Even when I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | will the Gym help his dating life?If you’re short, go to the gym and make as much money as you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how?I don’t know what the purpose of that opening statement was. I said that isn’t good advice, I’m challenging your views. I didn’t tell you how to raise your kids lol. But hey, looks like you’ve got it all figured out and I hope your kids turn out great! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 06:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how?This isn’t good advice, respectfully. You are increasing your daughter security and health risk. I haven’t met a woman that hasn’t been a victim of sexual coercion, DV and SA so asking her to date multiple men increases the likelihood of that happening. Men who have experience with women are tremendous at telling women what it is they want to hear. Most men with options, which are the men that you and your daughter and other women are attracted to, are not going to stick around if they don’t get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 08:41 AM |
| 3 | How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how?I think it’s very impressive that you managed to infer that from what he said lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How often do you get hit on?Are you fat? Whats your dress size? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.For men it’s almost always sex first. Then depending on his rotation or lack thereof and the woman’s character and values. A man will categorize her into never having sex again, sex only or I want her for a relationship and possibly more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s valueWell assuming you agree with the argument, you don’t lose as a woman if you’re married to the 1% man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Having options as a man makes you more attractive to woman.One sec https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17619-its-true-all-the-taken-men-are-best/ Literally the top comment lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Sex life of a high value man?Girls that are interested that he knows he can hit up at any point to smash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Sex life of a high value man?I disagree. Women are turned on by a man with power and influence, a man walks into a room and everybody is in awe of that man. That is a very attractive man and that’s not taking into account the abundance of wealth and resources he has worldwide. Women aren’t visual like men are unless the man is a 10 and tall and in shape. Even so, DiCaprio’s influence, power, fame, wealth, network and resources is still more arousing than that guy. But let’s agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Sex life of a high value man?Based solely on the fact that he is Di Caprio means he has the attention of 10s of millions of women worldwide. You think of that population, he will have fewer women that desire him vs a good looking, 6’4 gym bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Sex life of a high value man?So you think a tall good looking gym bro in his 20s/30s is more sexually desired than Leonardo Di Caprio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"Are they tall in shape funny and good looking? And are the women fat and average looking or have kids? Because even if a woman is beautiful and has two degrees and is a high earner, she will still hook up and temporarily date a guy if he’s handsome, in shape, tall, confident, funny, even if he’s a butcher at a grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"I don’t believe that a woman on average would have sex with a guy just to have sex and nothing else. The risks are too high to get knocked up by a shitty guy. The one night stand guy HAS to be decent enough that you could tolerate all the other things that come with potentially having his baby or going through the emotional turmoil of having an abortion. If you and your homies just fuck, cool. But on average, women know that they could get pregnant and that they’d be the ones carrying that burde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?I strongly disagree. If a girl is attractive enough and a pick me, they’ll sooner get a desirable man over a modern strong independent woman. If a pick me doesn’t get what she puts in, it’s because she isnt attractive at all. Busy and productive high earning men want attractive, cooperative wives with a solid character over anything, and they’re willing to go down in looks to find a girl who will get on his program. So a woman would have to adhere to his framework for what the relationship looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?I think pick mes and simps aren’t the same thing. A pick me usually support a traditional man’s idea of intersexual dynamics. I knew a girl who grew up in a religious, traditional household so she was naturally anti feminist and was raised to be a mother and a wife. She wanted a husband and kids after her undergrad which her friends berated and frowned upon. When she got engaged, the first question they asked her was “so that’s it, you’re not going to work?” instead of being happy for her. She’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?I’m what way are they putting down women? What are they saying or endorsing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | In what ways has Redpill ruined your life?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:27 AM |
| 0 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmNo you’re right. It wasn’t a substantiated rebuttal at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasmOrgasm from fellatio doesn’t matter as much the experience of being submissive when having penetrative sex. I’d argue if you surveyed a bunch of women asking whether they’d rather have incredible dick and no fellatio or no dick and be eaten to completion the majority world rather have the former. Just a theory I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"It was culture and values. A lot of internationals came from 3rd world countries and they’re more partial to religious and traditional values in those regions. The first gen Canadians that I met in mass were from the Ethiopia/Eritrea region, Pakistan, India and China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"I was an international student in Canada and all of the girls I had been with bar a couple were Canadian while most of my closest friends were international students (girls and guys), so I can share my anecdotes and my friends’ anecdotes. I found that the pretty lengthy and overt “wild” hoe phases primarily had participants from the Canadian white girl population. The 3 somes, the girls getting fucked in the bush or by the dumpster behind the club or in the bathroom stalls, the girls making out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship.Nah. You can become an 8 faster if you’re tall and good looking. But if you groom well, hit the gym, get 5k + insta followers while following less than half that and make 100k plus and you are an 8 assuming you aren’t a man that’s a midget. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Calculating "Male SMV" for OLD and IRLYou wouldn’t need to. Why would you pick someone who is 6’5 and ugly over someone who is 6’5 and good looking assuming all else was equal? You could’ve picked a guy who was 6’1 and good looking or 5’9 and good looking, but you picked the 6’5 and good looking guy which speaks to OPs point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Working out, for yourself or to become attractive to others?“I workout for myself” as a man, is like “I dress up and do make up for myself” as woman. You seek to feel good and which happens you get reassurance from the opposite sex that you look good which makes you feel good. If you’re a neurotic person, then working out is fantastic mood regulator and that could be a primary reason but everyone else does it because we know innately that our self esteem is a reflection of where we are in dominance hierarchies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a providerKeep going man. Men will always support you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How Come Men Are Not Pushing For Plus Size Models? [Serious Question]Straight men fundamentally are more partial to individual sovereignty than identity politics unless it infringes on human rights. Being a fat guy just puts you at a disadvantage in the dating world and one of males fundamental motivations is sex so why waste time, money and resources in a movement that women don’t care for and men know to be bullshit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueId argue that that’s not the Kevin Samuels definition which seems to be what is colloquially broadcasted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Everyday of the week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Why is that? Just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your leagueI think women know what the attractive guys intentions are if they can see that he has options better than her. They’re not stupid. Some are willfully ignorant, others accept this but see that they could fuck him because it’d theoretically be better to have sex with someone you’re attracted to than not. And then you have those women who provide enough value short term and long to the point that the guy would want to settle down with them. If I were a woman, I’d really exclusively be looking for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?I didn’t say it was wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Women, not men, for the most part are also the gatekeepers of relationships, not just sex.Depends where you live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | What are the most important aspects of Female Dating Strategies to those who follow them?This was very nice to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?So you think that raising a kid without either parent present would best serve the interest of the kid? Like sure you can have a fuck buddy and a child, but it just seems like women feel like their social competence and sex appeal devalues the importance a man brings to a household. My mum is college educated but absolutely needed my dad to raise myself because there’s a lot of things my dad is aware of and has shared with me that my mum could never teach me because she’s not a man. Similarly, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?So there’s no desire for male companionship and family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Why do single men over 40 desire relationships/partners more than single women over 40?This is under the presupposition that men and women are more or less the same in neuroticism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | I’ve never seen an ugly man before. Show me a photo of an ugly man.You’d have to be very good looking for you to post a picture of just your face and nothing else on Tinder and get a match a day. Like stunningly gorgeous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?The fact that you said that you can see why others would find Brad Pitt attractive proves OPs point that people like Brad Pitt will always be attractive. Ryan Reynolds is very charismatic and self assured so that’s why he’s attractive. Not so much his face so that was a poor example I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menLaugh all you want man. With the combination of identity politics overhauling individual sovereignty and hot girl summers, should someone “slut shame” a girl, they either cancel you or just brush it off and go ahead and twerk on that restaurant table like they planned. Why would a woman feel shame for liking dick when she knows she’s desirable by men, and the leading women in pop culture openly talk about liking dick? “Hey you! You’re a slut.” “You done? I’m just gonna go hop on this dick that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menI mean it’s understandable when a man’s metric for skill in the bedroom is assessed by how many orgasms he can give her. That or have a big dick. Both metrics are used by both genders when they’re assessing masculinity in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | What argument here has changed your mind?I don’t think she’s wrong. On average. Getting laid as a man is difficult. I’ve been approached by woman once or twice IRL and I declined because I thought they were carrying an STD or something. Like you’re a girl. You have options. You have options better than me that want you, if you choose a even a couple of them you wouldn’t even think to hit me up because you wouldn’t have the time nor the incentive. So what is you have that they don’t want to deal with that I’m potentially unaware of. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 10:30 PM |
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